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Cardio and core exercises. Seriously, if you want to fuck hard, you need cardio and core muscle endurance and strength. I've actually been meaning to find a good core endurance and strength routine. I find my running endurance doesn't always cut it because my core isn't as strong as it should be.
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:05 PM
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That's... an uncomfortable idea. I get where you're going, and I certainly understand how you got there, but yeah, if for some reason I did decide to foot the bill for something on a first date, I don't think it'd make me feel better if it was understood as payment for sex. That's probably one of the reasons I don't foot the bill tbh. I'd prefer to think that if I did decide to pay for something on a first date it would be recognized as something other than payment for sex... Not going to waste …
/r/seduction19/07/17 12:43 PM
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You've badly misinterpreted what I wrote. Take the vitriol elsewhere.
/r/seduction19/07/17 12:32 PM
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Just responding quickly to your first sentence/question: there was at least one super aggressive comment that was deleted (by the mods I'd assume) in which she was called a whore (or something like that.) The remaining comments are more measured.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:30 AM
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There are more methods that work too - just do a quick search and you'll find them.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:18 AM
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As soon as the waiter/waitress comes over for the first time, let them know you'll be on separate checks. Make it as light hearted as possible but do not make it a question to the girl, make it a demand. I've heard of particularly shitty girls who will just bounce, so be expect the best, but prepare for the worst. If the worst happens to you, you've done yourself a massive favor by screening her at the start of the date - move on and be thankful.
/r/seduction18/07/17 01:35 AM
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I tend to subscribe to the idea that another commenter somewhat aggressively mentioned, to wit, I don't think it's a good idea to foot the bill for women, especially on the first date. I've heard far too many women gloating about the freebies they've gotten off guys, and I've been the chump myself, before. Buying affection and attraction tends to be a bad plan, generally. If you're Dan Bilzerian, and seemingly have no spending limit, then sure, go ahead and burn through money trying to collect a…
/r/seduction17/07/17 08:06 PM
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Yikes, I have to imagine that guy was really frustrated at the end of all that. It's not because you didn't have sex with him necessarily, it's because of the way you led him on. I know you keep saying that you were telling him 'no hookups' but it's pretty universally accepted that actions speak louder than words. Frankly, up until you suggested a room, I'd have said there was no issue. Now if you had accidentally gotten yourself into a scenario where you couldn't get home, that's a bit differen…
/r/seduction17/07/17 02:28 PM
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If we're speaking in generalizations (which for the record I think works much better if we're talking about guys than girls) I think the idea that women want to avoid being seen as 'slutty' is generally true. Even the more free minded ones who have no problem with very high numbers of partners often try to keep that under wraps so they're not judged for it (our society still doesn't handle promiscuous women too well...) I have also met plenty of women who want to have a lot of sex, but with as f…
/r/seduction05/07/17 08:59 PM
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You sure it's not a giant spork?
/r/seduction29/06/17 04:06 PM
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I believe you can lump 3 and 4 together too. Something like "I don't know, you might be too timid for me." I usually only used something like that when she's already given a slight indication that she's not actually what I'm saying, so it's kinda a tease, and I'm more assured her trying to prove that's not the case.
/r/seduction29/06/17 04:04 PM
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People looking at her and thinking she looks good makes her feel good, which means in a sense, she wants attention. I tend to take the "look good for myself" thing as bullshit. If that were true, the people who seem to subscribe to that would get dressed up to play Xbox or to eat dinner by themselves at home. Besides a couple weirdos, that just isn't a thing. Wanting to look nice for yourself is an excuse people tell themselves to help them feel more independent and promote the "love yourself" s…
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:13 PM
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No, no, you know what? You don't get any. Miller Light is a privilege, not a right. You think about that while you're drinking your Bud Light.
/r/seduction12/04/17 02:10 AM
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Both of you are acting like children - who cares what someone else drinks? Some guys like light beer, some like dark crazy complex beer, some like both, some like neither. None of this has any impact whatsoever on manliness or lack thereof.
/r/seduction11/04/17 07:36 PM
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Are you simply assuming he didn't pay for it? Or...?
/r/seduction14/03/17 03:31 AM
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Its unique to Pittsburgh. They have a uniquely annoying way of speaking, and their teams have a uniquely annoying way of being persistently good, which in turn promotes a uniquely annoying and undeserved feeling of superiority among many of the residents. I'm not salty.
/r/seduction19/01/17 07:04 PM
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Holy hell guys, you already voted it from about -25 to like +40some, which is about double the next closest top-comment in that thread. Hopefully it motivates someone.
