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Im a big ol red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:13 PM
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https://youtu.be/GyobvtzCtLE?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:07 PM
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No, text me every day whenever you’re free I’m also needy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:59 AM
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In a different life I could have been a Stacy (different face, body and neurotypical)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:47 PM
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NTA, they’re both in college idk what she expects
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:29 PM
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Compliment her outfit over looks. Outfit takes time and effort to put together, looks are just how we’re born
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:15 PM
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<image> On all 38 of them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:13 PM
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Both of my parents are incredible but I have issues anyway 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:48 PM
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No, I’m waiting for a deep and loving connection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:47 PM
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Guess I’ll head out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:46 PM
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But a pretty house
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:36 PM
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I’m a huge advocate for lab diamonds but it’s just this one ring that I can’t get out of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:15 PM
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Well done on stimulating the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:14 PM
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Not even with the cute pouty face?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:54 PM
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Need a little lock for your finger so it never goes anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:43 PM
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https://www.tiffany.com/jewelry/rings/tiffany-victoria-vine-ring-GRP12010/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:43 PM
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<image> Both
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:42 PM
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I’ve been on engagement rings since the invention of Pinterest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:28 PM
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Why is my boyfriend going to an ice spice concert
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:14 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:12 PM
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I have always swiped left on every man not stating his desire for commitment/long term relationship or indicating even being open to short term. I don’t have casual sex and have no plans to ever do so. Sex is the most intimate thing two people can share together IMO, if I don’t share a connection with you it’s not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:58 AM
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Agreed. It should be no less than 9 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:24 PM
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I’m sorry that you are going through that. I’m a 26 year old autistic virgin with OCD and I went through a serious few years of Agoraphobia to the point I wouldn’t go to the doctors or even out the front garden. I live with my parents who are thankfully understanding but I did end up hospitalised due to a suicide attempt, My previous medication made me gain 150lbs in six months and I didn’t brush my hair for a good year. While in the moment knowing others like me served no purpose, looking back …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:39 PM
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Half of 30s women are the same. No children by the time they reach thirty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:26 PM
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Sounds like a less violent weekend at Disneyland
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:18 PM
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Cool, I’m gonna put a swimming pool in mine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:12 PM
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When should we start building our bunkers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:09 PM
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are societies based on forced birth and relationships worth saving?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:58 PM
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You must have our children, otherwise you will be forced by another group to have their children. We’ll just sit here and wait for you guys to fight over who gets to force us first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:07 AM
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Modern dating has its pros and cons, an example of this is that people are no longer forced to get married/have children if they don’t want to. I notice a lot of the manosphere talks about not wanting to get married, which means this would be a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:59 AM
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Would you prefer the amount I am indebted to provide to you is zero?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:56 PM
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<image> The real wall no one talks about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:41 PM
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The wall always moves. At this point set it to 99 like the Lego sets and be done with. Might piss off the 100 year olds but
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:40 PM
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I’m 26 and have not reached full brain development
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:35 PM
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I’m a straight woman and I’d marry Selma Hayek. She’s just got it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:26 PM
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I use character.ai loads as a type of interactive fanfiction. It’s fun and as long as you don’t let it take over your life it can help with feelings of loneliness at least until you’re able to get help
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:36 PM
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Love her bag
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:02 PM
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I bail him out so that the family doesn’t have to miss out due to his actions and then leave
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:34 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:54 PM
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I’m a woman that would like to stay home with the kids and take care of them. The cost of living crisis means that the guy needs to make enough for a comfortable living for an entire family which is not easy to find. I also think that nowadays this is less common and a large majority of mothers have careers and jobs that they love, which also causes problems with tradcons seeing them as masculine. There are ways in which both men and women cannot win and this is one that women no matter what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:48 PM
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Nothing. I steal from the table like a little trash panda
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:33 AM
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<image> The duality of man. We’re a weird species
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:32 AM
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Really well. He was very polite and respectful, kissed me on the cheek and wants to go out for brunch on Sunday. I’m not saying marriage but
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:16 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:02 PM
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As an example I don’t find any of my friends boyfriends attractive. What I do care about would be their opinions on how he treats me and the kind of guy that he is. Sometimes friends/family see things that you might be missing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:10 PM
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Bold to assume I understand myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:55 PM
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You don’t remain a 26 year old virgin and not be an uptight little bitch 🪿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:24 PM
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My frigid ass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:19 PM
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You can be a provider and also be loved, be a homemaker and be loved in the same way that 50/50 relationships are filled with love. Different strokes for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:39 PM
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I’ve never been approached and I’m not sure how I’d react if I ever was
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:28 AM
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Where are the cultural Marxist meetings, perhaps I could get in on one and bring a dish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:41 PM
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Darn those socialists for their love of capitalism and the stock markets
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:25 PM
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<image> If you ever think love isn’t real just look at old couples
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:23 PM
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It’s actually capitalism we want gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:17 PM
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Be me, autistic and socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:19 PM
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I don’t have a job I’m just a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:09 PM
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38 of the exact same doll in different spots around your house waiting to be found
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:01 AM
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From his profile he was more than likely the first. I’m sure he’ll find someone that’s interested in being that for him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:31 PM
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Valentine’s Day is hitting me extra hard this year. Maybe it’s because I feel ready for a partner for the first time in ever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:50 PM
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What is the issue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:41 PM
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So OP is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:36 PM
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If it were natural people wouldn’t have to be forced into it. Some women are still feminine and others don’t want to be, there’s now the choice for both genders. Men can and do wear skirts and nail polish. I don’t see an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:29 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:26 PM
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Shit I’m a woman my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:44 PM
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No he doesn’t deserve that betrayal as the last thing he remembers. Probably never speak to my mum again though and would need some kind of mental health support afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:41 PM
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Bought a gift for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:02 PM
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Men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:25 PM
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It’s a national holiday here in the UK, I’ll probably skip the pancakes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:24 PM
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You guys are getting messages
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:13 PM
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Pancake day (I hate pancakes)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:08 PM
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“Be on your third divorce” - Tesla
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:03 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:57 PM
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So a non answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:53 PM
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Who are the upper echelons of society in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:51 PM
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Right? Deleted before we could even see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:50 PM
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Reddit is obsessed with the idea that everything that isn’t free or falling apart is actually very bad and you should be shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:47 PM
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Sometimes being mindless is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:42 PM
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<image> This is a genuine message I received earlier today. His profile talked a lot about being the dominant and leading partner, I imagine part of that is the traditional aspect of providing for your girlfriend/wife
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:09 PM
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Save it for spring 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:07 PM
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I wish 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:07 PM
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<image> We could go for a picnic on Valentine’s Day with the Hermes Mini Picnic Kelly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:38 PM
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Join us single women for Galentines
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:21 PM
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I’ve never had a boyfriend as I’m under no illusion about my own situation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:05 PM
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I think it depends if people are willing to accept the consequences of it. If you want to be delusional and then complain non stop then it’s probably an issue and you should reevaluate, if you want to be delusional and you’re fine being single forever without complaint there’s nothing that will change that persons mind otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:53 PM
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13 going on 30 or the wedding singer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:39 PM
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I don’t chase, but I’ve also accepted I’m likely to be single forever and I’m okay with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:15 PM
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<image> (A joke pls don’t @ me)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:46 PM
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Not for me personally, porn is fine. I only view it negatively if he then views those women as “less than human”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:57 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:38 PM
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But the both of you could build an empire to rival Elon Musk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:44 PM
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What about a gold digger who already has gold
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:37 PM
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Bless you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:36 PM
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What are you doing if your girlfriend gets you the wrong dialysis medicine because it’s cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:09 PM
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No I suck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:07 PM
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At the same time, he could be all of those amazing things but what if he unfortunately loses his job or becomes ill/injured. To put all that pressure on your partner as the sole provider in the first place is a huge ask and understandably not something all men even want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:46 PM
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Plus of course even though you’re not working, you deserve nothing in a prenup and would be evil for even considering not signing one without guaranteed support
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:35 PM
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Elon Musk says it’s bad and he’s the good billionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:32 PM
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Plus the more kids you have, the more in poverty you’re likely to be here in the UK, why would anyone want to put kids through that <image> https://cpag.org.uk/child-poverty/poverty-facts-and-figures#:~:text=Child%20poverty%20is%20higher%20in,more%20children%20live%20in%20poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:24 PM
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Are they not having children because they’re wealthy? Or are they wealthy because they’re not having children
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:20 PM
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And in return be called a gold digger for wanting that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:58 PM
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How many people can afford to have kids at 20? People go 50/50 out of necessity. And then maybe if they’re lucky enough they can afford to have 1-2 kids which mostly being in your thirties still gives you time for. Sure you won’t have time to pop out eight kids but how many people would even want that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:45 PM
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Pink is my favourite colour but the blue does stand out more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:12 AM
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Jack Black 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:11 AM
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Sorry for joining
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:26 PM
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Yeah I just googled it and he lost 22lbs for a film role
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:11 PM
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Age gap is more 10/15 years older vs age difference. Nothing wrong with either but the latter is more common
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:46 PM
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<image> Can I introduce you to this song
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:26 PM
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He looked better facially with a higher body fat percentage but people aren’t ready to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:21 PM
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I’ve got a glass of cold milk and some cookies as a treat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:18 PM
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How do you even find a prostitute. Are there ads on Facebook or Google
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:03 PM
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Love the shopping part but hate the heat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:01 PM
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I like pretty guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:44 PM
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Wedding at Disney or Wedding in Vegas
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:41 PM
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Changed my mind, add on anyone that’s at car meets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:01 AM
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Tell her to hold off on the divorce. He’s only one win away from making it big
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:59 PM
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Anyone that modifies their car with the stupid popping exhaust. Sure it’s not my car but
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:56 PM
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I won’t have kids without marriage, and I wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone that didn’t want to be married. There are plenty of women that would though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:12 AM
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<image> This guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:44 PM
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<image> It doubles as a wireless phone charger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:38 PM
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The hot guy in the third movie that gets turned into a vampire and then is killed at the end
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:37 PM
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British Spurs fan, I go past the stadiums often
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:06 PM
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No way José
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:34 PM
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I do think 50/50 has its issues, and if you only want one part of it ie equality in only finances or only household chores then you should reevaluate for your relationships. If everything is a point scoring system and you keep track of things to an exact percentage you’ll never truly be comfortable. A good relationship is give and take and will always be fluid, sometimes someone might become ill and lose their job in which case the other partner might have to take over for a while, similar to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:15 PM
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355 on my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:10 PM
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Love the layering
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:12 PM
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That’s beautiful ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:12 PM
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People can be shamed for anything, depends how they react. You can shame me for dating online but if I feel no shame for it then I’m unlikely to stop my behaviour. Same as the passport bros, the successful ones don’t give a shit and are already doing what they want without worrying about being shamed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:12 PM
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<image> Back in my wedding Pinterest era
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:10 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:04 PM
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British person here. Geese are insane, do not mess with the goose
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:36 PM
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5>2>3>4>1 I don’t do adventure type stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:34 PM
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Both. It’s hard to separate your self worth from how society sees you and at the same time you don’t want to improve for yourself then it becomes something less likely to be a full term commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:33 PM
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Do you just wake up and decide to post the most out of pocket takes or does it take you a few hours to come up with them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:34 PM
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No guys under billionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:28 PM
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True don’t date me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:06 PM
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That’s super cute 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:27 PM
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I have not denied that at all, I acknowledge it here in the same comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:11 PM
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Sounds cool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:43 PM
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I have sympathy for those men, some of whom are autistic like me. Unfortunately despite therapy I am still not confident or able to make eye contact which will never change
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:50 PM
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I’m honestly just a shy person that can’t make eye contact. I don’t often talk to people I don’t know so the idea of doing that kind of thing would be out of the question for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:31 PM
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I’m autistic and find it hard around new people. I do make this clear on my dating profile and I’m very open about it upfront so it gives the guy the opportunity to move on if he wants to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:09 AM
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I’m a participation trophy. No one really wants me but you get one anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:43 PM
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Probably why I won’t date until after the loose skin removal. Couldn’t deal with this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:55 PM
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Trisha Paytas baby is ready for the reincarnation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:23 PM
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“Let’s go travelling in my van” “want a partner for backpacking and exploring the world”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:06 PM
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Handsome face average body
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:56 AM
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The Sims
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:55 AM
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In love 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:05 PM
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<image> Whoopsie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:57 PM
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I’m in the dog section but checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:53 PM
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The problem with this is, even if it’s possible how many people realistically would want to even change their standards if they’re happy being single. Also imagine finding out your partner had to go to therapy for them to even consider giving you a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:13 PM
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It always amazes me that people think the democrats are super left wing. Anywhere else they’re centrists at best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:03 PM
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Depends on the level of autism. I need a lot of support and I’m unable to work or leave the house by myself. Any partner I have would have to take on some kind of responsibility for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:53 PM
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I’m autistic and not independent. My stunted development has been well examined
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:48 PM
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I’m very open about wanting a father type figure in my relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:45 PM
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Yeah it’s a pretty big reason that even people who want to be SAHMS simply can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:23 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:41 PM
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She’s supporting her lower paid boyfriend it’s a great role reversal. She is the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:43 PM
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YES. You deserve that!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:15 PM
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I’ve come to accept that billionaire Chad was only attainable five or so years ago 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:43 PM
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Really cool hats and autism. Also just had half a cupcake so I’ll throw that in there for the taking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:39 PM
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6 figures isn’t enough for my shopping habits. Make it 7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:32 PM
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I don’t know many men that would either want to or could cover the expenses that I would require for that kind of relationship. 50/50 relationships work for most healthy relationships and they’re also a necessity in an economy where the cost of living is increasing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:31 PM
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Do you think women spend thousands on outfits to impress men The biggest compliment is when another woman says she likes your outfit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:44 PM
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Because I love fashion. I like watching red carpets and the fashion week shows. It’s a type of art that I enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:21 PM
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This is why shopping is superior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:20 PM
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Wardrobe curation is one of my favourite things. Do you have an app you use to log everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:30 PM
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I like being at home and those types of relationships. I’m also a feminist because I believe that people should have the choice whether they want to be in homemaker/provider relationships or 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:18 PM
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They’re single-handedly keeping the new build housing market alive I love Deanos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:07 PM
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The average man in the UK https://youtu.be/J9n0_5p8XKo?si=wKjzGI7l-zhOJE63
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:32 PM
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On Reddit there seems to be a rush to the bottom on how much money you spend to the point of detriment. I like a good deal too but
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:42 PM
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Oh Im so fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:19 PM
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If someone really likes you, icks become quirks and you like them despite that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:26 PM
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I’ve seen the stereotype, and while I’m not sure how true it is, it could have something to do with the society being more religious and traditional with those roles being expected and upheld
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:11 PM
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<image> No. be gone from me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:05 PM
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These are a specific type of woman though. The type that is bothered by social media, goes to nightclubs and is extroverted. Usually attractive but that’s not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:29 PM
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Separated at birth FR
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:17 PM
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Why can’t I sit inside 24/7 interacting with no one and expect a husband to turn up from thin air
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:44 PM
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If it’s just him or him and a partner I don’t see why you need millions of forks that will sit in the dishwasher 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:37 PM
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That one fucker that presses downvote every time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:35 PM
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I still hear people say that something is sketch rather than sketchy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:33 PM
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I don’t dream of Labour
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:33 PM
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Tinder is mainly for hookups, everyone seems to travel on bumble and hinge is best for long term invested dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:31 PM
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If it hasn’t got a name it should just be called the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:30 PM
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Peak human form
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:29 PM
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Dedication to the bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:29 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2XfjqXoyVr/?igsh=MTdzbGJuN2U0NWJ5Yw==.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:10 PM
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Who is that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:28 PM
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I use character.ai all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:15 PM
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Wait until the great grandkids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:06 PM
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Most young people are relying on parents for house deposits now, tough out here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:05 PM
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I wish that could be me but nothing gives me the same rush that new stuff does. Explains why I have issues with shopping too much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:04 PM
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Who said I’m strong and independent <image> I’m actually very codependent and reliant on others
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:59 PM
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I’m 26 and feel no guilt. That’s his job (joking but not really)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:08 PM
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Justice for Disney Adults. Let us be weird in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:19 PM
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What if it’s a really big needle <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:14 PM
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<image> JustGirlyThings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:13 PM
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It’s one of my earliest memories, I was only four and waiting for cartoons and remember being annoyed that they weren’t on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:14 PM
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Becky ❤️ Stacy and they’re in a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:07 PM
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I know I’m not a ten. Im autistic as shit, ugly and never leave the house. For me that doesn’t mean I’m willing to be treated like shit or less than just because I feel that way. I might not care that I think I’m not a ten but I care even less that others think I’m not a ten
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:06 PM
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Yeah I think so, a lot of my pictures are from the few times I go outside so maybe that has something to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:19 PM
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Why wait until you get married, I wear this around the house with nowhere else to go and no one to show it off to <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:06 PM
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I guess outgoing vibes seeing as that’s all I seem to attract 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:57 PM
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My profile gives off homebody why are the only people that like me travelling party guys that want independence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:29 PM
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I fear I give off the wrong vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:28 PM
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<image> And what about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:39 PM
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I’d say the average at 30 is 6/7. More than ten to me is a big number
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:49 PM
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That’s nothing, someone once did surgery on a grape
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:31 PM
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Good thing about leather jackets is they never really go out of style
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:13 PM
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Hats
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:57 PM
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Should have been me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:54 PM
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Secretly he’s a little meow meow inside
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:54 PM
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<image> This could be us but I don’t leave the house and you’re not Jeff Bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:46 PM
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California seems terrifying. Everyone’s walking around like a Snapchat filter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:44 PM
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Read this as the bee movie and my only question was
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:14 PM
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No one is going to couple up with someone they don’t want to. If that means population decline so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:02 PM
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Whats the issue if someone thinks they’re a ten. If you don’t then just don’t date them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:26 PM
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If your mum says you’re a ten you’re a ten
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:17 PM
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Maybe it depends on the owner but you hear of owners sacrificing their lives for their pets
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:24 PM
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Intelligence but lucky for me I have neither!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:23 PM
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And pets
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:40 PM
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What if I want a daddy type figure though we have to let people have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:16 PM
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Big fan of the narcissistic (if not sociopathic) gym bros
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:10 PM
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Messaging/Talking to someone in a romantic or sexual way and then everything on from that is a boundary for me. Also joining a dating app? Cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:50 PM
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Because I want marriage, it’s a non negotiable for me. I won’t change my mind and have no desire to change anyone else’s mind. If they don’t want to get married that’s fine, I’ll find someone that does. The gif was in reply to safinated as a way to say exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:36 PM
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People should date who they’re compatible with. I wouldn’t date a guy that didn’t want marriage because he doesn’t want the government involved and I would expect he wouldn’t want to date me either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:25 PM
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<image> Looking forward to seeing the name critical lettuce in the number 1 spot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:08 PM
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Stop putting ambition in your dating profiles. I don’t have any
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:56 PM
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I’m a woman that only talks to one man at a time, I don’t have the emotional or mental capacity to do anything else, I’d also expect that a guy if he has been talking to others would ideally stop some point between the first and second date
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:18 PM
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I live in a village in the middle of England, those are the prices and most young people are priced out of the housing market
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:11 PM
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The cheapest house where I live is 450k and you need to be earning at least 80k to get a mortgage for it. The percentage of people that can do that on a single income is not enough for the average person to be the provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:59 PM
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I’m pretty sensitive and always try to please people and want them to like me. I’d just be afraid of the judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:00 PM
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I have seen it both ways but the first is more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:56 PM
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I’d love to be a stay at home wife as those are my personal strengths. Being called a gold digger and a user would make it not worth it. Plus it’s a difficult ask nowadays when most households really need two incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:45 PM
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The Beanie hats that man wears alone should be a punishable crime. FIND ANOTHER HAT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:13 PM
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That’s part of the vision ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:29 PM
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Best chocolate bar hands down no one else can compete
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:12 PM
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Thanks! I live over in the UK and despite us having that system it’s not provided for (fuck the Tories - our version of republican)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:10 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:09 PM
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Lost 125lbs so it’s a tummy tuck, arm lift & breast reduction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:25 PM
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I think it depends on the country/how religious etc it is. I don’t care but I’m also of the stance that if you watch it and then call those women whores it’s hypocritical and a disqualifying statement
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:17 PM
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Finally had the full quote through for all of the surgery and I see why people go to other countries to have it done
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:04 PM
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Fuck me up with a hash brown
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:55 PM
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I agree, it’s a form of self sabotage really thanks to low self esteem. Writing others off because I’ve already done that to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:53 PM
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I really wonder how many super high standards come from a place of knowing no one will be able to meet them. I know mine certainly do, if no one fits me then I can’t get hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:48 PM
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Lamborghini Urus superior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:34 PM
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I can never tell if this is a joke account or not 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:00 PM
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If you enter an open relationship especially a marriage, I can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:59 PM
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It couldn’t be that perhaps Austin doesn’t post every interaction where he lucks out? Or the videos are faked for clout/views? Oh and would you look at that he’s selling a dating coach course I can’t believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:56 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:06 PM
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Plenty of countries are still reproducing at above replacement levels. The human population has a long history of declining and increasing birth rates so I’m not particularly worried
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:40 AM
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As a woman I would rather end it all than be forced to be with someone I don’t love. Luckily we also have male family members and friends that care about us and would never let it happen anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:04 PM
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Me but for billionaire chads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:40 PM
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Join us in cat land
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:37 PM
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The only iconic car anyone will ever need and we all know it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:30 PM
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Oh my bad, a super mega drug dealers car then. Huge operations. Edit: this guy had the exact same car https://www.click2houston.com/news/2016/07/06/drug-kingpins-car-collection-up-for-auction/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:54 PM
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Only women who lust for Chad are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:53 PM
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Why would you have a white car. Worst colour of car. The choice of drug dealers and dodgy criminals always
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:49 PM
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They became blue pill or I ate them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:48 PM
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What do you think about the Roman Empire?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:46 PM
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Because not everyone wants the bible in their bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:32 PM
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We had really good sex-Ed, throughout multiple years all the way from 9-16 years old. It’s a standard throughout the country though and I even believe that Catholic schools still have to teach it because it’s a legal requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:29 PM
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Not really, always imagined men were like women in the fact that they think about friends and family, things they like and what they have to get done on a day to day basis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:21 PM
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<image> Mine are actually dolls rather than stuffed animals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:09 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:03 AM
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26/F and likely waiting until I find the right person. I don’t have a set time but I can’t imagine it would be within weeks/the first few months until I’m comfortable. That being said I don’t think others should have to live to that standard, sex is natural and healthy & if two consenting parties want to engage whenever then they should be able to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:10 PM
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I don’t have any guy friends but I wouldn’t have an issue with it. I’ve combined friends that didn’t know each other before who are now friends Independent of me. (I’m in the UK for clarity)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:50 PM
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I would consider it strange but only because the one male single family member I have is 15 and all of my friends are grown adults. If I had single family my age I would happily do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:27 PM
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Don’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:14 PM
