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dividingday/r/seduction02/08/11 05:24 PM
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Be up front and say "listen bucko, I dunno if you plan to show up in a skirt too, but I'm the lady here so you better plan to give chase even if it's just for show." What a great line! I think I will probably use this word-for-word. Thank you!!! I get the feeling that you think showing interest in dating makes you the loser (or at least makes you lose "the game"). It's a shame that most people inherently ascribe to this belief. Yeah, I know what you mean. But it's kind of true in all walks of li…
/r/seduction02/08/11 09:51 PM
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Trouble is, he's not texting me at all :( So there's not much to ignore. I still haven't responded to the last text he sent me though (cuz I can't really figure out what to say), so maybe that's a start? I wonder if he will read that as indignant, obviously "punishing" or childish, though. What do I want with him and why? Excellent question. He's cute, but he's no GQ model. He made me laugh and I really enjoyed talking to him about his work and his travels. I thought he liked hanging out with me…
/r/seduction02/08/11 09:13 PM
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It doesn't sound like you plan to turn around and give him another shot once you've made him realize what he's missing. Actually, yes, I do. So maybe I wouldn't 'hardcore' blow him off...just enough to convince him to actually put in some effort? I suppose my original question is how to get him to realize what he's missing, or if people think it is a lost cause. Maybe he's not looking for a FWB and since he knows that's all you really want he's deciding to remain un-invested, but still up for it…
/r/seduction02/08/11 08:56 PM
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I do want the guy. My current strategy of going for it by texting him isn't working. Hence, asking for advice here. Didn't mean to come across so gold-diggery. I feel like I could probably get together with him and sleep with him, but if I did that at this point, we'd part ways in the morning and I'd never hear from him again. Which would make me feel really horrible. Like, he got what he wanted, now he's onto the next score. I know I wouldn't coldly drop him after I 'got what I wanted,' so to s…
/r/seduction02/08/11 08:43 PM
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Aw man, you caught me. I am an unattractive, lying, crazy girl. Thank you for spending precious minutes of your life showing me the error of my ways.
/r/seduction02/08/11 07:04 PM
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Thanks! That was very helpful. I'll see if I can set this up.
/r/seduction02/08/11 06:51 PM
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Oh, please. Like he wasn't planning on sleeping with me and then never calling me again, while leading me to expect that he was genuinely interested in me as a person (which he definitely had been). And as I said to another responder, that's only the reason I give for not moving on immediately. I didn't want you guys to dismiss it as oneitis (which maybe it is) and tell me to move on (which maybe I should). I genuinely think he's a really cool guy and if we did keep seeing each other and I got t…
/r/seduction02/08/11 06:49 PM
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Wise words. So just freeze him out?
/r/seduction02/08/11 06:39 PM
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Aw, I see what you mean but I'm honestly not going for that. His job/usefulness to me is not the reason I liked him in the first place. I find him attractive, intelligent, charming, etc. He made me laugh and I found him intriguing. I was genuinely interested in getting to know him better and spending more time with him. I guess I am a little hurt that he doesn't seem to feel similarly excited about me. I would just cut my losses and move on, but I thought I'd see if there was any way to salvage …
/r/seduction02/08/11 06:38 PM
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Thanks for your input. I don't care to recapture his interest only very temporarily, though. Plus, that feels like rewarding bad behavior. If I can't do something to hold his attention for at least the next three months, then I will just walk away. There are lots of other awesome guys I can sleep with.
/r/seduction02/08/11 05:55 PM
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Hmmm...he did send me a friend request on FB, so I could just pick one of his buddies :)
/r/seduction02/08/11 05:53 PM
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