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:44 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Hell, just walk up to a girl and say something about the Steelers. "How many points do you think the Steelers will win by on Sunday? Show your work."
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:39 PM
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I'm linking your comment, upvoting you, and downvoting the others. Fuck the shitty defeatist hivemind https://www.reddit.com/r/pittsburgh/comments/5oquux/slug/dclhwwi
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:04 PM
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Here's an option that lands somewhere in the middle. If you've been around this sub very long, you probably seen threads like this before with guys wondering how to make sure girls don't ghost. One way that I like is texting the girl the day of and asking to move the time either or back a bit. This reminds the girl, doesn't make it look like you're just asking if she still planning on being there, which could come off as needy, and also gives her the opportunity to say that she won't be able to …
/r/seduction16/01/17 10:24 PM
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You could've laid out the smoothest line in the world and if you followed it with "sup with that" it still would've killed the mood. Some shitty commercial from the 90s, and several "we're hip" dads are pissed you stole their catchphrase.
/r/seduction02/12/16 06:49 PM
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Asking the important questions.
/r/seduction30/11/16 10:33 PM
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You're welcome. Those scents you're using right now are all excellent and I believe most of them appear relatively high on that spreadsheet. They're also all well respected within the fragrance community. As far as ADG and TFBO go, I chose the former because it gets talked about A LOT, and OP mentioned it, and TFBO because it doesn't get much discussion, it's pretty heavy and complex and unique, it's not necessarily a lady killer, but it's very well respected by the fragrance community and loved…
/r/seduction16/11/16 05:47 PM
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Basenotes thread: http://www.basenotes.net/threads/212334-Which-scent-gets-you-the-most-female-compliments (you'll want to go to the last page and work backwards, or even try searching to find the most recent version of the spreadsheet if that's what you're after.) http://www.fragrantica.com/board/viewtopic.php?id=143631 http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=165691981 I found provided additional threads specifically because perspective is always important, and sometimes enthusiasts (hob…
/r/seduction16/11/16 04:32 PM
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There's a thread over at basenotes forum about cologne that gets the most compliments from women. For a while, someone was keeping a spreadsheet tallying the responses. It hasn't been updated in a while, but it has enough data points that it's a great place to start. People still post actively in that thread too, and respond to questions as well. Be careful not to get too sucked in though - cologne is an expensive hobby.
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:28 AM
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Implies that a salon cut is by definition better because it's more expensive Ignores fact that many barbers (who work in barber shops, not salons) have a MUCH better idea of what's a good idea for guys, and deal almost exclusively with men, whereas salons tend to focus more heavily on women. Oh, and barbers are often cheaper. Don't take style advice from online Posts style advice from online, which is partly stolen from Dappered, MFA/FMF, and so on. Pick a great cologne Recommends Aqua Di Gio, t…
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:20 PM
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FYI for anyone on Android, my regular browser (Maxathon) wouldn't download it, but Puffin did (eventually.) Thanks. EDIT: Off topic, but does anyone have a link for a mobile friendly version of the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder?
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:18 PM
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Couple points I think I should probably make: 1) Not every guy thinks they're great in bed. I myself used to be an example - I didn't watch a ton of porn, and that's all I really had to go with besides my preconceived notions about how to have sex. Instead of blindly trying to reinvent the wheel I went and did a lot of research on the internet and figured out some stuff I needed to do to improve. I started watching porn more objectively and trying to determine what would actually be a good idea …
/r/seduction10/11/16 10:28 PM
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He's at the right party; look at those arm casts.
/r/seduction02/11/16 03:09 PM
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This is a very legitimate possibility. And actually is probably why I would've personally kept going with fucking truckloads loads of snark. Worst case scenario, the girl is really a hardcore psycho and either way she ends up hating me. Or maybe she's really a stone cold ice queen who just really fucking hates dudes approaching. There's a chance though that she's a brazen asshole who decided to fuck with you but might actually enjoy it if you bring the heat. I'm kinda a dick myself, and I like g…
/r/seduction10/10/16 08:33 PM
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It's nowhere near red pill. All he's doing is some light hearted teasing, and not presenting himself as self-conscious. Essentially he's assuming attraction and flirting. Also, I see absolutely nothing wrong with trying to add additional data to someone's initial reaction. If you approach an attractive girl, chances are she's going to be wary of you even if you're a 10 in every single way, simply because she gets approached and harassed so much. Why not try to have some fun chatting, give her ad…
/r/seduction05/10/16 09:05 PM
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Yes, fuck negging. However, this is not negging. This lighthearted teasing. This is a natural part of most flirting. There really isn't much more to discuss. Let's stop trying to paint this guy as some asshole who is chastising and manipulating women. I don't really care if he's getting laid, plenty of guys including myself are and use similar techniques that involve teasing as a part of the way we flirt. If you want to just move on when a girl doesn't give you a resounding yes, that's fine too.…
