disso Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Lying and what it means socially	Red Pill Example	disso	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 06:20 PM

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6	Female divorce lawyer tells it like it is An interview if anyone is interested: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTAZN2AyqjE	/r/MensRights	30/05/14 04:11 PM
3	RP lessons for my son Smile less, smirk more I love this counter-conventional wisdom advice(Non-genuine smiling at someone before even talking probably shows an eagerness to appease and pulls you out of frame without even talking) that comes from red-pill type thinking. While I understand the importance of teaching your son the red pill ways about women, currently I am learning the social dynamics for men that I didn't bother with when I was younger so that I can teach my son. Some things I believe: Boys benefit trem…	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/14 04:23 PM
5	She Rode the Carousel Until She Hit the Wall, Hard Chronic One-itis. You spend all your time pining after a girl instead of building your social and sexual repertoire. While women can't reduce the number of carousels that they have rode it is possible for a man to increase his experience and status. Also, like someone said above it's more about keeping your head above the water than trying to get a good initial investment. Actually, I suppose the opposite of the carousel for men could be someone who hasn't invested in himself gaining wealth, lif…	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/14 08:04 PM
1	I'm an obese red piller, 350 pounds. Because exercise is boring, monotonous, My theory is that the best exercise is to play like a kid. I think most kids actually do natural interval training. They have intense bursts followed by down time. I think a good game of tag with a jungle-gym nearby would be great exercise. Anyways, I'd say people aren't going to exercise if it doesn't feel worth it. There has to be either a social aspect, a fun aspect, or a greater-than-it-normally-is rewarding feeling to it in order for a person to conti…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 06:09 PM
1	I'm an obese red piller, 350 pounds. I've struggled with keto myself, which seems stupid because I really get results when I stick with it. I made a medication change and just packed on like 20 pounds in no time and had to question whether it had just been medication side effects all along that made it seem like I was in control of my weight. Anyways, I think we are in less control of our own appetite than we are led to believe. I think we have to find the right things to eat that lead our appetite to balance. The past couple days …	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 05:59 PM
1	I'm an obese red piller, 350 pounds. Here's one from Tom Naughton's blog. I didn't expect to watch the whole thing but I just seemed to hit every nail so directly on the head that I loved it: http://www.fathead-movie.com/index.php/2013/12/17/speech-diet-health-and-the-wisdom-of-crowds/ Also, his new character vs. chemistry articles seem really interesting to me.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 05:53 PM
0	I'm an obese red piller, 350 pounds. A keto dinner wouldn't have either beer or ice cream. It's a high-fat, very-low carbohydrate diet. To be strict people would want to stay under 20g of carbs a day while getting most of their calories from fat to fill themselves up. Most people in keto believe that this helps regulate appetite(probably working to help resolve Metabolic Syndrome if the dieter is that far along) and control their appetite so they eat a normal amount of calories. I myself am of the opinion that on the right-type of …	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 05:49 PM
1	TRP Beyond sexual strategy Oh, we are using validation differently. I don't know if there's a proper way, but I use validation as a term for :receiving a rewarding response or stimulus that feels worth the effort put in to receive it. So like a rat pulling a lever to get a crouton or a morphine hit. So I meant staying at home playing video games, watching "movies", taking naps, eating things. Also including productive things like reading, learning something, playing music, and cleaning/reorganizing as long as I'm feeling(…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 05:36 PM
1	TRP Beyond sexual strategy I'm am/was your opposite. For the most part I don't care about what other people think or whatever; I am usually happy to be in my own little world. However, I would say that I am very sexual and had difficulty understanding and expressing that even in LTRs. One thing that is weird about me is that I realized that I wasn't interested in hanging out with other guys unless it was for playing music or the possibility of meeting women. So I feel that I've learned that I need to truly enjoy the compa…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 04:59 PM
7	You want some reinforcement of TRP? Look at the ages, statistics, and responses of this mathematician's OKCupid hack. I got so excited while reading the second page. The project this guy did simply gave him abundance theory(Although I love the initiative he took and think he probably has a possibly lucrative deal he could now work with a dating website): The rejection stung, but he was still getting 20 messages a day. Dating with his computer-endowed profiles was a completely different game. He could ignore messages consisting of bad one-liners. He responded to the ones that showed a sense of humor or displayed…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/14 03:34 PM
1	My best friend is about to ruin his life. Should I get involved? Slightly off-topic, but I have this theory that trying to convince someone about something is a terrible way to change their mind. My advice is instead to talk about yourself. Use "I" statements. "I'm worried that you aren't being a leader in your own relatioship." "If there's issues I hope you know you can always come to me even though I'll give you shit for it." "I feel in a relationship a man has to set the boundaries regarding respect." Just musing here but how is this guy's relationship wit…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 06:41 PM
1	I Never Thought My Son Would Play With Guns Mortified, I imagined his teachers' reactions when they saw it. Women worrying about what other women will think. Now I realize the concern over ridiculous zero-tolerance suspension and trouble here, but I think for her this is about what other women will think. Which is admittedly what a woman is supposed to be concerned with.	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 06:19 PM
2	How to become wittier / funnier (on a fundamental level)? I've been letting the theory on funny run through my head. I'm not ready to write it all up yet, but here are some of the pieces. Funny comes from a place of emotional connectedness not conscious, forced intelligence. Mindfulness helps you connect with people; it may help you be funnier. Funny typically consists of factors of social hierarchy, vulnerability, and confidence/congruence. Funny is teasing a girl instead of trying to placate her. Funny is embracing the ridiculous reality of a situati…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 05:48 PM
-1	7 Reasons Why Meeting Women During the Day is So Damn Easy But work. Actually this can help bolster the value of a job where you don't sit in one place/building all day or a job where you can set your own hours.	/r/seduction	15/01/14 09:40 PM
2	Why Children should be raised with their biological father. I was saying that the parent gets custody because they are receiving support(not vice versa). Custody had never been brought to question but the man is by default sued for child support by the State's Attorney. They make sure to establish paternity and do the financial affadavit, but there is never any question or consultation about father's rights or custody arrangements. Yes, that is something a father should have to see a lawyer for, but then it's not fair for him to lose a fair chance at cus…	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 04:48 PM
4	Why Children should be raised with their biological father. My state has something like that. However, the state will still sue the man for child support on behalf of the mother(Perhaps only for children that benefit from Medical assistance programs). Of course, the parent receiving child support is by default the custodial parent(it's a law on the books, not just in practice). So even though my state is supposed to be impartial, the state effectively sues the man for custody by default and unless the man consults a lawyer it's not even clear that this h…	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 05:19 AM
26	Women Never Suck Dick In Their Stories I think you nailed it. Women demonstrating they have options and social value because that is what they desire from men. Men demonstrating they are submissive(easy to get along with) and "pure"(trying to hide their sexual side) because that's what they are desiring from women.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/14 04:43 AM
