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Pictures + your ability to talk to women is what carries. Pictures to generate attraction, then your ability to talk to women to secure what you want. Of course, an attractive guy with good pictures will be given more slack when it comes to talking. But even a good looking guy can turn a girl off if he acts like a badgering little puppy instead of a guy who talks to women As for the pictures, subject and composition matter, mostly subject though. Take a look at the tinder sub and look at the sea…
/r/seduction26/07/26 12:51 PM
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One was a girl I was crushing on in college who I eventually swiped up on an IG story on (a year or two after college was over). Chatted a bit, then invited her out for a drink-rest was history. She recently got engaged and I'm in a different city though so fun while it lasted but very unlikely to spring back up. Good times though- she would take the train into the city to my place, we'd hook up a few times, then she'd head home after a glass of wine The other was a girl I met at the club a few …
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:44 AM
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The two times I've been propositioned were at the bar One time was this fat chopped chick coming up to me saying her and her fat chopped girlfriend were looking for a third The next was another time where these two hot chicks asked me, but I'm like 60% sure they were fucking with me. Might've missed out on a great opportunity but oh well I think apps are probably where you're most likely though
/r/seduction17/07/26 10:19 PM
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Being lean is the #1 thing anyone can do to up their attractiveness. Worth it
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:24 PM
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The whole issue with these philosophies is that people treat them like political parties. People feel like they need to identify with one instead of accepting that each of them have good and bad ideas. Game matters, looks matter. Being really proficient in one can make up for a bit of a deficiency in the other, but it doesn't replace it
/r/seduction07/07/26 02:00 PM
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Text a day or so later with some inside joke from the date, banter for a message or two, then invite her to do something in the next few days
/r/seduction24/06/26 04:52 PM
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I usually go to a bar near me, have a nice date there, then say I have a bottle of wine back at mine and ask if they want to join. Usually they say yes and a lot of the time they want to bang
/r/seduction08/06/26 01:58 PM
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Wear a condom Ask if they have any STDs right before you smash (saved me once) Don't kiss if there are any active cold sores Accept that there will always be risk if you want to smash a bunch of randos
/r/seduction03/06/26 03:43 PM
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Happens man. It's walking a tightrope between her growing too distant and her growing too attached. I definitely wouldn't keep reiterating it to her as she knows what you said, but if she starts crossing a boundary to the point where your discomfort is more than your enjoyment, you should cut her loose
/r/seduction28/05/26 05:56 PM
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YouTube. It's a channel called playing with fire
/r/seduction28/05/26 04:44 AM
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I focused on improving my presentation while also just getting better at talking to women through lots of reps. I don't do cold approach on the street- I'm more of a bars/social circle person. Plan to do dating apps once I get to my ideal physique. I had mild success with them in the past but I'm going to revisit once I max out presentation I found the haircut/facial hair combo that works best for me (clean shaven/longer hair), put on some muscle and am working towards getting leaner, wear cloth…
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:55 PM
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Agreed. Also have to make sure we're reporting these posts so the mods can see that there's a problem
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:33 PM
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I mean yeah if that's what OP said I'd have probably agreed. He just said people go up to girls on the dance floor, grab their waist, and hope they don't flinch, which sounds a lot different than what you said If she's actively putting herself in your personal space like you described, that's totally different. It sounds like I'm arguing over a small thing because reasonable people like you and I wouldn't go to the club and grab some random woman but there are socially inept people crawling thro…
/r/seduction24/05/26 09:59 PM
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I always use a condom unless I'm in a monogamous relationship. A lot of my friends don't and they've been fine so far, but you're more likely to knock a girl up or get an STD by doing that. Probably not a good feeling when the chick you just met at the club texts you that her period is late I always ask a new girl if she has STDs straight up. More usually a "no STDs right?" Really quickly before we bang. Sounds neurotic but it saved me a little while back when a girl I brought back from the club…
/r/seduction24/05/26 07:36 PM
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Interesting, I've never been out there so I don't know the culture that well. Regardless, I still wouldn't ever do this as I can't imagine a woman would want some random guy to come grab her
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:33 PM
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Going up and grabbing some random chick sounds like a great way to to have some guy in her group deck you or have security throw you out
/r/seduction24/05/26 04:46 PM
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I always have a bottle of white in my fridge and will usually ask her if she wants to come over and help me drink it while doing something we referenced on the date (video, music, etc.) Most have come over and among those, most have wanted to have sex. If they don't, it's still good to chat with them in a quieter environment and have them see that you're not some psycho
