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| 18 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight? | Discussion | dnxudn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:44 AM |
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| 1 | CMV: Men use money to control womenWhat do you mean a job? A job at McDonald’s might bring his total attractiveness down to 5. A job saving children making 6 figures? Then his value might go up to a 9. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 11:57 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men use money to control womenWomen are attracted to security and status both are closely tied to money. Your missing the bigger picture overall. Like I said a 7/10 looking guy with status becomes 9/10 attractive. Nonphysical traits factor into attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men use money to control womenSounds like you don’t understand the difference between what men and woman find attractive. However I think It to comes from a willful ignorance so that you can justify whoring about in your own personal relationships. Women generally value traits other than looks more than men that’s why women “date down” when talking about looks. They however date up economically. You don’t see men out here claiming that any woman who makes less than her man deserves to be cheated on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 10:39 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Men use money to control womenBut he’s not 7/10 I just said he’s 9/10 due to money and status. You have a fundamental misunderstanding in the difference between what men and women find attractive. There are many situations where 9/10 looking women feel LUCKY to have 7/10 looking men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 02:15 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Men use money to control womenYour missing something major in your calculations. When consider sexual market value a 7/10 looking man can absolutely be on the level of a looking 9/10 woman. If a man has money+status his true value could absolutely be 9/10 which matches the woman’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?This idea that men just beat their wives widespread is complete misinformation. Men would work day in and day out in a fucking coal mine so their wives could have. Men have loved their wives forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?I meant very rare globally but as I said it’s mostly a product of the west so generally you see a lot of it in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:53 PM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Well we will see the consequences soon. It’s not a threat tho I really hope it doesn’t come to pass. I just see a lot of cat food and wine in many women’s future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 07:47 AM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?It is easy for men to find submissive women in most of the world. The problem with the west is women are genuinely so brains washed and lack good father figures and good mother-father relationships that it’s fucked. The consequences have yet to knock on the door for most women but that day is coming. And I promise I dread it as much as they will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 07:31 AM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Well let’s be clear for most of human history men didn’t have these rights either. This isn’t a uniquely feminine battle. Both men and women fought hard for these rights but pretending like women were just openly abusing women before this is insane. I don’t know if you noticed this but women are fucking difficult creatures. Oppressing women isn’t this easy task that men did before and after work just like taking out the trash. Men had their hardships women had theirs. Men died in the fucking coa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 07:10 AM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Firstly power corrupts is a quote for dictators and facists who have no vested interest in the people they oppress. When you love a woman you can’t be corrupted due to your undying desire to protect and provide. Secondly the reason women fought so hard isn’t a simple question to answer briefly. I would say it’s because the grass is always greener on the other side. Women thought men had it so much easier going to work every day and now that they have to nobody wants to. You see those tik toks al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:35 AM |
| 6 | What are your views on casual sex for women?Based and straight and true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Not at all. She is of course a valued council and a good man will often concede to his wife’s desires and wants willingly. Just as a woman willingly gives her submission to a man, he will willingly give her what she wants. It’s a give and take. Again the woman needs to find a man who wants to always do what’s best for her and treat her right before she submits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Very rare and also generally a product of the west that is untested. Many women flat won’t date men who make less and lose respect for men who do. Then due to the fact that men don’t value the disagreeable traits that come with being financially successful most of these women end up unhappy or at least in subpar relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:06 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Ignoring the obvious insult, you missed the point as most blue pillers do! Congrats! The point was that the example is both rare and unfair. When you have a partner that you love and respect you agree most of the time. 99% of the time his judgements will mirror yours and what he wants you to do is what you would have done anyway. The example was to show a 1% example of the difficulties of being submissive. There are both benefits and difficulties. A benefit is the ability to take much of the bur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:53 AM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Yes, woman want a man who has these qualities because they predict financial success. Women want a man who can be nasty and disagreeable. Men don’t. Generally disagreeable is seen in a negative light because society is so feminized but being disagreeable is a hallmark of many successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:47 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Again you should choose a man that would make the decision not to go. But also again it would be his decision because you trust his judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:41 AM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Yes disagreeable people tend to voice there disagreements louder and in a more masculine way but of course disagreeing doesn’t make you disagreeable. If disagreeing with people was the only prerequisite for being disagreeable then everyone would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:04 AM |
| -2 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Being Disagreeable ≠ disagreeing. You can disagree with your man while remaining agreeable. Agreeableness is a character trait. Ideally a woman would be agreeable all the time and when she does disagree with her husband on something she respects his judgement enough to give him final say. Even when it’s not convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 04:54 AM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 04:39 AM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Never? Generally men and women who are together agree on 99% of decisions. Despite a man being disagreeable or not, his wife should generally have the same goals, beliefs, etc. being submissive means giving final say of the 1% you disagree on willingly over to your husband. It seems you don’t know what disagreeable means or what women find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 03:56 AM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Well then you still misunderstand what submissions means. If missing some music would make you miserable than good luck finding any happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:08 AM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Well the women who are willing to be submissive will get the higher quality men, pretty simple. Again fine by me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Good luck trying out the western method. I hope it doesn’t fail you like 50% in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Out of curiosity do you want him to make more money than you or at least the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:56 PM |
| 4 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?No, most women want a man to match or exceed her. The vast majority of women only date men who make more than her.(draw your own conclusions) Most men throughout history just wanted a woman to stay home and take care of the kids while he fucking died in a coal mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:55 PM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?No you just flat missed the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Sure but most men still find submission attractive. Even if they have to lie to themselves to think they have control, they want it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:53 PM |
