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2

Yeah. That's a step up.
/r/seduction13/08/11 05:37 PM
1

It will work in the short term. But in the long term, you're validating her tendency to explode emotionally. Anger in your response is only "appropriate" insofar as it's socially appropriate (aka our lil' chimp brains naturally respond this way, so our friends will understand our doing so). It's justifiable. But it's not the best response for creating long term stability, trust, and open communication with your hoes. Fight fire with fire and you burn your dick off.
/r/seduction13/08/11 05:27 PM
1

Or a rational reorganizer.
/r/seduction10/08/11 02:17 PM
2

You have what seems to be a very reactionary opinion on this. I would suggest you sit back and reserve your judgement for a point when you actually understand what's going on here. Feel free to probe and ask questions, but here you seem rather, let's say, pathetic and wrong.
/r/seduction18/07/11 12:42 PM
4

More like "anything purposefully used for moving toward sex." If a girl slips and falls on your dick, that's not game. If you talk about commonalities or wink at her or anything of that sort, that's game. Game is indeed an umbrella term.
/r/seduction18/07/11 12:39 PM
2

Rapidly swivel head to them and in a harried, hysterical voice, say, "Do you think I'M a slut??!!!!" Then: "Then WHY did you ASK!?" now almost crying.
/r/seduction12/07/11 12:50 PM
2

yup
/r/seduction11/07/11 12:51 AM
4

Start making more decisions for you and your friend, and consciously lead everyone more. Have outspoken, solid opinions, all that.
/r/seduction09/07/11 04:24 PM
2

Cheap as in cheating? All's fair in love and facebook game.
/r/seduction05/07/11 08:47 PM
7

Meh, even geniuses evolved from paleolithic tribespeople. Also, remember: it's not always a conscious thing to be influenced by these things. Also, remember: social proof is not at all worthless.
/r/seduction05/07/11 12:59 PM
1

The middle way is the shit.
/r/seduction04/07/11 02:36 AM
2

Since you're ballsy enough to say this, and it's sarcastic, it shows that you are exactly the opposite of these things.
/r/seduction04/07/11 02:34 AM
3

Am I the only one who thinks this is a bit ghetto and somewhat insulting? No argument there. This is a wild card move to spice things up. It's more of a thing to throw more energy into the equation (in this case, WTF energy) than something to specifically get the girl fantasizing about getting curb stomped on your headboard, and girls pick up on that. But it's not for everyone/every time.
/r/seduction02/07/11 03:47 PM
0

My response would either be "Okay, I'll guess yours first" or "Are you always this lame? What happened, did your cat die today?"
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:04 PM
8

If they're super hot: "Both of you make a good team. Two nickels beats a dime, anytime."
/r/seduction01/07/11 04:04 AM
45

"What do I look like I do?"
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:46 AM
18

"Ok." Shy pause, look at feet, then back up questioningly. "Will you go first?"
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:45 AM
7

"Because you're so insecure."
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:35 AM
34

Sigh. Pause. Shrug "Alright, where's the acid? Let's do this."
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:35 AM
-1

"I have a goldfish. Anyway..."
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:34 AM
12

Good idea, but this is the reply that all guys use. If they're actually lesbians, they're going to be bored and unimpressed.
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:33 AM
77

"That's devastating news. Buy me a shot and let me cry on you."
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:31 AM
1

"Yeah, but I could beat your fucking ass." breaks bottle bottom off on her purse, holds up jagged bottle weapon with a wink
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:29 AM
1

One of those random comments that's going to stick with me for the rest of my life, as that phrase perfectly relates to me.
/r/seduction29/06/11 01:16 PM
2

I enjoy my day job as an IT guy being confined to my screen I'm no doctor, but that seems to be your problem. Branch out, talk to people, or talk to yourself, or talk to fake online people. But if you want to be in a social mood, the bottom line is that you have to find social exercise.
/r/seduction29/06/11 01:05 PM
0

I'm not anti-prostitute, but this seems like the justifications of a man who just loves prostitutes.
/r/seduction29/06/11 12:29 PM
0

Ty.
/r/seduction28/06/11 03:45 PM
1

I tried a pretty thorough search and couldn't find it, could you link it? EDIT: Found it. http://www.the21convention.com/2009/09/08/dj-fuji-t21c-2009/ Great video, I had to stay up to watch it. This came at a perfect time for me - I'm balls deep in the no-mans-land of the pain period, and this was a great new excitement infusion. Incredible teaching ability, and great easy-to-parse breakdowns. Too bad Boston is "Satan's Asshole."
/r/seduction28/06/11 05:54 AM
-1

Downvoting for improper apostrophe uses. I mean, really.
/r/seduction28/06/11 05:52 AM
2

This is like one of those chess puzzles in the paper. Interesting question. Reminds me of a Feynman story, where he says something along the lines of "I had succeeded at playing hard to get, but then at some point I had to give her a chance to get me." AKA, maybe should have gotten the number when it seemed obvious that you should.
/r/seduction28/06/11 05:51 AM
2

There's another saying (of RSD fame): "When in doubt, go with action." The important thing here is that always acting will force you to learn, while doing nothing will keep you where you are. The larger point is that there are no overarching principles at this level of life: only you and experience can determine what you must do. How do you get experience? Actoins. So, double-FUCKYOU.
/r/seduction25/06/11 05:56 AM
4

Remember that game Mario? Remember when he went into those pipes? Remember how much better it was when those pipes brought you to somewhere good? Yeaaah.
/r/seduction25/06/11 05:36 AM
2

What's this attraction TC/where can I find a more detailed summary of this exercise? Sounds awesome.
/r/seduction23/06/11 12:59 AM
2

Luckily, you've still got 40 years on 60 year olds. Think about what your older, lame self will wish he did at your age, and feel grateful that you can do that stuff. Otherwise, you can feel robbed that you didn't start playing guitar, meditating, and swimming competitively by third grade - a pointless waste of energy. You are still very lucky to find this stuff now.
/r/seduction23/06/11 12:58 AM
4

This idea is so money and you don't even know it.
/r/seduction23/06/11 12:55 AM
1

What's this attraction TC/where can I find a more detailed summary of this exercise? Sounds awesome.
/r/seduction22/06/11 10:56 PM
1

The fact that I don't understand what you're talking about makes me incredibly angry.
/r/seduction22/06/11 10:26 PM
3

Jesus, you're everywhere nowadays. Thanks a lot for this, I like the last personality test part a lot, and kudos on the KISS approach. You remind me a lot of this guy Chopan from mASF, another humble superhero of the self-actualidatin' movement (it's all I could do on short order). I'll send you some stories of his at some point, I think you'd get a kick out of them.
/r/seduction22/06/11 10:24 PM
2

That's got my vote!! Ohhh so exciting, to be on the bleeding edge! (sarcasm font) :P
/r/seduction22/06/11 09:21 PM
1

Seth Godin's the only one I'm familiar with, because of his large presence in nerd circles (great TED talks) - I like his idea of brand as a tribal community, fits with our focus on social maneuvering. I'll check the others out, thanks!
/r/seduction22/06/11 06:01 PM
3

Do you have a particularly good marketing book you can recommend?
/r/seduction22/06/11 07:43 AM
3

My dad told me once that anyone can be pretty through lifestyle. I argued that point vehemently. It took years of that idea echoing in my head to understand that yes, the vast majority of people can move within a huge spectrum of attractiveness, depending on body language, health (getting sun, eating well, exercising), and, of huge importance, the way they use their face (what types of expressions they use in the moment, what types of expression are etched into it). It was (weirdly) the most imp…
/r/seduction22/06/11 04:33 AM
3

Javier Bardem?
/r/seduction22/06/11 04:27 AM
3

Everyone goes through it, and in fact, that's a great first time. Confidence is something you will strengthen with time, but even advanced social ninjas would get temporarily shaken by fifteen shutouts. You ask what you did wrong, and I have to assume it's your delivery, body language, and possibly appearance, because you provide few specifics. If you go out next time looking well-groomed/wearing decent clothes, holding your chest out/shoulders back/head high, smiling, and using slow, powerful m…
/r/seduction12/06/11 04:04 PM
-2

What's with the no sex details? Boooring. Start with how many freckles their boobs had.
/r/seduction10/06/11 02:54 AM
1

