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4	When men say "Men suffer in silence", most of them think that's cool and masculine. the vast majority of men’s issues are usually wielded as a counter argument in this way and it makes me mad. the worst dudes you know keep shouting “the male suicide rate is so high!” or “boys are falling behind in school!” not because they actually give a shit about solving them, but just to do an oppression olympics any time women voice their own problems. that has knock on effects where (a lot of the time) honest discussion of these issues on their own get lumped into manosphere/incel bullshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 03:46 PM
1	When men say "Men suffer in silence", most of them think that's cool and masculine. to be fair i didn’t know june was men’s mental health month until people started talking about it once the month rolled over	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 03:32 PM
0	When men say "Men suffer in silence", most of them think that's cool and masculine. from what a quick google is telling me, it’s may. but some sites list it as “women’s health month” in general with a focus on things like pregnancy and women’s specific health outcomes vs purely a mental health month. i’m also seeing may as a more general “mental health month” too	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 03:27 PM
1	Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults. understandable i’m not sure how that runs counter to “women uphold the patriarchy and enforce gender roles” but your position is technically “men don’t listen to those telling them to deconstruct gender roles” without specifying who’s saying that i’m not sure how to parse the third paragraph’s first half due to spelling mistakes. i do find that when men tell women to stop entertaining trash it gets labeled as victim blaming (which it can be for both men and women, but not in every case). i do ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 05:57 PM
3	Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults. i don’t necessarily always disagree with your takes in this sub, but i wonder why you partially reply to comments. generally speaking in the dating world there are masculine roles that are being upheld by women looking for men. there are women that claim to be feminist that still select for both physical and social characteristics that would be classified as traditional masculinity (and even toxic masculinity) and many commenters state this but you don’t seem to respond to this part of their com…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 01:23 PM
2	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall yeah oppression olympics are stupid. everyone has their own problems and those who are affected by said problems should be able to discuss those problems without someone else being like "uhm actually sweaty, i have it worse!!!!!". with some caveats, of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 05:36 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall i'm not saying feminism as a whole is perfect, nor am i saying feminist can't hold man-hating beliefs. that's honestly one of my issues with the movement as a whole. i have other comments in other threads on this sub addressing this. i do think that the end goal of feminism (atleast how i look at is as a man) is dismantling patriarchy and that will liberate both men and women from traditional gender roles which is good for everyone. i think a good example of this is when i expressed an issue wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 05:31 PM
9	Why is women's popular music so much more sexual than mens? how about blurred lines by robin thicke?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 06:05 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall i think intent matters. if there’s a car accident and a man dies, is that misandry? i think there’s an interesting conversation about male deaths and what would fall under gender based intent in a larger scheme of gender roles and expectations, but just blanket statement saying “men die more from all causes, this is misandry” doesn’t seem logically sound.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 05:27 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall i think an important thing to note is that not all women are feminist and many do hold patriarchal views on what a man and woman should be in the context of relationships. women using emotions against the men that show them are upholding the patriarchy. the patriarchy has no gender and can be perpetuated by people who don’t identify as men. similarly, those who expect men to be providers in an era where women are now out earning men on average are still upholding traditional gender roles and are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 04:01 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall i’m saying that because the patriarchy harms men as well. i think a good example is how traditional gender roles generally tell men that “emotions are for women” and to “man up and get over it” instead of processing emotions in a more healthy way. this can lead to a lack of emotional growth, with men just bottling up emotions until they become unbearable or overwhelming and they snap. this can also inhibit men from forming healthy, deep friendships with their fellow men as well as platonic relat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 01:43 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall double comment whoops	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 01:43 PM
0	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall i did not claim that it was patriarchy. what i said was that if you are concerned about dehumanization then you are better off shifting focus to something that is overall more dehumanizing than women being mean on the internet. i don’t think a core tenet of feminism is minimizing male struggle but i do agree that there isn’t much work being done from feminist women to help in that regard. i think that male feminists doing the work to help liberate men from the patriarchal gender roles is the bes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 12:52 PM
