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Because I enjoy eating food and living under a roof and that takes money. What kind of idiotic question is this?? You need a career to survive barring rare circumstances. I enjoy surviving. Thus I value my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:55 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:52 PM
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I had one who could not. I did not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:51 PM
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I do not use make up. I never learned how to apply it. If other women want to use it they are welcome to, but in my life it would be a pointless expense and a waste of time. I dont really "judge" my own attractiveness either. I look how Iook. The mirror is for making sure i dont have toothpaste on my nose, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:26 PM
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It works for some people. More power to them. For me, it is a NEVER. I dislike children and I have invested far too much time in my career to make it worth it. If I ever acquired a child through some fluke and my partner wanted to stay home, I would be 100% ok with that-- I make plenty of money. But I personally would never ever agree to stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:55 PM
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No. Infidelity is my line in the sand. I wouldn't stay with an unfaithful partner, and I wouldn't stay with one who accused me of infidelity. Trust is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:41 PM
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This one doesnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:37 PM
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This is literally me. I majored in computer science and now work as a programmer 😅 I struggle to make friends with other women, always have. But I have no problem being "the only girl in the room." I get along really well with men and many of my interests trend masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:36 PM
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Who hates "sluts"? I could care less who anybody is sleeping with (other than myself and my boyfriend). It has absolutely no bearing otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:32 PM
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Not at all. I make more than enough. I do care about laziness though. If he makes minimum wage because he works part time at a shitty job with no ambitions and smokes weed the rest of the time -- no bueno. If he makes minimum wage being an overworked, undervalued social worker who cares and wants to make the world a better place -- good!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:07 PM
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Chocolate (he may actually love chocolate more than me). I also crocheted him a tiny little version of our dog who he adores. We are delaying Valentines dinner because I get a gift card to a fancy restaurant next week from work -- woohoo, work-a-versary! I'll order pizza for tonight and we will watch Live PD. Perfect Valentines day <3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:00 PM
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I live in a town of 3k. There is nobody on Tinder who is not also on meth. I have no interest in methheads OR in one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:42 PM
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Absolutely untrue. Many women can and do support a stay at home husband. Your statement is blatantly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:36 PM
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No because he would have been 15 and that shit's illegal!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:33 PM
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No LOL. He turned out to be a dickhead. He would only have dragged me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:32 PM
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That is not a source. And I question your professor. Sample size is hugely important in statistics and it is a large part of statistics 101 to learn how to calculate the appropriate sample size. 30 is an absurdly small sample size for all but the simplest experiments. Source: PhD in statistical genetics, taught Intro to Stats for years to undergrads, including how to calculate appropriate sample sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:13 PM
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Would really really really like to see a source for that. The number of samples required to assert statistical significance is proportional to the effect size. There is no "one size fits all" sample size. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sample_size_determination
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:13 PM
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People who say that are morons. Women know what they want. They happen to often want different things, because women are individuals. Idiots who cannot understand that get confused and start screaming the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:06 PM
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I am not a traditional woman. If "traditional man" means you cannot accept that, or your ego cant handle that, then I have no interest in dating you. So modern for me I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:06 PM
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I dont care if cat is in the room. She minds her own business. Dog gets locked out though. He is... nosy. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:03 PM
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Yes. There is no relationship without trust. If I ever lost the trust I have for him, I would end the relationship. Likewise if he ever indicated that he had lost trust for me, I would end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:57 PM
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Yes to both. I dont want kids and I dont really care about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:54 PM
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.....no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:50 PM
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Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:48 PM
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Easily. I dont want nor do I have casual sex to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:48 PM
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I just like money.... who doesn't??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:50 PM
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To find a life partner who shares my goals. Life can be lonely. Its nice to find somebody to share it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:44 PM
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Should have gone to vet school instead of grad school. Oh well. Saving money now for that goal. I'm hoping to go back by 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:41 PM
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Quite honestly it is my number one criteria. I absolutely could not handle a significantly less intelligent partner. It doesn't matter how cute a guy is: if he opens his mouth and reveals himself to be an idiot, it's game over for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:39 PM
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Probably a combination of not being very physically attractive (I dont dress well, i dont use makeup, i usually look like shit to be honest) and also being pretty "intimidating." I have a very masculine personality (and career). I have my shit together a lot more than most people my age in my area -- and that scares people off I think. The number of men who claim they're fine with a bread winning wife is a lot larger than the number who can actually handle it. Which is silly. More money is bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 07:38 PM
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Men have never really given me the time of day. I've initiated every relationship I've ever had (all 2 of them.) Maybe that will change someday, but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:00 PM
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Theres only 1 reason I have ever rejected a guy: I didnt want to go out with him. It's very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:37 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/DXaS6dn Have fun reverse image searching. You wont find it :) Enjoy being wrong! I know you'll handle it just as well as always. Best friends forever <3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:55 PM
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I mean.... the brain is awesome. And part of the reason it is so awesome is that it does everything it does WHILE BEING an actual squishy piece of meat. That's pretty cool! :P
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:29 AM
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So you believe that "AWALT LOL" is a good and sufficient model to describe human behavior? Oversimplifying patterns to the point of "silly little phrases" is not and has NEVER BEEN a good way to learn about the world. I never denied the existence of patterns in my post. I said that using vastly simplified models to describe complex interactions is bad science. That is still my stance. Patterns can be complex. "AWALT" is not. Can you see the difference? Also, I am quite done defending myself on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:28 AM
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Not what I said, but hey, everybody's allowed to believe what they want :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:24 AM
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Sweet! You can? Maybe you can tell me what it says. I can puzzle out bits and pieces but language was never my specialty :D haven't tried Latin since good old Ecce Romani in middle school, haha! My discipline was genomic data science. Genetics of gene expression in S. cerevisiae (yeast!) metabolic pathways, along with a pretty slick new statistical method to detect gene by environment interaction that is robust to monotonic transformation. Very very interesting stuff. I miss academia but I like …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:54 AM
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I figured he was being disingenuous, but he stated a very good example of exactly what I was talking about, so I went with it :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:43 AM
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I stated that I BELIEVE that chucking people in buckets with cutesy names is stupid, and that I believe in treating people as individuals. That is not even close to denying that patterns and trends exist. Please read more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:42 AM
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Yes. You caught me. I am clearly saying that science isnt real. Those are words that appear in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:41 AM
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Can you show me where I said that? Because I didnt. I stated that I believe in treating all people as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:40 AM
