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| 18 | Does being in your late 20s or early 30s really limit your dating prospects as a guy?As someone in my 30’s why would I want to date someone in their early 20’s? They don’t have life experience and the chances of us being able to share pop culture references are slim. If you’re in your 30’s and wasting time like this you don’t have your shit together. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:12 AM |
| 3 | having a sex doll instead of dating?Like those real doll kind of things or what? Be mindful if you do meet a real woman later on the vast majority are going to look down on this very heavily so you’d likely need to keep it a secret which adds further issues to trust in relationships. Could you just get like a higher end sucking fleshlight type sex toy? Also no matter how “adult” they are, those miniature / compact sized sex dolls can be considered illegal in a lot of countries based purely off their dimensions and what else that c… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are the single mums more receptive?How do you do that for 6 months? I dated an ex jehova for like 6 weeks who wouldn’t use condoms but popped plan b like candy and all the hormones honesty sent her on a bit of a mental break. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | "My neighbors hate me"Honestly why over think this? I’d rather be with someone who’s loud than someone who’s spend way too much energy being considerate and quiet for neighbours or flatmates to the point they’re quiet as a mouse and give no feedback. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No reason to bring it up at all, also you might be mistaken and it might not be the girl you’re thinking of, you could be shooting yourself in the foot for nothing. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 08:08 AM |
| 2 | What Kind of Starting Message Will attract girls to reply in DM in insta if a girl is strangerShit I had less than 1k, but posted fire memes. Lots of engagement. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You want to be alone and approached in a bar? You’d best be quite attractive and capable of talking to anyone. Pick a bar where you can chat with the bar tenders between them being busy, because sitting totally alone and not chatting to everyone while you either people watch or stare at your phone isn’t appealing. The other option is to go to a busy bar where you might mingle or chat while lining up for drinks or around the dance floor. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to stranger girl which Recently followed in InstagramPost interesting content in your stories that might generate reactions and replies. Otherwise react to her stories with interest occasionally, mind you, if she can’t see that something about you is interesting, she will most likely not accept the messages and reply. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | MY VISiON ( Daygame vs Nightgame)Drunk chicks can combo not 100% remembering what they did and being embarrassed, and presuming a successfully flirty attractive guy in a bar is a fuckboy. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:23 AM |
| 121 | 21 to 17 age gap for a hookup???Be wary if she lied about her age once, she could still be lying and actually be even younger. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:27 AM |
| 10 | If you’re on an ‘unofficial’ date and another girl comes up to you asking for your number, what would/should you do?Approaching someone who’s on a date to give them your number oozes lack of respect and entitlement issues. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:43 AM |
| 9 | If you’re on an ‘unofficial’ date and another girl comes up to you asking for your number, what would/should you do?So you want to date a girl who doesn’t respect you or your date, and clearly has issues of wanting what she can’t have and proving she can get it? Don’t see it ending well for you. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction?That’s the toxic crap I was talking about. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 144 | Options for social life after collegeIf you want to make friends with party people befriending the type who take the party back to someone’s place after the bar close will help, but be warned it might have more women in that scene but it can be a bad lifestyle for your overall health and productivity. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 04:18 AM |
| 14 | Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction?Like women never get emotional and sad about silly things? Screw that toxic masculinity crap. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidAre you being fake? Or are you sick of not being able to give and receive your whole self with another person? The shallowness of early dating where you try to not be tooooo emotionally full on? | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | DaygameRemember not everyone wants to be approached. Interrupting the headphone eyes down avoiding men girl is instant creepiness. Some people out there are doing everything they can to avoid people interrupting their space and that should be respected. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 02:17 AM |
| 2 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?Pushover nice guys aren’t kind and genuine. They’re fake because they’re bending over backwards to please her and be what they think she wants. Most women have enough experience with this to know, run! This guy could change at the drop of a hat. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:23 AM |
| 1 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?Playful banter = seduction Negging = emotional abuse Learn the difference Reddit. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Leave girls on readThis conversation is boring. I don’t think you’re the conversationally rich individual you presume you are honestly. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Leave girls on readI was replying to the men just say hi repeatedly and expect romance, and pointing out everyone does that when they’re in the opener situation. Not just men. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Leave girls on readI met my partner in real life. Online dating is trash, everyone is fatigued, overwhelmed and have short attention spans. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Leave girls on readI mean women on bumble also just say hi and expect conversation, or mix it up by using the canned bumble eye rolling convo starter suggestions over and over. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Leave girls on readHonestly when I was single I disabled read receipts. Way too much drama or girls deleting / blocking because you have to work and not reply instantly. Yea you could say it filtered out the rubbish, but I just couldn’t be bothered dealing with it at all. Disabled read receipts and never turned them back on, nobody needs that much access to me, I’ll reply when I’m ready without being judged for it. It’s amazing how not replying for 8 hours can built intrigue, UNLESS she can see you read it and hav… | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls never check me out..?What about bars / beer gardens? Women in the street are usually eyes down so they don’t get harassed while going about their day. A couple of drinks though and their eyes wander to what they like. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.Personally though I don’t like hooking up with drunk people when sober, just feels, wrong. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 09:08 PM |
