dmttao Archive

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1	CMV, Relationships aren't as difficult as so many people make them out to be. Agree, they are not that difficult. Requires self awareness and self exploration however, and many are unwilling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 02:08 PM
1	Do men lie about their physical preferences in women? In my experience, you don’t need to worry about what people say because it’s completely obvious how people feel and what they’re truly attracted to by their behaviour. Forget words, you know if they’re into you and your body or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 02:05 PM
1	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter Honestly, I was highly suspicious on men dating much younger women (23yo and younger) - until I unexpectedly/unwittingly connected with young men when I was in my 30s. Not saying age gaps are nothing to worry about — the suspicion is probably functional and it’s good to be protective of vulnerable people and keep an eye out. But I was surprised to find as a woman in her 30s that I could be attracted to much younger men. Bit disturbing at first and certainly something I was hesitant about, but it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 02:00 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men I don’t disagree with this, and I think part of it is that a certain percentage of women lack self awareness about what they want, for one reason or another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 01:41 PM
2	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men I have a question springing from this. Okay, so if true - ie women are dishonest with themselves/others about the importance of looks etc. Does this in your view apply equally the other way around. Am I living in denial how vastly important looks of a woman are for men? (Obviously I am aware they’re very important and a lot of guys will only care about that). But is it even worse than I’m thinking, is that what you’re trying say here? And, I also want to ask - what are the importance of a woman’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:28 AM
1	What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker? By the way, average girls out here deluding themselves and promoting the hype that they’re getting mad attention fyi. I’ve been a girl, I’ve been young. I’ve developed enough as a person to be able to look back and cringe at certain dumb things I did like bring up stories about how “omg, these guys did THIS to me when I was just MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS wow I’m telling you this story because I am so angry about how I can’t walk around without getting UNWANTED SEXUAL ATTENTION but actually, after …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:52 AM
1	What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker? By the way, average girls out here deluding themselves and promoting the hype that they’re getting mad attention fyi. I’ve been a girl, I’ve been young. I’ve developed enough a person to be able to look back and cringe at certain dumb things I did like bring up stories about how “omg, these guys did THIS to me when I was just MINDING MY OWN BUSINESS wow I’m telling you this story because I am so angry about how I can’t walk around without getting UNWANTED SEXUAL ATTENTION but actually, after som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:50 AM
0	What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker? Were you aware that sometimes things exist in other places and contexts on this planet that you occupy approximately 1 squillionth of? I’ve got a close friend with close to modelesque looks, who got rejected left right and centre by completely wholesome invitations to hang out. It was inexplicable, took on a life of its own. Didn’t lose her virginity until she was in her late 20s, to a married man. She has genuinely worked on herself, tried and tried again with guys, lowered her standards etc an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:28 AM
1	What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker? There is nothing wrong with having sex at one time and not another, or not having sex with another person, ever. It is not a requirement. There is no rule. A bunch of horny insecure kids have been spreading this pathetic idea around for probably millenia to make themselves feel better about being the type of loser who’s only conceivable sense of self worth comes from conspicuous displays of their sexual “sUcCeSS”	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:14 AM
1	Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety. No offense to my gender (I’m a girl), but why the fuck would you care what some girl thinks? It is a thought - a tiny, fleeting appearance, that looks like a collection of letters, in the average mind of one of the billions of average human beings that has ever lived and will soon be dead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:02 AM
1	What do you think is the reason for promiscuity being a better predictor of infidelity in men than in women? Why do you believe that so firmly? Is this based on the hypergamy theory? I’m not so sure. There seem to be many possible contributing factors when it comes to motivations behind infidelity. A friend of a friend is one step away from cheating on her doting husband who is a great father, and a doctor. Honestly, she’s overweight, posts annoying feminist memes on social media and seems to feel entitled to something more. He’s substantially better looking than her as well. She has no career or skill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 09:10 PM
