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| 1 | Seeing 2 girls that don't know about the other at a partyI mean I've taken them on dates and had sex with them though so I do treat them a bit like girlfriends. The older one is likely to wanna dance with me. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Can jokes about something gross turn a girl off of you if she was attracted to you?Thanks. This is the answer I needed | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Can jokes about something gross turn a girl off of you if she was attracted to you?Well I know one of them at least has used reddit at some point but basically the joke was about jenkem. Soft next? lol | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Can jokes about something gross turn a girl off of you if she was attracted to you?I don't wanna be specific on here | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Starting to see what you guys meanBeing in this exact situation a few years ago is exactly how I found TRP. Had oneitis for girl, made out and did lots of heavy petting but she wouldn't let me escalate further. Pretty sure it was a mix of beta behavior I was projecting at the time and the fact that when I reached down for under her panties it was only the 2nd time I ever fingered a girl so my inexperience probably came off in it and it turned her off. Probably what happened here. I also came to find out girl was a massive hoe | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Girl I went nc on invites me to partyYeah, I figured I'd go and just not hover around her or talk to her too much. I just wanted 2nd opinions | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Best way to break a long dry spell?I'm 160lbs fool | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Setting up 2nd dateTexted her, she texted back like 3 hours later. I texted an hour after that. Been almost another lol so we'll see if she's still into it | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Chances killed by famous musician?I honestly don't even really know how to do a same night kind of thing like that. Pretty much every girl I've ever banged I did some sort of texting and stuff with before hand. I've only ever taken a girl home from a bar once and I was completely hammered. When she pulled back from kissing me and suggested going back to the social event what should I have done? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with feelings of inferiority and insecurity?Well it happened a while back and it was just a reminder of where I was in my group of friends and that it has always been this way. It's a small part of a much bigger picture. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with feelings of inferiority and insecurity?I didn't actually have sex with her but she'd make out a bunch with me and then she got totally platonic and I basically became an orbiter. Haven't seen her in a long as time and I've hooked up with other girls since then so idk why I liked her so much and why it irked me and fucked me up so much but it did. I know resentment and jealousy is pathetic and beta but these feelings are there and they're hard to ignore. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Should I go back to college? How necessary is it for success?That's my end goal | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Should I go back to college? How necessary is it for success?Yeah, it's kinda starting to look like I'll be going back after three years away. I hope I don't stand out too much being 23 in a class of 19-20 year olds tho | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 10:55 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend spends too much time with this guyLol nice bait | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Is banging your neighbor sitting where you eat?It's a house that's been divided into 4 apartments and I would be seeing her regularly afterward if it happened | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Is banging your neighbor sitting where you eat?Yeah I did too but the autocorrect on my phone didn't. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Why i attract girls when im on day 6-7 of no fap?Lol just relapsed this morning on day 6. Fuck | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Had sex with my oneitisLol good to see some other redpillers are DAC fans | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why will girls dance with you and even make out but then not want anything more?I wasn't talking about like a relationship I was talking about why would they grind and make out but not wanna fuck or meet up later | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Does asking "when are you free?" In a text not seem an assertive enough response to "when and where?"First time I've asked. It's just weird cause she seemed so down | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Does asking "when are you free?" In a text not seem an assertive enough response to "when and where?"Well damn. Don't wanna double text now. Guess I'll just hit her up this weekend and if she's not tryin to chill I'll move on. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Does asking "when are you free?" In a text not seem an assertive enough response to "when and where?"How is figuring out when she'd be available autistic? I guess I probably should've just said a time and place though | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Thanks dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Idk man I was never an incel, just had bad luck with girls. Kinda turned it around this past year though so they should be able to as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Working, watching TV and not all too involved when home. Didn't have as close a relationship with him as I did with my mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?As much as I hate to admit it you're probably right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?We honestly were pretty trashy but we were dumb kids so it ain't that bad. Ah, well. I'm moving several states away soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Well me and a lot of my friends actually were doing drugs as teenagers so I just assumed they were telling the truth about the sex too. Looking back a lot of exaggeration did go on though. Friend of mine admitted he only made out with a girl but he told us all he banged her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Yeah, I know it doesn't actually matter that much. It's more how I was treated and insecurities stemming from that. Also bitter cause I really do feel like I was sold a lie growing up and I have these memories of girls who I thought I clicked so well with hurting me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?My parents didn'nt have that kind of talk about