Yup. I tend to think it makes a difference to call it out, but who knows.
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:36 AM
7

Awful advice. Did you see the part where she has a history of abuse?
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:22 PM
3

What's a VC? Vagina Closed? EDIT: Victim Chick, I guess. I'm no nancy-boy, but it seems somewhat callous to group "victim chicks" all together, especially using that retarded name.
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:20 PM
-1

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^NIGGLING^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
/r/seduction19/05/11 05:17 PM
2

Cannot have one without the other. I choose both.
/r/seduction19/05/11 01:22 AM
1

I'm going to try this.
/r/seduction17/05/11 05:12 PM
0

Your bar is too low.
/r/seduction17/05/11 05:08 PM
0

Now too many.
/r/seduction17/05/11 12:57 PM
-3

Not anymore you don't, SUCKER
/r/seduction17/05/11 12:54 PM
0

Just to piggyback, great summary of what I like about this place.
/r/seduction17/05/11 11:50 AM
-2

What, you mean like you?!
/r/seduction17/05/11 11:50 AM
1

As far as I can tell, the salient point is that the girl is not relationship material for him.
/r/seduction15/05/11 11:30 PM
1

Inspiration is job #1.
/r/seduction13/05/11 05:45 AM
1

Fun, fun. Think about fun.
/r/seduction13/05/11 05:30 AM
16

This is one example where the tl;dr just doesn't cut it.
/r/seduction11/05/11 12:32 PM
29

Good god man, sans serif that bitch.
/r/seduction10/05/11 09:26 PM
1

Important points; I like it.
/r/seduction10/05/11 05:12 PM
1

The only rule is, go with what feels right. The minimum involvement is washing yourself, winking and giggling a lot, and slipping the soap inside her.
/r/seduction09/05/11 01:44 PM
6

In my opinion, a little spice never hurt anyone. And by spice, I'm of course talking about Jenkem. Whose holding? Camaaaaaahn
/r/seduction08/05/11 03:11 PM
1

I was saying he proclaimed to have it.
/r/seduction06/05/11 12:37 AM
3

Most cool people use these resources as tools, not as guides. Here's a point-by-point response: Starting out with routines is the fastest way to adopt confidence. Many people go through the fake-it-til-you-make-it journey, and then become great naturals. Sex is the focus of seduction as an overcompensation for most guys who don't get fucked a lot, who often don't understand the importance of it. Whatever you feel about it, sex is the glue that brings most relationships together, and is the most …
/r/seduction05/05/11 03:52 PM
1

No worries, just get it out!
/r/seduction05/05/11 03:21 PM
15

He was too harsh with the cussing, sure. But his point is legitimate: your point is a point that comes up again and again in any forum like these, to the point of being a cliche. You brought nothing special to the same tired argument, which has been debated and countered endlessly, including on this very forum. The response you're getting is resentment for not being aware of the issue enough to not be a cliche, and for expecting someone here to walk you through the counter arguments as so many o…
/r/seduction05/05/11 02:41 PM
1

Gotta gotta cold approach, but you can certainly start slow. I challenge you to ask three hot girls for directions today!
/r/seduction03/05/11 01:02 PM
2

What has this damn dirty world come to?
/r/seduction02/05/11 11:32 PM
1

Upvoting mostly for best formatting.
/r/seduction02/05/11 07:23 PM
5

Yeah, every shitty piece of mutated scum that's diseased this planet for the past hundred million years can say that. PUMP!
/r/seduction02/05/11 06:34 PM
2

Gotcha. P.S. So then how are you supposed to start sorority-wide pillow fights that are then maneuvered into disgustingly mind-blowing reverse gangbangs? This doesn't make any sense to me.
/r/seduction02/05/11 06:31 PM
3

What a masterfully crafted joke.
/r/seduction02/05/11 06:10 AM
3

Yes! One note about the drive to your place - it's not really a screwup, perse, but you could have told her to come inside for some "juice to sober you up" or whatever the fuck. Otherwise, what's the point of making her drive you home drunk? If you're going to take a calculated risk like that, there's gotta be a payoff other than you getting home more quickly. Although doing it to fuck her at your place is also selfish, at least you would have been with her the whole time and have had some sort …
/r/seduction02/05/11 06:08 AM
-3

That's the joke, numbnuts!
/r/seduction02/05/11 05:58 AM
2

That's the ticket!
/r/seduction02/05/11 05:56 AM
1

Yeah. "We should make out" is just as risky as going in for the makeout, so why not just go in for the makeout?
/r/seduction02/05/11 05:53 AM
23

She lost .5 points after the shot. Have you never been drunk?
/r/seduction01/05/11 08:57 PM
43

There's a spectrum analysis of ways to ask a girl if she wants to kiss you, which I can't find but will try to recreate. "Can I kiss you?" F. Wrong. Asking for permission. "I can't stop thinking about kissing you." You're not asking for permission, but you're still making her the prize. These first two can work with enough confidence, though. "Do you want to kiss me?" much better, preferred move of Mystery. If she says no, you can always say, "Phew, me neither. I don't know what I was going to d…
/r/seduction01/05/11 08:56 PM
4

Pretty much the same thing. Try it.
/r/seduction01/05/11 08:48 PM
5

Maybe circumvent the whole thing and take a nice bubblebath before leaving your shack.
/r/seduction01/05/11 05:35 AM
4

Right. You're not saying it to get approval, you're saying it to give approval. If you can't separate the two yet, don't do it yet.
/r/seduction01/05/11 05:33 AM
4

Here's a great article: http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/Sexual_innuendo But the best advice I can give you is to not get ahead of yourself. Master your confidence and comfort talking to new women first. Only then can you begin to escalate and be sexual without being creepy. Again: in this game, there's no way to learn it all before you start using it. Start cold approaching with the goal of getting the time or directions. Move on to asking girls for fashion advice, a great topic from which yo…
/r/seduction30/04/11 08:22 PM
1

That's a callback; an inside joke is the second time and more, once the joke has taken on a life of its own.
/r/seduction30/04/11 08:10 PM
1

One David DeAngelo exercise is to write down a two page list of go-to responses in every big recurring windows: approaches, shit-tests, getting her number, takeaways... Having that list if you need it is a pretty good way to take the pressure off perfection in the moment.
/r/seduction29/04/11 06:30 PM
1

My point was THROUGH trial and error and THROUGH experimentation that you can find and perfect YOUR method of what works best. Yes, that's exactly right and what I've been saying. And finding and measuring your own method of what works best is where hit rate as a metric comes in. Is that something you can disagree with? You keep blabbing on and on about the importance of trying out new methods get better at pickup, which I understood from the get go. Okay? Now stop regurgitating the same shit an…
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:34 PM
1

Succeeding at understanding your points, not succeeding at winning an argument, you unbelievable mongoloid. I was saying (pretty straightforwardly) that I'm trying to actually understand what your points, while even now you have some autistic handicap compelling you to misinterpret every single sentence I can churn out. I'm sorry, but I really just think you're a fucking idiot.
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:23 PM
1

Great! Wait at your mailbox.
/r/seduction28/04/11 08:48 PM
4

Call her out for not being excited enough. "This is the well being of our dogs we're talking about, Counselor! Get your head in the game." Ask her where she takes her dog. That response isn't cold at all, by the way, it's just neutral. It's up to you to keep it going.
/r/seduction28/04/11 04:01 PM
3

What song plays at the end?
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:48 PM
2

Yeah, it's kind of worthless as a teaching aid because it doesn't show all the troubleshooting they had to do along with the moments of success. I'd also be interested to see how many girls blew them out before they found these ones - someone here said they saw the figure "20" thrown around in a youtube comment. I don't mean to take away from their game whatsoever - they're very skilled, and this is awesome to watch, and gives me lots of inspiration and ideas. My questions have to do with analys…
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:47 PM
0

I am absolutely not with you on any of this, for this reason: I spent an hour of my life last night explaining my points and trying to understand yours (and succeeding!), while there is no evidence that you've made any attempt to do the same. Every paragraph above is a patently stupid misunderstanding of what I wrote, each in its own cloyingly misinformed way. For example: you focused on exactly the wrong part of my mention of "dream girls", seemingly completely unaware that I used that concept …
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:35 PM
1

