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| 220 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all. | Inner Game | divyanthj | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 11:42 AM |
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| 1 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.It's a lot bigger than you think | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being logical and start being fun around girls? (Didnt find any similar threads)If you are guarded, you have 0% chance to get her. If you are free and unguarded, you have 1% chance to get her (assuming you are desirable to only 1% of people in the world). Even if you have a personality that is so disgusting that only 1% of all humans will ever like you, 1% is greater than 0%. I keep reminding myself of this fact every time I talk to a girl. I know I don't succeed always, but this is what helps me stay fun and silly rather than logical. Obviously that 1% is an exaggeration. … | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.This is the very point I am disagreeing with. If there's only a chance of her getting uncomfortable but also a chance that she might find the love her life in you, it's a bargain well-struck. So go for it. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 01:35 AM |
| 3 | This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it)I believe in a slight variation of the "soulmate myth" and this has helped me tremendously in game. It is the fact that off the 4B people on this planet, all I need is 1. There are probably a 100 others just within the city who are perfectly compatible with me. There are at least 10 women in the mall I'm at right now, who would be glad that I approached them. This mindset (whether it's true or false) helps me do the volume game; of the 10 approaches I make, at least 2 will end up as great dates. | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.Yeah that's fair. I always approach in a way that she has the option to run away. So no approaching in metros (subways) and buses either. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.Feminists say the same thing. "Believe me because I said so, I can't live up to your standards of accountability" | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.I think this is the whole point. "To the detriment of their own freedom/happiness". Reasonable accommodations can be made but not at the expense of one's own freedom and happiness. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.What is a potentially vulnerable situation? Is a lone woman out and about in public a vulnerable situation? These things can't be gauged so easily. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:04 PM |
| -1 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.Empathy is a luxury for neurotypicals and ADHDs. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 07:03 PM |
| 16 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.Reflect, yes. Speculate? No | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.Approaching itself is a gamble anyway. Maybe she likes being approached. Or maybe she hates it. When I'm at least 50% certain I won't make her uncomfortable then it's justified | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 22 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.I get what you mean. I can't drive at 80mph on a 30mph road while being drunk. Nor can I walk into a ladies' restroom to find people to open. But I should make a reasonable assessment of the consequences before taking action. This means I probably won't approach someone wearing a zombie costume. But it's cruel to wonder if just your normal self is scary to women. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??I'm a guy and I've roleplayed cold approach with other men and I get what you mean. And both men and women feel the same way when they are approached by either men or women. I've even felt "attracted" to my male wings when they do their moves on me. I tell them to stop and "cringe" away for the same reasons as women do; have attraction but not feeling comfortable with the interaction. Come to think of it, I think majority of guys get rejected not because they are not attractive but because they … | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??Emotional Spike: Anything you say that will slightly evoke an emotional response. You can find examples in turning mundane things into something interesting. For instance, let's say you have a question "Are you waiting for a cab?" You can first turn the question into a statement "Looks like you are waiting for a cab" An emotional spike from this would be "You look like you've been waiting for a cab for such a long time and the drivers keep cancelling on you" You exaggerate, blow a part of your o… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 10:07 PM |
| 60 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??My approach 1. First go into the street and play the momentum game. Approach 10 girls and give them compliments 2. It doesn't have to be 10 as long as there is at least 1 really attractive one. 3. As you approach these many girls, you hit something called "state" where your ability to approach people improves after each successive approach. 4. Once you hit state, try to have a conversation with the next girl you open. Stay in the interaction for 1 more minute. In conversation 1. Open (keep the 5… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 04:01 AM |
| 30 | Tips on getting someone out of your leagueIt's usually easier to get someone out of your league because everybody else thinks they're out of their league so they don't actually get approached. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:33 AM |
| 3 | How to get laid with minimal conversationTurn her on first. Besides sexual touch, here's what I found turns girls on You passing shit tests Her passing compliance tests Teasing Banter / Jokes Generally being fun / having energy that's higher than her but just low enough for her to match you You don't have to get all of these done but compliance test is an excellent way to determine if she is into you or not. Compliance test means just that; compliance. Women who are attracted to you will do literally anything for you; it's uncanny and … | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Infinite Abundance Of WomenYou've got to get some reference experience to be able to internalize that. A reference experience is basically an experience that you'd look back to and realize that it's possible to do it again. For example, brushing your teeth in the morning comes naturally to you because you have reference experience doing it. Otherwise you'd feel weird about the idea of putting a plastic thing in your mouth and moving it across your teeth. You'd worry about hurting your gums or even be poisoned by this stra… | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 06:20 PM |
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