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Fundamentals dnavi/r/seduction23/12/24 03:52 AM
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37

no recovering after that lmao. Move on to the next
/r/seduction21/10/25 03:14 AM
6

Are you sure she didn't delete her account? Or maybe she unmatched you because she doesn't want to get revenge reported for some odd reason.
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:40 PM
1

Agreed. Crazy bitch pussy is NOT worth it
/r/seduction30/08/25 04:40 AM
1

What is boyfriend traits and how is it different from fuckboy traits?
/r/seduction27/08/25 08:13 PM
1

You simply have to distract yourself with something else. A productive hobby or working towards your goals. Another woman would even suffice since she made it clear she doesn't want you lmao.
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:39 PM
2

There are 5 billion women in the world I can guarantee you that she's not the one.
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:15 PM
2

Yeah I learned the hard way that it’s always better to keep fishing than to put all your peas into one pod early into dating.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:08 AM
1

There's a difference between being seen with women vs just having a ring signifying you're exclusive with a woman as a form of pre selection.
/r/seduction20/05/25 03:30 AM
9

Wearing a ring as an accessory piece that has some history behind it? Sure. Wearing a ring on your ring finger and assuming it makss you more attractive due to pre-selection? Probably not.
/r/seduction19/05/25 09:54 PM
43

Not really. I noticed as I got older i only got more attractive to younger women and older women alike.
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:23 AM
-1

Send her a dick pic. She'll know what's up 😌
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:21 AM
1

I just ask them if they wanna go for a walk and then I look on the alltrails app for walking trails/parks near me.
/r/seduction04/04/25 09:06 PM
2

If she doesn't respond well to intimacy especially after 3 dates then it's probably time to call it quits and move on. She's either still recovering from something, not sure what she wants, or using you as a meal ticket.
/r/seduction24/03/25 05:52 PM
44

Bro move on and stand on business. It's embarrassing for me to see another guy chase a chick who already rejected them. They love having guys fawn over them but rarely does a guy ACTUALLY move on. Make them regret rejecting you by never thinking about them again and moving on in your life.
/r/seduction05/03/25 08:00 AM
60

If I was a girl I'd want to be introduced to their friend group and family. If you're really just a hookup then you'd probably never make it to this stage and honestly you'd learn a lot about them from just seeing the type of company they keep.
/r/seduction03/03/25 02:58 AM
1

It's only going to leave you wanting more at the end of the day and if she's not providing you with what you want... 🥾
/r/seduction27/02/25 01:38 AM
1

I'd leave her. If she's indecisive then that can only mean she's either too busy for you or she has plans with someone more important... if you get what I mean lol. It's too much effort for such little reward with these type of chicks.
/r/seduction26/02/25 09:09 PM
1

Don't chase her and wait for her to respond with something. Although if you guys have been talking for a while and haven't planned a date ... maybe she's waiting for you to ask her out.
/r/seduction26/02/25 07:59 PM
16

facts. my ex was a "devout" catholic and once we were alone in a bedroom she pulled out a shit ton of lingerie and toys. She was insane in both ways and was really into roleplay. I genuinely didn't realize she had that side to her lmao.
/r/seduction26/02/25 05:45 AM
1

Reading your other post, it sounds like she just wants to use you as a fuck buddy lol. There's nothing you can really do to make her feel the same way you feel about her. Honestly, I would be concerned if you're the only guy she's talking to since clearly she's not interested in pursuing anything further with you and is able to go 10 days no contact. My advice is to keep her around as a fuck buddy but if you want something meaningful then leave her and find someone else. I would not chase a woma…
/r/seduction26/02/25 05:41 AM
3

If you ultimately want one thing and they don't want that then I think it's best for both of you to move on and find someone else. Otherwise this is just a waste of time for ya both.
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:50 AM
1

3 except for the hookers part. STIs ain't no joke and even when using a condom there's a chance to get something. Save/invest until you can afford a home.
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:07 PM
2