1	So, you're gonna get asked "Where are you from?" in EVERY conversation - answer like this and you will get girls super interested and prevent conversations from stalling You 7 statements all indicate 3 things. 1) That you have plenty of social experience and 2) That you can draw from this experience to make generalizations 3) That you don't care if you are wrong; you are here to make connections and have fun. It's good to learn this dynamic. It can be helped by making sure that you do get lots of social experience. More social connections give you more to talk about(connections to make) with present and future prospects. Learning to relax and not worry about mak…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 07:02 PM
1	An Open Letter To Married Men kids growing up with their biological father fare far better in life. I know it's much more a MRA than TRP things, but men can get custody sometimes. While it's not at all TRP idealogy, I think if you are already trapped in marriage having the wife contemplate that she might have to spend more on lawyers then she will receive in child-support or could possibly have to pay her ex-husband child support could affect that nothing to lose mindset. Of course I would hope that men would only do this if…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 06:25 PM
3	Beta husband Update II. No divorce, husband denies sex, wife gets extremely clingy and wants to please him. While thinking through all my own BS below, I think I came closer to the real issue. This woman was someone else's sex object and her husband now knows it. He is intuitive of the incongruence that while he is now her husband he feels like he's getting her leftovers. Why does this bother him so much? Well, I would suppose that because of what he has intuitioned(?) about hypergamy he realizes that there could soon and easily be another guy that will effortlessly take her away from him and he will …	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 06:16 PM
56	Learned the Wrong Lesson Here's the thing, she followed his lead. He acted like it was a bad thing and then so did she. He acted like it required a public-flailing and then she gave him one. She gave him what he acted like he deserved; even in chastising him these women were following this man's lead.	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 05:14 PM
17	Learned the Wrong Lesson I was thinking about this. Besides whatever personal predilections she would have had, once this guy made it public she had to take action regarding her reputation. She couldn't be the girl who let some beta-apologists smack her ass, she went the extra-mile to ensure that all female-retribution(which seems to be appeal to authority, which is funny because I just was saying how it's terrible thing for a guy to do) was done to show all betas that they shall not be unapologetically friendly with he…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 04:57 PM
2	Other red pills? I think a point to be made here is that protesting is an appeal to authority, a very blue-pill move. Understanding the system and using it to your advantage or vision could be the ideal. Forge your path, make some money, and then run for office. Start small: city council, county board, school board, library board, non-profit board of directors. Don't beg for change, work for change. I realize a "movement" does have work involved. Maybe an interesting mind-exercise would be examining how that is …	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 04:39 PM
2	Other red pills? Besides the keto-flu, which may stem from lacking minerals like potassium, I think it would be useful for keto-ers to know about the body's energy pathways. Currently, from what I've read it's probably best to eat white rice or white potatoes if you really want to re-fuel(from a primal perspective) on a Cyclical or Targeted Ketogenic Diet. From http://sportsmedicine.about.com/od/sportsnutrition/a/Energy_Pathways.htm Nutrients get converted to ATP based upon the intensity and duration of activity…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 04:25 PM
3	Other red pills? Oh man, I just posted this in another thread but it's perfect for here. I think I'll quote myself I try not to be preachy, but this actually wasn't my first red pill. I feel that my first red pill was learning about the misguided path of diet and nutrition. I've been dying to share this video and it covers some interesting concepts that apply to red pill as well(the wisdom of crowds vs. the vision of the anointed). However, I was the choir being preached to (so basically 40 minutes of validation…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 04:11 PM
3	Immediately thought of the RP when I saw this Well, since the McGovern Commitee was around 1970 it doesn't even seem to take much more than 1 generation. I try not to be preachy, but this actually wasn't my first red pill. I feel that my first red pill was learning about the misguided path of diet and nutrition. I've been dying to share this video and it covers some interesting concepts that apply to red pill as well(the wisdom of crowds vs. the vision of the anointed). However, I was the choir being preached to (so basically 40 minutes of …	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 03:37 PM
2	A Tony Montana quote I find relevant to TRP I understand where you are coming from but I think I had some realization of the nuances here. As a blue piller, most of what you do to get a woman is actually going to drive her away. So what probably ends up happening is that the blue piller adopts a "wait and see" game so that he at least doesn't end up driving away the object of his affection immediately. He has the idea that he has to "play it cool" but that's probably because he has been inundated with blue-pill ideas so pretty much any ti…	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 02:49 PM
2	Divorce aint so bad The first time I heard that was in this Chris Rock movie	/r/TheRedPill	10/01/14 04:54 AM
1	Lying and what it means socially Amazing feedback I'm getting here. One of the mind-excersizes I try to use as a parent is to wonder, "Why is this ok for an adult to do, but not a kid?" It seems that adults are expected to more-fully understand their circumstance and have the responsibility and resources to withstand the consequences of their actions. The point is I was wondering why it is ok for adults to lie and if I should not be teaching my son that lying was absolutely bad. My idea and the feedback here instead gives me th…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 07:41 PM
3	The basics explained, and our direction for 2014. Looks are the quickest and first factor that women can use to assign you a value. Let's say social value is a number scale 0 - 100 and that women are looking for 80+. A man with looks that start him out at 50 is much more likely to make the cut than a man whose looks start him out at 20. Also, there is an upward spiral. Since looks can infer a social value a good-looking man is more likely to have confidence because he gets more validation for doing the same things a less-good-looking man would …	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/14 04:50 PM
8	Short simple FR: The power of dominance. I'm still working out the kinks, but as a man this is a way of building, establishing, and affirming rapport with people. However, if you do it before you are really ready(like fake it til you make it) then you will be in-congruent and it won't go well. So, don't start with your boss but you should be practicing this back and forth with other men and let your comfort grow with it. Also, redpill led me to the realization that the men that take a lot of good-natured shit (shaming and shock-value) …	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/13 06:19 PM
1	Why is a man who rejected me still basically acting like my beta orbiter? While I agree with what the others are saying about the age difference, I wonder if the answer is much simpler: You aren't his top best risk vs reward prospect at the moment. I realize you cover this, but it sounds to me like a guy who is already getting what he wants(or is hoping to) somewhere else, but knows that he'll regret missing out on the "hot, young thing" once his current relationship/fwb/prospect finally starts to sour. That being said I'm now remembering a few times I "passed" on a g…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/13 05:07 PM
1	Tomorrow I go to jail for child support. I hate to hear it. I hate to hear that there are fathers out there doing they best they can for the kids and not only do they struggle against the other parent but the the legal system, too. I hope the best for you and I hope things change someday soon.	/r/MensRights	19/12/13 05:37 PM
1	Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women [72 mins] Well you are right but you can't tell people to just have fun. I bet a lot of people here think that to achieve being social-interesting, clever, and charming that they have to be "smarter" about it. I'm of the opinion now that theses come from an "emotional connectedness" that can't be forced through intellectual social ideas and theory. This comes from things like building yourself up(actually not verbally), growing your social network, connecting to people, having a purpose, and mindfulness.	/r/seduction	18/12/13 05:46 PM