/r/seduction20/05/26 04:00 PM
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I always sound like an old head when I say this but a few years back, this sub was much more helpful than it is now. Mostly high yield shit with very few thin-veiled advertisements, AI slop, and incels running around. It shut down for like a year and when it came back, it was much lower quality. I still hold out hope that it can go back to the way it was since it was one of the few communities here where guys could get honest advice instead of placating bullshit
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:54 PM
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See what women post about on social media about tattooed guys. Almost always a plus. Increases sex appeal. Not all women, but a big enough proportion. If the demographic you're shooting for is more puritanical, will probably hurt you more than help you. It also varies based on tattoos. A black and grey American trad will be viewed differently than a colorful Naruto tat. That said, they're meant to be on your body forever, so sit witg a design for a while to make sure you like it a few months dow…
/r/seduction10/05/26 05:54 PM
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To girls in their 20s yes. Not an insurmountable one, but it is one to them. You don't have to scroll all day. Just make one and drop a few photos, post the occasional story when you're doing something cool. Online social proof It is also a great avenue for hooking up with women if you put some work into it. I've done a few dates/banged a few that initially reached out with via IG
/r/seduction07/05/26 10:54 PM
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Muscles and tattoos. Moreso muscles Don't get tattoos solely for women, but it'll make you look more mature. Women loving them is a very nice side effect
/r/seduction17/04/26 04:53 PM
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Anyone who says getting jacked and lean "just gets you in the door" or "only works because it makes you confident" are just lying. It's the biggest thing you can do to increase your attraction. There's a reason why women squeeze your biceps and rub up on your pecs when you're hooking up with them, it's not because you're so confident Obviously, if you're socially inept or turn into a powerbuilding meatball, you might have trouble. Look at physiques of people like Austin Dunham, Shaymaxx, and Jor…
/r/seduction20/03/26 01:29 PM
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Don't do anything with a girl's IG profile in a dating app unless you have a killer profile. If it's in her bio, she's almost certainly trying to get followers from simp dudes on the apps Even if you match with her, get her number unless you have a sick profile that would be an advantage. Also, don't outsource your ability to write a simple paragraph to chatgpt. It's like having someone else lift weights for you
/r/seduction19/03/26 01:50 PM
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Imo your best bet is to either use a dating app if you have a strong profile or to run some game at a bar at night. If you're talking to a girl and she's interested, you mention you're only there for the night, and she agrees to come back with you, odds are you're in the clear. You can approach straight with intent like you're suggesting, but sometimes it's better to play the longer game and start casual then escalate with flirting I haven't done much vacationing lately but the last time I was o…
/r/seduction14/03/26 04:56 PM
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Open->flirt->soft close (e.g. we should grab a drink sometime) -> hard close (e.g. great, let's do Friday at 7 at X bar/split a bottle of wine at my place)
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:22 PM
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If you're older this one might not work- create a contact name for her, then check your quick add on Snapchat to see if it comes up with a username suggested for the contact you just made
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:19 AM
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Logically, it doesn't matter that much as long as I'm not getting an STD. I'd want a girl to have some experience so the sex doesn't suck. I haven't ever asked though That said, if I found out it was a super high number, I'd probably question how it got to that point
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:24 PM
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You could, but it's probably not going to be the ones you want to date. Also, you should try to do this without having a girl to keep you motivated so you can work on building up some sense of self discipline
/r/seduction22/02/26 10:04 PM
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Yes, being a poor, jobless, drug addict who doesn't take care of himself will be a turnoff to any girl. That said, pretty much every negative you said about yourself is changeable, much of it within 6 months. You're 29, not 86 on your deathbed. Invest the money you spend on weed into a gym membership, figure out a solution for your hair (look into minoxidil/finasteride, look into hair transplant, or look into hairstyle that works or shave it off), get what you're eating right so you lose fat and…
/r/seduction22/02/26 07:08 PM
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If you see them a lot, you might find them more attractive. It's fine to go after someone at your workplace if a. She's not nuts and b. You don't do anything too risky. Need to be somewhat professional with it, as opposed to how free you can act with a girl from tinder or the bar. I've hooked up with/went on a few dates with people from my very small school and it's been fine sans a bit of transient drama with a crazy girl. I do agree with you though that people should branch out and shouldn't r…
/r/seduction18/02/26 02:02 PM
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For text game, Alex from PWF. Not the exact lines themselves, but the structure of how he does it. Banter->soft close->hard close. Also does it being a relatively average looking guy rather than some gigachad model. My results got much better after I found his stuff. Particularly the vids from 2020-2021ish
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:05 PM
