dleeinva Archive

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26	How to play it after sleeping with a girl for the first time. Make a time to get together! Pick a date ask her if she’s available and get together. Don’t drag out the awkward text back-and-forth for no reason. There’s nothing worse than trying to have a text conversation when there’s really nothing to talk about. So if you want to see her, tell her “I’d really like to see you again Saturday night. Are you available?“ Either she is, or she isn’t. Either she says yes, or she says no. And if she’s not available then maybe she’ll make a suggestion as to when s…	/r/seduction	31/08/21 12:41 PM
2	What the hell is "the scrambler"? Total bullshit, don’t waste your time or your money. Basic communication is all you need. Classic marketing technique to make you think it’s something it isn’t. There’s nothing that every woman will respond to anyway. It’s not the word you use, it’s the whole package. How are you delivered them, your level of confidence, the contacts they delivered in, what mood she’s in, and all the hucksters know it baffles people so they’re taking advantage of you.	/r/seduction	29/08/21 08:15 PM
11	I'm supposed to meet her tonight, no news from her, should i double text? Maybe text “just confirming we’re on for tonight. What time should I expect you?“ Doesn’t come off as pushy or desperate, but asks the question clearly and directly. Just my suggestion	/r/seduction	24/08/21 03:08 PM
1	is he into me? (advice pls!) Wow that sounds really frustrating. It’s so hard to guess if somebody likes you or not when you don’t know what they’re thinking. Especially when their behavior isn’t obvious. Unfortunately you’re not psychic, so there’s no way for you to know. So it’s totally normal and natural for you to be confused. Just saying. I don’t know if he’s interested or not, but now that you’ve met him and talk to him and he has at least responded to you in someway you have an opening. You could try texting him or c…	/r/seduction	23/08/21 02:06 AM
44	I hate how much my confidence fluctuates. Some days I’ll wake up feeling handsome. Other days I’ll wake up feeling like Gollum thinking I’m being delusional about it all. Just means you’re human dude. Everyone has those same fluctuations, whether they admit it or not. Hang in there. It’s normal.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 02:36 PM
6	I just approached a woman in a bar for the first time in my life (unsuccessfully) and I'm close to crying at how proud I am with myself Kudos!	/r/seduction	06/08/21 10:58 PM
52	I just approached a woman in a bar for the first time in my life (unsuccessfully) and I'm close to crying at how proud I am with myself Way to go! Good job. Now go do it again. Eventually it will even become fun (hopefully). Learn to have fun with the approach and don’t focus on the outcome… it can help. Keep it up!	/r/seduction	06/08/21 10:49 PM
4	[deleted by user] No she won’t. Find the other girl and pay attention to HER! Would be totally shorty to use one girl to get at another too. Don’t be that asshole. Girls hate that guy. They may not act like it sometimes but they do. Let. Her. Go. Just work on that. Feel how you feel. It’s okay that it sucks.	/r/seduction	03/08/21 11:40 AM
9	[deleted by user] Don’t try to force a fit where one doesn’t exist. If a woman doesn’t find you appealing or attractive then she just doesn’t. You can’t change what she likes. It’s not something you did wrong. It’s not something to try and “fix”. There isn’t anything bad or wrong about it, or you, or her. It’s just not a fit. No matter how attracted you are to her she’s not feeling it. Let it go and move on. There are other women. If she’s into it you’ll know. If not then save yourself the anxiety of analyzing wh…	/r/seduction	03/08/21 11:09 AM
2	19F, how the fuck do i make a first move? That makes sense. It’s your brain doing what it’s supposed to in a stressful situation. The first thing to do is take some deep breathes. Seriously will help switch off fight/flight response. Also laughing can help believe it or not. Releases the stress. Also, don’t wait too long to just say “hi”. Try introducing yourself and then going to get a drink or something shortly after to give yourself some space. Might be some other things but would probably need to know more about types of situations.	/r/seduction	03/08/21 02:27 AM
6	19F, how the fuck do i make a first move? First off, this is completely normal. Making the first move can be intimidating because of what you’re anticipating will (or won’t) happen after you say “hi”. The key is to be in the moment and learn to be okay with whatever happens. Then you stop worrying about how you come across to the other person, and start doing things just because you want to. It’s about anxiety management many times. Happy to DM about it if you’d like. Just reach out. Older guy who’s been around the block and back, so th…	/r/seduction	02/08/21 03:27 PM
8	"Whatever time you choose is the right time. Not late, not early." Marcus Aurelius Well said!	/r/seduction	31/07/21 04:53 PM
4	"Dont be friends with girls" From the ladies mouth guys… fun is fun. But never make the mistake that girls are stupid!	/r/seduction	30/07/21 07:28 PM
1	"Dont be friends with girls" I talk to them about whatever the fuck they want to talk about dip shit. Sometimes it’s about how much they love to suck dick. Sometimes it’s about politics. Sometimes we don’t talk at all because I’m too busy eating them out. Your limited ability to think or conceive of anything beyond a gender insult doesn’t limit my ability to satisfy my girl friends. 🙄 I don’t even know why you read this post. It’s wasted on your infantile brain.	/r/seduction	30/07/21 04:25 PM
49	"Dont be friends with girls" You make a good point. That old “advice” is lame at best. Girls are people. Be friends with some. Have sex with some. Sometimes that overlaps. Many times it doesn’t. Guys need to stop being Neanderthal dick heads and they’d get laid a lot more. Grow a pair and just be yourself dudes. My 2 cents.	/r/seduction	30/07/21 11:49 AM
67	Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away! Great advice. Faking confidence just doesn’t work… not really. Eventually the mask slips.	/r/seduction	26/07/21 10:08 PM
32	Girl from tinder wants to chill at her place. Any tips please? Take a breathe man. It’s all good. That’s a great sign. Don’t assume sex is a guarantee, but it’s probably a possibility. E prepared for it but don’t push it. You’ll know if she wants to… just be chill and pay attention to her cues. Be flirty but don’t rush too fast unless she’s responding well. The trick is to not expect that you will, then it is more likely to happen (but still no guarantee). Relax and just enjoy whatever does happen. Have fun with her… that’s the key to finding out.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 09:07 PM