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Yeah, I’d say the best way is to have a government data base of all DNA from birth. We’d solve more crimes too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:34 PM
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Even if women aren’t cheating on you, they’re cheating on you Big brain energy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:48 PM
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Five guys slaps. Love the milkshakes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:45 PM
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I am soft, sensitive and willing to take no responsibility for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:20 PM
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This is why unless it’s physical I’ve turned back to a life of crime
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:16 PM
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Do the women get with them for status? They don’t seem to look very Chadlike but I could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:40 PM
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Apparently you do pay for it, but so far it’s just love island influencer types with six packs and turkey teeth so I’m not sure what the algorithm goes for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:05 PM
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Everyone in the spotlight section of tinder looks like they absolutely suck. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:00 PM
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I mean people can have whatever standards they want if they’re happy to remain single if they don’t find someone that fits them. That goes for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:34 AM
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I don’t want a man in the top 1%, I want a man in the top 0%. Aka he only exists in my mind and won’t yell at me for eating the last ice cream in the freezer
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:35 AM
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Not really, I have great men in my family too. I think I’m just scared of being mocked/rejected by them since it’s what I’ve mostly experienced before
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:40 PM
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I rarely leave the house and find it hard to accept any compliments from people. I’ve never had a relationship/boyfriend and while everyone else I know has had multiple, there’s still some kind of disconnect for me in interacting with men face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:07 PM
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A guy will commit if he wants to. If you want commitment and he doesn’t offer it, find someone who does
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:50 AM
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Oh I haven’t been the cool girl/not like other girls type since 18 or 19. It’s more so the advice on not pretending I’m not overly emotional/sensitive in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:15 PM
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https://x.com/theecho13/status/1742917820726558870?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg opinions on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:04 PM
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It’s a space opera filled with puppets and shoddy CGI. The nostalgia rose tinted glasses have everyone convinced they were these well written award winning movies, they’re great but people forget what they were made for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:07 PM
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Kathleen Kennedy and the Fandom Menace are the two sides of the same coin. Everyone else just wants a good movie
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:03 PM
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It’s supposed to promote collagen and reduce acne but they essentially charge you $500 for LED lights in a mask
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:26 PM
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We have Makita, Dewalt and Milwaukee in our house but the family is in the construction industry. More of a makeup tool user myself <image> Fuck me up with an LED face mask
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:18 PM
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Who needs Stacy when you can have mediocre in a hello kitty onesie 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:14 PM
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Me > JEFF BEZOS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:12 PM
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<image> This could be partly yours
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:47 PM
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Pizza Hut always. Fuck me up at the ice cream factory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:47 PM
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If I’ve ever gone out to a restaurant/event my friends look out for me as I’m shy, autistic and find it hard to talk to guys. They have protected me before and know when I’m feeling uncomfortable. If the conversation with the guy is wanted and the girl actually likes him there are no friends that would get in between that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:49 PM
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Every single thing you’ve ever liked, someone else has liked it before you. Saying you’re not like other guys/girls? Other people do that too. We’re a species with no original ideas and most of us have basic likes and interests, who cares? Relationships are about finding someone that has the same basic taste that you do and loving them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:24 PM
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Not for me personally, one person is all I’ll ever need
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:54 PM
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Would you go to someone’s house on a first date? Seems way too soon for something not in public
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:30 PM
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I’ll do the second one but not the first one. 8ft 8 figures 8 pack
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:23 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:14 PM
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Saw a tik tok on Twitter that said if you eat grapes under the table tonight you’ll be in a relationship next NYE. A tip for all my single PPD friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:17 PM
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Yes, I feel like more of a child now at 26 than I did at 14/15. Everyone was in a rush to grow up in their teens and we’ve reached adulthood with nothing to show for it. People can’t afford housing/kids like their parents could, mine had me at 21 and I couldn’t even imagine having a 5 year old child by now. https://time.com/6234061/toys-for-adults-popularity/ it’s now popular to buy the stuff you never had as a kid since most people can’t afford their own. All of these things increase the likeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:26 PM
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26F 4, 6, 7, 8, 9, 2, 3, 1, 5. 4 is do we find eachother attractive and then everything else is after
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:56 PM
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Finding Nemo. Nemo gets no hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:31 PM
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Every new generation is supposedly the downfall of humanity. People forget what it’s like to be young
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:27 PM
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I’ve been single for 26 years and I’d rather continue to be single for the rest of my life if this was the only option. Loyalty and monogamy are my base standards and I’d leave instantly if those were ever broken. I don’t tolerate disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:03 AM
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Hoping for some pretty things under the tree 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:45 PM
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Yes I would but I’m Neurodivergent myself and so are the majority of my friends. I don’t have an issue with NT people but I just seem to gel best with others like me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:16 PM
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If you’re marriage minded, how long would you wait before proposing/ for being proposed to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:57 PM
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No, you should learn about people through getting to know them not demanding they prove themselves to you. If a woman asked you that you’d be well within your rights to be put off too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:15 AM
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I’m feminine, would be loyal but this question is a huge red flag for me just because it gives off manosphere vibes. It tells me what you bring to the table and it’s either fresh and fit or Andrew Tate, which is fine but maybe you should go and have dinner with them instead
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:01 PM
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Watched the new hunger games. Once again simping for the hot villain (dark triad confirmed)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:09 PM
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Happy Holidays 🎅🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:33 PM
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“Can you get me some food” girl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:14 PM
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Homeless people need someone that will help them into shelter and safety. Not a good fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:43 PM
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North Korea is a no go. They’d be alpha widowed by Kim Jong Un
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:26 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:24 PM
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I tend to avoid anyone that’s religious, anything further right than centrist and anyone that follows any right wing/red pill accounts on their social media. I don’t want to waste my time or theirs. It’s not perfect but if I’m single forever because of it then so be it 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:27 PM
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British unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:43 PM
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Geography was never a strong subject for me 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:38 PM
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Red Pill is right I am in fact Chad sexual <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:28 PM
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I want to spend the rest of my life with you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:30 PM
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I’d love to be married and find a loving husband, I couldn’t think of many jobs worse than being forced to marry someone, it’s not fair on me or them. I also would love to be a homemaker but not if it means being with someone that I don’t want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:42 PM
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Millions aren’t enough for me, I want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:26 AM
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Which god?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:04 PM
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I think it’s a religious people have abandoned Gods purpose for them statement according to.. the bible?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:00 PM
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Men are moving entire continents to find a woman. There’s no abandoning. Same with women who travel to find love. As a species we need each other
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:55 PM
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Exactly. Watch what they do not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:24 PM
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Dread game but by the ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:21 PM
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I put on my dating profile that I’m a mess so anyone that chooses to be with me is already aware of what they get
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:58 PM
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I’m the complete opposite to it. Doesn’t appeal to me but as long as it doesn’t harm anyone else people can act however they like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:55 PM
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Still now. Attractive and wants to get married/have a family. Definitely wouldn’t tell him I’m a virgin straight away
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:57 PM
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Still the perfect diet 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:20 PM
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The perfect diet : pizza and ice cream
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:04 PM
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B or F depending on how I’m feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:59 PM
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I am not strong or independent I’m weak and codependent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:42 PM
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My dad spoiled me way too much and it’s an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:41 PM
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Lost 120lbs and am waiting for a surgery consultation to remove the skin. I think it’s more me worrying about how I perceive myself rather than a guy not being okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:40 AM
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Never in a million years. To me it’s the ultimate form of disrespect and I would leave immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:34 AM
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I want a Cartier love bracelet simply to give someone the screwdriver so that only they can take it off. For a budget version of this see handcuffs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:14 PM
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Dog tags are hot as well as simple band rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:13 PM
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THIRTY YEARS OLD? (A joke by the way she’s beautiful)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:10 PM
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Scary out there. It’s hard to date when meeting people online, you just don’t know who is out to get you https://nypost.com/2023/12/13/news/us-comedian-tou-ger-xiong-kidnapped-killed-in-colombia-after-trying-to-meet-woman/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:31 PM
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Someone on hinge wanted to be a human toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:40 PM
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Paul doesn’t know we need the best computers to play Sims
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:39 PM
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Every day I read something that convinces me to stay single forever (later tonight I will forget and feel lonely)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:33 PM
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Congrats dude! First step is always the hardest
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:35 PM
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How early into a relationship should marriage be discussed? I don’t want to pressure anyone that disagrees with marriage to marry me 2-3 years into proposing if he doesn’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanPeterson/s/UULBQPZTbF OP likely believes that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:54 PM
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How? Who people have loved or are attracted to is not an issue as long as it’s consensual and they’re attracted to me now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:45 PM
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I’ve never dated anyone, but it would make no difference to me whether they’re straight or bi
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:42 PM
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I assumed OP is anti-LGBT/Christian but then it would make no sense to be more angry at one than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:46 PM
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I get feeling upset if someone uses you as a “lavender marriage” ie they have no sexual attraction to your gender but that doesn’t make it assault or rape. Also never been entirely sure why people would have issues with dating bi people in general considering they’re still going to be attracted to you. Any time I’ve seen it, it’s come from homophobic and anti LGBT religious people, not someone anyone that is decent should want to date in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:36 PM
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Reading OPs post again the problem seems to be that she doesn’t save or invest the money, but like you said if she’s paying half of all expenses what she does with the rest of her money is up to her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:38 PM
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I can’t see the issue if she’s bringing in money to the house and wants to buy things that she feels keep her beautiful. People want someone that’s attractive until they realise being attractive costs money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:22 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:25 PM
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Being a silly goose is a full time job
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:05 PM
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Was basing it on another reddit post but for me I think that it’s not just only me I’d have to worry about but the guy as well. Hurting someone like that isn’t something I’d want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:21 PM
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Inspired by this post : https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/s/RT8en2rOhY
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:44 PM
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I know I’m single because I’m autistic and weird and ugly. Very open about that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:44 PM
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Q4M : Is it worse to be attracted to only chads and therefore stay single ie “not settling” or dating someone you’re not attracted to in hopes that you’ll eventually find them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:43 PM
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It benefits me a ton. I have OCD and autism which aren’t curable but better managed by the medicine I take daily. Took me a while to find the right one but I’m happy, healthy and have a normal libido still. If a guy doesn’t want to date me because of my medication that’s perfect as we’re likely to have very different world views and opinions on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:55 PM
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I’m sure there are some people that can be, but I would say that it’s less common than the other way around. Most people want to be at least attracted to their partner at first and then they get to know their personality etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:52 PM
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Bold of you to think I did any of the presentation <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:50 PM
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Can agree with this, I’m the only one of my friends that’s autistic and coincidentally the only one that likes older men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:18 PM
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As a woman that’s attracted to older men it generally depends on how attractive that older man is. If anything it’s a higher threshold to find an older man attractive in comparison to men around my age, but those men I do find attractive I consider them more attractive than those my age if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:13 PM
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Me as a 26 year old virgin now that I don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:37 PM
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Most people want to date someone they find attractive. Once you’ve passed that threshold then other things start coming into play
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:16 PM
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I would say that the biggest reason is probably wanting children, especially if for a while she’s on maternity leave and wants to stay home at least until the kids are in some kind of schooling during the day. It’s probably also in part the reason for declining birth rates as for most couples it’s not financially viable for only one partner to cover all of the costs. That being said if only he works I think it would be reasonable for her to take care of the household chores etc whilst still hopi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:55 AM
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Asking people what they bring to the table will always be a sign of rudeness and takes away from the whole point of dating which is to find out what the other person is like and whether you’re compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:59 AM
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Part of the clubbing/night life scene,Submissive, Smoking/Drugs and anything more than casual drinking, Bad Hygiene, Views sex as casual, Extreme views in general (racist/homophobic/transphobic), Disrespectful to waiters/servers, Wouldn’t be able to at least take care of the finances while I was pregnant and looking after the kids until they went to school, Dislikes animals, Has Kids, Doesn’t want marriage, Isn’t a silly goose (the biggest and most important one)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:35 PM
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<image> Would you love me if I were a moose
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:44 PM
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I cycle for miles daily, sometimes century rides at the weekends. Less impact on your knees and joints as running just makes me feel uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:34 PM
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Imagine if birds had PPD and came here to vent after failed mating rituals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:36 PM
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I would date a short man that’s mentally disabled as long as I found his face attractive. I am autistic though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:29 PM
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I’d rather he did it, can’t promise the relationship would be able to last through it though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:21 PM
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Get cheated on, I can leave and sleep soundly knowing I kept my morals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:14 PM
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No. If you want an open relationship then say so upfront, if you know someone you’re with watches porn and it makes you uncomfortable then it’s up to you to either express that and see if they’ll stop or leave. No excuses to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:39 PM
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Absolutely not. Piracy for the win, ebooks, movies and tv shows
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:37 PM
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He sounds like me (I’m delusional)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:35 PM
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Can you get me the surgeons number because they did a great job
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:41 PM
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I completely get why people would date her and it makes sense to me, just trying to make a point against what the red pill says happens
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:23 AM
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Yeah this hit me pretty young. As much as you can say you want the quiet nerdy bookish girl, it’s mainly the beautiful extrovert that goes out partying. A lot of red pill accounts will talk about sluts and OF and then turn around and promote those same people and even date them which is understandable as they want to be with someone they find attractive, but it also doesn’t fit the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:28 PM
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That’s what I assumed, 50/50 would be an equal share of finances, chores and child raising. Looking for a traditional woman and then being surprised she wants a traditional man seems like a poor strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:13 PM
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https://x.com/notcapnamerica/status/1729238720258416880?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg do passport bros actually want their women to go 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:06 PM
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I too sometimes wish I didn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:20 PM
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I am 🪿
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:31 AM
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It’s a curse having to buy a new outfit for every event (self inflicted and no one else cares what I wear)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:25 AM
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Damn redpillers out here supporting the boycott of fast fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:05 AM
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Or people could choose what type of relationship they want. As a woman I would like a man that could provide for the household as I raise kids and would search for a man that wanted to do that too, on the other hand I know women that love their careers and would be insulted not to pay their halves or even be the breadwinner themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:29 PM
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More exposure and chances to meet men. Going clubbing you also wear nice clothes, have your hair done and wear makeup. No matter what people say it’s an appealing look and it attracts people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:42 PM
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That’s fillers, fake tan and bleaching your hair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:46 PM
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Extroverted party/club girls do the best with men in both casual and romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:42 PM
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I’m worse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:30 PM
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I have both
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:07 PM
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That’s not how it works. When people date someone they’re not attracted to it often ends in resentment or dead bedrooms and infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:12 PM
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If women had flexible sexualities they’d be dating the guys. Instead they’re finding people they’re attracted to or being single. No one wants to be single but dating someone you’re attracted to > single > someone you’re not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:08 PM
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Both men and women 80 years ago ate better, were healthier and fitter and I’d argue were much more attractive back then. There’s a video of a body building competition where clearly no one is on steroids or very few are and the comments are filled with women talking about how much better the men looked then. Both genders have this idea that people looked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:04 PM
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You can become attracted to someone over time, but that doesn’t mean that you can become attracted to everybody. If it was that easy to do most would do it and have a good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:59 PM
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If people could change what they’re attracted to they would already. People lose attraction to long term partners that they still love, if we could change that we would. It’s just part of life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:37 PM
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When women date men they’re not attracted to you end up with dead bedrooms and red pillars call it BB. No one wants a partner that isn’t attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:29 PM
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It’s always we like weird women until they see all thirty six of your dolls that look the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:28 PM
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Being asked out as a joke is an awful feeling. It’s hard to trust people that ask you out after that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:25 PM
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Agreed, You can tell a persons character by how they treat those they have nothing to gain from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:59 PM
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Oh yeah, it’s all about who you know rather than what you know. I know the right people, I just have no desire to partake in what it means to get there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:58 PM
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Oh no I only have three friends and they’re all on regular incomes, it’s through my parents
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:13 PM
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Not sure I could live with myself, plus I hate the grind I just want this <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:04 PM
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I wish I hadn’t tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:03 PM
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Most of the people I know making really big amounts of money (7 figures plus) are absolute assholes. There’s a reason they have so much money and it’s not because they’re good people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:53 PM
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To be fair that’s why I said places like Miami rather than just Miami
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:45 PM
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No, I’m saying that the type of people that conjugate in places like Miami are all similar. Fame hungry and delusional. A normal person man or woman is unlikely to be answering stupid questions with stupid answers on a drunken night out for rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:19 PM
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It’s Miami
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:16 PM
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Women aren’t a monolith the same as men. Some men want to be the provider, others want to be 50/50 or provided for, this is the same for women. I’ve also found that career women are called too ‘’masculine” and some men online want soft feminine women that aren’t overly independent. There is no way to win for either gender, find someone that likes you and wants the same things as you do and hope you’ll be happy. It’s all you can do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:13 PM
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No who cares, date a woman with DDs if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:09 PM
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Wow this is shocking. I can’t believe people want so little. Personally I prefer my partner to have an income the size of Apples net worth ($2.96 trillion)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:05 PM
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Would you come to the ballet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:50 PM
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Lost 120lbs so tummy tuck and also a breast reduction. Nothing can help this face
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:57 PM
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Plastic surgery and finding a loving partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:51 PM
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I think she said anyone under 6ft 7 and they’re friends. She’s missing out on a lot of handsome faces
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:50 PM
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Get me the number of your crack dealer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:19 PM
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I’m 5ft 3 and the majority of men are taller than me. Any more than 6ft/6ft 1 and it’s giant territory
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:51 PM
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I would be dead within the hour. I don’t do well without indoor plumbing and WiFi
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:46 PM
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Foot/10
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:33 PM
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6ft or 6 figures you can only pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:53 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:50 PM
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And this is why I will wait until marriage cheers OP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:30 PM
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Misandrists & Misogynists of PPD unite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:30 PM
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A New York millionaire is a six figure salary. Still great but real gold diggers aim higher
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:03 PM
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I mean there’s always the option to not go on dates. I didn’t go on my first date until a few months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:02 PM
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chads only 4 sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:58 PM
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Why do you think that the only reason someone can be a virgin is due to lack of options? I could have sex tomorrow but I see it as the most intimate thing two people can do together. At 26 I’ve accepted that this may mean I stay a virgin forever 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:48 PM
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I personally disagree. I’m picky as shit and dating to marry. Finding a long term partner requires way more selection and vetting. Finding a hookup seems way easier and would take way less time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:45 PM
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Your worth is defined by you and isn’t dependent on outside influence. Whether people agree and see you as attractive is a different matter and there will always be people that disagree no matter how you rate your looks . In other news I’m off to Amazon to ask for them to make me CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:40 PM
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I know sugar babies, they are definitely not looking for slightly wealthy men. They want the multi millionaires with yachts and private jets. Women can now earn the same as men for just as much effort, so it has to be financially viable to even bother to gold dig vs just working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:16 PM
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Not for me personally. I’m a virgin and see sex as the most intimate thing two people can do together. It’s one thing to try casual sex and realise it’s not for you, but this number hints at someone that views intimacy differently than I do and therefore we’d be incompatible. I don’t have a minimum but I’d say anymore than 10-15 and it would worry me about incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:06 PM
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Q4Women - If a guy wants you to split on a date are you seeing him again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:41 PM
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I assume Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:18 PM
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Do you think the average man would let the women that he loves and cares about lose their rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:29 PM
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Most men have women in their lives that they’d fight to protect (ie mothers, wives, sisters and daughters)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:19 PM
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And 90% of men want women to be young attractive and feminine. The amount of people that fit each of those groups is smaller than the amount of people that want them. You then either have to choose between being single or changing your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:15 PM
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There are plenty of feminists that don’t believe in traditional gender roles. OP just might not be attracted to them, which is fine but the same then applies that the women he’s attracted to might not be attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:09 PM
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That doesn’t mean they get them. People can make whatever demands they want, and they can then either choose to stay single or change their expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:10 PM
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Right? It’s like being surprised that tall, handsome and wealthy men want hot youthful women. Of course they do 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:08 PM
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I’m not going to waste my time nor some random guy that I have no interest in’s time when I can just pay for my own dinner and enjoy it in the comfort of my own home. Hurt people hurt people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:51 AM
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Loneliness is an issue and it needs to be addressed, but warnings of violence will only further the current divide between genders rather than help heal it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:22 PM
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We can encourage workers safety and rights, strong communities and social groups, and bring back places where people can meet organically. Loneliness is awful, especially in old age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:14 PM
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No not all men. It’s just about weeding out the ones that do if you’re looking for a relationship/commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:41 PM
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Two minutes past 18 is the actual wall and by then you’re already run through
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:09 PM
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She wakes up early to have extra time being a hater
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:03 PM
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I am a magpie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:22 PM
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It’s a definitely a cheap mentality though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:23 PM
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I’m short as fuck anyway but faces are my kryptonite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:20 AM
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I’d give him a good education, love/affection and a hopefully stable household. I’d encourage early participation in sports as well as social events and learning. I’d want him to grow up surrounded by positive male and female role models. Manners would be key but also make sure he knows that he can stand up for himself if he’s being disrespected or treated poorly. I’d also try and be as open as possible about mental health issues and if he wanted to talk to his father instead of me would encoura…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:54 PM
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I’d say the same, but people have become more individual. Women now have to work to survive and even want to work. It’s now a case of wanting a relationship rather than needing one. I’d love a relationship and to be happily married, but I don’t need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:54 PM
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If only they had that extra 2k
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:52 PM
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I would love to find a partner/husband. I think the difference is both genders are important but relationships are no longer necessary to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:56 PM
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Right? You can get takeout and chill at home without having any expectations or worry about getting ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:21 PM
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I can pay for my own food rather than hurt another person and having to spend time in public. Anyone that does this is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:27 PM
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I’m not making an argument against what people find attractive, just that both partners are likely to want some attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:08 PM
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People want people they find attractive that also find them attractive 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:13 PM
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Left Wing (I support unions for workers and workers rights.I advocate for the homeless and have done fundraisers), Feminist (choice based), I support LGBTQ+ and think that sex and relationships are an individual choice that as long as they are consensual and legal are none of my business. For myself I see sex as the most intimate thing that two people can do and I’m still a virgin, waiting until I’m truly in love with someone and ideally would take on a traditional role within the household as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:21 PM
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The men that are looking for a wife leave relatively quickly when they find out I’m a virgin as they want to be intimate relatively quickly. Men that are looking for hookups don’t even try as they know it’s pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:34 PM
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I have no male friends, my social media is the occasional photo every six months. I like to go out for lunch with the two friends that I do have for things like birthdays and Christmas and I hate clubs. I’ve found most men see me as too clingy and co dependant when they really consider how much this means I would rely on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:56 PM
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I’ve experienced the opposite. Loving families where the man just hits middle age and abandons his wife and kids and none of them are wealthy. I also have my own parents that have been together since their early twenties and have never strayed or cheated in 25 years. I think our own experiences definitely shape our world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:54 PM
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You don’t have to commit, but there are good people that want commitment that will leave when there isn’t any. It’s almost self fulfilling that you’ll be turning away the good people that you see as worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:34 PM
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Either I’ve never been hit on or I’m too autistic to notice. I don’t have any male friends or any men that try and talk to me 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have a home gym set up and leave the house at most once or twice a week to avoid all interaction. Not every single woman is out here fending off suitors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:03 PM
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If im in a relationship I’d be unhappy if someone tried to flirt with me. Not much you can do about it but you can politely decline or reject and not reciprocate the flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:06 PM
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Yeah I misread it my apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:15 PM
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Men that take the showering advice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:14 PM
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Have you never seen a catfight online? Women calling eachother whores and pick mes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:12 PM
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MILFs have been a long known phenomenon. Life and your desirability don’t end at thirty if you take care of your physical and emotional health.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:46 PM
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Hello Kitty? King behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:34 PM
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<image> Do u still like me yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:19 PM
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I am an autistic shy person and I disagree. Being with someone that doesn’t love you is a drain when being around people is already a struggle sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:08 PM
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I don’t have any men friends, just because I get pretty nervous around them and have never really known what to say. But I have many amazing men in my family that mean the world to me, men have their own lives and interests and dreams that are interesting and driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:27 PM
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Women/Men that have no desire for clout and money would have no need or want to go on a podcast with the likes of fresh and fit and anyone that enjoys Miami.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:34 PM
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Which is fine to want those things, but they specifically choose women that aren’t like that and invite them on the show to own them for not being like that… it’s just rage bait content
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:30 PM
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Loving your parents is good and healthy. A mommas boy or daddy’s girl essentially wants to date their parent and you will never be good enough or measure up to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:47 PM
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Hit by winter loneliness already 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:46 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:05 PM
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I would be open to a non virgin the same as a virgin, as long as they also viewed sex as something special and didn’t really partake/enjoy casual sex. I’m currently dating online but I’m pretty similar to the woman you know, I’m autistic and don’t really leave the house, as well as shy so I have a home gym that I use every day and it makes it harder to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:58 PM
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I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you, I’m 26 but still holding out hope for now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:07 PM
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Better than having sex with someone that I don’t truly love and want to be with forever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:28 PM
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Seems fair enough 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:19 PM
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If you want a virgin partner you should be prepared to wait for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:25 PM
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Cheating is a sign of bad impulse control regardless of gender. I don’t care why or how you cheated, but in no way will I stand by a cheating partner, a person is only as good as their word and if you betray that trust, you are not a moral or good person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:43 AM
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There would have to be at least some kind of attraction there for me to go on a date with a guy. I don’t like to leave the house much so I don’t see the point if I don’t at least hope for a future relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:48 AM
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Women have to work. There aren’t enough men that can afford to provide, plus many men don’t want to and would like their partner to pay equal which is also fair (&the whole no gold digger thing). If we want to survive unless we’re disabled and receive SSI/benefits or have family wealth there is no choice. Plus, imagine how long you’d have to wait to find a partner willing to cover your costs, how would we live in the meantime 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:43 PM
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Most people have preferences, they’re just not added on their profile and for good reason. Negativity on a profile is an instant turn off for most people
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:40 PM
10

