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Jesus Christ stop being whiny little bitches MRA's!
/r/MensRights04/06/17 08:26 PM
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I don't get what the "cancer" in this headline is. What's the problem here?
/r/MensRights03/06/17 03:16 PM
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Lol
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 06:25 PM
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Well, considering how much guys have been complaining about some random internet girl's post, I'm beginning to think that guys who work out in gyms are pussies.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 06:15 PM
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Because you keep talking about it. Let it go. It's really not important. It's okay that you go to the gym to stay in shape. I know you want to heap derision and shame on this random lady who talked about her dating preferences in a way that riled you up, but for your mental health I recommend just letting it pass.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 02:05 AM
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No she wasn't talking about you. She doesn't even know you. Please don't consider this a personal attack on yourself and get bent out of shape over it.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 01:53 AM
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I don't believe that a woman stating a preference in men falls to the level of "acting like an animal." Are you crazy?!
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 06:34 PM
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So calling a woman ugly is denying her "pussy pass?" I'm not homophobic, but y'all are a bunch of faggots.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 05:13 PM
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The cop is being a humorless asshole. It's just some girl being a goof. Cop acted like someone pissed in his Corn Flakes. What a pussy!
/r/PussyPassDenied13/03/17 11:28 PM
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The physical differences between men and women are very consistent. Yes there are exceptions, but if you're looking for the stronger gender, you pick men. In order to base the draft on physical strength, you'd have to do a physical test of strength on every single person in the United States, so you'd be wasting an enormous amount of time and resources to determine that it will be almost entirely men that are sent to war anyway. Just keep it simple. Draft the boys.
/r/MensRights13/05/16 07:43 PM
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People around here are cranky. Did a woman make you this cranky? Go out and enjoy yourself!
/r/MensRights12/05/16 11:12 PM
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If equal rights entail equal responsibility, that would mean we should register everyone for the draft from the age of 18 on up. Right now we only register males from 18-25. By that logic, people aged between 25 and 100 aren't accepting responsibility, and thus don't deserve equal rights. But that doesn't really make sense. Women and men are different. The feminist author said as much, and she has a feeling shared by a great deal of men (myself included) who are generally against a draft for wom…
/r/MensRights12/05/16 10:54 PM
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Men and women are different. A woman acknowledges it. What in the world are you guys bitching about?
/r/MensRights12/05/16 06:05 PM
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My wife made me say that Gloria Steinem was attractive, and then berated me for being unfaithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 03:15 AM
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I'm just responding to the OP's own experience of oppression, which was having some internet comments directed towards him. I may be off about that, but I'm spot-on about the type of guys who run-down good-looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 09:14 PM
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Ha true enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 07:14 PM
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People say negative shit about women all the time. It's okay. Just because a couple 15 year old girls on the internet called you misogynist shouldn't make you feel like you can't talk about women. If you want to call a Playboy bunny damaged goods, go ahead. But I'll give you some advice: In my forty years on this planet I've learned that the guy who talks loudly about how he wouldn't date some hot chick is always the guy who wouldn't be able to date hot chicks. Before you badmouth some chick, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 06:50 PM
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I could agree with you if I'd ever encountered the term "mansplaining" in real life, but I haven't. Has anyone here ever seriously been charged with "mansplaining" in real life? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 07:22 PM
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You're right. There are deminishing returns on how attractive a man can be as he ages. You're very right. Seriously though, look at the age that male actors can still be considered a sex symbol as opposed to women. Men have some flexibility on that as they age, whereas women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 04:11 AM
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Men get better looking with age. Source: I'm an aging man :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 11:29 PM
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When it comes to simple physical attractiveness, women are like fruit. They start out green, and then they reach a point where they are perfectly ripe and beautiful. After that they get old and drop off the vine. However, there's more to attractiveness than that. An older, more experienced woman may not be able to compete with a 20 year old in pure physical beauty, but a shrewd mature woman is capable of having a demeanor and attitude that can make her more attractive than those younger beyotche…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 04:03 PM
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Ha! Greetings from Earth! The nerds of both sexes get some pretty equal treatment on Google Images. A lot of goofy looking people and then some hot ones in both genders. Boy nerds. Girl nerds. I was actually expecting that all the "girl nerds" would be these hotties with glasses and pig tails, but there are some goofy looking broads there! Yeah a girl usually self-applies the term "nerd" ironically. So what? This is not part of the worldwide feminist conspiracy. Or is it? [X Files music plays]
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 11:28 PM
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Okay. Looks has nothing to do with being a nerd. Just as it has nothing to do with being a model. Common sense is dead, and it won't be missed. So back to the original question: Why don't nerds get laid? It's because women are bitches. Feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 09:25 PM
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Welp, I think having an argument about the definition of nerd and then being told to look at a dictionary has got to be the nerdiest thing I've ever engaged in since I was a first-chair trombone player in middle school who wore a tie to class. By the way, the dictionary doesn't say that fashion models are attractive. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 09:05 PM
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The non-pussy way of doing things would be to go your own way, find your own chicks, and find your own happiness. Obsessing over college girls having sex with bros is the exact opposite of that. It's sad and sorry shit to hear guys around hear bemoan the "cock carousel" and what-not. It's pathetic. Stop crying and if you can't get laid then find a hobby. It just occurred to me that some of the guys who can't get laid practice misogyny as a hobby. Well more power to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 08:16 PM
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No. Girls almost never self-identify as unattractive. When a girl claims to be a nerd, she's just turning expecations upside down and showing that she has unconventional tastes for a female, such as video games or science. And yikes don't wear your disdain for pretty girls on your shoulder by calling them stupid. If you don't like pretty girls, then it's best to keep it to yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 08:03 PM
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Hello visitor! Welcome to Earth! I do hope you like it here on our planet. As for what nerd means, it's an unattractive person with an intellectual aptitude and no social skills. To get an idea of what the archetypical nerd looks like, check out this Google Image search.. Nerds are funny-looking people with glasses and pocket protectors. On our planet, this is considered unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:40 PM
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I don't think it's misogynistic to say that women sleep around with hot guys. It just sounds like some pussy, limp-dicked thing that guys who can't get laid say. It's a classic case of sour grapes. If you obsess over girls having sex, then it's not they who have the problem. It's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:54 PM
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Nerds are by definition unattractive. You may as well have asked why people who are unattractive are not able to attract people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:49 PM
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Who knows? Maybe your right! At any rate let me say this: Teachers! Stop banging students! (Unless you think you can make it work..jk)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:46 AM
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When a female teacher has an affair with a male student, the screwed-up expectations are on the part of the teacher. For instance, Kay LaTorneau (sp?) in the Seattle area really thought that she could have an affair and bear children for this male student she met. She was screwed-up in the head. When a male teacher grooms a female student for an affair, the screwed-up expectations are usually on the part of the student. Some young girl might think that she could carry on a relationship with her …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:17 AM
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Equating a teenage boy scoring with his teacher and a woman being held down and forcibly penetrated would be like comparing...well...the two things I just mentioned. OBVIOUSLY a teenage boy would enjoy sex with his teacher. And very obviously a woman would not like to be attacked and raped. It's a sick idea that the two compare to each other. Should teachers have sex with boys? Fuck no! But it doesn't compare to forcible rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:00 AM
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Interesting blog! I think it's worth its own post. Do you mind if I use the link for a discussion post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 12:00 AM
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I'm getting the idea that a LOT of Red Pill Men around here have an extraordinarily difficult time with women in general. I think a lot of it stems from this younger generation having a sense of entitlement. Do you know that managers are being trained to give millenials a lot of praise and rewards about everything in order to keep their job satisfaction higher? I think that sense of entitlement is creeping into their love lives too. They think they simply deserve to get love and affection from w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 05:56 PM
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Whoops I accidentally logged into my Wahhabism discussion group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:19 PM
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What's wrong with a person not getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 04:10 PM
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So divorce rates went up in the 70s? What's the problem? Yeah no fault divorce legislation was as much a result of divorce as a cause, but so what? When my mother left my father 30 years ago, she left with a black eye and a golf-ball sized chunk of hair missing and she was still shamed for leaving the son-of-a-bitch. And if it wasn't for higher participation of women in the workforce that started in the 60s then we would have been fucked and probably would have still been living with my abusive …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 04:09 PM
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Did I miss a meeting where we had determined that marriage has collapsed and the family is bereft of meaning? Where is this post-marriage, post-apocalyptic world?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 03:21 PM
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Well maybe he's the kind of guy who attends middle school volleyball games even though he doesn't know any of the kids playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 08:39 PM
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I've hit on and slept with teenage high-school girls before. There isn't anything morally wrong with it. I was in high school myself, though, so maybe that's why no one raised an eyebrow. There is no fourteen-year-old on this planet who can be more attractive and interesting than an older woman who's trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 04:47 PM
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We weren't there. By the way he describes it, obviously no he's not guilty of assault. But I don't believe his story. I have been forward and take-control in every sex situation I've ever been in and I am yet to be charged. (I'm married now so my running around days are over). The guy sounds like a creep. If a girl says she wants to leave, you don't joke about how she owes you sex. That's fucked. And it's that kind of mentality that makes me think that he may not be as innocent as he claims. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 04:28 PM
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The Supreme Court ruled that prior restraint of speech is illegal. You can't tell people not to say something. If they do say something about you that is false and malicious, you can bring a case against them. But you have to prove the statement is false, which is difficult to prove. And hell, it's probably true. So no case. Also public figures have a high bar in America for a defamation. Also the bar is higher for public figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:26 PM
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If you were German you would see a lot of women bitching about those men...in German. Going after some stupid immigrants in Europe is not going to help the feminist cause (whatever that is...feminists are terrible communicators). Think about it. Americans flipped their shit when Janet Jackson showed her breast on MTV, but when confronted with genocide in Rwanda we shrugged our shoulders. Edit: Oh yeah I forgot. 40% of Germans want the Chancellor to resign. I guess you don't speak English either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:54 PM
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Jesus Christ that new "curvy" Barbie is slimmer than my wife! Also smaller. And shorter. And a doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:47 PM
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Yeah that guy you linked resents women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 06:34 PM
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I think we could better rephrase OP's question thus: *Is it okay to be resentful towards women who look good?" The answer is yes. It's okay. Lots of men resent good-looking women. It's okay if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 05:43 PM
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Captain Save-a-Hoe is going to enter my personal lexicon starting immediately! I dabbled playing a Captain Save-a-Hoe a couple times and I just got burned. You can't fix crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 12:30 AM
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Well I'll say one thing: You're certainly passionate about victims of domestic abuse who crave abusive men. I won't say that's odd....even though it is kind of a weirdly specific thing to be passionate about. But oh well. If you won't date a woman who was once in an abusive relationship, that just leaves more chicks for the rest of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:55 PM
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I just find it odd that in a discussion of abuse, you always steered the conversation towards the rare woman who has mental health issues that drive her towards an abusive relationship. Saying you know women who are psychologically pre-disposed to staying in abusive relationships is like saying you know several women with mutiple personality disorder. It may be true but it sounds so unlikely. Unless.....all these woman are dating you, in which case it all makes sense now. Let these woman go Papa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:02 PM
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You know multiple women who are "caught up" in the adrenaline and drama of an abusive relationship, and they don't leave the relationship because they are addicted to it? I've met a lot of people who were in relationships, and I only met one woman in my life who comes close to what you're describing. It was a gal who because of self-destructive behavioral issues would find herself the victim of sexual assault more often than others. But she was an aberration to the regular gals I would meet. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:37 PM
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Have you ever encountered a woman who enjoyed being in an abusive relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 05:03 PM
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At what point does sex in an uncommitted relationship turn into "casual" sex that you find so revolting? And why'do you find it revolting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:49 PM
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What do you find disgusting about sex out of wedlock?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 09:07 AM
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Have you ever met a woman who enjoyed the adrenaline rush of an abusive relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:38 AM
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I don't share your prudishness. I have been intimate with gals with whom I had an understanding that we wouldn't be getting married, but I don't think that made either of us bad people. But some people do have hang ups about casual sex, even if it's practiced safely. Do you have religious or cultural prohibitions against casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:34 AM
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There are some women who are predisposed to abusive relationships, but I don't think it's a majority. In my family there have been a couple women who were knocked around by their husbands. One was a cousin who left the son-of-a-bitch and moved out of state. The other was my mother, who eventually took us kids out of the house once she was given a bloody eye and relieved of a golf-ball-sized patch of hair from her scalp. Her next husband--my step-dad--was not abusive and my mother didn't seek out…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 08:13 AM
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My daughter is headed to college and if a guy rejected her because she was in a sorority I'm sure she would call me to tell me about it. I would have to explain to her that some people feel either threatened or repelled by sorority girls and that it has nothing to do with her personally. I just hope that you haven't let any good broads go on account of your anti-sorority stance. My daughter is a caring and smart young girl who I think would be a total catch to any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:54 AM
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Not a single gal that I dated in college asked me if I was a basketball player. I was an out-of-shape dorkwad and they still were down to mess around. The girls were pretty open-minded and it was fun and educational to hang out with them. I would just recommend that you be as open-minded too. I wasn't the greatest catch but a joke and a wink go a long way with a lady. Don't worry about how much tail the sports guys are getting (because they are getting tons of it). Just worry about yourself and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:43 AM
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I'd love to hear that conversation. Guy: You seem like a cool girl. I have to ask: Did you live in a sorority while you were in college? Girl: Oh yeah I was in Phi Delta Kalla Beta. Loved it! Guy: I see. Well I don't date sorority girls. I'm not too much of a partier, so you being in a sorority is a deal breaker. Girl:.... Guy: You see, there's this thing that I talk about with other guys on the Internet called "the cock carousel" where young women engage in "hypergamy" because of the cultural a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 07:08 AM
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Why in the world would anybody turn down a date with a gal because she went to a sorority? Or was a victim of domestic violence? It's just so weird. So if a woman you're dating confides that she had a boyfriend who hit her, would you just stand up and say "that's a deal breaker" and walk out the door? Why would a person reduce their dating options with arbitrary deal breakers? Just date the girls you like!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 06:52 AM
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I'm a Muslim Mexican transmale who crossed into America illegally, and I support Donald Trump as commander-in-chief!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 03:25 PM
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This is one of the first times I've seen a man around here that hasn't acted like a victim who suffers from the hands of a feminist minority. This is very refreshing! I would hesitate to say that all men are violent brutes and all women are cunning submissives, but at least you're not beating your chest about female oppression. I like it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 03:22 PM
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Dude! When I worked in radio I booked Christina Hoff Summers on some of the shows I worked with to discuss this EXACT thing...The war on boys!! I totally understand what she is saying, ESPECIALLY when it comes to prescribing drugs for behavioral issues with boys. I guess we can agree on the war on boys thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 06:51 AM
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I'm not accusing you guys of being oppressors, which is what Kafka-trapping is. You guys say there are dire civil rights violations of men, and I'm saying that I don't believe you. I'm not accusing people of some crime--like Kafka was accused. I'm saying I don't believe you are suffering as badly as you say you are. But I get it. You guys believe you're victims. And I accept that. I accept that you feel like you're on the bad end of a social contract. I feel baffled as to why you guys wave the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 07:40 AM
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I have learned that people are passionate about this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 04:22 AM
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I've been in a family court. They are not run by women. Did you now that family courts will rule against women sometimes? Does the cabal that has a girm grip on the justice system let a few women lose each year in order to cover their control of the system? That's crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:23 PM
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I'm 40. And yes I saw feminist nonesense when I was younger and in college. But after college I never saw a feminist again. Ever. I worked in Oregon, Washington, Tennessee, Virginia and Washington, D.C. I worked in blue collar jobs and in national political media jobs. I never saw a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:21 PM
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So you saw an advertisement for one of Yelp's women-only tech talks, and you--as a man--marked your calendar and waited for the tech seminar to take place. Then, you drove or walked or took a bus to where they were holding this woman only tech seminar. Then you stood in line with all the other women at a woman only tech seminar, only to be denied at the front door? If you want me to believe it, then I'll believe it. But that's.....crazy. Simply crazy. Yelp is a San Francisco bay company that wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:16 PM
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My dad beat the shit out of my mother and never faced charges, and during divorce proceedings that judge insisted that my dad have visitation rights even though both us children loathed him. I did not blame the courts, the police, or the male gender. I recognized the situation for what it was. I understand your dad had a hard time with that psycho ex girlfriend, but don't blame the whole world!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:04 PM
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Your stated goal is to show that men have serious issues that need consideration. I used to work in political media and I can sense double-speak when I hear it. You're not some disinterested third party, dutifuly recording gender biases in the interest of some greater truth. Your real goal is to provide research ammo for a gender war you're carrying on with some of your internet buddies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:02 PM
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I have been denied entry to many tech seminars at my uni because they were only for women. That's discrimination. Be honest. You were never denied entry into any tech siminars because of your gender. You in fact just heard that there was a woman's only tech seminar, and now you're telling this story that whenever you tried to get into one of these tech seminars that you were turned away at the door. I'm a little too old to believe that you stood in line several times to try and get into a woman'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:49 PM
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tasks like coal mining etc. are necessary and are some of the most dangerous jobs out there, and most women see those are "men's jobs" Men are stronger, have more physical stamina, and are less prone to injuries. I think the perpetuation of it, especially at this point, comes from women. No, it's really because men have more physical stamina, and are less prone to injuries. That's why men take the coal mining jobs. Men take more coal mining jobs than women, and you consider this part of a female…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:43 PM
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What things are run for the benefit of women? And if women don't control it, then who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 11:47 AM
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Yeah I can see how black guys suffer from institutional racism. That's actually pretty easy to see. Black men do suffer from racism. I still don't see how males suffer from institutional sexism from women though. That still sounds like crazy-talk. Do you suffer from institutional sexism? I'm a male and I don't encounter anti-male sentiments anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 11:44 AM
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You're right. They don't count prison sex on the Department of Justice report I linked to you. That report is here. The Daily Mail piece you linked to me uses both reports to make its conclusions. The DOJ report on civilians says that 1,680 males per year suffer a sexual assault as compared to 79,140 females per year. How do you explain this with your "men are victims" worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:51 AM
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Dude, click the source link (http://menforjustice.net/;-) for the catologue of anti-male shaming links. MY COMPUTER WENT NUTS BECAUSE OF THE VIRUSES ON THE WEBSITE! Stop sending me to virus-ridden shit-sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:33 AM
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yes, in the same way that any evidence given for women's issues is 'carefully curated statistics that show how women have it bad'. I'm not a feminist. Don't put me on the opposite side of the spectrum. I'm not talking about feminists. I'm talking about you guys. What's your skin in this game to fight feminists? Why do you feel oppressed by women? I'm a fellow man and I really think that women are the "weaker sex" in this culture, from the ability to negotiate in business to the ability to drive.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 09:11 AM
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There are at least thirty different points there - some of them have references that are as broad as entire books. What's the point of these statistics? Are they designed to give a realistic perspective on the troubles that both genders face? Or are they designed to make men look like victims? The guy who made them says himself that they are intended to be a comprehensive and reliable resource detailing the major gender issues and negative attitudes facing men in the Western world. So they're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 08:55 AM
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You have nothing but a link to a bunch of statistics that are carefully curated to make men seem like victims and women seem like oppressors. It's just ludicrous. You guys really have nothing! I'm a regular working man with a family and a job, and I just don't buy what you're selling. I live in a male-led household and I've never even met someone who was a self-described feminist. I just don't see what you guys are seeing!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 08:15 AM
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The "fallacy of relative privation" sounds like a capital offense to me! So explain to me how men are oppressed in the West. I'd love to hear it! And if you're just going to tell me that there's a movement to get more women into STEM jobs, please tell me it in a more interesting way than all the other people who bring that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 08:04 AM
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The "consexual" sex I mentioned in prison was differentiated by the Department of Justice itself from sex through violence or coercion. And again, the "consexual" sex takes up about 60,000 of the 216,000 "sexual assault" victims cited by the Daily Mail piece. Those are the statistics from the Department of Justice that form the underpinnning of the Daily Mail piece. I'm not misquoting them as a joke. Go the the DOJ's statistics that they released in 2008. Go to the chart on page 14. Just check t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:55 AM
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So you have never experienced oppression by women yourself. Got it. You say "it's complicated." Okay, I'll buy that. But then you try and compare yourself to someone taking a stand against, say, genital mutilation in Africa. I don't buy that. Do you really think men in the West are as oppressed as some girl in Africa getting her clitoris cut off with a broken beer bottle?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:50 AM
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Women are raped more often than men. Even your "source" from the Daily Mail had to compare apples and oranges in order to make the "men are raped more than women" idea work. In the first paragraph they compared "sexual assaults" in prison which included over 65,000 inmates who had consensual sex with someone. Then they compared that to "rape" outside of prison, which now includes having sex while drunk.. So if a man had consexual sex with a prison guard, he's considered a "rape victim" in the pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:39 AM
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I do not believe that women are in control of the culture more than men are. It seems like there is a compulsion by some people to insist that women control the courts, the universities and the culture at large, but NEVER in my 40 years on this planet have I noticed any one-side gender gap in society. Yeah women got some advantages. Men have a LOT more. I would challenge any Redpiller to tell me how they've personally lost out to a woman. Whenever I do ask them, they always give me some facts th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:16 AM
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These statistics seem to be curated specifically to make the position of men look weak and the position of women to be strong. Let's just take one, like the idea that more men are raped then women. In order to make that stat work, you have to include men who had sex while intoxicated. That's stupid. If you have to include a guy who drinks six beers and has sex as a "victim" of sexual abuse, then your numbers are meaningless. I don't believe these statistics paint a realistic picture of the real …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 05:06 AM
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It's not bad faith. I just don't believe you guys. You can keep repeating that women have all the advantages in society, but I just don't see it. It's like trying to argue with me that the sky is pink, and I've only seen a blue sky my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:25 AM
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I'm glad I don't live in a world where women commit crime and can beat men with near impunity while taking all the positions in academia and government. I don't live in that world. No one lives in that world because it doesn't exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 12:53 AM
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Women don't get away with crime. Women get arrested for domestic battery. Men get hired in the government. Men and women both attend universities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:17 PM
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Guys like you always say that women have it so much better, but never really have anything to back it up with except somehow the STEM fields are skewed towards women. It just sounds like stuff that people made up on the internet because I've NEVER seen it in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 07:52 PM
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You've never experienced discrimination. You're just regurgitating the same list of gripes that every anti-feminist uses on the Internet. There's nothing genuine about the complaints against feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:26 PM
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When have you ever experienced any of this? And I don't mean what you've read on the Internet. I'm talking about what you have experienced personally in the way of feminist oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 08:39 AM
1

