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1	Should I dump my GF because she won't give me no pussy? Maybe you can do more to seduce her and get her to want sex more. If a woman senses you only want her for sex, thats trouble. If that doesn't work, and you are very dissatisfied, then maybe you two aren't compatible sexually.	/r/askTRP	29/11/20 08:18 AM
4	The reason why most men struggle with dating is because OLD doesn’t work and cold approaching doesn’t work Looks like you made a really good impression. Good job on doing that with complete strangers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:39 AM
12	The reason why most men struggle with dating is because OLD doesn’t work and cold approaching doesn’t work What I think happened is that when you initially talked to them, they were polite because people generally don't like conflict. In the conversation, you came off as personable and cool, so they were comfortable with you. However, they still had that weird feeling because its strange for a stranger to just approach you and just be friends with you on the spot. They also didn't have a lot of time to get to know you, so they didn't quite trust you yet. When you asked for their numbers, they agreed …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:23 AM
2	Help with Uncontrollable Libido I suggest you see a doctor, both a psychiatrist and a regular doctor.	/r/askTRP	28/11/20 11:09 PM
1	Friend keeps stealing my girls He isn't your friend if he is doing that to you. I suggest you go out with women away from him, and you hang out with him on other occasions to learn his tricks. Is he good looking?	/r/askTRP	28/11/20 05:22 PM
1	How do I stop hating/scared of women after being abused and bullied by them? Sometimes people with bad parents are attracted to people like their bad parents. If most of women you are meeting a terrible like your mom, I suggest you think deeply about whether a part of you is attracted to women with issues. Many feminists have bad opinions of men, because they had problems with their fathers when growing up, and were attracted to the wrong type of men. I can assure you that an extremely tiny percent of women are homicidal, and this tendency is far greater among men. I sug…	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/20 09:32 AM
1	How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women? The status of relationship mostly helps them get laid a lot, which is definitely true for Depp, and Amber. But with money comes gold diggers too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 02:36 AM
2	Why Are Guys Unaware That Girls Want What Guys Want You have a good point but its a major oversimplification. Guys are very aware that women like sex, but believe that women are more picky about who they do it with, and require some time to get them in the mood. That girl over there might want to bang him, but it can be really hard to tell with some women, because women can hide their intentions. Many guys aren't so good with reading body language and signals, and signs of attractions are often identical to signs in platonic friendship. Men aren'…	/r/askTRP	23/11/20 12:21 AM
1	Girl invites me over, cancels a few hours in advance, apologizes later and asks me to come over regardless, but now I've made new plans. How to proceed? People are busy and sometimes they don't give a lot of warning when they cancel. You don't know what reasons she had, and can't assume its the worst. Just reschedule for next week, and if you are curious just ask.	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 06:33 AM
3	Q4Men: Are you satisfied/content with your nonsexual interactions with women? If those women are very clear the relationship is completely platonic, then they aren't leading anyone on. Also, if you are always listening to someone vent, its really up to you whether you like doing that or not. Some people like hearing other people's troubles and giving supporting or advise. If you don't know where you stand, ask her on a date. Its really that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 06:31 AM
2	Q4Men: Are you satisfied/content with your nonsexual interactions with women? I certainly wish that women were more friendly. But I also understand that would open them up to being hit on a lot more. The best way to get around this is to mention your relationship in passing, if you are in one. Also be friendly and act very platonic with them, and you will have their trust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 03:27 AM
1	Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores? This power dynamic does happen in some couples unfortunately. But I have seen many where it doesn't happen. It really depends on the couple. The problem with the two-income lifestyle is that we have a generation of children who are being raised by daycares and their government. That is problematic. Also, many couples aren't having any kids at all which will result in depopulation like we are seeing in Japan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 03:25 AM
1	Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores? I agree with your point. Personally I am fine with two spouses working, or one spouse working, it depends on the couple. Having a full-time parent is really good for the kids. What is important is that they divide work equally however they decide to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 03:03 AM
1	Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores? In the case of both people working, then I certainly agree it is entirely unfair to expect the woman to do all the housework. But among young people, men do a more fair share of the housework in these situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/20 02:59 AM
8	Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores? Its all about dividing work equally to me however that is to be done. And its fine to prefer a certain arrangement over another as long as its fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 04:27 AM
19	Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores? You have a good point. However I will say that in a man can't do these male things, but if he pulls in the money to the point where you don't have to work, then you should probably be in charge of the food. However, most couples aren't like that anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/20 04:12 AM
10	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? They are basically married in name only at this point. So yeah, redpill doesn't quite work.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 12:31 AM
19	Anyone else’s marriage ruined by their spouse being red pilled? People are often redpilled when they are having bad experiences in their relationships and dating. I always wondered if my step-dad was redpill, but I don't even know if he knew what it was.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/20 12:14 AM