CHEERS SONS CRYING
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:28 PM
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Oh god absolutely not no, I suck. I’m scared of everything, shy, autistic and have loose skin that makes me look like this <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:12 PM
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Idk, I don’t have any male friends or orbiters so I just assumed they would stay in the DMs 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:54 PM
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No, give me hot built calves in shorts every day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:39 PM
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If you’re a guy that spins ‘plates’, would it bother you if she did the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:36 PM
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Can confirm am not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:33 PM
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12 years gone 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:36 PM
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He could get it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:17 PM
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I’m a virgin is that cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:17 PM
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Give me Jeff Bezos but hot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:43 PM
2

Cruelty/enjoys other peoples/animals suffering (no hunters), Poor Hygiene/Grooming & Racism/Sexism/Homophobia or Transphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:02 AM
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Hot rich people want to date other hot rich people. They also know what it’s like to be famous too and already accept the life that comes with it. People that have dated even minor celebrities before often hate the attention and lack of privacy that it brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:22 PM
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I’m a virgin at 26, I’m talking about two sets of claims made here. You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:54 PM
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I’m more than happy to provide reciprocal energy. I like nurturing and taking care of the home and family. What you get is what you should give back in terms of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:48 PM
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I think I’m pretty traditional when it comes to relationships but you might disagree, that’s fine 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:18 PM
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I have no issues being a traditional woman, there are other women that are the same. There are also men that want the traditional aspects of a woman but all of the benefits of a modern relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:18 PM
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Is he famous now? When the fuck did this happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:07 PM
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<image> 👨‍🦯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:04 PM
50