/r/seduction05/10/16 08:51 PM
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this thread is a great example of /r/worstof Namely, because of your participation.
/r/seduction05/10/16 08:38 PM
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"na.reddit.com"? What's the na doing in there...
/r/seduction13/09/16 02:30 PM
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TL;DR - OP shows off guitar & singing skills while flirting with girl who's clearly into guitar and singing; OP gets laid. Also of note, the sky is still blue. In all seriousness, good job OP. Nothing wrong with selecting targets that are likely to respond positively to your talents - kinda silly not to, really. Play on.
/r/seduction17/08/16 05:03 PM
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Came
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:44 PM
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Nobody likes salting the snail, but she gives you no choice!
/r/seduction05/04/16 04:17 AM
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OK, so, you sound like a music enthusiast, and if one of your requirements someone you're seeing is for them to also be really into music, then this is a great way to go. Having said that, in my experience, people who are really into music get really judgemental about others' music preferences, especially if they can tell the other person really isn't into music as much as they are. This is very off-putting, and very easy to pick up on. Additionally, it's easy to make something feel insecure abo…
/r/seduction05/04/16 04:11 AM
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If you're watching porn frequently, or really at all, stop. Cut way down on masturbating or even touching your package if you can too. The idea that one can accidentally rewire themselves with regards to what sexually excites and invigorates them is very real. The whole no fap community takes it to an extreme, but the foundation and reasoning is sound.
/r/seduction04/04/16 03:46 AM
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Is this a meme? Someone plz explain.
/r/seduction17/03/16 04:29 PM
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To clarify, fake tan =/= tanning bed tan. He's talking about he spray-on, which (afaik) hasn't been proven to be highly carcinogenic [yet,] unlike tanning beds.
/r/seduction17/03/16 04:28 PM
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Found The Supreme Leader.
/r/seduction15/03/16 05:36 PM
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Are you seriously not understanding what's being discussed here? We're talking about situations in which both parties are intoxicated and both willingly engage in sex. In some places the girl can wake up, feel regret because she hooked up with a random guy, claim she's been raped despite the prior nights consent, file a lawsuit, and the court will nod its head and agree with her because the letter of the law removes the right to provide consent while under the influence of alcohol. There's a big…
/r/seduction10/03/16 03:52 PM
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Is this governed at the state level in the United States? Is there a good method for tracking down this info without pulling up the actual law itself for each place? I've found that I'm not great at deciphering the law, and even if I get one part right, there's usually more to it because of x,y,z.
/r/seduction10/03/16 04:20 AM
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Well, yes, we'd obviously be telling the truth if we're explaining that we dislike the flaky behavior, however there are tactful ways to go about transmitting this information, and then there's very rough, blunt ways that are likely to get a negative reaction 100% of the time. I'm trying to pick this subs brain on how they'd deliver such a message. There's no 1-size-fits all, I realize, but I don't think a bit of brainstorming hurts.
/r/seduction08/03/16 06:01 PM
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Both /u/TheXXL and your comments seem to be the most productive, and likely to yield positive results (or at the very least, leave you in better standing that make an offhanded, passive aggressive remark.) I'm curious about how you guys typically phrase something along these lines though - I think that's important here, especially given the high likelihood that the girl will view such messages negatively. Obviously the alternative is simply forgetting the girl without saying anything, which is p…
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:27 PM
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This seems awfully passive aggressive. I think the candid route, advised here is more likely to yield a positive result, or at the very least leave you parted with a better standing.
/r/seduction08/03/16 05:19 PM
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Easiest way is to whip it out and begin meatspinning, progressively getting it closer and closer to her face.
/r/seduction17/02/16 08:09 PM
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Whoops, didn't even see the message about it being deleted. Thanks for the help!
/r/seduction03/02/16 12:39 AM
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That was exactly the point of the thread. Attractive people can say whatever and still get action even if they're laughable in every other sense.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:32 PM
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No blatant shit testing. I'd try to minimize the explaining yourself, FYI ("oh I thought we were hanging out tonight, haha"). She knows what you thought, you don't need to explain yourself to her - that sentence comes off as very nervous, especially with the "haha" attached. It may not have done any damage with her, but it really depends on how she's perceiving you, which obviously is very difficult to say. Just another reason to keep things as short as possible. Anyway, your next move is to for…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:08 PM
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Depends on how you want to portray yourself and handle yourself around her. If you're asking what I'd do, I'd probably tell her where we are gonna meet. In my mind, it shows confidence, boarding on dominance that can play a role in attraction with many women. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:08 AM