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You want a picture of my diploma? I'll take one for you tomorrow, it's on my desk at work. It's in Latin though :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:38 AM
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Nothing in my comment denies the existence of pattern? Literally all I said was that I believe people are individuals and should be treated as such. I just wrote a really long response to basically this same comment, and I'm on a phone so I am not typing it up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:49 PM
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Hon. Dont try to talk to me about data science. Please. I literally have a PhD in it. It is actually my career. I know its limitations. Have you used text to speech software recently? Automatic face detection on your camera? Have you talked to a chat bot? Have you ever been contacted by a bot on a website? Had a book suggested to you by Amazon or a movie by Netflix? None of these example technologies come anywhere close to "99%" accuracy (and many times perform laughably badly, despite billions …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:44 PM
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I am saying that every woman is unique. That there is no hivemind. Did you not read my whole comment? It literally says "I believe I am a human being[... ] along with every other woman [and man]." I'm not sure where you're getting the "not like other girls" from when my comment says the opposite. Read next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 07:58 PM
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Missed what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:33 PM
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I meant specifically gay as in "gay versus lesbian" :P its weird that there's not a specifically male word equivalent to "lesbians."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:25 PM
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Exactly, or AWALT, or "men are pigs" or whatever. All dumb, all useless. Turns out real life is more complicated than catchphrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:32 PM
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Do you actually have a source or ..... ? I can find the $$$ correlates to more drinking study, but everything else says men drink more than women and white people are #3 or #4 in terms of drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:57 PM
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Not interested in gettingarried, so no. The whole proposal thing is.... a dumb tradition. No interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:22 PM
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Extremely modern. I make more money, I have the investments, I own the house (my name only). I'd say that we both take the lead pretty equally in terms of "what should we do tonight" and things like that. But in terms of big future stuff, he knows that I have my own plan, and while he is welcome to come along for the ride, I am deciding my own destiny. I will not move for him to take another job (I will always make more, regardless). My plan is set. I will support him in whatever he decides to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:18 PM
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Do you have some statistics to back up this claim? Do UMC white women actually drink more than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:59 PM
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The only "male profession" I can think of is gay porn star, which sounds very interesting to be honest. I bet he would have some very interesting stories to tell. In terms of professions that anybody can have, the important thing is that you can support yourself and be a functioning adult and that you do not actively hate your job so much that you are unable to enjoy life otherwise. I'm not interested in bums and I cannot stand ultra negative types.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:56 PM
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I believe that I'm a human being with distinct preferences and quirks who is not plugged into some female hivemind which governs my every action. Along with every other woman. And that men are equally varied and different and making up little phrases to describe the behavior of anyone based solely on gender is dumb as hell. I believe that the most important things in a relationship are trust and respect, and any relationship lacking those things is doomed to fail. You know, really controversial …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:51 PM
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Because enough dudes have gone absolutely nutso on me when they get rejected that I'd rather be safe and let them down more gently. The question you should be asking is, "why cant some men take no for an answer?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:46 PM
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Oh, you're right. My cat definitely rules my life. At least she rules when I wake up in the morning (for feeding purposes). I think she colludes with the dog ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:22 PM
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So your argument now is that men who spend time overseas fucking around are not marriageable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:09 PM
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That women can (and do) fuck off to Europe and not have their employment prospects limited, while men are blackballed from industry should they attempt it. Most women can't do that, without shooting their career or financial future in the foot, and many men do. The common denominator is money, not gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:20 AM
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This is not my experience. You apparently cant offer any actual evidence to change my mind, so I will continue depending on my own life experience as a woman and an employer. Rich white chicks on Instagram are not representative of women as a whole. It baffles me that people dont seem to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:59 PM
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That is not my experience in the slightest. In my grad school cohort, literally nobody spent as much as a day unemployed / not in school from middle school on, men and women. In my current workplace, same story. Because unemployment without a good reason trashes your resume. And no actual employer buys "finding yourself" as a good reason. Source: woman for many years, also person with hiring authority who has trashed many bad resumes from both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:57 PM
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I know half a dozen men teaching English overseas. Not a great example. Their employment prospects were basically zero in the US, so they wont lose anything from "finding themselves."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:51 PM
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Most women cannot afford to go "eat pray love" in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:44 PM
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I would probably notice if something other than 1.) Chocolate and 2.) Me was somehow mysteriously ruling my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:43 PM
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It's not OK if its cheating. Otherwise I dont give a flying fuck about what consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes, because I'm not a ridiculous busybody with nothing better to do than wrong my hands about "kids these days."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:42 PM
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I met my boyfriend at work, going on a year now with him. 30% of American married couples met at work. The common advice is to avoid because it can become messy, but the reality is that career focused people often dont have many other ways to meet similar individuals...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:39 PM
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The heck is an FSM and how did I never notice it "ruling my life"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:37 PM
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Most women do not have a time in their lives where it is socially acceptable to be unemployed. White upper class Instagram chicks with trust funds, maybe. The vast majority of us who dont fit into that category dont get that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:36 PM
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If you dont want to date women who have had short term partners, then dont date them. It's extremely simple. I do not understand what you are trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:24 PM
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Whoa there broton, take a chill pill, honey. It's possible to consider something stupid while being perfectly calm. Amazing, isn't it? Turns out it's pretty... "silly"... to read into peoples' tone on the Internet when you can't actually infer anything about it. See, I used the word "silly" so you won't worry about me not being "calm." Have a wonderful day (the chill pill will help!)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:15 AM
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Calm down broseph. My comment did not "pin" anything on men. I simply stated that using that statistic to claim that women are at fault for the majority of divorces I'd stupid. Because that's not what it says. Why is that so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:03 PM
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Men are more likely to cheat than woman. It doesn't matter how it "seems" to you. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1111/1467-8721.00143
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:03 PM
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Literally not what he said. The statistic is stupid because it tells you nothing about whose fault it is. So trying to use it to claim that women are at fault for more divorces is moronic. It doesn't tell you that. It has nothing to do with that. Why is this so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:01 PM
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THANK YOU. I hear this stupid statistic trotted out constantly. "Initiating" does not constitute fault. If your wife cheats and you, and YOU file for divorce, are we now going to claim that it's your fault the marriage ended? Initiation of divorce has NOTHING TO DO with who is at fault for the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 01:00 PM
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No. How is that fair to the kid at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:54 PM
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Lots of kids think they know everything. It's kind of a requisite part of being a teenager. I doubt many middle aged people exist who can look back at age 17 and NOT think: "man, I was a moron then." So I think that beliefs held at 17 will have little bearing on beliefs held at 45, and little bearing on how the 17 year old is going to turn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:46 PM
