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Also for number 1, no contact should include contact with memorabilia. No holding on to old texts, snap stories, even emails. Clear OUT! It’s hard but I did it at the end of my last relationship and even though I cried while I deleted pics and removed his name from his number in my contacts, it was like ripping a bandaid off quick. Hurt in the moment but long term, it was the best decision for my healing. Didn’t give me material to hug and cry while reading over. Also like as a general tip, reme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:21 AM
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This definitely goes for friends too. Just had to learn my lesson on this lol. There was a guy I was really good friends with over quarantine (enjoyed a lot of the same things, real chill and easy convo) but I had to block his number back in July after he was unnecessarily rude to me and wouldn’t apologize. Then on Halloween night, messaged me on tumblr where we started talking and where I forgot to block him saying “happy Halloween🎃I miss you, can we be friends again?” I immediately said “that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:14 PM
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We don’t worry about going where we’re not invited when it comes to men. If he wanted you there, he’d ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:52 AM
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You got me there😂😂I’m taking this to heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:38 PM
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Exactly. Bet none of the people who came at you would even consider supporting the basic needs and wants of someone else if that person didn’t have the money. I think it’s because she framed it like she feels like she needs to lower her standards so she can be in a relationship that people are like...that in that post but like it just really opened my eyes to how unsafe that sub is lol. I always felt like “oh this was one of the good ones” and let’s just say I’ve been wrong before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:44 PM
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So I came across this post in a sub that usually isn’t /totally/ riddled with sick men and pick me’s trying to tell a woman how to live her best life at the foot of a man. Buuuuut I come across this and I just became...so sad. The lady says she’s 30 and has the most (imo) BASIC of standards. Education, similar religion (she says a little later in an edit that she’s had trouble with conflicting religions), similar tax bracket to keep up with her (she also mentions in the edit that she’s had to ke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:09 AM
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Watch tons of porn OR follow a lot of soft porn on their social media‼️‼️ Same addiction, ones just a lil more normalized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:47 AM
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What one man won’t do, another man will and with a genuine smile on his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:34 PM
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What’s the carrot and stick about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:43 AM
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No problem at all. Got an ex that had about 600 different IG girls followed and his timeline was filled with nothing but soft porn. And get this, while we were together, I let him know repeatedly it was a problem for me and he told me he deleted it but when we broke up, found out he kept it. He would claim having it meant nothing but if it didn’t, 1. He wouldn’t have had it because a grown ass man wouldn’t need to have that so accessible and 2. Would’ve been fine deleting it. It’s really a disea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:13 AM
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I 100% agree with this also as far as the soft porn on social media. Men will follow literally hundreds of women on their social media and say it’s not a problem. Do NOT let them convince you of such. To allow oneself to flood the mind with such images all the time is a sign of an addiction. That and the maturity of a teenage boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:32 PM
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This is definitely why I have made it a rule to drop guys who I know or find participates in “guy talk” or “locker room talk” as the last guy I was interested in would call it. Number one, needing a space devoid of women to feel like you can have a genuine conversation is a red flag. That means you don’t respect or value the words of the women in your life for whatever reason and only really half listen any other time and I refuse to be one of them. Number two, as stated in the title, men are cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:41 AM
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Soooo I do feel like the meaning of simp got messed up because people, mostly weak ass, incel types, started throwing it around as an insult to men that do better them so it lost its original meeting. For example, I was talking to this guy that got kinda possessive within like the first 3 weeks. He was insisting we didn’t text enough, insisting I didn’t care because we didn’t text, basically trying to guilt me into caring more than I did. So after the second time he tried to check where I was, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:59 AM
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It’s hard to say. Speaking from experience it can be a pain because I always felt like I was keeping a part of myself from my ex since all he would contribute to a more intellectual convo was “oh okay. Yea” (but I was also with a guy who didn’t want much out of life. I do feel like true intelligence or capability to have a deeper conversation/discussion regardless of formal education correlates with ambition in life.) That being said, just because he can’t necessarily have a detailed discussion …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:36 PM
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I would say that the “eliciting a more creative side” is an intelligence in its own way. It sounds you are both able to contribute to each other in ways the other just doesn’t have much experience in which is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:28 PM
