docprofessa Archive

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1	[FR] Holding frame I would say you did everything right. But you truly won't be able to tell unless she consistently asks for your approval on these types of things going forward. You set the boundary and the expectation. Will she follow through and come to understand and accept your authority? That remains to be seen. Will she put you over the friend...or vice versa. Run your relationship in the way you think is best for YOU AND HER. Fuck our opinions. Are YOU ok with it?	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/17 05:08 PM
-5	Why Women Mudshark Unfortunately (for you) "Chad" is not the ultimate expression/embodiment of the Alpha Thundercock. Looks like she chose the Mandela Thundercock on this go-round of the carousel. But White women have been going for Black men for quite a while now. Not as a result of the Blue Pill. Some merely for taboo sex (like in the fake "I'm fucking a nigger" girl you made up) and others because they actually see value. Either way, it happens. Sorry for (literally) fucking up your genetically recessive gene p…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/16 06:02 PM
1	You've got a personal female fan club. Find them. Forget everyone else. Exactly. These cats have been using Red Pill/PUA techniques before there was such a concept. Its called "pimpin"....and that shit ain't easy.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 05:51 PM
2	You've got a personal female fan club. Find them. Forget everyone else. They actually do close. I used to live in Georgia and it is the same there as it is anywhere else I've lived. Women will say they don't like being approached by guys like that but the truth is those guys get numbers. Yeah many are fake. But a lot actually pan out. Depends on the guy. If he looks good to her, he can say that and get away with it. If she's not attracted then he gets shot down. And not just the ghetto hood rats. They pull the professional chicks too. If it didn't work they would ha…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 10:46 AM
5	Ever Have Girls Come to You? Yes I have. It has happened several times. A few times they were direct. The other times were them trying to be slick about it but I knew what was up. I usually took over after they approached (if I was interested). Although I have dropped the ball a time or two. But yeah....if she's interested she will move herself into your orbit and let it be known either directly or indirectly (mostly indirectly) that she's into you. Just gotta be paying attention.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 04:00 AM
2	The true meaning of "just be yourself" Women rarely put forth effort to meet men. They just exist and wait for guys to come to them. They are just out and about "being themselves" (or so they think) and guys approach. They don't have to act more feminine. They don't think about being alpha or beta. They just go about their day doing what the hell ever. They think this is how it works for men as well. They think if you just exist and be whatever you are then you will somehow magically find and connect with whoever is meant for you (re…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/16 03:45 AM
7	Remember - They are watching you You're exactly right, OP. Its like an actor or musician. The greatest actors make their performances look real. The greatest musicians make their playing look effortless. How? Because they rehearsed WITH THE AUDIENCE IN MIND. Every time they practiced they focused on form and on how they would be perceived by the audience. They practiced this until it became natural. Until they didn't have to think about it anymore. When I taught music, I used to always tell my students to practice like they wer…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/16 06:31 PM
0	LDR/LTR Unicorn or AWALT? Based on what you've written it sounds like its worth a shot. I don't see any reason why you shouldn't pursue something with her. There are a few women on the planet who actually tell the truth and want to do right by a man. Maybe she's a unicorn or close to it. That's how it is NOW. Can't speak for the future. My only advice is this: make sure she knows you are desired by other women. Make sure she knows you can get sex from anywhere and that if you go unfulfilled that it is possible for you to…	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/16 06:55 PM
2	Calling out a flake - "How to" without seeming like a needy jerk. And stop worrying about appearing to be "needy" simply because you expect someone to uphold their end of the friendship. If your dealing with someone you think would respond to your wants/needs in that way then they are not people you need to be involved with. That "needy" shit is what lazy women say when they don't want to put in the effort to change shitty behavior...a person like that doesn't value you.	/r/seduction	08/03/16 05:10 PM
1	Calling out a flake - "How to" without seeming like a needy jerk. I've been where you are. She and I were cool for a couple of years. Hung out from time to time and always text each other. At some point she started flaking. She was about to flake a 4th time when I told her "You've been doing this a lot lately...YOU make the plans but then flake on them." She said she didn't realize she was doing that and then we hung out that night. But I felt like it was only because I called her out and she felt bad/guilty. I don't want that. So the last straw was my birthda…	/r/seduction	08/03/16 05:04 PM
8	Structure your sentences for maximum impact I would leave out the "I don't mean to interrupt". Because you actually do mean to. If you must get approval for interrupting then try: Hey (or excuse me) I need to interrupt for a second to tell you _____. Its more commanding.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 03:56 AM
7	What to do after she says she has no time "x" day after you went for the "date"/meetup via text Few things here: 1 - Someone that wants to spend time with you will make time for you. They'll want to be around you and won't want to risk someone else snatching you up. And if she IS as busy as she says then she'll be too busy to date. Not your fault or problem. Find someone who is free. 2 - You set the day and time. If she turns it down but recommends an alternative day/time then set it and go forward. If she turns it down but doesn't recommend an alternative then let it go. You can have her …	/r/seduction	28/02/16 03:35 AM