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My hope is neither. I'd love a world where literally no one cares or wants to know what you're up to in the bedroom. At least then I wouldn't have to hear about it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:42 PM
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Very few men can understand subtle flirting. I prefer to be absolutely direct, but them again I'm not great on the subtlety side of things either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:40 PM
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I'd be fine with it. Not super interested in marriage tbh. It wouldn't help with taxes and if you get a proper contract drawn up by a real lawyer, you can buy property together without too much worry. Never having kids so that doesnt play into it. The ceremony and label means nothing to me, and the actual event of the wedding sounds.... absolutely terrible. No thanks. GF forever is fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:15 PM
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Yep. I did. Easy if you cant be bothered about social stuff. Repercussions? Maybe. But not anything I've cared about so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:12 PM
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Absolutely comfortable. He knows me, and my opinions, and he would agree with most of what I've said, in fact. What he didnt agree with we could have a good debate on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:10 PM
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Absolutely none. If he is going to cheat, he is going to cheat, and trying to control him is pointless. Trust is the absolute foundation of a relationship. If I cant trust him, there is no relationship. So I choose to trust. If he breaks that trust he is out on his ass. Edit: oh geez, I totally misread. I thought this was about keeping your SO from cheating. My bad, apologies. In terms of myself, I have never felt the slightest temptation to cheat so I have never worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:19 PM
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I dont use social media and I dont care about it. But I would break it off with someone who made this request. It is a massive red flag for controlling behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:10 PM
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This is simply untrue. Most prenups (vetted by an actual lawyer to confirm they dont have impossible clauses) work as intended. If there is a concern you can always go the Trust route. Of course I would never marry a deadbeat dude either. It is hard to withhold marital property with a prenup, that is true. But I have no problem splitting that. That's literally how marriage works. That's what you signed up for. However I have no intention of losing my house which I owned prior to marriage just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:53 PM
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Nah. I'd have an ironclad prenup so no financial worries. Just really dont care very much since the change in tax status wouldn't benefit us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:21 PM
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The market crashed. As long as he didnt sell, though, he got it all back + some. But it was a scary time to log into your investment accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:08 PM
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Could not possibly care less. The only thing I would care about is if he displays signs of being an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:01 PM
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TIL I do not exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:59 PM
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N = 2. No idea what his is. Never asked, dont care. He's never asked mine either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:56 PM
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I never really cared much about them. They are kinda funny looking to be honest. Then I met my boyfriend. Damn. His penis is... gorgeous. Like it could be a model. Michaelangelo couldn't do it justice. Stull think other penises are pretty damn silly looking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:33 PM
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Well, the most immediate consequence is that sex is not had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:26 PM
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I do! I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:16 PM
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Self awareness is definitely lacking around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:05 PM
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Yes. What a ridiculous question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:59 PM
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Completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:47 PM
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If both people work full time, then to me only an equal split is acceptable. An actually equal split, not "he mows the lawn while she cooks, cleans, and manages the entire house." I would not remain in a relationship where this was not the case. I am nobody's mother. I will not carry your dead weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:32 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:27 PM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:21 PM
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It doesnt offend me. It just informs me that the person doing the rating is not compatible with me on any level. It's great as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:17 PM
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I have made the first move in situations when I wanted to. If I dont make it, it means I dont want to. So far everything has worked out. Can't speak for anybody else, of course, but I am perfectly comfortable making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 05:16 PM
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Not neat :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:50 PM
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He was previously married. So clearly not THAT terrible with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:43 PM
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Oh, so it's you in the video? Neat. Or this is just completely baseless conjecture that you just made up about a stranger. Not neat :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:41 PM
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Extremely important. I do not find fat men attractive in the vast vast majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:23 PM
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Positivity. Trustworthiness. Intelligence (not an IQ thing, or a fancy degree thing. Intellectual curiosity and a willingness to learn is all I ask for). Physically attractive (to me). Those are my non-negotiables. Must have all 4 to even be considered. Edit: forgot to mention, no kids, ever. More flexible: similar goals in life (ie, real estate empire). Shared interests or hobbies we can do together. Ambition. Likes horses, and cats, and dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:18 PM
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This is funny to me. I have an extremely deep voice for a woman. To the extent that I get mistaken for a man on the phone. My boyfriends voice is substantially higher than mine. I do love an awesome voice (that British guy? On the show River Monsters? I would bang his voice. Not him. The voice) but it never really entered my mind as a drawback when it comes to my boyfriend. Other factors are more important I guess. No feature exists in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:11 PM
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Envy and jealousy are not problems for me. I am happy with my life that I have built. If somebody makes more money than me, so what? I have plenty. If my guy goes off and cheats, I'd be sad, sure, but it would be clear that we were never compatible from the beginning (I believe that cheating is never acceptable under any circumstance). There is nothing going on in anyone else's life that would tempt me to give up even a square inch of my own life. I am content with who I am and what I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:05 PM
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In my opinion, I would MUCH rather be single than involved with somebody who I was not attracted to. It's so much easier to be single. If the evidence was telling me that I was never going to get a partner who I actually found attractive, I'd say "oh well" and focus on other things. In fact, I spent a significant part of my life doing just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:01 PM
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Not interested. If you self identify as a "player" we are almost certainly incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:57 PM
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Yes. I love money. So I went out and got educated and got a job that makes lots of it. And I bought a house that makes even more. It's awesome. Oh, you meant like in men? Dont care. I dont need or want their money. I outearn my boyfriend significantly and we are very happy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:18 PM
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Nah. I won't pardon it. I get shit done, just like the men in my office. Because, shocker, I'm just as good (better than most of them tbh, more experience). The hell kind of career do you have that people are straight up breaking down crying in the office?? I never saw that once even in 5 years of grad school (which was faaaaaar tougher than any job I've ever had, and I worked manual labor jobs for years). In any case, now you've met your counter example :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:23 PM
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Lovely to meet you too! Never had much of a need to cry at work. I'd do it in my truck of course if the opportunity arose :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 11:16 AM
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Hi, nice to meet ya, I'm a feminist and very successful software engineer who has never cried at her desk :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:46 PM
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I'd rather not be in a relationship at all than one where somebody has "the upper hand." I want an equal. Not an underling or a manager. If we are not on the level it was doomed to fail anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:19 PM
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Absolutely not. I would not even date somebody with adult children. I know way too many grandparents who end up raising grandkids because the kids are pieces of shit. No thanks. No kids, never kids. All hail the bilateral salpingectomy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:16 PM
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My boyfriend is super nice. It's a huge part of what attracted me to him. He is sweet and thoughtful and cuddly. He will move heaven and earth for his younger siblings. And he absolutely melts whenever he sees a cute animal (particularly bunnies). He is adorable and I love him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:12 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:08 PM
1

