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Ha! I would probably never say those in real life, but bold isn't bad.
/r/seduction19/02/14 03:06 AM
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Manson would be proud. My only improvement is that you mention she kissed you, which indicates to me that you probably could have kissed her much earlier.
/r/seduction19/02/14 02:46 AM
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"Nice melons" "Nice cans" "Nice buns" Need I go on?
/r/seduction19/02/14 01:31 AM
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This is all so.. saccharine. I'm honestly confused. You're using PUA terminology, but there's nothing bold here. There's no abundance mentality. Have you read the sidebar? Models? What you call "semi-safe", I'm sure a lot of people here would call "AFC". You got the kiss (I think?) which is great, and it worked for you, so congrats there. It seems like you really like this girl, so again, congrats. This just isn't the sort of FR I would recommend novices read.
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:53 AM
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To be fair, he did say sometimes. As with literally all advice in this sub, it's highly context-dependent.
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:06 AM
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Do you have public transportation? A bike? Are you overcommitted on weekends or could you have your parents drop you off so you can explore the city? The main point is to put yourself in new situations where you can test your comfort zone and meet girls. Think city parks, shopping centres, malls, wherever girls hang out in your town or city. Hell, if you can't go where the girls are, throw parties and bring them to you. If you can't do that (or really even if you can), I have another exercise fo…
/r/seduction18/02/14 11:59 PM
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Excellent. Concise and to the point. You really played this one well.
/r/seduction18/02/14 09:32 PM
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If this is actually something you believe, you should do your reading before you post here again. Check out the sidebar and work on yourself. You still have some very unhealthy opinions about women.
/r/seduction18/02/14 07:42 PM
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I can't see this going over well.
/r/seduction18/02/14 07:40 PM
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Well, up to that point all they've consented to is whatever they've consented to, and have probably been flipping back and forth with regards to whether or not they'll actually go all the way. More info on context would be helpful, but generally the idea with strong LMR like this is to back off completely and suggest watching a movie or something, then work your way back up when she realizes that she actually wants it. And if she doesn't come around, you just have to take the hit.
/r/seduction18/02/14 07:01 PM
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I think you read mine wrong. I'm agreeing with you.
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:54 PM
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My intuition is that you're either valuing these girls too highly and supplicating as /u/HappyJerk said, or these girls are confused because that drunken hookup put you into a very specific category in their mind: somebody they hook up with drunkenly. If you actually like a girl, moving too quickly can give her the impression that you just wanted a little fun, and by asking her out to something less suggestive you're moving trying to re-draw the boundaries, so to speak.
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:49 PM
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I suppose if it's not true to your personality, that's fine for you. There's a difference between cocky funny and being an ingenuine asshole. I was running cocky funny before I even knew what seduction was, and I know I'm not a douchebag. Unless of course, your definition of "douchebag" is a value-giver who knows what he wants in this world and will do what it takes to get it, short of compromising his integrity or disrespecting other people. As an old FWB of mine told me (and still does to this…
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:43 PM
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I agree with this one. It's a dick move to turn the pressure up in that kind of situation, and trying to break through will, at best, communicate that you're not the kind of guy it's safe to stay around. Best to change the subject as recommended here, and then work your way back up the escalation ladder. There are some kinds of LMR it's safe to push through ("I don't normally do this", "my friends are probably worried about me", "I have work in the morning"), and some like this one where you jus…
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:38 PM
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It's just basic cocky-funny. Have you read the sidebar?
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:28 PM
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I'd recommend you slow down with the emotional thing a bit, if you can – remember abundance mentality. Getting too attached too soon can definitely scare a girl off. Play it cool, and just go with whatever seems natural. Continue to pursue sex but don't make it a confrontation. You're more than likely overthinking this, but that's something you'll learn to monitor as you gain more experience. I'd advise you to just respect whatever boundaries she's setting, but try to escalate physically. If you…
/r/seduction18/02/14 02:50 PM
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As you indicated, the main point with Tinder is to set yourself apart, since these girls are probably getting at least five matches every time they open the app. Be playful and seek to polarize quickly. The good news is, if you live in a decently populated area, Tinder is lesson in abundance mentality. Err on the side of being more bold, try things you normally wouldn't. And by all means, seek to transition to texting as soon as possible. I once matched a girl who was holding a chicken in her ma…
/r/seduction18/02/14 02:42 PM
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You give the impression here that you're primarily interested in her for sex, and if you're giving her that impression as well, it's likely very off-putting for her. If that impression is congruent with what your actual intentions are, tell her so. If it's not, make sure she knows that. Other reasons could be that she's just not that attracted to you, that those "excuses" were true, or another whole host of issues that have nothing to do with you. Either way, don't sweat it. If she's interested …
/r/seduction18/02/14 02:24 PM
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If you've field-tested this and had success, props to you, I guess, but this is not something I'd use myself. I suppose it could be funny if delivered properly, but I don't think "lol yeah my hand" would give a woman the impression that you're a high-value male. By all means you should be yourself, and sure, self-deprecation can be useful in the right context, but don't debase yourself to this extent.