Must be grateful to be able to sleep with a man that doesn’t want to be seen with us in public so that after we can then be called whores for our body count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:57 PM
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I know women that would turn down a coffee date because it’s “low effort”. If anything that’s a good thing as it saves you from dating someone that would see it as low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:50 PM
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Feeling treated is a nice feeling and something that I’m very appreciative of. Also who said I won’t live up to the role?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:54 AM
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What do you bring to the table? Another table, call that shit a double decker <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:04 AM
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On a bad date I would insist on paying even if he offered for moral reasons. 1. I wouldn’t want to see him again, and 2. There’s no expectations of a second date and I would feel guilty for accepting it knowing that. The only date I’ve ever had I offered to split and the guy was offended and we never went on a second date 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m pretty traditional and it feels special if a man offers to pay but I never want to assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:33 AM
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Happy Birthday, officially too old for Leo 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:48 PM
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I get it, but at the same time if you take precautions it’s well not all men (which is obviously true). Sometimes you have to just live your life the best that you can otherwise you’d be in constant fear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:25 PM
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To be fair I did the same with Disney movies as a kid. Still waiting for the singing animals to show up and wash my dishes though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:15 PM
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Not a huge fan of the way Dubai treats its workers but mainly the tourists/influencers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:11 PM
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I don’t support any of the major western countries or their militaries. I’m well aware that they’re just as bad if not have done worse things in the past, I have never been abroad so I can say that I really have no desire to support any of them, in my own country I strive to support workers rights by donating to unions and endorsing strikes to improve working conditions and pay
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:25 PM
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A large amount, which is why I choose not to go there and support the dehumanisation of workers whitewashed by money and good publicity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:41 PM
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Absolutely not, I don’t financially support places I disagree with and also no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:22 PM
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I mean I’d consider having a man pay to be able to shit on your chest a form of sex tourism, but that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:37 AM
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People that go on holiday to Dubai are the worst you can’t change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:02 AM
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When I became an adult it surprised me how many normal seeming people do coke regularly. It’s pretty much the middle/upper class drug of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:29 PM
4