Cant speak for anyone else. But all is fine and dandy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:07 PM
0

Replying to somebody's comments on a public internet forum is hardly "not letting him speak."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:07 AM
1

*any source apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:06 AM
1

His claim: women feel entitled to mens money. My claim: I dont feel that way. (Proof by counter example) One of those things requires a source because it is a general claim about all women everywhere. One of those things is about me personally and does not. (the heck would you want me to cite anyways?) Can you see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:05 AM
1

That was not the claim. The claim was that women feel entitled to men's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 11:01 AM
5

I'd still ask for sources on every one of these. These are stereotypes, some of them harmful. Maybe we could all judge everyone as individuals and not make generalizations "rooted in reality" (ie, anecdotes)? That would be fun. I have to go sit on a beach now and my data doesn't work down there. Happy 4th. (or late Canada Day, if you swing that way.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:52 PM
5

I'm not debating. Just asking for sources. Very rarely does anybody provide me with any. Why is it ok to make negative generalizations about women but not ok about men? It's totally cool to claim that women are golddiggers, incapable of empathy, more violent than men (LOL), etc, etc, etc (these are all claims that I've seen here in the last week) but God forbid if you make a statement about men. That's bad faith! Baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:43 PM
2

Yes, everyone is talking about "tendencies" that they have anecdotes about, reaffirming everybody else's opinions until everyone is certain that a statement is true despite never being show a scrap of real proof for it. And if somebody happens to come along with an anecdote in the other direction, all you have to say is "oh well dont worry eventually you'll do it too." It's intellectually dishonest. Give me sources or give me death. (Sorry, leftover 4th of July patriotism making an appearance.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:41 PM
1

Oh. So no source. Just anecdotal. I know several people who got raped. Men are rapists. It's just a generalization. I observed it so clearly it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:30 PM
4

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:27 PM
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I'm not sure what the second line means. I do know that "proof by counter example" is a legitimate logical tool, which is why I replied to your statement that "women feel entitled" (an extravagant extrapolation even assuming you are acquainted with a large percentage of the world's female population).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:27 PM
1

Men who actually go their own way are grand. I think it's a great choice. It's very healthy to be able to find fulfillment outside of a relationship. I enjoy laughing at places like r/mgtow because all they do on there is whine about terrible women are. There is no "going" anywhere. Just a whole lot of whining about the one thing they have "decided" to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:22 PM
2

I have never done or considered doing this. If I'm not happy with the person I am dating, I will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:21 PM
0

I didn't say it hurt me. I just don't appreciate stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:20 PM
1

Nothing for me. I have dated exactly who I want to date and screw convention. I do things my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:18 PM
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I have never felt like any man's money is mine. Ever. I work for what's mine and that's what I spend. I am not unique. I don't appreciate your generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:14 PM
2

