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Good job brother! I hope you have a great birthday, with or without your newfound friends!
/r/seduction16/10/20 06:27 PM
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Cheers!
/r/seduction29/05/20 09:18 PM
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I never meant to offend you man. Chin up! It will get better
/r/seduction29/05/20 07:39 PM
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Let me try to explain this to you again: I meant that your comment lacked substance. What’s the purpose of sharing that? I didn’t try to criticize you, i pointed out how silly it was, and apparently you got offended. I had no information as to whether you lack substance or not, but i’m gradually getting an idea here
/r/seduction29/05/20 07:31 PM
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I wanted you to reflect on what you wrote, and now you shared something worth sharing: instead of writing about how good you are, you shared a bit of the secret behind your success. I agree with you and OP, being wholesome and treating people with respect goes a long way to breaking down barriers. I also embrace and challenge the feeling of awkwardness with being a bit of a dork
/r/seduction29/05/20 12:11 PM
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How good are your convos though? Judging by this comment, i would guess they don’t have much substance
/r/seduction29/05/20 10:17 AM
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I’m like this as well. But I force myself to date, since it brings a lot of good times and memories. I never regret going on a date, but I am never really thrilled about asking women out neither. It’s weird being super introverted
/r/seduction03/07/19 01:35 PM
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You overanalyze it bro. It seems to me that you prioritized your studies to such a degree that you skippednthe socialization/character building stage of your life. Well, luckily for you, you can still live it. Explore. Be curious. Work on your confidence. When a woman changes demeanor after you’ve told her what you do, start challenging her, create tension. If she’s suddenly playing hard to get, drop her, or just do or say whatever you think is fun - without caring how she reacts. Start studying…
/r/seduction12/05/19 08:01 AM
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I want you to experiment with not thinking about flirting then. Be a confident and light-hearted version of yourself, be funny/easy-going, and touch her when she’s laughing or when you’re telling an awesome story. When touching her, start with arms and upper back, and when you are more comfy with each other move your way to legs and lower back. Short touches until she’s moving closer to you. And then she’s yours, just lead her home or into your phone You don’t have to flirt. Just have a good tim…
/r/seduction21/07/18 10:54 PM
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Try it! I'd get intrigued, if you weren't weird about it
/r/seduction17/11/16 01:06 AM
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I'd read the power of now by E. Tolle. Basically, listen to your inner voice - but it's a bit more to it than that :-)
/r/seduction19/10/16 05:45 PM
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Meditation is great! And to build on that, I used what I learned from meditation to stop thinknig too much and just do stuff. Ironically enough, spending time getting "inside of your head" makes you better at not having to be inside your head when interacting with other people
/r/seduction19/10/16 02:45 AM
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On one hand it is the safe way to not kiss her in case she would get bothered by such a public first kiss. On the other hand it would be a fond story for you to remember in the chapter of life you are writing/living now. I am at the point where I love high risk/high reward moves. I was at a birthday party recently and i really connected with this cute girl. We drank a lot of alcohol, but it was a formal dinner setting. At a stage i suddenly found myself alone in the couch with this girl, so i pu…
/r/seduction06/01/16 10:33 AM
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You almost always have life itself in common. Living, experiencing, food, doing interesting stuff, whatever. Ive been able to connect with even the blondest bimbo because of this outlook. Be a storyteller. Encourage her to tell stories about her life. Getting bored? Make a move. Tell another story. Announce that youre making another move within 5 minutes. Tell a story. Let her start telling a story. Go for the kiss. Etc
/r/seduction04/01/16 07:14 PM
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Word up, brother!
/r/seduction30/12/15 10:27 PM
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Step 1: Be groomed, happy with yourself and confident
/r/seduction30/12/15 10:39 AM
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Is your inner game tight? Parents are simple creatures: they simply want their kid to be happy and safe. Can you protect their daughter while treating her right? Back in the day that involved physical prowess, nowadays it's about simply being a confident, honest and good dude. If I were you I would simply treat her father with respect, and develop some thick skin because he may test your "manliness". And it seems like you are not certain on it yourself, making you an easy target.