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That one seems pretty straight forward. If you still want to keep the location text in your back pocket, pick a place that's similar to where you really want to go. As it draws closer, you can text her and let her know you changed your mind and you're feeling a different spot. Alternatively, if you're pretty sure she doesn't think you're a creep who's gonna kidnap her, you could tell her to meet you some place and that the place is a surprise. If she likes surprises, this is a great tactic, whic…
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:16 AM
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Yeah, get her number as soon as she confirms and shoot her a text (maybe toss in something clever or something) just to get your number into her phone. If you're asking whether you should be talking with her between now and then, that's up to you. A lot of people here advise keeping texting to a minimum, which (unless she's really into texting you first) is usually a good call.
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:10 PM
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Well, chances are you aren't an 11/10 looks wise [to her,] so she's probably hedging because you've failed to build any real rapport - or it could be about 1000 other things that there's no way of knowing. Since you don't have a ton to go on, your choices are pretty simple. Tell her a day / time for drinks. Avoid telling her a place for now, if possible; you can use that when the date gets closer to reinforce the plans and [hopefully] prevent her from bailing or forgetting, without seeming insec…
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:34 PM
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Show us the rest. I assume there are more messages that inform her somewhat unusual response? I mean, "maybe just a drink" seems to be odd phrasing... Without further information, I'd say telling her a day and time is probably the way to go. If it doesn't work, either wait for her to specify a day/time that does work, or tell her another day/time. I personally might throw her some snark for what appears to be hedging (again, I'd need to see the rest of your convo to know if that's what it is.) I…
/r/seduction20/01/16 02:53 PM
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After reading this post and comments, I'm not so sure I would point people to oil based scents (assuming what people are saying is true.). From what I've read, most oil based scents tend to have great longevity, but don't project much at all (ie. unless someone is super close to you, they won't smell it.) If you're wearing cologne with hopes of others smelling you, it seems logical that you'd be searching for something with at least a bit of projection power.
/r/seduction18/01/16 02:35 AM
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After reading this post and comments, I'm not so sure I would point people to oil based scents. If you're wearing cologne with hopes of others smelling you, it seems logical that you'd be searching for something with at least a bit of projection power. From what I've read, most oil based scents tend to have great longevity, but don't project much at all (ie. unless someone is super close to you, they won't smell it.)
/r/seduction17/01/16 09:15 PM
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That set of lines would be SUPER easy to fuck up, or have end horribly even with proper delivery. A lot of girls really are insecure, and unless they've got a good sense of humor, telling them that (regardless of tone or body language) is likely to piss them off.
/r/seduction13/01/16 10:19 PM
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indefatigable y tho
/r/seduction11/01/16 05:06 PM
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If you asked someone to bet whether a person (who they haven't seen) is attractive just based on the fact that they're employed as a model, most people will bet that they're attractive; it's a very reasonable assumption and therefore, so are my conclusions. Further, super attractive girls, and super attractive/successful guys both use tinder. It's easy, so regardless of their success with the opposite sex offline they still are on there, frequently. Could I be wrong? Sure. Could you? Yup. Given …
/r/seduction02/12/15 03:38 AM
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I don't think my assumption that she's attractive because she's going to be modeling as her job is outrageous at all - however, it would also do a lot to explain this interaction if she's not very good looking, so maybe you're right. And no, you don't have to be Brad Pitt to get action on tinder, but to have a hot girl message you first, engage in weak-ish small talk, and then for her to rush right into super dirty talking AND set a meetup? Either he's very good looking, she REALLY loves dogs, h…
/r/seduction02/12/15 02:33 AM
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Everything I've read on text/tinder game would lead me to believe that this is a pretty poor example of how to use tinder. If you matched with a tinder girl who apparently is hot enough to model, she started the conversation, and THIS convo led got super dirty after this point, I'm gonna have to guess you're pretty damn attractive yourself. I know it's a cop-out but unless you hit the tinder lottery, things just don't really add up here unless it's assumed you're very attractive.
/r/seduction01/12/15 10:51 PM
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Yep. He's essentially hedging. Some might say that's a good idea and some might say it's bad. On one hand, he's casting a wider net because he's less likely to offend the hoards of girls who have now jumped on the bastardized-feminism bandwagon about how offense it is that men feel it's acceptable to hit on girls out of the blue, in public, and he's more likely to lessen the embarrassment that shy girls might feel. On the other hand, it may make him seem a bit unsure of himself, or less confiden…
/r/seduction22/11/15 08:00 PM
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/r/seduction isn't a marketplace, so your analogy is a weak one at best.
/r/seduction13/11/15 12:35 PM