1	What do you think is the reason for promiscuity being a better predictor of infidelity in men than in women? Of course not in every way. You know that’s not what I meant. Are you in a happy long term relationship right now? If so, what kinds of best parts do you remember about your past relationships? In how much detail? How long ago were these? Please be specific as you can :) I don’t agree that a relationship must have sucked because there isn’t anything you miss about your ex. I’m not talking about little things here. I’m talking specifically things that are SIGNIFICANT in the sense that they were s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 08:49 PM
1	What do you think is the reason for promiscuity being a better predictor of infidelity in men than in women? Sure, can you explain what the benefit of this hypothetical is for people though? Why is it important or meaningful to remember that there is a small but hypothetical possibility of your wife making a deeply pathological and irrational decision such as this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 08:31 PM
1	What do you think is the reason for promiscuity being a better predictor of infidelity in men than in women? If you’re high n and still so enticed by good puss or good dick for its own sake, you haven’t had enough of the good stuff, or learned as much as you could from your sexual experiments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 08:24 PM
1	What do you think is the reason for promiscuity being a better predictor of infidelity in men than in women? I do not think that’s very likely at all (maybe the odd exception) actually. That many women can be securely attached to somebody they love and are invested in, but then come across someone who is appears so much “better” on paper and surface level that suddenly the person they were happy with, is dissatisfying. I fucking love cheese okay. Its my fave thing, my old trusty and my comfort food. I eat it basically every day and it always satisfies. If I go to some fancy fine dining restaurant and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:36 PM
1	What do you think is the reason for promiscuity being a better predictor of infidelity in men than in women? I don’t know why guys worry about this, because it seems logically impossible for me. As in, a necessary element of me being ABLE to fall in love again with a new person, is that my brain/heart/soul/mind/eyes have already ran all the possible calculations, subconsciously weighted all the variables, and determined that this new person eclipses the last. This is just one data point obviously, and I know there are plenty of people desperate and undeveloped enough to delude themselves into things th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:15 PM
0	A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give? FACT. Shit… I did read Sartre in my late teens, now I’m wondering to what extent long forgotten books inform our understanding of the world:) Thanks for reminding me, looking up some quotes now to fresh my memory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 12:36 PM
16	A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give? I think the more important question here is, does the 30 year old virgin guy even really care about women and relationships at this point? Because, the situation you’ve described doesn’t really reflect a strong value for friendships and interacting with other people. If a person is really not that interested in other people and is more of a lone wolf, that’s okay. Not every human needs to have a long term partner and/or kids to have a content enough life. Two of my uncles are total loners, never…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 09:03 PM
1	Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men. Yeah I’d love to hear them :) I’m not situated on one side or the other, my initial assumption would be that it’s pretty similar regardless of gender. But curious to hear your thoughts?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:39 PM
1	Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men. Salient in what way? Which variables - probability of future infidelity? And if your theory were correct, what would account for this difference? Are you suggesting that it’s common for men to be very promiscuous and motivated by casual sex / increasing their body count, but that at some point they grow out of it completely, and wouldn’t be tempted or drawn to extramarital sex anymore? The only way I can see it being more salient is in the sense that a man with a promiscuous past who is now sett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 06:58 PM
2	Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphia But our fathers, grandfathers, great grandfathers spent the last few decades obsessing over one very particular part of sex and women - physical beauty. They literally saturated our society and culture with it, promoted that as basically the one and only value, or at least the very best thing about sex with women by FAR. Not so much as a whisper of any point to sex beyond that and maybe having a baby at some point. By many mens own admission, the visual element, the way sex LOOKS and of course t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 01:27 AM
0	Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men. Not one of these studies demonstrates that female promiscuity is a stronger predictor of future infidelity than it is in men. Variance explained by the model is not the same as the magnitude of the coefficient. An R squared twice the size cannot be interpreted as “promiscuous women are more likely to cheat than promiscuous men”. Think straight for a moment - surely you aren’t trying to argue that promiscuous men are….. less likely to be unfaithful in the future? Half as likely in fact? Think abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 12:59 AM