docshay Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Being good at conversation sets you apart from 90% of guys — and it’s a skill you can actually train If you’re attractive and just say hi, that’s also the end of the conversation.	/r/seduction	17/07/25 10:09 PM
2	Twelve Ways To Improve Your Attractiveness To Women Great write up and list.	/r/seduction	03/07/21 06:20 AM
4	Only use texting to set up a date. I think this is /s, and if it is, it's pretty funny.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 06:36 PM
2	Getting into dating (Help) Find your purpose and be happy with yourself first. Then share your purpose and happiness with people around you. Then share it with women.	/r/seduction	22/06/20 08:09 PM
1	Girls who I tutor. Are they drop in tutoring sessions or for the entire quarter / semster? I think adding them on IG after the quarter / semester is fine and you can set up a date easily that way (reference her photos or story).	/r/seduction	16/05/19 06:02 PM
32	Have Proof Before And After Sex Don't post here often, but wouldn't you want to be specific in this case?	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/18 04:37 AM
3	Approached a girl at the gym It's an awkward situation all together. But yeah, a wave might've sufficed.	/r/seduction	12/12/17 04:20 AM
1	I will tell you one of the best places to meet women This is great advice.	/r/seduction	25/07/17 04:44 AM
1	The temptation of seduction You could try proposing an open relationship at the risk of hurting yourself immediately or down the line. But there would be a small chance where everything goes according to plan.	/r/seduction	20/04/17 07:08 PM
1	Is approaching someone with headphones in and talking a no go? Obviously you don't want to approach someone mid set, but as both of you are taking a breather or passing each other, striking up a short conversation and introducing yourself never hurt anyone. I am in the same boat as you, but have been getting a lot of eye contact at the regular gym recently (yet when I go to the climbing gym, I'm just a regular nobody lol). I understand respecting the work out, but I've seen some of the same people month after month and would be curious to talk to them. But …	/r/seduction	20/04/17 05:23 PM
4	This dude puts out the best infield on the internet, hands down I thought some of the things about a long term relationship were a bit off, but otherwise I thought it was decent. I don't watch much of these though...	/r/seduction	15/12/16 01:46 AM
5	Learned Helplessness vs. Depression: Just what exactly is the difference? Learned helplessness is finding out specific things that don't work. Depression is finding flaws in everything and being overwhelmed by it.	/r/seduction	19/08/16 07:56 PM
1	What are some examples of what to text a girl if you want to hook up? Netflix and chill?	/r/seduction	20/06/16 04:15 PM
6	[FR] A Newbie is Born - First Night Out Awesome write up, way to keep it honest and evaluate retrospectively what was going on. Do another write up when you go back to the mall with the same objective.	/r/seduction	17/06/16 11:03 PM
2	How can I develop a social life? Be interested in other people.	/r/seduction	16/06/16 04:40 AM
13	Eye contact hack Look at someone and pretend like you actually want to get to know them and get your message across.	/r/seduction	24/05/16 06:36 AM
17	5 Interesting Conversation Topics (Never Run Out of Things to Say Again) Super meta, I like the scope of this article. Too many times people are hoping for more specific pick up lines or ways to continue conversation, but using this mindset will always leave you with something to say.	/r/seduction	17/05/16 09:28 PM
1	How exactly do women sense insecurity/a lack of confidence? Posture, eye contact, voice patterns. Physical body.	/r/seduction	02/09/15 05:26 AM
1	How to tell between shy and non-interest? Yeah, I don't think it's intentional either. And maybe she doesn't understand dating. But I gave her the benefit of the doubt on being passive for too long, looking for any sign of interest to string me along. Even friends with boyfriends hit me up to hang out more often than she did. I fell for her too quickly. Dropped another plate to focus on her. Classic rookie seduction. Gotta treat the game more objectively. Not gonna make this mistake again..	/r/seduction	21/04/15 07:21 PM
2	How to tell between shy and non-interest? That's some positive thinking, and I appreciate it, but you haven't heard the whole story. I've asked her out to lunch, drinks, a phone call, a walk around campus, dinner, and a hike in mostly consecutive weeks, and she'd obliged to all. She replies to texts, but the only times she has initiated has been to share lab results and tell me see saw me biking. She said she was interested in hanging out over the weekend and I told her to text me when she was free recently- no response. It's a passive …	/r/seduction	21/04/15 09:38 AM