Bars probably aren't the best place to pick up long term relationships... in fact I think it's the cliche spot for picking up a one night stand.
/r/seduction23/02/25 10:36 PM
1

Leave her and don't take any excuse she has as reconciliation. You deserve much better.
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:48 PM
1

You need to get out and do more dates and be around more women platonically. Once you realize they're just as lustful as dudes it gets easy.
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:39 PM
1

You gotta be selective and use the pause feature.
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:33 PM
1

It's a habit that rises out of not having options. You gotta open yourself up more and have them available until you get exclusive. It's all fair game until y'all decide to have that talk. That or just being preoccupied with your time with other stuff that forces you to worry less about her lol.
/r/seduction18/02/25 10:12 AM
1

Next time try to practice not being so needy. I made the same mistakes when I first started dating. When she first brought up about distancing herself from you I would've told her that it's okay to walk away from me, you should not stay around asking questions and seeking closure because at that point it's over from her perspective.
/r/seduction18/02/25 10:03 AM
1

Get your life together first. Women will naturally fall into place.
/r/seduction09/02/25 06:54 PM
1

Move on but don't block her. She's there for booty calls haha
/r/seduction06/02/25 06:49 PM
2

Why would you not just put your height on your profile in the first place?
/r/seduction27/01/25 01:37 AM
1

I find this highly unlikely since you wouldn't willingly hang out with someone for 7+ hrs.
/r/seduction25/01/25 11:19 PM
1

Exaggerating is fine but straight up lying is kinda deceiving. I never tell them something I'm not because if the truth did come out I'd imagine them putting me on blast on social media and tarnishing my reputation lol.
/r/seduction19/01/25 06:04 AM
1

You're friend zoned and you don't even know it.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:46 AM
1

If it's a cheap coffee date then yeah I'll pay. I don't do dinner date first dates since I don't know if I'd like their company while enjoying food yet. If it's an activity like bowling I'll usually pay but say that they're buying food after or something and they're cool with that. If they like you then there shouldn't be a problem with splitting costs fairly. If she doesn't wanna meet after that initial investment then i just move on. Gotta keep dates cheap for this reason.
/r/seduction08/01/25 06:08 PM
1

Arrange a small date in person (coffee and a walk works) and just tell her exactly this. You won't know what she thinks about it if you don't ask her.
/r/seduction07/01/25 01:31 AM
1

Don't stick around and be an option for her. Move on with your life. It could be for so many different reasons besides you
/r/seduction05/01/25 03:13 AM
9

do NOT flirt with someone at the office unless you're leaving the place or for sure getting married to them.
/r/seduction03/01/25 04:34 AM
15

Was she 6'4 if so give me the location because I need her
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:28 AM
7

It's only been 6 hours. I'd give it a day. But you should've definitely taken the hint and said yeah. Be straightforward sometimes
/r/seduction01/01/25 08:13 AM
1

Any public setting works. Grocery stores, parks, gym, college (if you go there). Just got a shoot ur shot and not think about it too much.
/r/seduction01/01/25 07:41 AM
1

dating is a numbers game as much as it is a matter of compatibility and attractiveness.
/r/seduction01/01/25 01:48 AM
1

It helps to have an idea of what you're gonna say. Introduce yourself with an ice breaker (silly pick up lines) or a compliment about something they're wearing. Exchange names, reasons for being in the area you're in, and what their plans are. Just make sure you ask questions that could get her to open up about who she is. Go in for a handshake if you want lol. Once you get a basic idea of who she is and you like her, then ask for her number or social media and see if she's be interested in a da…
/r/seduction31/12/24 10:33 PM
0

You have to approach a girl. It's literally the only way to get the ball rolling. It's weird at first but once you get used to it you probably can't stop.
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:41 PM
95

Are you leading her on into a relationship or...? If she expects a relationship and you aren't willing to go through with it then it's pretty clear that you need to stop communicating with her otherwise you're just a dick lol. The only way you'd know if she's okay with being a casual thing is by asking and being certain about how she feels.
/r/seduction31/12/24 04:22 AM
7

