| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 41 | [FR] New Year's Party | djdroid | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 12:56 PM | |
| 9 | Best way to keep myself safe from false rape accusations? | djdroid | /r/MensRights | 05/04/12 02:23 PM | |
| 6 | "I'm bored, entertain me." When a girl says this to me, what should I say back? | djdroid | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 05:50 AM | |
| 0 | "How's it going with the ladies?" - What should I say? | djdroid | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:41 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | Best job for young Men"Treating women like they have learning disabilities" That's fucking hilarious. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 04:44 PM |
| 5 | What's your go to first date?Coffee alone is a whole different game than in a group. Work your one on one game. Pick a coffee shop close to other activities that you know about, then you can be spontaneous and offer an activity halfway through the date. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl randomly doesn't respond to a text.There's a million reasons why someone might not answer a text. Everyone is different some people text often some don't, don't get stressed out over it. I say don't double text just wait till you wanna set up a date and text her about that. | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How can I learn to say what's on my mind without any hesitation?The only way to change it is to consciously observe your thoughts in situations like these. Right now you are upset with yourself because you didn't say anything to the cute girl in the elevator. That feeling of regret will always trump the initial nerves you have before talking to a girl. You will never leave a situation and say "wow I wish I didn't talk to her" but more often than not you will say "wow why didn't I say anything". | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Be FearlessIf you're bored with something, leave it alone. Go find something else to enjoy | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 07:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys learn how to dance in the club?I always felt like looking at videos on youtube and learning those moves were a little strange because attempting those moves in a nightclub scenario looks a little too forced. My personal advice? Go out with your best buddies one night, a concert would be better than a nightclub. Don't even think about girls all night, just go dance. Do whatever you want to do, whatever you feel like doing. Feel the music and just have fun with it. At some point you'll notice, "Hey I'm dancing" and having a bla… | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Matched a girl on Tinder and had a debate for over an hour. I finally unmatched her after this.I get what you mean about trying to reclaim it. You shouldn't allow some radicals to taint your movement. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/16 11:38 PM |
| 33 | Matched a girl on Tinder and had a debate for over an hour. I finally unmatched her after this.I agree with everything you said except one thing confuses me, if you are for equal rights aren't you an egalitarian? Why not use that label so you don't get confused with radicals? | /r/MensRights | 16/04/16 02:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Had a date and it was kinda boringIs it possible you simply don't enjoy her company as much as you thought you would? I went on a date with a lovely girl whom I had pursued for about 2 weeks. She was tall, dark, not objectively a 10 but she had a unique beauty to her. The date went great, we both had fun, however I didn't feel connected or a spark of interest. She slept over at my house and I didn't push anything physical because I simply didn't desire it. It's possible, in your situation, that everything you did was good, but y… | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | School starts tomorrow.Keep your head up. Mentally and physically. Scan your surroundings, look at people, smile if they look back. Be happy and approachable. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Rejection is getting into my mindsetThe fact you go into an interaction (or avoid it completely) with the mindset that she will not like you is why you're failing. You can spend every single day in your house, reading seddit posts about how to overcome the fear of rejection and how to gain self confidence, or you can go out and do it yourself. Every master mechanic, carpenter, welder, painter, musician, and singer has gone through years and years of failures and rejections. Like with any other skill that requires practice, overcom… | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Are there any forums like Seddit I can use to find wingmen?Use your other single friends. Introduce them to some ideas and theories behind seduction, have fun with it. | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Any great guides to improving day game?There's alot. I'm on mobile. Use the search bar and just search "day game guides" | /r/seduction | 02/07/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | The swiping has begunDon't have too high of hopes. Tinder represents a buyers market heavily slated towards females. You'll maybe get a match for every 25 swipes, maybe get one reply for every 3 messages sent. And MAYBE get one number for every 10 girls who reply. Don't take it too seriously. Make jokes, make fun of yourself, make fun of other people. Play it cool & casual, keep messages short. No one wants tinder penpals. If she seems interested, go for it. Say you think she's cute and you wanna get to know her bet… | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 01:13 AM |
| 2 | How to friendzone someoneYou don't tell them. You show them. I friendzone women often, because having a large circle of female friends will always give you better insight into the female mind, it will give you unlimited social proof, it will give you a sense of abundance, and women give the best fashion advice. I couldn't exactly boil the process down to a few simple steps, but really all you have to do is treat them like a guy friend. Avoid extended physical contact, you can hangout alone with them but you need to main… | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 08:08 AM |