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:26 PM
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I believe her, give her a smile, say something about it was nice meeting her and then I'm on my way
/r/seduction16/11/15 11:20 PM
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I agree with you, with one exception: if you like her, the very least you can try something OP. Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best. somewhatnaivepositivity !
/r/seduction03/11/15 07:09 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree. I've just not found such a place on reddit yet (concerning improving past advanced stages in social interaction at least). What I have found, is a lot of different resources that I would never have encoutnered if I weren't here. Like this post I recently found from /r/socialskills , but it's a sub that's very newbie oriented - and it's about social skills moreso than seduction. Sadly, seddit is the best place for seduction-related discussion. I say sadly because the quali…
/r/seduction22/09/15 09:28 PM
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Sometimes the posts are of high quality, sometimes not so much. I've seen many reasonable persons in this sub. In fact, they seem much more prevalent here than in other subs about social interaction/the art of being charismatic that I am, or have, subscribed to. But for every person like that, there are many loudmouthed, overly negative persons. I was surprised and disappointed when a top post yesterday devolved into racist rants and unnecessary anti-feminism. I see your point, but let's be real…
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:24 PM
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Go into the sub you want to visit the sidebar in -> click circle top right corner -> click sidebar :)
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:14 PM
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There's no quick fix to something like that. Remember to focus on living your life without her. She means a lot to you, but she isn't the foundation to your happiness. Focus on worrying less. Be a worryfree version of yourself. Work out. Meditate. Be happy.
/r/seduction17/09/15 12:10 AM
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That's understandable! Cancer sucks.
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:38 AM
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I thought your facial hair looked good, at least in the after 6 months part of the movie! And I think you've done a good job with what you've got to work with beardwise (yep, I saw the photo :-)). I can't grow a proper beard. So for the longest time I thought it'd be better for me to not have a beard at all. What I didn't take into consideration was the fact that I have a round head, a weak chin and a big forehead. A beard would make my chin look bigger, face look smaller/longer and my forehead …
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:52 PM
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You should have included getting a tan into the equation! I have been wondering about how much of a difference being tan makes. Interesting experiment nonetheless. I feel that I got much more attractive from growing a beard, so that is recommended to experiment with as well as different styles of clothing etc
/r/seduction03/08/15 06:38 PM
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Why not, he had a great time with it.
/r/seduction02/08/15 06:14 PM
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I pictured Barney Stinson, and find it amusing she's so paranoid of this guy actually being Barney. He'd go for the touchdown though.
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:11 PM
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It's impossible for us to tell. He may be a sociopath for all we know. But my take on your date is this: If this guy was a "real player", I'm certain he would try relatively hard to get in your pants. Those a bit too focused on "game" often tend to be very focused on getting laid. They don't mind offending women either, because when they're as charming as the guy you described, they have plenty to choose from. In the end I think that you should try to enjoy whatever you two have together. It see…
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:10 PM
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Hey man, your perspective is rather pragmatic. I understand where you are coming from, but remember that these are social interactions, we are all different and we prefer different approaches. I also would never go for the yes/no approach. What I do is that I suggest some activities we could do, mix in something about her personality, and reason my way into a conclusion, where I decide where we go based on her (if I am wrong, she will choose a different activity in a playful manner). By then she…
/r/seduction19/07/15 11:51 AM
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You have a healthy attitude man. You're moving in the right direction :) These things happen frequently. She either enjoys the attention or your company, but ultimately is not interested. Either way I always blame myself if I find the time spent talking to her to be wasted, as I in those cases could have made a move earlier in the interaction. It even happened yesterday! But the time wasted perspective is cynical and kind of unhealthy (unless if she actually is a trickster). Anyways man, good lu…
/r/seduction19/07/15 11:41 AM
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For me, the last years HB10 is this years HB7. Yay for confidence. But yeah, im a much bigger fan of the yes or no system.