25	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man Very few men wear the same shirt the entire month and that is a huge turnoff. Also, makeup isn't particularly attractive on men. Some women might like men with makeup while most women don't. Some women might like men who wear fancy clothes while many don't. Men who wear makeup and wear fancy clothes are often seen as more effeminate. Men like this are attractive to certain women, but only a subset of women. Also, doing these things aren't at all a guarantee of getting a date and only help you mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:02 PM
4	Avoiding TRP/EX RP Men I'd try making a red pill statement and see if he agrees.	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/20 05:47 AM
2	Let it slide or soft next? I'd let it slide. You will have to let her know, maybe not directly that you aren't up for doing things outside your meetup. Like if she shows up, then say that you are busy and schedule another time. She will eventually get the hint and either live with it, or soft next you.	/r/askTRP	09/11/20 05:43 AM
1	Physically attractive, but socially isolated by hyper-religious parents all of high school, weak social skills Have you tried doing more social activities and slowly getting more social as this pandemic winds down?	/r/askTRP	05/11/20 12:33 AM
1	Why was my date acting like this? You should have been clear with her that this was a date. What I would have done is politely ask why she was ignoring me. If this problem didn't get resolved, I would have made an excuse and ended the activity.	/r/askTRP	03/11/20 06:59 AM
3	How do I become obsessed with success and start doing what I need to do to move my life forward? Maybe you are just a chill laid back person and you need to just be you.	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 05:29 AM
1	Tinder, is it just a numbers game? Yeah, for men tinder is a numbers game and your experience is very very normal for men. Some women do use tinder for validation or just aren't very active. The real problem is that men vastly outnumber women on tinder. One study has it at 78% men, not accounting for bots and fake profiles. The best things you can do: Get the best pictures you can. Get good Tinder conversations and turning them into dates efficiently. Understand that Tinder is a numbers game and will take a lot of time and patien…	/r/askTRP	29/10/20 06:02 PM
7	LTR broke up with me. Don't block her but don't interact with her either.	/r/askTRP	29/10/20 04:49 AM
2	What percentage of married women do you believe are truly, sexually attracted to their husbands? I certainly don't think I ever had "raw animalistic virile lust" for any woman. I've been really turned on at moments but not that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 08:15 AM
2	Input appreciated on this conversation. Most women are looking for something exclusive and the only ways to keep them around are: Be exclusive. Lie. You did the right thing. Women who want to be exclusive aren't compatible with your lifestyle and you should find someone more compatible.	/r/askTRP	26/10/20 05:46 AM
3	How do I kick her out and minimize the chance of a false rape accusation? If I suspected she was crazy: I would make some excuse about sleepy and needing to get up early but then say I really enjoyed the date and set up another one right there. I then text afterwards asking her if she enjoyed the date and still wants the next one. Then send a message about not being interested and that its me not her. She can't accuse me of rape is she said she enjoyed it and wanted another date.	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 06:17 AM
0	I withdrew the offer and next day she writes too me "Sorry, i can't make it today" Some women are just flaky. Maybe try again and if that doesn't work, it was never meant to be.	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 06:14 AM
1	Social life is fucked During the corona, its just going to be hard so don't stress it. Afterwards, there is meetup.com, clubs, activities, classes, events, etc. You can be friendly with people at work or where you live. Maybe have lunch or drinks with a coworker. Gotta start somewhere.	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 05:51 AM
1	Why does every guy basically rate themselves a 7? Maybe 100% of the population really is more attractive than average. We see this phenomena in people rating their work performance and intelligence too.	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 05:20 AM
0	Social life is fucked What about find some friends to hang out with and get invited to a few parties. Then you won't need to be standing around in malls hitting on strangers.	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 05:18 AM
6	How do I kick her out and minimize the chance of a false rape accusation? The vast majority of women won't do a false rape accusation. But if you want to avoid it, then just say you are sleepy and need to get some rest. Then you can give her a diplomatic message saying you aren't interested and that its you not her and that she is a great person.	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 05:13 AM
3	Starting to stand up for myself to interesting results Standing up for yourself often makes you very unpopular with the people who had been taking advantage of you. This will drive away toxic people who don't respect your boundaries and attract people who do. In what ways have you stood up for yourself that drove people away?	/r/askTRP	25/10/20 01:48 AM
2	In a class full of older women. How can i make the most of it? You and I both. I also post about politics in forums. I think you are my first fan.	/r/askTRP	24/10/20 01:23 AM
0	In a class full of older women. How can i make the most of it? You missed my posts on atheism, evolution, and programming. I'm very offended. I put a lot of work into those.	/r/askTRP	24/10/20 01:19 AM
2	In a class full of older women. How can i make the most of it? Why? Their tits are getting saggy by then. But I guess its better than the reverse.	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 11:21 PM
-10	In a class full of older women. How can i make the most of it? Yoga is lame in my opinion. I'm also not into women who could be my mom. I suggest you find topics your mom would find interesting. Maybe ask her what would attract her.	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 09:16 PM
2	How often are heads actually getting laid I agree with you on that. Not only do I not want STDs, I don't like buying expensive drinks all the time, expensive dates, and trying impress women all the time. Plus I generally hate parties, clubs, and online dating. I'm so much happier outside of the dating world.	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 05:51 AM
17	How often are heads actually getting laid Are you worried about STDs?	/r/askTRP	23/10/20 01:53 AM
63	Reliant on pills.. for sex.. This might be a medical thing. Maybe you should talk to your doctor.	/r/askTRP	22/10/20 04:24 AM
-1	Should I check the behaviour of a co-worker? Have a polite conversation with her about it and very softly tell her to stop.	/r/askTRP	20/10/20 04:17 PM
1	Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad. Some women and men do prefer a partner who mistreats them in some ways. They get bored when their partner is completely nice and perfect. Its probably related to childhood or something. But you can't make a blanket statement about all women or assume this is something only women like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/20 04:15 PM