That's an insanely good line... probably not the best first date line though but a solid line lol.
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:31 PM
1

Yeah I'm not discrediting it at all lol. If it works it works and it helps check all the boxes for what you want.
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:23 AM
4

If you like her ask her out to do literally anything. If she wants to hang out with you then she'll wanna go. If not then you now know for certain she's not into you.
/r/seduction29/12/24 07:08 AM
13

brother got a 15 step plan for pussy
/r/seduction29/12/24 04:50 AM
7

Unfortunately for it to not sound like an interview she has to engage with what you're asking and ask you something back. If your questions aren't open-ended then you should be doing that instead to let her open up more. Silence is powerful so don't speak for her if she's not talking, let her do some thinking. If she doesn't respond with anything or if they're very one dimensional responses then it just means she's not interested in you.
/r/seduction28/12/24 09:56 PM
2

If you offer a time and they say they aren't free and don't offer another time, then they just aren't into you. Stop giving them attention and focus your efforts somewhere else.
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:26 PM
10

a face care routine I think is a powerful tool. Using a cleanser, am and pm moisturizer, and maybe some type of retinol if you need it can set you apart. Guys can also use female makeup to hide blemishes but to be honest not many girls care for that and kinda expect a dude to look a little rough or have a complex face.
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:06 AM
1

That advice about changing it up by telling a joke and your example is very helpful. I guess I just am just unsure whether I should push boundaries with these people I barely know.
/r/seduction23/12/24 09:54 AM
10

Yeah it's pretty fun to use when on a casual walk especially when there's some tension.
/r/seduction23/12/24 08:19 AM
64

One of my favorite routines I actually stole from a girl I was seeing. We were talking and walking along a path and stopped under a tree to admire the view. She looked up at the tree and asked me if I know what type of leaves these are. I said it looks like some random leaf. She then "corrected" me and said that it's actually a mistletoe (it wasn't).
/r/seduction23/12/24 03:56 AM
3

Was this a sort of business card?
/r/seduction06/12/24 06:23 AM
5

First hangout? Get coffee. Your coffee date can always transition into going over to their place. NEVER plan to meet at someone's house as a first date unless you're okay with having your kidneys harvested or know them through a mutual friend.
/r/seduction02/12/24 05:39 AM
1

The more you do it the easier it becomes. It gets addicting until you finally decide to settle down.
/r/seduction21/11/24 12:15 AM
4

I just leave it alone on good terms and not push further. Something like "oh okay that's cool". I don't try to burn bridges if it's not necessary. A lot more fish in the sea.
/r/seduction20/11/24 07:05 PM
71

If you're upfront about wanting a one night stand then it's just a one night stand. If you go have sex with the promise of a relationship but only have a one night stand then you're kinda a manipulator
/r/seduction13/11/24 03:34 AM
1

You can always message on IG. Imo, there isn't anything special about getting a number anymore with how many options we got for messaging.
/r/seduction07/11/24 05:18 AM
8

i didn't realize that it wasn't obvious enough but never date or try to get with a cheater because they'll do it again.
/r/seduction02/11/24 05:15 PM
5

The average chick is 5'4 so if you're taller than that, there's no need for insoles. If she values height above everything else you could possibly offer, she's shallow and not worth the effort.
/r/seduction21/10/24 03:33 AM
6

There's no way to know for sure if dating apps suck for you if you don't use it.
/r/seduction16/10/24 07:15 PM
10

How did you approach your gym crush without coming off creepy? I've always assumed it's like the worst place to hit on women since gyms are kinda where you work on improving yourself and wear revealing clothing.
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:39 AM
5

Ofc if you want to be friends you can be friends but don't go into it with the expectations that she'll wanna fuck you lol. It's good to have platonic female friends that'll wingwoman for you but those types of women are far and few between and either way your effort is better spent talking to other women, not a chick who rejected you if your goal is a relationship/fucking. In my experience, a woman who friend zones you is just afraid of conflict and directly saying they don't want anything to d…
/r/seduction09/10/24 03:09 PM
8