/r/seduction13/07/15 01:16 PM
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Yep, I'm afraid that you're in the wrong subreddit for this. To try to answer your question, it may not only be about what you're saying, but also what you're doing. How can you show that you're interested in them on an emotional level without touching? For me, touching is an essential part of creating and showing attraction and emotion, so I'm not the best person to answer that question. Perhaps you'll have to create your own style. Perhaps words simply are the best way to go. Either way it sou…
/r/seduction05/07/15 12:54 AM
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I completely agree!
/r/seduction03/07/15 06:33 AM
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Small talk and create chemistry in the tiny window of opportunity you have. Do this to everyone. Be as charming to old women as you would be with younger. Treat men and kids in a way that shows you respect them, but demands respect in return. I only do this when i feel like it or when they seem nce. I started off slowly, but now it's going great. As in It's (finally) authentic. This is great practise for learning how to give good vibes and immediately become more attractive as soon as you intera…
/r/seduction02/07/15 11:44 PM
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Looks is only one of many, many aspects of a human. Looks, wits, kindness, integrity, self-worth, relations close friends and family, ones feeling of success, confidence and how interesting one is are some of those aspects. In a purely shallow manner, looks are important. That's why good looking people stand out in a club scene. However, I've come to realize that there is a different ballgame in a more private setting, like for instance bars or while waiting for the bus at a bus stop. That's why…
/r/seduction09/06/15 04:09 PM
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Meditation. Read the Power of Now, and you'll realize how easy it is to be the man. Just think, and acknowledge, that you are the man. I also work out, I'm good at public speaking and presenting my thoughts in a way that demands respect, I know I'm the one to define my own values and who I am as a person which in turn results in a thick skin. I respect myself as a person, and expect others to show me respect. I've also recently finished a phd. While others went out looking for jobs, I went back …
/r/seduction06/06/15 07:01 AM
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It's a matter of practise. Walk with your hands outside of your pockets, even if it's cold outside. You're a man. Let the world know. It was awkward for me in the start, but feels good now. I still check my reflection in windows or mirrors when I'm walking to see how it looks. Walking the right way is a goddamn work of art. Easy to do, difficult to master.
/r/seduction12/04/15 10:48 AM
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I have not read the original. However, the author himself says that this is a more comprehensible version of the original: Same message, just better put. From what I could gather doing resesrch before buying this book, people agree.
/r/seduction27/03/15 12:17 PM
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I really recommend Eckart Tolle's Practicing The Power of Now (http://www.amazon.com/Practicing-Power-Now-Essential-Meditations/dp/1577311957). The practicing version is simply a practical, easier to understand version of his original book, from what I've gathered. I haven't read ANY spiritual books before this one, and I simply cannot leave it alone. It's enlightened me in so many ways. From lifting weights, to be charming, to explore life, to sit home alone, to SLEEP BETTER (yess!). It's given…
/r/seduction27/03/15 12:19 AM
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When you speak, speak slowly and with a darker voice. Mix between leaning towards her and away from her. Leaning towards her while speaking calmly, maybe even while looking at her lips for a couple of seconds, works wonders. Look relaxed, be relaxed. Touch her if it's natural. If you're on opposite sides of the table, the thumb game may work nicely I'm not saying look at her boobs, but maybe take some time looking at her neck, lips. If you do this when she's looking into your eyes, you may trigg…
/r/seduction21/03/15 01:04 AM
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A weak opener may be one where the person has a bad posture, the person isn't displaying confidence, or the person says something weird (like a cheesy pickup line that isn't even charming/delivered the right way). A weak opener is an opener that does not have a calibrated approach for the audience/setting. And my God, calibration is important. Unless you're incredibly sexy and handsome. Girls will make exceptions for sexy and handsome people. For instance: While on the dance floor, going for a h…
/r/seduction11/01/15 05:58 AM
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I just want to compliment you the way you did it. I'm into networking and meeting new people, so my approaches are just that: I want to leave people in a better state than they where when I met them -- and also to know and remember my name. I love it, it's such an innocent way to see if we've chemistry or not. Some may argue it's too much of a subtle approach, but it fits my persona, since I'm not looking for one night stands. And from what I can gather you did something like that. You're doing …