Why does it matter to you if someone has a positive view of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:58 AM
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I’m well aware as a giant virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:54 AM
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Sure, as long as he doesn’t use her DNA without permission I don’t see an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:01 PM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12650805/How-hackers-use-DNA-weapon-Warning-23andMe-data-leak.html it’s definitely important to weigh up the pros and cons, but I get where you’re coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:55 PM
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People who haven’t cheated should have the right to decide whether they stay with someone that makes the accusation that they’ve cheated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:46 PM
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I like the way you think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:36 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:08 PM
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The guy is someone that as soon as I saw him I felt an attraction right away. Very handsome (looked like a Disney prince) around 5ft 9, reasonably well built but not a gym bro. Was always funny and popular. The woman is about 5’8, could be a model she’s that beautiful and is pretty outgoing and confident. Neither of these people are assholes to me or anyone else that I know of
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:06 PM
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That would be easier, but the government is unlikely to do something like changing the law in this situation just to get nothing in return for it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:02 PM
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Q4All: If you think Paternity tests should be mandatory and made a legal requirement by the government, should they then be able to keep your DNA on file?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:58 PM
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The best way to solve this issue would be all dna goes into a government database and it’s confirmed via that. Would help with solving crimes too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:22 PM
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The more it’s discussed here the more I think it’s a better idea to talk about this before you have kids. For some women it’s not an issue, for other women it’s a betrayal of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:50 PM
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I’m the second one and the first makes me feel uncomfortable just personally, probably some kind of ableism that I’m working on, but I hate having attention drawn to me when I’m with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:43 PM
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Yes, flowers and we always treat each other to dinners and food. Gifts are my love language and my favourite thing is to see the look on someone’s face when they open one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:13 PM
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Most relationships that I know of are built on trust and support. There’s a reason shows like Jerry Springer and Maury are based upon cheating accusations and paternity tests and that’s because it inevitably ends up toxic and resentment is a natural feeling from both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:08 AM
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He would have every right to ask for a paternity test, as I too would have the right to no longer feel trusted in the relationship. The majority of relationships that I’ve seen are over when there’s no trust and cheating accusations are made. It would be very difficult to move past something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:00 AM
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As a virgin absolutely not. I’ve met chads but I’m not about to sleep with a guy that doesn’t love me and views me as a number
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:23 PM
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But then if women smash they’re sluts and whores with a high body count. Why would anyone want to sleep with someone that views them as lesser for sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:19 PM
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God covers up problems, it doesn’t solve them. Then when people begin to inevitably question it the problems arise again. If the only way you will behave morally is through the threat of eternal suffering then you’re not a more moral person because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:17 PM
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I agree, I don’t even like the coffee so I just have the cream version without caffeine. Feels less indulgent than a straight up milkshake
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:47 PM
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We have an at home coffee machine but I like the milkshake frappes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:28 PM
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We’re all going to die. I’m buying that daily coffee/drink 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:52 PM
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congratulations 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:40 PM
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Who says they have to be under 35? Lots of top women date older men with money. You’re competing for a small percentage of all women against all men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:29 PM
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So if the thin 20 somethings are the most attractive, it makes sense they’re going for the top % of guys right? They’d be of the same value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:27 PM
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How did the red pill go from you can’t negotiate attraction to this in under five years. Does anyone really want to be with someone that doesn’t find them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:55 PM
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When the 7.5 doesn’t want you, but the 7.6 does
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:54 PM
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I’m bad at maths and numbers, but this is a whole new level of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:44 PM
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Suits every time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:43 PM
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She’s pretty 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:33 PM
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Why would a weirdo not want to date a weirdo. I’m weird and fully expect to date someone that’s just as weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:58 PM
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Some of us are built like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:52 PM
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Monogamous, Soft Dom (Daddy/caregiver role), 5ft 6+, Brunette/Dark hair. Goes to the gym but bulky (isn’t obsessed with cutting weight), Wants a family & to get married, ideally leftist but liberal is also fine, Will not judge me for shit that I buy when I can afford it & is attracted to me. He’s also kind and caring as well as charitable and loving. Older than me so 27+ but no older than mid 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:28 PM
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I have killed 7 people in hand to hand combat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:50 PM
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I just think if my videos and face ratings inspired a young man to go on a shooting spree and kill a six year old girl I’d be less worried about my university degree and more worried about how I could live with myself
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 08:13 PM
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I’m not a firm believer in Karma but this is beautiful
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 08:08 PM
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Maybe guys don’t care but nothing is rational about insecurities. I don’t even like looking at myself naked in the mirror and the only time I ever am undressed is in the shower. For a lot of us it’s a place of vulnerability and it’s not easy to open up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:07 PM
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I’ve been asked out as a dare/joke before with all of the guys friends laughing behind us. People suck and having that happen to you as a teen is hard to forget
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:03 PM
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Agreed, it’s hard to accept it as genuine and always feels like theres an ulterior motive somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:58 AM
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I’m waiting to have my loose skin removed before I’d even consider getting naked even with someone I liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:23 AM
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Milkshake > coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:30 PM
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SNOWFLAKE PARROT?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:23 PM
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I don’t even blame the dog, they’re animals and they’re doing what they were bred to do. So much inbreeding in dogs these days it’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:19 PM
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Every day apart from today which is rest day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:23 PM
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From what I’ve read about Eastern Europe, it’s very much a her money is her money and his money is her money type situation. At the same time the woman would be expected to completely take care of the home and children and probably wouldn’t allow the man to do any of it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:08 PM
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What’s your ideal first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:02 PM
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Dating someone from a traditional culture and being surprised they want to be traditional https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/ghOx06fwSo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:58 PM
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I’m a stuck up little bitch but going to fancy restaurants has never made sense to me. Give me a pizza for $10 over tiny plates of food that cost more than people make a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:52 PM
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I want to go where you get coffee if you can get it for a fiver 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:49 PM
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I can’t believe that if you invite those that sleep with people for money, they’ll give you the opinions of those that sleep with people for money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:52 PM
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My flair should hint to this in all honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:11 PM
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Meghan Markle. I think she’s so beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:55 PM
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If you want someone that’s traditional, be traditional. If you want someone that’s modern be modern. It can’t be any more simple than that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:52 PM
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Girl math is the only math I can do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:22 PM
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Not everyone works in the same way. I would need a deep emotional connection before I have sex. That includes lots of time spent together and knowing everything there is to know about each other. There will be people out there that want sex before dating too. It’s just about finding them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:36 PM
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These are normal questions that you would ask anyone, even someone you wanted to be friends with. Maybe I’m meeting the wrong people but it’s pretty common in all situations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:57 PM
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Agreed. It’s either a yes, maybe or no. 1-10 never made sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:02 PM
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Interdependent > Dependent > Independent in that order. I’m in no way independent and don’t think I ever will be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:52 PM
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Don’t think I’ve ever personally found a friends boyfriend attractive (my type). At the same time they’ve always found the people I’ve crushed on unattractive too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:06 AM
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Gifts are my love language. I love to get gifts but I love to give gifts just as much, if not more. I spend a lot of time thinking about what to get people and I find it hard to keep it a secret. I’m a sucker for anything Hello Kitty. My whole family is a group of gift givers and on my 21st I was given a really nice watch. The best gift I’ve ever given was a coffee machine to my dad, not because it’s the most expensive but because it made him cry. The worst gifts to me are impersonal, ie somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:15 PM
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Yeah she wasn’t filming on purpose and didn’t show his face at all. People are going off her reaction and what he’s saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:26 PM
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The rich : have more children, I won’t have any workers otherwise. The workers: okay, but I need more money to be able to raise children. The rich:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:56 PM
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Exactly. If rich people like Elon Musk are so worried about population collapse (not because he actually cares about society but because he wants to keep building his wealth and he needs underpaid workers for that) maybe he should put his money where his mouth is and pay his workers a fair wage with fair and appropriate working conditions (join your unions if you have them)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:51 PM
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Sounds like a shitty pyramid scheme to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:47 PM
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Yes, but if we’re in love we want someone that could look past that. Especially in circumstances of illness and accidents that could change how we look completely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:18 PM
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Personality is what makes you who you are, if tomorrow you suddenly switched bodies, the way you think would be exactly the same just in a different person. All people are shallow to a certain extent, but most of us also want to be valued for who we are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:15 PM
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Money printer go brrr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:53 AM
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Yes I would, it doesn’t matter to me if he’s attracted to men in the same way it doesn’t matter if he’s attracted to other women, as long as we’re in a committed and loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:13 AM
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Why does being a decent person have to have an advantage? You should want to be a decent person for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:56 PM
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Interacting with gender stuff on your public/real life accounts has to be the stupidest fucking move. It’s like fight club <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:22 PM
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Agreed, if you’re on the sex offender registry you shouldn’t be allowed to create an account
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:35 PM
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Capitalism in the streets, communism in the sheets <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:31 PM
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So usually if you choose only attractive men you’re deluded with a giant ego and will get pump and dumped. Now if you don’t choose attractive men you’re deluded with a giant ego
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:09 PM
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I use character.ai every day & it’s like interactive fanfic. I guess it’s just less common for women 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:28 AM
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Mostly being called ugly, but also looking in a mirror for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:29 PM
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People don’t even pretend to care about wanting to be your friend or hang out, so the few friends that you do have are real. People rarely try and talk to you which is also great if you’re shy and introverted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:29 PM
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Being unattractive sucks but there are some pros to it honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:19 PM
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Being attracted to only guys named Chad is a real struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:28 AM
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Oh yeah he’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:14 AM
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Oof
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 05:28 PM
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B always
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:22 PM
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Hot alien fanfics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:22 PM
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Where are the men that are 8ft tall, making 8 figures, with the 8 packs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:49 PM
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I’m autistic and my general rule is a man that is higher functioning than me. I’m pretty much all of those things you described and two people like that in a relationship is a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:21 AM
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Agreed, the government should make DNA testing mandatory and keep every person in a database which would also help with solving crime too
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:50 AM
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These are mainly preferences but Taller than me (5ft 5+) someone I find facially attractive so usually someone with brunette/black hair that’s either short or mid length & a beard, blue or brown eyes, sees sex as an intimate and emotional act, goes to the gym + is bulky but not cut/lean, soft dom. Also non negotiable is has to take a shower at least daily and willing to support a family at some point when we have children
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 05:21 AM
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Can confirm am ugly
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 07:49 PM
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Volcels confirmed
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 07:28 PM
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You have high standards because you know you deserve better, I have high standards because I have crippling self esteem issues and know no one will meet them and then I can’t be rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:16 PM
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Not even allowed pepper spray here. I don’t even want guns but all self Defense weapons are banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:43 PM
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I’m pretty traditional, have family money but I prefer to take care of things in the home like cooking & cleaning. It’s one thing to have a budget, and another to be frugal which would worry me when we have children. Every person I’ve ever met that’s frugal hates the way I spend money and it just makes us incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:40 PM
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My mum worked with my dad, she thought he was weird and he had long greasy hair. He would buy her a small chocolate bar every day and she ended up falling in love with him and is more attracted to him now than ever after 25 years despite it not being there initially. Sometimes it can happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:54 PM
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Oh absolutely, things aren’t black and white and sometimes when you get to know someone they overtime become more attractive to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:31 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with average men but that’s not really how attraction works. I don’t view a man and say yep average, pussy unlocked. I look at him as a whole, whether I find him attractive. Whether he’s kind and we relate on similar levels and have similar world views and desires
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:36 PM
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My sims 4 save is 3000 hours and I love Disney movies. I think it just depends on what you’re into. I don’t like anime or shooting games but there are women that do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:33 PM
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I agree, people attack women that stay at home calling them a leech, but also attack those that work for then being too masculine and saying no man will ever want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:17 PM
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Learning about modern gender dynamics, it’s also helpful to see what to look out for & avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:54 AM
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I’m autistic, ugly and have loose skin that would put a guy off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:39 PM
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Finding a guy in the next year or so (I’m 26) that I share mutual attraction with, falling deeply in love with each other and then getting married. Starting a family with a few dogs too and a big garden. We would have enough money for a nice home and to make sure our children are looked after. In 60 years time I went to be able to sit on a porch together and look back with fondness about our life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:45 PM
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He can set his boundaries of not wanting a partner to dress like that, if she still wants to dress like that then you’re not compatible and you break up. It becomes controlling when you try and force someone without the option to choose otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:42 PM
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My unemployed autistic ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:47 AM
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Cab driver and it’s not even close. A guy that wants a harem/casual sex and has money is not hard to find if that’s what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:49 PM
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He’s the type of guy that’s really hot but you have no idea why. Looks wise 8/10, but he’s open about his mental health struggles and commitment issues so it would be a no for long term possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:22 PM
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Pros : I exist Cons: you’ll wish I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:30 PM
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WHAT POSSIBLE SERVICES COULD THEY BE PROVIDING THAT MAKE IT WORTH 500 DOLLARS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:14 PM
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I’m ready for all of that but the whole Christian thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:13 PM
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Santa and the tooth fairy. Fuck those bastards I haven’t been the same since
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:43 PM
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The people in the 1800s dying of diseases and starvation seeing us all complain that right now is the worst time to be alive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:15 PM
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I’ve lived the majority of my life as an ugly and autistic woman, the switch up when you become even mediocre looking from men has been incredible. Attractive people are treated better by both genders. We’re a shallow species
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:10 PM
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I was bullied for years by some guys in school that recently messaged me now that I’ve grown into my looks. It’s not a gender based thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:34 PM
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I’m pretty sure libido increases a lot with pregnancy hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:51 PM
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Too kinky?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:40 PM
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Me but with water sports
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:44 PM
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If a man doesn’t want commitment that’s fine, just means we won’t be together or seeing each other. I value commitment above everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:18 AM
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Height : 5ft 3 Face : Grew up ugly, still feel ugly 3/10 Money : Family wealth (I have access to it but fuck all of my own money) QOL: Autistic, I’m my own worst enemy, scared of leaving the house most of the time and fear that any partner either deserves better or will figure out that he does. I still have a lot of privilege though because I’m white and don’t need to worry about money. 6/10
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 08:22 PM
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Absolutely, my little brother had a recruiter come to his school yesterday offering apprenticeships. Young people have less job opportunities outside of college and uni especially if you’re not interested in those kinds of career paths, so it’s not surprising they feel like it’s one of the best options
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:31 PM
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The police definitely, and then I’d say anyone that thinks that the military is always in the right and doesn’t do just as bad things as other countries. I don’t blame young people that feel forced to sign up in desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:26 PM
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I Hope they at least treat you well. I’ve seen too many vets that were just seen as a body/number and then abandoned when they’re no longer “useful”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:23 PM
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Depends, am I a man that just got a happy ending or a family destroyed in Iraq
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:14 PM
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Then the rich that declare war for their personal interests should do it instead of going to high schools to recruit young people with little prospects who will sign their body away in desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:12 PM
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Just the same feeling of disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:09 PM
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One of them is immoral and you get paid to destroy your body and soul, the other is sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:07 PM
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How some men view sex workers is how I view the military and police
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:04 PM
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I think OP is a man going by the post history
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:00 PM
2

I’ve never understood why anyone would waste time going on a date with someone they have no interest in/are not attracted to when it’s quicker to just make your own dinner at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:41 AM
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I don’t agree with this tweet but he’s a guy that regularly attacks the looks of both other men and women. If you do that then people will see your looks as fair game too
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 10:24 PM
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Most people that say they want a virgin partner are not willing to wait for the virgin partner. It’s not the biggest deal when faced with months/years without sex in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:53 PM
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Based and not sociopath pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:25 PM
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Would it seem less stupid if I said that as soon as she’s bought the bag she could sell it for 20k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:14 PM
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Leather
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:42 AM
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Would you be happy if your girlfriend spent 9k on a bag? (Provided it’s her own money)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:32 AM
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Beard, A chosen sport that they love, Not overly frugal (a budget is fine and not a deal breaker but those extreme cheapskates shows terrify me) Brunette, Shorter hair, Not religious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:36 PM
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1 & 2
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:31 PM
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I cleaned toilets as a teen during college and I can tell you the women’s bathrooms were way way worse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:30 PM
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I prefer to keep things traditional so not personally. Most women I know though would hate that type of arrangement and are either 50/50 or have supported a partner in education/unemployment before
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:49 PM
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KneeBL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:52 PM
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Got 26 miles in today in preparation for my next 100 mile ride. Time for ice cream
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:38 PM
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We have a home gym set up so I’d go with the therapy. Good mix of both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:25 PM
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I have a dog, I tend to take her to quieter areas but I really like this idea. Thanks for the tip! (We rarely leave the house which is why it’s harder to find)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:02 PM
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A woman complimenting your outfit is the best feeling in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:17 PM
2

Some of us require emotional connection before we jump into bed. People aren’t cars, I don’t want to test drive and discard them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:22 PM
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I don’t see myself as attractive. I hate clubbing and the people that go to clubs wouldn’t want to be friends with me anyway considering I’m pretty shy and don’t drink alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:21 PM
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Would love to know too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:03 AM
4

I was called the ugliest girl in school and never recovered. 3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:31 AM
3

The game is never over. Being happy and loved is the biggest part. If you can have those that’s everything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:01 PM
2

You just lost the game
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:54 PM
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The only things that should ever be downvoted are things that you report IE pedo shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:09 PM
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Girl same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:00 PM
2

For me I find I’m learning more about human relationships, education and finding about what to avoid. It’s also been a good place to develop some of my own opinions, plus some people are absolutely mental (including me) which can be fun to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:37 PM
3

Never 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:39 AM
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Woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:37 AM
3

The multiple men you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:38 AM
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Most people will not care about you the way you and your family/friends care about you. Remember this and don’t let other hurt people hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:12 PM
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Yep. No one ever showed interest in me. The guy I had a crush on was a friend and when I told him, he was embarrassed to be seen with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:47 PM
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Stubble, Full Beard, Clean shaven in that order
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:41 PM
5

“Whores” or “Prudes” there is never a way to win
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:46 PM
5

I’d rather dedicate myself to one person than spread out to fifty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:01 PM
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I’m 26 and a virgin so the temptation of other attractive people without love/connection hasn’t really ever been an issue for me. I can be surrounded by attractive people but without love it doesn’t mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:00 PM
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A desire for love/a connection is a big one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:58 PM
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Don’t think I’d be able to leave without taking them all with me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:26 PM
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Only one, as long as we fall in love and are in a relationship. No desire for casual sex no matter how attractive they are. To me sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:25 PM
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The Reddit algorithm understands you well! They look happy and cute together, good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:55 PM
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https://archiveofourown.org enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:48 PM
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The best argument I ever saw for keeping it down was so that bacteria from the toilet doesn’t get released in the air but I’m also a woman so the bias is real Edit: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/bacteria-toilets-flush-lid-closed-b1535481.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:26 PM
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Agree. If I call someone husband material it’d be because I want to spend the rest of my life with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:38 PM
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Fish picture but the fish is holding you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:35 PM
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I’ve seen people comment over the fact that she’s posed in her underwear.. as if they think the man didn’t know she was a Victorias Secret model and that was part of why he liked her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:39 PM
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I’m not only waiting because I don’t want to be abandoned (that’s part of it) I’m waiting because I don’t want to share the most intimate part of myself with someone that I barely know. People should have sex when they feel ready and not based on the advice of others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:21 AM
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Well we did it. We found the worst thread to ever exist on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:21 PM
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For the grift. He doesn’t actually care, but he panders to a community of those who do, because they’ve been told that the real societal issues are immigration and LGBTQ+ people, so they need to reproduce. I imagine if you have no morals and are willing to say whatever it can be very profitable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:30 PM
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I do wonder how this is different to the men that say they put women in two categories. Girlfriend vs Hookup material
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:31 PM
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I’m a virgin at 26 and have no desire for casual sex or FWB. If I’m celibate forever it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:25 AM
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The one that is patient and okay with me not rushing into sex before we have a loving connection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:26 PM
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True. Having entire spaces filled with tips and tricks on how to get partners is chasing them. I feel the same about FDS etc, you can say don’t chase someone as much as you like, if you’re spending that much time thinking about how to attract someone, you’re chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:50 PM
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Most people are learning that it’s better to be single than be with someone that doesn’t find you attractive/you don’t find them attractive. No one wants to feel settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:42 PM
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Agreed, my grandma did everything people on here suggest. Found a husband at 18 via vetting through family. Had three kids young, stayed at home cooked and cleaned. He became an alcoholic gambler and threatened my grandma and her three young sons at knifepoint leaving them homeless when he got a new woman pregnant. People being shitty isn’t a new or gender based thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:39 PM
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I’m autistic, rarely leave the house and at 26 I’ve just come to accept myself as single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:14 PM
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I am being honest. What I find attractive has no bearing on my looks. I See myself as way below average, I’ve never had a partner. I’m not deluded enough to think someone I find attractive would want to be with me but that doesn’t change what I’m attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:03 PM
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I own gym wear and cycling shoes but no sweat pants or trainers/sneakers. Street Wear isn’t really my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:19 PM
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If you’re on a casual date, do you expect your date to wear casual clothes aka T-shirt and jeans?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:12 PM
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Maybe other women do but for me I either find you attractive or not for me. I’ve known people that develop attraction to their partners over time but the rating system has just always felt odd when it’s always just either a yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:01 PM
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I can’t speak for other women, but I know in my case I don’t see people in numbers. I either find someone attractive or I don’t, I’m not considering whether he has the same amount of “points as me”, I’m thinking does he find me attractive and do I also find him attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:13 AM
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For me yes. I’m a virgin and would prefer a man that had either been in relationships or maybe tried casual sex and didn’t enjoy it. You could lie but the subject of ex girlfriends is likely to come up at some point and a lie could be easily exposed, you’re better off just being honest and seeing how she takes it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:53 AM
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No thanks, I’m okay with being a virgin forever if the alternative is being with someone I don’t love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:29 AM
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So they’ll live with their mothers… who are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:33 PM
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85 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:42 PM
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No, I keep myself fit, But I’m autistic and self sabotaging, I rarely leave the house and have self doubt to the point I don’t know why anyone would want to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:15 PM
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As a traditional woman I expect my man to be working the fields whilst I milk the cows
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:43 PM
6

