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who said anything about putting them on a pedestal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:03 PM
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It's either chat, "chasing mediocrity" or jerking off by yourself. I'm a fan of women myself, but you know, can't be mediocre :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:13 PM
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Otto is absolutely right, real men suck dick like it's nobody's business
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:43 PM
0

I use tinder and weirdly enough, I get waves of matches everywhere but in my country. I had a short vacation in Poland and I got a ton while barely swiping. It just didn't caught on much I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:25 AM
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a man will tell his friend he's ugly as shit and hopeless Yeah, to bust his balls, not as a "matter of fact" thing. Incel spaces have regular threads where they post pics of each other for the sole purpose of tearing each other down and re-inforcing the notion that they have 0 chance at all to have a girlfriend as long as they live. This is ridiculous and not at all "how men socialize with each other".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:44 PM
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Women? Everyone does
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 04:31 PM
1

Wow AFC, I haven't heard that term in ages
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 09:56 AM
1

As someone who spins plates, spinning plates is a drag. I'd easily throw it away for a proper woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 09:56 AM
1

You're only attracted to trans men who pass because you don't even recognize them as trans, so you can't make an accurate assessment of this. "Passing" is not exactly something we can make statistics about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 10:42 AM
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I would guess that the average attractive woman probably has a short lived casual sex phase (maybe 1-6 partners total) and then wants nothing but commitment. This is way understating it. The low end of my attractive women friends have N-counts in the dozens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 10:36 AM
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I'm not attracted to trans men, because I only recognize they're trans men when they don't look like men This is silly. You're attracted to men. In most cases they pass and you'd only even know about the transition if you were told.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 10:34 AM
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Unironically, the most important part about sex is the validation and overall impact it has on you mentally. The pleasure is great most of the time, but it's not that meaningful or important in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 12:13 PM
1

True TRPers tend not to hang out much on /r/TheRedPill nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:39 PM
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No one's saying to make being a ho illegal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:23 PM
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Americans have such a self-centered view of the world, sheesh. Plenty of countries have and had women leaders, same with CEOs of companies. Besides, that's the result of the world of 3/4 decades ago, not the one of today. Times change, but it takes, well, time, for the change to actually be seen. When it comes to the younger generations, it's a different story. Boys have much worse results in school nowadays, are now a minority in college entries (which is celebrated), have much higher suicide r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:12 PM
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Every oppressed group does that eventually (or at least, vocal minorities of it), either towards others or towards themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:51 PM
3

When you're not that good at banter naturally and want to improve, that's the kind of thing you need to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:47 PM
2

...maybe that's why he's your fiancee then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:42 PM
3

Well idk about most but I fucking wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:03 PM
3

AMOG and fuck-close are terms I don't see used that often around here anymore, takes me back to the PUA forum days
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 07:34 PM
25

Exactly, fuckboi to me brings up images of try-hardy dudebros who can't get any
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:53 AM
1

Again, a community and its ideas can be entirely separate. If I make a community about healthy eating and then the members are a bunch of fat fucks that don't actually follow any of it, that doesn't make any healthy eaters out in the real world not healthy eaters. It makes the community shitty, not the ideas. Alphas don't go around "spouting off RP", they're not preachers lol I've talked with a few naturals out in the real world about TRP ideas. Despite them not having ever read any of it, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:53 PM
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Yes it is. There are spokesmen and practitioners. Name one. A set of ideas and the community that follows them aren't one and the same. I know 0 people in the TRP "community", but I've read a lot about TRP and know people who follow the tenets, both knowing and without knowing about TRP. It's like asking me to talk about someone who's a part of "veganism" or something. yet many posts are about the gym. So thats bullshit. What is, fat alphas or gym being important?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:03 PM
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"part of the RP"? RP isn't something you're a part of, it's a set of ideas about men, women and how they interact. Most alpha naturally follow TRP without even having to have read any of it or know of its existence. So yes, there are ugly alpha, even fat af alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 05:23 PM
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RP doesn't assume anything of the sort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 03:49 PM
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If it's worth while then by definition it is worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:31 PM
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Nah I'm not saying it's just for me. Of course the girl benefit is obvious, who are we trying to kid? But it's not just direct - the effect it has on my mental state, which is very positive, is also a boon with chicks. It's not solely one or the other. I've been in a relationship for six months and I lift much more now than when we started dating, so it's not just for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 01:26 PM
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Depends on your definition of jacked. I'm in Portugal and girls here have DEFINITELY noticed the change in my arms and shoulders, plus obviously the abs are a big deal. I'm not super yoked or anything you'd seriously see on /r/nattyorjuice , but I'm probably the most fit guy in the room in 99% of situations and the transition from a fat slob to that was massive. That and one of the biggest boons of the gym is the confidence boost. Seriously, going to the gym and seeing such a positive change in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 01:05 PM
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It's not though. The natural confidence boost (and everything else boost, personality-wise) you get is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:54 PM
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You can't lol, hide that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 11:13 PM
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It's the "only caveman, criminals and actual apes are alphas" school of thought
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 01:55 PM
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It's like you think he can pre-select people before wasting his time chatting with them. Boring people don't walk around with "I have nothing interesting to say" tattooed on their foreheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:39 PM
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I'd hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:58 AM
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I'll be honest here, I think the stats often pulled up for college rape, for example, are absolute ass. They're fabricated from an extrapolation of stats such as "have you ever had sexual contact while drunk" and sexual harassment acts, and they're shoved in people's faces the same way that stats such as "79 cents on the dollar" are. It very much feels like propaganda for some agenda. That said, I also believe that rape in general, but especially among young people (most of the cases I've heard …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 10:47 PM
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Yeah, even stuff like insane pressuring to the point of fear or taking advantage of drunk/high people at night clubs. I don't think anyone here can say they haven't seen it happen, some dude making out with a girl he who's barely conscious, who maybe was puking her guts out moments earlier. I always thought it was repulsive but never did much to stop it when I was younger and saw it happen, I really regret it now. From all the accounts I've heard of, they just move on and try not to think much o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 10:30 PM
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Howwwww the fuck would guys (or girls) even know the number anyway? I answered you how. What are you trying to get at?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 10:10 PM
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Hope so? But I doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:52 PM
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People in relationships talk about their past, it's pretty standard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:51 PM
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We expect our advances to get turned down up until a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:50 PM
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I've been talking to a few of the girls in my old friend group lately and a surprising amount has been raped (and I mean either by pure force or drugged into it), and they all developed "normal" sex lives. It only has to be a life-shaping event if you let it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:38 PM
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The issue with your stance is that you can't really convince someone out of a position that they haven't gotten to rationally. You can't "convince" me to not get grossed out by promiscuity in a partner or potential partner. Discussions about subjects like these being anchored on feelings shouldn't be an issue, as long as the discussion is based around the hard consequences of those feelings and how they should be dealt with (both by the person and by others). A higher partner-count doesn't gross…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:35 PM
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Honestly, as someone who cares about N-count a fair bit, people who cite those studies as reasons for caring are often just rationalizing their feelings. Promiscuity grosses me out. I wouldn't date a smoker, I wouldn't date someone who drank till she blacked out every night, I wouldn't date someone with a jar of toe-nail clippings and I wouldn't date someone promiscuous. It's just a visceral reaction, not much else to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:22 PM
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I was red for a long while until I thought I found one once, which I proceeded to date for two and a half years. Turns out she was also a total psycho who: Acted like an entitled brat to her parents and friends, many incident of which almost made me step in Had severe anger issues Thought hanging out once a month was "good enough", but then texted me (and only me, I checked) constantly, sometimes leaving me 200 unread messages while I slept Would skip exams she had spent a month in "hermit mode"…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:43 PM
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Rey is a Mary Sue, yeah. So is nearly every protagonist in a series with the demo and scope of Star Wars. Harry Potter is a Mary Sue, Katniss Everdeen is a Mary Sue, the main character of Ready Player One, Percy Jackson, the main guy from Eragon, Jack Reacher in Mission Impossible, etc. If Luke didn't lose to Vader in Empire, he'd pretty much be a golden example of a Mary Sue too. Rey's stuff is just following the hero's journey. She didn't hand Luke's anything to him (where do you even get this…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:54 PM
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Yeah I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:15 PM
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I don't think Rey fits that bill - she isn't "fighting against the patriarchy" or anything of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 01:36 PM
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I usually don't think of it in those terms, but you have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 09:33 AM
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I'm in college for Engineering and usually date girls from here or from the Med School next door, meaning they tend to be "study" types - but they still don't care at all for that kind of stuff, surprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 11:27 PM
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Yeah it's pretty rare here, I took my current GF to an art exhibit and her stance after 5 minutes was "So are we just supposed to look around? That's awkward". Just a different cultural stance on that kind of stuff I imagine. I'm in Portugal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 05:11 PM
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What, is it that weird to be into more book-ish types? They don't exactly grow on trees nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 05:03 PM
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Yeah but where do you even find them? I usually date smart, all As kind girls, but only one liked that sort of stuff (who turned out to be a psycho, but I digress).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:38 PM
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Man, to date the kind of girls you can take to a museum, what a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:15 PM
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Don't touch yourself, masturbation is genocide of potential lives lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 09:48 PM
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As someone in a Latino country, you people are delusional if you think grinding on strangers whole on a relationship is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 12:24 AM
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if she's cool there's a good chance that she will end up in the middle of some weird MFMFFMFF makeout sesh in the middle of the dance floor. And LDRs are the ones that are cucky lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 12:20 AM
2

