dmbrokaw Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. I completely agree. I am a proponent of incorporating into the birth process as standard procedure. "Hi, we're here to give your newborn a vitamin K shot" could easily become "Hi, we're here to give your newborn a vitamin K shot and collect a few cheek cells" and then it's not the father calling his baby mama anything, it's just a standard procedure (that you can still refuse if you don't want it).	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 11:55 AM
3	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. So any man who is able to read minds (literally no men) or lucks out and gets an honest woman (to be clear, this is the majority of men) deserves peace of mind, but if a man ends up with a dishonest woman that's his fault, and he is the bad guy? Can you conceptualize a situation where a woman is in the wrong, or is that fundamentally outside your worldview?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:00 AM
3	There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test. I have a weird perspective on this- I am not capable of biologically fathering children. Both of my kids were conceived using (expensive) donor cells. I find myself in a somewhat privileged position of being 100% certain of whether or not my children are biologically related to me. I share that privilege with a small percentage of fathers, and virtually 100% of mothers. I think there is room in between the "I think you are cheating and want proof that this child is mine" position, and the "I wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 12:29 AM
9	Panama is to make paternity fraud a crime Why are we assuming that the results of these DNA tests would go to the government? People get paternity tests done now without being added to a giant genetic database used for nefarious government evils, right?	/r/MensRights	08/06/26 04:41 AM
6	What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro? The entire premise of this thread is asking men to reckon with our thoughts on this tiny fringe group of evil men in Africa - we are very much in the realm of discussing the 'very rare' here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/26 10:30 AM
11	What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro? Women are not a monolith, if 0.0001% of women started brutalizing men with dildos I wouldn't hold all women accountable for their actions, because thats deeply unreasonable. I have never been subjected to anything even a fraction as terrible as what is being described happening to these women. It makes me sick. My empathy does nothing to help them, as much as I wish it did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/26 12:02 AM
28	What do the 'not all men' crowd have to say about the atrocities happening in Ozoro? Do you expect women to constantly wander around accepting responsibility for the actions of Ghislaine Maxwell, or apologizing on behalf of female teachers who rape their students? The guy you're replying to has almost certainly never met or interacted with this fringe group of psychos that OP is talking about, and has no ability to influence their actions or stop them. What more do you expect him to do than denounce their behavior?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 11:51 PM
20	Men's Lonliness isn't about not having a gf (for me, at least.) Careful, if you try to inject too much nuance into the conversation it will muddy the talking points on both sides, and that will make smooth brains feel bad.	/r/MensRights	18/02/26 12:28 PM
3	Charlie Kirk saved my life I completely agree, he was a bad guy who made America a worse place to live. However, if we are willing to live in a society where its ok to murder someone for saying awful things, you have to recognize that there are people out there who will use that same justification to excuse the murder of people that YOU agree with.	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 03:13 PM
8	Charlie Kirk saved my life Charlie Kirk was not Hitler, let's try and keep to reality. If Charlie raised an army and started invading Poland and committing genocide, then yes I would support a military action to bring him down. A military action that was approved by Congress, where we made a decision as a society to take him down.	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 01:37 PM
4	Charlie Kirk saved my life Yeah, he was a piece of shit. No argument from me on that. Im just saying we shouldn't shoot people, even if they're awful.	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 01:34 PM
18	Charlie Kirk saved my life He was a divisive and negative influence on our society, but I sure as fuck don't want to live in a place where we shoot people we disagree with. Im sad for his family and people who loved him, but Im much more concerned with the implications of how close to the boiling point we are. I've already lived through too many 'once in a generation' events, I don't want to live through the Civil War Remix.	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 11:14 AM