I think you understand that it's very impolite to say "I won't date rape victims" in a conversation. You said yourself it's not something you would say in public. It would be just like saying "I won't date girls who have/had cancer." It's not wrong for you to not want to date them, but yes, it's assholish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 01:11 AM
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Sometimes a gal is having a lot of sex because she has low self-esteem and looks for validation from the company of men. I don't see past sexual history as an indicator of whether a person would be well-suited for marriage. However, if the number is none or if the number is in the several thousands, I think it's fair to ask a few questions!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 01:08 AM
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I guess not. I hope you found the answers you were looking for about whether it's okay to decline to date rape victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 01:02 AM
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You've definitely set aside sensibilities here on the internet, where you can anonymously talk about how rape victims are bad dating material. This whole thread just seems warped. There's a fascination among Red Pillers with rape and I think it's a little unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 12:30 AM
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They are just a case of guy walks into a bar, sees 2 equally attractive women. One has a "rape victim" sign on. What bars do you go to?!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 12:29 AM
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Don't worry about women. They have known for centuries that bringing up the fact that they've been raped is like announcing that they're damaged goods. At least you sympathize with how "horrible" their experience must have been while simultaenously letting them know how utterly fucked up, repulsive, and undateable they are as rape victims. It's a good reminder to all you chicks out there who have been sexualy assaulted: Keep it a secret! Men will judge you for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 08:53 PM
1