Huh, I wish. Portuguese and UMC/HC here and the girls from my private school ran the CC as much as anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 04:31 AM
2

Tingles. But I think they're far from disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:42 PM
1

Part of being an alpha is not seeing "banter" as disrespectful behavior. Being an alpha is all about frame - if your response to a challenge to your frame is that negative, then your hold on it is probably pretty weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:39 AM
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Okay, what's your idea of alpha? Do you see alphas as someone who feels threatened by banter in any way, instead of someone who enjoys it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:27 AM
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I like playing around with shit tests and general banter, don't see the problem with it as long as it's handled well. Shutting down any indication of "poor behavior" is so un-fun, then I'd have to be the one to do everything in the conversation and I'm not a fan of playing the jester. Just let it flow. As long as you're controlling the frame, anything goes imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:25 AM
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Superman (her closest male equivalent) was (taking into account the age of the movies) never portrayed as a mary sue in film. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:19 AM
3

I think the "challenge" he means is banter, not actual disputes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:15 AM
1

Imo a woman who only had 1-2 relationships by age 28 (while also not being ugly as sin) is far more likely to have emotional baggage than someone who had a more normal love life. A pretty girl who is a virgin by age 30 is a HUGE red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 08:17 PM
2

You're taking that to an extreme though, 4 serious relationships in 14 years isn't by any means being a slut, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:05 PM
2

black pillers are the plague, my god
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:03 PM
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No because humans are a species with sexual dimorphism. I'm not calling you a hypocrite due to liking women with tits and then not having tits yourself. Your expectations that you yourself don't meet are far outside of that. That's like saying "I want to date someone who's very classy and well educated" and then being illiterate yourself. "Men and women are different" doesn't cut it as an excuse there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 03:27 PM
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I think a specific woman demanding a man who makes a ton of money while herself making much less is hypocritical yes, except for very specific situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:24 PM
2

Sounds a bit hypocritical then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 11:57 AM
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I don't know if saying this is controversial, but stable happy relationships > kinky sex and anal. It's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:03 AM
2