83	“Please don’t give my husband longer paternity leave” - what the actual f*ck 😐 How many words does this lady need to say 'I don't know how to communicate with my husband and its his fault'? Gross.	/r/MensRights	25/06/25 02:40 AM
9	Is male loneliness really all in men’s heads? This floored me. All LiVeS MatTuRR ahhh comment.	/r/MensRights	02/04/25 08:29 PM
4	If your husband/partner suddenly became disabled and required care, would you keep the relationship the way it is or make compromises/leave? That study was retracted. Odd how that didn't make the same headlines as the original study. https://retractionwatch.com/2015/07/21/to-our-horror-widely-reported-study-suggesting-divorce-is-more-likely-when-wives-fall-ill-gets-axed/	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 03:22 AM
2	Sad, just….sad. Oh most definitely	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/11/24 04:07 PM
4	Sad, just….sad. I admit I am less familiar with 4B than you seem to be, but I have certainly seen some hateful behavior from MGTOW communities as well, even if the original intentions were genuine.	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/11/24 03:57 PM
2	Sad, just….sad. I support MGTOW, I think it would be hypocritical of me to have issues with 4B. If some women have decided to remove themselves from the dating pool because they don't like men, good riddance?	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/11/24 12:24 PM
-4	Sad, just….sad. I think it's a bit disingenuous to call "I voted for the guy responsible for taking away your reproductive rights" a "difference of opinion" but go off. I don't think it's misandry to cut people out of your life if you think you have a good reason to do so.	/r/EverydayMisandry	09/11/24 01:13 AM
1	Do you hate feminism to its core? I have no issue with the portion of feminism centered on women's advocacy - as a men's rights advocate that would make me a hypocrite. My issues with feminism are the way they gatekeep equality by claiming that feminism is a gender equality movement, and the way they actively oppose gender equality when it would be to women's detriment.	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 12:40 PM
-9	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern I didn't know he was attempting to troll Kamala, I assumed he was just dementia-ed up to his eyeballs and thought this was a good idea. When I said he was playing pretend I meant that they had closed the store and he was playing make believe with preselected supporters, not that he didn't physically touch the fryer. Do you live near grass? I'd recommend you give some grass a fondle.	/r/MensRights	21/10/24 12:11 PM
33	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern The Trump campaign had a McDonalds shut down so he could do a photo op inside the building pretending to cook and serve people his favorite fries and hamberders.	/r/MensRights	21/10/24 03:08 AM
39	What are the reasons for divorce Obviously it's both, and depends on individual circumstances. That being said, the gay divorce rate is a lot lower than the lesbian divorce rate.	/r/MensRights	29/08/24 09:27 PM
2	12 institutional disadvantages of being male Completely agree.	/r/MensRights	13/08/24 02:54 PM
10	12 institutional disadvantages of being male Israel conscripts both genders, but men serve 3 years and women only serve 2. Still not equal.	/r/MensRights	13/08/24 02:43 PM
31	The Masculinity Tax: An Unseen Burden on Men's Wallets Some of these seem shaky at best, and dubiously sourced. Missing one big one - basal calorie rate for males is 15-20% higher. Consider how much you spend on groceries, and imagine being able to spend 20% less just because you biologically require less food to survive. That's a fat pile of cash over a lifetime.	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 11:26 AM
3	mens rights activism opinion poll Yes, if such a law passed alongside a strengthening of safety net programs like WIC and daycare subsidies. Abolish it, full stop - but if we have to keep the draft, I see no reason why we should be more comfortable sending men to die than women. Yes, I agree that consent to sex is a separate issue from consent to parenthood. I support routine DNA testing during ob/gyn appointments to put an end to paternity fraud, as well as #1 above, to disclaim your parental rights if you don't desire to be a …	/r/MensRights	07/07/24 05:48 PM
9	Counselor Gets 5 Years for Sex With Boy, 13, Threat to Kill His Mom If OP used the word rape, you may not have been aware that the media failed to do so. Plus, some sub reddits have rules requiring you not to alter headlines when posting news articles. Unbunch your panties.	/r/MensRights	29/06/24 11:38 AM