Only 7% of Britons are feminist, and yet some people around here decry the fact that they are "oppressed" and "enslaved" by a powerful feminist majority that controls the government, the media and the culture. I'm starting to think that the anti-feminists are just as unhinged as the feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 08:36 PM
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When were you accused of pedophilia? And how is that the fault of women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 12:34 AM
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This seems like a list of crybaby bullshit. Do the people around here really sit around moaning about how women have made their lives so hard? Can we stop the whining and grow up? I will address all these double standards: Hot chick kissing kid - How could you reverse the genders? Put a man in a bikini and have him kiss a girl? It doesn't even make sense. Penis=Blame, Tits=Free stuff - You're a fucking idiot if you believe this to be literally true. My grandma has tits, and it doesn't get her an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:15 PM
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Never experienced that. No one even bats an eye when I tell them that I work and my wife stays at home. Maybe it's Canada? Are you guys still politically correct up there like it's 1995? Is Jean Chretien still PM?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 12:46 AM
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How do you announce that you like "traditional marriage" in public? Do you walk up to the bar, slam your fist down, and yell "I would like a Molson and a traditional marriage THANK YOU VERY MUCH!" Of course you're going to get ugly looks. You're like a vegan who can't help but tell people that you don't eat meat products within a few seconds of meeting them. Real men don't need to announce what they like in a relationship. That's their own goddamn business and if you announce it, people aren't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 12:27 AM
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Please show me a guy who's been "raked over the coals" for preferring a traditional marriage. Heck I just said I preferred my traditional marriage, and I haven't been attacked yet. Otherwise, I'm going to tell Dorothy Gale that you've been beating up on her friend Scarecrow! He's just a poor strawman you monster!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 10:26 PM
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There's nothing wrong with a man being in charge of a marriage. In my marriage I make the big decisions related to finances, and my wife takes care of the kids and household. Totally traditional. I wouldn't want to force my daughters into this kind of arrangement, though. I would like them to be free to find their place both professionally and family-wise. People don't necessarily find the traditional, male-led household as offensive. What's troubling is when people say that it is the "only" or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 08:13 PM
2