9	Rejected all the time and it's making me depressed. What places are you meeting women? How you do approach and talk to them? Depending on where or how you approach, you can have a very high rejection rate, especially with approaches becomes less socially acceptable. Parties are the best places to meet women in my opinion. Online dating has issues too because men usually outnumber women by 9 to 1. This is why women are often flooded by messages from men. My advise is to try more dating apps or paid versions. Maybe the way you are approaching and w…	/r/askTRP	19/10/20 09:03 PM
1	Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life? Scientists actually did a study with mice and found that they got less and less dopamine from sex the longer they were with the same partner. I agree that keeping a sex life interesting takes work. But its also reasonable to understand that its natural for things to gradually cool off over time.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 07:36 PM
1	Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut? The only things I can think of with being with slutty women is that they might be more likely to cheat on you, or they might have STDs. But one thing to consider is that many women are only easy with men they really like but not with anyone else. Also, more and more women are putting out on the first date since its becoming less taboo.	/r/askTRP	14/10/20 04:55 PM
-1	Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life? Men are naturally polygamous and people love novelty with sexual partners. But a lot of people do remain in monogamous relationships. The key is to forget about having a fun sexual life all the time and just be ok with being in a safe comfortable relationship that is a bit boring. That love and passion you feel at the beginning is fleeting and gets replaced with more subtle emotions.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 04:48 PM
-1	Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut? I get that men and women have different evolutionary mating strategies where women will be less sexually available because they get pregnant. But just because these women are going against this evolutionary strategy doesn't mean I'm going to reject them for a relationship.	/r/askTRP	14/10/20 04:46 PM
1	Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut? But these notions of female sluttiness are just the product of evolution the the female's mating strategy. But this isn't a good reason to not be in a relationship with a woman, because she isn't doing the female mating strategy right.	/r/askTRP	14/10/20 04:41 PM
-1	Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut? Men are the biggest sluts. In fact 75% of men said yes to sex when asked by a complete stranger. And I'm sure many of them were already in a relationship. I'm fine with women being slutty. It works out for me. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight/201009/how-college-students-respond-being-propositioned-sex	/r/askTRP	14/10/20 04:39 PM
4	Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut? But they also fucked you on the first date. You are a slut too.	/r/askTRP	14/10/20 04:10 PM
11	I'm dealing with extreme sexual performance anxiety. Need help. You need to find someone you can trust and is willing to take things slow. After that the world is yours.	/r/askTRP	13/10/20 06:39 AM
2	My brother married a girl like 8 years older than him. She is obsessed with him and always calling him cute.. but there relationship seems so weird. As if she’s the mother to my brother?? It may have been a mistake to marry someone much older than him. Its ok as a fling though.	/r/askTRP	12/10/20 05:29 AM
1	What’s the truth about personality in dating/in general? Are some better than others? It isn't possible for an introvert to become an extrovert, but you can become an ambivert. That is where you have some introverted tendencies and some extroverted tendencies. Extroverted people just enjoy being around people and feel lonely by themselves. They have this urge to go out and hang out with people. As a result, they get a lot of social skill and experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 10:58 PM
3	Chick said I sucked at kissing Buy a blow-up doll and practice on it. Thats what I did.	/r/askTRP	09/10/20 10:42 PM
1	As an Engineer and a Doctor, how can I put myself out there to successful women not in my field? How are you an Engineer and a Doctor at the same time? Incredible. Women generally tend to not be as successful as men. But there are still plenty of nurses, teachers, and other women who aren't super successful but have an ok job. Most of the successful women you will meet will be related to your career so you can try dating them. Also, there are professional organizations and young professional groups you can join if you are looking for someone successful. Additionally, online dating you can f…	/r/askTRP	07/10/20 04:37 PM
2	Guys come at my table while I was with my girlfriend, how should've I reacted? You should have firmly told them to stop harassing you guys. You should have notified the staff what was going on.	/r/askTRP	06/10/20 10:00 PM
13	Any suggestions on how to proceed/escalate with neighbors HB9 niece? Yes, she is definitely interested in you. Maybe flirt with her about stealing your water bottle, and try to get a date.	/r/askTRP	05/10/20 02:34 AM
2	Guys... Please dont Why would anyone ever think being negative on the first date is a good idea?	/r/seduction	05/10/20 02:32 AM
37	Bro's my life is going bad, not like petty bad, actually bad. What does a guy do in this situation? Your family isn't doing so well. I'm really sorry about that. What you need to do is focus on your career and getting financially stable. Once you have that figured that out, then take down some of these other problems. Stay with your family for a while to save up money.	/r/askTRP	04/10/20 02:27 AM
1	If he who cares the least gets with the most girls, then why chase or cold approach? That saying isn't true. Seduction is push-pull, not just push. Seduction is much more fun with a chase.	/r/askTRP	04/10/20 02:11 AM
4	A question on showing interest on dates There is this seduction idea called push-pull. You act distant and uninterested (push), and then you act interested in her and engaging (pull). If all you do is push, then you will just offend someone or they will feel you aren't interested. If all you do is pull, then you will see needy, fake and trying to hard. The balance is to do both push and pull. The problem with this, is that it is manipulative, and it takes skill to do right. Also, a lot of people can see right through it. It also kills…	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/20 10:58 PM
1	My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ? I agree that good communication isn't the only thing. And yes, reading them is important. But you need both. Reading is especially useful when you are communicating and you can read between the lines of that communication. I myself am an expert at punishment. But I believe in the saying, "Speak softly and carry a big stick." If all you do is the stick, you won't have many friends. If all you do is speak softly, you will be a beta. If I have a problem with my LTR, I don't want to run away from th…	/r/askTRP	03/10/20 10:36 PM
