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Sometimes you just need a few simple short sentences to get yourself back on track. Thanks buddy, this was useful in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 04:08 PM
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I've got friends who have high T but are not motivated or successful.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/20 09:30 AM
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It happens. It will click one day. It took me 3 years to get over my most serious relationship. One day enough happened in life for you to stop caring. Just keep doing what you doing.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 03:06 PM
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Thanks dude, I kinda felt the same as you said but I'm socially retarded so I'm here. I've beeing doing things just as you described apart from the attempt earlier today. I don't want to push it so I'll move back on that a bit. After all I'm enjoying time with her without having sex too.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:48 PM
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She is. It's 14 here.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:45 PM
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You probably better forget about social contacts and other people for a while before you sort yourself out. Get hobbies that don't involve other people - cars, photography, fishing, whatever you like. If you have spare money you are lucky as many hobbies cost money to enter. Improve your looks by starting to dress better, grow your hair, start lifting. Replace alcohol with something else like weed if you can't quit alcohol, though it's a bad advice. Until you have your own personality sorted out…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 07:24 AM
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Yeah dude, often I think I'm old and it's getting late as I see some of my friends starting their families. You're spot on with the vibe I'm giving off and it's probably the same beta vibes I've been giving all my life. It's just probably concealed more now as I leave women very quickly now without much issues, while previously in life I'd have oneitis for a while. I dont care as much now, but when I'm still with them I'm trying to get that commitment. That helped man. Not sure how do get rid of…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:40 AM
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Focus on putting yourself in top 10% of men and it will all click eventually.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:28 PM
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If you don't care why are you asking? Just move on, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:02 PM
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Thanks mate, actually useful info to look flat some books
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:02 AM
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I am at 6'1 or 186 cm tall.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:57 AM
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Yeah I live in this city... So no yard in here. I made dumbbells with 2 litre bottles, rubble and water, 3 for about 20kg, that's the best I could get
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:58 PM
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Very nice, you must be quite big. What are you doing for push?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 07:32 PM
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Just to be clear I don't look bad actually, pretty good esp in tight clothes. Just want even more size.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:46 PM
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What's your bodyweight and what weight are you using?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:46 PM
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I have variety, truly so. With pushups I always have legs elevated and I always mix grip - narrow, wide, on fists, triangle, parallel - every set is different grip. And 20kg weight backpack. Pullups I'm always mixing straight, parallel and inside fist grip (chins).
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:45 PM
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How old is she?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 10:47 AM
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I was early 26 when I woke up three years ago. Before waking up I was smoking weed 12 hours a day and playing videogames. I was still at uni and I was nobody. My girlfriend at the time was the only girl I've ever been with. When she left me I had to wake up. I had to realise that the comfortable directionless life I was living was not leading me anywhere. Three years later, I've now changed 4 cities and 3 jobs and finally now I'm finding my feet in career. I've slept with a number of girls, alth…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:24 AM
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I spoke to them a few more times and they seemed more pleasant than most other people. Didn't have problems with chemistry.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:38 PM
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I see where you are coming from. They actually seemed like a nice person to talk to. I think I'm gonna be ok.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:06 PM
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Fuck man... I'm 6'1 and about 200 lbs (lifting) and I never have problems like this... and. I'm not even close to being a fighter. Lift weights.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:33 AM
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Do you have a job?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:27 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 Jesus Christ calm down pussycat, your estrogen levels are over the the top
/r/askTRP19/02/20 12:11 PM
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You can try soy milk it has lots of protein. I get acne from milk so drink it only moderately. But yeah meat is very hard to replace actually so you might as well take the plunge.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:59 AM
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How can random internet strangers know answers to such questions about you? If you aren't 100% confident about doing business you are more likely to fail.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:54 PM
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I didn't workout for a year due to an injury. Took me about 4 months to kinda go back to the similar weights, however I've also gained a lot of fat in that year which doesn't go away so easily. So overall I look worse than before injury. Currently cutting before clean bulk around summer time.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:37 PM
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Depends on the individual in question. For me, I work much better if I come to the office early and focus on my work all day. I prefer 9 to 5 for that reason. I've worked freelance and couldn't bring myself to work consistently, always got distracted. For others, working 9-5 may be a nightmare if they prefer having more freedom and able to focus without distractions.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:34 PM
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Wait until life kicks you in the ass