89	Counselor Gets 5 Years for Sex With Boy, 13, Threat to Kill His Mom Not a criticism of you, just commentary that the media downplays female-on-male-child sex crime.	/r/MensRights	29/06/24 02:22 AM
7	Are the majority of men disinterested in MRA and overall are biased in favor of women? There's psychological research that points to a bias men have in favor of women, and a significantly larger bias women have in favor of women. Hard to treat men as disposable labor/combat machines for all of human history if you also value them, so theres an evolutionary advantage to a willingness to sacrifice men to protect women. It's no longer necessary, but biological evolution does not keep pace with social evolution.	/r/MensRights	29/04/24 01:45 AM
49	men punching random women in new york I think it's criminal battery and the perpetrators should be charged. Men battering random women on the streets does nothing to push forward a men's activism movement.	/r/MensRights	27/03/24 03:56 PM
8	Men shouldn't dismiss so quickly the idea that unequal distribution of housework/childcare contributes to divorces You'd think that, but the 5 years of marriage before we had kids is littered with examples to the contrary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 08:00 PM
1	Men shouldn't dismiss so quickly the idea that unequal distribution of housework/childcare contributes to divorces My wife took my kids to visit her mom for 12 days. I cleaned the whole house the day they left, and aside from washing dishes and laundry, the only room I had to clean again was the bathroom. Everything else was still spotless. Ever since, it makes me a little resentful when I clean, knowing that virtually all of the mess was someone else. I still do it, because I refuse to live in a messy house whether it's my mess or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 07:47 PM
67	Inside the rise of the 'dark feminine' dating influencers who teach women how to channel their inner princesses and find wealthy husbands If you get caught by this it's a skill issue. If you avoid success and money you'll never fall for this.	/r/MensRights	25/02/24 04:19 PM
2	Why do some women say they don’t want to read book written by men? So she can understand that women write bad female characters too?	/r/MensRights	03/02/24 08:48 PM
2	Sexual Selection in Men and Women Gotcha. In that case, I'd say it very much depends on who the genitals are attached to. Genital characteristics can only go so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 08:23 PM
13	Sexual Selection in Men and Women 'Good pussy' is not necessarily about vaginal tightness and lubrication. 'Good pussy' is shorthand for "a woman with whom I am sexually compatible, who makes me feel desired and attractive, who is enthusiastic about doing [insert things I like], is able to communicate her needs clearly, doesn't make me feel like I have to read her mind or become Sherlock Holmes looking for clues on how to get her off, and leaves me a quivering pile of barely-alive manflesh at the end of our encounter." There is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 06:21 PM
–	The Hottest Women Are MILFS Attraction is subjective, so not everyone will agree with you (I tend to agree, but men are not a monolith). Pregnancy does not impact all women the same way (because women are not a monolith).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 05:11 PM
8	In 2023 men should have consent forms printed out and handy, similar to condoms when dealing with women. Consent can be withdrawn during sex, though??	/r/MensRights	01/12/23 05:01 PM
0	Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GF Most states give default custody to the mother if she isn't married. Barely half of men who fight for custody get ANY custody at all. Getting married before having kids is safer for your paternal rights, but as OP noted you take on other risks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 05:53 PM
4	Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you? Easy, don't date. It helps that I'm already married, but I've made it very clear to my wife that I'd never wade back into the dating pool for any reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 06:06 PM
8	Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman? A normal ass girl with no red flags? Where are you hiding these women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 10:48 PM
1	Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? In most US states, custody of the child of an unwed couple defaults to the mother, so one reason to keep getting married is to protect your rights to your offspring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 09:48 PM
1	Why do Western countries have such disparity between male and female suicide rates? Breathtaking lack of empathy. Simply remarkable that you've managed to so thoroughly eliminate any sense of care or duty to your fellow humans.	/r/MensRights	28/07/23 11:25 AM
