djl1qu1d Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	How do I deal with the guilt of leaving my wife who is vulnerable because of a single mistake. Ok a similar thing happened to me. During Covid My now ex wife started playing Final Fantasy or something and ended up telling this guy too much stuff. Like where I worked. The cars I have. How much money we made. The whole thing. I questioned her about it several times. Long story short she ended up wanting to separate and ultimately divorce so I took the initiative and just had it drafted up for her to sign. She moved across country to live with him and his mom. My income increased dramaticall…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/24 12:47 AM
12	How much money did you lose during the process of divorce? I guess I kind of lucked out. Here in California. My ex has fallen for some guy she met on a video game without a job and no education. We had 2 homes. A friend had recommended a paralegal who helps draft up marriage settlement agreement. I ended up giving her an Audi SQ5 and about $100k in cash. After all was said and done we briefly attempted to reconcile but it didn’t work at all. I still own 2 homes worth over $1M each with about $700k loans combined and got a new job with about a quarter in…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/24 04:25 AM
2	Drugs? Report your CC lost/ stolen.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/22 07:50 AM
1	Anyone else in the early stages of divorce/separation and telling friends and family? that's a tough one. I mean don't worry so much about her but talk to your friends and family for YOUR support system.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/22 04:53 PM
3	Anyone else in the early stages of divorce/separation and telling friends and family? For me (M) it was opposite. My wife didn’t talk or consult with really anyone. She should have.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/22 02:45 PM
1	Asking for car payment instead child support You can probably look it up if you know the county she filed. You def should have been served by now though. There is a discovery disclosure you both have to fill out. You can always file as well. That will kind of identify a date as a line in the sand for you and then you can do the assets part later. In CA is takes about 6 months from filiing so you have time to get your ducks in a row and file those with the court.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/22 04:50 AM
1	If you don’t have access to assets What are the things that can reduce or eliminate alimony? yes, it's part of the "discovery" which happens to be the most expensive part. My wife and I were pretty upfront about everything.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/22 03:07 AM
5	Saw wife parked outside my workplace, why? do you still share real-time location with her (if you ever did). Or maybe she put a tracker (AirTag, Tile, etc) on your car. Which of you initiated the divo? Maybe she's trying to find the side chick (that may or may not exist)	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/22 09:22 PM