I'd rather lose him. That's disgusting. Cheating is never ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:11 PM
0

No, we don't. I don't need your money. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:08 PM
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You don't pay alimony when she outearns you. In fact, she may have to pay YOU (I have 2 female friends in this situation currently). You do pay child support if she has the kids significantly more of the time (which many women do, because most men don't pursue majority custody). https://www.liveabout.com/child-custody-there-is-no-gender-bias-during-custody-decisions-3974050
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:08 PM
1

No. I'm not a homewrecker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 01:02 PM
2

I am still not of the opinion that this is a good foundation for a relationship :/ I've only described the outcome of a relationship I was in that failed for similar reasons. "You are the only thing that keeps me going" was an all too common phrase. Perhaps it will work for you. But relying on any kind of external motivation is dangerous. You don't have any control over it and could lose it at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:50 PM
1

LOL what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:54 PM
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I do not believe this is a basis for a healthy relationship. When "you are the thing that motivates him", and he fails in an endeavor -- who does he blame? When you're "the only thing that makes him happy," and he's NOT happy -- who does he blame? A mature, mentally healthy dude might be able to say these things and NOT blame you for his own issues, but I have not met a lot of mature, mentally healthy dudes who would say things like this. They are motivated from within. What actually ends up hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:53 PM
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I would accept a source that provides evidence that what you are saying is valid. (And no, "oftentimes this thing happens" is not evidence.) You are the one making a claim. The burden of proof is on you. If you cannot provide evidence then what you have is an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 12:46 PM
1

Women are still more violent. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 10:09 PM
3

Not jealous. At all. My boyfriend has female friends. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. If he wanted to cheat on me, he would and then the relationship would be over. It clearly wasn't all that great in the first place if he decided to cheat. So why run around acting like a nanny trying to prevent that? I have a pretty great life. It'd still be pretty great without him. I'm happy with what I have and don't feel threatened by what other people have. I don't believe that life is a zero sum ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 12:00 PM
1

Men kill women close to them at much higher rates than women kill men close to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:54 AM
1

Some do. I have. Everybody should do what they want and are comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:40 PM
2

Or serial killers!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 02:21 PM
2

I would include commute time in the "hours worked" calculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 02:12 PM
1

Its a gardening implement. Who other women sleep with has literally no effect on me whatsoever. I dont name call for personal choices that aren't affecting anybody. I dont care who you (male or female) sleep with so long as you're not in a committed relationship with me. It's none of my business. I dont want to hear about it. I dont want to talk about it. And I dont plan on wasting energy being an ass about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 06:10 PM
1

It grosses me out honestly. I dont care if other people look at it but it does nothing for me. I just feel awkward and weird seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 06:06 PM
0

A spouse is a partner. In life, the universe, and everything. They are your copilot. A person to build a life with. A person worth sacrificing for, and who believes that you are worth sacrifices too. A spouse is way way way more than a "buddy you can fuck." They are family that you choose, a person you trust more than you trust yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:26 PM
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Both. I am happy being single and am currently in a great relationship. And I didnt say that a good relationship takes no work. I'm sorry if it came across that way. I said that being around the other person shouldn't feel like work. In my mind there is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 11:47 PM
2

It's worked well for me so far!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 11:14 PM
6

A good relationship builds you up. Its mutually beneficial-- you are both better people for it. Greater than the sums of the parts. A relationship that has ups and downs has to be considered in full. Do the positives outweigh the negatives while also offsetting the inherent drawbacks of maintaining a relationship? By "crazy" about each other I mean wildly attracted to one another physically and mentally. Compatible, comfortable, feel like you've known the person forever. Being with the other per…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:45 PM
1

I dont know much about Japan. But if hes worth it, hes worth it. Only you can answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 07:23 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:26 PM
1

Is he kind? Is he honest? Is he loyal? Does he have a positive attitude and a chill outlook on life? Is he independant? Able to act like an adult? Knows how to clean a toilet and balance a budget? Do we get along? Do we share interests? Do we have interesting conversations? All of those things matter waaaaay more than "what is his work schedule like." Jobs come and go. I'm dating the man, not the job. The right man can never have the "wrong" career.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:25 PM
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I was, am, and will be exactly as picky as I need to be. It is much easier to be single than to be in a relationship I'm not enthusiastic about. I dont date just to date, or because I cant handle being alone. I've spent about the same number of adult years single as I have in a relationship, and that's one thing I've learned: a bad or even a "meh" relationship is faaaaaar worse than no relationship at all. Basically, if we are not both crazy about each other, I am not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:20 PM
1

I have several close male friends. Their girlfriends all hate me. Which baffles me. I'm not even close to being somebody they need to compete with. They're gorgeous and put together and cool. I am not a threat in any way (and I am not even slightly into my guy friends as anything other than friends). But they see me as competition regardless. Makes me sad. We could probably get along well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 04:50 PM
6

For me, it's been the status quo. I go after what I want. Its worked fine, no complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 04:40 PM
1

I am 29 and my boyfriend is 24 (4.5 year age difference). Great relationship, best I've ever had. In the past I dated at 28 year old when I was 23 (exactly the reverse). That went less well but was not the fault of the age gap. Nobody seems to care much about the gap. The only person who made a big deal out of it was my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 12:26 PM
2

