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1

The poster I was replying to was describing a life where someone works to make a living and places their value on video games. Thats very different from playing games in order to rest your brain. Its important to have hobbies in order to relax between productive tasks. However, you shouldn't take pride in playing video games any more than you should take pride in sleeping.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:45 PM
2

The money makes a lot of other things easier. Your mistake was using the money to buy things instead of experiences.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 08:06 AM
-7

But respect people who work and value other things in life. I consider myself pretty open minded, but even I don't respect people who value porn and video games.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 08:04 AM
2

The addictive qualities aren't equivalent. Its more like blaming nicotine addiction on cigarettes.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 08:03 AM
1

Does she workout? If not, she could reasonable go from a 4 to a 5 or 6 just by changing that(higher if she is currently fat). She can't do much about the flat chest, but squats could get her a nice ass and a toned physique always helps. Also, the fact you haven't had sex worries me, because you can't really say how you will feel about her body if you haven't had sex yet.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 08:00 AM
2

He is a total player Then you shouldn't expect anything else from him. Obviously you should end the friendship, but there is no point in fighting with him or your mom about it.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 07:54 AM
2

They aren't going to "get what they deserve" and there's no such thing as karma. I will agree with this, but the life with a beta dude isn't as nice as it seems. Sure, to us guys it seems like a great situation for her, but the woman is incredibly unhappy. Her unhappiness builds up until she divorces him/cheats.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 07:52 AM
2

Look at it this way, men are twice as likely to be gay as women. By encouraging homosexuals to embrace their desires, we make the dating market slightly better for straight males.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 02:04 AM
1

We definitely do go out as a couple too, but she is exhausted after spending all day shopping, so we do that as two separate trips.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:58 PM
1

This should depend on the nature of the trip. I live in a small town. Once or twice a year my wife will spend the weekend shopping with girl friends in a big city, and thats okay. The problem are the trips which boil down to her playing at being single, like cruises.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:01 PM
1

If she wants to go on a trip without you that means she doesn't love you. Most women aren't thinking "I am going to go fuck guys in Cancun!". They get caught up in the fantasy of a girls trip after listening to Cyndi Lauper.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 09:55 PM
3

The Bible has a lot to say about how to organize society, but most of it gets ignored.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:53 PM
1

Monogamy was more about ensuring paternity than love.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:52 PM
2

Don't forget about Adam and Eve's children. Of course, if you take the Bible literally then you get some really weird genetics going on(given how much genetic variation there is in humans and the human race is supposed to be a few thousand years old).
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:49 PM
7

The core issue is that women are more likely to be religious and go to church, so churches have started trying to cater to them to bring in members.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:48 PM
4

Women(mothers in particular) are most likely to go to church and push the rest of the family to church. So churches have started catering to them.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 05:46 PM
3

My friendships operate under a covert niceness contract. I wouldn't be friends with someone if I had to explicitly tell them to be nice to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:47 AM
0

Sounds like a fair punishment.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 12:30 AM
0

The rationale behind abortion is that the fetus is part of her body. By killing it, you are destroying part of her body. The exact penalty is tricky. This is a crime where recidivism isn't a concern. The penalty is to deter someone from doing it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:25 PM
0

Well, you could put it on par with cutting off part of her body(like a finger).
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:14 PM
5

IMO, killing the fetus is less likely to get you caught. Miscarriages happen all the time and there isn't going to be an investigation unless you really screw up. By contrast, a dead 25 year old girl is going to prompt an investigation.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:12 PM
6

Most people operate under that contract. Thats how friendships work.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:08 PM
1

Personally I would be extremely reluctant to marry her simply because I have no idea what her sex drive is like. Consider this, a girl who is asexual will have a much easier time waiting until marriage. For example, she was out at her bachelorette party and kept having guys come up to her and pester her, despite the clearly visible engagement ring. She said, "One guy came up to me who actually seemed pretty cool. He asked if I was getting married, and when I told him I was, and he said 'Congratu…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:33 AM
19

I look at it this way. If on the off chance she legitimately has a very low sex drive and rarely wants to do it, I don't want to be with her anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:04 AM
0

This needs to be stickied or at least added to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 05:21 AM
4

Nowhere did he say to ignore her if the girl says "no". The point of telling her what you are going to do is to give her a chance to refuse.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 05:17 AM
1