| 1 | So what do you actually talk about?Ford Occupation Recreation Dreams FORD. Follow that easy to remember formula when thinking of topics of conversation. Ask her leading questions that will make her tell stories about herself, reveal herself to you. People love to talk about themselves. If she doesn't open up right away, ask a few more specific questions. Tell your own stories at the same time. You will get to know eachother very quickly. | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Girl is responsive but not engaging. Is this a problem?Take the lead, run the conversation in the directions you want. Set up a date, go out for coffee. If she's a shitty person you can leave quickly and easily. It's also a great way to have a nice conversation and you can gauge her interest much more easily in person. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 07:08 AM |
| 3 | A Sense of HumorThis is a fucking solid tip man, thank you. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Buying a girl's lunch?Don't open with "Hey baby want me to pay for your $10 sandwich? I'm a baller" Just be friendly, smile and say hi. Sit down, and once you've introduced yourself ask if she's waiting for someone. If she isn't, ask if she is ok with you sitting with her. It's important to be dominant and clear in your intentions, but you don't want to impose on someone who's just trying to enjoy their sandwich. Once you have chatted a bit, gauge her responses, if she seems friendly then hey why not buy her sandwich… | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Not a good day - AA hit me hard and I think I friendzoned myself with the one number I did getHey I've been lurking around this sub for like a year and the closest thing I've done to pickup was get black out drunk and make out with this one chubby chick. Granted I'm into chubby chicks, but still. Cut yourself a bit of slack and hit it again tommorow, I know it can be easy to get discouraged but persistence will get you everything. Good idea on trying a new spot, a change of scenery will help a change of mindset. Maybe instead of having a criteria of girls you will hit on, just go to an a… | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 01:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Not a good day - AA hit me hard and I think I friendzoned myself with the one number I did getHow is that not a good day? You went out and tried. Did you learn anything? If yes, then it was a completely successful day. If not, look back at the day and figure out if there's anything you can learn from it. I bet you there is at least something. Hope this can help! | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 12:43 AM |
| 3 | What's a good summer job that is conducive to pick up?I was a door to door salesman all during my final summer at highschool, it was a great job that paid well in commissions and made me give absolutely zero fucks about rejection. There were a hundred houses in a lot, what does it matter if one person isn't interested? The same applies to women. | /r/seduction | 31/05/13 07:19 AM |
| 3 | How to keep her attractedIf you're in high school and you go through with that last paragraph, you're going to have a whole lot more issues than some relationship anxiety. | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 05:24 AM |
| 87 | Never told anyone this, need to get it off my chest.Dude. That is some heavy shit. It's a HUGE step for you just to post this, you should know that it was definitely the right thing to do. Stay strong, brother. I believe in you. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/12 08:58 AM |
| 2 | I have problems having one on one conversations. Not just with girls but with anyone. Even family members, and friends. I need help Seddit.Haha, you are my opposite. One on one I'm great, but you throw me in a group of more than four people and I just can't talk at all. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 04:31 AM |
| 1 | "How's it going with the ladies?" - What should I say?Ahh, good one. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | "How's it going with the ladies?" - What should I say?Just a girl I hangout with at parties, etc. Not really friends, but a possibility of fwb. She's part of my extended social circle. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:54 AM |
| 1 | "I'm bored, entertain me." When a girl says this to me, what should I say back?Yeah of course, as sexual escalation isn't always what you're trying to achieve. Thanks for your tips! Greatly appreciated. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 09:22 PM |
| 1 | "I'm bored, entertain me." When a girl says this to me, what should I say back?I think focusing in on going out with me more instead of just going out in general would be a good idea, thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 09:07 PM |
| 1 | "I'm bored, entertain me." When a girl says this to me, what should I say back?The issue of it becoming my responsibility to entertain her is what my biggest problem was. I find it difficult to come up with an appropriate response. I like your idea of turning the mundane into something enjoyable. Like you said, shows that you are having fun no matter what and if she wants to have fun, she should hangout with you. So to put it into a process, would you say that you should do this: Her: I'm bored entertain me! Me: Well, sounds like you need some more fun in your life. I'm do… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Best way to keep myself safe from false rape accusations?HAHAHA. This one's my favourite. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/12 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Best way to keep myself safe from false rape accusations?I was actually thinking about that. But I'm wondering how efficient it would be to have my phone in my pocket, and then just put it on the bedside or something so it could record any possibility of her saying "no" | /r/MensRights | 05/04/12 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Best way to keep myself safe from false rape accusations?Yeah I could see how them being in a relationship she would just be like "oh he took advantage of me so i didn't cheat on you" I'll try and cut down on the life style. Maybe try and meet a nice girl for once. As much as I like to have sex with skanks I like not being in prison more. