dnd3edm1 Archive

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1	A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why? there's still a lot of shame in certain circles around being a promiscuous woman. women love sex with attractive partners at least as much as men and have a ton of men to choose from. so they just have sex and lie about it. it's not really anybody's business anyway. attractiveness conventions are also a factor. women who are not conventionally attractive are definitely on reddit complaining. women who are are doing whatever they want.	/r/seduction	04/03/26 10:34 AM
1	A lot of guys don’t make it to the second date… but why? Wish I could just like a woman without all these mind games, shit tests, and assumptions.	/r/seduction	04/03/26 10:32 AM
5	I'm devastated and hopeless as far as I'm concerned, the internet is the biggest disruption to hetero dating possibly in all human history, barring crap like wars and disasters. the internet gave people this idea that they can... just find people to date. anywhere. all over. it gives us the hottest human beings on earth with a few clicks. and it's affected everyone's standards. people have gotten more isolated as a result of having so many tools and distractions available in the home. the internet lets people have many, ma…	/r/seduction	04/12/25 08:56 AM
0	At what point can you confess your feelings to a girl you've been hooking up with? The best time to state your intentions is at the end of the first date. The second best time is right now, or on your next date. Rejected? Good, go find someone who also likes what you're selling. The longer you wait, the more likely you will encounter the resistance of her expectations, developed after the relationship is established. By stating your intentions immediately, you are setting the pace and demonstrating you are in control, and women love that. By waffling and failing to state what …	/r/seduction	18/11/25 01:42 PM
3	FWB but I’m confused on where it’s going… if you like him as a friend, he deserves to hear how exactly he's hurting you in detail and given advice on how to stop hurting you. and if he doesn't respond accordingly you deserve to leave so you can feel better again.	/r/seduction	17/11/25 07:17 AM
3	Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bs it's literally just a meme for women to describe what generalized things men do to make them feel icky (because like all humans they have weird feelings and neurotic impulses when presented with certain behaviors), while also lumping in normal and even benevolent behaviors. its main issue is that it isn't sufficiently descriptive and doesn't help men recognize, on its own, what in particular puts women off about those behaviors. it also creates a meme where women assume everything men do that is…	/r/seduction	10/11/25 07:28 AM
1	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? Uh? I understand my emotions perfectly. You demonstrated your own bullshit and that isn't my problem. Nice talking to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 03:55 PM
1	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? Men don't talk about their emotions partly because women say "preach" when men posture about not talking about their emotions "because nobody cares anyway." Show some compassion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 03:48 PM
1	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? Toxic masculinity is social conditioning and gender roles imposed on men by society. Society including men. Stoicism is part of the package. Nobody is truly a stoic. Stoic men are either fakers or sociopaths. People need to talk about their problems. Women who reinforce and celebrate stoicism in order to feel safe are conditioning men to not talk about their problems. Men who don't talk about their problems bottle up all their problems. Men who bottle up all their problems develop mental health …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 05:44 AM
1	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? "Learn to get good or get lost" "Don't complain because no one gives a shit anyway." "Either whine about being a loser or learn how to win." Do some reading about toxic masculinity sometime. These thought processes are what turn some men into rapists and mass shooters. People need to vent sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 07:16 PM
6	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? For me it's the classics: being born tall, being ripped (most achievable by most men), and/or being wealthy (sadly less achievable these days). I guarantee you there are more, but I'm not a woman so asking myself that question outside of those classics is generally a waste of time. I just wish more women would ask themselves the question "What do men who I have fucked have compared to men I have rejected?" instead of defaulting their answers, because I wasted a lot of time on the lies implicit i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 04:29 PM
5	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? Confidence and self esteem are essential and most definitely is part of my "personality and kindness" package that I have been working on my entire life, but if it isn't paired with something tangible women want, women are not interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 03:45 PM
17	Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become? I've spent a third of my life "working on my personality and kindness" and it got me literally nowhere in dating. Thousands of messages on OLD. Constant polite asks of women in real life. Fucking nothing. I'm not saying personality and kindness aren't good to have on their own merits, but giving this sort of advice to straight men is toxic. Straight men who focus on their personality and kindness will literally get nowhere in dating. Personality ain't shit without attraction. Women straight up t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 03:25 PM
2	ALL men who want to date should go to the gym and take care of themselves, and women are reasonable to demand that. supply is a chubby nerd and demand is a bitch in a red dress	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 04:57 AM