7	Not exactly as good as I hoped, but this is surprisingly… Much better than I thought? I expected there to be no legal recourse whatsoever. prove that the defendant mother deliberately, or recklessly, made a statement (which she knew to be false) She could just argue that she was still sleeping with you so there was a chance the child was yours. Then she didn't 'know' the statement was false, she just had reason to believe it might not be. I have a hard time seeing many men using this legal avenue successfully.	/r/MensRights	30/11/22 04:27 PM
9	Is anybody on here a father to a daughter? What is your take on this community? Because they all believe it. It's like telling fundamentalist Christians hell isn't real, you immediately destroy any chance at useful communication. I'm not saying it is real, I'm saying they think it is real, and you have to be aware of that to have meaningful conversation. To be fair, I phrased it poorly.	/r/MensRights	21/11/22 09:13 PM
30	Is anybody on here a father to a daughter? What is your take on this community? I support the MRA movement because its clear to me that if the modern feminist movement got literally everything it is calling for there would still be problems, because feminists are not concerned with (or actively promote) gender gaps that favor women. They're justifiably concerned with the 'wage gap' but have no interest in the 'workplace death' gap. They care a lot about more representation in Congress, but don't mind the male only draft. They want more C suite girl bosses, but don't mind th…	/r/MensRights	21/11/22 08:15 PM
58	Why is OF not frowned upon? Sending naked pictures use to be embarrassing Inb4 massive down votes, but why do these girls owe you shame? Whether or not OnlyFans preys on lonely men is a men's rights issue. Whether society is structured in a way that disenfranchises these men is a men's rights issue. What adult women do on their social media accounts or whether or not they sell mediocre porn is hardly your business, and certainly not a men's rights issue.	/r/MensRights	31/08/22 07:38 PM
1	Roe v Wade Implying the reborn Lochner SCOTUS gives a single solitary damn about precedent, even their own precedents.	/r/MensRights	28/07/22 02:58 PM
1	Roe v Wade If you think they're not going to try and pass a national ban you're not paying attention.	/r/MensRights	28/07/22 02:41 PM
4	Roe v Wade With how often I see the "unplanned pregnancy > family court > child support > life ruined" pipeline brought up on here I'd have expected more outrage. My wife and I are furious that our daughter may live in a world where she has less rights than her mother did. Men have essentially never had reproductive rights, their only recourse was to express their wishes to the mother and hope shes receptive to them. If the GQP gets their way even that will be gone, because she won't have any options anywa…	/r/MensRights	28/07/22 02:06 PM
7	Why does being a single mother drastically decrease a woman's dating opportunities? Not a woman, but weighing in. Other reasons men avoid dating single mothers include: the perception that single mothers are going to be more quick to demand commitment from the men they date raising children is expensive. Even if you stay together and don't end up paying child support, it's pretty likely that at least some of the costs of raising and caring for the woman's child will fall to you over the course of a long-term relationship. Some men may prefer not to spend their money on other pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 02:45 PM
9	why are people scared of me?? People who think all it takes to be a man is XY chromosomes is exactly why there are so many shitty men. Being a man is harder than just losing the birth lottery.	/r/MensRights	04/04/22 11:22 AM
9	Does anyone else have a mother who's not nice? My mom is a straight up bitch to my step-dad, has been as long as I remember. She's one of those people who's more concerned with her family appearing happy, healthy, and well adjusted than them actually being happy, healthy, or well adjusted. I remember when I was 8 or 9 my grandma was telling me something, and my grandpa gently corrected her with a kind 'no, dear, it was [whatever]' and I was genuinely shocked that grandpa didn't get in trouble for mouthing off.	/r/MensRights	27/02/22 12:30 AM
–	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. I think there's a middle ground between those two positions. In general, I oppose violating bodily autonomy by forcing someone to do something with their body against their will, but I'm willing to make exceptions in the interest of public health, like vaccinations or quarantine measures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 10:15 PM
