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Lose weight is always a good idea.
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:42 PM
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Just being buff helps big time . If you actually have a nice body, bingo!
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:58 PM
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It's time to focus on you. Do things you like when you like. Like yourself more. It's not as hard as it sounds. First of all ,you should be your own best friend. Build you for a little while . Read , work out, listen to good music loud, go fishing , hike. Travel. Force you mind to stay away from negative thoughts. The thoughts that upset you. If you worked on them for a month well that's 3 weeks too long. Nothing will change if you ponder them again and doing so fills you with a feel bad chemica…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:07 AM
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It’s best to start early. Do something nice in the am for her. Then be helpful and complimentary later on. And when you feel like it slide in and give her a big hug. Look her in the eye and tell her how much you like her. Now the stage is set. Later on make your move.
/r/seduction31/10/20 12:12 AM
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I’ve always been attracted to the hot chick, the party girl. Looking back I should have focused more people who are good negotiators. Easy going, get along types. I’ve had two divorces and both were devastating financially . Not getting divorced should be a number 1 priority . This means finding a person you can work things out with. You need a person that you can live with when all seems to go to shit. The hot chick may not have those qualities .
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:09 PM
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My problem is that I have been in 3 LT relationships that all went bad. Now I have a poor attitude about relationships so while I'd like to have sex I'm not interested in the BS that goes along with it. I feel like I may have hit my lifetime limit of relationship BS and now I have no stomach for it. So yes it's on me to change something if I care enough or deal with being alone.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:17 PM
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Very fit 5"10" 202lbs muscular. Hike, rock climb, ice climb. Climb or hike every weekend. Gym 3 times a week. I don't drink. 80oz water per day. weakness for sweets.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:13 PM
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Very grim. I matched up with the wrong woman 6 years ago and now I’ve been single for 2 years. My plan 6 years ago was ltr till death do us part but that didn’t happen. Now The average woman my age is very overweight. This has been a huge problem for me because I’m not attracted to overweight people.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:02 PM
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not a LTR just a plate?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:21 PM
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Sounds like someone was expecting to be treated special.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:18 PM
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I'm 60 and divorced. My kids moved out and I live alone. Being 60 and alone does truly suck.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:15 PM
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Listen to the song and you will have your answer
/r/askTRP18/07/20 10:35 AM
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Ballroom dancing 2-1 women and not even the 10’s will refuse to dance with you. No matter your looks all the women will ask you to dance if you are good at it.
/r/seduction29/05/20 05:43 PM
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Read between the lines. She is saying your so nice I've decided to break up with you. Hint stop being so nice.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:43 PM
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Would you bring me my shoes? Answer. Would you bring me a beer?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 09:02 AM
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I like this people somehow assume we ended up with our former relationship with women daughters and wives because men are assholes. Maybe the reality is that over the last 50,000 years we tried many arrangements and the model from 50-100 years ago worked best over the long run so it became enshrined in our culture.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 05:17 PM
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Taking action to address the issues that confronts you is red pill. I had a therapist that had an abusive parent. She really knew how to do the work. That said most therapist just want to string you along and get paid forever.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:58 PM
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I think you need to find a way to stand you ground with men. It may not be your forte but you have to give it back to the guys who disrespect you. Some times you can get away with a standard response like “easy there spanky#. Or “cool it speedy”. I like these phrases because all you need to do is say them with attitude and people get your message even though the phrase itself doesn’t make much sense. It’s about presence and delivery. Make eye contact deliver the line with confidence and see what…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:51 PM
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Just tell her to cut the shit. Instead she will dump you and you’ll be better off for it.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:56 PM
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When they do it to girls it’s called mutilation
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 05:17 PM
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I didn’t have my sons cut now 23 and 25 and they don’t seem to be totally cool with being different .
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 05:13 PM
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There are some shitty jobs that will literally hire anyone who can arrive on time and follow instructions. Get that job right away. A day labor shop can help you locate that job.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:34 AM
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I love the time management point. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:29 PM
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The main points I see I all this is one everyone in this story is a pos And if husband had been a red pill guy this never would have happened
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:13 PM
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Good write up thanks. I kept thinking as I read you words that you world is different now because you now have a workable framework THP that helps you make good choices. Before TRP I had only the BS that society fed me to make decisions from. This always lead to disaster or life as a beta
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:08 PM
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When it comes to feminism arguments or discussions on social media women go directly immediately to ad hominem attacks
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 09:00 PM
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It’s a proven fact that people tend to over estimate their abilities, this is no different.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:53 PM
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Does the NYT have a man cover women’s issues?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:16 PM
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The women will teach us how to stop acting like men 100,000 years of human evolution and that dolt thinks he knows better. I’m Insulted ! What would happen if I wrote a paper and said it’s time for blacks to stop being like this or gays stop being like that?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 08:13 PM
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Just move on
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:42 PM
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Dude have some self respect !