I could explain it in fifteen seconds, but I doubt you're smart enough to understand that. Fuck it, let's try. Landino's argument is that failure is part of the process. My only point is that getting better at game is figuring out what helps you succeed more and fail less. That's hit rate - fail to success ratio. Failure is part of learning, but as you grow you should fail less in field. I'm losing my faith in humanity in this thread, so if you understand what I'm saying I'll send you a brand ne…
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:10 PM
1

Actually, I think you're missing my point even further. There is no 100% method for anyone, but for me, there are 15% methods, 25% methods, and 50% methods. The point is that we're trying to find what works best for us. If my hit rate with Juggler method is 50%, and 5% with this SimplePickup method, it's not a great method. I don't think I can state that simpler; I honestly don't understand what piece of this you're missing. It's not about finding 100% methods, it's about figuring out what metho…
/r/seduction28/04/11 04:20 AM
1

Maybe you missed it, but the title originally said that they picked up 9s, so clarification is very relevant. And maybe you missed this also, but whether or not I am the shallow breastlooker you instinctively categorize me as, the hotness of the women they picked up has everything to do with analyzing the efficacy of their techniques. Generally, it's harder to pick up hotter girls. A simple observation, made to be made pedantic by your careless observation.
/r/seduction28/04/11 04:05 AM
2

Just one thing I noticed: you seem like a perfectionist, which is hell for escalation. I'll tell you what I mean. I decided I would get her number by saying "listen, we've been thinking of expanding our operation to younger audiences. This would have been awesome, but there's absolutely no need to work the banter into the number. What's wrong with, "Let's hang out some time, what's your number?" Do you think you have trouble sometimes jumping through the window of opportunity before it closes be…
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:58 AM
1

There are ways to do that without being so direct as to give yourself a big chance of blowing yourself out. "Okay, well I'll sleep on the right side of your bed if you promise not to try anything."
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:46 AM
2

Yeah? What?
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:44 AM
1

Different mows for different cows.
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:41 AM
-2

Most women aren't ready for sex until having spent at least 6 to 10 hours with a guy, despite the sensational FRs. Look, that's one of the points of game: to become such an awesome sex god that you break right through the rules. I'm not there, admittedly, but there are millions of dudes out there in the world RIGHT NOW who are SO UNBELIEVABLY AWESOME that any girl would be LUCKY to FUCK THEM RIGHT WHERE THEY STAND. I WANT TO BE THAT CHISELED HUNK JUST LIKE THE POKEMON THEME SONG WOOO
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:41 AM
4

Not if the girl's receptive, which is the whole point - calibration.
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:27 AM
1

Ad hominem, but I'll answer anyway because you're not seeing the point and I want to blow your whining red herrings out of the way. I can get maybe a 90% number rate among 7s and 8s (which as many of you know, shouldn't seem impressive) and maybe half of those return my calls, and maybe a third of those meet up, and maybe half of those fuck me. So all in all, a 7.5% rate among girls I'm purely physically attracted to (but a much better rate for girls I screen for compatibility). This using a var…
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:24 AM
4

If you're not going to be analytical and realistic, why are you here? You can go gaga over these dudes all you want - they definitely do have game. But I'm here to grow, and for that I want to know if and how their success works. This isn't r/ladyboners, homie. Lets say the girls are 7s or 8s. What else makes them especially receptive to game? These girls are green lights, meaning they immediately showed interest. That occurs with maybe about 20% of girls. They're naturally outgoing. These guys …
/r/seduction27/04/11 10:15 PM
2

Guys got game, not doubt about that.
/r/seduction27/04/11 10:02 PM
-8

9s? How the fuck do you know? Nice enough bodies, but they could easily be 7s. Which doesn't make them unamazing. Wonder what their hit rate is for that type of game? Could be great for numbers, but my guess is it sucks for SNLs
/r/seduction27/04/11 08:04 PM
1

Let me rephrase, then: this guy may be alpha, but he's not a James Bond/Zohan/Bueller cool alpha, he's a weird, socially predatory mess, and despite his confidence and cold intelligence, no one should want to be like him.
/r/seduction21/03/11 04:43 PM
2

He does though, since he's made up this whole weird calculated strategy...reeks of evil and, worse, insecurity.
/r/seduction20/03/11 08:53 PM
8

Schlong Live King Dong.
/r/seduction16/03/11 05:00 PM
1

Sorry, I misconstrued.
/r/seduction04/03/11 06:45 AM
1

You missed the part where I said "interesting" and "passionate."
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:03 AM
1

I thought you were judging this guy as a date, not as a lust object. Seems then that he was fucked from the get go.
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:02 AM
18

You're the top search result for cullingals. Congratulations, friend.
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:42 AM
11

The interesting thing that OP missed in her appraisal is whether or not this guy was interesting, was leading a passionate life, etc. It sounds like no, this guy probably didn't have a lot in common with her. So the core of the relationship is missing from the gate.
/r/seduction27/02/11 10:24 PM
9

I see your points, and yes, the top comment is discouraging. But I'd rather see us encouraging OP directly to solve this problem, rather than moderation. Your presence is more powerful than any moderation.
/r/seduction27/02/11 08:46 PM
6

Nailed the validation "Nailed it.".
/r/seduction27/02/11 07:49 PM
7

Know your city - something I haven't fully processed as a necessary component until now. Thanks, girl!
/r/seduction27/02/11 07:47 PM
5

That's incredibly awesome. A good taste tester is hard to find these days. And yet, what the fuck IS the relevance? We're all itching to know.
/r/seduction26/02/11 04:40 PM
12

Asshole outside/nice inside beats the inverse anytime.
/r/seduction26/02/11 04:35 PM
5

No matter how good we get, our women-pool stays fleetingly small. Sort of sad, no? Although our pool getting hotter is a pretty good consolation prize.
/r/seduction26/02/11 06:32 AM
1

Yeah, really good. Seems like she was into you from the get go, so the real key was lobbing humorous push/pulls at the start, no?
/r/seduction24/01/11 04:08 PM
-2

You're incredibly haven't been out of the house too much recently.
/r/seduction10/11/10 04:58 AM
3

"I can't hear you up here. Because you're ugly."
/r/seduction10/11/10 04:57 AM
1

Well at least you're past denial. Maybe watch some Harold and Kumar? Those guys get up to some good hijinks!
/r/seduction07/11/10 10:49 PM
-4

You're boring me already. First step is stop being so boring, Mister Rogers meets a field of wheat.
/r/seduction02/11/10 06:18 AM
1

I have plenty of other stuff on the list. Molest an endangered species. Burn down a shed. Get a woman at a muffin shop to give me a free muffin. Hi five a stranger. Buy a kiddie pool. Read a novel. Buy a nice new pair of slacks. Give such good love to a prostitute that after we're done she goes "WHOA! THAT ONE's ON ME!!!" So, I have my work cut out for me.
/r/seduction02/11/10 06:16 AM
1

Definitely, almost a prerequisite.
/r/seduction02/11/10 05:47 AM
2

Yeah I watched that, his was definitely weirder and until the end I was feeling that feeling when you're feeling anxious for someone doing something really embarrassing. But then at the end I jumped up and couldn't stop my celebratory laughing.
/r/seduction02/11/10 05:46 AM
1

Goofy, humorously cartoonish-dance into their midst and see if they don't open up. If not, watch some popping and/or locking videos on youtube, rinse, repeat.
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:59 PM
3

I'm gonna be the one person not playfully mentioning rape, except to playfully tell those people to go get raped. This took balls, this took an expert knowledge of boundaries, and most importantly, this took planet sized balls. Good form.
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:57 PM
0

Read agi as "autistic general intelligence".
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:55 PM
16

This is a crazy thing to do, and I like that, but you've got to be willing to look weird and play it off aloofly. Just be careful you don't end up being the solitary dude playing with crayons for an hour while making hesitant crazy eyes at everyone.
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:52 PM
2

Always check the name.
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:49 PM
1

It's all about demeanor, confidence, and being incredibly interesting, kind sir, the jumping part being but a small, but also admittedly impossible, component. I am not the keyboard jockey you think I am, but I am also not yet Fonz, James Fonz. Methinks this is not a two-night training sesh thing but shall take months of experience, unless you have something magical to share that I'm missing.
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:46 PM
2