Sure, maybe he has a great career. So do I. Maybe he works a lot of hours. So do I. Yet somehow I find time to be a responsible adult and clean my house and cook dinner. I am not interested in dating somebody I need to "take care of." I dont have the time, inclination, or desire. He pulls his weight or he is out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:47 PM
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A relationship is a LOT of work. Maintaining a household is even more. It is absolutely not worth it to put all of that work in just to avoid being single. I have plenty of money. I dont need his, and I dont need to do tons of unpaid labor just to increase household income a bit. Let's be honest, if hes that lazy, how can I count on him to even keep a job?. I am not going to drag dead weight through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:31 PM
1

Its possible to be young, skinny, childfree and extremely socially awkward. Online is less scary to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 04:25 PM
1

I often pay for dates because I make more. Probably 75% of the time. I'm not going out on casual dates though. In that environment I'd pay my portion. I would never allow a stranger to "treat" me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 04:03 PM
1

Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:19 PM
3

I do not give a single shit about what consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:17 PM
2

This is absolute gold. Dunning Kruger rides again. "All women like this." "I dont like this." "You're wrong, because I as a complete stranger know more about what you like and think than you do." Watch out ladies, this random has figured out EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US. Hivemind, scatter!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:17 PM
1

Not. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:08 PM
1

Being an upper class woman helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 02:01 AM
1

He is 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 03:29 AM
4

No. Women do not have supernatural abilities to sense how big random peoples' dicks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:42 PM
5

It's the same attraction. I can't separate it out. If I'm attracted, I'm attracted. There is no difference. That being said, I almost NEVER experience attraction towards a stranger. Other than a mild "hes kinda cute." The few people (4 or 5, ever) that I have felt significantly attracted to in my life started out as "meh" for me. It wasnt until much later that I started seeing them as "hot."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:23 PM
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They are all wrapped up together for me. I can see the hottest dude ever and instantly feel repulsed once he opens his mouth. Likewise, I can meet somebody who at first glance seems thoroughly average, but who becomes more attractive as I get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 07:48 PM
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C. Absolutely, unconditionally. If a relationship does not make my life better, it is not worth it. Good relationships are a LOT of work and compromise. I am perfectly happy staying single if I am dissatisfied with my romantic options. Why waste the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 07:43 PM
1

That is true! Bacchus was a little pudgy I think :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:05 AM
1

Huh. I've never met anybody like that. Certainly never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 03:49 PM
4

Yes, exactly! If the relationship does not make BOTH of you better than you are apart (or at least have the potential to make both of you better, with work and time) then it is not a relationship worth investing in, at least in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:22 PM
1

I would counter with: "Dating multiple people at the same time is trashy, if everyone involved in the relationship is not aware of it. If everybody knows, and they are OK (which I'm going to assume they are, since they are still dating) then go for it. What consenting adults do in their free time is none of my business or concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:13 PM
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My count is 2. I'm 29. Of course count has absolutely nothing to do with "how much sex you have." Do you "have more sex" if your count is 10 one night stands? Or if you count is 3 and you dated both for over a year and banged several times a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:11 PM
2

Lying is never acceptable in a relationship, about anything. I have never lied about past sexual partners because I have no reason to. If somebody decides to take offense at the truth that's on them, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:08 PM
4

I have no idea how to distinguish between who this sub thinks is "Chad" and who they think are "normal" people. The people I have dated have all been perfectly normal. No Greek gods. I found them wildly attractive. Probably not everybody would. That's the best I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:07 PM
1

No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:03 PM
6

In a functional, happy relationship, I think that both people need each other equally, but in different ways. Your strengths and weaknesses need to complement each other. You both need to be able to make compromises in the interest of bettering BOTH of you. "Power" does not enter into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:03 PM
1

I'm 29. No complaints. My bf is actually quite a bit younger than me. Before him there was really nobody around who I had any interest in and I was very happy being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 05:02 PM
2

I got sterilized so that I never have to worry about any of this. Living in a red state is very scary these days. I would rather be dead than forced to give birth to an unwanted child. Since I rather enjoy being alive, I got my Fallopian tubes removed entirely so I never have to make that choice. In the event of a miracle, however, I would absolutely 100% abort without a single thought to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 04:59 PM
1

I do not have casual sex with anyone. I am not interested in anyone who is not interested in an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 04:55 PM
1

She and her child does not need that support to live *his child too. Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 08:49 PM
1

Obesity. Drugs. Anger issues. Negativity. Financial irresponsibility. Victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:35 PM
1

How about everybody has sex with people they want to have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:32 PM
2

I would not date or otherwise associate with a person who was anti-choice. I am sterilized (would rather never have children than risk being forced to give birth to an unwanted child) and have never had an abortion, but the issue is important to me and we would be simply incompatible. So it depends on why he would ask me that. It's not the asking that is the problem. I'm perfectly happy to be honest and open about my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:28 PM
4

You don't pay for STEM PhDs. They pay you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:23 PM
2

Because what some people interpret as "flirting" is just me making polite conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:23 PM
6

I got a PhD and a high-powered career because I wanted to be independent and self-sufficient while working a job that was interesting to me. Not because I thought it would attract a man. Trust me, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 04:39 PM
1

Only on reddit hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 04:37 PM
2

I have my own money. I don't need his. I care about passion, interest, compatibility, kindness, positivity, and honesty. I've seen those traits in UMC men and I've seen them in blue collar men. What he makes is irrelevant to me in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 04:35 PM
1

Yeah, she's pretty amazing, I'm lucky as hell <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:17 PM
2

It was always the case. She is brilliant and owns her own company. She has always been the breadwinner. I have no plans to marry anyone. BF is it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:14 PM
3

Yeah, no. I outearn my bf by 50% and my mom outearns my dad by about 125%. "Always." What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:11 PM
1

No. I love living apart because I dont have to do all his housework. His house can be a disgusting wreck, I dont care. My place is pristine :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:05 PM
1

You are... extremely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:01 PM
1