I don't mean to be insulting, but what's your own experience with serious relationships? What's your N-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:10 AM
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Most people become sexually active in their teens. You really wouldn't trust someone who, in a span of 14 years, had 4 serious relationships and nothing else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 11:43 PM
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You wouldn't trust someone who had an N-count of 4 if you met her at 28?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 11:38 PM
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Part of it is the lack of a chase yes. Since she made it so easy, to me the value of what we had felt lower. I value some level of romance in my LTRs and of modesty in the women I'm into (obviously I'm not expecting a virgin or someone who's too conservative, but let's be reasonable). Of course it's my fault that I went along as well, but considering "the chase", it isn't my role to put the breaks on stuff going down. I know it's shitty to say and goes against logic, but humans aren't robots and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 03:05 PM
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Because we barely knew each other when she did. We had talked for a while before meeting in person, sure, but she gave me a BJ on the first date and the second date was a booty call at her house. Maybe I'm just blue about this, but I like the proper courtship aspect of a relationship and I prefer it if the sex has emotions attached and isn't just mutual masturbation. Not that I didn't go along with it - I hadn't had any in a while and was still reeling from a shitty break-up - but I wasn't the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 02:51 PM
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Also, we’ve kinda forced average girls into hookup culture to date seriously. Not many average looking, unspectacular girls can pull off delaying sex for months until full commitment is secured. This is the worst part for me. So many girls who'd otherwise be great for LTRs are now slags because of community pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 01:05 PM
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I mean, I'd generally feel better about my relationship if my GF didn't put out as soon as she did. As it stands, I can't take it seriously as a long term thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:35 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 12:36 AM
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I agree. I'm 20 and nearly all of my relationships started and held on due to technology, even though I hate that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 12:16 AM
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Pretty much yes. I was the same as you, got tired of it after a few pick ups and am pretty much a serial monogamist now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 11:54 PM
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It very much is. Your ideas are bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 11:56 PM
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Yeah, no, that's not the case at all. I was a beta 5/10 who had my flings here and there but was still shit with girls in general and turned to TRP. Using reddit and being aware of TRP is all that was needed, and I assure you it's not that uncommon. Then I started hitting the gym and getting more social experience and stuff improved - now I consider myself relatively experienced for my age yes. Then I showed it to a close friend of mine that thought orbiting the girl he fancied was an optimal se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:56 PM
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You're aware that taking the red pill and getting results is a thing that happens, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:39 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:34 PM
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Same, too much time wasted on a girlfriend that called me cute. This fit like a glove.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:31 PM
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Lmao what makes you think people here aren't experienced? This isn't /r/braincels and most reds here are past the anger phase
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:29 PM
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It says more for women than for men imo, but it still says a fair bit for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 03:02 AM
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It is. Which is why I really wish our culture wasn't so focused on sex and partying, people get ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 11:33 PM
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I remember some specific details, stuff that tells them apart, but I don't exactly remember that much from the blander gals. Just a general sense of what it was like and a habit or two they had.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 11:03 AM
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I mean, just like nearly everyone has a "type", there have to be certain neutral traits you don't find as attractive, right? For example, I'm not the biggest fan of tall women, "kardashian-looking" women, short haired women (as in, above pixie cut), heavy partiers and anyone who fits into the "bad bitch" stereotype. I still recognize bald Amber Rose as attractive, just not someone I'd be attracted to. You can certainly find a good-looking woman that fits into a bunch of these, but I just won't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 12:55 PM
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That just means she has higher standards than the average "incel". She wanted a guy like me and wouldn't take anything less, incels won't go after a fatty 3/10. I can assure you most "incels" would get laid, even without changing much about themselves, if they just lowered their standards enough. I saw the threads where they'd post pictures of each other and bash each other, most of them weren't even under 4/10. I'm in a Comp Engineering course full of awkward spergy nerds. Half of the ones that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 08:22 PM
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It's not. That's what I'm trying to show. And it's not like I'm supposed to play nice when their discourse is more aggressive than anyone else's around here. Cancer patients are deathly ill and can't do much about it on their own except expect the treatments to go well. They're in that terrible situation through no fault of their own. "Incel-ness" is not directly fatal but it's very hateful and entirely self-imposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:27 PM
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We're in a subreddit made specifically for discussions about sexual strategy. I'm not going into /r/braincels and concern trolling their sub. If they didn't want a discussion, they wouldn't be posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:56 PM
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Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:20 PM
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Nah, let's cuddle them then. Pat incels on the back and go "Yeah, you're right, that couple of cm missing in your jawline is really what's holding you back from being a big player, not your lack of social skills, lack of willingness to get better or not leaving the basement. Keep sulking and beating yourself up, that helps buddy"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:53 PM
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Me. My girlfriend has a great body but an average face, I have a great body and a good looking face. She makes jokes about me "settling" and her reaching up a few rungs on the attractiveness ladder every so often. I'm very very ok with her looks though, wouldn't change them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:45 PM
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But, don't you WANT an enthusiastic sex partner? Even when I had a super low N count, I was very enthusiastic and initiated sex with my then boyfriend. Like everything, it depends on the context. Do I want enthusiasm from my sex partner? Absolutely, super important. Am I a little worried when we have sex on the second date? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:40 PM
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...why would I want others to be miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:38 PM
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There's purely amoral and there's pointless. It's like saying the fastest way to lose weight is to chop off your arm. It's technically correct, but no one that follows it is really happy with the deal since they're sacrificing so much for the relative little or no gain. Low paying job, live at home with mom, hustle for chicks numbers and never commit to any. I don't really see the point in that. What are you going to do, fuck her with mom in the other room? If you want to get hot chicks, then yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:36 PM
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...that's absolutely not what the Pareto principle means. All it means is that the top 20% of men get the pick of the top 80% of women. But it means nothing more than that. Except apparently for weak incels that try to twist every concept into them being the poor victims of an oppressive gynocentric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:18 PM
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That's true. I think we pay too much attention to details like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:32 AM
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I'm below average for countries like Holland, Sweden, Denmark, Croatia or Iceland. That's using the average of all men, which includes old and middle aged people, lowering the average. When going out at night with people my age (20), I'm not above average height by any means. I'm in Portugal, where the "average" is 174.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:27 AM
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I'm 20 but I look at some 15 year olds (like my little brother) and they're massive. "Little" dude passed me before he was 14 and just kept on growing. No wonder the "skinny junkie" look is in fashion, can't really look very bulky at that height.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:24 AM
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It's part of why I'm not that unhappy about being 180cm/5'11". I'm not a manlet but I'm not tall either, but it's a great height for bodybuilding (which I do)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:18 AM
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Yes sexless for sure. I have quite a few female friends who are still virgins into their mid-20s, some of them not even bad looking. It just happens that they'd like sex with a loving partner for their first, but they're not sloots and aren't desperate enough to just take anyone that shows up. Maybe it's just a cultural difference, I'm in Portugal. Hell, my own girlfriend hadn't had sex in over a year before we met, and she's hot as fuck. She just hadn't dated anyone in that time period and does…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:14 AM
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BP is a catch-all term for "not-RedPilled". So I dunno, there's plenty of reasons why they might not. But fundamentally, incels are people who consumed RP theory and perverted it to be a doomsday prophecy, so I doubt BPers can bring them back any more than RPers can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:12 AM
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I do all the time. It's the one group that won't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:10 AM
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Some do pump and dump (I know quite a few) but it's obviously not common enough to be considered in the grand scheme of things. I didn't mean the same amount in general. A decent looking woman that wants to have sex will get it much easier than a man of equivalent attractiveness, no question. Just that your quote: Women have no idea what it's like to get rejected by every woman you say hi to and get no sex or even touch for a year. Isn't really...realistic. Plenty of women know that. Below a cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 10:28 AM
1