That's tight. Climbing over a railing to talk to four people at the next table over, and pulling it off, is exactly my goal in life.
/r/seduction01/11/10 01:51 AM
6

Hey yeah, why the fuck not? Personally I love meta-conversation, but it can definitely weird people the shit out.
/r/seduction05/10/10 07:59 AM
1

First part is just awesome.
/r/seduction20/09/10 11:42 PM
1

K, wasn't clear. Thanks for adding that.
/r/seduction19/09/10 06:09 PM
10

Yeah that's how I became the outgoing person I am today - integrating the good parts of my drunk persona into my sober one.
/r/seduction19/09/10 12:32 AM
0

Yup, chose the wrong university. And religion, for that matter.
/r/seduction19/09/10 12:31 AM
1

Did you get the girl here, or what?
/r/seduction19/09/10 12:05 AM
14

Play a game called "Lightweight" with yourself or your friends. Pretend to be really drunk one night at a bar with your friends, but only drink like one glass of wine or whatever. Imitate the energy, feel the feelings, say the things you say when drunk. Do that enough and you'll have built an instant on switch in your brain for fun high-energy sociability without relying on alcohol.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:35 PM
-1

Did this interaction go anywhere? It's not field tested if you only did it once, and if you got zero results this is not the way to flaunt your story. "How to properly approach at the beach"? More like how to properly fail at seddit. Biiitch
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:58 AM
-1

You should be that Ferrari. Pussy.
/r/seduction07/09/10 03:38 PM
1

It's more like trying to pick up girls in a 1995 Camry versus a brand new Ferrari.
/r/seduction07/09/10 02:12 AM
4

wrap yourself in a cocoon of hard work and dedication That's my new motto now.
/r/seduction04/09/10 10:54 PM
6

It's like trying to drive a car without arms. You can do it, but you have to buy a whole bunch of technical equipment and practice steering with your legs for years and you'll never be able to do certain things like navigate a tough neighborhood with a map and in the end you might as well just invest in some fucking arms, you know what I mean? /perfect metaphor
/r/seduction04/09/10 10:53 PM
7

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfj2TvtTsMw
/r/seduction04/09/10 10:50 PM
1

Thanks, these are awesome, especially The Sartorialist. For the one other person looking for vegan fashion advice, check out The Discerning Brute.
/r/seduction30/08/10 02:28 AM
32

I like the duck face. It shows they can make a tight seal.
/r/seduction23/08/10 09:43 AM
1

Ahright man, you're in it! Everyone starts out this way, including me - you're doing well. You'd be surprised at how many people can't even do what you did. Congrats! Micro tip for future stranger conversation: make things situationally relevant. The candy and dog things were perfect because you were looking at those items - now extend that relevance to all areas. Someone's sitting on a park bench? Sit down and ask if they've seen a lot of joggers pass, and tell them you're thinking about joggin…
/r/seduction19/08/10 05:32 AM
2

It's just goofier than being real. Does James Bond lie about buying candy for his niece? Only if his dick is about to be lasered off otherwise.
/r/seduction19/08/10 05:26 AM
3

Always keep playing forever FTFY
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:41 AM
1

Leave her a long, stuttering message about what your kids will be like and demanding that she call back immediately to go out to a huge, balls to the walls 5,000 dolla dinner. She'll call back weeping in five.
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:39 AM
2

From the makers of Fleshlight(TMI).
/r/seduction13/08/10 07:33 PM
2

I have the same thoughts - how inappropriate am I willing to go in a given situation for a laugh? I feel most comfortable being somewhat of an asshole and making people start to puke in their mouths, but sometimes it's too much. The key for me is analyzing and adjusting until I get somewhere stable - cocky calibration(TM).
/r/seduction12/08/10 08:37 PM
3

overanalysisdar: beepbeepbeep This was situational, dependent on this particular girl. The assertive offer to buy her another drink was a good touch, embodying the alpha gentleman. Otherwise, nothing too special, keep grinding and good luck.
/r/seduction11/08/10 07:06 AM
3

midnight to singularity
/r/seduction05/08/10 06:45 AM
1

Just had to come back to this thread to say you're getting hysterically angry over something you know next to nothing about. Be an independent thinker and stop being reactive, or get the fuck out.
/r/seduction24/07/10 08:01 PM
5

What the fuck is so shocking about this? Some guy messaged her in a creepy way, she was creeped out, you didn't take her mind off it by diffusing the situation through humor or a subject change, her frame became god. Girls love going on and on about the creepy guys that are after them because it actually shows value - they're so awesome that peripheral acquaintances will go to the ends of the earth to meet up with them.
/r/seduction17/07/10 09:39 PM
2

Gold and corny are a similar color but not the same.
/r/seduction17/07/10 09:25 PM
1

Whoops, it's "My Secret Garden". It's a collection of female fantasies written out in excruciatingly hot detail.
/r/seduction15/07/10 04:19 AM
1

Oh yeah, for sure. Ever read that book "The Secret Garden"? Crazy, sexy, fantastic stuff.
/r/seduction14/07/10 05:41 PM
1

Ok, well how about craziest fantasy a woman told you or unleashed on you.
/r/seduction14/07/10 04:58 PM
1

Your attitude is poison.
/r/seduction14/07/10 03:53 PM
4

What I mean by women who mill about is girls who go out at night. And I only know enough about you to know that you're a thin skinned narcissist who can't take a good humored, non-personal (and not at all veiled) ribbing. Kindly go shit in your own mouth.
/r/seduction14/07/10 08:09 AM
4

If there are seriously only a few hundred women milling about your area, you should think about a move to the city. Seriously. Insular social surroundings are notoriously toxic for any kind of personal growth, especially for a nipple medallion fiend like yourself.
/r/seduction14/07/10 07:46 AM
1

"Guess/Where do you think?" "I ran past you from your mom's closet that one time." "From outside my window last night? Was that you, with the flash camera??" "Stupid faggot girl magazine, you stupid faggot bitch" then knock her jaw off
/r/seduction14/07/10 07:42 AM
4

What the hell? Why would you ever expect that? Do you have a sex offender medallion hanging from a chain attached through your shirt to your nipples?
/r/seduction14/07/10 07:28 AM
-4

Where's the weirdest place you've gotten a blowjob?
/r/seduction14/07/10 07:24 AM
3

Excellent and original way to put it.
/r/seduction14/07/10 07:19 AM
1

POF and Mingle2 both suck ass.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:12 PM
1

"You are too much for me," "I like you," "you are dangerous," "you have a great smile." The awkward absence of contractions (you're) is purposeful, every little bit of extra comprehension aid helps.
/r/seduction05/07/10 07:03 PM
2

And what makes you think that? I think copying a routine word for word is much worse than that basic opening sentence.
/r/seduction04/07/10 09:33 PM
2

Yeah not bad recovery, but maybe stop using opinion openers from The Game and make some of your own up. There are literally thousands of potentially great interesting relationship and girl/guy issues to ask about, nows as good a time as ever to transition to a more natural version of what you're doing and start talking about fun, relevant things that actually pique your interest.
/r/seduction04/07/10 03:09 PM
2

Do you?
/r/seduction04/07/10 08:10 AM
0

I wasn't asking.
/r/seduction04/07/10 08:08 AM
2

I've had to learn this the hard way. Very basic social humor and simple language based around push/pull is good.
/r/seduction03/07/10 10:12 PM
-2

Call DNS.
/r/seduction03/07/10 10:11 PM
2

It's a cheap sales tool, you know? Making people respond affirmatively to the things you're saying puts them in a place to respond affirmatively to the shit you're going to sell them. Right? Sign that they're not completely comfortable just selling themselves naturally, you feel me? You want to donate five bucks through paypal to my site now, am I right?
/r/seduction03/07/10 10:11 PM
1

I'm interested in what tends to work for most people. I only intended to judge this one situation.
/r/seduction03/07/10 09:46 PM
1

The problem with Wygant's line is not that it's direct, it's that it's direct without providing any sort of reason as to why Wygant is talking to this woman. There's no interest in her, no story to tell, just Wygant lamenting a weird situation, and if you'll look closely the woman is very suspicious of Wyant through the end, and the older man completely uncomfortable throughout. If he gave a reason as to why he's talking to them, like a follow up story about an awkward elevator, it would be diff…
/r/seduction03/07/10 05:10 PM
1

