dixie_chicken Archive

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3	Confusing situation regarding NYE Never do a salty or butthurt follow up comment, it just ruins things for the future. Trust me, been there done that. Just give her some space and in a few days say use this strategy: Don't ask her "if" she wants to hang out. Tell her to pick between two times. For example say "Hey I'd love to grab dinner this week. I'm free Tuesday at 5 or Wednesday at 6. Let me know which time works better" This frames it in her mind as when she's going out with you, not if she is. If you don't get a response, …	/r/seduction	03/01/16 10:12 AM
2	What separates me from the "alpha" guys? [high school] Ever heard the little obscure noun "sonder" thrown around? It's the realization that everyone around you is living their own life, as intricate and detailed and vivid as yours. What people see of you is exactly what you see of them. The key realization here is that nobody really cares - everyone is so caught up in their own lives that they rarely stop to look around. Stop worrying about "being alpha" or whatever stupid terms are often said. This is a huge insecurity - you're constantly comparing…	/r/seduction	01/12/15 08:17 AM