2	My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ? Thats good. But do it in a very kind diplomatic way. It is more of a fact finding mission than anything else. You might even find a way of getting her to accept it. Maybe say that you have a family member who has health problems related to obesity and you want to be healthy. If she is afraid you are trying to cheat, try to assuage her concerns. If you can't persuade her, then the next time she makes these snide comments, you will need to inform her, that those comments hurt your feelings, and yo…	/r/askTRP	03/10/20 08:13 PM
2	My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ? Thats good you don't discuss it much. I knew a guy who made his whole Facebook page about his weight loss journey and his workouts, and his workout food. Its was really cringe. If your LTR is insulting you, you should definitely have a heart-to-heart conversation with her about it. I wouldn't put up with snide remarks from my LTR, I'd feel disrespected. Try to dig up what her real reasons are.	/r/askTRP	03/10/20 08:05 PM
3	Do you think that most men on red pill forums are on the autism spectrum? Only about 1 in 60 people are on the autism spectrum and only some people on the autism spectrum are high functioning. I'm sure a lot of these people are on the spectrum, but there are a lot of shy introverted types, or people who have had no luck with dating, or had a bad divorce who are red pill as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/20 07:57 PM
1	My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ? Have you actually had a real conversation about her reasons for not liking it? Maybe its because you talk about fitness all the time and its annoying. Maybe its because its an obsession for you and you don't spend enough time with her. Maybe she is afraid you are doing it to find other women.	/r/askTRP	03/10/20 07:52 PM
1	Should i be a bro or nah? Many people have friends who are less than upright, so I don't see this as a good reason to break up with your gf. If you are a really moral person, when this problem may indicate that your values are very different than hers. If you do tell him, then you should tell your gf what you did, and if she breaks up with you, then thats that. But ask him to keep you confidential. Also, don't tell him you heard this from your gf. Say that you heard it from a friend or something. There is a chance that h…	/r/askTRP	01/10/20 11:26 PM
1	Do men even get praised anymore for having high n counts? In this case this guy actually cheated, and cheated in a big way. This is different than simply having a high lay count. I do think having a high lay count isn't necessarily positive for a guy, and a reputation as a player can definitely hurt him. But its not nearly as bad as a woman who is known as a slut.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/20 05:22 PM
1	Where do u meet women after college? Good point. Just check with your company's policy.	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/20 05:08 PM
1	Where do u meet women after college? The most typical rule is that if there is a relationship in the workplace that HR be notified. This is to ensure no relationship between a boss or employee.	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/20 04:47 PM
2	Where do u meet women after college? There is no rule against dating women at work. If women are interested in you, and you find then attractive, then ask them out. People are doing online dating more and more. That is your biggest option. Also, try having a social life after college. Plenty of post-college folks go to parties and hang out with some beer. I have also heard of meetup.com where people can do activities together. Never tried it though.	/r/ExRedPill	29/09/20 02:06 AM
3	What should I do if being ugly asf is the root of my problems? Jaw Implant Surgery costs only about $2,000 to $4,000. If your jaw is really as deformed as you think it is, then I'd really consider it. https://www.yourplasticsurgeryguide.com/face-lift/jaw-implant/ Otherwise, I suggest working out, dressing fashionably, having nice clothes, and having a good social life to make up for the jaw.	/r/askTRP	29/09/20 02:02 AM
0	Is It Disrespectful To Make "Boyfriend Material" Men Wait? Women don't make "bad boys" wait because these men are very attractive and they can't control themselves. These guys are also better with women and often know and are willing to push women to put out. Deciding to sleep with someone is an emotional decision that overrides logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 11:34 PM
1	I'm 32 and tired of not doing anything with my life.. What do you do, and howd you "grow up"? It depends on who you are. Are you an intellectual person why likes strategy, or puzzles, or debate, or good at math, or enjoy computers? If so, programming isn't any harder than other careers. But you do have to put in the hours and actually code. You can dip your toes and try a $14 udemy course into Python. Python is an easy programming that is extremely popular and only getting more popular. https://www.udemy.com/course/python-for-absolute-beginners-u/	/r/askTRP	28/09/20 11:31 PM
1	I'm 32 and tired of not doing anything with my life.. What do you do, and howd you "grow up"? Go to school, get a degree in computer science, and find a programming job. If you love computers this is the right degree for you. Plus you earn a great income much better than 40K right out of the door.	/r/askTRP	28/09/20 10:35 PM
5	Just left the red pill yesterday I suggest that you replace red pill with advise on relationships, communication, but also assertiveness too. I do think red pill has some good points about men being independent and having their own interests and lives. They also have a point that sometimes men can be pushovers for the women they are with. But I believe the key is honesty, assertiveness, and having standards for your partner.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 07:56 PM
0	You don't need girl friend. I'm sorry if I misjudged. But from your description, it sounds like you have had some horrible experiences with women. I had some bullying experiences too, but only from males. I feel like your attitude is more of a result of this trauma than logical thinking. People grow up, even bullies. May I suggest finding women who are really nice.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 03:56 AM
1	You don't need girl friend. As someone with aspergers I have a problem similar to yours. I don't have a lot of social energy and get worn out by social situations very easy. I actually do ok for myself in these situations, but they do feel like work for me. But at the same time, I couldn't imagine being alone for the rest of my life. Maybe for a few years its fine, and even a bit fun, but not forever. Nobody want to die alone.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 03:55 AM
