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IMO it's kind of naive to think it doesn't largely have to do with peak physical attractiveness. It also doesn't have to be a hard "OR", to your point about younger women having less money and inhibitions. It's both, and (likely) a couple of other factors we're missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:17 AM
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A decent part of this community live on the extremes and fight for their side, hence your 18-21 'peak age' belief. +1 to you being on here too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:13 AM
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My parents grew up in an era where people shouldn't have had kids because nuclear weapons were going to wipe everyone out + global cooling meant humanity was doomed. Before their time, it was the great depression. Before that, etc etc etc. There's always something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:56 PM
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That second article is absolutely useless due to the author and book submitted as evidence (see here). Anything else to back this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:44 PM
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What a sad worldview. I hope you don't find yourself lonely and full of regret when you're older.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:38 PM
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I come on these subs to be entertained and to learn what people on the extremes believe in these subjects. IMO, the majority of active participants (posters and commenters) on TRP, FDS, TBP, MGTOW, and PPD etc. are on an extreme end and are looking to bond with other people with their point of view + pull others in their direction. I think the moderates mostly passively observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:32 PM
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This view is not the reality I've witnessed first hand as a 33 y/o male with a background similar to OP's. I know a number of well adjusted young women with good familial relationships who go for dudes 6-8-10 years older than them. Families are often fine with this as the parental generation often has age gaps like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:27 PM
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Correct, I consider us the same age, which in hindsight wasn't clear from my reply. I've dated younger women before and could still do so today, but went with someone closer to my age since it's what I prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:35 PM
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33 y/o man here, agree with all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:54 AM
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33 here. I'm in a LTR with a woman who is seven months younger than me and I am very happy. If I couldn't get a younger woman, I would try to find someone to me in age who has made the right choices with their physical and mental wellbeing as the wheels have started to really fall off for folks who haven't taken care of themselves at this point. Don't really care what other men do - everyone needs to find what makes them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:53 AM
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+1 to this. Finding out what not to do can be helpful - totally depends on each situation. Isn't black and white. For example, if a guy who has no game gives me tips for picking up women and tries to frame it "here's what i know: women are shallow creatures, you have to be a suave blah blah blah..." obviously discard and move on. Flip side, if a similar guy goes "here's what I've tried that didn't work for me: opening with a one-liner didn't work, women told me that they were turned off by baggy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:12 AM
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Great reply, thanks for taking the time. You've opened my eyes (and hopefully others) to some very real alternatives outside of the US. I only just visited a Nordic country (Sweden) for the first time last year and talking to a friend who lives there about the lifestyle confirms a number of your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:57 PM
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TBF, your list was pretty non-specific (e.g. "Western Europe" vs specific countries, "parts of China") and many of the things you point out as advantages of Western Europe depend quite heavily on the country in question. What do you think are the best countries in that region over the USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:13 AM
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Bingo. 33 y/o male here and I have a very similar story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:11 PM
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The assholes I know are assholes regardless of how attractive or successful they are. Money and success does generally amplify your baseline personality but I haven't seen the switch flip altogether, personally. Totally agreed that attractiveness reigns supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:09 PM
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Link to these studies? First I've heard of them and want to learn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:36 AM
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/r/atheism has 2.5m members.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 02:16 AM
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Fair points, but that top 20 pct also includes the top 15-10-5 etc. You're acting as if the entire top 20 pct is in the 80th percentile. Definitely a big gap from someone in 80th vs 90th vs 95th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:45 AM
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I'm 33 y/o man in a serious relationship and a lot of your post resonates with me. This shit is spot on. But the irony of life is, I’m not really interested in that at 33. I like feeling wanted sexually, but that’s about it. Sex doesn’t really appeal to me. What does appeal to me, however, is power. Knowing that you’re wanted, seeing and feeling a woman escalate, and knowing that she wants you sexually and financially, but that you got anything and everything you wanted from her already ... to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:11 PM
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I don't think so... having personally gone from being a total dork and generally clueless with women to figuring out how to talk to them, getting my body fit, grooming, basics of dressing stylishly etc. at 6'3'' with a mixed background that chicks dig, I've experienced both sides of this. I was shocked at the attention I got when I figured shit out. My younger self wouldn't believe what was possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:53 PM
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fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:30 AM
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more anecdotes and straw man arguments - shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:20 AM
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This. Claims to be "happy" to have it changed and yet OP is using every fallacy in the book in these replies and it's nauseating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:55 PM
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Since we're going with anecdotes, I'm a 33 year old man and every guy my age prefers to date a woman < 30 and acts upon that. Going with real-world data instead of useless anecdotes, just look no further than this study from okcupid: https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-case-for-an-older-woman-99d8cabacdf5 Some facts taken from the findings: This skewed mindset worsens with age; the median 42 year-old [man] will accept a woman up to fifteen years younger, but no more than three years older. No matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:52 PM
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if i had a two inch dick and my only way to get laid was with her then yeah, maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:30 PM
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yes yes - currently in one from bumble on track for marriage, also know many other couples who are in LTRs / married after meeting via apps no yes, and TBH you sound insecure. Grass is greener with apps is, arguably, no different than any other form of coming into contact with other potential suitors (bar, workplace, shared interests, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 06:30 PM
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Wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 11:32 PM
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generally agree. different strokes for different folks, though... especially in non-western cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:22 AM
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Agreed, OP. Sad fact is that the masses, particularly women, generally won't understand those points regardless. Best to just take this knowledge and apply it to yourself to attract whoever you're trying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:46 AM
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