Are you sure you're not mixed race? Do you ever have a hard time choosing between a baked potato and fried rice as a side dish?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:33 PM
2

I would hardly count the thousands of cases of Fetal Alcohol Syndrome to be "self inflicted" or the thousands upon thousands of traffic accidents and deaths caused by drunk drivers to be "self inflicted." But none of that is really important. I'm not going to argue whether alcohol prohibition is a better idea than miscegenation laws, because that would really mean I'm spending too much time on the Internet. The real question is: Are you mixed race?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:18 PM
2

If that's your solution to some people feeling a little melancholy because of their ethnicity, what would be your solution to alcohol abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:09 PM
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Ha okay I get it. Race mixing is bad. Why is this in Purple Pill? Shouldn't this be in some racist SubReddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:02 PM
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What are you on about? The reasons you listed above don't even come close to meriting a government response. And the government response you're calling for is monstrous and immoral, especially when you look at how mild the problem you're trying to cure is. Just because some mixed-race kids feel a little bummed out doesn't mean we have to start a nationwide police action of monitoring who Americans sleep with and breaking up current relationships. Ugh we need less morality police, not more!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 03:55 PM
1

Fight the good fight brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 06:33 AM
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You got to take a step back and look at how unhinged you sound. You're throwing around the term slavery in a conversation about chicks. You weren't raised on a plantation!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:51 AM
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I'm a dude. I've gone through some misogynist phases. I even acknowledged it. I didn't feel the word "misogynist" was dehumanizing. It's just a state of mind, and all guys catch it once in a while. It's just like how all chicks go through an Alanis Morisette phase, as any gal who went through a bad breakup in the 90's can attest to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 03:55 AM
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Ha you think I'm part of a worldwide feminist conspiracy to force guys to...be attractive or something? Dude there are as many self-described feminists in the US as there are people who think the sun revolves around the Earth! Don't worry about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 11:38 PM
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Yeah these facts sound like cherry picked nonesense. I'm talking about the real world man. I'm not talking about criminals, homeless people and rape victims. And I'm sure men can still go to school and get an education. And I was not asking for a bunch of shit you learned off the internet. I asked whether you experienced injustice at the hands of women. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:13 PM
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I'm 40 and have noticed that women have hardly any advantages over men. Get off the internet and start living in the real world. In your experience, how has a woman had an edge over you in anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 03:41 PM
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If "women should be equal to men" is sexist, then that means the phrase "gays should be equal to straights" is prejudiced against heterosexuals. and that's silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 05:24 AM
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You're right. It would not actually be genetically advantageous to eat your siblings. My rhetorical question went too far!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:34 AM
3

That's a nice sentiment wrapped in some bitter, disrespectful language. Women can sense when you have a chip on your shoulder. Shrug that chip off and relax a little!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 01:18 AM
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By the time my daughter was 15 she wknew better than to listen to any horseshit about hypergamy, cc, afbb, AFL-CIO, etc. Shit if you used the term "cock carousel" to bitterly talk about the so-called advantages women have in college with sex, I'm sure she would just roll her eyes and walk away. When she was a teenager, my daughter was interested in her school work, her friends, and her boyfriends. She was respectful but still confident. Now she's a blonde bombshell about to head off to college. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 01:04 AM
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Sometimes the conversation around here sounds like people have only seen women on BBC nature documentaries. Wouldn't it be a better evolutionary strategy for this theoretical woman's children to kill and eat their siblings and thus ensure they receive all the parents' resources? Sure, but it doesn't mean that it's happening!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 12:50 AM
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I figured as much. News stories like that can turn into racist clusterfucks of pure static.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:40 PM
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So if I check R/Worldnews I won't see any interest in this? That doesn't sound right. Would they really would ignore a large number of sexual assaults allegedly perpetrated by a minority group in a country that is right in the middle of having a heated conversation about those exact minorities coming into their country? [Checks R/WorldNews.] So...do they put the posts they don't care about at the very top and then make hundreds of comments on those posts? Now that's just weird! Edit: Hmmm, now i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 10:46 PM
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Men who are confident and capable tend to be more financially stable. I would be hesitant to call women who are attracted to that as being "100,000 years outdated."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:23 PM
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Hey man I know it can be frustrating. I was in the dating game for a couple decades before I got married in my mid-thirties. Dating girls was emotionally draining and the rejection could be brutal. Just hang in there and don't consider yourself "involuntarily celibate." If you give up on yourself than your are voluntarily making yourself celibate. Rejection is tough. Be strong and don't give up!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:17 AM
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Do you ever get the feeling that these kinds of posts are starting to feel a little bit like revenge fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 08:04 AM
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If this is what helps you wake up in the morning, then hell yeah the man is always in charge! Silly women and their birth control, abortion and medication!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 08:08 PM
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Torso pics can work if they look good. Zack Galifanakus shouldn't do a torso shot right? Or is my advice that men should only take pictures of their torso if it looks good is because of a feminist conspiracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:41 PM
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Well, if your penis is one of the top-ten worldwide best-looking penises, you better take a picture and slap that thing onto the Internet!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:33 PM
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I advised that if you take a torso pic, make sure it's a good one, which is exactly what OP's study said. I assure you there are no "studies" that say a dick pic will help you get women. However, you probably think I'm a brainwashed stooge of the worldwide feminist conspiracy that's working to undermine men's ability to get women by telling them to not take pictures of their junk. Wow. Now that I type it out it seems so ridiculous that I have to type it out again: You think my advice for men to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:29 PM
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Can mods shadowban? I thought only admins could do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 08:42 AM
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I am forwarding this article to my wife who is less than sympathetic when I get sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:00 AM
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My advice to men remains the same. Definitely focus on the written portion of your dating profile. I would recommend against torso pics unless you have an awesome torso and you have a good photo of it. A bathroom topless selfie of a man is extraordinarily difficult to pull off without looking stupid. Better have an action shot of playing beach volley ball with your buddies. And as for dic pix I will ALWAYS come out strongly against. It doesn't look good. And I give this advice not to make women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 04:58 AM
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The quotes from Gloria Steinum were from a book written over forty years ago aimed at a general feminist readership that was full of radical leftist granola. Her research on the prehistoric matriarchy never went anywhere. It's not seriously believed by anyone of consequence. Don't worry about Gloria! She herself has talked some shit about academia!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 01:54 AM
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I'm forty and have never discussed sex with past partners with my current partner. Let me get this straight. You're a master of this sexual history conversation because you had this coversation once in high school: You: Uh, have you ever, uh like, done it before? Huhuhuhuhu Her: Uh, no huhuhuhuhu. Both: huhuhuhuhu Then you had this conversation in maybe college: You: How many partners have you had? Her: More than you! You: ... And then you had some casual conversations with your wife about your …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 05:37 PM
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As I understand it, Blue Pill is against Red Pill's dating advice. For me personally, I believe there's a LOT of juvenile misogyny involved with a Red Pill, thus I put on some Blue Pill flair and furiously whack it in these forums. I'm glad there are not grammar circle-jerkers in here bcause they would be telling me in circlejerk fashion that the plural to forums is fora. I would call them wankers (even though I'm American not British fer crissakes) and then someone would accuse me of "cultural …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 04:51 PM
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Again, I will repeat: No one of consequence literally believe in an idyllic matriarchal society that was supplanted a few thousand years ago by a patriarchy. Gloria Steinum does not believe in an idyllic matriarchal past. Her work has focused on whether a patriarchy is inevitable, not whether it supplanted a million-year reign of the matriarchy a few millenia ago. The patriarchy is younger now, thanks to growing feminist acceptance of the idea that human society was matriarchal—or at least "woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 12:06 PM
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I will answer this without any sarcasm. The Red Pill was formed as a venue for a certain type of dating advice. The Blue Pill was formed to counter Red Pill's advice. Blue Pill is not dating advice. It was formed solely as an anti-Red Pill circlejerk. That's why Red Pill has dating advice and Blue Pill has anti-Red-Pill circlejerks. It's by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 11:43 AM
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The idea that there was an idyllic matriarchal past is pure 60s granola. No one of any consequence believes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 11:38 AM
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So you bring it up in conversation? How does that conversation go? I'm really curious how you guys bring it up: You: "Hey babe. We've progressed far enough in our relationship that I'd like you to disclose your sexual history to me. Her: ... You: Also, if your sexual experience is more than some arbitrary amount, I am going to dump you as a hussy. Her: ... You: Also if you hesitate at all when I spring this on you it will raise red flags with me. Her: Uh... You: [Red Flag Triggered]
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 10:53 PM
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10 times?! Did it go something like this? You: [Taking out clipboard] Okay since we are going exclusive I want you to tell me how often and with whom you've had sex. Her: [Slams door on way out] You've had that conversation 10 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 09:44 PM
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At what point in a relationship would you start insisting that a woman disclose her sexual history to you in order to avoid raising that red flag? And how many times have you had this conversation with women? Where I'm from its considered very gauche to discuss past sexual partners with your current one. It's just weird to me that someone would consider full sexual disclosure vital to a relationship going smoothly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 06:39 PM
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Dude, ask Red Pillers whether they should have access to a woman's sexual history. They will almost invariably think it is something they are entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 05:59 PM
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Just put yourself in the girl's position. If you were saved from harm by a woman, would you automatically want to date her? Or would you realize that attraction has nothing to do with how many times you "save" someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 05:14 PM
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I don't get what the problem is. She thought the guy had a Lamborghini or something and it turns out he drives a Toyota. A Toyota ain't a Lambo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 10:06 PM
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Which discourse have they changed? I have only seen feminists fail throughout the decades. For instance, feminists used to be extremely hostile to the pornography industry, calling it exploitative and demeaning to women. Who won that culture war? Pornography is ubiquitous and women take personal grooming cues from the porn actresses. Utter failure. There was a time when feminists tried to push the idea that all sex is rape. That idea has been so thoroughly discarded by the culture as a whole tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 11:22 PM
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I've lived all and worked all over the United States, from the Pacific Northwest to the Northeast corridor and tons of places in between. I've worked in blue collar and white collar jobs. I have NEVER encountered this fearsome monster called feminism. Not once. Not ever. Your post mentions a bunch of blogs and some famous people who call themselves feminists. I don't live on blogs, and I don't know Joseph Gordon Leavitt or Barack Obama. They have nothing to do with my life. Funny thing, people a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 08:54 PM
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Feminism is the dominant narrative I've never even heard the phrase "feminism" uttered outside of a college campus or an online message board. I can see how the feminists can be irritating online, though. Ban away!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 08:07 PM
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Funny thing is that Redpillers use the phrase "safe space" without any hint of irony like they're a freshman in college or a Tublrina writing their first blog from their parents's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:29 PM
1