| 4 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.Talk to guys, girls, groups, just be that friendly person at the bar. Once people like you, you always have people to go back to. Approaching a girl on your own before you talk to anyone else isn't the best idea, then you get to answer the "where are your friends" question. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:39 PM |
| 4 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.Just be careful you dont pregame toooooo hard, or the only place you can try is a club dance floor because you're just too sloppy. Sweet point of tipsy and confident before sloppy, then one drink an hour or water the rest of the night. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:38 PM |
| 6 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.I find friends cockblocks, and wingmen with game creep out the kind of girl I'm interested in. I prefer going solo to clubs and bars. Have done so enough now that I have met and know enough people. I always run into people and have someone to talk to / hang out with and bounce between, but solo? That's where it's at. No commitments to other people or groups, go where the night takes you. If you're a confident charismatic person who doesn't come across as a creep, it's not a problem. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Got a cute girl’s number, but I’m hesitant to text her after learning more about her life on social media [x-posted to r/dating_advice]Fuck I miss passion, I had so much passion for my degree I could have led people off a cliff - my job / career though? Absolutely zero. I mean I know I’m awesome, but fuck it’s hard to be inspiring when you couldn’t give less fucks about your job. | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 12:24 PM |
| 12 | This is going to sound kind of messed up, but if you want to have more "positive female attention" you'll do very well fitting an archetype/stereotype than being totally unique.In design school, they teach you the rules. Then they teach you the rules only apply to those who can’t break them so well that nobody even remembers the original criteria. So if you can’t live a unique life so well that everyone stares at you in awe, or deal with the learning pains in the meantime, stick to the rules. | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | My dating experience as a short guyThe only downside to this is baggy clothes on short guys are awful! haha. Half my shirts don't fit anymore because they're too slim fit :( | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:48 AM |
| 0 | My dating experience as a short guyI don't actually want girls who I'm not their type. Zero interest lol. Reality is I can bang a different girl every night of the week, and I find it the most boring experience ever, I want more than that, and that requires more of a package both ways. I've stopped putting out on dates honestly, because I'm exhausted and bored by the whole dating and one night stand experience. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 05:47 AM |
| 1 | My dating experience as a short guyThat girl would be taller than you in heels! Matters to some. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | My dating experience as a short guyGym gym gym. I carried a girl my height 3-4 city blocks in my arms last Saturday. I could have carried her much further. The taller they are the more a bear hug is an arse grab hahaha. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 02:03 AM |
| 2 | My dating experience as a short guyI have literally had girls ask me my height for a hookup on tinder and then blow me off as too short. I'm 5'8". Personally though? I don't even show interest in girls taller than me out and about. The chances are higher that they're not interested in me, so I just move on. I'm not going to obsess over them. Where it does become an issue is girls who don't want a guy shorter than them in stupid giant heels. Like seriously, you're short. Get over yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | When talking to a girl use "how" questions to keep the conversation goingI actually just did this 10 mins ago and then came across this post. I don't think I've ever done it before either. Might have to remember for the future! | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | REJECTION THERAPY. It fucking works. 5 years of approach anxiety and rejection therapy is the only thing that has made a difference.I think my problem isn't the initial rejection, I actually do well and don't have much of a problem getting numbers. The no reply next day rejection, or ghosting after meeting rejection is what I fear. I like people, and have trouble with them being arseholes and not knowing why. | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 11:13 AM |
| 1 | The key is to stop caring what people think of you, especially what beautiful women think of you.A fear of rejection usually comes from a pattern of rejection. Myself? I'm attractive enough to get a date with attractive women easily enough, but obviously something I do on that date doesn't through as confident enough to be considered the "spark" so I don't get that second chance. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?I guess my main difference is in sales I can rely on being an expert and knowing a lot about related products to build my story and draw my expertise. I also don't have to flirt or become "real" friends with these people, I can be absolutely and totally fake. Not in a sleazy way, definitely the customer satisfaction type sales person, but it's still fake. I'm a bit of an all or nothing person. Either I'm caring, or I couldn't care less. Either warm and keen on real connection, or totally indiffe… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Ah that's the difference. I missed the young attractive opportunities as a mature age (late 20's) university student going through a divorce. Now I've landed myself a great sales job, but being in sales everyone is about 20 years older than me, and mostly old men. The opportunity for natural improvement through general success just isn't there for me. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys who openly target one-nighters from Tinder, what does that text game look like?Be attractive gets matches, but that's about it. I wasn't that attractive and a bit overweight before a LTR and manage to find myself fit, good looking and single. All it has got me is 10x more matches than my less attractive friends, and finding myself in a class of people who's games I have no idea how to play. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Two things that helped me be attractive to women. Examples included.I do extremely well without glasses, with glasses I tend to attract hyperactive slightly nerdy / bipolar girls. After they know me, the glasses are cute, but for attraction? Ditch them. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 05:35 AM |
| 0 | Two things that helped me be attractive to women. Examples included.I find the monthlys better because they breathe, but worse because they're thicker. Daily's are more comfortable due to feeling invisible, but after a long day my eyes are fatigued because they don't breathe. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Two things that helped me be attractive to women. Examples included.Glasses destroy eye contact. I know I have awesome eye contact game with contacts in, but wearing glasses? None, nothing, zero. I can't wear contacts all the time, it just irritates my eyes if I wear them all day every day, and lazik costs a small fortune with too much potential time off work. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 04:10 AM |
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