3	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. "There are men who would not benefit from this in any way, so they should not be forced to do it." I'm not sure what part of that mentioned sperm donors, or what part of it is unclear to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 02:54 PM
-1	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Ok, so we only force this on people who don't want ut moving forward well then that's fine. The point isn't "this would negatively affect me personally" the point is " there are men who would not benefit from this in any way, so they shouldn't be forced to do it"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 02:52 PM
8	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. I think it's a good idea to end paternity fraud. I think it's a bad idea to legally force people to take a DNA test. The compromise, imo, is to routinely offer paternity testing after birth. "Do you want to chop off the tip of your baby's penis? Do you want a vitamin K shot for your baby? Do you want to confirm paternity?" Just make it part of the process that can be skipped if it isn't wanted. I'd rather remove the stigma from a man who wants a DNA test, rather than forcing the government into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/22 02:43 PM
10	Petition to change the legal definition of rape in UK law to include male victims. That's a fair point, and it's definitely not the most pressing men's rights issue of our day, but I won't turn down even a small win. I've never experienced sexual crime, but I imagine it would be challenging for a boy who was victimized to be told 'you were not raped, women can't be rapists' and see how differently male female perpetrators are treated in the media, in sentencing, etc. I just think it would be easier to achieve justice in the future if we can first admit that the situations are …	/r/MensRights	22/08/21 12:36 PM
23	Petition to change the legal definition of rape in UK law to include male victims. It's changing the zeitgeist. If we change the law and tell society that female rapists are committing the same crime as male rapists, we might be able make some headway on the collective bias that men are the criminals and women are the victims by default.	/r/MensRights	22/08/21 11:34 AM
7	I honestly don't see the big deal of men paying for dates. If she and I both work, both have our own careers and money, and want to go to dinner together, why is it my responsibility to pay? The only message I'm receiving from a woman who is expecting me to pay for everything is that she considers her time to be more valuable than my time. We both 'invest' a few hours into a date, but I'm also 'investing' money I worked for (additional time invested by me). I'm a feminist, so I believe men's time and women's time are equally valuable. Don't accept a par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 04:29 AM
10	Boys Aren't "Easier to Raise" Than Girls, You Just Put Less Effort Into Raising Them I only have one kid so far, a son. When the circumcision question came up, my wife assumed yes, but said it would be up to me. I vociferously explained to her that we'd never have considered mutilating our child if it was a girl, so why would we even discuss mutilating our son? After a long, long talk, she's a devout intactivist. She even gives out intact care info to her friends who are expecting. It's awesome to have a partner who values your thoughts and reassesses her position when given new…	/r/MensRights	19/07/21 11:33 AM
1	Do you agree with the core Marxist and Feminist belief in Social Constructivism? That we're mostly the product of nurture and that nature is barely relevant I think nature matters, but I'm in a unique position to see the impact of nurture - I can't father children, so my son is not biologically related to me. He's 3, so he's really started to express his feelings and desires more lately, and it's remarkable how many things he seems to pick up from me. It's interesting because essentially everything he gets from me is 100% nurture.	/r/MensRights	16/06/21 04:34 PM
2	Check out the conclusion she jumped straight to here... I'm confused... you start criticizing the way she spends her own money and she's the bad guy? In what way did she infringe on men's rights?	/r/MensRights	01/06/21 05:31 PM
6	Are you someone who cares about a potential dating partner's politics? I'm married to someone who agrees with my politics in general. I live in a fairly conservative state, so I imagine if I'd spent a few more years single and limiting myself by refusing to date right wing women I'd eventually have caved and just made a point to never discuss politics with my SO. I can't imagine it would have led to viable long-term relationships, though. Your politics are informed by your values, and I think it's important that your values are at least similar to your partner's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 11:54 PM