2	Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women [72 mins] Girls have their own game, man. Hair, make-up, cleavage, photogenic poses, social-proofing and whatever else. Both genders try to put their best foot forward based on what they know and what they have learned. It's just that most people do it somewhat subconsciously and now some people are trying to actively learn how to do it .	/r/seduction	18/12/13 05:40 PM
1	Probably obvious for the rest of you guys, but coming to this realization was a revelation for a recovering passive-aggressive "nice guy" like myself: Mindfulness in Plain English	/r/seduction	03/12/13 03:06 PM
2	The Difference between TRP and RPW I greatly enjoy the redpill and try to use the information found there as best I can. I also love the perspective you have here, as I just couldn't figure out the in-congruence of what women needed and wanted. However, I really am a believer in that all people are capable of all things and am especially frustrated when something that could benefit society at large is overlooked because of sexism, racism, or really any non-rational reason. I'm not doing this to be snarky but this xkcd comic menti…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/13 05:39 PM
5	Mania erupts in /r/relationships when OP's boyfriend tells her that he'd hypothetically have no involvement with the child if a woman ever forced him into fatherhood I plan on letting any women I date in the future know that should we have a child and then break-up, I plan on having custody and will very effectively fight for it. Since, that's my situation now they will have no reason to doubt me. I haven't really dated, but I'm interested in the reaction of women when faced with the prospect that an unplanned pregnancy could have them paying me child support for the next 18 years. I think that will be great filter.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/13 10:44 PM
1	What women mean when they say they want a nice guy. It's not just women. This is how men feel out and establish social hierarchy and connections. Through shit-talking/banter. People who can make fun of each other are typically comfortable with each other. This is why Agree & Amplify is such a valuable tool. When you banter like this with a woman you are treating her like one-of-the-guys, showing her a bit of your "social repertoire" and for sure not putting her on a pedestal. In this instance I would say the "nice guy" part is a combination of "i…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 05:01 PM
4	What Seddit had taught me... It may not have hurt, but something like that is trying so hard to get into her frame right from the start I would expect it wouldn't even make sense to her at first. My counter-conventional advice is say something about yourself. Why are you going that way. Then you maybe you can be curious. "How far are you going?" "Aren't you tired?" "Will you carry me the rest of the way?" (Don't forget to joke around and don't take things too seriously.)	/r/seduction	18/11/13 06:09 PM
3	Girl laments loss of her beta male friend & tries to shame all men into staying in the "friend zone" Your 2nd paragraph especially put into words what I was trying to figure out about that part.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 06:00 PM
2	A Beginners Guide for What to Say I've been working on a whole mind shift for this to move past the beginner crutches and into the intermediate conversational realm. Instead of trying to get into a conversation with someone, you will provide them with opportunities to connect with you. You don't want to be an interviewer; you assume that people want to hear what you have to say. So how do you do this. First, stop asking questions. Asking questions keeps putting you out of your frame and into theirs. Instead you make statements o…	/r/seduction	11/11/13 05:30 PM
2	Its been almost a year since I've seen my son. Got to take him trick or treating tonight In my state the state's attorney will sue the father for child support, but the father can skip court if he provides income documentation and agrees to pay. Because of another law on the books the parent receiving child support is automatically assumed to be the custodial parent. So basically when the state sues the father for child support, they are also suing for custody for the mother but that isn't indicated anywhere because that's not even how it's supposed to work. But the father, knowing …	/r/MensRights	01/11/13 05:20 PM
2	My friend made this video about approaching. I thought you'd enjoy it. Mindfulness in Plain English	/r/seduction	30/10/13 07:20 PM
9	Spot Pricing (ONS) vs Forward Contracts (marriage) in the Sexual Market You know what's really ironic from this. That a woman getting married early(to an older man) and staying in that marriage is really the economic way for her to buy-in with her highest SMV and maximize her potential return. That kind of sounds like the pre-sexual-revolution marriage ideal doesn't it?	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/13 04:06 PM
1	The pill is better again, only now it's men I loathe. My ex was super dominant in the relationship, as well as at work where she held a high position, and was in line to becoming an executive ... I realized that in reality, she wanted everything outside of her work-life to be taken care of. She sounds like an alpha male that needs a good stay-at-home/socialite partner. Unfortunately for these women, I believe they still crave an even more alpha partner, but since they are already filling that role it doesn't work out for them.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/13 03:47 PM
4	A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to Seduction I can relate with you a lot. I have a tool that I recently used to break the "sex" ice recently. The tool is to get people talking about Wants, Passions, Hopes, Dreams, and/or Experiences instead of interviewing people. You want to get them to talk about fun things. I was playing a question game(over text) thinking "how do I make this sexual." I asked her "What's the craziest thing you have done in the middle of the night?" and she replied about a sexual experience. I made sure when I replied to…	/r/seduction	17/10/13 10:19 PM
19	A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to Seduction Great post. I love it when people describe the theory, give examples, and then tell some results. There's one thing you touched on that I've been thinking about, and I think I disagree with what you said: This sounds so simple that it can't possibly be true, but it is! All I do is ask questions. This was when you asked about her wine-tasting cat. Now where I digress is you didn't excel here because you asked a question, you excelled here because: I love wine, so I would ask if she's been wine ta…	/r/seduction	17/10/13 06:26 PM
2	My friend is a natural. Here's a description of his personality. I'm incredibly interested in this; I didn't realize you had this persective. Even though I've broken the situation down into my understanding I still hadn't realized there was a way to be above the shit-talking, which I believe was kind of natural to me when I was younger. I got along well when I was younger even though I was socially oblivious, perhaps due to being very active and confident. However, the said rough transition to adult-hood may have been part of what has brought me to this place…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 07:29 PM
1	My friend is a natural. Here's a description of his personality. Now the passage into manhood just marks a period of heavy drinking and partying. I'm having the odd realization that I didn't do a ton of this when most of my peers did, and I did have a rough transition to adult-hood. Up until this point in my life I was mostly uninterested in any social interaction that wouldn't possibly lead to getting paid or laid. Oddly enough I would say that these are also to two things in my life that I seem to be most unsuccessful at obtaining taking into account my oth…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 05:35 PM
2	My friend is a natural. Here's a description of his personality. Simply I agree with you, but as much as I didn't care for Jackass it was hugely popular and almost a universal conversation topic. But that's why I'm here. There is a very strong social device behind this behavior and the way it establishes this guy's social standing. The thought of this guy doing these things makes me cringe, but I still want to understand it. Also, part of why I'm here is finally actually seeing and realizing these personality traits I've never liked working in people and soci…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 05:28 PM
1	My friend is a natural. Here's a description of his personality. Your friend has an unshakeable frame and a crap-ton of social capital in the form of excitement of the new, and social excitement. I used to boil down seduction into women want the man who gives them the most to talk about. You can actually learn a lot from the way he tests people. It is social-banter technique used to establish social hierarchy in boys. It's funny to think, if this were in the context of some tribe I suppose he would either be leadership or a banished nomad which is a theory on…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 05:02 PM