3	How to tell between shy and non-interest? Shes not gonna text you. Message me if she does (or doesn't). Hate to be so negative, but I had EXACTLY the same problem as you recently. She never initiated conversation, but always says yes to hanging out and we have a blast together - not in the sexual way, but in a way where conversation flows totally naturally, we are stimulated intellectually and are having a fun time. And it sucks that that is the kind of interaction I enjoy more than a physical one. Anyway, I chalked it up to being shy -…	/r/seduction	21/04/15 08:21 AM
2	College Daygame: A lot of tips I have on meeting and pulling girls at school. Where were you 6 years ago?	/r/seduction	11/04/15 01:33 AM
3	The primacy of your body Push yourself mentally now. Develop purpose, opinions, philosophies, etc. Read books, enjoy work/school.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 04:09 AM
-1	The primacy of your body Perhaps the original post should have mentioned pushing your body to physical limits, not just lifting.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 04:08 AM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/31/15 Do you have hobbies? Like a cycling club, rock climbing gym. Friends of friends at work?	/r/seduction	01/04/15 06:34 PM
7	A simple but incredibly effective tip What if I told you being handsome and confident are independent of each other.	/r/seduction	30/03/15 09:17 PM
5	A simple but incredibly effective tip If you smile immediately after eye contact, you probably do that to everyone, which is cool. If you wait a bit, then smile, it feels more personal.	/r/seduction	30/03/15 09:14 PM
3	How to listen? Emphathize	/r/seduction	13/03/15 05:15 AM
1	Confident? Your voice gives you away in milliseconds Find a purpose/goal in life and work hard towards fullfilling/achieving it.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/15 12:57 AM
1	How I love being nervous Yeah, seriously. There came a point where I forced myself to get excited for things instead of nervous. It's all perspective.	/r/seduction	06/03/15 07:28 AM
4	How to become a better dancer in club-style environments. Marked.	/r/seduction	02/01/15 04:29 AM
2	So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'? Pretty simple and straight forward. If I make eye contact with an ugly person, I look away pretty quickly.	/r/seduction	02/10/14 02:12 AM
0	What to make of girls who seemingly dislike muscular guys? How do you get approached? Anything other than dressing well?	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/14 09:41 PM
1	I'm a girl who wants to go out, but I need help getting over my approach anxiety! Many scenarios go can go into people not wanting to talk to you, including an already tough day, or one to come, etc. By building enough self-esteem and self-worth in your own mind to not be taken aback by rejection and attributing it to other factors (asshole person, or okay person in not-so-great current circumstances, or simply non-matching personalities), you might be on your way to working out the AA. Improve self-esteem and self-worth by working out your mind and body and know that when it…	/r/seduction	09/04/14 02:05 AM
20	Approaching a legitimate 10. Hilarious. You should get into satire fiction.	/r/seduction	12/03/14 05:20 PM
2	[FR] first ever day approach. Have you confirmed that the number is correct? Seems like a rushed #close with nothing to adhere the 2 parties other than equally good looks/fitness (if that). But great work on approaching the situation during the silence and brightness of the day, although there are mixed thoughts about approaching at a gym. Good to see you get the ball rolling after that break-up and keep it up.	/r/seduction	31/12/13 01:56 AM
10	[FR] Me making out with a random girl in a mall in 6 minutes - Audio Footage Where was this? I just moved to Irvine to attend UCI for graduate school. Trying to get a feel for the area and where what crowds hang out. I am 24 and am hoping to find non-undergraduates to talk to.	/r/seduction	01/10/13 04:21 AM
4	What Cold Showers & Approaching Have In Common No, it's not that easy. Cold water from start to finish. Quench that feeling of doubt in your decision to shower cold or go talk to the girl.	/r/seduction	07/09/13 06:14 PM
4	What Cold Showers & Approaching Have In Common Similar to approach anxiety with girls, cold showers try to dissuade you from taking (talking to) them right before you do. "This will be uncomfortable, I'm already feeling a bit cold, turning the handle the other way feels so much better, she's busy, I'm not in the mood to talk to her actually, she's out of my league." By being able to say "Fuck it" to cold showers, you might be better off saying "Fuck it" when thinking about approaching a girl.	/r/seduction	07/09/13 05:26 PM