If a man acts as though he is the boss and the king of the castle and makes decisions without talking it over with the wife. That guy will be in the dog house real quick. The key is consistency. If you normally ask for permission, then your wife is going to be pissed if you don't because you have destabilized the relationship. If you make a habit of making choices. If you want her input, then just tell her what you are planning to do ahead of time. If she disagrees, she will tell you then.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 05:16 AM
4

To add, this is not at all the same as forcing a girl to do something. She can tell you to stop at any point and you should respect that.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 05:13 AM
34

The word plate comes from the idea of "spinning plates". The idea is you are flirting with several girls at the same time. You work from a place of abundance, so if you do decide to get into a long term relationship with one girl, you are doing so because she is a really good girl. Not because you are lonely or desperate.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 02:58 AM
1

Exercise makes you feel better because your body starts ignoring pain from the illness. Basically, your body assumes that you must be doing something really important, so it tries to ignore the flu. This is not the same as actually recovering faster.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 02:34 AM
-6

It sounds like you just want different things out of the sport than the other people there. I am pretty sure the people making the rule were thinking "We don't want this to be a sausage fest. How can we convince girls to play?", not "We need to make the league more feminist!". Leagues like this are great if you are a guy trying to meet girls.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:33 PM
6

The only exception I can think of is if you are in the military and you had a great relationship before your deployment. Or if one of you has to temporarily move away for work or school.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:16 PM
1

If you are in an LTR, that will just drag out the breakup.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:14 PM
1

Those prices are ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:10 PM
1

You are missing the point. The goal of a casual football league like this is to meet people(including girls), not to have a competitive football game. If you don't have rules like this, women just won't play because they are dead weight. If you live in a decently populated city, there will be more serious amateur leagues as well that are all men.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:08 PM
8

I don't think this is good advice. Working out forces your body to dedicate energy to exercise instead of recovery. The reason you heal quickly is because you are in really good shape.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:05 PM
7

The funny thing is, it won't ruin his life. It will reduce the amount of sex he gets for the next few weeks/months, but she admits he could easily get more girls.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:03 PM
11

It looks like she wants to hurt him, but knows she doesn't really have the power to do that. Even if she texted all the girls he is currently screwing, he would just find more.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:02 PM
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/r/mensrights is the worst part of this sub. I don't care what terrible thing feminist group X is doing at your college, because it doesn't affect me or 99% of the other users in the sub.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:57 PM
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THis polymer needs to withstand more than just sex. It needs to withstand a wide range of physical activities that a guy is going to undergo through the course of his life. If the problem is specific to electric shock, then its fine. Hopefully thats the case.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:09 AM
2

Thats a serious generalization. Just as often, "I want us to be polyamorous" can be another way of saying "I want us to take a break" or "I need space". AKA, she has a guy she wants to sleep with, but doesn't want to lose the stability of you if things don't work.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 12:06 AM
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And the colleges that do consistently put out good research have to constantly deal with people complaining that the college is sexist.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 11:49 PM
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If the polymer can be accidentally dislodged, that sounds like a serious concern.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 11:26 PM
2

If I am talking to a girl I just met at a bar, what are appropriate topics? I can't exactly go for girly topics.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:55 AM
1

You have to be upfront about it and not settle. Most guys are so scared of coming off as misogynistic, that they won't tell a woman "I earn way more money than you do, so you are going to do most of the housework".
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:05 PM
1

In the case of this statute, provision 1 requires a declaration of marriage be signed, which is a specific legal document. if you want to be on the safe side, just have both parties sign(and certify) a document making it clear that their "marriage" is not intended as a legal marriage.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:44 PM
2

A key component of common law marriage is that both parties have to agree to it. You can't accidentally be common law married.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 07:12 PM
1

Attitude is a large part of being alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 11:49 PM
1

The obvious solution is to offer her the house in return for 50k.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 11:44 PM
1

Its a gradual process. The guy gets worn down over a few years until he just assumes he is supposed to acquiesce to her. For example, I know a lot of husbands who just hide when their wife is angry at them. So to them it makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 11:40 PM
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The sex defenses are for herself. If she didn't prepare to have sex, then she can say the guy is a manipulative asshole of things don't work out. Whereas if she actually shaved and wore sexy lingerie, not even she will believe the excuse.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 10:51 PM
1