32	My dad really opened my eyes to the silently negative assumptions made about men that I'd never thought of before. I love kids. Back when I was still religious, my parents church let me run the Sunday school for the 5-10 year olds for a few months until they found an adult to run it. None of the parents were nervous that a 15-16 year old boy was alone with their kids. My wife agreed to watch her friend's 3 year old daughter a few months ago, and she had to handle our own 3 year old for a few minutes. The girl came and sat in my lap, nestled into my shoulder, and was watching Disney+ when her mom showed up. M…	/r/MensRights	18/05/21 01:29 AM
6	Birthing people It's an attempt to include non-binary humans who have given birth, or trans men who have given birth. They may not prefer to be called 'mothers' but people still want to include then. That said, it sounds a little silly. The backlash to it is a bit much. Calling it a mental illness is insulting to people with actual mental illness.	/r/MensRights	10/05/21 11:58 AM
11	CMV: The only reason paternity tests aren't mandatory at birth is because this would benefit men more than women. I think you and I have agreement, but unfortunately there is a vested state interest in allowing a certain amount of paternity fraud. If we reduced paternity fraud to 0%, the state would end up paying for a lot more kids. They'd rather foist that on undeserving men.	/r/MensRights	05/05/21 03:50 AM
5	CMV: The only reason paternity tests aren't mandatory at birth is because this would benefit men more than women. The problem with making the test mandatory is that inevitably there will be a man who can't afford the test, and he's reasobably sure the baby is his, gets stuck paying for this wasteful test. For example, I can't have kids. My wife and I used a donor. If I had to pay even one penny for a doctor to tell me my son isn't related to me biologically, I'd be sorely tempted to injure whoever wrote that law. I support your idea that the doctor is required to offer the test. That is a great compromise f…	/r/MensRights	05/05/21 03:09 AM
12	CMV: The only reason paternity tests aren't mandatory at birth is because this would benefit men more than women. It's not mandatory because a huge majority of pregnancy is not fraudulent, so it would be a huge waste of time, money, and resources. I think it should always be available if either parent wants it, but making it mandatory seems needless and costly.	/r/MensRights	05/05/21 02:20 AM
11	Thoughts on Alimony/Spousal Support? If feminists think the genders are equal, they should oppose alimony. But if you try to take it away? YoU'rE HURtinG wOmEn.	/r/MensRights	22/04/21 06:06 PM
3	Just a check in on all you guys. I'm going to see a doctor for the first time in over a decade. I have concerns about my blood pressure and my cholesterol, and I suspect I may be depressed. It's time to make a positive change after years of just not caring enough about my health to do anything.	/r/MensRights	19/04/21 11:27 PM
139	Amber Heard faces prison time if found guilty of falsifying evidence against Johnny Depp Not for abusing a man, just for abusing the justice system. Not good enough imo	/r/MensRights	14/04/21 01:25 AM
269	Feminism is about equality for both sexes. Equal Pay Day for 2019: March 31, 2020 Equal Workplace Death Day for 2019: March 24, 2032 Which one gets media coverage?	/r/MensRights	06/04/21 05:36 PM
1	'I'm a male feminist' smells a bit fishy to me. 🐺🐑 According to popular dogma, feminism is about gender equality, which is awesome. If that's how you define feminism, I'm a feminist all day long. In practice, feminism is about addressing areas where women are perceived to be at a disadvantage, and making a lot of noise about those issues. Equal Pay Day for 2020 was a few weeks ago. Equal Death Day for 2019 (the day female workplace deaths will add up to male workplace deaths from 2019) is in March of 2032. Which of these do feminists care about?…	/r/MensRights	05/04/21 11:34 AM
1	If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that? Good bot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 11:56 AM
2	If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that? https://www.inc.com/minda-zetlin/marriage-mismatch-husbands-wives-earnings-education-jobs.html https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wsj.com/amp/articles/a-good-man-is-getting-even-harder-to-find-11570200829 https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.forbes.com/sites/larissafaw/2012/12/05/why-are-so-many-professional-millennial-women-unable-to-find-dateable-men/amp/ Some of these articles were written after the 50s, but maybe everyone's wrong but you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 11:55 AM