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This is honestly so sweet and heartwarming that you took the time to explain this to me so thank you so much for that first off. Secondly thanks for pointing out the underlying apology I didn’t even realize I was giving lol that’s definitely something to check. But yea I’m definitely aware that talking to them shouldn’t become a need for me. I might have to do more thinking on the “Why” of doing it though. I know I’m attractive and do deserve better than what I use for attention but usually I’m …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 10:46 AM
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Okay so I have a confession. This type of stuff from men? I use for attention. It never goes anywhere and I don’t entertain it further than the text messages and they’re aware that texting is as far as it goes. But I enjoy being told I’m desired/the good morning beautiful texts/etc and as a 21 year old, it’s about as much as I can get nowadays. Not saying men of all ages can’t be this predictable and stunted but I feel like it’s even slimmer pickins in my early 20s. All that to say tho, is this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:33 AM
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Forgave and forgot him telling me to shut the fuck up in front of our mutual friends. Forgave him for hiding the fact that he was talking to his ex for months. Stayed with him after finding out he was texting his ex for months. Gave him the opportunity to disrespect me one last time in a year and a half relationship by breaking up with me while I’m three hours away from him over a phone call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:02 PM
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I’ve started reading again, something I haven’t done in a couple years, and I’m pushing myself to start knitting. I’ve found I have a tendency to get bored fast so I’m actively trying to slow myself in good and healthy ways. Also I’ve been assessing the fact that I use male attention as a past time and something is bugging me about it. In itself I don’t think it’s a problem because I’m not hurting anyone, they know I’m single and pretty, and they all know what I talk to them for. But I get bored…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:55 AM
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I really appreciate that actually. Feels good to know I’m on the right track
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:58 PM
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Honestly, this truth hit me after I got out of my last relationship last month. I fell into the category of doing mental gymnastics, parkour, and a cirque du soleil routine to convince myself that my ex and I still could and should work to be together for the majority of the time we were together. I’m 21...and was trying to convince myself that this 24 year old guy who isn’t striving for more than an apartment, a dog, and a pool table would ever be able to keep up with me going to grad school, l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:45 PM
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My new mantra. Thank you. I’m always so considerate and forgiving that I forget or even numb out how I truly feel because I want the person around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:44 PM
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Yknow what the real travesty is? He never made me cum. We had sex so many times and my sex drive is pretty high and I would just keep going hoping for an orgasm. And I was just happy to keep hoping for it when the whole time I had more luck with a vibrator. All because I didn’t wanna hurt his ego. Poor silly me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:20 PM
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Wow. I honestly didn’t consider the idea that the love was never there. That’s really intriguing. Also I like that you called it traumas and I think I’d be nicer to myself by calling it that instead of insecurities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:18 PM
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100%. I’ve made it clear with the new guy that I’m healing still and I’m not jumping into anything. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:48 PM
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I think I was too and I wasn’t even realizing it lol just saw more potential in him and was willing to stay till he saw it too. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:47 PM
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I mean I honestly don’t think it was a conscious thing as though he was like actively intimidated. To me it’s just like if people have different levels of life goals, ultimately both are gonna feel it because one won’t be able to keep up and one will just always be looking back hoping for the other to keep up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:44 PM
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Not harsh at all. Hell I woulda sent the “don’t bother” when he reached out at 6:50. He’s a grown man, it’s nothing to send a text saying “hey something came up, is it alright if we push it back a bit?” He was inconsiderate and tbh possibly lying unless you know for a fact otherwise. Generally, I’d wait 10-15 minutes (and even 15 minutes is sorta pushing it) before asking where he’s at. If there’s not good reasoning/explanation or he’s not up the road, he can’t manage his time well enough. Don’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:56 AM
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The phrasing was intentional lol like even if you gave him some sort of possession over your pussy and never gave it to anybody else, he’d still cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:19 AM
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Backshots is usually something black people say. It’s just doggystyle. The idea is that the the dick owner thrusting forward and the girl is throwing her ass backwards simultaneously in a way that it makes a clapping sound or if her ass is fat enough, loud enough to make a “shot” sound. Dudes really the only ones thats all excited about it though. No cumming required for backshots to be given
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:17 AM
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You are always potential gf material for one and not at all desperate for liking what you like. What I do recommend is you continue to make clear what you want and give him that opportunity while also going with your gut. If he’s not making it obvious he wants you on the level you want, you can’t convince yourself of otherwise. It shows effort in him driving down to see you and having dates but we know it takes more than that for a long distance ltr. AND continue playing the field. You not locke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:11 PM
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