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:52 PM
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So much. Interest. Emotional state, how you are considered. You can see fear lust anger lies
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:38 AM
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I see now that I bent the knee too many times. I didn’t understand. It wasn’t because I was weak. I was ignorant. Right now I have a bad FU attitude for women and their ways. I feel burned. TRP is helping me recalibrate. I find it a very workable template to use to Move forward.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:09 PM
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You might be right but it’s so powerful a tool for me that I have to recommend it.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:31 PM
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Consider every bump in the road you take with a woman a shit test .
/r/askTRP10/07/18 09:37 AM
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Work on eye contact. Make solid 2-3 second eye contact where you really look into her eyes. You can learn a lot from a woman that way.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 09:33 AM
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Just keep in mind when your dealing with a woman that she is measuring you very carefully
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:31 AM
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Don’t worry about that at all. 99% have fucked someone else
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:09 PM
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Read the news every day
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:52 AM
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She just explaining that she not a whore so you have nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:11 AM
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Now that my eyes are open I’ve become very angry. I grew up feeling guilty for my maleness. I kept objecting to what women were saying about men but until I found the red pill and other resources I lacked the information to properly understand what was happening. I didn’t like it on a gut level but Now I hate it on an intellectual one.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:54 PM
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I’m love? Snap out of it. Fuck her like you’re trying to break her and see how you feel then.
/r/seduction02/07/18 10:04 PM
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Fuck her you ex will always fuck with your head. They will treat you like a toy and play with you when they feel like it. Fuck that!
/r/seduction02/07/18 10:03 PM
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Start with the most important contact first, eye contact. This is a form of touching and it tells you volumes about what is or isn’t going on. How to make eye contact? Your right eyes looks directly in her left eye your left eye looks directly into her right eye and look inside then feel her and ask what is her vibe ? Any longer than that is too long. No more than a 2 count
/r/seduction02/07/18 10:00 PM
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You I can talk to him if you want. Implying that you’ll square him away. If she says ok tell her you took care of it but in reality don’t hassle him it’s not your place.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:55 PM
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Humor?
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:53 PM
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When I took up rock climbing fear wanted to be a 10 in my head on a scale 1-10. Being filled with fear makes your climbing suck. I realized my logic needed to be a 10 and my fears should be a 2 if I wanted to climb well. Climbing well kept me as safe as I could be. I just told my brain that’s how it has to be and my brain did what it was told.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:50 PM
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No in your mind. I know it sounds crazy but it really works. You get really great reads off women’s eyes if you simply look deeply and wonder.
/r/seduction02/07/18 03:01 PM
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When you make eye contact look deeply into a woman’s eyes and ask what do you want to tell me!
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:54 AM
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First rule of fighting is to manage your distance
/r/askTRP01/07/18 01:51 AM
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Anything from pro soccer player to captain America . Just be thin and muscled. You don’t need to be all pumped up.
/r/seduction29/06/18 04:40 PM
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Just slightly less than she texts you
/r/seduction29/06/18 04:37 PM
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Worked out 8 times this week m-f mornings at my reg gym and 3 after work outings rock climbing with friends. Most proud of hard work at gym in am. Good level of intensity. I box heavy bag and to stair machine alternating each day. I do core everyday. I read red pill daily and I started reading no more mr nice guy. Received the game in the mail on Tuesday . I spent time each day considering my blue pill past and thinking about how I would change things up. It’s helped me drop my anger at past gf …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:49 PM
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My sons are still young enough that I’ll have time to share red pill wisdom now that I’ve had my eyes opened
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:09 PM
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When I go to the gym I ask, is anyone working out harder than me? If there is then I work harder. Day after day I’m the hardest working guy there. This week I’ve gone every morning and worked out twice at night with rock climbing at a local crag. I’m tired as shit but my ego is in the stratosphere . I can feel My muscle ripple as I walk down the hall and when I shower I’m surprised at how much my body is changing. I’m an old gym rat. At 58 this is the 3rd or 4th get back to the gym cycle I’ve go…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 01:24 PM
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Yes I do pull-ups and I hit the heavy bag too but that’s not why I’m there. I’m there to change my body. If people would keep change in mind they wouldn’t fuck around so much.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:57 PM
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So true I totally agree. I sweat I’m out of breath I’m sore I hurt. Everyone else is there chatting. I hate the fucking skinny dope that always wants to talk my ear off. I’m not there to do curls or pull-ups. I’m there to force my body to change.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:37 PM
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My gym has a heavy punching bag. I use it 3 times a week. 4 or 5 5 min rounds . I sweat my balls off and can barely breath. It’s super aerobic. I’m getting pretty good. I’m getting the boxer body. It’s a good look. I’ve been doing it for 6 months. It’s a great part of my workout and it’s good for my ego and attitude. I think about things that piss me off and punch them away. I’m not a fighter but I’m sure I could land a sharp pop on some assholes jaw with either hand if he gave me no choice.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 04:17 PM