3	My friend is a natural. Here's a description of his personality. but how is the randomly antagonizing people stuff attractive at all This is typical social hierarchy establishment. Boys use a game to establish social positions and it is shit-talking. The object is to gauge someone's comfort-level with the group and within that person. A comfortable person in their comfortable group won't be afraid to shit-talk back even harder. An uncomfortable person will try to rationalize or diffuse the shit-talking or lose their cool. Since he is willing to push the game …	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 04:50 PM
4	Woman hits wall at 100000 km/h and doesn't know what to do. I have this tendency to look at a situation and wonder how a person could fix it. I realize she's of no consequence to the people here, but she's a person and there should be something she could try to improve her life. My first thought is she should just look for an open-relationship. Get herself grounded in a situation like that, then perhaps she can better decide what she really needs or wants. However, she is probably out there saying she is "tired of playing games" and "looking for a man wh…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 04:24 PM
3	Woman hits wall at 100000 km/h and doesn't know what to do. Surprised this idea still seems to be so rare here. I like to make the CEO at his own company analogy. The CEO isn't afraid what people think, isn't to make decisions, to tell people what they should be doing, cuss, to have a flask of whiskey or enforce the no-drinking policy, to do what he is meant to do. This is tied in with being in-state. Being at that level where you feel in comfort and control. This is why you are fun with your friends but quiet with strangers. This is why you feel comfort…	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/13 04:17 PM
3	Women like attention more than they like sex? Ok, I'd love to chime in here. Recently I had come to the realization that women don't care so much about "good sex". As I was thinking of this another redditor stated that since he stopped trying to be good at sex it seemed the women were more interested in him in a way. It occured to me that a man trying to provide a woman with "good sex" is seeking validation and that puts the woman as a supplier and in control(of course there are many more variables and situations). Why did I start with that…	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/13 05:09 PM
2	Thank you, thank you, thank you. Glad and unsurprised to see people interested in these ideas here. I feel like I should have linked this earlier: http://www.archevore.com/panu-weblog/2011/1/29/there-is-no-such-thing-as-a-macronutrient-part-i-fats.html This is where keto and paleo were leading my nutrition beliefs. I wouldn't expect you to even read through most of that right now, but if you try keto and paleo and want a pretty objective view on how your body uses the calories you eat, I recommend reading through that once the …	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/13 10:58 PM
7	Thank you, thank you, thank you. have you seen /r/keto, /r/paleo, and /r/leangains yet? There's some more counter-conventional information that might be useful to you.	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/13 03:20 PM
0	My mom frequently send pro-feminism mass emails to her girlfriends, including her only son (me) and her husband (my step-dad). This morning, I decided I'd had enough. I'm here late; that seems like a nice, classy response from your mom. Remember, if you guys talk about it it's not your job to change her mind. She has at least 15 more years of life experience than you. If you guys talk about this then the best plan is for the goal to be to share perspectives. There really are still biases and discrimination against women to this day. The funny thing is there are biases and discrimination against men that goes unnoticed by most people. This is a chance to share…	/r/MensRights	10/09/13 08:23 PM
2	Don't shoot yourself in the foot by taking women seriously I'm more of a theory guy than a practitioner when it comes to red-pill but I've had a relationship where I felt like we worked together. Even in review I don't notice many shit-tests or boundary pushing. However, now that I'm thinking about it most of the relationship I had a take-it-or-leave-it attitude. Even though I'm naturally a go-with-the-flow follower my subconscious may have put me in a place where I was in control in this situation without having to actively try to be the dominant one.	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/13 03:08 PM
1	Condensed notes from "What Women Really Desire" by Zan Perrion Well, it could be that taking an action despite your flaws is confidence. Having the confidence to announce your nervousness is kind of weird. It comes down to vulnerability. Vulnerability leads to connectedness and being interesting. People with high confidence can be vulnerable all the time but don't usually have to worry about it. They state their views and opinions. They initiate flirting and kino. The thing is they are not worrying(or cow-towing to) the possible social repercussions for the…	/r/seduction	30/08/13 09:02 PM
2	Female finance student whines about how hard it is to be in finance, blames it on the lack of female mentors available to her generation So what the article should say is that it's hard to find a one-on-one mentor(with the perspective on the business that you want) for a well-paying and prestigious position while you a fresh-faced intern/college-graduate? I'm not trying to say there isn't a gender disparity in the highest of finance jobs, but there are just some plain typical human/economic factors at play here too.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/13 03:12 PM
14	Female finance student whines about how hard it is to be in finance, blames it on the lack of female mentors available to her generation What am I not understanding here: (females were 56% of the finance and insurance workforce in 2012 according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics) Doesn't that mean that only 44% are male? Is she having an issue finding women that are in a position to mentor her? The numbers aren't there for one-to-one mentorship when there is already a majority?	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/13 02:36 PM
3	What adds value to a man other than monetary value? I might mangle this, but Owen says that while men typically like to stay at an emotional state of contentment, women actually enjoy feeling everything along the emotional range. However, now that I'm typing this out I'm not sure it's totally true. Men typically love to have a challenge. People pay to be challenged in gyms, rock climbing, education, puzzle books. What am I saying? Your most valuable currency is excitement. Not always roller coaster excitement. Things like interesting social situa…	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/13 04:32 PM
3	What do you guys value in a woman outside of sex? As a single-dad approaching mid-life I can think of 4 general areas where a relationship enhances a man's life. You are right, right now they aren't applicable to you, but I'm going to explain them as best I can. Someone you look forward to spending time with. Someone who continues to excite you, share your values, and doesn't bring stress due to in-congruence with your own reactions and values with life. Perhaps someone that allows you to get the right mix of external validations, but still man…	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/13 04:16 PM
1	Bill O'Reilly hits the problem with the black community on the head. Reading this thread, I was thinking about how our culture has framed children as some sort of "penalty" that men have to deal with. That coupled with the war on drugs, discriminatory sentencing, and glorification of single mothers with nearly no accountability and I just can't imagine what could be done. Change biases in the legal system and social norms in poor areas?	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/13 09:12 PM
2	Judge rules D-Wade must pay $5 million settlement to ex-wife in addition to him already paying $25,000/month alimony, mortgage, house payments, 4 cars, insurance, all taxes, and attorney fees to his wife This really got my attention: Wade was awarded sole custody of their kids actually...now that I've gone back to read it, it is not explicitly said that he is ordered to pay her any money at all her claim that Wade had not been paying his $25,000 a month in spousal support, which his attorney denied in a statement. That denial could mean that he is paying it, or it could deny that there is any spousal support at all. Shouldn't she be paying child support ?	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/13 04:24 PM
9	Above The Game Part 8: Relationships I see so many couples that started out great fizzling at this moment. I've been trying to put my finger on what causes it and if there is a way to prevent it. I suppose that a lot of it comes from the lack of motivation then leading to a lack of validation. Then the relationship gets stuck because in order for the guy to seek external validation he will have to give-up(or cheat) the main source of validation he already has. I relate this to the metaphor of climbing down a mountain to climb the n…	/r/seduction	20/05/13 07:52 PM
2	Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women? When I was in high school I would get cold-approached, but it was typically by girls that were noticeably younger. I think you were right though, girls are really good at that not-totally-direct but obviously interested approach.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 02:43 PM