/r/seduction18/02/14 02:09 PM
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I absolutely love that you're asking this out of boredom and not looking for some magical one-liner to mindfuck women into loving you. A couple I've tried out: "Not today." "A few, but I could always use another." Or, as some others have said, you can always just play it straight up sometimes.
/r/seduction18/02/14 02:03 PM
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First of all, welcome! You'll find this place isn't nearly so manipulative or sketchy as you think it is right now. We're just a group of men – and some women – dedicated to improving ourselves and our interactions with a particular type of human we cherish: attractive women. You'll find that your success with women, if that is what you seek, is almost entirely dependent on how well you play the numbers game and learn from the many, many mistakes you'll inevitably make on the way. Each mistake w…
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:54 AM
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First off, consider moving this to /r/askSeddit, as it is about a specific girl. It seems like you've done okay. I wouldn't text her for reasons other than logistics. Wait until Wednesday like she said and then try to nail something down, but don't be surprised if she flakes. If she does it's not your fault, it's just hard to generate investment over the internet. Do you have a car or access to public transportation? If so, I suggest taking some time on weekends or afternoons to work on day game…
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:38 AM
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Do you have a link or reference for when Mystery said that? I think that's very applicable to a similar problem I'm having.
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:11 AM
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I'll let the mods take care of this one.
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:02 AM
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You're one of my favorite figures on this sub, because I like that you hold to your personal convictions, even if I don't always agree with them. I think there is a certain cohort of women who are almost never approached. This is the dumpy-looking girl in the back of that three set, who you only engaged (even if you were being genuine about it) because you wanted to get in on her hot friend. This is the girl who tells your wing you're cute, but you still walk away from. These girls aren't even a…
/r/seduction17/02/14 04:27 PM
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I think this might be a bit more extreme than OP is looking for. Certainly, if OPs friends don't respect him right now or enable the behaviors he's trying to change, then he'd be doing himself a favor to withdraw completely. But if they're actually really good friends and aren't holding him back at all, he'd do well to keep them around through the process.
/r/seduction17/02/14 04:23 PM
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Anything you wish you'd known back then that you might share?
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:39 AM
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I'm sorry something in my post seems to have offended you, but I won't apologize for asking for advice in a place where you're supposed to ask for and provide advice. It sounds like you might still be working through some insecurity issues. Yeah, some people can't close, yet. It sounds like you may be one of them, and that's okay. That used to be me. That used to be a lot of us. If you want advice on how to close, you can ask about it. That's why this sub is here! But that doesn't mean nobody wh…
/r/seduction16/02/14 04:14 AM
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Great first step! Now do it the first time they catch your eye. Eventually you'll be doing it every time.
/r/seduction16/02/14 03:28 AM
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Sounds like you're at least able to isolate and bounce to other venues, which is more than I can say! If you're trying to get into longer term stuff though, the comment above about being "club guy" is worth a read. We're perceived through our actions, and I think most of the time an SNL gives the impression that you were looking for a one-night thing.
/r/seduction16/02/14 03:24 AM
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Haha, I'm not sure I see how this is necessarily relevant to my original post, but I won't deny the importance of kino. Perhaps better escalation could help me push through the wall towards getting SNLs. I'm curious: having read your post history, I see a little really good advice and a lot of advice that seems to totally ignore context. Are you trolling or are you actually that bold in the field?
/r/seduction15/02/14 11:59 PM
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Just re-read those pages. I swear, I should read this book every month or something. I think I'll skim all the relevant passages while I'm getting ready tonight.
/r/seduction15/02/14 11:38 PM
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That's very interesting – I certainly hadn't thought that an immediate k-close sends a different message than a long conversation about whether I might be a good candidate for a day two or beyond. I'm definitely going out tonight and I'll keep all of this in mind, and before I start moving my feet I'll ask myself "based on how this set is going, what do I want from this girl?", and if it's anything more than what I've already accomplished in the set, I'll stick around a bit longer.
/r/seduction15/02/14 11:11 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who's fallen into this particular bad habit. It's funny you should mention reentering later. Last night I actually bumped into a girl I'd built some quick rapport with, # and k-closed an hour before; she and her friends were entering as I was leaving. I gave her a big smile but didn't think to go open her up again :/ The other thing I'm concerned about is extending the conversation. I'm sure I could figure it out in the field, but I usually find out where they're fr…
/r/seduction15/02/14 11:07 PM
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