How is penis size a selector? Anything above a micropenis can get a woman pregnant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 10:23 AM
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In my opinion, 185cm is the perfect height. Very above average height while also keeping the ability of being bulky naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 10:21 AM
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Your ideas are fucking herpes. Plenty of men fail despite an enormous amount of action - lifting, getting a job, all of that. Yeah...no they don't. First, they don't fail because doing those things is a win in and on itself. Second, they don't because that's something you're making up to excuse your inaction. Third, if "all of that" doesn't include getting good at game, then it's pointless. And even with little game you can get laid easily. You don't know me at all. I don't need to. The ideas yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 10:02 AM
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Women have no idea what it's like to get rejected by every woman you say hi to and get no sex or even touch for a year. You're aware that ugly women exist too, right? And that they probably attempt interacting with the opposite gender as much as you, so they get the same amount of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:51 AM
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Don't forget the most hilarious and depressing one - arguing about not having enough inches of bone in their mandible. Ah, woe is me, my skull circumference has come below the chad's, hand me free poon for I am oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:48 AM
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Incels internalize that shit to a level that it could pretty much be a religion. It becomes a core aspect of their being, playing oppressed, so every time someone counters their ideas it's like a personal attack. I don't understand your comparison with MRAs (assuming you mean people who campaign against unfair prison sentences and raise awareness of the suicide rate, and not just random neckbeards screaming online) but I'd say incels are 100x worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:46 AM
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Lmao even if the pussy fair dropped the perfect unicorn in their life, they'd still find some excuse to go back to their pit of loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:39 AM
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Honestly, for the real world? Not that much. The average guy or gal isn't on any of those, and the man:woman ratio is stilted beyond belief, so the results would be ridiculous too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:36 AM
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If your goal is to just have a high N count, regardless of the quality of that sex, and you don't mind throwing away everything else about you, sure. You do understand that there is more to life than pussy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:34 AM
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Prioritizing high FTO over attraction is pretty much the definition of picking beta bucks. Ideally, everyone would aim for the high FTO chad, but if the second best is a high FTO beta instead of the low FTO chad (that it is now) then most of your relationships would end up in /r/deadbedrooms in less than a year. Humans aren't robots, attraction and the ability to keep a relationship interesting is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:30 AM
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Seen the truth? Your ideas are fucking cancer. None of it is real, all of it comes from a need to rationalize your failures and lack of action. And like cancer, it spreads, because blaming society is easy and self-loathing is a self-perpetuating spiral. Failing feels better when you tell yourself the whole world was against you. Incels are like a dating version of SJWs, but I'd say they're even worse because at least SJWs think they're doing something good for the world, misguided and wretched t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:27 AM
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Depending on where you live, that's not above that much above average for your age. But it also "depends" - if you got those 15/17 until you were 25, then got married and didn't fuck anyone until now, that'd be high for 25. Imo the kinds of relationships people develop matter much more than just the number, which is something people here overlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:14 AM
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Makes sense, it's one of the countries where the average would be much higher, added onto being in a big city. 7 is the average for the US. I'd wager my little country in Europe has a lower average than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 02:13 AM
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What regions are those friends from? Different cultures and places have different average N counts. That article mentions Utah having an average of 2 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 02:05 AM
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...for adults in general, yes. At least from this source I found: https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2017/08/169555/average-numbers-sexual-partners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:50 AM
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Considering the average is around 7, yes that's very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:28 AM
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Just curious, what's your N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:26 PM
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Cis men are not a hivemind. I don't control or even influence other cis men just by virtue of being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:23 PM
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...why should they? Are you their dad? Prioritizing high FTO means more betabuxxing, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 07:29 PM
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Dude was tacky and boring. Having a high FTO just means he's a big beta. That's far from the top 1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 07:25 PM
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...yeah, no he's not. Money and health tell you nothing about someone's qualities as a partner. If anything, it's a good thing that she's not a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 07:16 PM
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Absolutely. This sub has felt like a fever dream ever since that "27% of adult men under 30 are virgins" stat came about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:26 PM
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This. That said, I still think Book of Pook should be a mandatory read to every guy struggling with women. I read it and it worked, I showed it to two blue friends of mine who wanted to change and the difference is like night and day. If if ended up being edited, I expected it to get new chapters on garbage "redpill societal gender theory" that now plagues the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:24 PM
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Game matters more than any of that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:20 PM
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Just not a fan of wasting my time arguing with deranged people on the internet who already proved they're not reading a damn thing I'm writing. It won't get me extra pussy after all, so it's worthless lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:22 AM
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I don't think you know what any of those terms mean. Focusing so much on pussy will just ensure you won't get any bro. Good luck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:52 AM
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Have you ever actually read any proper TRP content? ​ Which is bullshit, because you otherwise wouldn't do it unless you were expecting to get something out of it. ​ Yeah, I do get stuff out of it. I don't do things just for the sake of it, they do bring benefits. It's just the case that the main benefit tends not to be pussy. ​ I still go to the gym 5 days a week cause I'm a narcissist and know the effect an athletic body has not only on my health (both mental and physical) and on others even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:43 AM
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It's a straight forward way to say that it only worked when I really stopped giving a shit about if I was getting any out of it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:25 AM
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No one does TRP just to "better themselves" for no reason, the objective is pussy. Pretending otherwise is disingenuous and pretending to make yourself sound better than you actually are. One of the core tenets of TRP is outcome independence. People do come to TRP when they realize their SMV is in the shitter, but they won't ever raise their SMV (or anything else for that matter) if they stick to the "pussy is goal" mentality. That re-framing from outcome independence to self-betterment is what …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:21 AM
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Right, because people do "TRP" for any other reason The basis of TRP is that if you're doing this just to get better with women and not for yourself, your mentality is already fucked and you're going to fail regardless. You weren't trying to help in the first place, you were just attempting to virtue-signal to everyone else. To a sub that's constantly harping on about hypergamy and game not mattering? I must be virtue-signaling to the wrong crowd then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:13 AM
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Doing things to trick THOTs into thinking you're a worthwhile person, instead of doing the things you actually wanted to do but couldn't because they don't like it. Yes, I dropped 40 pounds and learned public speaking and group management solely because of thots. You had to be told to read? Specific types of books yes. I've always been a reader, just mostly fiction and History. If that was true, you wouldn't be purplepilldebate arguing about shit that already worked out for you. You'd easily ign…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:08 AM
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I don't think it's that drastic. Beta bucks is just delayed and less prevalent now. They are getting married in their 40s now after having...rougher youths, so to say. But they'll always be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:01 AM
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Time spent bettering myself - be it better social skills, hitting the gym, reading, etc. - is hardly ever time wasted. Why would I be angry that other people are happy with each other? Lots of projecting going on there. I'm successful, I got mine, I don't hate anything. If you were, you wouldn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:59 PM
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...as you can to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:10 PM
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And why do you think that is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:10 PM
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It's not that "I don't understand" your examples, it's that I think they're bullshit excuse-making from someone who reads a lot of theory but doesn't do anything about it. This sub has been an incel pit lately, and your replies are the perfect example of it. Lmao as someone who went through the full TRP journey, I have to ask - how long have you been stuck in the anger phase bud? It isn't that hard to turn your life around, y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:09 PM
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Way too much circlejerking. Was some incel sub removed or something? This sub has felt like a fever dream for the past week or so. I fully expect posts about skull shapes to come about in the following week.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:00 PM
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> We'd still be living in caves if we did things your way, just accepting things as they are instead of trying to find out why they are. ​ Excuse you? All I see is somebody finding excuses for not doing something about it. I already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:59 PM
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All is see is whining. Even if you saw an ugly ass dude with a mole get a hook up right in front of you through game alone, you'd excuse it with "ah she has a mole fetish". Get the fuck outta here. Become the chad or stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:52 PM
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A favorable outcome isn't throwing a valuable marriage and two kids to the curb, with someone he clearly still cares for, just because they had a rough period sex-wise. They both fucked up, it happens, sheesh, but they're getting better. It's not like she cheated on him or anything even close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:45 PM
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This is close to what we were talking about the other day. Hell, even I am having second thoughts about my current GF since we had sex on the second date and a bj on the first. Feels way too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:43 PM
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Get some empathy dude, for real. It isn't all about TRP theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:37 PM
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Always good to find excuses, ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:32 PM
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What I'm saying is his intent is irrelevant. I don't need to assume anything to know that offering a girl cheap beer when you're at a fancy restaurant that has a wine list is very tacky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:41 AM
