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Men who have substance of character, who offer emotional safety and stability. I guess that's Home Depot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:56 AM
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I will try the suggestion to use men's body wash etc I know the men's deodorant actually works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:28 AM
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That's not fair. Everyone needs time to prepare. Instead of being rushed. Everyone occasionally makes the mistake of feeling wiped enough but then realized they aren't. What the hell they want to eat ass for anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:21 AM
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THIS HERE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:16 AM
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Most unattractive or even average women on dating apps don't even get their profiles shown. So, does this mean, when the App asks to show your profile if you pay for premium service..... How awkward lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:11 AM
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I'd agree Average and below women's perspectives are ignored and it's men complaining about ALL MEN + 20% alphas vs. 20% most attractive females not wanting NSA sex 🤦 Meanwhile ugly women are regularly dehumanised in such a pernicious way, as if she has no rights to exist because she's not even fuckable I should make this a new thread maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:05 AM
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Is the point of this thread... Testosterone = Higher SexDrive (in men) = almost Justification for abuse, or other behaviors that women would be scorned for?? Sorry sometimes I just have trouble following what the original point of the thread was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:56 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:42 PM
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I'm disappointed. I'm starting to feel like this sub is sadly just perpetuating stereotypes and myths regarding the female sex in particular. But then again it could be more to do with gender norms staying the same in a society that claims more balance than it has?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:39 PM
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Frustration from either sex, or whatever gender, is unpleasant both for the one experiencing it, and the ones witnessing this very personalised shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:30 AM
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Hmm. Equally matching? This is subjective. I'm not a fan of throwing that into conversations. You could be right. I see more Equally matching couples on terms of the outside appearance, but I think this could be just where you or I live?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:32 AM
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What is stopping you then u/Hoosker-Doos Because I can respect your difference in opinion. Personally I just don't agree. It's possible to be female, vilified, and as I saw it put here once "sport-fucked out of her league". When people gang up and gossip they can become a monster. True though you don't often see ugly women dating handsome men very often. Usually the aim is equal attractiveness both partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:20 AM
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Well I have been lied to more than once. Upon learning after the fact he was married or otherwise taken, truth he had kept from me, I had all this energy of attraction with no where to go. I also feel used, sick, embarrassed, and I hate that he has used me to do this to his woman. I have had this done to me too. I don't think it's a fear of being honest or vulnerable. It's a fear of being accountable, it's like some stupid batman ego trip. To hold you at arms length and bring you in only when it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:21 AM
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Women overestimate how much value they provide to a relationship How much is too much? Or, I find myself asking what men actually want, do they actually want their gf or wife to be their friend, confidant, Life Assistant? More specific Please. they only contribute positively, without thinking about the negative things they contribute or what they take. That's a fair point. Good to communicate that honestly to women. Instead of women being expected to read minds, more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:03 AM
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They still can still be assholes or people whose personality draws you. I wonder what stops men and women just talking first. It's becoming -slayfest- and all the responsibilities for boundaries fall on women's shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:58 AM
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Know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:55 AM
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I once saw a below mediocre looking girl start swiping on tinder and match with pretty much every guy, How did you see this? On her phone or do guys talk? Is it because they have too many options making them not appreciate it? So uglyfaced girls must appreciate, or prettyfaced girls too? Because if it's not scarce? Is it because those arent "real" options meaning most of those guys just wanna pump&dump? This is probably an acquired defence mechanism to not appreciate "pump&dump". Women sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:52 AM
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It's terrible advice for anyone. It's like they don't know what advice to give, and kinda dismiss
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:58 AM
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As if women are the only gender to reject, or discard, men. As if every woman is a 10 on all counts. Because LVFs just don't exist, or they c/s or bake or whatever. For fuck sakes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:47 PM
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It's not a fantastic state of circumstances to be in, but other women have been in these situations too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:46 PM
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Well I'm glad you were okay then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:49 AM
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Points
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:46 AM
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It's a mixture of the two. I hear you. I still personally disagree. That's all. Not everything is choice, even if to onlookers it appears you have the agency. Once a **** always a **** does not apply all of the time. I'm surprised at myself how punctual I am with this reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:45 AM
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Sounds like you were honed in on I am sorry and you called it. Sounds like an awful time in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:39 PM
