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For crying out loud, you can get it on Amazon for less than 5 bucks, including shipping. If finding five dollars to buy a book seems like too much effort, MRP probably isn't the place for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 02:03 PM
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Absolutely agree with you about the double edged sword bit - "Don't judge me!" is often just shorthand for "I know I am fucking up, but would appreciate it if you didn't call me on it." Interestingly enough, you seem to be using the kind of criticism TheWolfMMSL is advocating in your post (you THINK he's overly wordy, not he IS overly wordy). I'm not sure if I agree with him that you shouldn't judge others, but his practical advice is pretty much in line with what you're saying - judge people ef…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 05:24 PM
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You just gotta keep doing it. When I started applying RP to my relationship, I had kind of the same problem. Sex with my fiancee had become all about making sure she loved every second of it, and not at all about what I wanted, and I was getting tired of it. What held me back was the idea that if I was upfront and unapologetic about what I wanted, she'd laugh me out of the bedroom. Start small, and work your way up. Each time you have the sex you want instead of the sex Cosmo says you should wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 09:40 PM
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Does she actually want to have sex with you or is she just reluctantly putting out to keep you around? If you don't turn her on, she's not going to try very hard, and it's no surprise you find sex with her underwhelming. I find it particularly telling that you think of having sex with her as "defiling" her, and see it as a bad thing. That's some serious white knight shit, and there's nothing that makes women drier than getting put on a pedestal. Drag her down off that pedestal, remorselessly use…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 09:06 PM
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I need to let go of the past. Things have gotten 1000% better in my relationship since I took the pill, but the reflexes I developed in my BP days are still there. The real problem is now I sometimes say and do the petty, vindictive things I fantasized about back then, even though there's literally no justification for it now. I still flinch a little when she calls me, and assume that she's just calling to make demands and accusations. I berate her for the way she treated me years ago. I assume …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/15 05:03 PM
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I don't think it's one of those things like lifting that you 100% should be doing. While "just be yourself" is incredibly shitty advice, "Be the best version of yourself" is what RP is all about. The best version of me is loud, crass and charming, and that works just fine for me. If the best version of you is quietly intense, own it! I would guess that there's a bit of a sample selection issue with RP advice about humor and sex. The sort of man who writes advice blogs is probably going to be gre…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 11:08 PM
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I've always thought of humor during sex as being alpha for a couple of reasons: It shows outcome independence. If you can risk rejection with a smile on your face and a joke on your lips, you must not be that bothered by the thought of rejection. If you want to use the samurai analogy, think about it this way: What is a better example of gleeful indifference to death: The guy who's praying and shitting himself on the way to battle, or the guy making everyone laugh with painfully stupid knock kno…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 04:52 PM
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You make a good point, and I think the idea of A+B-, etc. is really useful. I think one of the keys to making this transition is letting go of your anger. When I first took the pill, my anger was what kept me going. If your mindset is "I will see the world burned to ash before I bow to her again!", A+B- possibilities will be everywhere, and the mere thought of doing anything with a B+ element to it makes you shake with rage. I'm starting to come out of the anger phase now, and I'm realizing that…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 02:10 PM
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Effectively delegating responsibility is one of the most important things a leader does. By putting her in charge of something you both know she has a knack for, you're showing that you're a good leader. Doing it yourself to prove a point is the sort of thing an enraged 2 year old would do.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 09:54 PM
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There's generally very little to be gained by letting women know you've taken the pill. I'm not fanatical about it, but I make an effort not to leave RP-related reading material where it can be found. If you're looking for a place to read where she won't be breathing down your neck, maybe bring a book to the pub and read while you have a pint.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 02:51 PM
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That's the idea. If you know you have a break coming up, it's easy to put aside distractions until then. On that note, you might want to also consider taking more, shorter breaks instead of one long one after 3 hours of work - it's much easier to delay gratification for 45 minutes than 3 hours. Also, you've probably gotten most of the real benefit out of the break in the first 15-20 minutes. That's enough time for your mind to refresh itself so you can go back to work refreshed. A bunch of short…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 01:52 PM
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That's actually pretty good advice. I have slept with a woman who enjoyed having her mouth covered during sex who would sing nursery rhymes or commercial jingles to goad me into (gently) silencing her. It might be a shit test in the most technical of senses - a woman doing something aggravating to see if you can handle it like a man, but she might be doing it for the best of reasons - she may want you to show her who's boss in a way you will both enjoy.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 09:55 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 08:00 PM
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Have you ever tried the Pomodoro method? Basically, buy a cheap kitchen timer, and set it to 45 minutes. While it's ticking, you work. No excuses, no "just gonna pop on Reddit for a sec", just work. When it dings, you set it to 15 minutes. Do whatever the fuck you want for that time. The beauty of it is that if you start to get distracted, you can just tell yourself "I am getting a break in 20 minutes. Am I really so weak that I can't wait 20 minutes to read the sports page?" Do 2 of these cycle…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 07:53 PM
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I wrote a covert contract and acted like a bitch when she didn't hold up her side last night. My fiancee is going to be out of town for the next 10 days starting tomorrow, and I worked all weekend, so I skipped my jujitsu class to spend some time with her last night, in the hopes that I would get laid. Relatively early in the night, I went in for a kiss, and tried to escalate from there. She shut me down, and I got all pissy about it. Not as much as I would have before I took the pill, but enoug…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 04:42 PM
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