3	Enough with the Trump worship. People say he's RP, but he seems the ultimate BB to me, especially with constant loss of frame. I believe the technical term is: Trump Orbiters.	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/16 02:16 PM
-5	How Trump uses language to work for him. These Trump support posts are popping up a lot in here lately by a certain group of fucktards. I notice a pattern with this crew. I agree....get this bullshit out of here.	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/16 02:10 PM
8	Consider ghosting a lot of people after swallowing the pill. I agree with this and have had to do it several times. People don't want to see you change for one simple reason...it forces them to change. One person in the group changes then everyone must change. If you were the beta that got picked on and now you're more masculine the ones who were masculine will hate it because now they can't use you as part of what keeps their SMV so high. You're a threat. You're competition. With the tools to turn the tables. And they can't bear the thought of changing o…	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/16 08:09 PM
1	Found success, caught self reverting. Fuck. I've been in a similar situation. In the beginning of our relationship the ex wanted to change our Facebook statuses. I reluctantly did so. We posted a couple of pictures of each other but I noticed she wouldn't make much mention of our relationship beyond that. So neither would I. I would never mention her or post more pics more than she did. About a year before we broke up (we were having serious issues) I took all of her and our pics down. A few months before I knew I was going to break up I …	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/16 03:15 AM
3	Girl ignores text for 10 hours, how should I RP this? Do you believe that a woman would skip being with a man she's interested in to hang out with her "girls"? Even if she does hang with them (which would more than likely be to make the hopelessly single friends feel better on VDay) she would still make plans with a guy that she's interested in. Note that last part..."that she's interested in". So she's either going to be with another guy or she's really going to hang with her friends. In either case, you might want to chill and give her space to c…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/16 07:09 PM
1	I feel asleep on the inside. I'm coming to terms that I'm depressed. I know how you feel. Been there. First question I have to ask is....what do you want? There has to be something specific that you want but feel is out of reach. You feel separated from what you truly want. What do you want that you feel would get you to your desired state of being (happiness...opposite pole of depression)? Be specific. What would you rather being doing with the time you spend at work? Yeah I know you want to workout but what else?	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/16 05:33 PM
1	How do you tell the difference between a girl playing with you for attention, and testing you to see how much effort you'll put in? The difference is that the former will not put in any effort and will expect you to put in all of it. She will give you ambiguous bits of attention that is platonic but slightly flirtatious. Enough to keep you chasing. But you will never catch her. The latter will give slightly more but will at some point tone it down or stop altogether to see how you respond. She'll test you. More than likely because she now has another option to possibly pursue and wants to decide which is best. Bottom line: a…	/r/seduction	02/02/16 07:12 PM
2	Girl said no to date, now what? Let's think about it. She started by saying that she "didn't want to say yes..." Meaning she simply doesn't want to say yes because she's not interested. "..and bail" means if she did say yes she'd more than likely flake on the date. She doesn't want to look or feel bad for rejecting your offer. The YMCA was just a convenient excuse. Plus, she will not be working out for hours on end at the Y. And I doubt she'll work out every day. She can make time if she wanted to. Again...she doesn't want to.…	/r/seduction	02/02/16 07:01 PM
1	[FR] First FR - MILF at the Gym... and Mandex. Just Approach! 'Preciate the feedback bruh	/r/TheRedPill	02/02/16 12:08 AM
1	[FR] First FR - MILF at the Gym... and Mandex. Just Approach! Sounds like a sista. lol I've been with so many single moms I can tell you the routine. 1- The reason she gave you the whole "our lives are completely different" routine is because you invited her to a car show and because of your response to "what do you have in mind"....taking a walk and talking. She's a single mom now going through a divorce. She wants to be "courted" and wooed. Had you recommended some typical date bullshit she would've been down. She wanted you to take her to dinner or to a…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/16 10:14 PM
3	Girl keeps showing interest then flaking, not sure how to respond I've been here before. The most recent one was a good friend I was kind of interested in. We used to hang out and she was really good about keeping plans. But at some point she started flaking on me. Happened at least 4 different times. And what's worse is that SHE was the one who would ask to hang out. The last straw was when she flaked on my birthday. She tried to reschedule and I told her I was busy. Cut all contact after that. I won't even respond to her messages. It sucks and I know you hat…	/r/seduction	30/01/16 04:54 PM
5	Gather around, kids...it's time for your daily dose of AWALT! I read this and was wondering why in the world she would even tell you. I know you're cool with her and all, but why tell you. But it hit me that she was trying to tell you before Chad told you OR see if he had already told you about the situation. Damage control. Not damage control for the relationship. Damage control for the plans she quite possibly had for YOU. I don't think she cared about her boyfriend finding out. Because if it had happened with a different Chad (which it probably has), sh…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/15 10:37 PM