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girls get really frustrated when you don't just chase them like they want A lot of girls like being chased because it validates their fragile egos, but as soon as you actually do chase, they lose interest because they already gotten the primary thing they want from you. This is part of the reason that there's the stigma that girls always go for assholes. The 'assholes' are often perceived as such because they aren't as 'nice' in that they don't give validation quickly or easily (or at all someti…
/r/seduction11/11/15 06:00 PM
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Thanks for weighing in, boss.
/r/seduction04/11/15 07:50 PM
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Fair enough man, don't be discouraged by my words, but as I noted in my response to the guy who got butthurt on your behalf, you may want to really consider your goals. Your current success sounds a lot like what is commonly referred to as 'oneitis' around here. Maybe I'm wrong and you're going out and talking to/dating lots of girls, in which case keep up the good work. However, if not, you may want to consider what you are trying to accomplish. Do you want a relationship or do you just want fe…
/r/seduction04/11/15 04:54 AM
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First off, I'm not trying to be an ass, I legitimately think that guy is trolling. Second, if he's not trolling, then he seems to be missing the point of /r/seduction pretty badly. If his comment were an OP, he'd get tons of comments asking what the hell he's doing, telling him he needs to move much more quickly, see multiple women, and lose the oneitis, all of which would be solid advice in the context of this sub. Again though, I really think he's trolling. But if you still think I'm being an …
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:42 AM
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Plot twist: it was Halloween - OP's costume was Caitlin Jenner.
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:02 AM
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I've been going out with a girl the past five weekends. Are we at the perfect time in our relationship where I can kiss you now? You'd been seeing a girl for over a month and hadn't made a move yet? This is a troll post, yes?
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:01 AM
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"Let's smash pissers"
/r/seduction21/10/15 02:35 AM
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I think the way you dress is worth considering as well. A lot of guys don't really consider what type of aesthetic they're cultivating when they put on clothes. I could write pages on things that should be considered, but I really don't have the time or patience for that. If you want to post pictures of some typical outfits and blur your face I'll critique them if you wish. There are tons of things you probably would never think about that could be hurting you in this regard. Up to you.
/r/seduction09/09/15 05:01 PM
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It's seems unlikely that you'll get any responses directing you on how to achieve your goal here, because this situation is exactly the opposite of what this community is striving to achieve. You appear to be playing into "oneitis" and it's making you seem desperate. Right now you're chasing a girl who has [apparently] told you point blank that she's not attracted to you, but she thinks you're funny. If that doesn't sound like the Friendzone, I don't know what does. Also, you have a second tinde…
/r/seduction08/09/15 02:38 PM
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again RIP your inbox
/r/seduction03/09/15 10:04 PM
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Do it.
/r/seduction03/09/15 07:10 PM
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RIP this thread.
/r/seduction03/09/15 06:59 PM
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You should probably be aware that her boyfriend could cause some grief. I think a lot of guys would probably strongly dislike the guy that his gf is living with, especially if he feels threatened by you (if you're better looking, more muscular, more successful, better conversationalist, more friends, or if he realizes you're good with women.) Consider that you're living with his girl and he has no clue what's going on between you most of the time - that would make a lot of guys paranoid, especia…
/r/seduction14/05/15 08:41 PM
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Don't know how old you are, but getting a job, or doing something to better your chances at getting a job (ie. education) should really be your number one priority right now... like, that should be WAY higher on your list of priorities than getting hobbies or texting to girls.
/r/seduction14/05/15 04:59 PM
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No sense in doing this. Making enemies is rarely a good call.
/r/seduction07/05/15 04:28 PM
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100% of the time Case closed, pack it up fellas.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:07 PM
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I'm not saying don't be 'ballsy,' I'm saying if you care about improving your close rate, you should limit how often, and in what situations you are this type of ballsy via text messages.
/r/seduction05/05/15 03:33 PM
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Definitely a high risk maneuver, but there is still a chance it'll work. The gamble you're making is that the girl is horny, slutty, and attracted enough just via the pictures and small amount of interacting you've done via text. Personally I've had it work numerous times, but to be completely honest, the chance of it working decreases dramatically with more attractive girls. If I really want to maximize my chances of meeting a girl, I'm probably not going to try anything quite as sexual as what…
/r/seduction05/05/15 02:43 PM
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I believe that's exactly the point he's trying to make. The girl he's responding to is saying she do not want to be approached; /u/blondedre3000 is calling that statement into question by suggesting that she would probably LIKE being approached at the gym, IF the guy doing the approaching was physically attractive to her.
/r/seduction21/04/15 02:05 PM
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Intensifies
/r/seduction21/04/15 01:49 PM
5