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...yes, I am making assumptions, just like everyone has to. That's how human interactions work, we don't live in his head. He may not have meant it like that, but it doesn't matter, that's what it comes off as. And when you're on a fancy first date, that's tacky. It's the kind of stuff you can turn around if your game is good, but not the kind of mistake you'd do if your game is barely passable to begin with. If they were already dating, two months in, and he's making a stop at the super market …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:28 AM
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She expected him to not treat her like a bro on a date. He did. That's a very reasonable expectation on her part. In game it's the small things. The slight kino at the start, maintaining eye contact, not letting the conversation die and giving her the chance to talk about herself with interest, not asking a supposedly fancy lady if she wants some bud light to start a date off in a classy restaurant, you know, the basics. This is like if he non-jokingly asked her if she wanted a meal off of the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:08 AM
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The issue isn't the guy liking Bud light, it's the guy asking if she wants one while ignoring all the other options. It's just a terrible first impression. One that the guy ended up not changing. Does the dude have no class? Know your context, god damn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:52 AM
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The chick was saying he had money and was fit, but he was very boring, unmotivated and not classy so she wasn't interested. Seriously, asking the girl if she wants a Bud light? Who does he think she is, a fuckable bro? This flies in the face of the daily threads complaining about hypergamy. The replies were saying she was just shallow? For...refusing to date a boring slop just cause he had cash? Seems the opposite of shallow to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:33 AM
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I know this comment is days old but...yeah? I'm 20 and consider blowjobs foreplay, like hand jobs. A step above making out, a step below fucking. Is that not the norm? Do dudes stop considering themselves virgins if they get a BJ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:31 AM
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But in the end, it's the thing that matters the most. Massively disabled people get girlfriends and boyfriends, people with obesity and down's syndrome and so on get relationships, there was a homeless dude a while back that relied on ONSs to have a place to sleep in. But these dudes think having 1,2 cm less of chin bone, or a smaller bank account, means they're doomed for life. When in all reality, they just have unappealing personalities and a shitty attitude. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:17 PM
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PPD feels like a circlejerk more and more each day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:27 PM
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It's just proof that people can fix themselves. He's not alone in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:10 PM
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Preach, all I see IRL has it the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:00 PM
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Trying to associate morality to wanting or not wanting sex is insane and you should be wary of anyone who even tries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 08:47 PM
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Okay, so what the fuck is going on here, are we getting invaded by incels who only care about genetics and money? It feels like the comments lately have been going so much the way of the "durr, game doesn't matter" that it makes my head hurt. In a thread about dating where a date is described as dull because the dude was boring, everyone is making excuses for the dude. Jesus christ man, I really miss it when game was the main focus of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 08:46 PM
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Yes actually, lost 15kg from last July to January, am now gaining it back slowly in muscle. Got a girlfriend and quite a few dates out of it without trying much, whereas before it wasn't quite so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 08:42 PM
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I think this thread is just proving more people need to read proper TRP material. Y'all dumb as fuck, for real. OP is wrong because TRP doesn't think fitness and money are enough, and actually agrees with him in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 08:41 PM
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Absolutely. The fact that it most often comes from family members makes it even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:32 AM
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Sure, they'll say they want that but then expect a movie star body. I go to the gym on a near daily basis and I'd get those kinds of comments too at first. "Don't obsess on it too much, girls don't like metrossexuals" etc etc. Turns out looking ripped really outshines the "how long did it take to get like that?" thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:37 PM
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I didn't say much about actual numbers. What I'm saying is, current Western culture promotes casual sex pretty heavily, from music to movies to tv to novels to anything else, while also providing the means for it to happen more than in the past. When I was younger I did come to a point where casual stuff just started feeling hollow and like a shittier version of what it was in relationships. Now, I wasn't having sex yet, but I doubt the feeling would be much different. Bragging or not, if they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:07 PM
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It's something that's encouraged in all types of media, with people like me that don't like it being depicted as uptight or boring, and it's made super easy by hook-up apps. If anything, I wager a lot of non-open people get suckered into that kind of thing and then get fucked by the experience, both in the literal and metaphorical sense. I don't mind what a girl drinks as long as she's not a "bro" about it. Getting shitfaced to the point of passing out or puking, be it with wine, vodka or beer, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:48 PM
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Cause I ain't dating a bro. This is a dating advice thread. I also doubt that, for women, just throwing out the poon first thing is the best way to start a relationship without getting pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:19 PM
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I don't fuck the girls who I hear about having high N counts lol I'm just saying I meet plenty of women who do, friends of mine even who are on the cock carrousel weekly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:01 PM
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My N count is 3 (I'm 20). Before me, my GFs had 0, 1 and 3. At least, as far as I'm told.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:52 PM
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Nah, I've only had sex in relationships or with people I'd end up dating, but it just wasn't official yet (and even then I sort of felt I was rushing it). There's also the case of making out with randoms at clubs/parties, which I did do when I was younger and regret a bit, but it's not as big of a deal as sex. And it'd also filter heavily a dating pool that is already pretty thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:48 PM
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the N counts I'm finding in my early 20s are too stupid high As in, the N counts of women I meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:27 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:26 PM
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Giving up on your goals isn't masculine, even if the causes are very legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:25 PM
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Are there any other causes to this maladaptive behavior of western men? Yes. Socioeconomic trends led to a depressed and struggling youth. The "Schwarzeneggers" of the world are now so far away from the common man that the idea of idealizing them is removed entirely. Is this problem being blown out of proportion? Also yes, but no. Modernity brings with it huge problems that should be addressed, but in the grand scheme of things the "crisis of masculinity" is but a symptom. Is there a "crisis of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:24 PM
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My N count isn't that high, I'm not asking anything of her that I wouldn't follow myself. Sure, a loving non-exclusive relationship. My values are different. Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:18 PM
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Don't see the reason why. How does sexual activity affect partnership? You don't think a woman with 45+ N count can be affectionate? ​ It affects the way I look at her even. How can I see someone as I my life partner, my equal, when I know our core values about sex and relationships are entirely different? And even if "she's changed", she has devalued something that I value a lot and to me should be a personal and intimate experience. Not much going back on that. ​ Would you have a loving relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:54 PM
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The actual relationship part. A life partner. I'd have trouble seeing someone as a life partner if they'd been raw dogged by 45 dudes before me. Sort of takes a bit of the luster out of it. Cause if that's not it, why even have a relationship to begin with? Just set up FWBs/spin plates. Or have a "relationship", aka a FWB that you feel safe about not leaving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:37 PM
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Foregoing femininity and the romance game altogether, trying to outdo whoever they're trying to attract in "traditionally manly things" like drinking or smoking, talking like a dude (there's no bigger turn off than a girl that calls me "bro"), giving sex away easy and bragging of past sexual escapades loudly, etc. Even lack of the emotional side can come into it, I'd rather date an overly emotional girl than a robot/"bad bitch". Fuck "bad bitches" and everything that they represent. Essentially,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:32 PM
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...they do invest in relationships, I'm not denying that. But if all I wanted out of a relationship was for her not to leave me, for sex to happen and for favors, then it'd be a pretty raw deal for the time and effort invested (from both of us).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:24 PM
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Sure, but if that's all I wanted I wouldn't've gotten into a relationship. It's a lot to invest in someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:17 PM
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if you're red, you should be ok dating and investing into sluts smh at this way of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:52 PM
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Because I'm not a fan of casual hook ups and I wouldn't want to date someone who was either. Human beings are not robots, ask most men if they'd marry a porn star, hooker or stripper and they'd say no. Maybe I'm a fag about it, but to me sex is something intimate to share with something you have a relationship with, not a fun party trick to hand out like candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:51 PM
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I wish women were pickier tbh, the N counts I'm finding in my early 20s are too stupid high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:23 PM
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Just stop trying to be a fucking dude. It's gross. I don't want my girl to just be a bro I can fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:17 PM
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I'm not suffering from anything, I got my pick just fine lol but it's the common response, and that it's how I felt in my early red days
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:44 PM
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Most don't really get the privilege to filter at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:11 PM
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I've heard stuff like that said, yes. Not extremely common, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:53 PM
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First off, the "interacting with the opposite gender at all" was hyperbole. I'm not pretending you're afraid of your professors, though you could go that far if you went deeper into the mentality you're espousing (alluding to that guy who got in trouble for asking a colleague out for coffee in an elevator). The internet and the spread of media has poisoned our perspectives, making a mountain out of a molehill of problems that aren't really that common. The statistics aren't on your side here my …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 12:38 AM
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I'm unsure if you're taking the piss or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 12:25 AM
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And the 0.001% of dudes will abuse or rape them, even after showing no sign of being dangerous. So is the logical choice just hiding in a hole, afraid of any interaction with the opposite gender? Don't ever leave your house, danger is everywhere~~~
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 12:19 AM
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Lmao dude, just the opposite of what I want I love women, I'm not afraid to be the victim of the 0,001% that's psychotic. In fact, as far as I know, they should be much more afraid of us than other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 12:14 AM
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Yeah, have and am currently in a relationship where I suspect that's what's happening. I'm not a fan but atm I'll just let it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:56 PM
1