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For shit test one: When a woman says something to me that catches me off guard I always look her right in the eye for more than a blink to get a quick read.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 12:39 PM
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I’ll consider your thoughts on the subject thanks
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 10:54 PM
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Because women have repeatedly told me exactly that! Need proof look at Hollywood look at TV. Look at all of the famous beautiful men who can fuck any women. How many Of them a muscle bound power lifters? Men like big muscles. I like having big muscles. I do it for me. I know that being with a huge bulky man isn’t on most women’s to-do list.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 06:28 PM
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Also a thought about women and weightlifting bodies. IMO women like fit men but not muscle bound gym trolls. So once you get mass consider working on shape rather than adding more size. All you really need to be is well muscled just slightly better than average. Once you are there focus on building a beautiful body. For women all you need is biceps that pop a small but well defined chest and a six pack. Monster shoulders a huge back and traps that touch your ears are too much for most women.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 02:35 PM
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I’ve been training with the heavy punching bag for about 6 months now. I’m very happy with the way it’s helping to shape my body. There is also an added benefit you get to punch the shit out of your frustrations ! My workout is heavy bag 3x a week my goal there is 5 5 min rounds. With 3 core exercises added as a circuit . During my rest. Then on 2 days I do 30 min on stair machine with dumbbells and core exercises as a circuit afterwards. I try to do core everyday. I usually do curls military pr…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 02:28 PM
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Began the process of owning my blue pill habits. Began the process of unlearning faulty facts and logic about women. Bought no more Mr nice guy and the game. Began reading suggested web sites to understand basic terms and ideas such as plates.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:36 PM
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I want to offer an idea from internet marketing for the sole proprietor. If you’re trying to sell something that can’t be purchased on impulse like consulting or engineering then you spend a great deal of time and nothing ever seems to work. In these situations it’s best when tracking results to consider everything a victory. I think this idea is well suited to TRP. Example. Young smoke says hi to you. Victory! Young smoke makes eye contact across the room. Victory ! You speak to the smoke show …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:33 PM
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I can appreciate your sentiment. I too feel happy that I now have a framework to use when I look back over my life and consider changes I’ll make going forward.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 03:58 PM
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A chance for them to confirm the social construct that men must aid and support women. When did we become so obliged ?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 05:40 PM
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Noob here. Looking for core reading. Any suggestions? Currently reading no more mr nice guy. Ordered the game. What else should I read?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:52 AM
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Step one get rid of make influence by tossing around the phrase “ Toxic masculinity “. Liberally
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 05:58 PM
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Just because she was a whore with other men doesn't mean she can't be good for you. Maybe she just needs the firm hand of a confident alpha type to square her away. I say if you enjoy then continue to enjoy. However my way or the highway has to be the rule of the day. If she is teachable, coachable trainable a small investment may be acceptable. This is a great starting point. Perhaps its a foundation. " Submissive, beautiful, pleasing, affectionate and worships the ground that I walk on. " I'm …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 08:47 PM
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I have complained for decades that tv humiliates fathers and men in general. Just look at the average sit com. The father is always a boob or an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:10 PM
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I think this is true. I believe that women have been brainwashed to believe they can “ have it all”. Career, family, adoring and supportive spouse all while being happy and easy going. A farce and a fairytale that every woman wants.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:09 PM
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There is much a man can offer a woman. His dignity isn’t one. This may be your problem. You need to focus on your self respect and dignity. If these were strong enough in you you would not have fucked it so bad.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 02:08 AM
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Started off great but.....ended much less so
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:15 PM
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You have to include dancing on the list. The ratio is way in a mans favor. If you take ballroom dance lesson and become ok at it you will dance with beautiful women all night. I'd guess all types of social dance is the same. Contra, country. You may even like it or excel at it.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 10:40 AM
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Key thought to keep in mind at the gym. You are not there to work out. You are there to change your body into something attractive. Sometimes this is fairly dramatic change. This is hard work. It should hurt a little. You should feel sore in between workouts. If your muscle mass isn’t changing you aren’t doing enough or you are doing it wrong. Keep learning and adjusting and working harder until change begins to happen. Some women will flat out tell you “ I love a man with big shoulders”. You lo…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 04:53 PM
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The things you described about the woman don’t make her a slut. Not even close. She is a woman with a strong and interesting sexual appetite . She wasn’t the only one there fucking You were there too. Maybe you are a slut. Be happy you got laid and fuck again soon if she lets you. Wrap it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 07:06 PM
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People like things that are exclusive and hard to get or rare.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 07:18 PM
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