This seems a lot like recommending extra extra EXTRA strength duct-tape to slowly repair a boat that's already underwater. You might be able to do it (at least temporarily,) but even if it does work, it's probably not going to hold up for long. Besides, do you really want to spend that much time in a sinking boat? Better advice is to hit the gym, work on your finances, and find a new girl along the way (by the way, this kid is 20... having a life together shouldn't even be considered if the sex …
/r/seduction16/04/15 01:33 PM
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Well, I mean, you got numbers and a date - why not start escalating those girls?
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:50 PM
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Not to detract from your execution (because it sounds like you nailed it,) but I have a feeling you probably wouldn't have even gotten the opportunity to use your moves if you didn't follow rules 1 & 2 pretty rigorously. Just a reality check (for me, really) - gotta keep hitting the gym.
/r/seduction07/04/15 04:26 PM
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A lot of what you've written are examples of outcome independence (a heavily promoted ideal around here.) I don't know if there's a specific term for doing what you want on dates instead of trying to figure out what will please your date, but it's another concept that's espoused frequently. Lastly, the whole thing about coffee is essentially just being assertive. Sounds like your doing the right things and they're paying off; well done.
/r/seduction06/04/15 08:26 PM
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/u/nobody2000 for mod.
/r/seduction06/04/15 08:18 PM
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I think this is the right way to go. I'm of the opinion that paying for the girl is not only archaic, but also could work against you if your goal it simply to get laid. Problem 1) "Boyfriend Material" By paying, you may come off as a gentlemanly, chivalrous, someone who makes a decent amount of money, etc. A LOT of girls will associate those qualities more strongly with a potential boyfriend instead of a potential hookup. If your goal isn't to find a loving, respectful relationship, then by pay…
/r/seduction30/03/15 06:03 PM
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Do you pay for the food/drink?
/r/seduction30/03/15 02:38 PM
1