has the Game aspect of TRP become forgotten and/or obscured entirely? It seems so. A lot of the critics of TRP focus on the "manosphere theory" of it, focusing a lot on TRP theories on gender. A lot of its defenders then focused on that, and it slowly shifted to being more about that than anything else. People need to start reading The Book of Pook again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:31 PM
1

But the majority of opportunities are with small and medium sized companies who don't post them on job sites. That guy you met at a professional function is more likely to hire you and let you know if he knows anybody else who's looking than that guy you randomly e-mailed a resume to, who will ignore your e-mail entirely. Most medium and small companies have their own websites nowadays, with proper e-mails to send resumes to. The person who's getting your e-mail has the job of shifting through r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:27 PM
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I'm in the deep south, USA. We're friendly down here. I'd say that explains enough. I'm in a decently big city in Europe. We're friendly too, but cold approaches for "no reason" aren't really tolerated. If someone asks me for help navigating our metro system? Hell yeah I'll help, I'll even go with them to buy tickets as they might fuck it up due to language barriers if need be. But someone just saying hi on the street? People asking for cigarretes? All cool too. Saying "hi, what's up?" Out of li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:26 PM
1

Guys would also rather e-mail their resume to a company and send their customers/clients e-mails rather than call them. Okay, this is how I know you're a boomer. People e-mail their resumes or use official company procedure to apply for a job not because they're scared of rejection, but because it legitimately won't work otherwise. The person answering the phone has no authority on who gets hired, and much less has the power to throw a resume onto the pile. This isn't the 50s where you could wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:10 PM
2

"Hi. How's it going? "Uh...do I know you?" And now the people around you at staring at you for being the weirdo that talks to random strangers at a coffee shop, where they're not looking to be social. It's weird to even expect otherwise. Normal people talk to normal people -all- the time. Yeah, if they already know each other, or are in an environment like a bar/club/party where such a thing is expected to happen. Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:07 PM
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I'd pick dog 10/10. I'm a kickboxer and powerlifter - I'm way more comfortable in situations where I can use my body to overpower something, than a two-way verbal interaction. Meaning that I'm not shy at all in public speaking, for example, but cold approaches in the day are a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:55 PM
1

I mean, I honestly am starting to value personality a bit more than I did, but yeah most dudes couldn't give a rat's ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:55 PM
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I started reading up on TRP (or similar outlets like PUA) at age 12, but I guess a little bit of hopeless romantic blue stuck around. Shame really, cause all of the red advice really massively changed my life for the better, just the wishful thinking remained. Sounds great on the job, what went on for that to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:20 AM
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Of course, but it's also the kind of actions and outlook that are seen as the "right thing to do" according to The Red Pill. "Don't believe in unicorns, AWALT, women don't love like men do, keep safe in LTRs, never develop oneitis" I don't mean I want to be able to let myself go in relationships. I'm in one right now and I'm still hitting the gym as hard as always, still working on charisma and myself in other ways, etc. but it would feel good to be able to let my guard down a bit, supposedly th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:16 AM
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Just throwing away the concept of a relationship where you don't have to constantly keep yourself in check for getting one-itis or "not forgetting that she can't love you". Feels tiresome and hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 11:33 PM
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Maybe this is thread worthy, but is anyone actually happy with the red pill? As in, fully content that this is reality? I get that being blue pilled and pretending it ain't real is a shit response to reality - we ought to get on with life and do our best with what we get. But still. ​ Cause I dunno about you, but despite being decently successful by any metric, I'm just not that happy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 09:30 PM
1

I believe that someone who has to boast about how interesting they are generally isn't interesting at all. That said, I do have a decent variety of hobbies, from more physical/jock-y activities to more brainy/nerdy ones, both in and out of the home, travel a lot, and tend to keep up with current affairs well enough to discuss them. That and, you know, a personality. My issue isn't even just necessarily a lack of many hobbies. I can speak to my best friends about stuff I do that they don't care m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:30 PM
1