I get it, I get it, death to routine, out of context stuff. But out of all the situationally relevant shit you can say in an elevator, bringing up the weird social situation you're in without going anywhere with it is one of the least effective. If you're gonna say something, might as well make it good.
/r/seduction03/07/10 04:45 PM
4

In that David D seminar he's great, but in his in-field stuff he is way too jumpy and quick talking. Also, notice how he always asks, "right?" and "know what I mean?" after his statements? Classic sign of insecurity and social miscalibration. Not to say the guys not smart, because he is, but his in field persona rubs me the wrong way, which incidentally is right to left, like the damn Chinese.
/r/seduction03/07/10 07:40 AM
3

Disagree. That elevator opener is better than nothing, but verbalizing the awkward situation they're in without taking it much of anywhere makes things awkward and puts incredible pressure on continuing the conversation that no other opener will create. I use random observational shit, ask people where they're headed, make little quips like "if we get stuck in here, who are we going to eat first?" or tell them a story about the craziest/funniest/weirdest thing I've seen in an elevator, and it op…
/r/seduction03/07/10 03:30 AM
1

This is exactly how I feel.
/r/seduction01/07/10 05:33 PM
2

In those first 2000 approaches you need to find some success or you'll go insane. Critiquing is the key ingredient missing from OP, and it sometimes involves hitting the books.
/r/seduction01/07/10 05:16 PM
1

I've found my life experience has lead me to embrace both approaches, and utilize either and both depending on my mood and situation. Having standards is honest; uplifting others is divine.
/r/seduction01/07/10 06:02 AM
1

I disagree about crash and burn. Having a desensitization to rejection is essential; having a rejection fetish is harmful. Not that you're hinting at that, but everyone has plateaus that they hit, and going out there and doing the same shit and getting rejected at whatever level again and again and again is depressing, whether you're a beginner or a master. In my experience, it's sometimes good to spend a while reading and watching and figuring out how best to go forward and what best to work on…
/r/seduction01/07/10 05:56 AM
3

I feel the same way. Cool people, hot women, and pivots are the only people you need to talk to. However, I have other nonpickup goals like being able to get anyone I meet to belly laugh within one minute of meeting them, which gives an end to shoot for in random people conversations. That I might have to make my own system for.
/r/seduction01/07/10 05:49 AM
1

Well, I'm a brilliant genius seduction expert level 5, and I love girls who are as curious and passionate about the weird world we live in as I am friendly, positive outgoing connectors, girls who build and tend to social circles like a benevolent gardener, trimming and fertilizing and reading poetry and cross pollinating and fucking some of the hot female plants if a girl can make me laugh, hard, and not at girl humor standards but if she's actually as funny as I am or funnier, she's in. This s…
/r/seduction30/06/10 07:59 AM
5

Compliment them on their choice in hard candy.
/r/seduction29/06/10 09:31 PM
0

If you can use observational humor as an opener, cool guys will open like springtime tulips. Funny girls get the good dick; just watch King of Queens.
/r/seduction29/06/10 09:30 PM
16

My god, SHUT THE FUCK UP. This is the top answer for every single female perspective thread here, and what little humor rested in the joke originally has been squeezed out like the seed of a crosslegged-Japanesa-embedded cock. I'm angry because I'm bored and you just made me more bored. If I could stab you in the sternum I wouldn't, but I would definitely threaten you loudly with that possibility.
/r/seduction29/06/10 09:27 PM
2

Reference something funny you did together, make up a nickname for her, text her about something cool in your environment, or say something dirty if you've got nuts.
/r/seduction27/06/10 09:34 PM
1

Had to upvote for the last edit.
/r/seduction25/06/10 10:54 PM
0

And?
/r/seduction24/06/10 07:50 PM
-1

Go back to science school.
/r/seduction24/06/10 07:48 PM
2

Goldfinger.
/r/seduction24/06/10 06:18 PM
3

No way. You have your own experience of mixed introversion and extroversion, but true "naturals" have less anxiety and more natural social energy than the rest of us. They have a social intuition that comes from birth like autistics have the natural lack of it. The (rightly approximated) 95% practice they've had is allowed precisely through their base 5% innate comfortability, just as our lack of practice is chalked up to our balking at many opportunities to learn because we're missing this natu…
/r/seduction24/06/10 06:07 PM
-2

I upvoted this, but I want to qualify it by saying there is definitely a distinction between introverts and extroverts. Introverts have to consciously provide effort and energy into almost all of their social interactions, and through lack of practice and exposure are a lot less comfortable when they do speak to random people. I've been an introvert all my life, and it's just recently that I've created an extrovert on switch for social occasions. I did this through 1. David Deangelo and his Cock…
/r/seduction24/06/10 05:56 AM
0

That is not an Einstein quote. You are not unlazy.
/r/seduction24/06/10 05:43 AM
4

I just love what's going on here and I'm registering and jumping into the fray as soon as possible. FUN!
/r/seduction22/06/10 08:24 AM
1

Fair enough, but I much prefer David Deangelo if what you're looking for is a primer on not being AFC. DJ Bible is disorganized and there's lots of questionable advice mixed into the good stuff, not to mention no one can spell or format correctly.
/r/seduction21/06/10 11:27 PM
1

Fair enough, and kudos for doing the research, but those posts were a whole month ago, whereas field reports, "i'm new and wat do i do???" and "this girl did this and i think it means this, how do i know if i'm having sex?" come up at least several times a week. Knamsayin dog?
/r/seduction21/06/10 11:26 PM
1

My personal opinion is that the DJ Bible is almost completely worthless. There are a couple gems in there, but it's mostly a blind leading the blind situation. I'd recommend Magic Bullets, Juggler's material, and mASF for your forum.
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:00 PM
1

Worst cynical piece of shit book ever.
/r/seduction21/06/10 05:31 PM
1

The key there is just being genuinely friendly, and not overtly vying to fuck every hot guy that looks your way. I've personally known several incredibly awesome women who approached everyone all the time and that angle was 1000x more powerful for them by virtue of them being of the friendly gender, or the friendler.
/r/seduction21/06/10 05:31 PM
3

Actually, this IS unique, and the pure volume of shitty advice that immediately got lobbed in drew ever more people to counterbalance it. I think you're actually just butthurt because no one's going to see your oh-so-insightful comment on GAYFC's first night out with the ex girlfriend where he didn't cry.
/r/seduction21/06/10 05:29 PM
1

Not bad, except for that whole cow intestine interlude.
/r/seduction21/06/10 05:19 PM
-2

But he must be getting something out of it if he's willing to do it Don't even try to bullshit with me. Guys have been falling for fake sexy-attention since the beginning of time.
/r/seduction21/06/10 07:13 AM
1

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/ [down for maintainance tonight]
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:49 AM
-2

Well, there's one problem there. Sex is always enjoyable for both guy and girl. Giving gifts is enjoyable for the recipient only, at least in this context. Being in it just for sex isn't unethical if you genuinely strive to give every girl the time of her life, which many of us take great pride and exhilaration in doing.
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:47 AM
1

Or "Yeah, I live in a treehouse and survive off bar scraps, for me and my 18 kids. Did I mention it's a bonsai tree?" Or "[laugh] Nope." [subject change]
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:40 AM
26

Really lame advice so far. There are several sites that seem relatively good for women, but unfortunately the ones I know of are all blogs - forums are a lot better. There is a "Playettes" section on mASF but as far as I can tell it's a ghost town, and the few women there aren't great anyway. The best advice I can give to you is that the key to attract anyone, whether you're a guy or girl attracting a friend or lover or business partner, is to be awesome. There are thousands of different ways to…
/r/seduction21/06/10 06:01 AM
1

If you watch true naturals, you'll notice they do this, at least a lot more often than most people.
/r/seduction20/06/10 05:20 AM
1

Oh, right. Well you should only start doing this after you've grown a basic foundation of solid social skills and confidence, otherwise it'll be creepy, no doubt. Complete nonneediness is paramount here: you're not touching people to suck away their value and good feelings, but to GIVE some of your own status and good feelings. You touch as you meet someone to give them some of your comfort and ease in that situation; you touch after they tell a joke to show that you're genuinely impressed. Kino…
/r/seduction19/06/10 09:58 PM
1