2	You don't need girl friend. Hey, and I can agree with you. Live the life you want to live. And I will add that for the vast majority of men who are being honest with themselves, that includes women to a certain point. I also see a good case for maintaining a certain level of independence during your relationships.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 03:53 AM
2	You don't need girl friend. I figured that was your issue. Its not that you are naturally anti-social. Its that you are bitter and angry because of something that happened to you. But that doesn't change the fact that you like 99% of the human population craves human companionship at least eventually. You can cover it up, but these are just excuses. Since you got rejected, you want to reject women. Why not instead understand that society has always been messed up. In fact in the past it has usually been a lot worse. Its ju…	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 02:27 AM
0	You don't need girl friend. I will agree with you on one point. We can all benefit from a few years living a single life when we are actually doing something with it. But it gets old after a while. You can't live with women, but you can't live without them. You can cover up your loneliness with hobbies and stuff but you will eventually turn into that guy in the 40 Year Old Virgin movie.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 02:23 AM
-1	You don't need girl friend. I think every single guy has some level fear or nervousness when it comes to the opposite sex. And the same thing does for women toward men. Some guys have been hurt in a relationship or have had trouble finding a girlfriend which increases that fear. So since they feel rejected, they decide they will reject women first.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 02:21 AM
0	You don't need girl friend. I actually have aspergers and am far more happy to be on my own. In fact I am so happy to be on my computer for hours on end that it is a major problem for my relationships. But I like everyone else has that need to be part of a relationship.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 02:18 AM
1	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] I personally don't subscribe to "game" like the PUAs and believe in a more honest version that isn't creepy. Being interesting is important. But the problem is people who try too hard to be interesting just come off as needy and desperate for approval. Being interested is just as important. Having an interest in other people is just as important as being interesting. Looks play a major role in good game, also experience with flirting and women in general are important.	/r/seduction	27/09/20 02:17 AM
-3	You don't need girl friend. We humans are social creatures and men have an ingrained desire for sex and women. What you say flies in the face of common sense psychology. I personally really enjoy programming on my own time. I like running. I like making delicious food. I like watching movies and tv show. But its kind of hollow and gets old if I'm alone all the time. Don't fear women and avoid them. Learn how to handle them.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 12:28 AM
-4	You don't need girl friend. I'm sorry but being alone and having some hobby like stamp collecting is just lame. Its good to have some women around too.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/20 12:06 AM
2	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] One problem with funny guys is that humor alone isn't enough to attract someone. Looks, shared interests, game, and other things are important too. So these guys try to be funny with women who were never going to be interested in the first place. Another problem with too much humor is that it can get annoying to talk to something who is trying too hard to be funny all the time. People who overuse humor are often avoiding vulnerability. They are also needy and highly approval seeking from women. …	/r/seduction	27/09/20 12:05 AM
13	How to help my father discover red pill theory Don't try. He won't be convinced. The best thing you can do is live your principles and be successful. When he asks you for your secret, gradually enlighten him.	/r/askTRP	26/09/20 11:55 PM
1	What’s the point of being alpha if betas get so much play? Nobody is claiming only alpha males get laid. Maybe these "beta males" are a lot more relaxed and themselves and actually form meaningful relationships with women. Maybe you can still be an alpha while learning a few lesson from them.	/r/askTRP	26/09/20 09:35 PM
8	Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men? I think it is due to the fact that women don't like the idea of needing strategies to attract men and like to think of themselves as the ones who need to be attracted. But I do think that will change. We may get seminars where women learn how to attract rich and hansom men. They will also learn how to get a man to agree to marriage and family. How to get him to change for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/20 08:01 PM
2	Female insecurity 101. I want him, but if no one else wants him, do I really want him? Most of people's favorite films are popular films. They probably heard of these films from other people and gave it a watch. In fact even an obscure film might have gotten a recommendation which is why she watched it. Now if she watched it and loved it, then social proof will be less effective since she already knows its good. Men pine for women who don't know they are beautiful. But this is because many men don't have a lot of luck with women and women who undervalue themselves are more availab…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/09/20 04:59 PM
2	I have misogynistic views and I want to change I lost it at 22. I was a late bloomer.	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/20 11:59 PM
-4	I have misogynistic views and I want to change I'm being totally serious. Virtually everybody has gotten laid these day.	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/20 10:23 PM
1	Just a booty call test From your post it looks like she read your intentions correctly and she is a booty call for you. Maybe hide it better next time.	/r/askTRP	25/09/20 10:16 PM
3	I have misogynistic views and I want to change I don't believe in objective morality or objective values. So I don't see the sense in only having sex with a virgin because that will only make it a lot harder to get laid when the average woman is losing her virginity at 15. The only virgins left are either really religious and are waiting for marriage, or aren't attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/20 10:15 PM
3	Do I hide my books? In general, just hide your self help books. Its kind of awkward like exposing your internet history for all to see.	/r/askTRP	25/09/20 10:10 PM
1	Rate my tinder profile If you look different than your older photos then you should update your photos to at least add more recent ones. Also, don't make that pool photo your first one. Find a nice casual picture of yourself in a well-lit area and make that your profile pic. Your last photo has a baby which might scare some people away if they don't want to be a parent. Not a bad thing if that is what you intended. Your pics are definitely above average though. I can find problems with every profile. You have nice clo…	/r/askTRP	25/09/20 10:04 PM