| -4 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?The fact that you wouldn’t skip a concert to make him feel respected, in control and happy says more about you than him. I hope it works out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:52 PM |
| 6 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Yes agreeableness can be important to a certain extent. You don’t want to date a complete dick but men prefer very agreeable women. Like women who don’t argue, nag and attack. Women do want a man whos willing to fight, claw, argue, etc. even if its sometimes with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?If you want a successful, dominate and masculine man you do. Like the majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:48 PM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Missed the point completely. Not even having the same conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Yes and you can be completely fullfilled and loved and provided for whilst being submissive. Women have been doing it for thousands of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:44 PM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Well you get to pick the man. That’s the important part. Here’s the thing about submitting tho. You can’t do it half the time. When you find a man who makes you happy who you respect and love and want to be with you’ll truly want to make him happy even if it costs you an evening of music. But until then it’ll be hard to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:43 PM |
| -1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?It’s not about men being gods or superior or being better leaders even it’s simply about what makes a man happy and fulfilled. But good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:38 PM |
| 4 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Because generally disagreeableness predicts financial success and to be a proper provider you must be financially successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:37 PM |
| 3 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?It’s not about triggering. It could be a million reasons. Maybe he thinks in unsafe, or maybe there will be a bunch of dudes there or maybe hi has a bad guy feeling. The point isn’t about music it’s about allowing your man to have control to make him happy. But here’s the thing I think your missing. The most important and crucial part. YOU GET TO PICK THE MAN! You get to sort through all the potential partners and pick the one most worthy of respect, love, loyalty, and of course submission. So i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:36 PM |
| 3 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Disagreeableness is a relatively stable aspect of personality that involves the tendency to behave in quarrelsome, cold, callous, and selfish ways. Despite the things attributed to this being generally negative it’s very important for a person to have disagreeable aspects as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:29 PM |
| -2 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?A good reason is that it would make her man happy, simple as. If you love and respect your man not going to a concert to make him feel that way and in charge would be more than worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?The idea would be to find a man that exemplifies your values to such and extent whom you also respect to such an extent that you would willingly give him that power. At times over your relationships he may use it in ways you don’t like but it makes your relationship all the better. Or you could just try to do it in the new way of the west. I don’t really care what you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 11:27 PM |
| -3 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?No, because you misunderstand what disagreeable means. Being disagreeable is a generally masculine trait. Despite it being described negatively it is positive in many regards. Being disagreeable in a relationship doesn’t mean in an asshole who can’t compromise. The best relationships as described by every civilization in human history for the past couple thousand years has always had the man at the head with a woman submitting to him. Here’s a common submissiveness example I see. Imagine you hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:57 PM |
| 14 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Women hear all kinds of shit that isn’t there. Big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:42 PM |
| -3 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?It doesn’t go the other way in the same. It’s more attractive for a women to voice her opinions in a soft, wise and feminine manner. Men trust their wives judgement but having a submissive woman means she gives you final say even if she disagrees. Also no, women don’t want agreeable men, woman want disagreeable, assertive and masculine. Men also should be understanding but again in a different way than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:39 PM |
| 12 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Submissive means coachable, agreeable, and understanding. It means not always knowing the reason for a your man’s actions or directions but accepting them even when it’s difficult. If a woman truly respects a man she wants to be submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Another gem foundSo dumb on so many levels but to respond. All men prefer fit, trim, and petite women. If you say otherwise your coping. What men instinctually think and actually know are often different. Obviously I know you don’t have kids but instinctually it’s in the back of my head. The original point 3 was kinda dumb I’ll give you that. I don’t care how much you spend on your looks or how presentable you are, being fat lowers your man’s status. Having a fat girlfriend NEVER reflects well on a man. There ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:35 PM |
| 3 | The sad truth about modernity.Sherman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Height preferences are not highly biological as you thinkThe people with tall as a personality trait are coming out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Study: Short men have higher sex frequencyThe people with tall as a personality trait are coming out of the woodwork. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 07:39 PM |
| -1 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?I’m not saying that being taller isn’t a biologically attractive trait. What I am saying is that at no time in known history and in no place other than in the west and right now have we seen so many women who will not date men unless that are 6 foot. Why is that? I’m simply putting forth one theory I’ve heard. Why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?To clarify I meant it’s a deal breaker for many women. While it wasn’t a deal breaker in the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?I litterally said overweight or masculine. So many women today are masculine and need a taller man to feel small and feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?Yes, women liked tall men but they wouldn’t completely discount men based off the fact that they were average height like many women do today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:24 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?Yea greater success for sure but very few women of the pas would discount a man wholey based on height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?Well yea some women throughout history have have liked tall men but most women didn’t discount men due to size. But recently height has become a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?Not really the same at all. The idea that having a man that is way bigger than you makes you feel small and feminine makes sense. I don’t see how that works for ass or breasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight?Well not just overweight women but also masculine women also need taller me. Alot of fit women today in the US are very masculine. I think the masculine angle is one to consider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?Well every culture around the world behaved that way regardless of religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 05:07 AM |
| 31 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?I’m pretty sure all those ideas predate social media by a few thousand years at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Quetion for the red pill. Do you want a woman to be more hesitant or do you want to have sex on the first date? I don't understand this one.I think all women should wait. But if your going to be a hoe then he consistent don’t have a three way with some random dudes one night then make another guy wait 3 months for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 03:41 PM |
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