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I read on some if the dating subs that place is extremely bitter.
/r/seduction31/08/17 07:48 PM
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You deal with it by doing it again. And then again...and then again. And you keep on doing it. Eventually you will get a horrible rejection and it will sting....so you know what you do when that happens? You...do. it. again. And FINALLY, you will be so tired of talking to women, of approaching them, you will feel numb to any rejection you get. That is when you will know you no longer have approach anxiety.
/r/seduction31/07/17 07:27 PM
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It probably is a grass is greener on the other side thing. You really need to be truthful with yourself on why you are thinking about it. Is it her, is it you, do you two not click? Dont stay because she is a safe bet and dont go Because you think there is nicer pieces of ass. Really think about the shit.
/r/seduction14/06/17 04:29 AM
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Something I've learned recently. If you are trying with a girl and you end up in that situation where she it feels like she is making excuses doing what op says... Quit talking to her. If she is truly interested, she will start making time to keep you around. If not, Well, you know where you stand...
/r/seduction23/05/17 01:22 AM
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You know, my experiences are starting to lean that way too. It is still early in the "amount" of women I have dated. But the ones who have come through so far are the ones I kept normal conversations with not the ones I text and ghost till a date.
/r/seduction05/05/17 07:44 PM
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I think there is a bit of misinformation here. Some women will use texting, calls, etc to just have a "friend" with no intent of creating what he wants. Texting is cool if you are dating, getting to know each other, etc and have limited time to spend together... But if the girl is texting, chatting, and not moving past it...then he is stuck in the friend zone and that is not cool. He needs to make his intentions well known and stop the friendly chatter until he knows if she is just trying to kee…
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:17 PM
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It could be the same as the "you are the best I've ever slept with" comment. There is no way I have been the best every girl has ever slept with. So I take it as a ego boost comment women like to give men they find interesting.
/r/seduction05/04/17 06:05 PM
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You are indeed right. Thanks. That was main reason I made the post. I mean, it can't be a bust for everyone...so I know I'm missing something. I was curious of others honest experience in making this stuff work out in a more positive way.
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:59 PM
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I had something similar happen recently. Met this woman online. She seemed great at first. Pretty, had fun together, good solid conversations, etc... Then she started asking random needy text like "Are you thinking about me?" I couldn't handle it anymore so I decided to break it off. She absolutely flipped the fuck out on me, yelling, telling me I was using her and such.
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:51 PM
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I'll check it out, thanks.
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:38 PM
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I get that. I truly do. Nobody wants to deal with rude, creepy people and I have no answer for why some guys do this. I honestly can't see how this tactic works. But when the profile is legit and I message the girl with a legit question or comment, it is down right rude to read the question and ignore answering. Think about it this way... You are standing in line at a store. The guy in front of you has some new type of organic cereal that looks interesting. He is kinda cute so maybe you can star…
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:34 PM
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I've tried several. Tinder, Bumble, the traditional ones like POF and Match. The irony is I have had the most success on Bumble, which forces women to message first. But that is still spotty.
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:51 PM
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Where do you usually meet women in person?
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:47 PM
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How did you come across these meetups?
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:45 PM
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My phone butchered the original post which I had to do a lot of repairs. I get what you mean though.
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:40 PM
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Very true. Honestly though, I prefer women my age with kids. There is commonality as I have them too. Plus most women my age with kids are done and no longer want more kids. Which I don't.
/r/seduction04/04/17 11:06 PM
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You gotta be careful with redpill. SOME of the information is great but it is also very toxic. Anger breeds depression. And depression is a rabbit hole If I have ever seen one.
/r/seduction04/04/17 10:58 PM
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Bar scene is rough at my age also. The problem comes down to age with the bar scene. Most decent women have children now days. It is a shitty truth but we have to be honest here. Women like this no longer frequent bars. Not the ones you'd want to keep around anyway. The other option is church. I have noticed a lot of online women claiming "church, god, etc..". But those of us not religious... Well, shit...there goes that.
/r/seduction04/04/17 10:51 PM
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