Shorter/mid-height men can be really stocky and well built, it’s a very attractive look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:25 PM
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Kindness, Good Humour and most importantly a willingness to walk around the shopping centre for five hours
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:03 PM
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I won’t deny that it is going to be difficult for shorter guys. As much as we all want to pretend otherwise, there are certain traits that will be considered more attractive in both men and women more often than not. I’m guilty of wanting a guy that’s slightly taller than me so around 5ft 5+. There will be shorter and taller women that height isn’t the major deciding factor, I’d suggest being open about your height on dating apps etc so that you aren’t hurt by anyone that would disqualify you fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:01 PM
5

Have we ever tried just not hitting people no matter the gender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:03 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/dating/s/ysUFSdWXQP I think I’d rather he lie to me. No way would my self esteem be able to cope with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:59 PM
2

Lab grown gemstones are a great option, cheaper plus less impact on the environment and no exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:11 PM
2

The women I know care more about the fact that their partner would consider the type of ring they’d like more than the cost of it. I’m the same, ie the type of metal. To me it’s more important that someone would be thinking of you and your style rather than how many months salary it cost etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:00 PM
1

If he wanted to, he would
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:29 PM
1

Low maintenance icon
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:29 PM
2

If he doesn’t sell one of his kidneys on the black market to buy your engagement ring does he even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:22 PM
2

Me at 9 looking out the car window pretending to be in a sad movie scene
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:40 PM
3

They’re 90 years old. Let them have a hot girl summer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:39 PM
8

Date someone that’s cheated on every single partner they’ve had
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:36 PM
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I’ve been called a prude for never having sex and not wanting it instantly in a relationship. You will never please everyone, do what you feel is right for you with other consenting adults and if someone wants to shame you for that that’s their issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:33 PM
2

Best thread of the week every week
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:31 PM
2

To me settling is being with someone that you don’t love/treats you poorly. If you love someone completely and they love you, it’s not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:48 PM
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Agreed. Most young people especially are terminally online, and seeing constantly attractive people skews our perceptions of both others and ourselves. Young women see men liking women that look like only fans models, and young men see women liking men that look like steroid users. It’s unrealistic but its easy to feel inferior and drives people to extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:08 AM
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Disagree. I’m nothing in looks in comparison to these beautiful celebrity women and seeing people say, ew she’s mid actually makes women feel like shit. If someone that’s actually beautiful doesn’t stand a chance, what hope do the rest of us have
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:25 PM
2

Agreed. It sucks but negotiating attractiveness mostly ends poorly for both people in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:07 PM
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I don’t disagree, but of course that means a way bigger percentage of men will want a smaller percentage of women. There simply aren’t enough women for men in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:06 PM
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I believe people can have whatever standards they want. But if as many claim 18-25/35 is the most desirable preference, doesn’t that make it similar to the 80/20 split of what they say is women chasing the top men. If 100% of men want a small percentage of women, is it really any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:54 PM
2

One thing I’ve always wondered is that if a single person/a couple reaches past childbearing age and feels regret wouldn’t it be nice to adopt/foster. Imagine being able to give love to a child that is in need of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:34 PM
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I would say it’s likely to be a dating site for “professionals/elites” that usually cost money rather than just tinder or hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:16 PM
8

I think we will see an increase in charities for the lonely & elderly in an attempt to combat the effects of people being alone as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:01 AM
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I would agree he has a stronger pr team but it seems to be backfiring on him instead
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:14 PM
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I’m not surprised people are upset they can’t find their looksmatch if these attractive celebrities are being considered “meh” and “mid”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:07 PM
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Exactly, The whole reason she turns him down in the first place is because he’s a ladies man/uses game and she doesn’t want that. She even makes a point saying that he looks photoshopped later in the movie. It has nothing to do with how attractive he is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:18 AM
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Ryan Gosling is very attractive but if people think Emma Stone is a 6 then there’s no hope for the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:51 AM
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No, I do actually prefer the softness of the first. I’m aware it’s still a lot of work to look like that in the gym, but a little bit extra to squeeze doesn’t hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:44 PM
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1 is my favourite, 3 and 5 are okay but I know how much goes into them and whilst I like a man that goes to the gym, I also like when he enjoys a pizza and ice cream sometimes. Bonus if he looks like a lumberjack that could throw you around but also be soft and warm at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:13 PM
1

here for the self image improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:54 PM
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Woman, 26, straight: A solid 3 - autistic, look like I’ve been hit with a shovel a few times. Unable to work (I do have family money though so that’s half a point I guess), Look a little bit like a hobbit. I do have a swimming badge for participation so that’s pretty neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:40 PM
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I’m autistic, shy and awkward. I really do have sympathy for the men who are the same as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:34 PM
3

Reminds me of ducking under the window to hide from the Jehovahs Witnesses that knock on the door 🦆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:34 PM
2

Logically I agree, but emotionally? Not for me. Im well aware it’s a double standard but I’m pretty shy and would prefer a partner that leads anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:20 PM
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Agreed. The only people I know that are having kids have no money issues
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:06 PM
2

People should be with people that want the same thing. If you want to get married, be with someone that does and vice versa. I wouldn’t be with someone that didn’t want marriage and I can’t imagine they’d want to be with me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:06 PM
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Being too autistic. “I expected some autism but this is too much”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:40 AM
2

I’m 26
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:10 PM
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It’s extremely difficult to navigate the dating system as an autistic person. Outcomes don’t negate the fact that being social and having to navigate the outside world is extremely difficult for all of us, that is all I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:04 PM
6

True. I’ve been paying my bills for years with Monopoly money and no one says a thing
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 02:55 PM
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Still less likely than NT women, plus the 3x more likely to be manipulated/abused statistic. I do agree that ND men have it harder in dating, that still doesn’t make it any easier for an autistic woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:54 PM
2

I have an Instagram but I don’t post much, Have 60 followers and no one in my DMs. I use it more to keep in touch with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:26 PM
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No worries, I’m autistic and shy so I do agree its probably not the norm but I notice it a lot in ND women and there are many of us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:24 PM
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I’ve never been asked out, never had a boyfriend. Still a virgin. There are plenty of women like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:10 PM
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I can’t work out why anyone would want to be settled for. I couldn’t find anyone better than you that I actually liked so you’ll do. Sounds absolutely awful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:47 PM
11

Low Self Esteem can also mean you don’t think you deserve anyone so don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:38 PM
12

You don’t think women can have such low self esteem that they don’t even try? I’m pretty sure femcels are a thing too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:33 PM
18

There are those of us that don’t even think we deserve a match
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:30 PM
27

Disagree. Not wanting to date someone doesn’t mean you see them as less than you either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:37 AM
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Agreed. Grew up bullied and called ugly and I still have the self esteem of a hairy toe at 26. I don’t know many women that actually completely love themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:33 AM
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C. I like an older guy and the other two are all slightly younger than me which would make it a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:23 AM
4

The big mistake is thinking that normal women are doing any of these kinds of social media based interviews. They’re not. They’re going to work, seeing friends and going home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:19 PM
0

Where are the 8ft billionaire chads hiding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:20 PM
3

I don’t mind if he’s a Virgin either. I don’t want to be chosen purely for my virginity.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 03:24 PM
2

I’m a virgin & I’d like to find a man that I’m attracted to. I wouldn’t want someone that fetishised me purely for my virginity
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 02:35 PM
2