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I'm not saying men are angels. Definitely not. But very few of them were ever so completely shameless and had no sense of remorse for what they did when they did engage in bad behavior. I just want you to read this again. I know being homeless is a total different life again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:37 PM
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It has a lot to do with Charisma, and being physically attractive. It's a flaw in both sexes, something that in our society has allowed to become salient.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:32 PM
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I KNEW IT
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:54 AM
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Also to add, I basically think society subjugate women, and as such they have to be polite or white lie when they let you know they are not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:53 AM
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Well I'm an under average looking female whose being offering my perspectives based on my experiences, haphazardly for a short while now. It seems my perspective - I would think willingly offered to be rare, is not really....being seen? Silly that I think and hope my one perspective could change things for someone out there, or to feel heard. Look nobody wants to repeatedly receive the message that they are uglyfaced or socially deformed or otherwise unattractive to the gender they desire. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:47 AM
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I think that just because someone is considered somewhat objectively undesirable to the opposite sex, it's assumed they (male or female) should, will, gratefully accept what they are offered. Take what they can realistically get LTR in the eyes of others. I think people who think themselves a bit better up, when realising (lol) that they have been rejected by someone whose lower than them on the Hierarchy. That's when everything gets messy or nasty. Early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:23 AM
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I used to drink alot because I didn't have any self esteem whatsoever. I grew up with people hating me and invalidating me almost at every turn. I have autism, I wanted to forge connections with people but I just didn't (don't) know how. As a woman to be socially unsavvy I just tried to level up by taking what I could get but that backfires. I had bad experiences where I started divorcing from my emotions more than I first realised. I think you're right, emotional connection must be there to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:25 AM
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sport fucked by guys out of her league But it's the woman who's sport that has a problem mentality here? Truthfully though you do make other good points. You wouldn't believe how many people have been socially disfigured by others because of being in a "toxic" environment. How can you have empathy if you just don't know? Question applies to everyone equally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:02 PM
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TLDR; YES. I just read. YES. I want to see this more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:19 PM
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I do disagree there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:49 AM
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Low
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:09 AM
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Really don't appreciate all the references to women's sexual ideals and twilight characters lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:05 AM
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I'm not surprised, I do understand, and I am growing into the misanthrope I was always meant to be lol Humanity is all kinds of messed up though even the good-looking aren't happy within themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:14 AM
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female 2s would rather get used baseline that will easily come from affirmation when you're going up against other Chads for the girl you want it matters. This is some dark dank
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:08 AM
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No 2s and 3s won't fuck any guy and they are capable of legitimately rejecting men who believe they are entitled to their sleeve. Yuck. No. That's dehumanising talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:05 AM
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Is this what it's called? Halo effect? Because if you're an ugly faced person you're better off emulating a Saints lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:01 AM
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Oblivious to the fact they are not hot shit, overshooting with their confidence.???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:00 AM
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if a lesser looking guy wants to bat above himself in looks I think this is often needed. Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:57 PM
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Better said than I could have said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:51 PM
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Yes. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:49 PM
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I find that some men think being confident is lying to the world about how they feel through their body gestures. Doesn’t work. Need too build some real confidence but how would you do so? If you’re really confident people won’t cringe As for random female who thinks that can judge people because she has a nice pair of boobs Not fair. Your perspective but maybe men be judged for reasons so to reverse it back to her somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:48 PM
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Sex quickly vs LTR interest? Like what is generally expected of women? I'm genuinely interested. I would say if both sexual and emotional stuff is happening I'd be all in. But Enter Baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:03 PM
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You create the spicy bantz lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:35 PM
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No. Just say fat. As if calling a fat person a porkers is even funny dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 03:36 PM
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And then she is smeared an awful subhuman he had to stick his dick into and spreads rumours about her to his associates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:38 PM
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Wow projection my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:45 AM
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This would be the most realistic answer. Social conditioning. And compartmentalising, which doesn't feel great but I think is like a coping strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:18 AM