Advice. So...first things first - if you're in a situation with a whole multitude of interested, viable targets, the first thing you have to do is choose one (or two, if you're John Mayer status (yes, John Mayer is a baller)) and focus on that one. You didn't seem to do this, because you weren't screening any particular girls. Screening would have also told you who had boyfriends at the party and who was adventurous enough to do something even with boyfriends present. My only other advice - hook…
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:21 PM
1

So you follow the Robert Wright method?
/r/seduction18/06/10 06:14 PM
1

My personal opinion is that in most situations, it's unethical to use. And that's from someone who sees no problems with using other routines as a crutch, at least until you learn to construct your own. My experience is that some of these patterns work only too well, and it's unfair to use them on unsuspecting women. That being said, the use of NLP for fantasy and dirty talk, or as just a sort of a supplement, and the use of its rich language for stories, is perfectly fine and works wonders.
/r/seduction18/06/10 05:03 PM
6

http://www.fastseduction.com/whatsnew/featured/2009/06/2009-06-13a.shtml
/r/seduction18/06/10 04:51 PM
3

Agreed, this is excellent.
/r/seduction17/06/10 03:16 AM
2

that's not the point, which is to bring your friends up to your level like the benevolent godlike force of pussyravaging nature you are
/r/seduction15/06/10 11:10 PM
3

Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny Cocky/funny You're on reddit, you're a nerd, so it's like this. In a situation where two people have no commonalities, all there is is directionless neutrality between you two, like the vacuum in space. But if we…
/r/seduction14/06/10 06:17 PM
1

Lambada is so good, thanks for that. I'll let the Estefan by.
/r/seduction14/06/10 05:58 PM
1

Lately, Caribou
/r/seduction14/06/10 05:46 PM
1

excellent
/r/seduction14/06/10 05:40 PM
1

Cool, I'll have to check that out.
/r/seduction12/06/10 06:21 AM
1

Funny, because I found Pavlina through polyphasic sleep. For being such a worthless concept, polyphasic sleep gets people to where they need.
/r/seduction12/06/10 06:21 AM
2

ijjji is great, so is Chopan, Dogsoldier, 60 and Sleazy, in that order. Some of the up and coming guys are great - positive, post a lot, good advice. I'd check out the Field Reports section, there's frequently gold in there, and Advanced has the highest signal to noise ratio in my opinion, and that includes Masterminds.
/r/seduction12/06/10 06:19 AM
2

Gotcha. All good.
/r/seduction12/06/10 06:14 AM
1

My dick is within your mouth.
/r/seduction12/06/10 06:14 AM
2

I like the way you avoided the question completely and gave me a weak, nonspecific dis, almost like some sort of unethical, resentful nerd. You've exposed that you know nothing about pickup or the community and aren't willing to learn, so don't continue to waste all of our time here.
/r/seduction12/06/10 12:47 AM
1

I don't understand your point. Women DO chase high value guys.
/r/seduction11/06/10 10:02 PM
1

Wooo hooo!
/r/seduction11/06/10 09:59 PM
2

Give me an example of such a study session, westsan. Where did you hear that, a disgruntled preacher's wife? The only thing accurate about that first sentence was "Well."
/r/seduction11/06/10 09:57 PM
1

Most people are already a mix of alpha and beta, and some puas believe that actually a mix of the two, alpha/beta, lover/provider, master/friend is the best way to go, at least for LTRs. Check out this post and site.
/r/seduction11/06/10 05:13 AM
4

What an asshole. I like you, Larry the Cable Guy.
/r/seduction11/06/10 05:11 AM
3

And what do you really know about it? More importantly, who and what specifically do you think is unethical?
/r/seduction11/06/10 05:05 AM
3

While "my dick is a gift to women" is a valuable attitude to adopt, there is a very clear evolutionary reason for female selection, so I'm downvoting because you didn't mention the reality of how it works: that men benefit genetically from fucking any woman they can, but women only benefit from fucking the most quality men out there.
/r/seduction11/06/10 05:04 AM
2

anathema that it's now the purview What are you, a Thomas Pynchon novel?
/r/seduction11/06/10 12:31 AM
2

Shhhh Jesus bitch calm down
/r/seduction11/06/10 12:30 AM
8

Hence, the joke. C'mon, Wolf, I thought you were cool.
/r/seduction11/06/10 12:27 AM
3

Best advice.
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:54 PM
2

I can't afford that much.
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:36 PM
2

Being in a new city is great, because you get to use the best opener of all time with abandon: "hey, I'm new in the city, what do you do for fun around here?"
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:30 PM
2

Finding the GHB
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:29 PM
8

An insensitive way to say "ecstasy"
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:18 PM
2

Do you smell like cinnamon rolls?
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:32 AM
2

I might consider it without the ball touching. Are you taller than six feet?
/r/seduction10/06/10 03:41 AM
1

Congrats, especially on being the first person I've ever seen use the whole word "prudent." You should be good to go with this hot nerd, who's probably on reddit blushing to this very page right now. Make sure to keep the sexual vibe going, and escalate with her at the first opportunity.
/r/seduction09/06/10 11:54 PM
1

So you're just like all the other girls after all. wail
/r/seduction09/06/10 07:53 PM
2

I'll do it, but only if ball touching is involved.
/r/seduction09/06/10 07:26 PM
-2

Sorry, don't really understand Why doesn't that surprise me?
/r/seduction09/06/10 07:23 PM
1

Agree to disagree, and let me buy you dinner.
/r/seduction09/06/10 07:10 PM
1

Something about the way you communicate makes me doubt I just go for girls intelligent enough to understand social conditioning and do their own thing Especially this part: The belief that the girls you date just simply aren't intelligent enough to understand what you understand is terrible, and demonstrates a deep-seated hatred of women. You're either a subtle troll or a mental vegetable, you slippery slope ass mongoloid.
/r/seduction09/06/10 07:03 PM
1

"Honorary bro" is the opposite of crazy. It means you avoid drama, can take and give shit, and don't talk about bullshit too often. But I you just invalidated the second one. :P
/r/seduction09/06/10 07:00 PM
0

So you're saying you're a perfect three sided girl? What an ego. Sorry, princess, but you're not going to pull any guys here with that Jersey Shore attitude. :[
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:57 PM
3

I just want to add an emphasis on the principle of getting your girl horny, and not a little horny, but Christina Aguilara in a prison shower with Zyklon E coming out of the fixtures horny. My best moves for doing this are: Light hair pulling, light biting on the neck and body, kissing her neck, and light light dirty talk (this is so hot, I love letting myself go around you, you're turning me into a beast). The two best weapons in my arsenal (for the first time) are ear nibbling and moving her a…
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:51 PM
1

Yeah I was lazy, it was a simple google search away. Look for my article, I'm scrounging around for a good one as we speak.
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:35 PM
3

Found the original. It's actually written by a female, which is kind of cool.
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:34 PM
2

If a woman is trying to make excused to not hook up with you, then you fucked up somewhere You are such a fucking asshole, that misconception is the whole reason this article got posted for people like you. ASD HAPPENS WITH ALMOST ALL GIRLS, EVEN WHEN THEY'RE HIGHLY ATTRACTED TO YOU AND INTERESTED IN SEX - IT'S SOCIAL CONDITIONING, NOT WHAT THEY REALLY WANT. Do like Wolf says and read the article. Otherwise you're just talking shit, which makes a lot of sense because you're also speaking out of …
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:31 PM
3

Ole!
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:26 PM
1

So you are cute. Ok, I have a theory as to why you're not getting approached. Have you ever noticed how some people have eyes that slant down towards the center, and some have eyes that slant up? The first kind \ / appear to us to be friendly and elflike - they're what we usually only look like when we're smiling. The second type / \ are more serious looking, and less inviting. Girls, and people in general, with up-slanting eyes get approached significantly more than down-slanters, even for stuf…
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:26 PM
10

We really need to get mASF linked on the sidebar. By the way, do you have the original link? Who posted this? Yeah anyway this, ASD, and LMR are two concepts that take a little while to cover but really boost your success level by a quantum leap. Just the LMR-shattering line "oh, no, we wouldn't do ANYTHING like that, that would be BAD" has gotten me further than any single other thing.
/r/seduction09/06/10 09:01 AM
1