I don't know why you don't get laid more often. You seem like a fun person who really has it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 08:08 PM
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I had a goofy-looking friend in college who was a slightly chubby guy with a bad haircut. He had a ridiculous-sounding Liverpudlian accent like he was fucking Ringo Starr. He was such a funny son-of-a-bitch though that women were always orbiting him, and he told me that college life to him was a huge sexual playground. I was jealous. And still am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 06:36 PM
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Jesus Christ can't she give her male children haircuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 07:22 AM
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I can't even tell when someone is being sarcastic or not. Jesus I need to take my sarcastometer to the shop and get it tuned up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 04:02 PM
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Sex was something I wanted, something I'd have been happy and deserving of for being a good human being. Sex is not something that you earn. It is something you have to work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 02:09 AM
0

The men and boys definitely need to be empowered! And wherever they can get a sense of how to talk to women, they should definitely take advantage of that. If you don't empower men, they're going to miss out on some things life has to offer, and you end up with a lot of bitter guys who have an unrealistic sense of self-entitlement. You have to give guys some common sense tools of dealing with the world in general and dating in particular, otherwise the world will collectively friendzone them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 08:36 PM
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That case is a bit more complicated than you give it credit. The woman was not right in the head and the man should not have been fooling with her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:39 AM
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You can talk about yachts and fine wine all you like, if that's what you find interesting. I wouldn't put on airs or talk like somone I wasn't in order to pick up women, though. Just be your (best) self!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:28 AM
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I have met millionaires, and I didn't notice a millionaire dress code. But yes, you should dress sharp if you want better chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:07 AM
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You are definitely out of the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:03 AM
4

How do young women act nowadays that makes them indistinguishable from prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 08:25 AM
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How do they react?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:00 AM
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How do they react?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:00 AM
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I had four or five very serious girlfriends in my life before I got married in the last couple years. In none of those relationships did the number of partners either of us had ever come up. Not once. Does anyone talk about previous relationships with their current partner? As for the CMV, all I can say is that asking someone how many sexual partners they've had is difficult to do. The best way to judge someone for a relationship is to pay attention to their general demeanor and make a realistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 07:59 PM
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I'm starting to believe that some Redpillers have just been dropped onto planet Earth from the mothership and are working feverishly to figure out humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 08:26 AM
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I would prefer that people have the power and dignity to release personal information about themselves at their own will. What is it about other people's sexual history you find so crucial that it must provided to you in its entirety, unedited?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:55 AM
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Why do people gossip about sex and not breakfast cereal or toenail polish? I don't really know. Anything I came up with would just be a guess, but I imagine it has something to do with the enormous role sex plays in human society. It's a juicy topic of conversation. It's what this whole thread is about!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:01 AM
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I don't find that it's "worshipping" women. It's just a play on words on how "nice guys" can make women cum. If anything, it's less worshipful of women and more worshipful of a guy's own ability in the bedroom. I wouldn't read too much into it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:23 AM
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It's just the culture I guess. If a person's sex life becomes public they will always have to bear some ruthless, leering gossip. It's the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 01:18 AM
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The "advantage" I mentioned were for women to not be the subject of gossip and shame. Are women so utterly dangerous that they should be stripped of the right to privacy and be forced to allow all their past actions to be held up to public scrutiny and gossip?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:36 AM
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Hey they're really proud of their golden cocks! They've never been used and only dropped once. Edit: By the way they were dropped that one time they left the basement door unlocked and mom walked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:12 AM
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They really believe that women don't have a right to privacy. All ya sluts out there better brush off your scarlet A's!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:06 AM
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By your logic, any private information that someone wants to withhold is the practice of deception. I don't talk about my sex life. I don't talk about my salary. I don't talk about my health. I don't talk about my political views (except when I'm jackassing it on the internet). Everyone uses discretion in discussing certain things, so by your logic, EVERYONE is a liar. That's silly. What possible right would anyone have to someone's private life and personal information?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 12:04 AM
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I never discuss sex with anybody except who I have sex with. Does my desire for privacy make me deceptive? What lie would I be caught in for not discussing private matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 10:24 PM
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Woman expose themselves up to gossip and shame if they are flagrantly open about who they have sex with and how often they have sex. It's not a feminine conspiracy to "lock up betas," it's a practical form of modesty so that they can have sex without people judging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 09:40 PM
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Yeah these virginal guys are way overblowing how exciting the sex they're missing out on is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 02:50 PM
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I can't do anthing but deny it. I haven't heard that. I only hear about how rich and good-looking guys have an easier time with women, because that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:19 PM
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If a person thinks that a woman is less attractive because she had crazy sex in college, I think it's a reflection of some personal issues that person has with sexuality. Especially if that person is worried that they will do "something like that" (sex, I guess?) in the future. Why are we fretting over women having sex like we're some kind of bearded imams from the desert?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 11:15 PM
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The reality for the average dude is this: Most likely, the "nice" girl you are going to marry sucked some cock in the back room, maybe got gangbanged by Chad and his Frat/Sports team, and did it raw with him later in his room, every day only to get discarded 2 months later, and then moved on to the next Alpha. And did that for the next 3 years in her sorority in college. Why is it a problem that some gal had a good time in college? Perhaps too good of a time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:54 PM
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Who says that good-looking guys don't get more and hotter chicks than regular guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 10:53 PM
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That's what struck me, too. The "shelf life" thing. Also the "most black women are fat and look horrible thing" too. The conversation about women around here seems so joyless and analytical. I wonder what these guys get out of it. Guys, what do you get out of conversations like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:58 PM
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This is a question better posted in r/anthropology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:29 PM
2

And dude... If you are smart, driven, educated white guy, your life begins at 30. Dude, my 30's have been awesome too! Life really does begin at 30 for guys like us. The older I get the better I feel. I know age has diminishing returns (of course) but the ride is GREAT!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:30 AM
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Awesome man! I'm happy to hear that!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:47 AM
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It seems like a lot of stress. Just don't worry about it. Your 30, which is damn near middle-aged. Make your life simpler and stop trying to please your friends or their bitchy girlfriends. Just try it and see what happens! What's the worst that could happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 03:45 AM
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I am complaining that at 30 I either put out and fuck fatties at parties or the women of my friends think I am "mean and powertripping." Dude, who cares what the wives of your friends think? Just be a "man going his own way" fer crissakes! If that's too emotionally difficult, then you're not ready to be your own man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 03:01 AM
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This sounds expensive to create and impossible to implement. In other words, a very typical idea from a pie-in-the-sky, ivory tower college student.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 12:36 AM
1