Spot on. In this case, my gf goes to the gym regularly (as much as I do, though not together) and likes our country's hip hop + Tarantino movies...but that's about it. She watches the same shows everyone else does, but on a surface level (so not much discussion there). No reading, no other hobbying of any kind. To be fair, she's also in med school and studying hard, getting insane grades. And the sex is good. But I kinda expected to not be bored of talking to her this soon, you know? It's barely…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:08 PM
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How common would you guys and gals reckon that girls in their early 20s who don't fancy nightclubs and are interesting in a more traditional sense are? I'm not looking for a tradthot or anything, just someone who has personality and hobbies and isn't into riding the cock carousel weekly I'm dating this chick who's pretty good at sex but pretty boring otherwise, and from what I survey it just seems that most people aren't that much more interesting? Idk, should I join a book club or something? I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 09:23 PM
1

As someone currently in a filler relationship, pretty much yea
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 04:36 PM
3

It might be dickish to say this, but most of the guys saying that weren't already contributing much to begin with, so I don't think it'll make that much of a difference. Some other guy, possibly with a lower SMV, will step into their place, and everything will go on as normal. Developing the male version of the crazy cat lady stereotype isn't really helping anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:48 PM
3

I mean, I can be honest about that - I do wish the idealized version was real. I'm moderately successful with women - had my fair share of relationships and hook ups and have a gf right now - but I'd still prefer it if reality wasn't what it was. Red pill is just the sad reality that we have to adapt to, and talking amongst each other about how best to navigate it. I don't think anyone's really that pleased with it being the mess that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:08 PM
1

Getting results doesn't mean you like the process
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:16 PM
1

nah they don't, being an incel isn't just a matter of being ugly. If this fucking dude isn't an incel, no incel with a personality is actually involuntary. And his gf is hot as fuck too, imagine if they just lowered their standards a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:15 PM
2

lmao the excuses in this forum are great, keep it up buds, proud of ya
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:13 PM
1

Hi, I'm that guy. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:08 PM
1

Yeah I do. The only thing I'd change is I'd move every blonde 7 or above a couple of points up, but that's just due to personal preference. I'd say up to your 3, nearly every single one is meme levels of ugly. Maybe even some of the 4s. That's not a balanced scale imo. Come on, your 3s include two land-whales, two crackheads and an inbred lady. It's 3 out of 10, that should mean something. Imo a 3/10 could be this lady from /r/amiugly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:53 PM
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I'm a frequent complainer about way too much shit. That said, I still have success - I have a pretty good relationship right now and have had in the past. Complaining about something isn't necessarily counter to sucking up and going through the process anyways. I don't like going to nightclubs and cold-approaching. In fact, I hate it. But when I do go to a nightclub, I still do it because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:44 PM
2

Real life recently has been showing me that rape is much more common than I expected, and especially under-reported. So no, all men aren't rapists, but the ones that are rape a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:42 PM
1

Jesus Christ dude, half of that scale is scary. I'd move everyone up until 7 back a number, merging the 2s and 1s into the new 1s. My friend is like a 4 in your scale, but no crooked eyes or any of that nonsense. Your 1 is absolutely unmateable, but your 2 also is, so it makes little sense to me to give two numbers away for that ahah I do agree with the 10s being a niche 9. Which is why my 10s are preppy blondes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:30 PM
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Well, I tried to be reasonable and use a scale that's...relevant. I only considered people my age, people who are 4 and above need to be reasonably fit, etc etc. So while there's more people I'd rate as a 2 or 3 than most guys, it also wouldn't be as disproportionately small compared to the 6 pile. I believe in any rating system there tends to be a skew towards positivity, simply because people don't want themselves or the things they like to be seen as just average. A 6/10 movie is supposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:52 PM
1

I know it's a scummy move to share friends like this, but all of these women except one (the 10 without a boyfriend, who's a friend of a friend) are actually personal acquaintances and friends of mine. I even dated 5 and had short flings with 7 and 9. If anything I feel like I'm overrating some of them due to it. I'm in Portugal though, so maybe my scale is tipped by a lower obesity rate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:35 PM
2

I like models-looking girls, not pseudo- manic pixie dream girls. My 10s have a bigger gap to my 9 than most people's 10s have to their 7s or 6s. Hell, one of the 10s and the 9 are close friends and in the photos they have side by side, the 10 outshines her so much she looks like a 5 or a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:00 AM
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I do, I just don't really consider them to be that attractive. I'd still shag my 4, she's under average imo but she's still decent looking, and maybe some 3s on very rare occasions. For any grade above 5 to mean something, the grades below it actually need to get used properly. If every non-centaur is immediately a 5, then that makes half the scale pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:57 AM
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I guess I put more girls than most people would in the 3 pile. It's supposed to be evenly distributed, most girls aren't that ugly, but I think people are naturally more reticent of giving a 7 than of giving a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:55 PM
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Who they date isn't that relevant to how they look. It's pretty common knowledge that women can aim up more than guys do. 5's current boyfriend isn't a dweeb, but he isn't that much of a chad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:52 PM
2

You know you can just ignore social media, right? Instagram and its stories, facebook and its everything (except the chat system). You can just say you didn't watch it and ask them in person. The point of talking isn't just to get info dude, socializing is an experience of its own
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:07 PM
1

unironically same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:26 PM
1

Second one is like a 5 at best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:25 PM
2

She looks like a younger Julianne Moore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:23 PM
1

OP wants a fap thread lol I'll go with albums, since only one picture is usually not enough. I'm also very picky and have a type, so these are one of the very few girls I know I consider 10s - they're pretty much flawless looks-wise imo. ​ 10: https://imgur.com/a/Tfl7WgH 10: https://imgur.com/a/T6rpNNV (lucky fucking dude , but also the definition of a chad) 9: https://imgur.com/a/tYdqIyb 8: https://imgur.com/a/dNA8skd 7: https://imgur.com/a/3Df0pL6 6: https://imgur.com/a/bzh049w 5: https://imgu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:21 PM
1

Jesus Christ the nerds on this site are insane What he's proposing is criminalizing a moral choice. The issue with murder isn't that it's immoral, it's that it kills people. It infringes on someone's else's rights and personal freedoms. Infidelity in marriage is, at best, breach of contract, and is already treated as such in divorce proceedings. Making it a criminal offense is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:07 PM
2

Lmao debate, don't be a nerd. This isn't a debate, we're not putting anyone on trial here. This is someone's feelings on specific situations that happened to them, and how to avoid causing them to come back. You're not going to "debate someone out of feeling their ex was rapey", learn some empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:32 AM
1

I answered your question - it depends on your definition of rape and on the particular actions of the person in question. Some people think rape is only a thing that happens at gunpoint by strangers in dark alleyways, others believe every tiny little thing is rape. Depending on your definition, those things may be rape, sexual assault, or just being a huge dickhead and taking way too many sexual liberties with someone who's unwilling. By my definition, the cases I described are rape for sure. ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:07 AM
1