3	Unpopular Opinion: Whoever asks the other person out should pay for the date, regardless of gender Thats not how it works in Scandinavia. Meals are paid for by both people equally. It really depends on what both people want to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/20 09:47 PM
1	Female insecurity 101. I want him, but if no one else wants him, do I really want him? That is an example of social proof which is a well established part of human behavior. If I see a new movie coming out but nobody else likes it, then I'm a lot less likely to watch it. That is literally what Rotten Tomatoes is.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/09/20 06:22 PM
1	I literally don’t know what to say to women When I make friends I don't approach random people on the street if that is what you are talking about.	/r/askTRP	25/09/20 05:25 PM
8	I literally don’t know what to say to women Once this virus is over, go out and make friends. Have a social life. Go to parties if you are into that. Have some platonic female friends. Understand that women often make bad choices, but that is because of evolution, and we are just big brained apes.	/r/askTRP	24/09/20 12:57 AM
2	Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriage It is true that women who want marriage don't have as many options. But it is also true that many men still want to get married so they still have options. There are also a lot of religious and conservative communities who always get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 09:48 PM
2	Looks isn't everything, but for Most Men, it is If you are planning to have sex with a lot of different women and want a lot of variety then you are correct. You will have to spend a lot of time approaching women, getting women, and getting good at doing this. But most men don't aim to have sex with a different person every weekend. Most men eventually spend years to decades with someone they hit it off with very well. They don't need to learn pickup and approach 20 women every weekend. They make a tinder profile, message a bunch of people, g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/20 07:09 AM
5	Made a Summary of "Models" By Mark Manson. The best book I've found for dating advice. Yeah, I think he takes the honestly thing a bit too far. Its best not to opening up a lot more than she is.	/r/seduction	20/09/20 05:44 PM
1	Do women care about men platonically? Depends on the woman and depends on the friend just like with everyone else. Women are human too.	/r/askTRP	20/09/20 05:10 PM
1	Should I expose my dad to Red Pill? Most people aren't going to get redpill. Its better to be smarter about this. Whenever a related topic naturally comes up, very indirectly insert some redpill ideas. Or mix them up with some bluepill ideas. Thats about the best you can do.	/r/askTRP	20/09/20 01:52 AM
10	Blocked before 2nd date because I pushed for sex too early? How do I handle this better in the future? I'd be careful saying sexually suggestive things to women unless you can be sure she will take it well. If you do say them its better to start saying them face to face where you can read things and you can say it right. You should also take your time being more sexual. I find that slower seductions are far more effective and fun than rushing to sex.	/r/askTRP	20/09/20 01:35 AM
2	Do women care about men platonically? I think your example is flawed because you are cherry picking one women. Women often like to friendzone men because they want a friendship without the relationship. So they often do care about men platonically.	/r/askTRP	20/09/20 01:31 AM
8	redpill/incel chatfishing You have a good point. Many woman are very shallow and attractive people have a big advantage in the dating world. Now, let say I create a profile of a female model and make a horrible bio. I'm pretty sure I'm getting 50 messages from men in the first hour. Men are shallow too.	/r/ExRedPill	20/09/20 12:06 AM
2	In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy. Cultures change, and the difference between the genders is shrinking including the age gap. Women earn money too and its less common for women to be with an older man for financial reasons. I guess people will just have to date people around their age. Not much of a tragedy if you ask me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/20 07:31 PM
2	Why do I still act awkward AF around people I used to be super beta/awkward around? I have the same issue sometimes myself. The best thing to do is to just try not to impress them or care about their opinion. Just be neutral around them and be yourself.	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 07:28 PM
2	How to detach from LTR The vast majority of women are eventually going to want a long-term commitment in a relationship. Most of them are looking for marriage and kids. The ones who don't want a fling and are eventually going to break up with you. If you choose redpill then obviously this isn't going to work. Which means the relationship will end. However if you want the same thing as she does, then there is no reason to believe it will end.	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 06:51 AM
1	Got an E-mail from ex ltr For #1. A lot of women stay in abusive relationships because when they try to leave their man begs them the stay and promises to change. Its usually nonsense. Its similar to a tactic called lovebombing where when someone tries to leave, you shower then with a ton of love. This is something abusive people and cults use. This is a manipulative tactic and is morally wrong obviously. For #2. Women are people too and even if we are breaking up with someone, we still had that intimate connection and l…	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 06:45 AM
-1	Got an E-mail from ex ltr If she is writing a big email about her reasons then she is serious about breaking up with you. However, if you put in a lot of effort you might be able to keep her. She wouldn't write you a long email if she was sure and had no doubts. That email was also for her. If you want her to keep her, then read her email carefully to really figure out her reasons. Then ask to meet her and try to persuade her to stay and that you will change. If you don't want to do all that: Write her an email expressin…	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 03:30 AM
3	How to detach from LTR One thing that can be done is to walk into the relationship with the knowledge that it will end but that another one awaits. When the breakup happens, its ok to be sad and upset and mope around. I don't believe in suppressing emotions and a bit of pain release is good for the soul. But we have to move on.	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 03:09 AM