Elite Daily gets some views, but it's relatively insignificant (which is why I compared them to NOAA's website, which has twice as many visitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:49 PM
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A high status person with low self-esteem will be less attractive to a woman than a high status person with high self-esteem. So the confidence thing makes a difference. The status and the confidence are distinct matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:48 PM
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I'm saying this feminist writer is a small-time writer, and not one to be taken too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:16 PM
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You're asking me what I think of some schlocky feminist writer for a blog that has half as many visitors as the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration's website? Do I have to have an more of an opinion on her than above? My opinion is that she's trying to be edgy to get pageviews. And that's she's trying to make a point about sexual assault rates against women. She's not serious about objectifying men. She's subverting expectations to make a point. Don't worry about her!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:31 PM
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Some church people are telling you to date ugly chicks? Who CARES! Stop going to that church!! BE YOUR OWN MAN!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:11 PM
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Yeah women will approach those rare good-looking guys. Us regular schlubs have to work harder! Stop being so angry at women and worry more about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:06 PM
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Everyone -- women, the media, churches, other men -- tells men they are mean, cruel, abusive asshole shitlords for refusing to date or pay attention to unattractive women. No they don't. The only examples I've gotten about this HUGE movement to force men to date ugly chicks is a couple articles of feminist schlock from some online magazine called Elite Daily. Stop reading feminist blogs, and if people tell you this in real life, ignore them. Just be your own man. As an adult you'll always have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:05 PM
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Don't worry about what some snarky feminist blogger has to say. Besides, she just wrote that to make a point and to get a rise out of people like you. Don't take it personally! And stop reading feminist blogs!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:01 PM
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You're complaining that if you're aloof and hard-to-date that people will look down on you? ... I thought the complaint was that women were the ones with all the power in the dating game?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 01:39 PM
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Around 75% of the adult male population over 25 has been or is currently married. Those don't jive with your statistics that up to 80% of men cannot find women. That number is so high that it should have raised alarm bells with you while you were typing it. Don't you see in your regular life that most people date and get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:51 AM
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Don't worry about the feminists. They have NO impact on the dating scene. Just worry about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:46 AM
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Open ended means that it could take their entire lives. And yeah, some guys are undateable. They're a very small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 05:03 AM
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i will. The only other advice is to give up, which is bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 04:39 AM
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if a girl is interested in a guy, she should go up to him and chat him up. It will never happen like that. It's not how dating works. I don't see it ever changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:39 AM
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If it's still competitive and difficult, then it hasn't changed from the couple years I've been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:26 AM
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No one ever said dating was easy. Who gave you the impression that finding a woman and dating her was easy and fair? I'm hearing that people more and more nowadays don't want to compete and they want to be praised all the time. The problem is, the dating game has always been competitive and there's no one to give you any encouragement. Don't think it has been or ever will be different. Thinking that dating should be fair is like demanding that life be fair. It just ain't happening. And dating is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:24 AM
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It's not easy for sure. Best thing to do is to reach out to friends and acquaintances to widen your social circle. Cold calling a gal in a bar is not easy and it's emotionally draining. Don't give up on women just because of the process though. And don't be afraid to try different approaches. An earnest investment into the dating scene will usually pay dividends. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 12:51 AM
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This is happening. Men aren't approaching women anymore, and a lot of people are starting to blame social media. My daughter says that at parties she find herself ignored by boys, who--although they are shooting looks her way--don't find the strength to ever go and talk to her. A man with confidence in a bar can CLEAN UP getting phone numbers. I'm married now, but HOLY CRAP I had my ring off one night at a bar and merely saying 'hello' to a woman will get you a light brush on the arm. Holy crap …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 10:26 PM
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I read the article. Here're the highlights: The truth is that men are much more shallow when it comes to finding themselves a partner than women are. All that men can do is find themselves a woman that they love to look at, touch, and be touched by- hoping to make it through months of her douchebag screening tests. It works. Why mess with it? So this article is not saying that men should accept unattractive women, it's saying that society should accept men who seek out attractive women. This is,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 09:26 PM
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Why can women desire a certain height, income, education level, and career in a man, but if a man desires a certain weight, age, or degree of attractiveness in a woman, then that is unacceptable? Can we PLEASE get an example of some man being told he can't have standards? It would be really helpful to figure out where you're getting this idea from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 09:03 PM
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You go on the internet of course! Find people who affirm your beliefs and ignore those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 09:02 PM
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Yeah I'd like an example too. I want to make sure this thing is not just the fevered imagination of someone who dislikes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:49 PM
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Maude, the Red Pillers are going to be extremely obtuse when you try and tell them there's a difference between bullying an unattractive woman and sleeping with an unattractive woman, because it doesn't fit into their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:47 PM
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Can you please show us an example of this "movement" to force men to have sex with unattractive females? Are there any organizations that have this in their mission statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:44 PM
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Once you have children yourself you'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 03:44 PM
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A few months reading the conversation here on Purple Pill has given me a pretty clear picture of what's going on. And to be clear, I'm not saying that all Red Pillers are socially awkward cranks. I'm just saying that there's a higher proportion of them, and certainly not a majority. Here's what posters I think comprise the remaining majority of Red Pillers: Fitness/health posters - Good advice and supportive of each other. Very few trolls. Fashion/style posters - Cool guys and very legit. Pick U…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 11:13 PM
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I brings a ruckus to the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 04:10 PM
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Ha Christian dating books from the 90s seem like they would have the WORST advice for men. I hope you were able to widen your pool of role models!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 04:40 PM
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For thirty years there was something called a "sensitive new age man" who resembled Alan Alda? And for thirty years he was held up as a role model? Why did I miss this? Who held him up as a role model? Maybe I was too busy watching Death Wish and Steven Seagal movies to hear that Alan Alda was the new archetypical man. Were you alive during the 70s to the 90s? It's laughable that Alan Alda was considered a man to strive for. You do remember that Alan Alda was considered to be a bleeding heart wu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 04:25 PM
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Ha! I love it! Okay let me do one. [Clears throat] What if I said that Jews control a disproportionate amount of the money in the United States? Is that bigoted? What if it's true? (Hint, it's true) This is fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 05:57 PM
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I find the way that Red Pillers talk about women to be repulsive. The dating advice you guys give to each other strips all the fun and humanity out of dating and reduces the interaction between men and women into his zero-sum power game where the only goal is sexual satisfaction. I sense misogyny when I see TRP men in threads. Go to any thread where Red Pillers are talking, and replace the term "women" with the term "blacks" or "Jews" and you'll realize how bigoted you guys sound. It's wonderful…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 04:43 PM
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College kids have been pulling this kind of nonsense for decades. Actually, make that centuries! We all know that college life is insulated from the "real world." That's why we shouldn't view our culture through the lens of college, which is full of young people who are just finding their voices. Also remember that universities bring out some amazing talent in a lot of people who do a great deal of good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 07:48 PM
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She was flirting with you by telling you she punched another suitor. She's waiting for you to make a move. MAKE A MOVE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/15 08:57 AM
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Your case was that teenage girls make mistakes? Oh LORD lol! Well why didn't you say so in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 03:01 PM
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Dude you're making prolonged eye contact with a gal that you have a mutual acquaintance with? GET ON THIS RIGHT AWAY HOLY CRAP!!! She's LOOKING at you?! Get outside of your fucking head, push your self-absorbed ego down, and TALK to his girl. Even if it doesn't go well, that would be better than wondering what could have happened if you talked to her. TALK TO HER! I'm cheering for you. TALK TO HER! TALK TO HER!! Come on, what's the worst that could happen? Don't answer that! TALK TO HER! TALK TO…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 12:30 PM
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Heh you kind of remind me of Tim Heideger's character in The Comedy. I wish you the best of luck with your money. May it not run out before you become a pensioner!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 12:15 PM
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You're experience with women is just completely different then mine. I've heard of women using beta boys for validation yes, but any boy should realize they're getting played that way real quick. If you are having a difficult time with approaching women, it's a good idea to widen your social circle and try to get introduced to a chick who's a friend of a friend. That's how I found a few girls, including my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 12:11 PM
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You are right. A lot of younger guys are not pursuing women anymore because they don't like the rejection and don't find the girls worth it. They're also not pursuing careers with as much gusto. Heck they're not even getting drivers licenses the day they turn 16 like they used to. It's very weird to me. But I don't play video games so I don't have huge chunks of my off time devoted to something like that. When you don't play video games, you really just want to get out of the house, and that's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 12:06 PM
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I wouldn't doubt that my daughter is making dating mistakes. She is just a teenager after all. But she isn't unhappy about her dating life, and I'm content with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:50 AM
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Hey man don't be hard on yourself. I'm rooting for you to get a job and to get a car. Don't wait for a woman to approach you when you're holed-up playing video games without a job. They will NOT come. Get yourself out there in the world and if you care about yourself enough, you will find a woman to care about you...or at least care enough to hand out a BJ :) Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:47 AM
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If you're uncomfortable approaching women as a stranger, it's a really good idea to cultivate a close group of friends who can eventually introduce you to girls in a wider social circle. I used that method too and eventually found a wife out of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:41 AM
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The last guy my daughter dated was a scrawny kid who worked at a local burger joint. If the dating game is so rough all I can do is shrug and tell you to man up, get a haircut, buy a nice shirt and get out the front door looking for chicks. There's no other way. Fighting some gender/culture war on the Internet is a waste of time, because most people live in the real world, not on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:33 AM
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I was being rejected 20 years ago when I was in the dating game. I also got a few hits. It's a numbers game and a confidence game. Getting rejected is part of dating! Always has been unless you want to go back to the days of arranged marriages and chattel women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:22 AM
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Well the funny thing about chicks is that if a boy doesn't have the guts to approach a woman, that woman is not going to be attracted to that boy. Women find men's behavior almost as important as their looks when it comes to attraction. If you're a boy who will only steal furtive glances and NEVER comes over to say hi, well my daughter isn't attracted to you. It's just the way the girls are!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:19 AM
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Well you gotta remember that my daughter just turned 18, so the folks she runs with are teenagers. Teenage boys just don't have the gumption that adult males have. When my daughter is in college it's going to be a whole different ballgame, and she'll probably look back on the days when boys just shot her furtive glances with a bit of nostalgia. There's just something weird about this new crop of boys we got. They don't get drivers licenses. They're not getting jobs. And they're not hitting on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:15 AM
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I guess men are turning into special little snow flakes who can't be allowed to suffer the pain of rejection from some chick. I'm being a little sarcastic but hearing the way guys talk about the dating scene makes me thing they have egos constructed with egg shells.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 11:01 AM
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Some of the time. But getting attention and being able to form a meaninful relationship with a good person are two very separate things. She told me she was at a party the other weekend and not a single guy approached her. It's weird to me! Not that she was sitting in a corner by herself. She was talking with her friends and having a good time, but she didn't have flocks of strange men hitting on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 12:03 AM
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You'd be surprised how a good-looking gal can be ignored, except for the obvious dickhead who wants her for a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 11:11 PM
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Women who go around asking people to be their boyfriends come off as desperate whores. Think about the last time you heard of a girl going around and asking every one of her male acquaintances to be her boyfriend. It just doesn't work that way. Anyway, women tend to like being swept off their feet. Think about the stereotype of the caveman dragging a cavewoman back to his cave. It's a silly image, but it captures the idea that a man generally has to ask the woman out. It's the way it works. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:18 PM