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The likes you get are almost exclusively from how you look. If you're ugly and your photos are bad (poor lighting, bad posing, weird facial expressions, poor photo quality, etc.) you shouldn't expect to get many likes. You should focus on improving your looks if you want success with dating apps (and dating in general). Hairstyle, skincare, facial hair, building muscle, cutting fat, style, grooming. Genetic factors are out of your control, but you can increase your SMV by a good bit if you do al…
/r/seduction19/01/26 03:33 PM
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Is it the app's fault you aren't getting matches? Or is it that your pictures didn't attract any? If your pics are bad, mirroring them or slightly altering them isn't going to change the rate at which women swipe on them Also, consider your location. If you live in the suburbs/a rural area, fewer women will swipe on you because there aren't as many around as there are in cities
/r/seduction19/01/26 03:12 PM
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Cold DMing isn't going to work unless you have a profile that makes her view you as attractive. Even then, she might not even see your message with how IGs privacy settings go The best thing would be to build a strong profile, then swipe up on stories/post stories that might cause them to swipe up on you. The dates/lays I've gotten from IG have been either from me swiping up or her swiping up on mine
/r/seduction19/01/26 03:01 PM
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I miss the old days of this sub man
/r/seduction10/01/26 06:36 PM
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Obviously being physically attractive is one of the most important factors (I doubt any of you would want to date a fat uggo- neither do they) but the most important thing for flirting itself is confidence/boldness. You need to stand behind what you say and say things that are bold. Saying something and then immediately being like "ah...just kidding haha 😅😅😅😅" is the biggest wuss thing you can do and it will turn them off. If she truly doesn't like you/what you say, just move onto the next
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:54 PM
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Yes, it helps a lot. Most guys aren't lean or muscular - both will make you stand out and will universally make you more attractive. Though depending on your genetics and size, you might need to get down a little past 12% to see the definition you're hoping for
/r/seduction02/01/26 10:57 PM
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Lower risk but yeah
/r/seduction23/12/25 07:39 PM
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Why are we treating these people like football teams? The point of this sub is to share experiences and help others who are looking to get better with women, not glaze your favorite PUA/looksmaxxer. Both looks and game matter
/r/seduction23/12/25 07:30 PM
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Yes, bars and clubs are still worth it in 2025. It's challenging to pull someone home, but it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. People go out to be social and meet others, and if you're physically and charismatically attractive to them, there's a good chance they'll want to hook up with you I say this as someone also in my twenties who lives in a city and goes out frequently. I'd suggest going out with a buddy who's in a similar situation and run some two man. If you get numbers/hookups, great. Ev…
/r/seduction22/12/25 09:01 PM
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Adjust and find a system that works for you. You almost certainly aren't so strapped for time that you can't go out to the bar once a week or even download some dating apps. If you're fit, go get some good photos and put them on tinder/hinge/bumble. Swipe for 10 minutes and then do it again for 10 mins the next day. Being busy and doing things that give you meaning is great, but it becomes a really convenient excuse.
/r/seduction17/12/25 06:48 PM
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Apps definitely aren't a waste if you have a good profile. I had success using them and my friend is currently getting several dates a week from Hinge and Raya
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:45 PM
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If dating apps aren't going well for you, the most likely reason is that your pics aren't good. IG isn't going to do you any better if you have those same pics Additionally, you shouldn't be talking for days on apps. You should be planning a date within a few messages
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:37 PM
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Swipe up on a story. Realize though that if your profile doesn't interest her, she's not responding
/r/seduction17/12/25 07:24 AM
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As long as you have good photos that show you looking good and doing cool things, follower count shouldn't matter as much, especially for what you're going for. Stepping back though, if you have a specific niche you're looking for, there's more than likely a special dating app where you can connect with someone of your preferred religion/ethnic group. I have a friend who's Indian but with a certain religion (not Islam) associated and he's connected with women through some app he told me about
/r/seduction17/12/25 07:22 AM
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The majority of women today are not man-hating extreme feminists. I've lived in and around some bigger liberal cities and most women you meet out at the bar and on dating apps are pretty reasonable and are down to get to know you/smash if they're attracted to you and you have some game. Don't buy into people who go on tirades about "modern women" or "western women". There is a small but loud minority of women who are man hating, but they're usually some combination of fat, ugly, and annoying to …
/r/seduction17/12/25 07:06 AM
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Tinder Came over after she and her friends were at a bar close to mine. Pretty easy
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:46 PM
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That's great man, I'm glad you had a good time. Creating a social circle with athletic people is top tier- it'll definitely lead to more dating action.