sex with me. Religious upbringing mixed with my mom being an old hippie who was probably hurt by some dudes back in the day teaching me to repress my sexuality, sexualizing women was disrespectful of them and made me a chauvinist pig and basically conditioning me to be a simp and a "nice guy". Other than that it was a topic that was avoided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Hmm lets hope so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?and it did have an effect on me, so I know it's not only a theoretical problem. But in the end the only thing that really matters is whether you like being in a relationship or not and whether you like sleeping around or not. Just do what is more fun to you at the moment. Sleeping around if you feel like it or entering a relationship with a woman you are really attracted to. Thanks man. I'm actually the happiest I've been by just focusing on my career and my childhood dream of starting a band lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Yeah. I know I'm probably just making shit up in my head that I probably shouldn't worry about it and just focus on my goals and dreams. I just got teased about it a lot when I was younger. Probably has to do with my social circle and where I grew up (druggie/stoner kids in rural, mountainous community in the southeast). My buddies were mostly 14-16 when they lost it. first gf was 14 when she lost it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?I'm still young (22) and learning a lot so maybe I'm just making shit up in my head that I shouldn't really worry about. Moving to a city soon anyways so I'll have a new life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?was missing out, not respected by other guys and that there was something wrong with me when I was younger. Part of my bitterness is that I really feel like I was sold a lie growing up too. Especially that this red pill stuff has worked pretty well for me. Wanderlust, creativity, kindness, good humor, driven for success. Someone that makes you think something like "what a good hearted person" or "He's really fucking good at what he does and has his shit together" or "he's interest and has a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Maybe thats just my social circle and where I grew up. I kinda hung out with a druggie crowd in a rural, Appalachian community in the southeast. Most of my homeboys growing up were like 14-16. My first gf was 14. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Well lets hope I can reach where you are some day. Been focusing on myself more and I've been having better luck with girls. Moving away soon so hopefully I can start a whole new life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?I feel the stupid situations lmao. Ignoring red flags, lowering standards and such lol. Had a pregnancy scare where this baptist church girl who wasn't on birth control talked my dumb, drunk, horny ass into taking the condom off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?Some of my current friends are the same ones from the past some aren't. I moved back to my hometown after living in a small city about an hour away for two years (a high school friend was a roommate), The ones that didn't know me then don't really even make a big deal about it but the ones that did are surprised, tell me I look like a man now, and always joke and tease me about my "plate" and how she won't leave me alone. I guess now that I think of it they seem more happy that I've grown overal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?No I definitely would. I think most dudes would like to bang a lot of girls. I just felt like I was missing out, not respected by other guys and that there was something wrong with me when I was younger. Part of my bitterness is that I really feel like I was sold a lie growing up too. Especially that this red pill stuff has worked pretty well for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?It's more like growing up how many girls you got kinda influenced how other guys saw you and how they treated you (at least in my social circle which was kind of a strange mix of stoner/druggie, redneck, and punk/skater kid/whatever you call it). Maybe it was in my head but I had like an inferiority complex thing goin on where I'd feel like guys didn't respect me and that there was something wrong with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not experiencing sexual success growing up as a male will mess him up and make him feel more prone to thinking he needs sexual validation for the rest of his life?I have been. I finally have some real goals and I've gotten back to a lot of old hobbies I'd neglected in the past (did way too many drugs as a teenager.) Wanna move to the city and start a band. If all goes well I may never even read anything on reddit again. I'm honestly the happiest I've ever been and am looking forward to the future. I've even had much more success with girls (partially thanks to stuff I read on TRP.) When I think about how a girl I had a huge crush on a few years ago would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 09:43 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The reason most people are not BP, is because BP is a narrow demographic of naïve middle class white liberals.Lol what do you mean by "idealism"? So if I grew up in a more liberal culture all she wouldn't have left me for cringey beta behavior and trying to get her back with even more would've been the right idea? That's what we mean by the "blue pill." My mom always taught me "be a gentleman", "don't be a pig like many men are" and this paired with strong religious upbringing made me feel guilty for sexualizing women, led to "nice guy" syndrome and really fucked me up in a lot of ways and didn't prepar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 04:12 PM |
| 15 | CMV: The reason most people are not BP, is because BP is a narrow demographic of naïve middle class white liberals.After reading TRP stuff online I kinda noticed that working class people are naturally more red pill. Some of the rednecks and black kids I grew up around were some of the most red pilled people I ever met. Less likely to marry, believe in "soul mates" (this one more true of guys than girls tho), and less likely to say that "be yourself" shit. Hell, I remember the first time I got burned by a girl growing up my instinct was a bunch of cringey behavior to get her back and my good friend with the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Slut-shaming is almost non-existent in younger social circles and colleges.If you've never seen slut shaming you've never went to high school in a rural area of the south. Most of it was girls shaming other girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/17 01:24 PM |
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