Deep meditation, skilled self-hypnosis, and a certain amount of brain surgery should get you there. But why the fuck destroy it? It's fun!
/r/seduction09/06/10 08:58 AM
9

The guys who blow past that are fucking creepers and rapists. I don't do this often, but you're a fucking idiot.
/r/seduction09/06/10 08:53 AM
1

Right. There are women who possess all three qualities, but these are the ninety ninth percentile, higher depending on the exact level of each trait. A Venn Diagram is an excellent way of looking at it. I guess you're a smart one, and probably hot, too, since you're crazy to spend this much time talking to frustrated sweaty guys with cats and a chip on their shoulders made of congealed acne lotion.
/r/seduction09/06/10 08:45 AM
2

Really great post, HC, thanks. The truth is, really quality girls are hard to find wherever you go, so it's a good idea to look at places where one thing you're looking for is a given - i.e. extroversion (or introversion), interest in a certain type of music, nerdliness, food, or whatever you pop boners for, and screen further for intelligence and nonpsychopathy as you go.
/r/seduction09/06/10 04:18 AM
2

Some of us do, sometimes. Throw up your pic, maybe you can get some fashion/posture advice.
/r/seduction09/06/10 04:16 AM
1

Oh, but there is one metric that's true: intelligent, hot, not crazy - choose two.
/r/seduction09/06/10 04:12 AM
1

Saw a post to this effect on mASF awhile ago and it hit all these points. One more point: what's wrong with making her your pivot?
/r/seduction07/06/10 10:16 PM
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Sit corners to the fucking whore. Film, or find something more interesting to do in the house, or something relating to commonalities, or get some ice wine or other novelty alcohol to drink, or whatever. Only if things aren't going smoothly by the end of dinner should you go out to a bar or bowling, and in that case, come back again afterward. Lift some weights today and tomorrow. Why not?
/r/seduction03/06/10 01:38 AM
1

This really just warms my heart. Nice!
/r/seduction02/06/10 04:13 PM
8

I'm a 21 year old trying to score a 29 year old, never felt more alive! Life with a dick is just amazing.
/r/seduction02/06/10 04:13 PM
4

Absolutely. You're all there for the same reason - you need to eat. As slaves to the circadian rhythms of your food-sacks, you are all in equal footing, and there is a certain type of beautiful camaraderie in that you don't get elsewhere. If you can get a girl to join you on your food-getting dance, you share a sneaky little form of intimacy, a form of lovemaking. The other day I was at whole foods looking at frozen burgers. I realized I needed something in the next freezer door, so I moved over…
/r/seduction29/05/10 06:30 PM
1

Magic Bullets, David Deangelo's Cocky Comedy Stuff, Juggler Method. Also, look up the dozens of other Seddit posts just like this - your question has been answered over and over again, as recently as this past week.
/r/seduction29/05/10 06:02 PM
2

I'd throw in a human element too. "Did you know a whale penis is called a dork? I guess now I know why your friends call you that" "You seem like a feisty girl, but if you try to pull any praying mantis shit on Friday I'm calling the cops" "Lions have sex 20 or 40 times a day for several days. Think we could beat that?"
/r/seduction29/05/10 01:50 AM
10

Haha, that's way more awesome than I expected. Plus, you better believe that come Sunday, that girl is going to have the cleanest, sweetest smelling pussy you've ever seen in your life.
/r/seduction29/05/10 01:46 AM
1

Prioritize location over all other considerations. Cannot emphasize enough. I'm still living with my parents because they live in a great spot, and I can make it work.
/r/seduction29/05/10 12:40 AM
5

You left her alone in your house? Bad news bears.
/r/seduction29/05/10 12:26 AM
5

Ay girl, when u gonna let me tap dat? But on a serious note, use callback humor and fantasy. "hey fishgirl, so if we're gonna get married you better give me your dowry tomorrow night...i'll take it in the form of a few beers" Not recommended if the girl wasn't eating fish when you met her. Actually, scratch that. Highly recommended for every time.
/r/seduction29/05/10 12:14 AM
1

I haven't studied NLP, but I do know the basics. NLP works off of patterns, in which there is embedded powerful language, which can include hidden commands (and anchors). The snapping along with "forget" makes the forget command more powerful. The story about forgetting why he was going where he was going was another series of powerful commands, which was told in the second person to get him to live through the experience. The confusing phrase "you don't know if you forgot to remember or remembe…
/r/seduction29/05/10 12:09 AM
3

There's something else about relationships that most people miss. Relationships require work to keep up, AT LEAST as much as during the pickup period. Here's one thing to keep in mind: make yourself mini goals to accomplish. You already accomplished your goal of getting the girl, but there are lots more you can have to keep things fun: anal, threesome, have her cook you dinner without asking, take her out and give her the best day of her life, make her laugh until she literally pisses herself, l…
/r/seduction28/05/10 08:18 PM
2

Those interviewers got annoying as hell. No offense if that's you, Listro, but you're obnoxious as fuck when you're drunk. That being said, Jeffries seems like a cool enough guy.
/r/seduction27/05/10 06:24 PM
1

mASF (at fastseduction.com) is equally good if not better than attraction forums.
/r/seduction26/05/10 04:57 AM
1

I can see exactly what Ferguson is doing, it's just not that skilled, especially compared to all the wealth of other videos of interaction out there. And stop trying to lecture. You're not helpful and you're not convincing.
/r/seduction24/05/10 04:50 PM
2

I'd say "box monkey" is a good way to describe me, too, so: hell yeah!
/r/seduction24/05/10 04:37 PM
5

21 3 3 Cocky funny brought the fastest change, and a change that affected all areas of my social life. The greatest improvement lately was learning how to casually touch a lot more.
/r/seduction22/05/10 06:16 PM
2

Absolutely. This woman is one of those rare, Monica Bellucci classy classic beauties, and I can't get enough.
/r/seduction22/05/10 06:09 PM
3

Right, and appropriate username.
/r/seduction22/05/10 06:08 PM
1

You're making too broad of an assumption. I'm pretty good with girls these days.
/r/seduction22/05/10 06:07 PM
1

True, but Letterman and Jimmy Kimmel are way better at keeping things smooth and unawkward.
/r/seduction22/05/10 04:59 AM
1

It's nice to do both.
/r/seduction21/05/10 08:38 PM
1

That's probably true. So you agree that this is a somewhat worthless video?
/r/seduction21/05/10 07:57 PM
1

Hive mind whore. Get off my dick more often.
/r/seduction21/05/10 07:49 PM
2

My point is, it's a funny video, but not good enough form to fucking study and model after.
/r/seduction21/05/10 07:48 PM
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This is more 'how to deal with someone who is attractive and flirting with you ... badly. FTFY. Seriously, did no one else find this awkward and forced? This looked like a first date between two middle schoolers. The little game in there is not worth watching for. Sure, Craig's got some cocky funny going for him, but he's awkward and unskilled, and doesn't know how to lead the conversation in an interesting way. He stalls out several times, and that the tension becomes sexual is really more of a…
/r/seduction20/05/10 05:54 PM
12

Ask her a lot about herself, comment on her responses with a fair amount of approval, be self deprecating, figure out what she's passionate about and relate everything to that. Kino helps, but take it slow.
/r/seduction19/05/10 09:43 PM
5

I don't want to downplay the importance of what you're saying - the ultimate goal of getting better with girls should definitely be to build on your base positive traits and to share them with others. But just saying "be yourself" is really not helpful advice. That's why seddit is here: there are specific patterns of behavior and missions and ideas that can help us become cooler people, and we're trying to share these with each other. It's not necessary to make a meta statement about this place …
/r/seduction15/05/10 07:51 PM
13

YES! Congrats man, I've seen some of your posts recently and am wicked happy for where you've gotten, and super wet for this post. Bang on, brother.
/r/seduction08/05/10 11:51 PM
1

I was talking about eating pussy. Some girls, especially those with a high sex drive, want to get straight to the good stuff. But fingering doesn't set off this impatience as much as tuna mixing, IME.
/r/seduction04/05/10 02:12 AM
1

Yeah, it can also be a patience thing: "Stop farting around down there and FUCK ME ALREADY! AHHH I'M A CRAZY SLUT" etc.
/r/seduction03/05/10 03:57 AM
1