/r/seduction08/12/25 07:12 AM
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A little alcohol makes it easier Unless you're getting blackout drunk, you can still learn from it
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:31 AM
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Loooootta baddies at run clubs
/r/seduction07/12/25 05:41 PM
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Agreed. I remember when there was that one guy who made some ad where he "gave away" a tinder pick up like that was like "you're so cute but so fat" "***FAR" "omg great job (insert name here) (gif with facepalm)" and every MF online was using it A lot of the texting behaviors I've learned from old PWF vids made my text game and flirting really good
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:52 PM
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Swipe up on stories Have a good profile that would make them want to respond
/r/seduction05/12/25 04:09 AM
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This sub got bombarded with incel losers at some point after it was temporarily locked back in 2020ish. Glad to see there are still some good reasonable people left
/r/seduction20/11/25 05:12 AM
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I didn't say to go and start rubbing up on some girl at the bar or being pushy. You have to approach multiple people to find someone that's interested, which is why going to the bar is nice, because there are a lot of people there. You flirt/escalate with someone who's interested, not just any rando As for your question, I have plenty of numbers/IGs from women I've met out. Some I chose to not meet up with, some I've hooked up with. Women don't stay single forever and they don't always stay inte…
/r/seduction02/11/25 06:50 PM
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If all your bar conversations are plain and never lead to anything, you need to do better at flirting and escalating. Going out to places where people are looking to socialize isn't a trap. Again you don't have to drink/spend a lot of money if you don't want to. Also, I've met plenty of educated women at the bar- it's not just a place degens go
/r/seduction02/11/25 06:02 PM
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I'm not sure what bars you're picking and where you live, but there are plenty of women at the bars I go to. I'm not saying you have to go right into the middle of the dance floor- there are areas near the edges where people will be chilling and talking, maybe lightly dancing. That's where its best to chat up people As for the alcoholism thing, I only ever drink when I go out. Maybe once a week, maybe twice a month, maybe once a month. You don't even have to drink if you don't want to, but it de…
/r/seduction01/11/25 07:33 PM
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Bars are great. I go out with my buddy pretty often to run some game and we've had some success. Gotta have some fun with it and you can't be afraid to face rejection Ideal place is a bar where there's music and dancing, but not so loud/bright that you can't communicate
/r/seduction01/11/25 06:42 PM
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Just avoid patients. You're not prohibited from drinking or having sex outside of work (unless you're at one of those weird religious places that make you sign a contract). Obviously, if you see one of them, don't slam 15 shots in front of them or whip your dick out, but otherwise, you're fine to proceed as usual
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:04 PM
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It covers the strains that cause genital warts, plus the strains most likely to cause cancer. You can also get the vaccine as an adult, it's just better to get as a young person prior to sexual activity That said, I'm still probably not going down date one unless there's some extenuating circumstance
/r/seduction25/10/25 09:36 PM
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-Make her feel as comfortable as possible (offer phone charger, put on music, show her where the bathroom is, etc.) -Open wine bottle in front of her and pour there so she knows I didn't do anything weird with the bottle -joke, flirt, escalate -some want to have sex, some don't, some say they want to but don't want to that night. That last category usually ghosts me after the date for some reason. All is well as long as you respect "no".
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:35 PM
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None, but I've used basic text game skills I learned from PWF's YouTube videos to do so. His older stuff mostly
/r/seduction22/10/25 06:40 PM
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The bar is one of the best places. Everyone is socially primed at the bar Try going out with a friend so you can approach groups of more than 1 easily
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:03 PM
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Lead with money + nothing else desirable about you = get used for money Lead with attraction + no other stability in life= get used for sex Have attraction + living a healthy lifestyle = fulfilling relationship
/r/seduction17/10/25 10:10 AM
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Straight for the kill DM-wise. As in opening with a date offer I agree though that you should be making moves as soon as you meet them so you're not wasting your time
/r/seduction16/10/25 04:18 PM
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Yeah definitely don't respond to her old ones. I'd say this one is a lost cause, but in the future, you could first try to do a story response and if not, send a cold DM but just start with some light banter/flirting and then transition as I said above
/r/seduction16/10/25 10:15 AM
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As long as she's not giving you an STD and you're not getting her pregnant, there's no logical reason to worry after a hookup. That said, if you feel like you're leading these girls on and feel bad about it, then maybe that's something to address
/r/seduction16/10/25 10:00 AM
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You went straight for the kill and didn't do any of the prerequisite steps. What you did only works if your IG is primed for it (i.e you're attractive, you have pics of you looking attractive, and you have pics of you doing attractive things) What's better to do is start with a story swipe up, not a cold DM. Then you flirt/banter for a few messages, soft close, then hard close
/r/seduction16/10/25 09:57 AM
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Using the apps that barely anyone uses isn't going to help you out much. If you're having issues on tinder, hinge, and bumble, fix your profile rather than switching to a less popular app. Unless ofc you're looking for a niche like BLK, loxclub, or any of the other niche apps
/r/seduction15/10/25 04:53 PM
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It's a scary thought but you just have to live with the uncertainty. Fortune favors the bold For me, I'd say to avoid crazy chicks if you can and to otherwise just be cool and good humored, especially after you bang
/r/seduction15/10/25 12:06 AM
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Just get the hotel man
/r/seduction14/10/25 02:26 AM
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Don't worry too much about that. Horny chicks who want to bang don't give a fuck about those groups and women actually worth dating are going to be focused on their life and won't be spending time perusing the chronically online women Facebook page
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:07 PM
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