You are missing the point of the red pill. Its about discussing strategy. Not right vs wrong.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 10:32 PM
1

Are there any ways to tell if a woman will do this once she has a kid?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:24 AM
2

Then she probably would have gotten custody.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:24 AM
2

The funny thing is that it rarely works. Typically girls will just want you even more.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:23 AM
1

The better years thing is legit. It is much easier to be a divorced 40 year old man trying to find a relationship than a divorced 40 year old woman. The main problem guys have is when they lose everything in a divorce. This can be limited by having a good prenup that specifies how your assets will be distributed. However, not much you can do about kids.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:56 AM
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The combination is an even worse pipe dream. Even if it were legally enforceable, I don't see why any woman would agree to that. I mean, with terms those lopsided no woman would agree unless she had no other options.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 11:13 PM
1

It is much cheaper in every measurable way to raise a family today than it has ever been in history. I have bought into the frame of facts and sciences, which show the cost of raising a kid has risen about 25% over the last 50 years. And thats not including college. If you send your want to send your kid to a cheap 4 year college, costs have risen over 50%. Although I will grant that healthcare is only a small portion of this. http://www.cnpp.usda.gov/Publications/CRC/CRC2011.pdf
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 10:47 PM
1

I should clarify. If you want to do the bare minimum to raise a kid, its quite cheap. If you just want to give him a 1910s quality of life, you could do so. However, if you want your kid to keep all his teeth and cure any crippling diseases he gets, that costs money. So does a good education.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 10:27 PM
1

Kids require bigger houses. Also, raising kids well is expensive. A good education costs a lot. And healthcare for kids can be expensive.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 10:07 PM
2

We have so many distractions now, plus better and better contraceptives. This leads people to opt to have fewer kids Also, raising kids has gotten a lot more expensive due to the high costs of a good education.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 10:05 PM
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Find a smart girl. Intelligence is correlated with marriage fidelity. Plus, intelligence is highly heritable. You don't want dumbshits for kids. This one is tricky though. Because you want one who is smart, but isn't career oriented.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:54 PM
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No. The child isn't considered property so you can't include that in your prenup. Courts are supposed to determine custody based on which parent is best for the child. If you want to win custody, the key is to fight dirty. My uncle got full custody over his kids by falsely accusing his wife of beating him. The charges were dropped, but by that point judges weren't willing to risk it and gave custody to him.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:24 PM
1

Isn't the easy, and obvious, solution to bill dad for school fees, electric bills, heating, and groceries, etc? Hopefully that will start happening now that most purchases are handled electronically. Historically it would not have been easy to account for all your spending.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:21 PM
3

To add, perhaps they talk the guy down to try and turn off other girls.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:11 PM
20

The Red Pill has good philosophies, but many posters exaggerate the state of affairs. Prenups are almost never overturned because judges think they unfairly distribute assets. Here is a legitimate article on what can overturn prenups. http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/10/05/us-money-divorce-prenup-idUSBRE8940Y920121005
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 03:26 AM
13

Thats a myth. Prenups are enforced in most instances. You only hear about it in cases where the prenup isn't enforced.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:19 AM
7

Marriage doesn't have to be the way it currently is; it doesn't need to be so rampantly disrespectful of ownership rights. In most states you can get a prenup to prevent this from happening.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 01:34 AM
1

The sub is divided on this. On one hand, you have guys who are bitter about how relationships work. They get mad. On the other, you have guys who accept how things are and just want to learn how to deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:18 PM
-1

If you are just going for short term, lie.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:16 PM
6

The only equipment you really need is a barbell, weights and a squat cage.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:14 PM
5

Willingness to move is extremely important if you want a good job.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 12:08 AM
1

Therre are a few that don't. And you get experience in something tangentially related. For example, second job One year in pipeline operations/maintenance or equivalent related experience. Spend a few months repairing or maintaining anything? Well thats equivalent experience!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:47 PM
1

http://www.indeed.com/jobs?q=oil&l=North+Dakota I found several skimming through that.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:39 PM
3

but now-a-days you need someone with a degree in a high paying sector just to make a decent amount. This isn't accurate. Do a job search for something in natural gas and tyou will find plenty of well paying jobs that only need a high school diploma.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:07 PM
12