Did you consider trying to recover from the kiss refusal? I've had some success in the past confronting what just happened with some gentle teasing IF she's already shown interest. I joke around a lot and tease throughout the conversation (usually) so it makes sense for me. Besides, it provides an opportunity to sexualize the conversation if you weren't already there.
/r/seduction24/03/15 06:09 PM
1

Seriously. The only reason my first time was any good was because the girl was the one doing everything, and she was not only pumped to take the vcard, but she was also a crazy nympho who really knew what she was doing. The next girl who I ended up doing most of my learning with was absolutely terrible which means I had to really hone my skills to make it even halfway decent.
/r/seduction22/03/15 06:02 PM
1

Understandable. I've seen a few female friends using tinder. I won't make that mistake again; it's just stupidly demoralizing.
/r/seduction21/03/15 06:13 PM
1

Yep, I read too quickly. Good call.
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:57 PM
1

If that's true, you clearly follow the fuck out of rules 1 and 2, and you can do the same thing IRL. No, it's universal. If you want to hit the limit just keep swiping right for a while. The limit is based on the number of right-swipes, and is independent of how many matches those right-swipes generate.
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:21 PM
2

Yeah... the whole thing seems painfully fedora when all that was really needed was some version of "hey, let's meet up for a drink at ____ at ____ on ____."
/r/seduction19/03/15 06:33 PM
3

I'm wondering if it would have been more worthwhile for him to admit attraction, accept the request for friendship, maybe tease her for the wall of text and then pull WAAAY back on the contact since he's really not too interested. It leaves her with a more positive feeling about him instead of completely closing the door. In the future, that could lead to her introducing him to her girl friends, or even deciding that she does want to bang him. Either way, a "yes" seems to give value instead of t…
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:30 PM
1

As others have said, from here you have little chance of doing anything that will get you out of the friendzone unless for some reason this was some sort of game she's playing and your "no" gets her to start qualifying herself, but seeing as she hasn't text you back, I'd say that's unlikely. The best you can hope for is that after a good bit of time she might contact you again because she's decided she does want to sleep with you after-all; this is also unlikely if she has a lot of suitors. I'm …
/r/seduction16/03/15 09:25 PM
4

Could be a of a cultural thing too. I have no real experience with Japanese culture or the women, but I'm sure someone else who does may be able to speak to this.
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:12 PM
3

Very curious to see some discussion on this subject. This article appears to directly contradict much of the advice that's given around here.
/r/seduction09/03/15 03:06 PM
21

Likewise.
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:42 PM
38

Tweaked a little bit, this would be perfect if read by David Attenborough.
/r/seduction27/02/15 06:31 PM
2

Who were you trying to reply to? Surely not OP...
/r/seduction27/02/15 04:05 PM
8

What can I say, I just want to watch the world burn.
/r/seduction26/02/15 10:13 PM
7

45 upvotes and no comments at all? That's a first.
/r/seduction26/02/15 09:59 PM
3