If she starts threatening you to stay with her and you want nothing to do with her then there's really nothing else you can do besides move on. Although, breaking up with someone just because they were promiscuous when they were younger is kinda silly... especially if they've changed and committed to you. I don't think you'd be able to find many women out there at your age who didn't have a promiscuous time when they were younger since that's definitely the time to do it.
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:15 AM
2

If it's a class at the gym then I think it's probably easier and socially acceptable to approach since it's a common activity to break the ice, such as some cardio or yoga class. Otherwise, best to use the gym as a place to work out and not flirt, unless she approaches you first or gives a sign such as staring at you and not looking away.
/r/seduction06/10/24 03:06 AM
125

Yeah I definitely wouldn't date if I didn't have enough money to support myself getting a coffee lol. Get your priorities straight. Also, there's no reason to spend maybe more than 20 bucks on a first date if the girl really likes you.
/r/seduction05/10/24 03:32 PM
27

I think you need therapy lmao. The world doesn't bend to your whim and neither will women.
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:33 AM
1

If she wants to be friends it's over and move on. Unless you're absolutely okay with being ONLY friends then you can proceed, but I would never make anyone I had a romantic interest in my friend. It only makes things messy in the long term. It's worth considering though if she actually wants to be friends and not just another follower on Instagram. She basically preselected you and could potentially put you onto her friends and you can expand your network.
/r/seduction01/10/24 10:14 PM
1

Seems cringe but if she's into cringe shit then sure
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:57 PM
2

Keep chatting to a minimum. Send maybe 2-3 messages max per day. If you haven't met before, try to build rapport by asking about what she's into (music, hobbies, goals). You want the date to be the event when you're both talking the most and making moves. If she's actually into you, she'll make it easy and respond back AND ask questions about you. If not, she won't and you have to leave her behind and move onto the next one.
/r/seduction11/09/24 11:00 PM
3

Bros before hoes
/r/seduction05/09/24 12:01 AM
13

You're expecting a sugar baby to be exclusive for you yeah good luck 😂😂😂
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:30 AM
1

What do you mean by make assumptions? Like instead of asking for their favorite color, say something like "I think you like the color green"?
/r/seduction22/08/24 08:50 AM
2

Literally just had this happen to me. Don't get too hung up on it you have to move on and leave them behind. Stand on your principles and don't double text just leave it. A relationship should depend on just one sided communication... if they wanted to they would as they say.
/r/seduction19/08/24 08:03 PM
1

wym optimized for dating?
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:45 PM
1

Really? I've been mostly exchanging social media and haven't really had any issues with keeping attention. You can sorta tell if a chick is interested in you or not regardless of the messaging platform imo. If you don't have iMessage does what you're saying still apply?
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:44 PM
0

But what's the difference between getting their # vs their IG? They're both good ways to communicate imo.
/r/seduction16/08/24 07:20 AM
1

it helps if they're prescription strength so you can see at the very least
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:01 PM
5

I usually just ask at the end of a date if they wanted to kiss. 9/10 they do.
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:15 AM
6

What do you mean by non verbal behaviors? Like squeezing during a hug or...?
/r/seduction11/08/24 02:42 AM
2

just be upfront about being a bad texter when you first start talking.
/r/seduction10/08/24 12:27 AM
-1

Not really. It's normal for it to take 1-3 days for someone to respond if they're an adult and you're not someone who is a close friend or a family member in their lives. Have you tried scheduling a date? It looks like she was trying to hangout early on but now since you shot her down it's your turn to suggest a date or hangout. If they don't respond or don't want to then you should move on. There are plenty of other fish :)
/r/seduction01/08/24 06:29 AM
-2

If she's still responding within a 24 hr period then you've still got her. Try to organize a date and get her in person. I've had times when I've denied coming over to someone's house before a date and still managed to score later on, likewise the opposite has happened.
/r/seduction01/08/24 06:17 AM
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