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Outer Game distawest/r/seduction28/07/22 01:21 PM
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So what's holding you back?
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:30 PM
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I like Krauser, he is nearer to my style
/r/seduction13/10/25 11:25 AM
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Lucky you!
/r/seduction29/09/25 01:40 PM
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Hard truths here: A silly idea, be your age.
/r/seduction19/07/25 11:02 AM
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Meanwhile, reading women's comments in subreddits about what attracts them to men you gotta doubt whether our globe is round. In sum they are likely to prefer harmless innocent hard working men and that's all... hence younger men should search for additional sources.
/r/seduction16/07/25 07:23 AM
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Wow am I impressed, thank you!
/r/seduction16/07/25 06:38 AM
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Everybody has tattoos bro, try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:55 AM
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No my friend, beard and tattoo are not enough, everybody has them. Go to the gym, u cannot escape it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:12 AM
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My friend, ur terribly wrong. This happens only in your imagination. Such a girlfriend may tolerate u for a while, but if she leaves ur going to crash down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:14 PM
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OK but don't state it so bluntly ... some ppl maybe annoyed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:27 PM
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Agree in some points, disagree in others Indeed it's a game of numbers, but only after u have dealt with rejection. I mean, a wild streak of rejections may undermine your morale, and this is the worst that could happen to u.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:34 PM
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Heartily agree. Happy cake day!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:13 PM
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U mean politically correct
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:48 AM
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I'm a man, but get this in mind: If the lady doesn't like u, whatever u do is wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:13 PM
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Ur constructing a social problem out of a regular situation Each man is different and has different approach styles. I am respectful and considerate, hence feel free to approach as much as I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:16 PM
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She thinks she's more than 10, a genuine princess, and the man who'll conquer her isn't born yet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:28 PM
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Of course not! But no need to push to her limits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:29 PM
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It's OK .... Just be careful not to get her angry. This woman has a hard punch
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:28 PM
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Haven't got bored yet? I've seen similar posts here again and again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:58 PM
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Yoga classes ... I don't dig it myself but pals say they are great
/r/seduction31/03/23 05:51 PM
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Can we please use nicer language when talking about the ladies Have u heard ladies talking about men's size?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:56 PM
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PUAS are definitely not associated with any religious group for obvious reasons. Some coaches use abusive language and have caused public outcry, but there isn't any politics involved, these guys are simply egomaniacs. The fact that some right-wing sects use similar terminology may be attributed to their misogyny, but there is nothing common beyond this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:26 PM
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Certainly, as years go by personality becomes more and more important. Silliness may be charming to a younger girl but not to a mature lady
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:09 PM
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A tragedy most often ... How sad to witness ex beauties behaving like sirens
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:36 PM
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Actually natural beauty in women counts much more than any personality trait, for well-known reasons. This is also an asset for men, but at a quite lesser extent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:44 AM
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Indeed, certain women may steamroll a poor wretch of a guy with derogatory remarks just for fun, and the same persons may cry out for justice when some guy ghosts them Men can be very violent, and women can be very cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:29 AM
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Her ex knew all time wherever she was, possibly had put a bug in her car. He appeared twice in front of us out of nowhere I shook her down and she admitted she had not broken up entirely, but had told him that she needs to stay alone for a while to think I told her to come again only when she clears up, but she did not come up. She is not with him either by now
/r/seduction02/11/22 08:38 AM
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Rejection of a kiss does not reduce your power, unless you start apologizing like crazy for your dirty thoughts 🤣 Whenever you push you have to expect some rebuff from time to time. The point is to remain impertubable, as if rejection means nothing to you. Just change the subject and attack to another front after a while
/r/seduction30/10/22 07:24 PM
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Lots of hookers, gold-diggers, obsessive, mentally unstable etc. No place for you. No need to say that most men are no better there
/r/seduction29/10/22 08:07 AM
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Online dating is full of trash You may lose valuable time there
/r/seduction29/10/22 07:56 AM
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I would not select dinner for the first date The whole process is complicated and it will add up to your anxiety
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:45 AM
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Offering an expensive dinner may be viewed as an effort to bribe her for sex Be careful