I dont care about cars. I drive a 2004 F150. Lol. If the car is too nice, then I would worry that we aren't financially compatible though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:24 PM
1

2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:22 PM
3

I do. Some women don't. Almost like we are all individuals or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:21 PM
1

No. 50/50 always.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:20 PM
1

No. Relationships are a lot of work. It is easier to just be on my own than in a relationship I am not 1000% excited about. If he doesnt tick all my boxes, I'd rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:39 PM
1

Gender norms are stupid. Everyone should do what they want. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:24 PM
1

I retrain Thoroughbred racehorses to be riding horses. I also grow mushrooms, write novels, and refinish furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:14 PM
3

I am extremely masculine. A good friend told me once that I am the most masculine woman he has ever met, and more masculine than many of the men. I do not gravitate towards masculine or feminine men as a rule. Ive dated both, crushed on both. It's not really a criteria I consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 06:13 PM
2

Ah. I don't know anyone like that. I have some very close, very genuine male friends but those are reciprocal friendships and they are all in romantic relationships of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:21 AM
1

No. Thats gross. Why would I want to do that? Why would I want to sleep with a scumbag?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:56 PM
1

He's gonzo. No excuse for cheating. No excuse for massive failure to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:52 PM
1

Relationships take time and energy. Sometimes we want to spend that time and energy improving ourselves instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:51 PM
0

I dont understand the difference between a male friend and an "orbiter." Anybody want to help a girl out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:45 PM
2

Hahahaha I knew somebody would say that! Feel free to sub any food that you eat and enjoy when it's available but dont seek out on your own :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:22 PM
1

Talk about math? It's possible for women to enjoy and be talented at math. My guy and myself are both CS focused more than pure math, but we have had great discussions about algorithms and statistics. I wouldn't be half as attracted to him if he wasnt as brilliant as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 07:16 PM
1

I dont have any idea how much sex my female friends and acquaintances have. And I dont want to know. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 07:11 PM
1

I feel like you're going to miss out on a lot of really great friendships if you start making rules like this. But that's up to you of course. I have some very close friendships with men that I'm not attracted to. It would be a shame to miss out on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 07:00 PM
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No. For me, sex is like chocolate; great when you have it in moderation, worse when you have it in excess, barely missed when you dont have it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:58 PM
1

Fuck if I know. Mostly it seems to be a place to study the Dunning Kruger effect up close and personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:58 PM
1

Not whiny. Capable. Independent. Resilient. Kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:57 PM
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Mostly I laughed. It's the way they talk about women -- like they're David fuckin Attenborough narrating the lives of an alien species. Or maybe Steve Irwin: "Crikey! We've got a post wall here! Ain't she a beaut!" OP, dont let their bullshit get to you. As long as humanity exists, some people will believe in stupid things. They want to tear you down and make you feel bad about yourself, because they think somehow it will get them laid (?). You are strong, and valuable, and worth respecting <3 h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:56 PM
1

It means she doesnt want to sleep with you, but shes being nice about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:14 PM
1

I'm close friends with an ex, and I take lots of pills on account of being super crazy. Oh, and I own horses. Run :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:07 PM
1

Yes, absolutely. One of my very closest friends is actually an ex. There is nothing romantic between us at all anymore (it has been years, and we have both found new relationships) but we went through absolute hell together and that bond cant be broken. We live in different countries and rarely see each other nowadays, but we talk often. He is family. I have no issues at all with my partner having friends of the opposite sex. I think its healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:04 PM
1

I have an Ivy League PhD and my guy has a Bachelors from an (albeit very good) state school. It works fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 05:58 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 05:55 PM
1

Women dont have to have children to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:25 PM
2

It depends on where you live. I've lived completely independently on 30k. You cant do it in San Francisco, but there are lots of places you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:23 PM
1

I'm not sure that "society" is "demanding" anything. Do what you want. Live how you want to live. Anybody who criticizes you for your personal choices is somebody not worth knowing. You do you, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:13 PM
2

I can determine that. Person please. Thanks much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:10 PM
1

Absolutely not. My guy is a sweet, kind, thoughtful, beautiful ray of sunshine while I'm a caustic, sarcastic terrier of a person. I make more money and always will (I have the fancy ass degree). He drives an hour out of his way every weekend to make sure that his kid brother can visit home. Hes perfect and wonderful and somehow he believes the same about me. We are an awesome team and the world is our bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:06 PM
1

If there is no trust, there is no relationship. If you cannot trust your partner you should not be partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:57 PM
2

No. I enjoy people of all shapes, sizes, and genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:56 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:52 PM
7

They usually do it based on statistical data and studies and such, not by strawpolling people on the internet, when those people polled aren't even the audience they are trying to learn about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:51 PM
1

If he was going to leave me for anyone, it would probably be that dog :D I know I would be absolutely miserable in a city. I went to school in more urban areas. I hated it. Driving was terrifying. Everything seemed so crowded. And it is so expensive to live there! I took a pay cut to stay in the area I grew up in, but the COL is super low, I was able to buy a house last year and I'm currently in the market for some land. Couldn't even dream of doing that where I lived before (NJ). There is defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:49 PM
7

Some do. Some dont. Trying to make sweeping generalizations is pointless and a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:37 PM
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I'm 28, live in the rural South, have a great boyfriend of about 8 months. Neither of us has any interest in getting married. I have a solid circle of friends, male and female, single and other couples. I have a good job that I dont hate, am completely financially independent, and life is on the up and up. Also I got a puppy in January, hes amazing although sometimes I think my bf sticks around for him and not me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:30 PM
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I hear they make your butt look nicer. I dont know, I cant wear heels. My surgeon would kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:23 PM
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Cant speak for anyone else. But I'm perfectly happy. Life is good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:22 PM
1