I would definitely go with this for an LTR. When she asks this, focus on qualities that she can improve.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 08:39 PM
1

While this makes sense, it can blow up in your face if she does find out overtly.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 07:01 PM
1

Even if the students are all intellectually mature, Q&A isn't very efficient. One of the big reasons is that students will all have different misunderstandings. So at any given time, the teacher is going to be answering a question that half the students already know the answer to. Guided workshops are definitely a better use of time.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 05:03 PM
2

Q&A sessions are the biggest waste of time I have seen in school. The issue is that students ask terrible questions(if they ask questions at all), and you end up wasting a lot of other people's time on that 1 students misunderstanding. Lectures are important for most subjects.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:03 AM
0

Frankly I consider Shakespeare is overrated. Its good, but there are lots of good books out there. And they don't require constantly looking up Elizabethian English to understand.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 01:01 AM
3

In that case, fudning should be allocated to other areas(research for high performing students, for instance). Who this screws over are the professors and other students who have to waste time with underqualified students who got in to meet gender quotas.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 12:53 AM
1

What? Some drugs make people irrationally aggressive. And he was at a concert, which makes drugs more likely.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:53 PM
1

You might be able to convince her to leave, but your landlord is not going to care as much as you think he will. It takes a lot of work for the landlord to evict someone, even if he wants to. At best, you are looking at months.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:48 AM
1

Those could all possibly be civil offenses. However, specifying the damages would be tricky.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:37 AM
1

There are few better uses of money than getting away from that girl. UNless you are going to go hungry, do it. If her name is on the lease, you won't be able to kick her out though. You will need to leave yourself.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:33 AM
3

I'd say that the first time should be enough of a warning sign to get out.. no? There are a lot of women out there who have just never been taught that its not okay. THey have had tons of guys who made them think it was okay.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:30 AM
3

Sounds like drugs.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:27 AM
2

In this case is it possible to sue for libel or emotional trauma? Anything along those lines? Its completely possible to sue(and win). Not just that, the police should be pressing charges against her. Most people just don't bother.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:25 AM
3

If you aren't THERE, AND YOU HAVE A RELIABLE ALIBI, you can't be accused. Just as he mentions later, calling people while the fight was going on, establish your alibi. Unfortunately, police will often arrest first and ask questions later.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:24 AM
1

would TRP ever entail putting yourself on an equal footing with your SO? Equal footing is a very vague term. There are a wide variety of decisions to make in a relationship and almost none of them are decided equally.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 08:28 PM
2

I just say "You should learn."
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 08:13 PM
1

It makes sense. Look how many single people can barely keep everything together.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:36 PM
2

The issue is that you still have to interact with alphas, and if your skills have atrophied due to surrounding yourself with betas, you will fail these interactions hard.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 01:18 AM
0

Going to disagree. There are plenty of studies showing that at basic social tests(reading facial cues, for instance), women are better.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 01:17 AM
7

However, one can ask, why have not men being equipped with such social intelligence or atleast not as strong as women ? Is that not a reproductive disadvantage ? Its a tradeoff. Historically, male intelligence has been far more important for survival. If the man is a crappy hunter, he and his family starve. So men have evolved to primarily focus on work and not on social structures. Women didn't need to put as much intellgience to basic survival, which led to a greater focus on finding a good sp…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 01:16 AM
3

I completely agree. The rapper character had really good game, while handling the situation rationally and doing good things for his friends.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:37 PM
8

It sounds like the husband is emotionally very low maintenance.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 11:37 PM
1

Yep. Many people will bitch about these things a whole lot("Thats not fair! Someone should do something."), but very few will actually take the effort to change minute things.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:53 PM
1

It isn't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 01:27 AM
1

Its possible. Alternately, AI may become benevolent overlords who guide humans away from anything too selfdestructive.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:10 PM
1

If I know something's going to come up later in the day, maybe I'll include it in the lunch note! I am not a fan of this one. The issue is that he can't do anything about whatever favor you need at lunch. So it just distracts him. Preferably, have a list ready when he gets home.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 07:26 AM
5

Its because you're a threat. Any half decent man is going to prefer red pill women. Even blue pill men.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 07:15 AM
3

