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Sorry for the late response... I get a 2 on the sides with the top long almost like an undercut but I keep it hella messy. I've gotten it consistently for the last year and gotten tons of compliments from girls, even random girls passing by a few times. I thought they were being sarcastic or making fun of me till it kept happening lol. Girls have told me I have really nice hair regardless of my cut though, gotta thank mom for that one!
/r/seduction04/04/17 08:59 AM
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Yeah pretty much friends of friends and going out. I'm great with people in general 1 on 1; I've formed most of my best relationships through just smoking weed/being fucked up and talking to people for hours and getting to know them. I drink a lot which has helped, but I'm pretty much a semi functional drug addict lmao
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:29 PM
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I go to parties and have a good number of friends who have friends and just talk to people. There are a few more encounters I've had I didn't bother to include in the post. The same night I hooked up with my friend's friend, some hot Asian girl at that party just came up to me and started talking to me. 2 mins later I just ask her if she wants to make out, and we did. If a lone girl initiates conversation with you at a party, she is for sure interested. Don't waste that kind of opportunity.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:22 PM
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Feel free to disregard it then.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:18 PM
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Naw, the $500 was on pants, shoes, a few basic hoodies/jackets and t shirts.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:17 PM
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Eh. I didnt stick my dick in anything until about 15 months ago. Until you have piv sex, I'd consider that being a virgin...
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:17 PM

Second one is my strength. I'm naturally just an emotionally vulnerable person. I vibe well with a decent proportion of people I meet and the way I speak (tone, body language) around people I like is kinda loud, crass and a bit excessive. I'm pretty polarizing and I'm not the most charming motherfucker out there, but I've never been called fake.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:15 PM
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I still want a stronger frame and to be more outgoing. I'm still pretty socially awkward, even my girlfriend agrees. Around strangers I'm either fairly talkative and open or totally deadpan and quiet. I may have gotten the hang of getting girls but you can always improve. Fuck being complacent.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:10 PM

Maybe I should edit that in then. I was reading this sub from June till November before I lost my virginity. I became comfortable with who I was, which made me so much more confident. Realizing that people actually liked me for who I really was just gave me so much of a confidence boost, and I made even more friends. More friends led to more social value, which led to more opportunities, which snowballed into more confidence.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:07 PM
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I agree. If you're not hideous you should be able to get laid at the least a few time a year in college. I didn't get laid at all in high school, despite a lot of girls crushing on me. My game sucked and I was crippled by fear of rejection.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:03 PM
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I'm aware I'm a skinny dude and I'm not insecure about it. I'm happy what I've been able to get despite it lol. I could definitely hit the gym though, I actually enjoy working out, it just wasn't my means until recently. Being complacent is bad, just because I'm happy and doing better than I have before in life doesn't mean I should settle for where I'm at.
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:01 PM
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I'm a fu time student and I work three, sometimes four jobs. 500 dollars in one year to buy a completely new wardrobe that will last me a few years is a worthwhile investment.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:49 AM

How so? I don't deny that I'm a really lucky person with the opportunities I've been given and where I was born, but I don't get what you mean exactly.
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:41 PM