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just by sending a late night “hey what you doing text” and the woman will do all the work from there That's true. If she likes him. At first anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:11 AM
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I'm a bit confused, you mean by "nuke" if she shoots you down? Displaying disinterest in yourself? This sounds a bit problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:02 AM
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Yes. And also, your subtitle, I like it lol did you earn it? Or reddit gives freely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:59 AM
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I'm upvoting for the honesty 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:55 AM
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Who told you these lies ? 😂 . I think that's my perspective as a non lesbian woman I notice beautiful women often and they really are all different in appearance. You're right though that's not sexual, it's more comparative contemplating. . Theres a parameter of size that fits into what we find attractive, if your outside of that box yes we will still sleep with you but it doesnt make you attractive. . Yes I realize this. Conversely it does not always necessitate women to catch feelings to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:31 AM
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Fat in no way equals unattractive. Nice face, nice way of coming across, nice proportions and dress sense, great social skills. Guys don't care really about body fat. If you're already down bad, then also fat, you're either a joke or untouchable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:16 AM
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Rude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:12 AM
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I think so. But that's because objectively there are many naturally attractive women about. No I'm not lesbian either. I just notice that with more attractive women than men, that the desirable visibly attractive men can gatekeep. As in, shut down unattractive women, because apparently we are not supposed to even exist. Just my thoughts and observations anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:11 AM
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Yes but if the Chads socially brand her as a slut She's not going to be getting what she really wants so not having the time of her life. Dare I say she never was. It's not indiscriminately fucking that provides emotional need of self esteem/connection, its been about mutually selected, chosen, equal value. That's satisfying. Not being used because people call her slut behind her back when she seeks emotional connection
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:59 AM
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it’s ridiculous to expect a woman to sleep with everyone she dates on the first date because she did one time five years ago This. Men (and women) play this false narrative. They infer all kinds of false ideas about a woman losing her sh!t when going through a bad time, or is scapegoated. Then forever after is expected to serve as town slut. Regardless of what she ever may have wanted for herself, people's assumptions are allowed to continue unbridled for years. I've been through a few men. I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:54 AM
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I really hope legal state-controlled prostitution becomes a thing, WTF
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:51 AM
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How do you know the majority of women don't exceed double digits? Do you have a source for that? Thanks in advance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:32 AM
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Actually, this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:32 AM
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I wonder if a "simp" was given a chance by an "entitled woman" and that he still snatch/grabs, then is passive-aggressive not happy, and leaves it in "entitled woman's" lap to end things and rack up another bad experience, whereas he could have exercised patience and the goal first being friendship. That's what I thought but who gives a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:29 AM
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Thank you. Yes I thought you had dealt with PTSD but since you didn't mention I didn't acknowledge Specifically. Thank you for your encouragement and I'm really glad that you healed. You are right it is a strength. It is a struggle to make changes or leave or access therapy or even from that first moment of admitting to myself that something is wrong. I want to make it to the other side. Godspeed to you friend 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:13 AM
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I could google it. But what does the expression based mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:51 AM
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Thank you I agree with you it's no walk in the park. Thank you for encouragement. Well done
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:49 AM
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Yes thank you! Just started getting that going. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:06 AM
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Ask only with good intent. Yes this is how I thought of it too. Expanding my knowledge of this yesterday in PPD. So its two halves of the same coin for me. Thanks for answer Grammatical edit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:01 AM
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Men care about the number because they're hardwired that way Women sabotage you by asking your number for competitive advantage Men's psychology equates other men inside their woman as tainted (sorry no offence intended) Women aren't interested in how many partners her man has in the past, but is concerned for warnings of misdeeds in his past. Whereas a woman's worth whether or not she's tainted a man's worth is whether or not he's safe This is what I've learnt from Reddit today.....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:54 PM
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I'm happy you successfully navigated the risk of it all. No /s. And it's a reality check for me to hear all the perspectives. Thanks for your answers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:48 PM
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I don't have hobbies or activities I enjoy anymore. Can PTSD get in the way of hobbies? I want some hobbies again, but am stuck. Can't stay focused very long
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:46 PM
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Youth of the Nation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:43 PM
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So this female empowerment movement to sleep around like males is a lie. There is a universal sickness it's pervasive I agree. I think it has to do with drama, the spectacle, the gossip and judges. I'm jaded myself. Why people look amongst each other for stigma stepping stones. I'm not disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:04 PM
