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2	Financial power imbalance in marriage I'm not sure what this has to do with red pill but ... Sounds like a bit of a switch from the usual man to woman dynamic when it comes to money. 2 sides of the coin, married now so combine all assets or be more careful because this day n age ... And have separate accounts etc ... It's your money right? My wife makes comments all the time about money in a negative way towards me, and she makes more and spends much more :) Again regretfully there's going to be potentially awkward feelings either w…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/10/18 08:48 AM
1	Calibrating dread vs. comfort for anxious wife I really like this comment. Imo this would be the ideal way to be, I suppose the problem is when a woman doesn't show up or rejects in the first place or other things I am not yet aware about.	/r/askMRP	06/10/18 08:38 AM
3	GET OUT NOW or STAY? Pill taken! Lots of good advice here. To be honest I've been on both sides here. I remember moving in with this older woman and probably felt the same way as she does scared shitless and felt like I made the wrong mistake... Anyways ... I know it's hard to do but listen to these guys. I dated this one chick before my wife where I was like you 'begging' to have her back. Didn't help worth jack. As some guys mentioned she may come back but how do you know she won't pull this again and as people said your fina…	/r/askMRP	02/10/18 10:58 PM
1	I still get so confused in frame Even thou this seemed like a rudimentary question, I enjoyed everyones responses and thought process on the matter. Something I myself am working on.	/r/askMRP	02/10/18 04:28 PM
5	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 02, 2018 Im not sure if this is what you intended but I mainly just read a history about yourself. How about you tell us or yourself what you are going to do. How are you going to OYS; meaning you have this what are you going to do about it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/10/18 10:49 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 02, 2018 Im not going to give you a typical rp response ... Seems like you are all over the place: perhaps your emotions, stress, being busy etc ... Im fairly new to the rp; but not new to life. Im starting to think that yes the rp principals have some good merit but they should just be used to guide not to enslave (if you know what I mean). The 2 main issues you mentioned were the male friend she met with that you feel uncomfortable with and your lack of sex. There obviously is a problem for you with th…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/10/18 10:43 AM
2	LTR makes comments about me being unmanly? My wife does the same thing but it's for different stuff, in the past I usually tried to defend myself DEER, don't remember what it means, but with my wife it never helped even if she is totally wrong. Recently I've been working on just stfu and keeping my frame.	/r/askMRP	01/10/18 06:00 PM
1	I just don't know Replying because this post is what I need to hear	/r/askMRP	27/09/18 02:05 PM
9	Need serious advice about a plate While I don't envy the OPs predicament, ty for bringing this up. Moral of the story don't spin a plate if you can't handle what may occur. As other people said you have to own it.	/r/askMRP	24/09/18 06:29 PM
1	How to do this without being a total piece of shit ? Slightly off topic. But this forum is 'married red pill' right? I see more and more posts from LTRs etc ... Perhaps its good to have people post when in a ltr also but IMO being married is a different ballgame for both parties involved. Situations tend to be more engrained, hardet to extritite self if needed, can be harder to change because when you do you get more shit tests then when not married. Anyways ...	/r/askMRP	24/09/18 09:15 AM
2	Difficulty accepting my new reality. Which reality are you having trouble accepting? The one where you feel you love her more then she does? The one that you have put just as much effort or more taking care of the family or more then she has? The one that you feel you don't get the respect you deserve for looking after the home and children while many women live under that same dynamic, guy works and woman doesn't? Or the reality the part of you whom you feel helped cause all of this? ... Helped cause her to resent you, not be lovi…	/r/askMRP	22/09/18 09:27 AM
1	Difficulty accepting my new reality. I liked the above post here from RPC. Great info.	/r/askMRP	22/09/18 08:50 AM
2	Dread and Attraction issues. You were her white knight the nice guy the one whom loved but wasn't loved back like you felt you deserved. So you realised at some point being the white knight wasn't the way to go, and started looking after your needs. Perhaps it's the fact that you feel more desirable now or then again this women didn't love you for whom you were back then but loves you now ... So perhaps you are acquiring the same judgements that you feel she or women in general do. Ie how do desirable women act and look and…	/r/askMRP	20/09/18 08:13 PM
4	A little stumped I'm not going to comment from the rp perspective ... But from experience. 2 kids 1 is very young... As someone else said - give her a break date nite so she can feel like a woman and not just a mom.	/r/askMRP	20/09/18 07:35 PM
1	Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause. No sex in 4 years? By 10 days for me I start going mental ... the time between sessions for me is slowly increasing and me complaining and pleading has done no good - some how I found myself on these forums and am going to stop being all depressed about it and do something about it. But seriously 4 years ... In the past I dated this hypochondriac (for a long time) - so got an idea where you are coming from. I'm really not sure how you made if for 4 years. But I think you are doing the right thin…	/r/askMRP	19/09/18 09:22 AM
1	Wife wants to do couples counseling. Its weird but you remind me of my wife in some ways ... Her mom was pretty abusive to her also so maybe this is why she acts this way ... but to be honest from her partners perspective - its getting old. As far as couples counseling; you dont want to do it and why? Is it because you dont feel you need to change or improve or only the way you want too? That may be the case but then again she might get sick of it and leave. Dont get all bent out of shape about couples counseling ... it might even …	/r/askMRP	19/09/18 08:35 AM
1	Fiance said she is over it, what to do? Geez lots of harsh judgements here. Lots of people calling you a drunk etc ... I don't know your situation but only saw you talk about 2 incidents. I'll give you a different take... No it's not over. But obviously a problem for her. You don't have to just move out and work on you and hope she will like you better. Obviously talk to her first and see about making it work. If your not getting drunk is that important to her and she is important to you start from there. And do something about that. …	/r/askMRP	18/09/18 07:45 PM
1	Field Report: Beginner Moves - this works! First off new to this forum... I'm not really sure how I feel about most of these responses, not that I'm not familiar with them (was involved in the PU game before I met my wife), but I tended to focus on me rather then play games to get what I want... But then again I wouldn't be here if everything was hunky dory back at home. I feel I know exactly where Blazen is coming from with the hug stuff and texting etc... And that fact that some women are really into their power struggles. I don't want…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/09/18 06:36 PM