/r/askTRP04/02/20 06:51 PM
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Do you have v-taper, big arms and shoulders? That's what's visible, your legs play smaller role.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:07 AM
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Ehh I'd probably just move on
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:25 AM
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It depends on how you do it. It's a great indicator of a strong individual if you do these things sincerely without expecting anything back (aside from reputation). But if it's too obvious you are only looking to get extra points you will be perceived as a sneaky rat. Greatest men are givers as much as takers IMHO.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:20 AM
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You will be surprised how quickly it ends... Poof and she is not a unicorn anymore. Then you realise that all the suffering was just overthinking.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:04 AM
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If it feels bad then do lower wait, it's not a race, building a body takes years but with right technique you will see results over a few months. I've had problems with deadlifts when I pulled my back at least twice, second time was horrible, since then I rarely deadlift over 100kg as I just don't need it any more. It's all learning process and no one is gonna give you 100 working advice because they don't know what works for you,
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:38 PM
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And my settings goals I mean say you want to bench 100kg, the best way to increase strength actually depends on you, for me what worked best was aiming for 5x5, I'd warm up progressively until I reached working weight of say 80kg, then do my best to do 5x5 with that weight. If it's done, I increase by 2.5, if not then I will do more lower weight reps to make up for reps I've missed. I'll also do heavy dumbbell bench after that, it hits chest really well. Slowly not surely with moderate eating yo…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:59 PM
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Fair enough mate, all I wanted to say is I've been fucking around in the gym for 3 years before I finally realized I needed to push heavy every workout, my program was shit but at least I just focused on doing the same exercises all the time and pushed myself. I've set results for example I said to myself I can't expect big arms until I bench 100kg, and guess what, I got decent arms when finally reached that weight. So set weight goals and move towards them.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:52 PM
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You aren't lifting enough, that's all. Go look up a program and stop wasting time in the gym.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 03:46 PM
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I couldn't get over my ex (almost 3 years after break up) until I had sex with a hotter girl.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:06 AM
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Yes lonely as fuck
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:41 PM
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I fell in love with this girl I've know for 5 days, I can't believe I'm saying this but I fucked myself up. Thanks for slapping my face, I promised myself not to do ever do this again but did it, I can't believe I've taken the bait, for fucks sake.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:26 PM
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I'm sorry. I'm gonna hit the gym when I finish work although it won't be until midnight, I don't know what went into me, I went full beta with this post.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:22 PM
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Idk man, the beta side gave up in me, I'm sorry
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:21 PM
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Well he has a few articles about it. 'Your friend Menstruation' or smth. I mean I get where you coming from tbh.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 06:07 PM
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But Rollo Tomassi?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:56 PM
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You should hire a prostitute and fuck her if you are a virgin, I don't care if you're gonna have a limp dick and never finish, you have to do it because you've spent too much time in your head
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:58 PM
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Don't take it too literally, its just an example
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:02 PM
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All of this will dissipate when you meet someone better, simple.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:22 AM
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If cooking an odd meal at 31 for you is a personal battle you'll probably need to take some very radical steps to get yourself out there. Move cities. Even countries. Say fuck you to your manager. Do something crazy. Your time is running out.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:17 AM
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Keep looking.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:10 AM
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The best course of action is to always act confident and feel the moment when a kiss is appropriate. This has do be quite natural, however, so may be tricky if you lac experience. If you feel that you do lack experience, do whatever you can and learn from it, next time will be better. And I will also stress that cinema is a bad idea for the first date. You want to get to knew her, and you want to make her find out more about you, cinema doesn't work for that at all.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:05 PM
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It's very hard to make it work. I'm really good looking by Eastern European standards, I just came back home from UK for holidays and had 45 matches on tinder within a week with a range of girls, but I'd say at least 10 were really good looking. I only managed to secure one 19 years old due to bad logistics but I had plenty of options. In the UK? Good if I get 1 match per fortnight, and that will be an ugly, fat entitled single mom. it just doesn't fucking work mate. From what I've gathered, to …
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:10 PM
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Just get a decent amount of followers (around 700) and you're set. I gained 1k in a month 2 years ago and never bothered with it again. I always move to Instagram after matching and having a chat on tinder. I'm a social media manager though so I know how to do it relatively quickly.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:28 PM
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There's a lot of interesting stuff ahead of you that your mom better not see you doing.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 10:46 PM