They blame the lack of sex on libido problems (which IMO is total horse dodo). Well they aren't technically wrong. low libido is the issue. Where they fail is that low libido is almost always a symptom of their blue pill behavior.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 07:11 AM
3

Not always bad, but there are a ton of borderline useless government jobs, where you can be incredibly imcompetent but won't get fired so long as you show up to work. In the private sector, these jobs are limited by companies going bankrupt if they have too many useless employees.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 03:33 AM
1

This describes less than half of our country, as most people are a net drain on the system. No. In reality, most of the drain comes from a small portion of the population(prisoners, people with chronic health conditions, etc). You can't just look at taxation vs benefits, because someone who works is generating value for a company that also pays taxes.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 03:31 AM
2

I am betting we will see the rise of advanced artificial intelligence well before this happens, which will drastically change things.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 03:22 AM
2

Seems you touched a nerve. I think there are a few angry childfree men on the sub as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 03:21 AM
1

She works during the day This is where her big opportunity is. 1 hour lunch break? Plenty of time to cheat. And thats assuming she doesn't "work late".
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 03:04 AM
1

Chances are the ex boyfriend isn't nearly as good as she remembers.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:23 PM
2

but then she's going to tell everyone why I dumped her. This matters a lot less than you think. The girls you want to date(ones who will have sex) won't care about this. Your male friends won't care either. The only people who might care are girls who don't want sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:09 PM
2

No, because he got caught.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:49 PM
5

Up until a point. Masters and PHD do not have a positive effect.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:15 PM
6

I am betting a lot of htem would do it. And they would feel super noble about it as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 03:56 PM
1

I mean that once you connect her to an investor who changes her life, your value is gone. She may be grateful for a time, but eventually she is going to forget about it and move on. By contrast, a high salary is a constant source of value, because you keep earning money over time.
/r/seduction06/04/14 06:14 PM
0

I am not claiming that she will simply adopt it any more than that a child will adopt the wisdom of a parent. You have to find a girl who is somewhat willing to learn and train her. And those girls do exist.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 06:15 AM
1

http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_022.pdf
/r/seduction06/04/14 04:38 AM
1

OP did an update. He thinks his girlfriend was just naive and they have learned a valuable lesson on trust.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 04:11 AM
0

If you find the right girl, you can teach her though. A girl in her early 20s will automatically look up to you as smarter and more experienced. You have to use that to teach her how to behave.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 03:44 AM
1

Its quite common for one partner to be better with money than the other, in which case it makes sense for the other partner to give them the money and have them dispense it.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 02:55 AM
1

He talked about needing these characteristics for a successful relationship. There is no chance the Dunkin Donuts guy and her end up in a happy relationship.
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:02 AM
1

The man who can connect her to a celebrity or an investor that could change her life but who isn't doing well with his take home pay (e.g. broke entrepreneur) would still display your definition of "power". The issue with this sort of people is it isn't persistent. Unless you can consistently do these type of things, you aren't demonstrating value for a longterm relationship.
/r/seduction06/04/14 01:59 AM
4

It matches the statistics. Poor people are twice as likely to divorce as rich people. http://i.imgur.com/xsMvBfO.jpg
/r/seduction06/04/14 01:57 AM
5

YOu are underestimating how many options someone in AlphaDicks situation has. He probably has over a dozen girls hitting on him when he goes out. He will inevitably turn down most of them.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:49 PM
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It depends on the relationship. He is in a casual relationship, so he handled the situation perfectly. If they were in a serious LTR though, that would have been a terrible way to deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:48 PM
1

Eh, you have to be careful here. YOu still want her to think you are interested in her.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 04:41 AM
1

There are guys who like banter, but those aren't dominant guys.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:59 AM
3

make them sweat for you. Sarcasm is inherently subversive. If you are sarcastic to your man, you are trying to subvert his authority. An alpha male won't put up with that for very long. I would say, be sarcastic with other people, but not with him.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:57 AM
2

Chances are if he could do that she wouldn't have proposed it in the first place. The guy sounds like a total wimp. So the wife lost attraction to him.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:49 AM
3

Polygamy is common while polyandry is rare because men can have several children at once while women can only mate with one man at a time. In a society where food is scarce, its highly advantageous for several women to marry one man. Polyandry severely limits how many children the males can have.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:47 AM
1

According to him, he has always been open to the idea of polyamory.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:44 AM
1