3	Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women? I've been on both sides. Unfortunately, I have other issues(my last gf thinks Asperger's, but could be social anxiety or something) that keep me from having typical people experiences on both sides. As a guy, I know that when I'm in better shape that people will be much more eager to be around me. This made ice-breaking, social-proof, and event finding so much easier. Once I put on a certain amount of weight I just felt invisible. Being social wasn't an impossibility but it was all up to me; I w…	/r/seduction	09/05/13 02:38 PM
1	Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women? Oddly contextual I got a message on Facebook last night: I was pretty shy back then so I'm not sure we ever really talked about much beside the normal "howdy neighbor" type situation. I was always attracted to you though We've been talking a little bit and are kind of hitting it off. There was a long time she lived next to me I might have thought that she(and her boyfriend) didn't really like me. Although we did get acquainted back then it was very slowly. Also, my last girlfriend was crazy abou…	/r/seduction	09/05/13 02:09 PM
17	City TV is talking about UofT, and guess who's getting the short end. You might be surprised :) Is this a Canadian TV show? Her conclusion is just eloquent. I don't pay much attention to AVfM. Are they really engaging in this doxxing of sorts? That's disappointing to me if they are. I believe that this video really shows the need to remain peaceful, calm, and reasonable. I hope those active in the movement continue to represent themselves at the dignified level that this clip portrayed.	/r/MensRights	18/04/13 09:41 PM
1	What a lot of beginners don`t seem to understand, I know I didn't. BE the man you want to be. There is something hard to do here. You should separate the things you want to be from the things you think other people want you to be. If you're not happy with your fitness then work on getting in better shape for yourself. If you are happy with it then don't keep getting down on yourself because you think other people might not like it. You want to be proud of yourself. "I wanted to be better and today I worked towards it." Even better keep a journal and/or write down what you did to improve …	/r/seduction	16/04/13 02:18 PM
1	[FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUA I think that if women have a bad impression of the seduction community it's probably because of those terrible articles written for women that are like 'sleazy guys make pick up a science! I think you're right. Guys have been indoctrinated for the past few years with advice the opposite of what they should be doing and what probably would have come naturally. I think this especially affects smart and empathetic guys who overthink things.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 04:39 PM
3	[FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUA I was kind of relieved that he hadn't reacted badly, or made it awkward, and he was expressing interest in how I knew about this stuff, and made it seem like we had something to talk about I believe this is what is meant by "be yourself." Also, there is some agree & amplify.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 04:32 PM
3	It's stuff like this that makes me sick I'm glad to hear that. I would hope that a show that was centered around such things would be able to take a somewhat educated approach and bring a helpful perspective to people who hadn't considered something like that situation before.	/r/MensRights	11/01/13 03:27 PM
3	It's stuff like this that makes me sick The girls that I've in introduced to that were typically surprised that they liked it. Anyways, maybe instead of going full throttle right away you can just touch her neck. Let your fingers analyse, drag a fingernail lightly across it, and then see try putting your hands on and around it in different ways gently to see how it feels. Not only will this help you explore, but the anticipation might be good for her. It's too bad I don't know of any movies where this is done like a real couple might …	/r/MensRights	11/01/13 03:05 PM
2	"Any honest analysis of the Newtown tragedy must address the social problems caused by divorce, absent fathers, and the burdens of single motherhood." Even this point could use some clarification. How do you end up with a single parent? What about parents that remarry and step-parents? In a society of typical serial monogamy what constitutes a single-parent? Someone who isn't married but has a boyfriend/girlfriend ? What about unmarried partners living together raising kids? I guess my point is that with divorce, new relationships, and re-marriage there is actually a spectrum along the lines of single-parent to married parenting and step-paren…	/r/MensRights	03/01/13 05:37 PM
3	A tip for whenever girls say "You're not my type." Like most things it could depend on the delivery and the situation. Thinking about it some more perhaps a, "Well then what is your type?" followed by a game of "Who here would you date?" would be more fun and still confident.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 05:12 PM
1	A tip for whenever girls say "You're not my type." "Yeah, I know. Maybe someday you will raise your standards to this level."	/r/seduction	03/01/13 04:30 PM
5	So, there's lots of stuff on how to pick up girls, but what about some tips for a girl who wants to pick up guys? I think the inner game stuff definitely applies and I suppose if you master that then you shouldn't need anything else. However, there are some societal norm differences that might apply. Very stereotypically it is desirable for a man to be in charge. while it may be attractive for a woman to appear subservient or a people pleaser. We see examples of this in society where women negotiating for a raise are seen differently than men. I worry about some of the advice here sounding good, but not bei…	/r/seduction	05/12/12 06:56 PM
2	Temporary job to improve skills and meet people? Family Video. You'll be encouraged to dress well and greet everyone who comes in. There's something obvious to talk about and you get to meet people who are looking for stuff to do on evenings and weekends. Also, it's not bad for meeting girls who aren't old enough for bars and moms that can't.	/r/seduction	08/11/12 09:36 PM
1	Why I support men's rights - my story This really rubs me the wrong way for 2 reasons. 1. They were being harassed by her and didn't do anything to stop it. 2. They let someone dictate what they would do. Who the hell is running the show here? Some woman person from Maryland can get the police in WV to arrest someone with a restraining order, no evidence, and persistence? Actually in this case it sounds like the people with some since were on the low-end of this chain of command. Of course, I guess once she got him arrested she didn…	/r/MensRights	07/11/12 08:02 PM
3	Why I support men's rights - my story I think the besides venting and warning, the relevancy this has here is that she was able to use the legal system as a weapon against him. He's not arguing that she did these things because she is a woman. However, the restraining order and subsequent arrests were probably affected by gender bias. Can a man get a restraining order against a woman? Probably in some places. Without any evidence? I doubt it. Take this away from all of this. Any time anything involves you in court: get a good lawyer…	/r/MensRights	07/11/12 07:57 PM
2	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. http://www.amazon.com/Stop-Walking-Eggshells-Borderline-Personality/dp/1572246901 This tends to get worse with age, and the stress and arguments a child can bring will likely lead to exhaustion and frustration like you have never felt before. Good Lawyer, documentation. When you start to get complacent, remember what is on the line and catch-up your documenting. One time I mailed a letter to my son's mom so I would have a record that I was recommending pre-school for him and it turned out to hel…	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 08:08 PM
1	Girl Writes What's letter to a young man: privilege-blindness I upvoted this because I feel that it provides the opportunity for discussion. I want to know the counter-points to the article and I want people to have the opportunity to expand on them.	/r/MensRights	17/10/12 06:17 PM
1	In the VP debate, Paul Ryan said they'd make abortion illegal, except in cases of rape. Wouldn't that result in women, who are no longer able to get an abortion otherwise, falsely accusing men of raping them? Taken from: http://www.usconstitution.net/consttop_duep.html The Roe v Wade abortion decision declared a Texas law in violation of due process and ruled that in the first trimester, it is unreasonable for a state to interfere with a woman's right to an abortion; during the second trimester, it is reasonable for a state to regulate abortion in the interest of the health of mothers; and in the third, the state has a reasonable interest in protecting the fetus. Another application has been to strik…	/r/MensRights	12/10/12 03:09 PM