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/12 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Best way to keep myself safe from false rape accusations?Well, obviously the safest way to go skiing is to not ski. I always make it a point to make her be absolutely clear about what she wants. Are texts enough of a defense in court though? I mean, couldn't she just easily say "oh a friend had my phone" etc? Thanks for the reply! | /r/MensRights | 05/04/12 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Old "PUA" Just got out of a longterm relationship. Ready to get back on the "horse".Yeah I'm starting a workout regiment tommorow. I don't know shit all about carbs and protein and shit like that though. I'm just gonna drink lots of water and eat fruit and run a lot. Now that I think about it I'm gonna go search for a subreddit about fitness. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Old "PUA" Just got out of a longterm relationship. Ready to get back on the "horse".I'm in the exact same situation as you, except I didn't see it coming. She just kind of up and cheated on me hahah. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 02:48 AM |
| 2 | We are Simple Pickup AMAWhat would you say is the best way to build up confidence? Especially after a horrible break-up. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What do rings on different fingers mean? (if anything)No idea. I own a few rings simply for the peacocking value, a friend of mine owns a few of them to use a fashion statement. I wear my rings on right middle finger, and left index finger. Then again I'm not a girl. The friend of mine just puts them on at random. I've asked before and she says there's no real significance. | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 09:36 PM |
| 3 | SEDDIT PODCASTOh man there aren't enough upvotes in the world to express how much I agree with this post. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 05:24 AM |
| 2 | "Why haven't we f**ked yet?"It's funny, because that's the exact clip I was thinking about when I made the comment. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 11:29 AM |
| 19 | "Why haven't we f**ked yet?"Most people would call that rape. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 09:25 AM |
| 12 | Your introduction. 25 words or less. GoHey, I'm looking for a buddy of mine, he's about my height, except I'm way better looking. Nice to meet you all. | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 03:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New Year's Partyhttp://www.youtube.com/user/ellaskins Look at this guy's videos, they're great. Other than that, pick up some cheap equipment and go at it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 10:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] New Year's PartyI checked the glossary and couldn't find what BP meant haha. What is it? | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 10:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] New Year's PartyYeah I respect that. I just DJ to build my skills, and as a way to entertain my friends at parties and such. I remain professional, but I also explain to whoever's paying me that I spend most of the time jumping between the tables and the party itself. I've found this is helpful while interacting with the crowds to find out how they're feeling about the night. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] New Year's PartyHere are some solutions I've come up with. 1) Bring a partner. Swap out, take breaks often. Unless you're getting payed a high amount, in that case it's a professional gig and you better be behind the tables all night. 2) It just depends on your style of game, and what you're able to work with. Personally I work well with the DJ DHV. I've never had a girl say anything like this to me "I just feel like you're a player and I don't want to get hurt". Usually my game consists of alpha male exterior … | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New Year's PartySurprisingly enough it works for me pretty often. I try and look for situations like that I can take advantage of. Maybe it's not your style of game, but it's definetly worth a shot if you want to try something new. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New Year's PartyNo problem! | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] New Year's PartyI don't DJ for free, of course not! I wouldn't subject my equipment to such dangers for free. The equipment is what is expensive, what I meant was start-up costs! | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] New Year's PartyF-18's are pretty badass bar conversation. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 02:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] New Year's PartyMaybe, but I can't show up in a flight suit and live out Top Gun. I'd have to say it's one of the greatest openers I've ever used, before my last serious relationship, I was big into PUA and had a hard time finding openers. DJing is, albeit extremely expensive, a great way to meet people. It helps if you enjoy yourself, too. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 02:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] New Year's PartyThanks! Oh, that's helpful. I'll keep that in mind! | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 02:16 PM |
| 3 | [FR] New Year's PartyWhat's a DHV? (Again, no idea..) They were all extremely easy because the girls were... sub-par to say the least. I had been jumping from girl to girl, all of which were like, a 6 MAYBE. Mostly, what it seemed like, to take my mind away from my ex. But yes this was a welcome start, she was a really nice girl, and was just looking for a good time, I ended up calling her the next day and we set up a date for this weekend. It was a great way to start the new year, and an even greater way to forget … | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I am the one percent.I can turn this into a positive. While seducing a girl, of course depending on the girl, try not to come off as you're trying to have sex with her. Act like you're just trying to be their friend, then when they least expect it, BAM. Intercourse. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 06:43 AM |
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