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lol wtf? are you serious? tell her to do it?! If shes so epic then she can do it yeah? i mean how contradictory can women be... they're like walking breathing hypocrites. I don't understand what you're saying here. Tell her to do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:07 PM
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I have an attractive daughter and most guys are too much of pussies to even talk to her, and she's complained about that to me. So if she's attractive, guys her age won't talk to her, and I'm fearful that some middle-aged guy who understands the game is gonna swoop in and get on that. So let's recap: Attractive daughter is surrounded by boys her age who don't have the brains or the balls to talk to her, so she goes without a boyfriend. That leaves her to dating older guys who will just hit it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 06:49 PM
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Okay we agree to be exciting and capable to get women. Just go for it boys! Why all this talk about it on the internet. Just go out and practice your game brutha!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:12 PM
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Okay Red Pill is awesome! Now go out there and make the girls squeal!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 04:03 PM
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Does a woman want a man who can be exciting and capable in dangerous situations? Mostly yes of course. Does a woman want a man who thinks that dating should be like having a terrified woman screaming "no" and "slow down"' while trapped in a speeding car? I'll leave that one unanswered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 03:07 PM
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Ha that's one of the dangers of dating or marrying a race car driver. It's no big deal. It was done for a laugh. The women are grown ups and if they're angry, they'll let the boys know. And heck I bet they got a bit of a thrill out of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 02:35 PM
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Well I don't know all this terminology that the BPers and RPers have been circlejerking around here for ages, but what I do know is that the way RPers talk about women is horrifying and dismaying. You guys need some pushback because your misogynist sentiments are infecting the Internet! Not that I don't like you guys, but you are some of the crankiest folks on the Internet. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 11:07 AM
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Because it would be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 10:58 PM
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Lol I had to look up incel. No, this is not something that is in the interest of the government to address. I would legalize prostitution, which would help for people who dont have the mental and physical abilities to have an enjoyable sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 10:16 PM
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Western whores lol! You sound like an Islamic mufti from the desert. Sorry western women got you so beat down brutha. You sound depressed and oppressed!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 07:14 AM
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I believe if he isolates his wife with a language barrier it will cause unhappiness and loneliness for her, while he may be content.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 02:03 AM
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Wherever you find love is great!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:11 AM
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I would feel selfish and weak if my happiness depended on the unhappiness of someone else. I would feel monstrous if it was my wife, the mother of my children, who would have to be unhappy for me to be happy. But if you're not worried about those around you, let me say just say that an unfulfilled wife will not make for a good marital partner, and the marriage will not be happy if both people aren't in it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 01:01 AM
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She will be VERY lonely if you foster dependency through a language barrier. I had a buddy marry a Ukrainian and the loneliness took a big toll on her. Besides, wouldn't you rather have a challenging and vibrant partner instead of a mere dependent?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 10:11 PM
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If you take some young woman away from her family, move her to a foreign country, and you treat her like "USDA prime-aged virgin" she will be extraordinarily unhappy. Being close to family and poor is better than being a wealthy side of beef. Also, she will divorce you the minute she gets legal residency in the US. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 09:38 PM
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Got another one for you to check out about men crying in public. Check out the comments on this thread and there's NO ONE talking crap about a guy crying in public. Here's the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 06:51 AM
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I would bet you that you will never run into preferential hiring against white men in the job market. I've been working for 25 years and have never experienced it. Don't be so bitter and let this distrust of women turn into exasperation with the whole damn country! Get out there in the real world and go find out how little of this stuff happens. Let me make a deal: If you ever find out that you were passed over for a position because of affirmative action, I will personally take a look at your r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 02:42 PM
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I googled what media are saying about affirmative action. The New York Times, Huffington Post, Slate and MSNBC have their predictable stances in favor of affirmative action. Naturally Forbes, Fox News, ALL of talk radio and CNBC are generally against it. The Stanford Law review and the Washington Post have run pieces both against and in favor. Again, it's not an open and shut case. And you won't even try to get into government? I know a white male who got a job in a congressman's office. My whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 08:22 AM
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I'm afraid I can't speak much to preferential hiring as I have never encountered it. I have done hiring in media positions, IT and technical positions and support positions, and never have I encountered hiring bias or pressure of any kind. I also live in a state (Washington) where affirmative action is specifically banned by state law. What I do see is that hiring pretty much goes the way you would expect. Technical job? Almost exclusively men. Lower level support and admin positions? Always gal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 07:46 AM
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I'm not sure that the media would whole support an adulterous woman. If you think the media would cry feminism and defend a woman cheating on her husband, then where was this when Meg Ryan or Lean Rimes or Madonna had affairs? There was only scandal-mongering, not any Feminist defense. And as for statistics in rape. The statistics are used wrongly by both Red Pillers and feminists when they include intoxicated, consenting adults. No matter what anyone says, that's not generally assault. Hmm, let…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 07:25 AM
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I like this gender and media conversation. Remember how Courtney Love was destroyed by the media for her drug use? Compare that to how awesome Robert Downey Jr. or Charlie Sheen or Rush Limbaugh or Gary Oldman or Tom Sizemore or Mick Jagger or Robin Williams came through media scrutiny of their addictions. They came out better than ever. Hell EVERYONE loves RDJ. Charlie Sheen? Forget about it! Women love him and men wanna be him. And that's how Charlie was being talked about on freakin' NPR, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 06:48 AM
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In college I did see some really vicious behavior from some women that was unfair, but a guy could pushback and the feminists on campus weren't even in the top ten of my gripes with college. Also, the cool chicks (who were a vast majority) looked down on the gender hostile women. You could avoid them luckily. :) And both men and women can get chewed up by the media. Sometimes different things can trigger it for men and women, but no gender is exclusively safe from media scrutiny. Men and women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 05:41 AM
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I've never had a friend or acquaintance get charged with rape because a woman was intoxicated. I've heard of women pressing charges because they were intoxicated. In cases where a woman has been drugged, then it's justified. If the woman is having second thoughts, then of course it is unjustified. As for prison rape it is an issue that should be addressed forcefully, but it's not representative of American society as a whole and very unrepresentative of American women. I believe that women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 02:46 AM
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Sheesh everyone is so cranky around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 11:29 PM
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Okay when you "design" a women then let me know! I don't think your physics is misogynist. I think it could be awesome, because I want a pliant Stepford Wife for myself dangit! In the mean time, I'll just keep bumbling from point A to point B. I start at the woman's neck and end up at her inner thigh. Even if you're bumbling it works!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 11:12 PM
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The stats will also include WOMEN who drank alcohol before sex. Which would likely lead to even more women answering yes. I knew you would bring this one up. Let me explain how that works. In 1997, 9 in 10 rape victims were female and 1 in 10 were male. This was before they used the idea that every sex act while drunk was rape. Okay so it's 90% women and 10% men. Well let's say that 60% of men have had sex drunk and 50% of women have had sex drunk. Well dang that puts the numbers of sexual assau…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 11:04 PM
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No one cared that Justin Bieber had nude pics. Everyone laughed it off. Really. No one cared. It made the rounds and then everyone forgot about it. The Jennifer Lawrence pictures created a FIRESTORM of internet activity. They were being traded and distributed in an event called The Fappening (which I find gross to think about, but that's just me). The attention on these nude pics was neither healthy or friendly, and Jennifer Lawrence had a REAL CONCERN that this would impact her career negativel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 10:55 PM
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Yeah but talking about animalistic behavioral theories to understand women is like taking a course in applied aerodynamics in order to understand a car. You'll be way better off just driving the car!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 10:41 PM
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It just includes prison. Some prisons are living hellholes for the largely male population that's tossed into them. It should definitely be addressed, but it skews the statistics because it has a large, male, vulnerable population that's prone to victimization. It's terrible, but not really helping to paint an accurate picture of the rates of victimizations between men and women. Have you served time in prison? And also, I guarantee your statistics include men who have drank alcohol before havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 10:37 PM
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Take your cute lil shaming snark out of here. Hey man I wouldn't want you to leave simply because we disagree. This is the PurplePillDebate room. I left TRP because it wasn't the right place to start arguments with people. Anyway, men are not victims of sexual assault more than women. I gaurantee that if you have statistics that show this, they include men who have had sex while drunk. It is not rape for a man to have a few drinks and get laid. If you want to believe that men have it worse, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 09:07 PM
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Why this victim oneupmanship? All the Red Pillers are beating their chests and tearing at their garments, screaming that "men are victims! Men are victims!" Yes men have problems, and women have problems. None of my problems were based on women's physical stature. And the way that people have countered the dick pic thing is by bringing up Jennifer Lawrence or Kim Kardashian. They are not comparable to Brett Favre in age, marital status, or level of success. It's not the same. Brett Favre was mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 08:52 PM
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Women are generally selected by appearance, and men are generally selected by means. Generally. Of course in the human reality it is much more complicated and interesting than who's selecting whom. I mean, your post sounds like it should be read by David Attenborough. Are we talking about human women or some species of bird?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 08:16 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 07:49 PM
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My advice: "Build relationships with both men and women as friends, and always put an honest, consistent effort to look your best and most charming." Advice as taken by Red Piller: "Yeah I joined a frat and did a steroid cycle now I plow more than a farmer." Me: ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 07:48 PM
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Okay I'll give a more substantive response with the "quote response" formatting. However if a woman in the same position (age, success, marital status) send a picture of herself spread-eagle she would be PILLORIED. Which is why Jennifer Lawrence's career is in the gutter. Oh wait. Jennifer Lawrence is young. She is unmarried. She is not established over decades like Brett Favre. The pictures weren't released by Jennifer Lawrence herself. She was not cheating on her husband. I feel it's a differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 07:10 PM
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You guys sure do like to claim victimhood for men. Keep it up and battle that matriarchy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 04:18 PM
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Hmm. I always have this vision in my head of a lot of females who are involved in smuggling drugs into and around the US. Still it's mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 03:18 PM
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I feel like I'm being lectured by a misogynist Dwight Schrute! Just kidding man. Everyone wants to turn this into a victimhood thing. You guys sound a LOT like feminists who hold onto their victimhood very tightly. Oh well, however you want to fight the matriarchy is fine by me brutha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 01:42 AM
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However if a woman in the same position (age, success, marital status) Kim Kardashian and Anthony Weiner aren't in the same place in life as each other, either in age or really the status of their careers. You know who it would be more comparable to Weiner instead of Kardashian? Let's say...Whoopi Goldberg had done that. She would not have had as easy as a time as Kim Kardashian, and it's possible she would lose her position on the View. Also, the Kim Kardashian thing was kinda on purpose, ya kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/15 12:43 AM
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Heh heh, I don't imagine you'd change your view through anything I said on the internet. Good luck, and I hope you never miss out on a good time because of your race realism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 10:17 PM
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I was late to the marriage game so I was single until my mid-30s. My instincts tell me that your friends are being rejected not because of how many women they hit on, but because they're taking the wrong approach. I had friends who could hit on a LOT of girls, simultaneously. They were never shamed like how you are describing. Yeah, they were combinations of rich, handsome and charming. Yeah and one was a drug dealer (rich/kinda handsome/not charming). These jerky guys got a lot of women, it's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 10:13 PM
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Yeah but this reality that they've created here is so ugly and dark. Why would you hang out here when there are girls out there! It seems like a lot of them weren't encouraged as children to go out and talk to people. If you get a late start in figuring out how to talk to people in general and women in particular it can be DEVASTATING and it can make you resentful. I know because I was a late bloomer and was pretty resentful towards women. The moment I was able to have a healthy relationship wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 09:52 PM
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Here are the disadvantages to being a woman that I see: A woman usually has to choose between having a career and having children. You can't get as far as a man when you have to take care of a kid. Women have reputations that can be torn apart over things that would never hurt a man. Brett Favre is not considered a pariah because he sent some dick pics. However if a woman in the same position (age, success, marital status) send a picture of herself spread-eagle she would be PILLORIED. Women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 08:20 PM
3