/r/seduction28/10/22 11:42 AM
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Very much so! Go ask the woman instead of asking people at reddit
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:55 AM
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Neutral about the first, the 2nd really sucks
/r/seduction25/10/22 04:47 PM
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It is one thing to be pleasant and make women laugh, and another to be their laughingstock. Always beware of the difference
/r/seduction25/10/22 02:35 PM
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She has internal insecurities and wants you to confirm that she is attractive... and that's all. A female narcissus, as psychologists say She needs you only as an admirer, nothing more. So leave her alone and stop paying attention to her intrigues
/r/seduction25/10/22 01:20 PM
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Watch your step, experimentations of this kind are likely to start an avalanche. The relationship will not be anymore what it used to be. Unwelcome developments may come up, embrace yourself to face anything
/r/seduction25/10/22 10:00 AM
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You really need professional help Impossible to create a relationship whatsoever so far as you are in this mood On the other hand, if you believe that a relationship is going to drag you out of this gloomy state, you are terribly mistaken... things will become worse Henceforth, change your mindset first and everything else comes next
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:34 PM
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Respect for your service in the marines and dedication to the gym Despite your rich experience you seem quite disappointed I believe that life is more than love and relationships, without degrading their importance of course. .. the meaning has to be inside you
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:43 PM
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A rather timid approach, but no gross blunder Others already commented that in dating you do not postpone for tomorrow what you can do right now... and this is correct. You have to become more assertive without being pushy But you can never be sure with women... anything could have alienated her in the way
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:04 PM
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The purpose of chat is to fix a date ... that said, you do only the necessary Do not become her chat buddy, otherwise you 'll find yourself spending your time learning about how cruel her exes were
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:40 PM
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No need to assume anything ... her interest can be earned in the process of interaction Do not be a defeatist
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:06 PM
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By mentioning cuddling you led her to look upon herself as a cheapie... Never mind, we all have learned the hard way
/r/seduction21/10/22 02:00 PM
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Asking her to cuddle again was utterly silly ... These things are never mentioned in messages, unless you have already proceeded very far
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:41 PM
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Do not bother with nonsense ... statistics of failure do not provide any benefit. Drawing lessons from your failures is most fruitful, but to start logging them is hopeless Forget all about it and proceed with your life
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:01 AM
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My friend, you need your time, some traumas are hard to heal On the other hand I would suggest professional help, you seem to have issues underneath
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:54 AM
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Some men also do these, dude! I wonder why, but its true, I' ve heard stories from reliable persons
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:16 PM
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Pay lip service to that ... As far as I see, if you had tried to kiss her, she would have you arrested for sexual harassment
/r/seduction19/10/22 03:53 PM
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You have to get used to rejection, it happens all the time. If you cannot stand it, you may get married and never talk to unknown girls again
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:25 PM
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Oh oh dude Maybe you should have paid her the 100 bucks beforehand instead of buying drinks Possibly you could get some value for your money then
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:12 PM
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You seem prejudiced ... Indeed, the community included a few persons like the ones you describe, but it offered valuable knowledge to thousands shy guys who found their way to a happy love life
/r/seduction13/10/22 09:09 PM
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Very true ... many baby faced girls tend to act like babies as well
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:46 AM
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You have to read carefully c & d ... much essence there
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:16 AM
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Why should you care? Just start dealing with more interesting issues in your life
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:58 PM
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Your value plummets. Stop texting there and move on to another target
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:07 PM
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Ask her directly for a date right now. If she denies, dont contact her. If she comes up afterwards, ask again for a date. If she denies for a second time, do not respond anymore to her messages.... otherwise you re gonna enter a real ball breaking situation
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:06 PM
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Dont be preoccupied with statistics ... even one hit per week is enough Leave away negative thoughts and concentrate on improving the product , ie yourself
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:18 AM
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Very true my friend, unfortunately mostly the desperate and the ugliest skanks are online. Apparently cuter girls are dated through their social circle. Better approach directly , daygame
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:44 AM
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You say so because u were rejected? Maybe their decisions look dumb to you, but actually they could be quite clever
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:08 AM