1	In the VP debate, Paul Ryan said they'd make abortion illegal, except in cases of rape. Wouldn't that result in women, who are no longer able to get an abortion otherwise, falsely accusing men of raping them? I think the thought process here is that if you are willing to have sex then you should are accepting the responsibilities and consequences of that decision. I think men in this sub-reddit have probably heard an argument like that before. Of course in the case of non-consensual sex the woman has been denied the choice to decline the responsibility and consequences. I don't know if any of that is actually applicable to the legal part of this debate, but it is a thought process I think a lot of pr…	/r/MensRights	12/10/12 03:08 PM
4	In the VP debate, Paul Ryan said they'd make abortion illegal, except in cases of rape. Wouldn't that result in women, who are no longer able to get an abortion otherwise, falsely accusing men of raping them? I am more Clintonian, safe, legal, and rare which I think is close to the plurality of American views these days. I am surprised I hadn't heard it phrased quite like that before because that's how I currently feel about it. Although I realize that "rare" is difficult to put into policy and would likely lead to more bureaucracy if it's not attempted to be done with access and education.	/r/MensRights	12/10/12 02:53 PM
1	In the VP debate, Paul Ryan said they'd make abortion illegal, except in cases of rape. Wouldn't that result in women, who are no longer able to get an abortion otherwise, falsely accusing men of raping them? I agree with you and I'm trying to be objective here. I don't like abortion and you have a good point. I always figured that those concessions in the case of making abortion illegal or otherwise putting restrictions on it were just a given. However, how does a traumatic birthright disqualify a being from protection from termination. I always assumed these concessions should be a given when talking about restricting abortion but it certainly isn't that simple.	/r/MensRights	12/10/12 02:43 PM
1	The Medicalization Of Maleness « Chateau Heartiste There are many societal differences and as I said even attraction differences that may lead man and women to have sexual desires that seem different. However with that many variables layered on top I have no reason to assume that the underlying biologically-given sexual drive is different. Also, being older than 22 and having been in and viewed the small variety of relationships that I have, the idea of the sexually prowling male and the moral but giving-in female is dated and sophomoric. There …	/r/MensRights	27/09/12 09:50 PM
1	The Medicalization Of Maleness « Chateau Heartiste We live in a culture where today the natural male sex drive is demonized and the natural female sex drive is glorified Now, is this the case. I know that attraction can have somewhat different parameters based on gender but is the female sex drive scientifically different from males? I don't think that this is the issue here; I would suppose it has more to do with norms and biases. Both genders cheat, both genders have sex drives. Our society is heavily (serial) monogamist, but I'm not sure that…	/r/MensRights	27/09/12 04:49 PM
0	Women need men like fish need a bicycle? Ok, then... I think the point that he's is trying to make is that feminist have fought furiously for "pro-choice." Well if the decision to carry a child to term is simply a personal choice then you have the opportunity to decide that your job or career is more important. While there may be nuances to this, it definitely puts it all into an interesting perspective. However, I did note above that in the US, men have almost all of the parental leave rights that women do. Also, men have almost no choice regardi…	/r/MensRights	20/09/12 10:02 PM
4	Cover of the new Rolling Stone; where is the feminist outcry? While this may quell the issue of whether or not Rolling Stone is being fair, I think it is still prudent to wonder what drives this cultural phonomenon of "Finally Legal." I know in the first place it's a joke. 18 is a milestone and it seems like it should have significance. This allows the magazine to give this significance to their target audience and seem a little funny. However, I think that it shows dissonance between legal and cultural norms. Perhaps because while people generally do find…	/r/MensRights	20/09/12 09:54 PM
1	Women need men like fish need a bicycle? Ok, then... Its an example of a choice people can make to force others to bear some of the cost. Just to clarify, I don't think that maternity leave requires paid leave... Alright, I looked it up and according to Wikipedia in the U.S. both men and women get 12 weeks of unpaid parental leave. Some states do require paid parental leave, but they have it equal for maternity and paternity. It looks like Puerto Rico is the exception to that. So it's not totally fair I suppose. Your employer is not required to ho…	/r/MensRights	20/09/12 09:47 PM
55	Cover of the new Rolling Stone; where is the feminist outcry? I think it's only fair to point out this: It should be noted that this exact same thing happened with Lindsay Lohan on the cover of Rolling Stone, even with the same slogan, - "HOT, READY, LEGAL." No public outcry ensued. http://img2.bdbphotos.com/images/orig/e/j/ej0gs5h86j9fj6f5.jpg Ninjedit: I will be really disappointed if that comment gets downvoted.	/r/MensRights	20/09/12 09:15 PM
1	Was told to post this here: I know it's not manly to complain, but I feel like my life has been taken away from myself... It's too bad you live so far away we seem to have a lot in common. Anyway, I managed to finish my Associate's taking online classes from the local community college, but I already had my math and science credits. With the FAFSA I actually got paid to go to community college even the year I didn't get to claim my son as a dependent. Life isn't perfect now, but I have supportive people around me. I get lonely too because I have responsibilities almost every Fri and Sat night. I hope things get bet…	/r/MensRights	30/08/12 02:45 PM
2	Not sure if a father, what do? If you are contacted regarding child support or paternity you can't afford to not talk to a lawyer. I thought I knew the situation when I agreed to a certain arrangement, but there were hidden implications that came back to work against me.	/r/MensRights	27/08/12 07:47 PM
1	Program Brings Home Absentee Fathers "Dads do care. We just have to look deep enough," Young says. Ouch. Instead of being insulted I will ask what has happened in this area to cause such a disconnect.	/r/MensRights	23/08/12 04:05 PM
6	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. If I may, have you tried changing your diet for the acne. I'm no expert, but I believe that certain types of inflammation can be a sign of a very mild bad reaction to the food that we eat. I would be interested in how eliminating wheat, milk, and/or sugar for 6-8 weeks would have on your acne. For the disclaimer, I get this line of thinking from the primal/paleo idea of dieting. I understand if you are not interested or whatever but I like to throw ideas out there and would be interested if you …	/r/seduction	21/08/12 09:34 PM
1	Rape Crisis England listens to /r/mensrights, removes offending paragraph from their "male rape" web page (context in comments) Vaguely-related, NSFW, and possibly "Bill Cosby"-type offensive Read a book-Dirty Version	/r/MensRights	28/06/12 05:54 PM
4	For every 100 girls Statistics can be very useful information - they open our eyes to issues that need to be delved into. They cannot be waved around like evidence in and of themselves This is a fantastic way to state this.	/r/MensRights	19/06/12 04:51 PM
1	For every 100 girls I feel that these statistics should be used in a way that brings understanding between rational humanist. Instead of polarizing we need to show that have concerns and that boys and men, and women and girls all need help. That some areas that men are thought to have an advantage are so advantageous:pay gap vs death on the job. We also need to work towards understanding the reason behind these statistics as best we can. Do boys have an advantage in medical care or receiving diagnoses? Why are men …	/r/MensRights	19/06/12 04:46 PM
1	For every 100 girls An identified problem can be easier to cope with than an unidentified one. Your post makes it sound like parents would to this to gain an advantage, while likely true in some circumstances, I suppose that more often parents want their children to receive the support they need even though they are not 100% sure of what the problem is. Is it ADHD, Asperger's, mood-disorder? Maybe you don't know for sure but you know that your child would be less likely to fall behind his peers with support that a …	/r/MensRights	19/06/12 04:40 PM
2	For every 100 girls I like that you bring up the counter-points and other areas of concern I was starting to wonder about this, too. I feel and hope that most of us here want to make things better for ourselves and our children and not zealously support a cause with incomplete evidence. I shudder to think about the pay gap argument and how using it shows such a lack of completeness of relevant information.	/r/MensRights	19/06/12 04:37 PM
4	For every 100 girls overdiagnosis of things like ADHD among boys who don't fit the "sit down and shut up" expectation in the classroom From a story in an article on the TED Blog “Mrs. Lynne, Gillian isn’t sick; she’s a dancer. Take her to a dance school.” Hope I didn't ruin the story(it's not the end), but this makes a point that can be applicable to both boys and girls who are struggling with conventional classrooms. I wish I could link to the paragraph; it's near the end of the article.	/r/MensRights	19/06/12 04:32 PM