In my experience, the men and women who have the most sex partners are people who don't give a shit about what people think. I have never noticed a correlation in the number of sexual partners a person has and how concerned a person is with the views of others. Men and women are both shamed for behaving "slutty". No they are not. Only in the fevered minds of Red Pillers. Not in the real world. I know several guys who have become pariahs in our social group because they wanted to act like sluts. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 07:17 PM
7

Why don't you just say you fucking hate women and be done with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 06:57 PM
10

Just go. Women haters will never be turned around. I've tried. Reminds me of some of my racist family members. You just can't turn them around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 06:52 PM
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Hey SandbergPrinciple I'm going to try and go through your post line by line. I've noticed that there are a LOT of people on Reddit who have the same gripes about women as you do, but perhaps some conversation can raise your appreciation of women. They have thousands of dicks thrown their way at an early age and thirsty men willing to do ANYTHING for them for even a remote chance that they'll hold their hand. I have dated women and I have a dating-age daughter, and I don't see how this is true. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 06:37 PM
0

The Men's Rights guys take the exceptions and call them rules. Are there unfair things that happen to the genders? Sure. But if you listen to the men's rights folks, the world is filled with man-raping women who falsely accuse you of rape and bitch about how you won't open the door for them. That's not the world I live in. Yes women do some shitty things, but after reading posts by the men's rights folks I would never even look at a woman let alone have sex with her. I wouldn't leave the house i…
/r/MensRights17/10/15 04:18 PM
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The discussion that takes place between the feminists and the anti-feminist-types is one that has no relation on the way that men and women interact in the real world. And people get so passionate about it. It would be like listening to a bunch of medieval scientists arguing over the finer points of how the position of the stars can cure sickness. It would just make you scratch your head and wonder "where did they get all this from?" That's what all the online bickering sounds like. It's devoid …
/r/MensRights16/10/15 09:34 PM
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This smarmy back and forth between feminists and men's right people is useless. Both of you are insufferable. I'm out.
/r/MensRights16/10/15 05:45 PM
2

Yeah that's what I'm doing. I've unsubscribed. But hell if this place helps guys with their self-esteem and lady-game then more power to ya. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:58 PM
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I honestly don't understand what this post is about. You go on what seems like a fun date, but because the gal has some religious hang ups she wasn't interested in having sex with you...on the first date. So you delete her number and bemoan the fact that you live near her. And you can't wait to show her up when you get in shape? Dude. Stop trying to manipulate women. Just talk to me them like a man would talk to a woman. Don't try all this manipulative bullshit and then run to your jackass inter…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:54 PM
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No. Men and women are naturally different and generally take a different approach to sex. For instance, women are far and away more likely then men to be the victims of sexual violence by someone of the opposite gender. It's not just that society views women and men differently, but in some pretty consistent ways men and women are different.
/r/MensRights28/03/15 05:21 AM
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It seems like your wife is very unhappy, and that might be contributing to her drinking problem. You got to remember that raising children without a lot of emotional support is very difficult for a woman, and it seems like you haven't been emotionally supportive to her. Think about what you've said to her: You said that you could be leaving within "months." Remember this gal was married young and has done nothing but take care of the house and children successfully for the last 15 years. That's …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 10:33 PM
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