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Becoming a detective does not pay in this field... You ll look rude and intrusive Dont worry, however, you are going to have your clues very soon if you read certain behaviors
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:53 AM
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Stop pitying yourself. Hire a personal trainer and start lifting weights ASAP
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:32 AM
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Even zero success mon ami, because many women relish rejecting attractive guys who seem to be proud of it. Steer carefully, because there exists too much hostility in this world. Attractivenes alone is not going to take you very far
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:46 PM
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Men do the same. Its a law of nature bro. Lies are part of the game. I do not like it myself, but things are like that
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:37 AM
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What does a man need from a woman? Necking and sex after a while if possible
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:35 PM
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Getting a phone number is no big deal. Interaction does not end with a phone number, you have to push harder from that moment on
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:50 PM
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Unless she is too eager there is not much chance. Bathing suit generally turns a woman in the defensive Although I never recommend it in clubs or in the street, in the beach you had better wait for eye contact
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:48 PM
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Are u kidding? Never ask a woman what to do in order to conquer her... She may either be confused, so she doesnt really know Or worse, she may lie on purpose in order to mislead you
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:26 PM
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Smile! Smile is the passport that unlocks all hearts ... But avoid the fake smiles of politicians Practice in front of a mirror if possible
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:12 AM
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How do you know that these women are single? Actually most of them have boyfriends. There are very few single women today, so do not spend your time looking up for one. As tiresome as it is, you have to enter the competition!
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:52 PM
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Unless you are very young my friend, if you didn"t understand that this is a blunt rejection, you need a lot of restructuring in your life. Keep going
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:58 PM
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A downgrade from me. Change your mind, or else you are going to have most awkward moments in your life... Would you feel comfortable and manly whenever your "friend" tells you about the fantastic sexual experiences she has with her stud?
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:56 PM
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Rules are the same and they never change. Have in mind, however, that you may deal with a person of lower self confidence. Just be careful with jokes, some may appear offensive to her
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:34 AM
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No my friend, it is not painful once you get used to it. Ancient philosopher Diogenes from Athens used to stop in front of marble statues and ask them for charity. Citizens were curious and inquired him, "Diogenes, why you do this, since the statues can neither hear you, nor respond?" His answer was invariably: "In order to get accustomed to rejection!" Do the same my friend to your marble statues and you ll become invincible!
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:30 AM
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Seems somehow pathetic to me ... why not try women who do not give you iois? You may miss important opportunities there. Lots of women do not offer clear signs, its just their personality. To be sure, I am not in favor of pursuing rejections and hitting your head on the wall. If you judge a situation to be hopeless, you better leave without trying to escalate One way or another, you' ll end up with women who like you, irrespective of having given you clear signs of interest from the outset or no…
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:29 AM
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On the contrary, cold approach is underrated! It is surprising how many lazy people on Utube etc reject cold approach and propose instead "to relate in depth with girls". Obviously these guys tremble and shiver merely at the idea of approaching face to face an unknown girl and saying bluntly that they like her. If someone is a coward, he may find a million arguments to justify his inactivity
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:10 PM
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Never ask! You have a lot to lose and few if any to win. Stay away from this topic
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:25 AM
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That she wants to touch higher, but she's a lady
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:28 PM
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You cant compete there .... Go away in order to save your inner peace
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:19 AM
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Easy! The ideal age difference. Actually these girls go exclusively with this age group of men. Normally they are well off, experienced, have a steady job, and guess what? Money! Younger men seldom have these. Do not let those girls to intimidate you, you have the upper hand
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:17 PM
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Women do the same all the time, so don't bother ... That's human nature
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:45 PM
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The worst of all. Erase all your data and vanish ... No need to say, never do this again
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:05 PM
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Do not fall into murky waters! Go ahead and ask for a date NOW
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:50 AM
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Difficult my friend, because all males in the gym have the same thought ... and she knows that
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:01 PM
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I wouldn't do that. Seems pressing, isn't it? And if she says yes, what do you do next? Ask for place and time at this very moment? Absurd! Show her clearly that you like her, but let her boil a little ... Ask a few days later