1	One girl sent me a picture of her and another friend of hers (also a girl) and asked me to choose one. Best answer? Depends on whether I want to push or pull. If I want to pull, I will pick hers but do it in a teasing way like I'm obviously just doing it to make her happy. If I were pushing a bit I might compliment the other picture a bit in a funny way like I am going to pick the other girl. Then I would pick her because that is what she wants.	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 03:03 AM
8	How to detach from LTR I think every guy has to learn how to handle getting broken up with and how to suck it up and move on. To prematurely end your relationships because you are afraid of pain is just acting out of fear and insecurity. If you are red pill and are in lot of short relationships rather than being married, being broken up with is a reality you will have to live with and accept. This will most likely happen when she wants to take the relationship to the next level but you are unwilling to do that. At tha…	/r/askTRP	16/09/20 10:18 PM
13	How to detach from LTR If you are enjoying the relationship, why not just stick around until it predictably becomes less enjoyable? Just don't marry her or get her pregnant.	/r/askTRP	16/09/20 10:07 PM
0	'What do you do for work?' Why not just tell her the truth and what your career ambitions are? If you lie, then you won't be able to get very far with her without her discovering you aren't as rich as you say. If you don't like where you are at with your job, why not work towards a better one?	/r/askTRP	16/09/20 09:57 PM
4	Getting hated for lifting seriously Some people just aren't into lifting or might even be a little jealous. Try not talking about it to non-lifters and if they ask just say you are doing it to be healthy and you love doing it.	/r/askTRP	16/09/20 04:32 AM
1	Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship? Its certainly more difficult with a relationship. You could try to find someone who is very independent and likes having her own life, and wants you to do the same. You could bring that up on your first date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 04:25 AM
1	After some reflection, I don't even really like girls and all their bullshit I have found women harder to get along with than men. But all women are different though. You can't live with them, but you can't live without them.	/r/askTRP	16/09/20 04:22 AM
1	There needs to be a body positivity movement for men. I can kind of agree with this. Many guys who are short get judged because of their height and there is absolutely nothing they can do about it. Other guys are Asian or Indian and have a tougher time finding someone in the west. Some guys think that they can only be attractive of they are ripped and have six packs but this body type is actually unnatural. I don't think that being overweight or obese should be considered a find thing though because this is a health issue.	/r/ExRedPill	16/09/20 04:07 AM
2	Being a successful PUA isn't worth it Yeah, I just couldn't imagine being one of those famous pickup artists. Like employers could google my name and know that about me.	/r/ExRedPill	16/09/20 04:00 AM
1	Being a successful PUA isn't worth it I don't know if the open relationship model works out well but it might for some people I guess. Most men who are good with women have a lot of shorter exclusive relationships, and have shorter little flings in between, without officially being in open relationships. But to each his own. I do agree that many men are polygamous by nature. I get that there is nothing wrong with approaching people but we should also be sensitive to the culture as well and not stray too much from norms. I think appr…	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/20 04:21 AM
0	PUAs VS Feminists, who's right about seduction? (1) So what you are saying here is that you behave like a jerk towards your wife? And i also love how you tried to refure scientific studeis and peer review work with.... what your (some avarage joe) opinion and feelings or outdated links? Wow very believable Also I pitty your wife for marrying a man that thinks its respectable rteari g women as trash Just because being a little bad can make you more successful doesn't mean its morally right to do it. I could also get away with shop lifting in some …	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/20 01:49 AM
0	PUAs VS Feminists, who's right about seduction? (1) 1.the notebook is writen by a man. And heavily critisized for having the protagonist push a yes out of the heroine of the book It doesn't matter who wrote it. Many women love this movie, my wife included. People do criticize it, but that doesn't stop its appeal. And you see these less than perfect romantic male protagonists all life romantic literature for women. Beauty and the Beast literally represents this trope where a woman falls in love with a jerk and tries to change him. The mating proce…	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/20 01:31 AM
1	Why do girls ask for favors? Women who aren't interested do this because they know guys will do them favors. Women who you are dating this will do this for the former reason but also because they want a guy who is a provider and wants to see how compliant he is. Its not subjugation its manipulation, and its up you to decide whether you agree or not. Sometimes its ok to agree, sometimes not.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 08:38 PM
1	PUAs VS Feminists, who's right about seduction? (1) I think it depends on the feminist and the advise she is giving. Some feminists have a problem with very masculine men, or want men to explicitly ask for consent on everything, or gets very offended when a man talks over her, or doesn't like when he explains his thoughts on women's issues. But that certainly isn't all feminists. And some of the advise feminists have is so broad and vague and can be interpreted many ways so details would be nice.	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 08:32 PM
1	PUAs VS Feminists, who's right about seduction? (1) I certainly don't believe in red pill but they aren't completely wrong either. its even known in mainstream psychology that many women are attracted to bad boys. I'm also not advocating being a complete jerk or that no good guys behaviors work or should be done. Only that people shouldn't try to hard to be perfectly nice. And I think how much women like bad behavior depends on the woman. Some women are on the extreme end of the spectrum and seem to only date jerks. Others wouldn't put up with th…	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 08:19 PM
15	Being a successful PUA isn't worth it You basically refuted PUA. Good job. Not to mention the risk of STDs, the cringiness of approaching people on the street all the time like an insurance salesman, the incredible amount of work, and the possibility of ruining your reputation. I almost think there needs to be a compromise at the very least. Like you can be a playboy and be in a lot of relationships without approaching 200 people every week.	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 08:13 PM