1	My husband received $35 in child support today (venting) There are a few women listed here: http://www.deadbeatsillinois.com/	/r/MensRights	07/06/12 03:37 PM
2	There ought to be a law against this. I feel the same way. Ladies' night is a promotion to encourage women to go out so that men will have increased incentive to go out. Helps to thin out the sausage party. It's not equal, but its purpose doesn't seem to be discriminate against men. I don't see why it's demeaning to genders, but I also accept that people typically act like people and not angels in a utopia. This example with this show seems extreme and I don't understand the reasoning behind it. It's nice to have some eye-candy or w…	/r/MensRights	10/05/12 02:02 AM
-1	Didn't know who would be more offended, Paleo or MensRights... So the women are have borderline-personality disorder and project all of their bad qualities on the men while doing it themselves. Seems accurate enough... I exaggerated and I keed.	/r/MensRights	07/05/12 08:48 PM
1	I am a transgendered man, how can I be a part of the men's right movement? Does men rights exclude transrights? I agree with about the bill but with the exception that a bill that is not specific enough could be worse than a bill that is too specific. However, based on what you said the language in this bill hurts because it is exclusive.	/r/MensRights	07/05/12 05:22 PM
4	Game Against Alpha Joe I love how you broke things down and explained your thought process. You also tried to build on the experience of the typical thought processes that an AFC would have. You didn't just give instruction or even an example. You gave us the how, the why, the possible outcomes, and your response. This type of information is useful for business and pleasure. Hell, if you keep learning and then writing like this I think there would be a potential book. Ok, maybe I've gone too far, but I did really enjo…	/r/seduction	05/04/12 07:32 PM
4	Gaming store employees? A useful example that demonstrates how to make a situation work for you. It could be used as is or help someone come up with their own opener along similar lines. Be confident, be playful, be different, be outcome independent.	/r/seduction	03/04/12 08:02 PM
6	Gaming store employees? I would suppose that game store girls edge into the "hired guns" category.	/r/seduction	03/04/12 07:58 PM
1	I just want to clear some things up about the HB scale I know where you're coming from and was thinking along your binary scale. However I think it could use a little more detail along the lines of: 0. inconceivable 1. would never 2. under the properly regretful circumstances 3. if it had been a long time 4. Would like it if she came onto me 5. worth working for 6. worth paying for 7. forget every other woman you ever met. I didn't meant to come with so many when I started. I was also thinking that there are really 2 scales that matter. First: how a…	/r/seduction	06/03/12 10:16 PM
7	Do tall girls perceive themselves as of a higher value than "normal" girls, or am I projecting wrongly an exclusively male behavior on tall females? I don't know anything but I think this is fun to speculate. Women almost unanimously like taller men, but men are more varied on this. However, norms dictate that a woman should attempt to date a man taller than herself. This means that shorter woman has a larger potential dating pool than a taller woman. A tall woman is already limiting herself somewhat in the dating pool so I assume they have no problem being selective. I would speculate that women from 5'8" - 6'1" would be more selective in t…	/r/seduction	06/03/12 10:04 PM
5	What do most women want? Well, the article comes to the right conclusion that it is who you are and not what you do that matters. However it knocks game for being shallow, limited gestures. Anyone who has spent more than 5 minutes in this subreddit should see the consensus here is on building a blueprint and being who you are without "giving a fuck." While interpretations and understandings may be different, I see the general idea here to be learn how to be who you really are so people can be attracted to that. This art…	/r/seduction	29/02/12 02:52 PM
5	104 Ways To Break The Ice So I'm a smart, clever guy whose mind will go completely blank when meeting new people(I get trapped in my own thoughts, maybe some kind of loop). From your comment though I think that it would help me to have some templates to use to get a conversation going especially for different situations. Even better if there are some straight-foward and some conflicting, flirty ones. I'm thinking stuff like: At a bar: I'll let you ___ if you buy me a drink At the grocery store: Do you know what kind of b…	/r/seduction	16/02/12 06:25 PM
2	A play by play attraction playbook flowchart! I would assume that people come to this sub-reddit because they are not naturals. It is great that you have attempted a step-by-step guide to give a framework to work with. I would assume the best way to use this would be as a guide and reminder in order to avoid awkward moments of "I don't know what to say now" or "I did this but couldn't get to some level." I think a text-only wallet sized guide might even be useful to someone just getting started. I'm no expert so I don't know if your ideas a…	/r/seduction	25/08/11 09:34 PM
1	Has anyone got an argument against paternity testing by default at birth? I'm pretty sure this exact thing happened in the UK. They were keeping DNA for research purposes, but now they are building a database and denying the request of those involved to have their information destroyed. I might have the location wrong but I've definitely read a story about it linked from Reddit. That being said I'm still not against default paternity tests.	/r/MensRights	19/08/11 08:46 PM
0	Pursuading Women: 7 Tips That Will Change How You Do Things I've read that a good customer service response is to match your person's level and then guide them to the level that you want them to be at. If you have an upset customer you should be upset, too. This doesn't mean that you fire back at them, you can mimic them and agree with them or exclaim disbelief. I'm sure this part takes wits and practice to execute well.	/r/seduction	12/08/11 05:15 PM
3	Unwanted men, we need you to curb the welfare Amazons Some dads have to be forced to pay child support. Some dads just want to spend time with their kids and some deserve to have custody. Some moms do not take the best care of the kids while receiving child support. Some kids with good dads have moms that get remarried and try to move away. Not all women(or men) are logical and under this system they have nearly no financial incentive to keep the dad as active as possible in the kids life. I believe typically the custodial receives child support an…	/r/MensRights	04/08/11 05:23 PM
2	Taking an unreasonable ex back to court for custody. Advice? I've been through the poor man's version of this. It's a hard thing to do. I think the worst part is that your gambling with money that could be used to benefit you and your son just for the chance that the courts could order and enforce what you believe will be best. Write down everything relevant with dates. Read through it every once in awhile. In my state, when our case started we had to have a moderator than a guardian at litem before custody proceedings took place. That process actually ch…	/r/MensRights	04/08/11 03:52 PM
3	What would be a suitable response when someone tells you your hands are soft? I have this. I even recently got new callouses working on some new guitar stuff and my hands are still super smooth. I always just assumed that girls liked it and mostly owned it. I don't use lotion or anything and have always had soft skin although most of it is covered in hair now. I'm no PUA, but I suppose you could be proud of it or joke about it: "Must be all the babies I eat."	/r/seduction	01/08/11 04:41 PM
3	Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix it I was reading The Blueprint and one thing that occurred to me was my taste in music. I'm such a sucker for a sappy power ballad and that might reflect some other traits about me. Now I realize that I should enjoy the music I want to enjoy with no apologies, but "Every Rose has It's Thorns" does not build an attractive mindset.	/r/seduction	26/07/11 09:14 PM
1	Man wife gets cancer so his boss, a women, fires him. "It's business. I'm running a company here, and I need to make sure the department runs," she told him. Nuff said about the empathy and compassion of women. Family and Medical Leave Act Overview The FMLA entitles eligible employees of covered employers to take unpaid, job-protected leave for specified family and medical reasons with continuation of group health insurance coverage under the same terms and conditions as if the employee had not taken leave. Eligible employees are entitled to: Twelve workweeks of leave in a 12-month period for: to care for the employee’s spouse, child, or parent who has a serious health condition; I don't think that she…	/r/MensRights	02/07/11 05:04 AM