"Oh my god, 'how am I doing?' Kind of a personal question, isn't it? Why should I tell you? Go stalk someone else, [Punky Brewster]."
/r/seduction03/05/10 03:54 AM
1

Nah, I had the same problem and I made it work. My boner also is back to 100% after I backed off the porn and kung fu grip. All in all, don't worry about it, it'll get better.
/r/seduction03/05/10 03:49 AM
5

Um, shit, there's this video that's been lost to the sands of time, which sucks, because it was great. I can try to describe it with stupid ass words though. Basically, the technique is putting index and middle finger into her pussy, palm facing up. Then, after stroking the g spot for awhile, move your whole hand up and down, hard and fast, so that your fingers are hitting the pussy floor and the g spot, back and forth. The key is to do this harder and faster than you'd think, so that you're han…
/r/seduction03/05/10 01:41 AM
10

Some more on fingering: fucking is my strong point, but I have given women the strongest orgasms of their lives from g-spot fingering. Also, girls being averse to getting eaten out because it's too dominant (*for them, and too emasculating and supplicating for you) is more common than you might think, whereas fingering is like Visa--accepted anywhere. Good luck!
/r/seduction02/05/10 03:07 PM
13

You don't have to do oral or fuck her to make her come. Read some shit about fingering techniques, I've become a world class dangle-DJ with relative ease. Making a woman come with your fingers first takes a lot of pressure off everything else. That being said, realize that you don't have to have a hugely hard cock to make a girl come. You can do amazing things with a semi-; if you know you're not completely hard, just go into it hard and fast, and make her come in the first five minutes. Learnin…
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:32 PM
1

De Carlo Escalation ladder. The key is to make her so horny that SHE jumps YOUR bones.
/r/seduction28/04/10 01:11 PM
6

Sex is all about rhythm. You can think about fucking in terms of a piece of music. There is usually a steady beat throughout, and the rhythms change over the course of the composition to different effects. An epic song will start out slow and understated, and build in speed and effect until it reaches an erupting crescendo. A club song will be fast tempo, with several super fast choruses spattered throughout. A good acoustic rock song will be slow, but its rhythms will be rich and complex. What …
/r/seduction28/04/10 12:55 PM
18

I seriously thought that was a lesbian kissing scene at first.
/r/seduction26/04/10 09:57 AM
3

Ha, awful move. How about stop using fake story patterning with this girl, and if you have to mention your snafu, talk about how her tight relationship with her sister reminded her strongly of your relationship with yours, and that's why you brought it up twice.
/r/seduction25/04/10 11:40 AM
1

Then ask to take pictures of her while she's sleeping.
/r/seduction24/04/10 11:20 AM
3

It's not logical at all, because you have the opportunity to have women make you feel like liquid gold and you're ignoring it for complete avoidance and the occasional shit sensation. It's impossible to understand how amazing it feels to break through the shit barrier until you start to do it, but you can read the stories of men who have done it and get inspired, like the rest of us.
/r/seduction24/04/10 11:14 AM
2

Haha...at least it was funny. But, great point about body language changing after you do something manly. I had my best night in months the night after I fucked this bombshell blonde Swedish chick. I could feel myself glowing, and apparently so could everyone else.
/r/seduction24/04/10 11:03 AM
1

It shows.
/r/seduction22/04/10 06:42 AM
2

No, because self mutilation is not.
/r/seduction21/04/10 02:13 PM
1

That's a terrible rule of thumb, and I don't know how you would get this from experience. Low quality girls are low quality girls regardless of their faithfulness, and their faithfulness for someone else is NOT necessarily an indicator of their coolness, or for that matter faithfulness to you. Remember: most relationships are NOT "great things," but somewhat lukewarm.
/r/seduction21/04/10 08:08 AM
3

Scars are sexy.
/r/seduction21/04/10 08:03 AM
1

I like it, mostly because that's my approach to approval giving/seeking.
/r/seduction20/04/10 12:20 PM
1

so I just told her "I am out of things to say" You are so money and you don't even know it. If you used that line with a straight delivery and kind of bored demeanor, that could be solid gold.
/r/seduction05/04/10 10:11 AM
5

Great advice, and off that: little observational jokes are KEY and will stroke your ego like Bristol Palin strokes hockey captains. In line for a concert: Do you ever notice that lines always get much shorter as soon as you join? Anywhere: Is it me, or is that dude's scarf a prop from Milk? [because it's gay. Like most scarves] Or accuse them of stuff. Bartendress: "Wow, this wood counter is classy, did you put this in yourself?" Bookstore: "Oh my god, are you reading porn you sex addict? Oh, no…
/r/seduction05/04/10 10:06 AM
5

Formhandle's Bootcamp at Fastseduction.com, accessible here. It's a sixteen week program designed to really get your shit together at the deepest level; I'm going to try it myself. If you're interested, we should start a thread on the fastseduction forums and post our results as we go.
/r/seduction05/04/10 03:17 AM
3

DiCarlo's escalation ladder is a must read.
/r/seduction24/03/10 04:11 AM
6

Pick me, I'll buy you a drink. Wait. Fuck.
/r/seduction20/03/10 06:14 PM
3

I like it.
/r/seduction20/03/10 08:39 AM
1

Loosely scripted, but the dialogue is ad libbed.
/r/seduction11/03/10 11:10 PM
1

missed the reply button
/r/seduction11/03/10 11:09 PM
9

Approached 3 girls yesterday. Opened the first right after class, by asking her what she thought about our professor and telling her who he looks like (Memento's Sammy Jenkins). The second I asked whether my mouth was blue, after finishing a Fun Dip. It was. I played it light and fun, and we had a good conversation. The third had a box from Sweet, a cupcake store. I asked her what flavors she got, and she told me. I then went on a lame diatribe about why cupcakes are the best kind of bread. She …
/r/seduction16/02/10 05:06 AM
10

That makes my dick cringe.
/r/seduction14/02/10 05:53 AM
2

Sperm Wars
/r/seduction11/02/10 06:44 AM
4

You're a lot skinnier than I like.
/r/seduction31/01/10 11:18 AM
1

Ditto. Plus, dudes that advanced usually aren't that douchey.
/r/seduction31/01/10 12:26 AM
2

I say stuff like this matter-of-factly, and sort of like the chance is really a gift. No edge in my voice. It's assertive, not aggressive, when your tone is right. Still, any situation where you don't back down like a fucking toaster may require you to deal with a violent dude. Usually this can be used to your advantage. Just walk away calmly with your girl, and he looks like an asshole. But if you can beat his ass, by all means, go for it.
/r/seduction31/01/10 12:25 AM
6

Be direct. "You may not have noticed, but this girl is accounted for. I'm going to give you another chance to notice, right now. Take it." If he comes back with anything snarky, turn your girl in to you, block the guy off with your combined backs, and whisper shit into her ear. "Well now, I think he might be jealous he's not going to [insert detailed dirty ass sex shit] to you." "Doesn't that guy look like [comparison with some desperate or ugly character or celebrity or friend, i.e. Artie Ziff]…
/r/seduction30/01/10 09:34 PM
1

No problem. Also: Fast Seduction and the mASF forums is where I learned all this stuff, and is probably the best place to start. The Attraction Forums is pretty good as well. Reddit fucked up the link formatting at first, whoops.
/r/seduction30/01/10 05:55 AM
1

Body language is paramount, then vocal tone. What you say to women is only the third most important thing.
/r/seduction29/01/10 11:15 PM
2

No problem. Also: Fast Seduction (especially the awesome forums) is where I learned all this stuff, and is probably the best place to start. The Attraction Forums is pretty good as well.
/r/seduction29/01/10 11:08 PM
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Here are a couple things I've picked up: Women fuck men who have high status. Say it with me: high status. You are self sufficient, don't need approval, grant your approval sparingly and carefully, and are sure of yourself and your decisions. The basic scene is you're at a bar by yourself, leaning back slightly and enjoying your beer. You talk to the bartender and fellow patrons, but you're bringing them into your fun; you don't need them to enjoy yourself. You are exactly where you want to be, …
/r/seduction29/01/10 09:57 PM
2

Sperm Wars is #1. The Red Queen is also quality. Follow those books and you'll find what you need.
/r/seduction28/01/10 04:36 AM
2

theattractionforums.com have a specific section where you can ask for and find wingmen
/r/seduction03/01/10 10:16 PM
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