distraughtplshelp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How should a man respond when a women (intimate parter)is physically attacking him. D --> B. The majority of men can restrain the majority of women. If she's drunk, it should be even easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 09:42 PM
10	Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe him The criminals tend to actually get on pretty well. I wonder why, whether it's to do with the psychology of it. In my experience just a fat bloke that didn't take care of his hygiene and had no life aspirations. If you have any substance to you- you will be able to find at least someone. That said, it doesn't stop these men from shooting their shot. I just feel bad for whoever actually goes for it. A current housemate of mine only showers once a week and the hallway absolutely reeks every time he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 02:26 PM
1	What does the word misogyny mean? Adult woman here. Buzzwords are overused in general. Check out this fun time I'm having getting people to define another word, with some mentions of accusing me of misogyny lmao Genuinely, in my eyes, it's just a hatred towards women. The best examples of this I could likely give is thinking women deserve "x, y, z" bad things for just existing and when they're used as a scapegoat for personal problems in men's lives. People have started using it to cope about women's "victim" status when people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 02:16 PM
8	Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guys Casual s3x is deg3n3racy. It is a compliment to be labelled as a potential permanent partner to spend a lifetime with. They simply highlight that you match their standards for what they would look for in a committed relationship. That doesn't mean that they will automatically match yours. Do m3n forget they have a choice also? + take into account that many are more or less brainwashed into thinking and coping that "s3xual liberation" is good. People do tend to come around and realise it's a mist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 01:14 PM
2	You cannot blame men (fully) for being very cynical about women these days. I see, haven't noticed much of that. Being wary of people is only natural though, no matter what their past xp has been. Welcoming every single random into your life is a very dangerous game to play, especially as a woman, so unsure why the men would get upset over that	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 06:35 PM
5	You cannot blame men (fully) for being very cynical about women these days. how do you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 06:30 PM
2	If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ? Back in the “good old days” of single income families, families had maybe one car, a much smaller house, far fewer gadgets and expensive toys, cheaper vacations, etc. etc. etc.Very few people choose to live as frugally as single income families did back then, thus dual income has become the norm. This is bs, cost of living has risen much more. No amount of gadgets or expensive toys would compensate. Take me living on a single income 2 years back- I sponsored myself and my cat living in a two bed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:59 PM
1	If hypothetically, female participation in the Job market drives down the value of male labor- creating an economy requiring Dual income households. Why do SOME women get upset about splitting bills or going “50/50” ? There can also be an element of additional mental/emotional/household labour that falls upon women just because their partner earns more (or even the same).	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 05:55 PM
4	Miserable at 22. unfortunately ???	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/11/22 05:38 PM
-4	Miserable at 22. Oh boy, this is a tough one. My suggestion would be therapy (couples + individual) and also a part time nanny to give her breathing space from the kids and allow her to recollect herself, refocus and get back into the routine. Definitely needs a hobby and help. I don't know how you can afford all this on just your income considering you work so much. So much work needs to be done. Potentially cutting down on your hours and spending more time with kids and helping out your wife would be better, b…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/11/22 05:32 PM
1	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry cope Your anecdotal strength doesn't mean anything either unless you have for reference the exact amount of testosterone so this can be compared to an AVERAGE male. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2917954/#:~:text=These%20studies%20suggest%20that%20testosterone,by%20increasing%20muscle%20protein%20synthesis. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21058750/ It's very important in muscle development and having lower testosterone means needing to work more for the same physique that a normal/higher T man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 10:41 PM
1	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry And no. Average redditor is someone that would be left behind in previous generations. The low T's of today are nothing to admire. Circling back to the original comment - women are objectively more appealing because they didn't lose what made them attractive. There are more scrawny guys all around me than there were when I was little. It's only getting worse, especially in the west.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 05:18 PM
1	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry First, they weren't. The slop we eat on a day to day basis wouldn't even be consumed by dogs. Second, please do simple maths. Neither 80 or 60 years ago was 1920s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 05:13 PM
1	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry Aaaand that's not the average man, so you've missed the point. Average T levels have been declining for past 80 years. If a guy does put time in, sure, he can achieve similar heights, or even better. However, that's not the truth for the AVERAGE man - they're nowhere near as fit as average men from 60 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 05:07 PM
4	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry I'd say it's true if you compare an average woman to an average man. Lower testosterone levels in my generation (and those younger) certainly don't help your point. Also the activity level of an average child (considering the habits formed transfer to adulthood, which results in worse development and of course much lower activity overall). Guys need to put more effort to have the frame they would've 100 years ago. Physical strength, which is a big pointer on men's beauty standards, is very much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 08:06 PM
5	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry Men get away with doing less because of societal norms and in general just have better skin from what I've observed. Women taking more care of themselves is just compensation for those things (in my eyes at least). I wouldn't ay "better care", but I'd for sure say that the AVERAGE woman takes MORE CARE of her SKIN (or face) than the AVERAGE man	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 07:59 PM
3	Are dating apps largely a waste of time? Absolutely, especially at your age. Find people with common interests by joining a few clubs instead. Don't go into it with the expectation to find a partner, but you're more likely to find and connect with people that are into the same things as you there. Dating apps are literally programmed to get you addicted to them. Meeting people IRL is much more pleasant too, and if you have good intuition about people that's another plus that will prevent you from wasting your time on those that aren't …	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/22 07:48 PM
3	Do women truly prefer men with high body counts or who have been with alot of women? I personally wouldn't mind I think??? as long as the person is clean buuuuuuuuuuuuuut it's all entirely about the personality. I don't fancy the party types or people that tend to go for casual stuff. That said, the highest BC someone I've ever been with was 2 with myself included. ETA: but PREFER? No. The less the better.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 10:10 PM