ditchthisaccount3749 Archive

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1	[Fitness] Is it normal that a 16yo is not as strong as an adult? It's definitely your age. You may find that you will be your strongest in your mid 20s as youth and growth become equal. Don't stress it, it's called Dad strength for a reason. It comes with age	/r/askTRP	12/04/18 09:33 AM
1	askTRP Megathread April 04 You won't sit down with your kid one day and state RP truths to educate them. Instead raise them to be RP before society takes grasp and pushes them towards the blue. This means teaching them to be independent, educated, disciplined, sociable, strong and any other key traits of RP. Most importantly they need a RP role model, kids a very impressionable and will learn most of there foundation behaviours from there guardians. Don't let them live in your shadow, raise them as equals. Once a boy need…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/18 09:14 AM
2	askTRP Megathread April 04 That was the right move. Validation is exactly what she is looking for. Women want what they can't have so she will keep trying harder until she gets it meaning she will have to escalate to get your attention. There is a risk however. If you do this too many times it can backfire and she will take it as complete disinterest. Instead drop small subtle compliments infrequently. Such as, "Nice, goodnight". It shows you are appealed yet not drooling over her like some some desperate orbiter. If you …	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/18 09:03 AM
4	Building the arsenal advice. Rejection is going to happen. Accept it and adopt a fuck it attitude. Confidence doesn't just happen. When someone tells you "you just need to be more confident" tell them to fuck off. Confidence IS the lack of fear. And fear in these situations is rejection and more importantly the unknown. When you start attempting approaches and hookups no matter how the results turn out you are going to learn something. So getting rejected is great because you will only learn how to deal with it better the n…	/r/askTRP	30/03/18 03:02 PM
2	Questions for those of you with FWBs Be as cold as she is. If this is mainly a sex things then texting too much will fuck it up. Like other comments have said, sex more than once, maybe twice, a week is falling into boyfriend territory. It's not uncommon for her not to iniate. Girls hate rejection at any level and probably doesn't want to hear no when she asks for sex. At this point now that you have a foundation for your type of relationship if you start getting to chummy she is going to avoid seeing you. Give her too much attenti…	/r/askTRP	30/03/18 02:36 PM
1	Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash? A lot of what you read right here OP will be painful to hear. It's all the truth and you may not want to accept it because anger will be blocking your logic and will put you in denial. You need to read the sidebar material in r/theredpill . Again this material will be hard to accept but soon enough you'll read something that clicks with your past and present experiences and the realisation will make you think clearly and help with your decision making. And once you have read that orientation mat…	/r/askTRP	30/03/18 02:25 PM
2	askTRP Megathread March 28 Short answer yes. All of what you read on here in terms of seductive and girl management is useful and truthful information. However don't isolate every article you read as individual tactics. As you continue to read and learn, everything molds into one large understanding of the psychology of women which applies to all rankings of 4 or 5 to 10s. It's like learning a sport, you learn the basic rules then a few different plays and how different opposing teams run certain tactics that you have to …	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/18 01:36 PM
1	askTRP Megathread March 28 It's hard to have improvements everyday. Acknowledge even the smallest of achievements you make. Write it down at the end of the day so you internalise your actions and what lead to good outcomes and what lead to bad outcomes. By doing this you create awareness of your own psychology and being to separate your emotions from your logical thinking and identifying what drives you towards positivity. Look into positive feedback loops. By doing something small it snowballs into bigger better things. …	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/18 01:24 PM
2	askTRP Megathread March 28 It's better that you make the plans. It puts you in the position of control. Instead of saying "Is 7:00 alright with you?", be assertive and say "Reservations are at 7 see you then". It possibly is a shit test and don't let her boss you around in other aspects. Making the plans and telling her where to be when is a strong male thing to do and it's what she wants to hear. Eventually this pattern will work in your favour because you get to decide all the plans on your schedule over hers, you are t…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/18 01:14 PM
1	askTRP Megathread March 28 You're not small, far from it. I'm 5'10" and feel small yet I'm killing it with my SMV. You need to adopt the 'fuck it' attitude. When you're careless it comes off as confidence which is attractive. The feelings you experience are probably being expressed through subconscious actions and people around you can see you are insecure. This is a psychological issue that you should do more research into. Understanding what you're feeling will help you get over why you feel it. There is no point lookin…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 08:49 AM