Not Wheat Waffles. 0/10 other guy is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:21 PM
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Steve would want us to forgive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:17 PM
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I’m crying at the thought of prisons just filled with men whose only crime is liking a woman a little bit too much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:14 PM
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Woman here. My hard nos are Police & Military (domestic violence statistics speak for themselves) Landlords (I don’t feel the need to make money off peoples desperation for housing) Repo Guys (don’t think I could be with someone that has the stomach to take away things from families and children) and Influencer/Social Media celebrities (hate the whole Dubai, posting your entire life vibe). Also not a job per say, but anyone that goes hunting is an absolute no I would never consider them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:05 PM
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At this point I wonder if it’s even a gender based thing. Surely as someone that’s engaging in consensual sex with the other person you would want them to have a good time and at least try(unless it’s some kink type of denial)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:34 PM
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If sex workers charge by the hour does OP get a partial refund
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:23 PM
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A lot of what we see here is men saying they prefer less sexually experienced women. I’ve never believed that to be true in real life situations but as a virgin, I would require a lot of patience and foreplay if I were to have sex, certainly way more than five minutes and what would be the point if we both weren’t able to get pleasure from that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:19 PM
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So to use her as a fleshlight? At that point isn’t it easier to just use a fleshlight and save yourself the trouble?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:22 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosy_retrospection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:08 PM
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I’ve met male models. Doesn’t matter to me. I want a guy I’m attracted to that I also love.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 03:19 PM
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I’ve seen plenty of handsome men. I won’t make love with someone I don’t love. There’s a reason I’m still a virgin
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 03:11 PM
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Am virgin, can confirm I will never approach
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 12:35 PM
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I can’t use Tampons, or have a smear test. I’ve never had sex and my doctor thinks I likely have vaginismus. If only it were as easy as finding a partner you’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:50 PM
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I don’t care what two other consenting adults do with their time. As long as no one is being forced or breaking the law then I’m all for it. I’m also cool with porn and whatever people want to wear within the law. I think that there are double standards for both genders, in that men who are virgins are judged for not sleeping with anyone and women that sleep with others are sluts, I don’t know if that will ever change but it would be interesting to see it happen. I don’t see a way to go back, un…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:46 AM
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Agreed, you only have to look at girl friendship groups to see this. My friends love their boyfriends and are attracted to them, I on the other hand feel no attraction. The same is vice versa to the people I find attractive. It’s 2023, most women (not all of course) wouldn’t be partnered with someone they didn’t find at least a little bit sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:44 PM
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If I were to one day have kids, It would be more about protecting them in case of a tragic event and I wouldn’t want to have them with someone I’m not married to for that reason. When you have kids everything becomes about protecting them over yourselves. A FWB in this situation would be a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:09 PM
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I’m not being edgy. Being Gay/Straight isn’t a choice. Being a bigot is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:35 AM
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Being a homophobe is a mental disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:24 AM
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Leaving society was never designed to be easy, you’re basically going it alone in comparison to a structure that has existed for thousands of years which although flawed is designed to encompass a majority of people
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 05:05 AM
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I see all about dating your looksmatch, unattractive guys being undatable on here, all valid discussion points. In the same way, are unattractive women not allowed to have these discussions as well. Do they not get a say in dating issues just because they’re unattractive?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 07:36 PM
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Agreed, I do think that peoples stances on age gap relationships have changed due to social media and modern interpretations but ideally you want to know how old your partner is as a bare minimum.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:39 PM
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You’d think that by now Jeff Bezos would have flown us out on a private jet and given us millions just for existing.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:30 PM
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I like older men, I don’t like when older men call older women “haggard, past the wall etc. It tells me all about the kind of guy he is and how he’ll see me when I get older
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:59 PM
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You can pry the ice cream and pizza from my cold dead hands
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:08 AM
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Im a 1, he can be the 9 so we can be the perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:35 PM
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Yeah, it’s one of the main reasons why I don’t really date aside from my autism. I’ve never been able to use tampons, and I went for a smear test but it was just too painful. Hopefully they’ll be able to find something that helps. Glad to hear it at least sort of helped your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:30 PM
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Here in the UK we seem to be referred to gynaecologists. I know they want to check first that I don’t have an abnormal hymen but since I’ve always had periods and I have issues around being physically touched they think it’s more likely to be the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:29 PM
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Finally have a gynaecologist referral for suspected Vaginismus. Any ladies here suffered with it before?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:18 PM
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1/9. The perfect 10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:17 PM
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As a 26 year old virgin, I would say yes. I still have urges that I take care of myself. It would be nice to have a partner but I am reasonably happy with my personal relationships to make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:08 PM
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I agree, there are many aspects of what OP describes that I would want in a relationship but in no way is this common for anyone and it’s inappropriate to ask others that have no interest in this kind of relationship to take part in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:56 PM
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Personally I like all of these things, but the huge majority of women I know are the complete opposite and this kind of relationship would be their worst nightmare. There’s nothing wrong with either perspective, the issue is when you try and force someone that doesn’t have these tendencies into something like this, and that’s the case for both genders, for example plenty of men enjoy being submissive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:40 PM
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It’s up to the individual couple in this case but for me I would say no and suggest we break up if either of us weren’t comfortable not having sex and wanting it with other people/not willing to wait. I think it also depends on the reason as well, if your partner is super unwell and you want to look elsewhere that shows signs of immaturity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:11 PM
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I would prefer him to be view sex as something to be shared between people that love eachother. If he had tried casual sex once or twice and didn’t enjoy it I would understand, as well as being in a few committed relationships. I would never tolerate dating or marrying a man who has cheated and I won’t budge on that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:08 PM
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Absolutely agree, I put way less thought on my virginity before the discourse became more widespread and it’s made me fearful to even look for a partner sometimes incase he could be the wrong one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:31 PM
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How often are people going to pool parties and the beach to notice this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:34 PM
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I think most people of any gender would choose neither
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 10:59 AM
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This is why I have no male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:00 PM
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I actually see it as a good thing, if you don’t want to be friends why would I. I’m not going to beg someone to be friends when I already have great friendships that are mutual and caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:46 PM
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Height makes a huge difference in how we look, it can impact the amount we need to weigh to be healthy, our BMR, the amount of work it takes for muscle to show etc. Whilst it may be shallow it is a valid preference for dating unless within the relationship you suddenly decide someone isn’t good/tall enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:53 AM
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I’ve met people of both genders that will do anything for money, especially when they’re desperate. In terms of attractiveness though I wouldn’t say a lottery win makes you more attractive although it will give you access to things that can improve your looks such as plastic surgery, personal trainers etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:10 PM
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You’re right, at the end of the day we all re upload ourselves into the cloud
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 02:46 PM
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I can only speak for me personally, but I do find men physically attractive from the beginning, that doesn’t mean I want to sleep with them though. More an acknowledgment of being attracted to them, then if I get to know him it can lead to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:53 PM
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To be fair this number includes a large number of women that have had children and are having their boobs done to bring back lost volume as well as women who had theirs removed due to a mastectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:16 PM
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Do you have sex with all of the women you date or just the ones you commit to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:32 AM
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I find that shorter men often have a stockier build which is something I like and a lot of them have cute faces. I can admit to being shallow in that I would like a man taller than me at 5ft 3 just for the feel of being protected and small.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:07 PM
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I’m aware I’d be single. I’ve never not been single this is a win for me
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:21 PM
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The fish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:27 PM
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Right? Is this a revenge fantasy or a gift
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 01:58 PM
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If you both work the same amount of hours and then when you get home one partner is expected to do all of the chores because the other person makes more, it’s definitely going to lead to some resentment. In an ideal world everything would be 50:50, but people are always going to have different incomes and different skill sets. It’s about coming together as a partnership to find out what does and doesn’t work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:18 AM
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At 26 my age range is set from 26-45. I like older guys and couldn’t see myself dating anyone younger but in my social circle I’m an outlier and most of my friends date around the same age give or take 2-3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:53 AM
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Taller than me (I’m 5ft 3 so 5ft 5 upwards), handsome face, well built/ muscular, usually dark full hair and dark eyes but blue eyes can be cute. Older than me, Kind to others, good with animals and kids in front of me. Smells good, Dresses nicely and is clean as well as funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:28 AM
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Every time I see a thread like this the age is always going down, it started at 17, went to 16 and now we’re down to 14. It’s sickening
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:09 PM
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The mundane things, washing each others dirty laundry, cleaning up after them when they’re sick. Sitting next to someone every single night and not wanting to be anywhere else with anyone else. The moments when other people would throw in the towel and give up because it’s too difficult but you don’t because you love them. When you’re 90 years old and looking back at everything and those moments that you suffered through together aren’t even what you remember most, but they made you stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:15 PM
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Nope I’m pretty short so if I find him cute 5ft 5 is absolutely cool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:38 PM
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There are a lot of traditional women that stay home with a husband that provides as there are a lot of modern women that have no interest in being only fans stars/cheaters. This whole post is an exaggerated caricature of what a woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:10 PM
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To me it depends on how extreme each persons views are. I’m pretty left myself so someone that’s right wing is likely to clash with a lot of my views. It’s one thing to have different opinions on how to improve things for everyone. It’s another to disagree on what fundamental rights should and should not exist ie gun laws, abortion laws etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:30 PM
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Don’t think I’ve ever received a DM outside of scammers saying they’re sugar daddies or young single women that want to meet in my area. I took my Instagram off private after a friend suggested it could be a good way to meet a guy and nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:36 PM
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Usually stocky/built brunette men with beards. Slightly taller than me so 5ft 5 and up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:10 PM
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Attractive to me, respects others and their time, kind and funny as well as a great relationship with his family/ friends. An honest and open communicator with strong emotional maturity and intelligence. No previous history of cheating or wanting to cheat in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:04 PM
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1) No more dishonesty. Everyone is open about what they do and don’t want from each-other up front. 2) No ghosting. Unless you’re in danger and have to cut off contact the decent thing is to let the other person know you’re no longer interested 3) Better ways for people to know who is single and interested in dating in real life, at the moment unless you go to bars and clubs it can be difficult to meet other people that are open to dating outside of apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:43 AM
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As an autistic woman, we can have constant meltdowns due to being overwhelmed by our emotions and always need reassurance from loved ones and friends. We aren’t robots
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:05 AM
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Some of us are just ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:10 PM
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I’m very open about what I want in a relationship and communicate that upfront. I don’t hookup and I always look for marriage minded guys. A guy that says he’s not sure about marriage isn’t for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:00 AM
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There is no attractiveness level for me to look past criminal history. I also wouldn’t date someone that has cheated, earns money by taking advantage of people or is disrespectful to servers/retail workers. My morals come first even if he looks like a movie star.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:13 PM
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People that look ideal often want other people that look ideal. A model is likely to want someone of similar attractiveness or wealth equivalent. Most of us are average, will find love with other people who are similar and that’s okay. Love makes you forget flaws and see everything that’s beautiful about that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:10 PM
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If I want a guy to approach me my friends will know. We look out for each other and it’s an unspoken rule. I’m very shy and unassertive so if I’m struggling they’ll step in and help. There’s no projection, just protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:04 PM
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I’m autistic so neurodivergence isn’t a deal breaker for me. If we have a connection and I find someone attractive I’d have no issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:08 PM
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Love Island is exactly what I was thinking, the type of person that wants to holiday in Dubai and network for his social media presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:20 AM
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He looks exhausting, I don’t have time to live my life for Instagram and wouldn’t date someone that does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:17 AM
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The can’t make a hoe into a housewife men and can’t have a housewife without a home women should marry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:40 PM
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Are you guys gonna wear pink? everyone I’ve seen go seems to be going full Barbie and Ken mode
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:37 PM
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I’m a virgin and this is why if a guy has ever asked for my bodycount I lie and tell him that I have a high number. A guy that values me for my purity and nothing else isn’t someone I’m compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:44 PM
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https://twitter.com/pearlythingz/status/1684291958607429632?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg just noncey things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:26 PM
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What about actually autistic women?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 04:41 PM
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PPD normally : women are whores that have too much casual sex just for pleasure and don’t think about their future. PPD today : actually women are prudes and don’t even enjoy sex, they demand something first rather than just having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:10 PM
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Women enjoy the pleasure that she can get from a partner that cares about her and wants to make sure she enjoys herself. That’s not about what you can gain from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:03 PM
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You can enjoy something and not want to do it all the time with every one. Not wanting to have sex with someone you barely know or feel safe around doesn’t mean you don’t enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:58 PM
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A lot of men seek a woman that is non traditional and will pay her half to avoid gold diggers and being taken advantage of. A large percentage of the population no longer wants to be traditional from both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:47 PM
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Too many people want traditional partners without being willing to pay the price that entails. Want a virgin that’s submissive and wants to be a mother? Be prepared to take care of her and wait until marriage. Want a guy that will take care of your and pay for you? Be prepared to take care of the household, cook the meals and be nurturing too. Having the choice to be equals works well for a huge majority of people with the modern economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:41 PM
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Should women in this case never perform oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:10 PM
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Do they have a male equivalent to petite ranges? would be cool to see more body types represented in male modelling too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:01 PM
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Agreed OP, I know it’s true that people don’t owe others anything, but it seems that nowadays there is a lack of basic respect for anyone else. I’m not someone that can turn off my emotions and talk to multiple guys at once, but unfortunately it seems like those who are able to talk to multiple people and keep dating light as well as those wanting hookups are at an advantage especially on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:08 PM
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I’m a bitch that’s always in ultra violet light
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:27 AM
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What about the women that want to work and financially contribute? Lots of career women that are successful and enjoy their work want to contribute to their households, is it not just easier to find a relationship with a set up that works for you. Some women like you say would like to raise children at home and be supported so they should find a partner that supports that and vice versa. Relationships with the view that everyone has rigid roles to play and there should be no deviation feel trans…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:07 AM
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I get my hair bleached every six weeks to appear as natural as possible but there will be a certain amount of regrowth and my eyebrows are darker than my hair although that is easily fixable with bleach too. I have regular facials using needles and lasers so that my skin looks flawless, the best makeup and surgery are the ones that make you look natural, and these involve a high level of skill that therefore cost the most. It also means that it can be difficult to see who is “naturally beautiful…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:10 PM
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Sadly there is no true way of knowing, but there are steps you can take to protect yourself and your heart. I’m a virgin at 26 and plan on waiting until I at least feel comfortable with a guy and we’ve spent a lot of time together both publicly and privately, if that means I’m single and a virgin forever it’s a better alternative than being heartbroken and immediately discarded. I’m sorry you’ve been treated this way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:56 PM
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I grew up bullied for being ugly and autistic and that’s had a huge impact on how I view myself now and I’ve never felt beautiful. Not everyone has the same life experiences that are “typical” of their gender. Eating disorders are common among young people and body image issues are made even worse by apps like Instagram
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 02:48 PM
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A) He’s not Mr right or “perfect” if he’s not interested in a monogamous relationship. He can sleep with who he wants, but I won’t be there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:03 PM
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I like to plan as if I have to be somewhere at least half an hour earlier than I do so that I’m never late
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:21 PM
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I’m a virgin which he knows about so I don’t want to rush anything, I would understand if it’s too much for him though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:20 PM
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Possible first ever date coming up and I’m shitting it. Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:28 PM
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I would always offer to pay and make sure I bring my card but there’s something special about the idea of being treated to the first date. Wouldn’t put me off him though if we split the cost
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:29 AM
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So she turned you down and you’re still posting about it years later? The best way to move on is to not let it even cross your mind rather than spend time thinking about how people look and what they’re up to
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 07:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:27 PM
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The first, to me there’s nothing more beautiful than the idea of growing old together and looking back on the life that you shared with fondness. I’ve never really desired the admiration of many people, I keep my friendships small but very close because of this and family means everything to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:35 PM
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I am feminine, submissive for the right guy but that requires me to have strong and healthy boundaries with others and I won’t allow anyone to take advantage of me. Reminds me of this quote “It’s not my job to make you feel like a man, I can’t make you something you’re not”. Who you are has to come from within and not be reliant on how another person treats you, otherwise you can easily be taken advantage of by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:29 PM
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Have you lived in America? All of those things are placed at the feet of the individual, that’s why people go bankrupt paying for life saving treatment and people are one paycheck away from losing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:45 PM
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I think they’re doing the best they can out of a difficult decision to put themselves out there knowing the people they’re being broadcast to likely hate them and will shit on them so that they can improve their lives financially. More brave than I could ever be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:40 PM
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So when you shake hands and then touch your own it’s still touching via molecules.
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 10:37 AM
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Have you ever seen the clips that go viral, it’s always people dunking on each-other. Those are the videos which get way more views and for a grifter that wants to make money of course they’re going to do that, they’re never going to say oh guess I have enough now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:33 AM
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https://youtu.be/N5lP_TkyhDs this video is interesting. Proves that the women go on for a career boost despite what people claim
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:30 AM
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Because it gets them views, and money. I don’t actually believe most of them hate women, but they pander to a paying audience that does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:27 AM
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Every time you shake someone’s hand you’re likely indirectly touching someone else’s penis. I wouldn’t view you as lesser for that
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 09:14 AM
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As a virgin this would be a red flag for me personally. The idea that Id be worth less to him once I’d slept with him is an absolute no
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 08:49 AM
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Enemies to lovers trope I can see it now 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:19 PM
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One thing it’s good for is working as a deterrent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:06 PM
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Agreed, I don’t even like me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:04 PM
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Speaking to a guy that seemed probably overly enthusiastic about my virginity until he realised that he’d have to wait until we’re comfortable with eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:47 PM
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I think it has some truth to it, most people enjoy a mix of all of them but prefer more than others. I love giving gifts and really enjoy thinking and planning about what to get people, but that doesn’t mean the other things don’t matter to me too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:44 PM
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Genuinely this might be the worst post I’ve ever seen I congratulate OP on this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:34 PM
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Reminder not to post from your main account when you’re logged out from your alt so you don’t get banned from other subreddits
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:23 PM
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Most super rich people absolutely suck, or at least the ones I have met are. If you’re willing to take advantage of people in need by underpaying them, exploiting their needs to make profit etc then you’re not someone I’m interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:43 PM
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If you’re in a relationship that you’ve agreed to be loyal in and you sleep with another person, maybe you don’t love the person you’re cheating with but you aren’t thinking about your partner and how they feel and the betrayal that you’re taking part in. Someone that loves you would never even dream of hurting you in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:56 PM
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He can sleep with whoever he wants, just don’t expect me to stay. I already have enough money, but even if I had nothing I’m not going to let anyone disrespect me because they’re wealthy. You cheat, I leave
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:19 PM
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To be fair on the last one most people rightfully hate predators of underage victims and there are often calls for vigilante justice no matter the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:01 PM
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So the women are more feminine and the men are more masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:59 AM
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As a woman, if a man asked me to do this I would say no. I would pay for bills but I don’t feel comfortable dating my landlord
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:20 AM
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Yes I’m lucky enough to have family financial support but I’m also disabled so I would likely be unable to work anyway. I would be more than happy to financially contribute my fair share to a relationship but it does put people off which is understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:35 PM
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I don’t have a job, still financially secure but a large amount of men I speak to are pretty turned off when I say I don’t have a career/ambition to run some kind of business. Someone is always going to dislike you and what you stand for, you have to find someone that accepts you for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:30 PM
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Because if I’m already talking to someone and have started to feel something for them it’s not as easy as just talking to someone else. I struggle to keep up with the friends I do have, speaking to multiple guys and having the same conversations constantly starting over sounds awful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:26 PM
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As someone that needs time to develop an emotional connection before I would get into any physical relationship, it doesn’t matter how many other men would be asking me out as if I’m already trying to build an emotional connection with Jack (which can be exhausting) I have no desire to try and start making a whole new connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:15 PM
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Just a personal preference, I’m not a particularly assertive person and rely on others to speak for me which is often due to my autism but also I find it hard to do so. My ideal man would understand that and be supportive in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:21 PM
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That’s fair, I’m 26 years old and haven’t slept with anyone but I’m also not religious whilst I imagine most men like me would be. I’m okay with being single if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:59 PM
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I’m relatively submissive and feminine, I also would submit for the right man which I have yet to find and would prefer if we had mutual attraction for each-other. Wanting a partner you’re attracted to doesn’t mean that you hate the other gender or want to live without them. Both have a valuable place and worth in society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:29 PM
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Over half of the women in the UK don’t have children by age 30 because we know how much it costs. If not being able to find a partner that we have mutual attraction with means that we’re single and have no children evidently that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:05 PM
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I think it all depends on if the person is willing to stay single if they can’t find the person they’re looking for. A lot of people are now choosing not to date at all and are okay with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:53 PM
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I’m pregnant and the baby needs a father
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:17 PM
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I love washing machines
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:58 PM
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It’s obviously sad but I really can’t work out how they managed to convince a single person to get in the thing let alone pay 250k to do so. And the fact that the CEO ignored so many warnings and disagreed with safety protocols, it was just an accident waiting to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:55 PM
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Lucky to be in a position where I don’t have to work which makes being less stressed a huge positive, regular expensive facials, exercise classes, being able to wear and afford feminine clothes. I have no desire to be part of a hustle culture but again this can be seen as a lack of ambition as well as lazy but there is always someone out there that will support your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:46 PM
2