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Cmon man, Russian men don't take their females shit? How about that in Eastern Europe you will never see a man driving Toyota Yaris, even the filthies of romanians would prefer a 2002 shitbag BMW over a newer but more modest-looking car. It's because their women won't go into Yaris, if you are driving Yaris then you are a poor and boring beta. Women there will not take any shit from men, not the other way around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/19 03:49 PM
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It's not about leaving a mark, although I appreciate your argument. Don't care what's gonna happen in 200 years, I'm here and now, and I would want a kid, I don't know, it's innate. If there's any law at all in force here then it's the law of nature, and nature tells us to reproduce whatever the circumstances.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:58 AM
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You have to ask why are you exactly feeling that fear? Thanks, that is a good question to ask.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:55 AM
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FOMO Bang on the money. How did you learn to not give a fuck? I'm assuming it's a process that starts from a decision, rather than a decision.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 12:47 PM
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The last point you made is valuable (the rest are too). Unfortuantely, I have only met such girl (who didn't care) once but she wasn't for me.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 12:46 PM
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I don't know, I always wanted children. Someone to teach the stuff that I know. Besides, I'm the only one left in my family tree capable of reproducing, so if I don't then our whole family is gone. If I had siblings, maybe it would have been different.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 12:44 PM
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'Ok'
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:26 PM
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Took me 2 years to get over a similar situation at same age. At the beginning you are all over the place and confused. So at the beginning you need to set your mind for some time ahead - ' I shall do this and that in two years'. Then just live your life, only time will heal you. I can tell you that two years later you won't feel even nearly as bad. New places will be seen, new people will be met, new experiences will experienced. You will feel awesome, strong , independent, capable. Good luck, e…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:16 PM
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I'm good looking and tall and that's probably the only reason why I even achieved anything in life because inside I'm a chicken scrub
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:30 PM
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Do you please have examples of such places? Like clubs or social activities?
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:46 AM
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Must be a troll
/r/askTRP16/02/19 04:28 PM
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Because to be a good performer, someone who knows his shit at work, you must have your brain together 95% of the time. Alcohol and drugs prevent you from being so. Weed Kills motivation and melts brain. Alcohol.. well, I've never been an alcoholic, but you've can't really work when you are always hangover. It's a matter of being a grown up person. At 25, I didn't understand it. Now at 28, I do. So it's good you're asking this question.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:44 PM
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I have the same situation. One chick who could be the greatest mother and wife etc. She'd do anything for me. She's 5/10 also but may be 6,5 if maxed out. But problem is that there is something preventing me from attaching. I don't know what it is, smell, genes or whatever. Just feela alien. I feel like I'm gonna regret this eventually.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:16 PM
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Sorry to hear. How severe is your condition? Is it treatable?
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:31 PM
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I guess I worded it wrongly. Why they do it for male and female attention is not in question, it's fairly obvious. What I don't understand is how they find ways to argue their point by claiming that they don't have to feel ashamed of their bodies and they are free to wear whatever they want, and how empowiring it is. I'm really struggling to explain it. How is 'a woman being comfortable with her body' is any different from just that, being comfortable with her body?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:26 AM
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6 Day of no fap at 16, especially if you never did nofap before, is gonna drive you crazy. I had to start fapping more often than once a week because by day 5 the only thing I could think of was sex. Also you're probably exacerbating your agressiveness to a certain extent.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 07:41 PM
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Example of an 'asset'?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:23 PM
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That is a good advice
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:49 PM
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I'm waiting for when older generations slowly go away and the oldest one are millennialls (perhaps younger gen X too). Younger than them will be the Gen Z, and the youngest the children of Millennials. This will be a shit show of a unversal scale. I feel like this is when the next major war will happen.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 07:21 PM
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Did the same last month. Not bad at all. From distance you see that everything you've valued so much in the old place isn't exactly what you imagined it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 05:06 PM
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Also it heavy depends on the environment you are in. You may be total alpha in your department but a beta compared to your company's managing director. Increasing your SMV in one environment generally increases your status in other environments. Increasing SMV in multiple environments increases your status across even more environments.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:19 AM
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What a great comment, fantastic work
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 04:15 PM
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Asking where's McDonalds in 2018 when that info is 2 taps away on your smartphone... Even if you say your phone's dead you look like an incel who can't live without mcdonalds.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:19 AM
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Don't worry bro, you can get out. I used to watch it since 15 and until a year ago (26 years old) and then something just snapped and I stopped watching it altogether. After a year I now have much lower standards for women and really don't miss it at all. It's hard at first but you can do it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:18 PM
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