It sounds like the wife was already cheating on the husband(or planning to) and the polyamory topic just let her be open about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:08 AM
2

Women are judged much more on their body and they can't deal with it. So they rationalize everything.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 03:32 AM
3

It depends on his office environment and her competence. Some employers will see that the department is doing decently(but not great) thanks to his competence canceling out with her incompetence. They will just leave things as they are. Generally, I would suggest doing your job well and helping out when asked, but if your boss makes dumb decisions, let her.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 03:04 AM
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Not necessarily. If she already lined up another guy, she probably would have told him not to live with her. More likely, she is interested in other guys but hasn't had sex with one yet. She is keeping her boyfriend around as a safety net until she gets another guy.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 02:45 AM
1

The IQ tests are designed to be as gender neutral as possible. They aren't meaningful for comparing intelligence between genders.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 08:02 AM
3

The only people who care about you for you is your parents. I don't see anything wrong with women who seek out rich men. I wouldn't date an ugly woman either. Whats important is that there are more reasons you date than just that.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 10:38 PM
2

Second year in residency is the tail end of medical school, which is an ideal time to start dating. They are still undesired, but will soon be a proper doctor with better hours.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 04:31 AM
3

First, once you do decide you want to settle down, how many years do you think it will take to figure out the whole marriage thing and find a good husband? The thing is, women become less valuable as marriage prospects as they age. So when you do hit thirty and want to get married, you are already past your prime and then have to spend time actually doing the whole "long term relationship" thing to even find a good husband.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 05:21 AM
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Thats because there is a massive demand for people in oil and natural gas, which are heavily male dominated. The issue is what the woman is going to do in the Bakken shale fields.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 03:09 AM
1

Um, nothing in the article said he was vindicated.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 08:37 PM
5

For girls this is true. Guys seem to exaggerate a lot less.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 03:13 AM
11

Yeah, clearly someone who is physically fit and flexible would be terrible in bed. Also, it shows how little they actually know about health. I have an aunt who is an exercise nut. Not terribly tall(5' 8"). She eats 3000 calories a day.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 03:11 AM
2

Marilyn Monroe was not plus sized. The most liberal estimates put her at 5' 5" and 140 pounds, which is in the normal weight range. More likely though, she was 130, which is solidly average weight.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 03:09 AM
3

It's a nice phrasing, but not true. Desire doesn't matter if your attempts don't work. Cooking is a good one because its universal. Every guy loves food. If you can cook something good, you will make him happy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/13 11:42 PM
1

There is a good chance she won't get alimony if the baby is the other man's. Her husband is a lawyer and has a good shot of giving her very little as cheating is considered a good grounds for divorce.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 11:11 PM
1

I was more interested in seducing someone into a relationship. So was she.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/13 01:34 AM
1

Food is an excellent way to seduce a guy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/13 01:25 AM
1

A long term relationship needs straight forward communication to work. I just can't imagine it working long term if the girl never outright says what she wants.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 03:59 PM
5

Completely agree. Finding a husband who makes 50k a year is completely reasonable. And thats enough to support a family if you are somewhat frugal.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 05:22 AM
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I don't think planning on divorce is healthy, but I don't know. I understand what you are saying, but at least having a prenup costs nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 05:20 AM
2

They often make it sound like ALL women act such and such a way and NO woman is capable of acting any different than this base nature Its because qualifying your statements makes discussion very wearisome. A big draw of the subreddit is you don't have to constantly say "women generally do X".
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 04:58 AM
2

Warning: generalizations incoming Men are much more consistent in their behavior. In a perfect world both partners would realize when they are being irrational and stop, but its easier for men. Because our day to day hormone levels are pretty much the same, its easy for us to deal with emotions. As a result, you can have a woman who is normally great but will occasionally go a bit crazy due to fluctuating hormone levels. In a perfect world, she would realize this and compensate, but many times t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/13 04:58 PM
1

Or go abroad again to a culture where men value things differently Most cultures put an even higher value on youth than ours. The real issue you will hit is that the high value men have already been taken by a high value woman by their 30s. And the moderate value men can find hot, fun women in their 20s. Your best bet would probably be a high value man whose 3-5 years older than you who chose poorly and is divorced. But that has its own set of downsides.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/13 05:49 AM
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