/r/seduction08/01/15 10:53 PM
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I remember thinking I had to be a high energy funny guy and the centre of attention to hook chicks. It kind of worked, but it felt conceded. I then watched RSDTyler (I think?) talk about the importance of simply giving the energy you feel like giving then and there. Being comfortable and calm is the most important thing, since most girls just want a normal dude - you don't have to try to be something exceptional to get with them. The reason this realization was so important for me is that I had …
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:33 AM
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You say you've improved immensely. I don't doubt that. But remember, improving doesn't mean that you've reached your goal of being good. You're in a pit now where you seek guidance, feel like shit and kind of want to give up. This is good. You will reflect on what you know, and what you think you lack, and later improve vastly yet again. To me it seems like you lack a vital component: Self-worth, confidence and the art of not giving a fuck. You may have all the tools, but if you doubt them, how …
/r/seduction28/10/14 12:52 AM
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Girls know they dont need trickery to get laid I'm sad to see this upvoted. Some people are crazy and get off through dominating their target, be it with violence, drugs or manipulation. It doesn't always have to do with being hot/ugly.
/r/seduction19/10/14 01:00 PM
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o that was badly put by me. i meant joking about sending pictures of it as it makes for a funny convo, i rarely do. (but most of the times i've done it, it's worked)
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:59 PM
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haha yeah, but i've never participated in a cock-measuring contest vs others when trying to hit on girls. it's fine when it's just us two, i love bringing it up through snapchat
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:37 PM
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But what's up with all the talk about cocks? Why do you guys relate to talking about your cocks when trying to impress women, big or small? I'm not attacking, I'm just curious. Cultural difference, perhaps.
/r/seduction15/08/14 08:58 PM
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watch out man! i had a drinking contest with a girl once, and we took the contest way too seriously. morning after the apartment was trashed, broken bottles everywhere, we woke up naked in the bed but couldn't remember anything remotely sexual. best thing is that she had to make a flight, but i was still too drunk to drive her.. so i got my landlord to drive her. if you want to get physical, initiate early. if you want to just have fun, go for it. everything other than puking during sex will be …
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:03 PM
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Haha :D It sounds like you own it though. If you own it, you can do everything with it!
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:39 AM
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I actually cringed at the thought of this, but that's probably because i hate dancing. If we're at my place I normally get 1) red wine 2) hot chocolate 3) background music. I love being a good host, and they tend to love it as well. Haha, I even have an electric fireplace that we can sit close to. It's a great convo starter and maintainer. It may sound like I try too hard, but it's all about how you serve it. I tend to play sexy right before I ask if she wants some hot chocolate, which gets a gi…
/r/seduction08/01/14 10:13 PM
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Why did you choose to have a focus group when asking such intimate questions?
/r/seduction16/08/13 07:00 PM
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Everyone struggles with this. Personally I've gained a great amount of confidence from working hard both academically, at work, and when working out. I rarily have time to go out, but when I do, I'm psyched, confident, and feel like I deserve the fun the night is going to bring. And guess what, people see that, see me and the fact that I'm someone worth knowing. A few "instinctive" tips for combating low confidence: Make yourself seem bigger, physically. For instance to stretch, or if you're sta…
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:16 PM
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Yeah. It even helps being Norwegian! ... and our accent when speaking English is horrible. Apparently I sound like Borat when drunk.
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:11 PM
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I'm willing to bet that it has something to do with your demeanor.
/r/seduction09/05/13 10:41 PM
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