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That decision is a start isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:59 PM
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That's harsh. I'm glad that hasn't happened to you. A lot is not to do with choice but circumstances. Maybe to onlookers it looks like carelessness or bad character. I've said elsewhere trauma is a factor. As is abusive relationships. It's a nasty web to get tangled in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:57 PM
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Also just wanted to know why sex is thought to decrease a woman's value? I think it ties back to older times a lot of these attitudes people hold. I appreciate your reply and all the replies as I'm just seeking more understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:54 PM
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Thanks again for the insights. I just need to organise couple things I want to quote.... seen as less valuable partner due to past sexual experience. Less valuable partner. Not less competent at raising kids or having a job. Less valuable sex partner. for women more sexual history is devaluing as it implies she is easy or was easy to men she had sex with This easy label. So men didn't have to work to have sex with her. Maybe she did want sex. Only that time or with that guy. She may have rejecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:51 PM
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Men don't want to marry promiscuous women, why is that hard for this sub to understand. . Promiscuous past is due to many many things, namely trauma. Women and Men are PEOPLE and people change everyday. Women carry a sexual past just as men do. I think it brings up insecurities for the man who may feel he has to compete with her past? Sorry if my answer seems basic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:47 PM
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Definitely satire 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:27 PM
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Wait who are you judging for STIs and ooops babies??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:25 PM
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I agree I would be dubious of his character and concerned on her behalf. Except if I had past dealings with her and we didn't like each other. I would still have reservations about him and the women he's dissing behind their backs. Usually that is Red Flag 🚩 territory
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:22 PM
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He just looks "confident" and "obviously desirable because other women went with him." The guys who are doing this still get laid and in fact it helps them get laid. That's a real shame
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:18 PM
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I've just changed the flair for the one appropriate for this post MOD Not sure if I can reply to MOD directly? Still learning rules
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:16 PM
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Trust me, once deemed to be a hoe or whatever, women get treated very badly by some guys. Reputation. Gossip. Which leads women to not assist when so called hoe gets spiked/raped because its her fault because Gossip says so. I have seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:59 AM
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Thanks for this informative copypasta I'm just wondering if there's a corresponding set of studies focusing on male infidelity corresponding to the numbers of their sexual partners? I just noticed it's mainly focusing on female participants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:19 AM
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I can confirm that women can become jealous and competitive. I've been torn down by someone i used to believe was a good friend, I gave her no reason to betray me. I don't feel competitive myself. I bow out miserably. I accept if I'm not "chosen" even though rejection sucks, because I can't try to manipulate him back and maybe fail again. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:05 AM
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I really appreciate this answer. It's the answer I was looking for. Numbered list even. It is great to have this kind of insight. Thank you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:30 AM
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Looking for the intimacy fix, even if it's no secret it's pretend, straight hook up sex. Physically next to no enjoyment especially after a night out. But if feelings come round uninvited, i become ungrounded very quickly. Rejection Cycle Activate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:20 AM
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Yes I understand. How does someone go about transmuting? or getting rid of this baggage? I don't think it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:09 AM
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Yes. Why don't men want a relationship with a woman with baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:49 AM
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I read somewhere this is a phenomenon called "falling up" but since can't find the article. I feel not good enough, not fishing here, bit I feel core shame., failure, guilt. That's not a good foundation for anything if my self perception is dictating I'm not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 01:46 AM
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Well I get called that a lot. I have autism and other so named co-morbid disorders. I grew up being treated like shit. I am also depressed. Its possible to be a woman but just not be able to "act like a woman" because ew gender roles It's not my gender it's the norms that I can't deal with. No disrespect. I'm just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:17 AM
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I've found through difficult life experiences to be true. Give your mum a hug today if you can :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:14 PM
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I would simply say, mutual: attraction, honest communication, trust, values. If you like each other and are there for each other. That's a good start. Plus I was always so non-material, now getting older, it was naive, foolish to not make some of my focus building a sound fiscal foundation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:20 AM
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Saving the seat next to me for .... uh, friend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:17 AM
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I'll come back to this one. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:15 AM
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No I agree fair comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:12 AM