3	askTRP Megathread March 28 Sounds good man. Just go for it, you'll regret more not going for the kiss again rather than the kiss going bad. Bottom line all you can do is try and learn from it.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 05:12 AM
1	askTRP Megathread March 28 You're welcome. Let me know how its plays out if you move forward with it.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 04:41 AM
3	askTRP Megathread March 28 Create distance in your interactions or move on. Saying directly that she is just a fuck buddy will create an emotional backlash that isn't worth the energy to deal with. If you do tell her make the message clear and stop there. Stay in control and don't argue the statement. If it all goes to shit then so be it, get back to moving on and finding another plate. Let me know how it goes if you make any progress.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 04:39 AM
3	askTRP Megathread March 28 Shy people want to have fun but are obviously to shy to initiate. They need an extrovert, you, to open them up. If you don't escalate kino very soon she will loose interest. She will start to see you as blue pill orbiter rather than a possible sexual partner. You need to show her your intent for physicality because she wont show you first. With the messages don't stress them too much. Use them like you would use normal RP conversation tactics. Don't rush to reply to her and don't let her see in …	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 04:34 AM
2	askTRP Megathread March 28 This is a good place to start. Write that down, keep it safe and add to it when something new comes along. No need to show anyone its your own achievement it matters to you the most. Also no rush to get laid, its great you're aware of the RP you'll get laid so much in your life that you'll be amused that you ever stressed about it. A key aspect of RP is focus on yourself and the sex will follow.	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 04:13 AM
1	askTRP Megathread March 28 Play it like any other women. Flirting is harmless, escalation is harder. You can go with the direct intent method and see how that plays out, even if it doesn't work its a learning experience as every interaction should be. To play it safe use a lot of mystery, imply your intent without directly saying it and let her imagination fill in the rest. Putting those thoughts in her head before you make your penultimate move allows her to accept the idea of the situation more easily because she's alre…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/18 04:09 AM
2	askTRP Megathread March 28 o the degree to which the female trusts the male It's saying: The promise of sex has influence on the male only to a certain extent. This extent is measured by the time it would take for the sex to happen and how much the females trusts the male. In practie: A male will lose interest in possible sex if the time to obtain sex takes too long (is too much effort) and if the male cannot gain the trust of the female Someone please correct me if I'm wrong	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/18 11:57 PM
1	askTRP Megathread March 28 If you think that the whole situation is going to play on your emotional state, and it probably is considering you had to ask this question, then its not worth it. Worrying about guilt or the well being of the women is not worth your time or energy. Move on and find someone different. I'm not advocating that sleeping with a women in a relationship is a bad thing, I would encourage it in the right circumstances. I'm looking out for your greater good. Also think about the emotional baggage the wom…	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/18 11:48 PM
3	askTRP Megathread March 28 Find achievements in other aspects of interactions. Right now the photos are physical trophies you can hold on to and that makes you feel good. Feeling even better is getting far with HB, yet once the interaction is over you only have a memory to hold on to. Start keeping a journal of interactions with girls and how far and how easily you got with them. It will give you something physical to look back on. Also like you said, the legal implications are not worth the risk. Even though you are 16, …	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/18 11:42 PM
7	askTRP Megathread March 28 Read/ Listen to "How to make friends and influence people". The best thing to take away from that book that people love to talk about themselves. If you prompt questions that appeal to a persons interests they will talk about it for as long as they can and see you as a good conversationalist even though most of what you are doing is just listening. Like u/MagistriVerborum working in sales/retail forces you to interact with people with a purpose and then also allows you to sway conversations away…	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/18 11:29 PM
2	askTRP Megathread February 28 I went through something similar. You need to stop focusing on the physical attraction of your ex. Remove and store in a hard to access location all photos of your ex so that getting to them is a effort (No need to get rid of them completely you may want them some day in the distant future). Likewise, block or remove her on any social media so that there is no chance to come across the image of her. Fucking some low scoring HB definitely helps. After the action you wont give a shit about what sh…	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/18 07:40 AM