15	If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that? Convenient that you left out the last piece: 6 figure salary (absolutely not average for dating-age men). Is it omitted because it doesn't fit your narrative? Edit: if men fail to meet these height and penis size standards, what 'work on themselves' can be done? Is there a gym routine that adds height? Does a Mediterranean diet add girth? The problem with these standards is that generally a guy either fits the bill or he doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 11:44 AM
3	Hey everyone, if you don’t mind take the following survey. For one of my classes. A lot of these questions have only 2 options, but neither option is how I feel, so I skipped them.	/r/MensRights	27/03/21 12:19 AM
2	Have u ever told a woman to shave her legs Do I prefer shaved legs? Yes. Am I going to tell my wife to shave her legs? No, I like it when she's not pissed off at me.	/r/MensRights	05/03/21 12:57 PM
1	Tennessee bill would grant biological fathers veto power over abortion Human rights isn't a zero sum game. Allowing women to control their own bodies has no impact on your life. Find some other way to keep your blood pressure high and your dong flaccid.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 07:25 PM
0	Tennessee bill would grant biological fathers veto power over abortion Ok you are belaboring a point I agree with. My reply was to u/LastRounder and I'm not sure if you are misinterpreting me or what but I have no problem with your raccoon analogy.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 04:55 PM
-4	Tennessee bill would grant biological fathers veto power over abortion To clarify, the person I replied to saying women who get abortions are worth less than raccoons is what I was calling foul. Its clear he's got issues.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 04:39 PM
0	Tennessee bill would grant biological fathers veto power over abortion Let's just skip over the whole racoon thing, I'm not in the mood to engage on a topic that foul today. Getting an abortion is not 'escaping consequences' it is one of the ways you can responsibly respond to finding yourself pregnant when you don't want to be pregnant. This isn't the 1800s anymore, we have the ability to choose when we become parents now. If a woman does not want to share her body with a fetus, you have exactly zero say in the matter.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 03:05 PM
17	Tennessee bill would grant biological fathers veto power over abortion Wow so Tennessee wants to give men control over women's bodies? Seems pretty disgusting to me.	/r/MensRights	22/02/21 12:11 AM
38	“Ms. Andry” rides again: Keira Knightley Bans Shooting Sex Scenes for Male Directors So an actress is more comfortable being naked in front of a female director than a male director, and she's made a personal decision about when and on what terms she gets naked? How is this a men's rights issue? I expect downvotes, but this just feels like a reach.	/r/MensRights	26/01/21 01:14 AM
15	Thank you and Question Trans men are men. Welcome, brother.	/r/MensRights	12/12/20 02:47 PM
1	Should men have a say in abortion If the fetus is viable outside the womb it would make more sense to deliver than abort, but I don't believe I have the authority to make that decision and force it on a woman. Also, in virtually all cases late term abortions are due to life threatening circumstances or fetal non-viability. Women who are 9 months pregnant don't just randomly decide to get an abortion like they're getting a pedicure.	/r/MensRights	10/12/20 02:01 AM
0	Should men have a say in abortion Children don't exist in wombs. Prior to birth they're called fetuses, or zygotes depending on development. In any case, the fetus cannot use the woman's body without her consent.	/r/MensRights	10/12/20 01:54 AM
6	Should men have a say in abortion I agree completely, but pointing out that there are situations where men's rights to bodily autonomy get violated does not mean we should also deny women that right. Two wrongs don't make a right. I'm vigorously opposed to infant male circumcision, and educated my wife on the subject prior to the birth of our son, who remains intact until and unless he decides to modify his body in some way. I am not familiar with this but I believe I would generally agree, assuming both parties consent before h…	/r/MensRights	09/12/20 03:12 AM
33	Should men have a say in abortion Men can't have input in an abortion decision. Woman wants abortion, man doesn't - If the man can somehow force a woman to remain pregnant against her will, he's violated her right to bodily autonomy (which is so important to humans that we even respect it after death). Woman wants abortion, man does too - man's input has no effect on the outcome. Woman doesn't want abortion, neither does man - man's input has no effect on the outcome. Woman doesn't want abortion, man does - If the man can someho…	/r/MensRights	09/12/20 01:31 AM