"why do you lump a whole gender into one group? do you agree that all women only want douchebags and bad boys?" With a response like this, I just don't think the odds are in your favor. If she's already in a negative place, you're going to need a flawless delivery (joking or teasing) and you're gambling that she's going to receive the delivery the way you intended, which seems unlikely if she's already in a negative place; if she doesn't receive it the way you intended, you better hope she's alr…
/r/seduction26/02/15 06:15 PM
1

Yeah, that's what I was thinking; just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing something. Thanks.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:52 PM
2

If you tell someone what they should or shouldn't do, or even worse, what they should or shouldn't feel, you're going to have a bad time. Is it ever appropriate to tell a girl what to do? Seems like that would follow along with some of the advice around here about being confident, knowing what you want, saying what you want, being decisive boarding on dominant, etc. I dunno, I feel like I'm missing something.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:28 PM
1

Listen to what they have to say, but don't just trust them without question. I've gotten a lot of bad advice from guys who were bigger and with more gym dedication that me over the years, and I've gotten some good advice too. Point is, just because someone hits the gym doesn't necessarily mean they know shit. They may be able to do stuff that gets them big, but it's not necessarily the best way, a safe way or a way that will work for you.
/r/seduction14/02/15 02:56 PM
2

I think this is Tomak. Or Bellgarde. Tough to say which.
/r/seduction13/02/15 08:44 PM
2

Alcohol does a whole bunch of terrible shit. There are plenty of articles detailing the havoc it wreaks, but notably, it fucks up your sleep (which is just stupidly important), can decrease testosterone, cause depression, severely mess with your libido, and so much more. Almost none of alcohol's effects are positive.
/r/seduction13/02/15 06:19 PM
1

Go to /r/fitness and read the sidebar. Learn the basics, read about proper eating, read about beginner weight training programs and mobility/stretching programs. While you're reading, jump on amazon and buy yourself a digital food scale (a search will tell you what to look for, like a 'tare' function.) When you select a program, find videos instructing (in detail) proper form AND mental cues to help you achieve proper form - this is very important to about injury. As you start working out, KEEP …
/r/seduction13/02/15 06:14 PM
2

then i'm half biggie smalls and half jonah hill. I don't want to assume or give advice based on an assumption, so instead I'll ask: did you select those two because they're both kinda round?
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:23 PM
2

http://youtu.be/BLPaAXx0cHg
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:50 AM
3

Snapchat video chat. At least you'll be able to verify she's actually who she says. The risk of meeting greatly increases when you're not meeting somewhere public. Just like Craigslist, there are people out there using this shit to mug ppl.
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:26 AM
2

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:26 PM
1

I'm given to understand that those things are at best placebos...
/r/seduction09/02/15 03:48 AM
9

Example: accidentally eating the cum box.
/r/seduction09/02/15 03:45 AM
2

I'm a bit confused about this. You're obviously getting upvotes, but until now, I usually see verbose texts discouraged around here, especially after not receiving a response to your previous text (I believe the logic is that it conveys desperation and gives the girl validation that you're really into her.) Additionally, (and maybe I'm missing something) but how can you be sure things didn't backfire because of that text? Maybe she was just trying to decide about that date, and the text you sent…
/r/seduction06/02/15 10:10 PM
1

Seriously? You said those things to women and ended up closing them?
/r/seduction04/02/15 06:51 AM
3

If she calls or texts you, tell her that you need to be left alone for a while and ask her not to try contacting you. Screw this part. Call your carrier and see if you can carrier-block a number. It should prevent her calls and texts from even getting to your number. If you can't carrier block, use a blocking app. Find one that rejects everything outright, doesn't keep a log of what's blocked and doesn't notify you when it's blocking something - the reasoning for all this should be obvious. Also…
/r/seduction03/02/15 06:43 AM
2

I believe he said she messaged him on WhatsApp which involves a social-media-like profile picture.
/r/seduction02/02/15 03:26 PM
4

www.YouTube.com Plz deliver.
/r/seduction30/01/15 03:17 AM
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