I agree that it's morally wrong. But making it illegal is silly idea at best and a huge demented breach of the core of western constitutions at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:44 AM
10

Lmao criminalizing adultery for most adults. Let's increasingly restrict personal freedom in everyone's lives, makes total sense! ​ Inmate 1: What are you in for? Inmate 2: Oh, killed a dude and stole a car, you? Inmate 1: I had a side-bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:19 AM
2

Depends on the extent to which he was rapey. Any situation where heavy coercion, be that physical or emotional, or extensive pressuring occurs can be considered rapey. Silently and painfully complying with something after extensive pressuring to not upset someone you love is a thing that happens, just as one example. Can you call him a rapist? Ehh, not really. But it's still rapey to do something anyways after your partner has protested constantly about how much they don't like it. That, frequen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:15 AM
1

You don't know what consent is dude? It's not that hard to check
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:28 PM
1

A boyfriend that pressures his SO into sexual acts and often does sexual acts himself without explicit consent from his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:14 PM
1

take a gander
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:08 PM
7

Yeah they do. Cheating is a crime of opportunity, not just a value game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:17 AM
9

If she intends on just staying at home always, no, fuck that. I want a chick that's as busy as me. The always-at-home housewife is what I'd want if I was a man-baby. I want a life partner, not a sex+chore factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:15 AM
2

Cause that's fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:05 AM
2

Experienced =/= Good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 10:02 AM
3

Or he's pragmatic and doesn't let his ego lose him money for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:46 AM
11

Absolutely this. I wouldn't even just fixate on sexual acts, but acts in general. If my GF put a ton of effort just to see her ex once a week, travelling huge distances on weekends for example, but only put enough effort to go out with me once every two weeks despite us being neighbors, I'd be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:32 PM
1

It's a fun chat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:46 AM
5

People with less experience overcomplicate shit and expect too much from too little. I know I did. Half of the porn stuff is fun to watch but not that fun to actually do. Angles of insertion get awkward, rhythm and balancing both bodies is a thing to worry about, over-stimulation is a thing (can't really focus on that great blowjob you're getting if you're also having to eat her out, leading to two meh acts). Facials are way more of a mess than expected. Keeping it simple is definitely the way, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:30 AM
2

Yeah, I redpilled 3 friends of mine, though this happened during high school. They used to be meek, very shy and had huge approach anxiety. One became a regular guy, one has a girlfriend now and is very happy (while being the most textbook redpill guy of us, as he's crazy about the theory) and the third is a huge chad fuckmeister, getting into everyone's pants and travelling the world constantly, though he can get needy for friends often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 10:23 AM
4

Exactly. No discord and an over-restrictive mod team, along with a meh community from what I've seen, usually leads to shitty responses or just removal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:38 AM
8

Or "just be yourself". Dudes usually get in that mess by being themselves in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:24 AM
13

I disagree with /r/fitness, lots of pissing around the bush in that place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:23 AM
1

As a small sidenote, I know way too many girls whose first time was rape. My current girlfriend too in fact, my best friend from high school, a couple of friends whose rape I only learned about recently. This shit is way too widespread, and I live in Portugal, a very safe country. I lost my virginity a week and a half ago and it was fucking great. I wasn't the best, had a lot of performance anxiety. I was long overdue for it, being 20, so a lot of expectations were built up (mostly on my own per…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:35 PM
1

Your flair is too accurate for most posts here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:50 PM
8

Absolutely. Which is why we keep having posts about looks mattering more than charisma/personality when we have plenty of examples that show that's false.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:49 PM
4

I mean, if there is a next time then you absolutely should.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:59 AM
1

So will I
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:48 AM
1

North Korea calls itself a Democratic People's Republic. It is none of those things. The United Socialist Party of Venezuela is responsible, absolutely, but saying it's because of socialism is beyond oversimplifying things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:36 AM
1

I agree that it's in the shitter, but it's a much more complex story than "muh socialism" though, especially when the country wasn't all that socialist to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:03 AM
1

Actual socialists cringe whenever Venezuela is mentioned as a socialist country. 70% of business in Venezuela is private, it's not as socialist as the right would lead you to believe. I'm a social democrat though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 02:14 AM
2

...guy, I like my relationship and the girl I'm with, and I liked my previous ones until I didn't at which point I ended them. You seem to have a lot of stuff bottled up. I don't know what this weird rant is trying to accomplish beyond you trying to justify your anger to the world. Also, Keanu Reeves is apparently dating Jamie Clayton
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:38 AM
2

A cuck mentality will lead to cuck outcomes. Git gud instead of bitching about how life is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:15 AM
1

He looks like he has terminal cancer, what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:48 AM
1

Jesus christ that's low bf%, do you take anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:29 AM
1

...it doesn't, that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:48 PM
0

...is 100+ a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:36 PM
2

Back in my day we'd just say they haven't found the right one. But ok, any reason to throw the towel is a good one nowadays lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:42 PM
7

Reminds me of people complaining about how hard being fat is, while not reducing their calorie intake. It's not that fucking hard, jesus. THIS is why Western culture needs proper Men to give some guidance to their fellows again, not the bloody Gillette ad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:25 PM
3

That's a whole fucking lot. That's like, literally another fucking life. If you're that far from it that you need to start from zero, sure. Long road ahead of ya. But you should've been working on this from day one, you know? It's pretty obvious Whine less and work harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:24 PM
1

I like women. Nearly nothing of what you talked about is relevant to most of the women I know. Either leave the basement or get to know some better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:19 PM
0

This thread is about how the groups of TRP, incels and white nationalism get lumped together. OP tried to find a common factor in the beliefs of those groups in general. If you believe that feminists are all so different to one another that you simply can group them up, but you believe that redpillers are pretty much all the same and it's easy to describe them, then you're a hypocrite. This is not what's going on. It's a big leap to go "this is a common characteristic in a specific group" to "so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:04 PM
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It's not that labels are bad, just that they commonly get misinterpreted. I don't see what you're so up in arms about, OP didn't label anyone. He claimed one common way that people relate TRP and incels is that they're generally against feminism. Which those groups tend to be. He didn't target anyone in this thread and go "So, you dislike feminism, incel much?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:57 PM
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you'll have to actually defend something. I think what that person doesn't want is to have to defend something they don't believe in. Adhering to a label such as leftist or feminist carries a lot of weight. I'm a leftist for example, if we're discussing policy alone, but I despise third wave feminism. That might mean that some people class me as classical liberal or even centrist. I've been called a Nazi and a right winger more than once just for opposing third wave feminism, for example. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:50 PM
1

Yeah, dudes who are just perma-negative and aren't there for the improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:07 PM
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