You don't need to do shit man, I wish I was like 155. I'm just skinny as hell.
/r/seduction14/03/17 08:40 PM
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I'm go to a very large public university in California and I've only hooked up with attractive girls that I wanted to hook up with. In terms of how I pulled that off, mostly being myself, having fun/not taking anything too seriously and treating them well. I am comfortable with who I am and girls like that. Last year I was mostly the same person, I just started being more confident in myself and I stopped apologizing for shit all the time.
/r/seduction20/03/16 12:12 AM
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I think what I've learned is that looks are less important for men than we think. I have been told I'm attractive before but I was still a virgin because my game SUCKED. If you're alone and want someone to talk to, you can PM me and we can chat. I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/seduction03/03/16 11:14 AM
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My parents were fobs and never owned a house because we were too poor. I'm an independent college student from out of state who works hard and I provide for myself. I networked and made friends by just being a decent person and I have good friends that are rich and poor, I don't really care about their social standing as much as I do that they're good people. I don't understand where this assumption of privilege comes from.
/r/seduction03/03/16 11:12 AM
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Three days. And I suppose you really can't unless you have options, that was what I took away from that linked post. Prior to these last couple months I was a virgin and the last time I even kissed a girl was 2013.
/r/seduction03/03/16 12:29 AM
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What about it?
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:37 PM
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Exactly. I feel like a big part of my more recent success with women and people in general is just being myself and being comfortable with who that is. I treat everyone well and relatively the same if they treat me well.
/r/seduction02/03/16 08:37 PM
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I didn't understand what you meant in the title, but I totally agree. I recently started hooked up with a girl who's wanted to fuck me since I met her like over a year. She's a nice girl and attractive, but she can be a bit annoying and clingy sometimes and I realized the main reason why I was hooking up with her was because I needed validation after a shitty breakup.
/r/seduction02/03/16 04:31 PM
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No, most definitely not. So much of it is confidence and personality. I've had a lot of success with beautiful women over the last couple months and I attribute it almost entirely to those two things. I'm 5'10", probably 130, 135 lbs at most on a good day and I'm 19 years old. While getting in shape will really only help attract more women, I always blamed being skinny, even when girls would outright tell me I was hot or attractive. I became a lot more confident in who I was over the last 6 mont…
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:25 PM
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A true introvert... Ok. Because people are so binary that you totally know who they are over the internet so your assumption must be right.
/r/seduction07/02/16 01:46 AM
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You're welcome! I linked you and this post in a thread of mine here and it got a lot of positive reception.
/r/seduction05/02/16 09:35 PM
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To be honest, I don't really daygame. I talk to anyone, both guys and girls, who I think looks interesting and I go from there. I make a lot friends doing this and it just feels very natural for me to connect with women in this manner. I went to my Chem lecture this morning and this attractive girl I've sits down next to me. I ask her a couple questions regarding the class because I signed up late and she seemed very friendly; she answered all my questions and at the end of class I thanked her a…
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:52 PM
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When I was going through a bout of depression while I was still living in Oregon, I had some money saved up so I bought a nice controller (DDJ-SX) and taught myself entirely. If you're into it, literally hook up your laptop and start mixing. Look up videos, whatever, you have the internet at your disposal, there's no excuse if you really want to learn. It also really helped learning DJing being where I am in LA; Oregon is really dispersed and I came from a small town, but LA is full of other mus…
/r/seduction05/02/16 03:02 AM
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That happened to me on a shroom trip too! I realized I needed to get my sht together, that I was depressed and needed a change in my life's direction.
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:49 PM
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Find a better barber!
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:48 PM
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If she seems interested back, generally she'll make an effort to engage in conversation with you, smile and laugh a lot and so on. Obvious stuff. If she's not, she'll keep sentences short and not really look or pay attention to you.. Body language wise she'll stay closed off, facing away from you. Just my observations.
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:48 PM
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My hair is really thick but easily shaped and I use a combination of products: hanz de fuko quicksand and modify pomade, Gatsby pink hair wax and a brand of hair product my friend created. I can post pictures if you want.
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:44 PM
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The girl I hooked up with suggested it and said X friend was down, I said I wasn't interested because her friend wasn't attractive, to put it bluntly.
/r/seduction04/02/16 11:43 PM
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Not necessarily. But it can change your perspective on a lot of things and for me those made life changing decisions that I've been better off for.
/r/seduction04/02/16 08:40 AM
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I'm outgoing but can be very quiet when I'm not particularly comfortable with new groups who I just don't click as well with. I randomly meet a lot of people and make a lot friends, but that still never got me laid until I actually stepped up and gained the confidence to go after girls instead of expecting them to come to me. I was SO afraid of rejection and failure my entire life I never did anything.
/r/seduction04/02/16 08:39 AM
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You're welcome! Until proven otherwise, just assume you're right. It will only be detrimental to assume otherwise unless she makes it very clear she's uncomfortable or something.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:48 AM
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Thanks, and I agree. This is definitely an area I can improve a lot in and I'm aware. It was hard for me to put it into words because it's still something I'm working on.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:46 AM
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You're welcome!
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:45 AM
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I only go to clubs to see specific artists I want to see with friends; if anything, I don't try at all to meet new people because I'm having a good time with my bros. If I meet cool people that's great, but yeah.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:45 AM
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I didn't persuade anyone. A friend of a girl I hooked up with suggested it and I said no because I wasn't interested. It was just a strange zero to 100 moment in my life; I couldn't even get laid a month before.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:43 AM
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I wish I was 160 man. You're totally on the right track, keep it up.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:42 AM
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UCLA is mostly Asian, roughly 50%.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:41 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:09 PM
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You're welcome! The entire point of this post, like you said, while not groundbreaking, is to reinforce the idea that there really are no secrets to success with women (and further, in life I suppose), but rather there are many simple ideas that people just don't put the effort into or actually apply. Yeah, I did it when I was back in Oregon over the break. Not my first time tripping but it was very significant. I have always been grateful for what I have and who I am, despite lots of areas of i…
/r/seduction03/02/16 10:08 PM
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Interesting. I've had a lot more success with women recently and I've been satisfied with the fact that I've just been myself and honest about who I am. Almost all of the girls I've slept with have told me "I'm good at connecting with people" and being genuine, so I guess that's just being vulnerable. Never thought of it that way, thanks OP.
/r/seduction03/02/16 04:42 PM
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