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I'm just here for the post....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:51 AM
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I hear what you're saying it's constant all round hard work on everything to get to the place of being dateable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:45 AM
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Or just learned experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:41 AM
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I'm attracted to men who I say are too good for me. Stable, personality solid, life is happening and they're on their way working to better things, materially have more than myself. Looks are typically handsome though not conventionally so. Also a full and varied life. And the ability to connect with others well. I think this reflects to me how dissatisfied I am with myself and life. Want to change it, powerless to change assumptions of those around me. You get tired swimming against the current…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:25 AM
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Very common. More than you would know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:18 AM
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Well, a woman may really want a relationship, but not with any of the men offering that. She has reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:09 AM
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is PPD a NZFW space? Just asking. Browsing Reddit in the laundromat just got a lot weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:29 AM
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Fantastic thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:53 PM
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This is a book I take it? To condition people to be unphased by death, is a very interesting concept. Can I please have the author name?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:47 AM
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It's worth noting what we might consider masculine or feminine attributes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:43 AM
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This post is striking a visceral nerve I can tell you. It's very difficult to talk in person about purple pill subjects. It's good though, and straight to the point. Woes of modern humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:23 AM
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It almost feels that because I hold a different opinion to the majority on this sub, that I'm being bullied. I hold a different opinion because I have different experiences to alot of the people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:20 AM
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Guess it could go in the reverse order, where a man coerces a pregnancy on a woman, uses cultural stigmas to make a legal abortion difficult to obtain, without support, then lie about woman indiscrimanently, to every person who will listen to his tales of bullshit woe. She carries his unwanted pregnancy to term treated by others believing smear campaigns as an abusive mother, when really she is being abused, and also by in vitro her child. He is a sociopathic abuseR. So what about that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:16 AM
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Is it a common thing? To inseminate oneself with discarded condom, in order to collect money? Is that what I'm hearing? Coz shit stepped on a couple thorns
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:06 AM
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Fuck I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:04 AM
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Sounds like she does. Especially if she's been pressured heavily to keep baby and I know this happens alot more than anyone will say openly. Or if she neglected child due to lack of funds (like no child support) she would be solely blamed and likely penalised as a negligent mother. Just one (nightmare scenario). WEAR A CONDOM MEN. not difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:19 PM
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Wear a condom. Take it with you when you leave in a sealed bag. Ffs tbh no sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:14 PM
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Thank you for sharing here. Can be male or female hetero or LGBTQIA++ Race Color Age Range Rich Poor Religious or non religious disabilities is overlooked here etc. Can affect anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:12 PM
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grooming or abusing What would that look like from the outside? Say if you were genuinely concerned for someone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:28 PM
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Her vagina becomes 'used' like a second hand car might?? Why is this train of thought even a thing Coz when a penis becomes used, like, how are these social norms still standing?? People feel good when they find their folk that they can relate to and build with. How I see it. I don't GET low value based on numbers of sexual partners. each and every lay Or each and every lay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:24 AM
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Maybe if we treat past experiences of both men and women as meaning the same - as just history. This belief of n counts tying in options and value and attractiveness or lack thereof any of these things. Allows having very personal past experiences being used against (mostly) women to demean them. Like wtf is that?? Abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:18 AM
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It should not be. Why is it diminished for female sex and not male sex? They're just past experiences. Not markers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:48 PM
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successful Lol undies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:00 AM
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I think it's choice - I'd you choose to be alone, not lonely. If you want to have a worthwhile social life but still find yourself alone? Lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:00 AM
-3

Name any successful matriarchy with a civilization. Name any successful patriachy with a civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:57 AM
1

^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:45 AM
2

What does this even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:39 AM
0

You can definitely have a high count as a woman and still be faithful to your partner. Still desire monogamy. To be judged on your past experiences (consent or no consent) is a totally shitty thing to do to someone. So as well as dragging my baggage around with me everyday, it apparently gives bystanders the right to be judge jury and executioner. I think that's the most ludicrous thing about it all. Kinda makes me sick actually. I don't understand why women would judge other women on their coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:54 AM
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