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Basic Questiondm-me-fantasyfiction/r/askMRP17/04/24 10:09 PM
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dm-me-fantasyfiction/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 06:20 PM
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dm-me-fantasyfiction/r/askMRP06/05/24 05:46 PM
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So you're saying she can get the equity without the attached liabilities?
/r/askMRP06/05/24 10:37 PM
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Okay but should I cease all further investment in my relationship in the meantime? Or does it not matter how deep you go?
/r/askMRP06/05/24 10:33 PM
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I own exactly $3000 in my car, I have made one mortgage payment, and my business is a job masquerading as a business, in which I am the value and I couldn't sell it for shit.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 10:28 PM
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I will admit that everything I have acquired is just because it was there. I never really gave a fuck about money or being in shape as an end, only a means to getting laid. But there were always people around me who wanted to go to the gym or they wanted me to do something for them in exchange for cash and the money and fitness just happened.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 10:27 PM
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She did stop that recently, but I can't get a good timeline on when I should give up on hormones being a solution. Some say it takes years, some say weeks. So far, weeks hasn't done anything.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 10:24 PM
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She has no drive. I understand that I have to initiate, but all I get is starfish action. On the occasion that we try something new, she isn't into it. I ask her to do things like use her hands, and she will put her hands on me like Lenny playing with the rabbits for maybe 10 seconds and then goes back to starfish. I can dominate but I get no response, it's like fucking an onahole. If I push for anything I'm just met with nothing, not a yes, not a no, just... absence.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 10:23 PM
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I have a book of business but the business has no assets, and has paid out any cash it has to myself, my wife, and my subcontractors. I'm in the slow season so there just isn't shit right now. Maybe $4000 total in equipment.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 10:19 PM
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I have no kids, I probably should have made this clearer in the OP.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 07:58 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 07:39 PM
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Man idk. Since I read Rational Male 7 years ago at 21, I've gone through NMMNG, Frame: A Praxeology, Meditations, 48 Laws, Art of Seduction, Laws of Human Nature, The Way of Men, Preventative Medicine, and whatever else I see pop up in this sphere. I took my business up to the point where money is a joke. Yeah, there's plenty more to go but I have no idea how to give a fuck about financial growth when there's nothing left I want to buy. I'm in the best shape of my life, I've run about 5 of the s…
/r/askMRP06/05/24 07:27 PM
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I went through it before I made this post and most of it was about asset division and children. I don't have assets or children. I suppose it was stupid of me to ask about the legal and financial ramifications of divorce since I don't have shit. Other than emotions and potential, we've only just started to build our lives in earnest. It took a long time to get to ground zero, but that's as far as we've made it. We just crawled out of the financial hole that is being an American in your 20s.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 07:14 PM
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I'll get a lawyer, that seems to be a common thing I'm being told. I'm in shape but I'll keep it up and get more in shape. I have been to therapists, but they keep telling me that all my problems are external and that I don't need therapy, I need to fix the immediate problems in my life. This has happened four times. Idk what I'm supposed to recover from other than "being a complete retard." Yeah, back to the sidebar I go.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 06:59 PM
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And in reality this is all your fault, you should have ended it sooner. Oof, yes, absolutely. So just fucking jump and whatever happens happens. Fuck it bro. So, just send it. Get home from work today, tell her I want a divorce, let it play out?