0	PUAs VS Feminists, who's right about seduction? (1) I means what many women mean by a good guy. Someone who is kind, well behaved, respectful, verbally asks for consent for everything, takes no to mean no every time, doesn't ever talk over her, is a gentleman, pays for everything, is a great listener, talks about her interests, affirms her feelings, makes her feel special, wants to take things slow, etc. My point is that great guys don't actually do the best with women and most women like men who aren't completely good. Just look at the male prot…	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 07:50 PM
11	PUAs VS Feminists, who's right about seduction? (1) I'd say the Feminists are rights that women shouldn't be treated as targets and you should be honest with them about your intentions for the relationship. Its not healthy to try to have sex with 100 people. Also, some of the pickup advise is really cringy especially that day game stuff and some of the lines. Where the feminists are wrong is that the courting process often involves non-verbal consent and someones men have to be persistent and a little pushy sometimes. This idea that women are att…	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 04:01 PM
2	Really don't know whats wrong with me. Covid is a bummer. One thing you can do is learn a skill or improve yourself in some way while we are all at home. Once its gone cancel your Netflix and get out there.	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 05:46 AM
2	This community made me realise that I don't need women to be content, even though I am full of raging hormones and testosterone It gives you some perspective and life experience. Its just one of those things you need to do before you die. I also think you need to be in at least one relationship before you die, just so you know what its all about.	/r/MGTOW2	01/09/20 06:20 AM
4	This community made me realise that I don't need women to be content, even though I am full of raging hormones and testosterone Everyone had to get laid at least once even if you ultimately want to live on your own.	/r/MGTOW2	01/09/20 12:18 AM
1	Got rejected and got told they wished I was angry that they rejected me... What you said makes sense. I don't see any good reason to date this woman because she has such a horrible attitude. The fact that she sent such a blatantly rude text means that she doesn't at all care what he thinks. I'm guessing the conversation would end there. It would hit her self-esteem to not get a response. I do think that everyone is different and not all women treat men badly when dating. However in relationships there can still be a lot of conflict because men and women are so differen…	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 08:51 PM
-1	Got rejected and got told they wished I was angry that they rejected me... It depends on what your objective is. You might be: 1: Really trying to get that date. (my response) 2: Don't care, ditch her. (your response) 3: Want to get her back with some sort of comment. 4: Really curious about why she made that comment. I'd actually say that the most reasonable response would by yours because a woman who makes a comment like that has issues. But your response would almost 100% lead to an end in the interaction, which is fine if that is what you.	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 06:47 AM
1	Got rejected and got told they wished I was angry that they rejected me... I'd think that if a woman rejected a guy's request, and he stopped messaging, then she would probably just move on. One thing you are forgetting is that women like to be desired. Of course if you do too much then you are low-status so its a matter of balance. Also, the girl in your example is really triggered and flying out of control which I don't think is typical. If I asked a nice girl in accounting out in my office and she turned me down and I was cool about it, she would probably take that …	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 06:07 AM
-11	Got rejected and got told they wished I was angry that they rejected me... That is such a strange comment. It could be a shit test. Or it might be her way of saying that she wants you to try to get her back. Maybe she is angry and wanted to hurt you by breaking up with you. Another theory is that when you were so chill about her rejection, it hurt her self-esteem because she really thought you were into her and would have been hurt by her rejection. My response would have been: "Well I certainly am disappointed. But I wish you the best." This shows that you do care abo…	/r/askTRP	28/08/20 12:50 AM
1	Girl confessed her feelings to me, I’m not interested I am low-key jealous to be honest. It must be fun to get that kind of attention. I also appreciate that you are trying to do the right thing. Morally speaking it is best that you tell her the truth in as nice a way as possible. It sucks to have a crush on someone who isn't exactly reciprocating and you don't know where you stand. It sucks being rejected, but after a while she will be completely over you and dating someone else. Try to make some excuse for why you aren't interested like the fact …	/r/askTRP	27/08/20 09:39 PM
2	I'm angry and upset and sad that I have no friends The coronavirus was really screwed up many people's social lives. One reason I'm using reddit is because its one way to be social during the pandemic. I suggest you find a way to put this time to good use. Maybe work on your career, get fit, learn a new hobby, or read a book that accesses some of your problems. I'm living with family right now and it makes things a bit better for me.	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/20 06:16 PM
1	Is it true every woman has the capability to find a relationship whereas every man doesn’t? Maybe I'm not that picky lol. I do have preferences for appearance and she has to be nice and interesting to talk to. And I guess I wouldn't date a very religious person because I'm not that way.	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/20 05:07 PM
2	Is it true every woman has the capability to find a relationship whereas every man doesn’t? Women have a much easier time finding a relationship, especially younger attractive women. However, women are much pickier than men, so it can be difficult for them to find a relationship that is worth being in for them.	/r/ExRedPill	25/08/20 04:25 PM
2	Just a small "Hi" I'm shy too. Congrats on getting out of your comfort zone. I believe that its best to approach women indirectly. Gradual exposure therapy is when you gradually get more comfortable by taking small steps. So just try saying hi to people and when you feel comfortable, try making a friendly comment.	/r/seduction	25/08/20 04:05 PM
1	CMV: Encouraging women to not pursue education/careers is TERRIBLE advice if they want to lock down a high value man I completely agree with you. Our society is becoming less monogomous and its a lot easier to see your relationship/marriage end. So people need to be able to take care of themselves. Also, its a lot harder to afford everything on one income so its a lot easier if both can work. If I were dating, I would take her career into consideration because that will make a huge difference in our quality of life. Have you considered taking some online classes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 03:34 AM