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:51 PM
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Too much energy on silly things ... Move forward and stop thinking about it
/r/seduction14/07/22 08:58 AM
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The old guard is not active anymore, but the game never dies! Game principles are eternal, like the 10 commandments ... follow them and thy prosper
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:12 PM
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Be yourself! HAHAHA of course not, this is bullshit! A valuable lesson is to accept rejections, failures, insults etc as a part of life. A tough lesson, but once you get it you become invincible
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:01 AM
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Do not stuff your head with hypothetical situations! Just do it ... que sera sera
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:50 PM
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A powerful signal, while neither looking desperate, nor excessively aggressive. Moreover, the signal must be sent parsimoniously, once or twice ... continuous signals degrade your status
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:52 AM
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What women say they want to do in their love life and what they actually do are two worlds apart. The entire seduction community is based on this principle. If you are a man, I implore you to open your mind and be more receptive. If you are a woman, just live your life and do not bother with leathernecks in seduction forums.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:42 AM
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I do not state here that women are compulsive liars. However you often hear a woman say that she likes a man to be gentle, generous, polite etc, and after a while you see her with a brutal, inconsiderate and selfish man. Ross Jeffries used to say "I do not care what women say they like in men, I focus on the male features they respond to". This is the essence I think.
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:25 AM
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Very much so!
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:36 PM
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Taking an L is rantamount to taking a valuable lesson! Do not let it go wasted, try get the most out of it ... Writing short confidential self-reports has been most helpful to me
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:59 PM
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Totally agree
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:23 PM
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A single mum may be sexy but has lots of problems and you 're going to share them soon... 24 hours from your daily time wont be enough, at least from my experience. So have a laugh but don't stay long there
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:21 PM
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Not real friends. Get away ASAP
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:44 PM
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Stop now your incessant self examination ... Take initiatives, start chasing lots of girls... dont stick to your narrow social circle... accept rejections as an essential part of knowledge... have variety in your life ... your life is going to be wonderful even without this particular girl
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:13 AM
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Good luck! Possibly it would be better to disconnect your attempt from any personal hallmarks... It seems strained somehow in a game that requires laxity most of all
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:23 PM
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Good for you! Keep on the good work
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:03 AM
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Very much so! My motto is: be patient at the beginning and have the last laugh later on
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:33 PM
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Maybe she needs money
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:28 PM
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Start making love to lots of girls who are not that hot ... After a while you' ll get the necessary self-confidence to attack the hot ones
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:03 AM
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Good luck my friend
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:55 PM
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Glad to read success stories. As you probably suspect, however, these girls are attacked every moment by the whole male population frequenting there. I don't go for the act to become a regular ... believe me, she knows exactly what you 're after from the very first moment. You have to possess some special qualities to distinguish from competitors
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:15 PM
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My education comes solely through videos so far due to lack of time. Search for the ones of RSD TYLER Julien Blanc and RSD Max to get some ideas. Good luck!
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:25 PM
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Looking and not talking seems creepy! This has been corroborated by all my girl friends. Just go and speak ASAP, before an awkward situation evolves
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:21 PM
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A coach could be very helpful, but a rigorous selection is necessary. Do not rush it, see lots of their videos before signing up. It is essential that your characters fit
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:38 AM
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Worse than that, in Italy it seems to be 1 woman to 10 men
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:35 PM
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I am against using apps. Percentage of genders there amounts to about 1 woman to 30 hungry men, and women do know this very well. Henceforth, chances are strongly against men. Simply, dont bother
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:09 PM
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People have to be relaxed in order to be talked ... like you dont ask your boss a raise when he's running to the toilet
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:46 PM
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Nice try! But I think that nearly all good looking girls have a boyfriend. So a man has to compete
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:09 PM
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