/r/askMRP06/05/24 06:55 PM
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I threw a tl;dr in there
/r/askMRP06/05/24 06:08 PM
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It's also worth inspecting which parts of your own beauty standards are actually important to you and which parts have been unconsciously picked up from external standards. For instance, my wife is obsessive about wrinkles. Maybe a youthful appearance really is important to her as a person, but I'd bet money that it's really just insecurity from not matching the stereotypical beauty standards. We can't know for sure unless she has an opportunity to dive deep into what aging means to her and what…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 11:47 PM
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Well, nothing is as black and white as it seems. Plus, we don't HAVE to get EVERYTHING we want ALL THE TIME. Maybe it's a dress-up kinda thing for a special occasion. Maybe it's just not good for you and you find something else he likes. Maybe one night you dress in a frumpy ugly dress and he wears an Aquaman suit or whatever it is that you like. My point is that with most guys, appealing to his internal standards is more rewarding, less expensive, and less effort than what conventional or exter…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 09:45 PM
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Yeah most guys have some certain features and archetypes that turn them on, and these standards are their true measure of attraction in their partners. They also will be attracted to external standards, which we might also call "conventional beauty standards," but not to the same extent that they're attracted to people who match their internal standards. There's something hot about being with someone who is hot to everyone else, even if they aren't really your type. However, the hottest is when …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 09:31 PM
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Well, it really depends on the guy. I don't really appreciate that look much myself, but I know some people who do. I also know guys that want their women dressed in a snuggie when they get home. It just depends.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 06:45 PM
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Yeah but you can get that kind of attention from your man by figuring out his internal standards, and in my experience and from I've heard from other guys, you can be way more attractive (to your man) than those other women with considerably less work.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 06:43 PM
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All of the women I've committed to were pretty surprised that I wanted them to stop doing things that they had labored over for years because they thought "every guy liked that." I think most women getting into LTRs with men will find that our beauty standards not only vary widely, but rarely line up perfectly with what you see on TV and the internet. Honestly most of the guys I know whose internal standards line up with the external ones are the guys who have no idea what they actually want in …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 06:42 PM
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We see cleavage and tight leggings every day, so it can get boring for some guys. Most guys I know have two forms of visual attraction, internal (what is actually hot to them) and external (what will make others think their partner is valuable). Women usually get told to work on the external side, which is fair enough since the internal side varies and there's really no way to work on yourself in that regard while you're single. It's an added bonus for a long term relationship: you get to figure…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 02:05 PM
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I think the other comments so far point out some of the best courses of action for you to take. I would like to offer an observation that may alleviate some of your concern. Based on what you've written, it sounds to me like your man has the right attitude and he may even have a solid plan, or at least the beginnings of one. It doesn't sound like he's given you any indication that he doubts his ability to pull this off. If he has a solid family to back him up, he almost certainly will pull it of…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/24 03:29 PM
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I get where you're coming from, but I don't think I explained my situation that well. I don't have to eat real food. At any rate, I don't want to muddy up this thread with a conversation about myself. You make some very good points but I think I've said all I can say on this subject. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 06:10 PM
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I half agree with this. You are objectively correct and in an established long-term relationship this line of thinking is perfect. But I think early in a relationship it's important to give the kind of gifts that make you feel good as part of the vetting process. Give these selfish gifts to determine whether or not you have any level of symbiosis. I don't know how to explain it any better without an example. My wife loves to cook, and her primary method of showing love to me is by cooking for me…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 05:46 PM
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My intuition is telling me that this gift would be better as an anniversary present, it makes more sense and seems less obsessive if you give it to mark a special event. While I personally would never want to receive such a gift, it's important to make sure your man is receptive of the kind of love you want to give, so I say give it to him, but save it for a special occasion.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 03:06 PM
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I only give dating advice to men, since I only give advice on things that I have experience with, but I do try to provide a resource if something outside of my expertise comes up. Thanks for the list. I should probably read some of this stuff at some point.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 08:38 PM
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Good idea. I'm not trying to educate anyone; I just want to let people know the sources are there. I can still see it sounding patronizing to recommend a women 15 years older than me to read something called "The Empowered Wife" or "The Surrendered Single," but I have to start somewhere. I'll give this a go.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 06:42 PM
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Yeah, this is neither RP nor PUA. In either one, you would just start with the coffee shop and stick with that plan. Congruency is important in both philosophies, and if he was going to change venues, he should have done it while on the date. To me it sounds like maybe he budgeted poorly, or he just is incongruent. I don't know how the HVM scoring system works but I imagine this kind of behavior would lose you some points.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 05:26 PM
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I appreciate the advice, I've tried that. It hasn't been all that effective. But I'll keep increasing my value and she'll either come around or someone else will.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 05:00 AM
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I do my best, but alas, she is a vanilla girl, and she's anxious, which doesn't help.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 02:38 AM
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I just kind of couldn't leave. It's hard to explain, but I just didn't want to go home, I didn't want to spend any time away from her, I didn't want to see the other girls. The sex wasn't that good, but our personalities vibed well. I probably would have been happier in the short term if I had paid closer attention to how bad the sex was, as the sheer sexual ineptitude has plagued me throughout my marriage. Although, it has confirmed my hypothesis that in my case, sex and love have nothing to do…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 03:12 PM
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