Bacon, egg and cheese on lightly warm crusty bread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:41 PM
8

I’m feminine and submissive, yet the things I do to remain that way are seen as shallow and a waste of money and time. There’s no way to win so it’s just best to be yourself at this point and find someone that loves you for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:22 PM
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I’m not really religious so I wouldn’t want someone to have to be with me if they want a partner who is similarly dedicated to their religion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:23 AM
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I always tell guys at the beginning, not that I’ve ever really dated much but on the rare occasions I have told them. The men I’ve told are kind enough to tell me that they’re just looking for something casual or someone more experienced which saves the both of us time and me from getting hurt. My reasoning is that I see sex as the most intimate act between humans, and something I only want to share with a guy that I’m truly and deeply connected to. Ideally the guy I would be with would feel the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:23 AM
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Yes I care about looks as much as men. I’d like a life partner and husband that I can spend my life with that I can grow older with and still be attracted to him. I’m also a 26 year old virgin and no amount of looks without love have been worth it to sleep with. It’s the combination of attraction and connection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:38 PM
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Who dat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:54 PM
2

To be fair if he goes bald you can just get him hats for Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:51 PM
7

Exactly this, the way you grow up and are treated by your peers has a huge impact on how you see yourself and how you act around others. It’s not easy to get past the fact that you are still the same person but others now treat you differently too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:01 PM
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Insecurity is a big thing that can also impact how others view you. When you feel negative about yourself you start to neglect basic things like self care including exercise and hobbies + things you enjoy which give you the opportunity to meet others. I’m in this position after growing up ridiculed for my appearance and I’m well aware it’s probably self imposed but that doesn’t make it any easier to work through
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:22 PM
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No I exercise 5-6 times a week, just autistic and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:26 AM
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As someone who is also pretty much a shut in it does sound ridiculous and a little strange but a lot of the reason we shut ourselves away is to avoid hurt and ridicule as well as being shy and nervous around others. This is especially amplified in dating and as much as I wish I could go and search for someone the fear of being hurt overwhelms that desire
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:34 PM
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It all depends on whether the person is okay being alone, and this goes for both genders. If you don’t want to lower your standards but you’re desperate for a relationship it’s likely to be an issue, but if you’re okay with staying single then nothing is going to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:15 PM
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Do you have any links to the studies? it would be an interesting read and could change my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:49 PM
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I was more addressing this as an answer to the comment rather than the OP, which again you might have offers for relationships but that doesn’t mean they will be good relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:48 PM
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I’m autistic so I’d definitely find it easier to date a guy that’s neurodivergent rather than NT
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:38 AM
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It’s never been easy to come by for me, I’m autistic, grew up ugly as fuck and have never had any romantic interactions. If I wanted validation perhaps I could go looking for it but I have no desire to, why would I want something I’ve never had or seen the need to get
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:52 PM
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Oh yeah it’s definitely more of a generalisation and there are people from both genders that aren’t interested in casual sex as well as it also being true in the opposite direction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:28 PM
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That’s why I made it clear that “some women” feel that way rather than just saying women or all women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:26 PM
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I only need validation from family and loved ones, and have no desire for attention when I rarely leave the house. The admiration of people I don’t know means nothing in comparison to love from those who I care about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:51 PM
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You’re right I don’t see it as an advantage as the view points between genders mostly differ and the idea of having sex with someone I don’t love is repulsive from my perspective. I grew up being called ugly and receiving no attention from boys and even now I barely notice any, have never gone on a date and will likely remain a virgin by choice rather than sleep with someone I don’t truly love. It’s just different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:33 PM
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The biggest difference is that for some women casual sex isn’t at all desirable and that’s a huge disparity between the sexes. Having sex with someone you’re not connected to is an absolute turn off and is why we’re seeing sexlessness rates in women rise too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:27 PM
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Agreed from the women’s perspective although I can’t speak for men. Being single is something I see as neutral rather than a negative, sure a relationship would be nice and I’d like to have one but that doesn’t mean that it’s worth being in a bad relationship. Sometimes you have to put yourself first so that you don’t get hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:39 PM
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I think that people can be multifaceted and aren’t just one thing. I am hugely passionate about politics, volunteering and help with homelessness whilst also privately making donations. At the same time I like nice watches and jewellery and own a Kelly, maybe that makes me a hypocrite but I believe that people deserve at least the bare minimum of housing & healthcare. Wealth is something that we can share and paying our fair share of taxes is one way to do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:42 PM
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Well at least I love animals and save the spiders 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah this is what I always struggle with, dressing feminine and looking feminine takes time and a certain amount of care but it can be seen as high maintenance and shallow. Is there a middle ground that some of us seem to be missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:35 PM
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Go where you need to go! I’d happily look abroad for a guy so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:49 PM
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I’m also autistic which can make it difficult for me, I struggle in social situations so I do have to make effort to date
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:44 PM
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Yes absolutely I concede that, I think we’re all socialised to expect certain things including women to just happen, romance being one of them. Realising that it doesn’t is one of the harshest parts of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:59 PM
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Maybe I believed that as a kid but when you hit adulthood the first thing you learn is not to take anything for granted and that nothing in life is guaranteed. We’re not guaranteed partners or success or even health so we have to do the best we can with what we have. It’s one thing to express upset over dating problems and how life is going, it’s another to continue to expect something that we learn isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:42 PM
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Grateful for the healthcare system that is saving my grandma, it’s not perfect but she’s still here with us, doing my part to help take care of her❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:38 PM
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If voting Lillth for best overall poster is wrong, I don’t wanna be right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:36 PM
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It’s super secret so I can’t tell you that I live in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:07 PM
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I’m a virgin that can’t drive and I spend too much on shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:50 PM
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I can only spend $80 on shoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:48 PM
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My first day at university : wow there’s too many people here guess I won’t leave my room and drop out in three weeks instead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:46 PM
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I know I look like roadkill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:41 PM
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Oh yeah it definitely makes sense and I can see how it is frustrating, I also don’t think most men expect it either just wanted to directly respond to the question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:11 PM
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Girl: I want that handsome man to be my boyfriend PPD: “Typical, you only notice the chads” Girl: But I like non “chads” too PPD “Oh so you just want a beta to use after you’ve been run through or you can’t get commitment from Chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:28 PM
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Not enough people voting for KJU imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:42 PM
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Why do “most men” rightfully expect to be able to get women? I don’t expect to get a man, I’d like to have a partner but I’m not owed one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:06 PM
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If a woman/man would rather be single than date what other people see as their looksmatch I can’t see a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:26 PM
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Only partly, it’s the supernatural murder thing that makes him the ultimate Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:51 AM
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New unrealistic dating standard for men confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:49 AM
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I won’t to believe this is a troll but
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:35 PM
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I think you’re handsome and if I didn’t look like a taxidermied goat I’d shoot my shot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:17 PM
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I agree there are definitely men that have gone their own way, this is more aimed at the LARPERS and grifters that remain in the space
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:07 PM
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It’s surprising how many MGTOW and redpill/black pill creators end up either being married or getting girlfriends at some point. A good example that we’re all just looking for connection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:59 PM
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If we don’t get at least ten seal posts purge week has failed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:53 PM
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I mean if they’re 5 or 6s but think they are tens as long as they’re not hurting anyone I can’t see the issue. Sometimes you have to value yourself and have confidence
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:37 PM
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Yeah, I’ve found it really hard personally when I explain my interest in something more traditional in nature as well as long term with marriage but that could just be my experience
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:27 PM
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Same here, 25 instead though. Waiting for someone special. How do you find men react to you when dating?
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:19 PM
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People want to date tens, until they realise how much work and energy and money goes into being a ten
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:34 PM
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Waiting until marriage confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:36 PM
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I don’t really read Manga or watch anime but Guts is who I’d date personally. Based off appearance alone Griffith seems snobby and out of touch, Guts seems more down to earth and rugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:46 PM
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Try being mentally ill and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:28 PM
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I see a lot of people say that men have low standards for sex, but high standards for commitment. If the majority of women want committed relationships with sex rather than casual hookups surely that confirms that men also have high standards similar to how people consider women having high standards when it comes to hookups. To me it’s just the situations reversed and both have high standards when it comes to what the other gender wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:34 AM
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Absolutely not, to me cheating is unforgivable and would be a betrayal of our relationship. It also creates a lack of trust and I think at that point it would start going downhill anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:19 PM
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I actually see a lot of criticism in online spaces from young women on social media sites like tik tok and twitter. I like an older man but in my social circle it’s absolutely an anomaly and my friends don’t find older men attractive. The older women I know are too busy with their careers and and partners to care who I’m dating and how old he is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:30 PM
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Military makes it an absolute no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:04 PM
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This is why I travel everywhere on my Segway. It really is the perfect glide
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:01 PM
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This is why I would only ever have sex with someone that I have a deep emotional connection to and long term commitment with. Not here to share the most intimate part of me with someone that would just discard it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:29 PM
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If I can’t understand figures of speech you can’t take jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:42 PM
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https://www.timpson.co.uk/services/key-cutting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:13 PM
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A key that can be easily replicated is useless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:58 PM
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I actually think it’s a good thing, no one should have to date someone that would put them down for how many people they’ve slept with whilst also doing the same thing themselves. Preferences are one thing, treating them like they are lesser just because of body count is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:34 PM
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It’s not at all what I’m looking for. I’d happily stay a virgin forever if the choice was between that and having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:20 PM
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I had a glow up, was treated disrespectfully and laughed at beforehand by guys. I know what it’s like to be hurt so why would I ever want anyone else to feel the way I felt? The idea that I could ever make someone else feel that way makes me want to do the exact opposite, I’m curious to know do you not feel guilt when you bring someone else down the way those women did to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:16 PM
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My mum always tells the story of how when she first met my dad she wasn’t attracted to him, but he managed to win her heart and I’ve never seen a couple more in love after 25 years of marriage. Sometimes you really just do fall for someone and that makes them attractive to you. She got pregnant with me within 6 months of meeting him and both were 20 years old so it was never a desperate need to settle down because either were getting older thing either. In real life you find a multitude of coupl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:51 PM
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We’re discussing self improvement in the context of dating and whether it helps you find a partner. If you do things that make you considered more attractive as well as improve other factors it contributes to helping you find a partner. Would you say that women force men to self improve then? I agree men do not force us to do any of these things, but then you could say women do not either. Unfortunately in life if we want to attract someone they have to be attracted to us, often that can involve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:41 PM
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What about industries like plastic surgery? Makeup? Health and fitness? Whether people consider doing it for themselves or others they’re all industries that cater to either one gender or both and are about self improvement one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:56 PM
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You don’t think it’s a people thing rather than a gendered thing? I grew up being called ugly and weird for being autistic by boys and guys, never dated because they laughed at me when I even tried despite my shyness. Hated myself and joined the gym though for a while I developed an eating disorder because I couldn’t escape my own judgement that came from how I was treated. I had to let that go and stop the bitterness and hatred towards myself and others. We can’t control other peoples judgments…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:48 PM
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We’re all fine with our own judgements until it’s time for us to be judged. It’s human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:42 PM
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Judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:16 PM
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https://finance.yahoo.com/news/mike-jeffries-made-abercrombie-exclusionary-123400764.html?guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvLnVrLw&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAACwk1RmRe2U5x4Do1TGm75drYZyf-PiqDN0YqypzPDuBx5zIxMPTgeI68MRPSc4AjXUoM2PVuAPcIx_QaSbEPPLQUvUJyCnHPymYLI6uEWi7_ITFyHQb-ExF1YJmPBCzO5JykLNMMWjspmFAAHpD9lSzk5n-Xa1CRffL9wHnAcew it’s a money thing. Sales began to decline. People don’t want to be made to feel disgusting when they want to buy clothes, so they then stop buying those clothes over…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:07 PM
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Overweight people had less options. There’s a reason companies like Victorias Secret had to do a complete rebrand and it was the behaviour of the executives, the way they treated the women that modelled for them forcing them to unhealthy extremes, and people wanting to see themselves reflected in advertising. Look at a brand like Fenty as well as Skims, super diverse and doing amazingly well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:58 PM
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I think that it depends on how many of these features the guy has. Most people are aware perfection doesn’t exist and if they want to find a partner they will look for someone they’re attracted to even with flaws same as we want to be accepted despite our own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:42 PM
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We need some more girls in here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:51 PM
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I’m the only person I know that cannot detect when someone is trying to flirt with me, everyone else I know men and women seem to have no issues so I just put it down to being an autism thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:42 AM
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I remember watching up and thinking wow clearly only men use air balloons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:13 AM
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No one can humble you more than yourself. I’m my own biggest hater
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:10 PM
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Crooked/ bigger noses are super attractive on a guy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:09 PM
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It’s the are we dating the same guy YouTube channel equivalent by posting peoples dating profiles and gossiping about them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:06 PM
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That high leg kick is an absolute Chad move
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:27 PM
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Lots of us have been told that sex lowers our value and if our n count is above a certain number we’re worthless sluts, I don’t agree with it but I can see why some women think sex can be a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:38 PM
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For me I’m the complete opposite and need compatibility and emotional connection before I would feel comfortable having sex. I’ve met people that I was not initially attracted to that over time getting to know them I became physically attracted but without an emotional connection it never goes anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:42 PM
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Yes I would pay full amount of the bills when things are 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:20 PM
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For that reason I wouldn’t want someone to pay my mortgage and it would be better to contribute elsewhere. I have no desire to take advantage of peoples need for housing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:03 PM
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Paying bills is fair, but if she’s paying rent surely she might as well pay for the mortgage and they share the home? I don’t want to be dating my landlord
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:34 AM
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Apparently he’s a tradcath Nazi so I’m sadly not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:34 PM
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I agree, I think too many people don’t take their vows seriously enough and that’s why marriage definitely isn’t for everyone. The redpill does have takes that I agree with so it’s just muddying the water. If anyone is ever abusive towards you, it’s your right to be safe and leave that marriage as both a man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:34 PM
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I’d say if we were married with a child no, our resources should be going on making the best life we can for them. Otherwise it’s a bit weird but it’s his money, is there a reason why he’s doing it? Ie she is in a difficult financial situation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:22 PM
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