2	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall ah. she argued that the definition of rape is based on insertion, so male victims of rape don’t count. i agree this is a bad thing. from skimming her wikipedia article i do think a lot of her work is important, but that specific point needs revised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 12:46 PM
-1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall you cut my quote off there for some reason. dismantling the patriarchy would benefit men as well as women. i am a man and i’m very well versed in men’s issues and half of the reason i identify as a feminist is to help men with their struggles which are in part due to rigid gender roles and hierarchies. i honestly disagree with what you’re saying in that copied text from your previous comment. i agree there’s an issue with how some feminists talk about men and i agree misandry exists (which isn’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 12:40 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall elaborate please. i don’t know anything about this woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 12:12 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall well that’s just putting labels where they don’t belong. i don’t think any man getting killed for any reason is misandry. can you elaborate on your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 12:11 PM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall i mean, if you’re worried about dehumanizing people and people being reduced to inanimate entities that only serve singular purposes you would be much better off fighting misogyny and the patriarchy as a whole, it’s much more prevalent and harmful than misandry and reduces both men and women down to specific gender roles that only serve specific purposes. and no, i get what you’re saying though. it’s a deflection from actual talking points. it’s like “not all men”. i think any given group should…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 12:06 PM
-3	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall misandry harms but misogyny kills is a valid thing to say even if it deflects from the stated problem of women being shitty to men. men hating women leads to women being killed, women hating men (atleast to my knowledge) doesn’t directly lead to women killing men. male suicide is brought up in this thread a few times, and i would argue that misandry is not the only reason these men are ending their lives. personally i think both men and women need to decenter romantic relationships in general. t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 10:28 AM
1	The fact that "No you're still centering men!" is such a common feminist response to extreme, intentionally misandrist rants by more radical feminists is a good item of evidence of how ingrained misandry is in feminism overall you got some examples of feminists in power acting directly to harm men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 10:21 AM
3	You can't effectively fight feminism without harming interests of women what do you think men have to gain from fighting feminism? i would argue that men have more to gain from being feminist and dismantling the patriarchal structures of society. very few men actually benefit from the system, the rest stay oppressed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 08:07 PM
1	You can't effectively fight feminism without harming interests of women i dislike the idea of labeling things as "rage bait" as a way of hand waving away toxicity. it reads like shrodinger's asshole. "oh i was just joking! don't be mad at me!" it doesn't seem to be applied consistently either. women saying "kill all men" is "rage bait" or "exaggeration" but men complaining about women is incel behavior or misogynistic. maybe, like, both are bad? and we should all just treat others like human beings who can make mistakes, be wrong sometimes and learn and grow as peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 07:53 PM
2	You can't effectively fight feminism without harming interests of women i’m aware of the patriarchy and how it negatively affects men. i consider myself a feminist (or at the very least an ally) but i find myself being able to more easily grapple with how men suffer under patriarchy because as a man, i find those issues more tangible and relatable. if i can do my part to dismantle the patriarchy by talking to my fellow men and helping them be better, more feminist men, then i’m satisfied with my role in changing society for the better. none of this is to say i’m not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 04:54 PM
1	You can't effectively fight feminism without harming interests of women misandry is real but it’s not nearly as pervasive or as damaging as misogyny / patriarchy as a whole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/26 03:54 PM
2	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical i’m sorry you have to deal with that. that sounds like an incredibly frustrating and violating thing to go through and i hope you and the rest of the trans population in your country can get some justice and equality soon. my point wasn’t that it didn’t undermine consent or it wasn’t a shitty thing to do. what i am saying is that saying a dude who lies to get sex is just as bad as a man who threatens a woman with a gun for sex seems like a bad conclusion to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 01:42 PM
9	"Liberal feminism" subsidizes extremism, claiming that feminism wants equality is fraudulent, and if you associate all men with violence, you are hypocritical i read through this study and i have some thoughts. i think studies like this are important (using different, non accusatory language in surveys regarding sexual assault and rape culture) and there should be more of them. i also think that, generally speaking, there’s a disconnect between what men think is not problematic and what is actually problematic and upholding a pervasive rape culture. i do think there’s some flaws in the study and the takeaways though. i definitely don’t agree with the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 01:27 PM