3	IAMA PUA who works for Neil Strauss. As someone who has felt similar I felt enlightened when I read that confidence was treating yourself the way that you want others to think you are treated. You want people to think that you are clean and well-kept so you do that. You want girls to like your hair, so you get a haircut. Oh, I read this in David Burns Intimate Connections and you'll probably want to get it straight from the source. I also have trouble being vocal when I disagree with something, deciding what to do. I can be funny a…	/r/seduction	07/06/11 02:30 PM
1	Give me your go to topic when conversation begins to fail. I like the example you posted and I think that I would like to have a list of lines like this. I don't like the thought of using the ask_her_opinion openers, but as segues things "like my friend and his gf do such and such and my opinion is such and such" could provide a topic.	/r/seduction	06/06/11 08:25 PM
1	Advanced Grooming Advice - Part 3 I wish I knew and could sell whatever it is that makes my skin so damn soft. I'm kind of a minimalist and don't even like to use too much soap to wash my face. My best guess is that it's because I eat a lot of red meat. Problem is that even though I lift weights and play guitar I still have girl-smooth hands.	/r/seduction	26/05/11 03:52 PM
2	Advanced Grooming Advice - Part 3 There's been some threads I've seen on Reddit about this. The Salicyclic acid mentioned below is a frequent recommendation. Using a fresh pillowcase every night is another.	/r/seduction	26/05/11 03:50 PM
13	Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public I think it would be more interesting to have the man appear defenseless against the woman somehow. What if she appeared to have a weapon or he was incapacitated on the ground. From the short clips it really does seem like an emotional outburst perhaps at some devastating revelation of cheating. While the short clips of the man acting abusive are really much more about dominating and intimidating. What if the woman had been bigger than the man in either case ? What if the man had an obvious handi…	/r/MensRights	18/04/11 04:48 AM
5	[FR] Success, but wanted to hit it and stay wit it She's hot and forward. Sorry, but she probably just met someone the next night at the party.	/r/seduction	05/04/11 08:14 PM
2	Thank God that /r/mensrights exists! Otherwise, we'd have nobody to look out for the rights of middle class white males! Well, I'm more of a lurker than an advocate but I am primarily concerned with bias and unfairness in the courts and unfair perceptions and treatment by law enforcement. How do you feel about men's rights? How do you feel about gay and civil rights? Are there things that the men's rights movement can learn from more successful movements or movements that really do face much more prejudice? I've gone through a custody issues in court and that issue is what got me so interested in men's rights. I d…	/r/MensRights	05/04/11 05:15 PM
8	Thank God that /r/mensrights exists! Otherwise, we'd have nobody to look out for the rights of middle class white males! Especially since there are not any black males, poor males, immigrant males, or males that face injustice. The nice part about being male is that it also makes you middle class and white.	/r/MensRights	04/04/11 09:43 PM
1	A young man’s right to choose NOT to be a father… When we talk about a woman's reproductive rights it's supposed to be based on her rights to her body. When we talk about a man's reproductive rights it's supposed to be about the welfare of the child. If the woman had the choice to abort the baby, give the baby up for adoption, or support the child without the financial obligation of another person what would her choice be. Would the decision still be based on "my body, my choice." Or do you think we would see more decisions based on "my future …	/r/MensRights	31/03/11 05:56 PM
1	If a sperm donor can be sued for child support, then he should be able to sue for custody, right? Not so fast. I was wondering when someone would actually do this. Any man that can be sued for support should be able to sue for custody. Of course, this doesn't mean that he will win custody. I myself would likely never donate sperm because there does not seem to be any legal protection for the man, even regardless of any agreement or even state law. From my meager perspective it seems that any sperm donor can be compelled to pay support at the whims of an unfair judge regardless of the state. Furthermore, …	/r/MensRights	31/03/11 05:33 PM
1	In Maine, It Doesn't Pay to be a Man The points brought up are interesting and if this is the case with Maine law than I would wary of living there. However, the tone of the article makes it hard to make seriously. Although it was short and not too dry so I did make it through the whole thing. One study by Centers for Disease Control researcher Daniel Whitaker reported fully half of all incidents of partner aggression are mutual. More often than not, it's the woman who instigated the incident. I thought this was very interesting an…	/r/MensRights	31/03/11 02:59 PM
2	If a man should have to pay child support because he chose to have sex, if a man is the one raising the child should the woman pay child support too? Around here it's assumed that there just won't be any penalty for a woman not paying support. I have a friend that is a rare dad with custody and when he went back to court because the mom wanted custody, he was told that to bring up the issue that she was very, very behind on paying child support would only make him look like a jerk. My child's mom doesn't have to pay child support because she doesn't work/ have any income. In the court document it's said that "support is reserved" which I thin…	/r/MensRights	30/03/11 09:47 PM
1	MTV's Teen Mom and Misandry In my state we have a website for that shows pictures of parents that are too far behind on child support. Also, they can have their license revoked and I assume that they are likely in contempt of court. A. Why are there no known penalties for parents that violate the visitation part of a custody agreement. Because these are usually women ? Because perhaps there are factors that go beyond what the court has ordered ? I think this could be true of a person ordered to pay child support. B. Why is…	/r/MensRights	30/03/11 09:37 PM
2	Nice Guys Don't Always Finish Last (A helpful kind-of iconographic) X-Post from fffffuuuuuu. Your thought? If I could just go to the grocery store and make conversation with an acceptably attractive woman to get a potential date then I wouldn't be reading seddit. I am nice guy type A but I'm painfully passive and indecisive. Since I was pretty good looking in my younger years this was not as big of a problem as it could have been. Now as an adult I want to better understand how these things work and how I can use them for myself. Even though I'm not actively looking for dates, I still seem a little s…	/r/seduction	30/03/11 09:24 PM
1	"Why do girls have it so easy?" Crosspost from r/sex As guys we expect ourselves to just love sex almost any way that we can get it. Sometimes we feel like we are ready to go out and get it on with anything that will let us. I think we've all been hit on by someone we didn't want to hook-up up with. Sometimes it's cool and sometimes it can be annoying. How about a cool friend that's a girl that you're just not attracted to. She's fun as hell, but for whatever reason she's not someone you think you would sleep with. Have you friend zoned her? I thi…	/r/seduction	25/03/11 06:11 PM
2	[FR]First two dates with HB7-8, testing what I've learned from seddit...comments/advice? I think she's trying to subtly let you know that she's into watersports. Word.	/r/seduction	24/03/11 03:26 PM
2	This engineer says that men are discriminated against in engineering fields. Women of average ability are being hired before men with better qualifications. Do you have anything to add? I think that I recall lack of men elementary school teachers actually being a voiced concern by some educators. When you have kids without fathers and all female teachers there could be a lack of male role models at early ages. I don't remember where that came from, but someone has taken notice.	/r/MensRights	23/02/11 06:08 PM
5	I just can't win in this child support/care system. (xposted here by suggestion.) I thought it was absolutely ridiculous that I was paying child support and the only working parent and it was the other, non-working parent's right to claim my child as a dependent on her (or her husband's taxes). Even if they had only been married one day of the tax year. If I provide 50+% of the child's financial support, shouldn't I get the tax credit ? Having a dependent makes a huge difference on the % of my income that I get to keep or pay.	/r/MensRights	15/02/11 07:18 PM
4	Why shouldn't disabled men be able to purchase sex on the open market? "Minnesota Nice Guys" help disabled men achieve some sort of sexual contact. Prostitution prohibition is hurting the handicapped. I think you're arguments are written well, but I don't think I agree with you. The industry would have to be regulated by taxes that were collected from it. I think this would help to decrease trafficking and pimping. From your argument, I gather that this would only increase the legitimacy of groups that do these things and make it even more difficult to crack down on them. A worthwhile concern. I honestly don't have anything to cite support my belief that legalization would help the situation.…	/r/MensRights	21/01/11 04:51 PM