8	How to Convince someone that Men's Issues is a thing? The workplace death gap, the suicide gap, the criminal sentencing gap, the fact that women make up the majority of college graduates, the anti-male bias in family court. In order to deny men's rights issues you have to be intentionally obtuse or deep in a feminist bubble. Or both.	/r/MensRights	02/12/20 01:03 AM
94	This is feminism in Canada. Unmarried Couple has no home, or kids together but still considered spouses, And he has to pay, court rules. $6.4 million over 10 years in spousal support to a woman who refused to sign your prenup and marry you. I wonder if wealthy Canadian men will just stop dating.	/r/MensRights	11/09/20 12:15 PM
3	My Karen of a gf broke my laptop before breaking up with me because I couldn't get a job offer during Covid. Now I can't afford to repair.. Any solution? Sadly yes. I wish you luck in getting this resolved!	/r/MensRights	03/09/20 08:07 PM
9	My Karen of a gf broke my laptop before breaking up with me because I couldn't get a job offer during Covid. Now I can't afford to repair.. Any solution? Small claims court? Unless you were dating a child she should be held accountable to her actions.	/r/MensRights	03/09/20 08:02 PM
3	Has anybody fought or litigated against gender-based price discrimination in prescription drug coverage? Birth control pills are free, pills to treat ED are $500. They aren't directly analogous. My wife has one set of lingere that costs more than all of my Hanes socks and underwear put together, but I don’t think we'll be suing Victorias Secret.	/r/MensRights	29/08/20 02:25 AM
9	Legalized Castration, misandry. Unconstitutional corporal punishment? Bodily autonomy anyone? It feels a little barbaric to me. Before we decided it was inhumane, we cut off the hands of a thief so they couldn't steal anymore. But at some point we decided that was not an acceptable way to punish people. I think this will be viewed similarly when we are dusty history books.	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 05:24 PM
4	Legalized Castration, misandry. Unconstitutional corporal punishment? Bodily autonomy anyone? It's hard to be sympathetic for men convicted of sex crimes with children, but if he's served his time how do they justify continuing to punish him for the rest of his life? Especially in such a private, invasive way. Not to mention they've stated that the chemical castration procedure wouldn't necessarily affect women at all. So we're literally setting up an extra punishment for males only. I certainly wouldn't have signed the bill if it were my desk.	/r/MensRights	26/08/20 05:21 PM
1	The Red Pill I completely agree, but I think the fact that a (former) feminist voice was addressing our platform made the message stronger. I've showed the documentary to people that I know for certain would not have been open to the message if it came from a man.	/r/MensRights	09/08/20 01:53 PM
2	Can you guys give feedback and tell me what I can improve on my speech? (Still a WIP atm) Remove the word 'nowadays' from the speech and your vocabulary in general. It sounds sloppy and distracts from your message and you used it like 3 or 4 times.	/r/MensRights	01/07/20 04:15 PM
3	My mom thinks circumcised men who are upset they were circumcised as infants are “extremists” who want more people to be uncircumcised to make themselves feel better. I'm on your side, but if you argue that point people will point to old research that shows small benefits and you waste time bogging down the conversation.	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 07:47 PM
19	My mom thinks circumcised men who are upset they were circumcised as infants are “extremists” who want more people to be uncircumcised to make themselves feel better. Her premise is flawed. A man can dislike that the decision to circumcise his penis was made without his informed consent without being an 'extremist.' Also, a man can oppose routine infant circumcision without having to be upset about their own penis. It's just a practice that we did for poor reasons that serves minimal benefit and can cause significant harm.	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 07:19 PM
5	Female officers 79% more likely to kill unarmed suspects I had a female officer (significant other of a friend of a friend) attend a house party my wife threw, and somehow we got on the topic of police killing unarmed people. She got right in my face and explained that since I was 9 or 10 inches taller than her and outweigh her by at least 50lbs she couldn't risk using her tazer on me if I was acting aggressively. If I was able to resist the tazer and get to her gun, I could kill her and several civilians before anyone could stop me. To make sure the …	/r/MensRights	08/06/20 12:07 PM
1	BROKEN FOR LIFE \| Why Some of the Strongest Guys Never Bounce Back from a Damaging Breakup Wrong sub?	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/05/20 11:00 AM
-5	Wow Been seeing this online for a decade, friend.	/r/MensRights	15/09/19 11:32 PM