How about that it's not the 11 year olds fault, but the fault of the predators who preyed on you? Not because of anything you were wearing? That's what you should tell him. Creepy men prey on children all the time. Its not because of how they are dressed. It's the fault of the predator. Full stop. Women dont need to learn how to dress. Men need to learn not to rape, harrass, and murder. The rest of your post is just a series of groundless assumptions about me, so I'll pass on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 12:13 PM
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No drama, lol, just being sarcastic to the dipshit telling me what I should wear like he knows anything about what I wear. I'll go back in time and tell my 11 year old self that she has too many tattoos, that little slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 11:35 AM
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Should I wear a burqa too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 11:08 AM
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I dont wear makeup or tight clothing. Creepy dudes still hit on me relentlessly. Any other suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 08:50 PM
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Ah. So. No solution. Beyond "let them starve in the street." Alrighty then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 06:49 PM
1

I dont "love the government." I often mostly hate it. Just wanted to know what your alternative is. People love to say "get rid of it all" but can never provide a new or better plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:53 AM
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Not sure where I said that at all. I just pointed out that men are not disqualified from collecting unemployment and disability payments. Or food stamps for that matter. What do you propose instead of the current system? "Throw the disabled into the street and let them starve" is not a reasonable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:47 PM
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Oh. So "women get free shit" ISNT an accurate statement. Too bad. I'm pretty sure men are equally eligible for both unemployment and disability. At least in the US. And you gotta have kids to get food stamps. But what do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:37 PM
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Nah, I make great money, you didnt say anything about income requirements for the free shit. I'm a woman, I'm at least a little bit above ugly, why dont I get free shit??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:25 PM
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I'd pick bald. I can rock a shaved head. Or get a wig or whatever. My periods are hell and I cannot be on hormonal birth control. Itd be amazing to not be constantly anemic and not have to worry about blacking out from pain at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:56 PM
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Hey thanks! You're sweet and I love your username :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:37 PM
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Wheres my free shit?? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:35 PM
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I really cannot summon the energy to care :) Luckily I ended up in a career where nobody cares what I look or dress like once they see my skills. So without professional requirements, I cant see what I would possibly gain from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:34 PM
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My man provides me with nothing but a loving, fun relationship. I want nothing more than his companionship and affection. We enrich each others lives and that is the only thing that matters. Because that is the only thing that I cannot provide for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:31 PM
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Myth. I love an expressive guy. Stoic is boring. I dont like to play "guess how I feel right now."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:26 PM
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You can do whatever you want. I dont give a flying fuck if you wear make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:24 PM
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Female. No. I never learned how to use it and it seems expensive and time consuming. I wouldn't even know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:22 PM
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Sex is not that great. It's time consuming and messy. It feels ok but it's nothing I cant live without. Why would I want to go out and have sex with random dudes? I get nothing out of it. I have better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:17 PM
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No, never. I make my relationships count. I would rather be single than in a relationship I am not interested in 100%. Probably why I've only ever had 2 boyfriends at the age of 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 08:02 PM
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You seem confused. I'm 28 and in a stable, long term, and very happy relationship. I make excellent money and live in the most beautiful place in the world. Most people have never heard of and dont give a shit about your silly acronyms. I'll continue being happy with a great guy who values me exactly as much as I value him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:22 PM
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Yeah, I'm really looking forward to those useless shitbag years, after I retire early and gross shitbag men quit bothering me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:20 PM
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"Able to handle" is different from "willing to entertain." Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:56 PM
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I dont know why you feel the need to be so rude. I was perfectly civil towards you. "A majority" is LITERALLY not a number. 51% is a number. 99% is a number. "A majority" is so wide a range of numbers as to be meaningless. And it certainly doesnt imply ALL, which is what I was pointing in my post. You sound very young. Most adults are not terribly occupied with what 18 and 19 year olds find attractive, because to most adults these are practically children. The thread is specifically about EX MGT…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 07:18 PM
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Except a lot of them can? More single women buy homes than single men. httpsy://themortgagereports.com/34395/the-millennial-homebuyer-gender-gap-male-versus-female-mortgage Men and women declare bankruptcy are almost equal rates (men are just a tad higher). https://www.debt.org/bankruptcy/statistics/ Women save a larger percentage of their salaries, despite making less on average according to Fidelity. https://www.debt.com/news/budgeting-saving/handling-money-women-better-money-management/ Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:20 PM
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Did you even read this? First off, there is not a single actual number in the whole thing. It just says "more" women liked the bad boy description than the control one. What is "more"? 60/40? 90/10? (Of course, either one of those immediately disproves the idiotic AWALT, since clearly, you know.... it's not 100/0.) No mention of statistical significance. Always a great sign of really solid research! And they even say in the article that the subjects were all undergraduates, you know, physically …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:09 PM
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I like tall and lanky, skinnier the better. And apparently I have bad taste in faces. My sister asks me why I always crush on ugly beanpoles. 😂 true, I like unusual facial features -- asymmetry, too strong features, etc. And shes a lesbian anyways, so what does she know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:01 PM
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You realize women can have jobs now, right? The DINK lifestyle is a real, awesome thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:52 PM
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Uh yes, that would be AMAZING. It's hard to find childfree men. He'd have to talk me into marriage though. And he'd have to sign the prenup. Really no sense in getting married anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:41 PM
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Oh, well, if your "few female friends" confirmed it, then yes OBVIOUSLY all women do it. Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:28 PM
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OK. This refutes nothing I said. It is still based on money, not gender. If my boyfriend and I got married and split, I'd have to pay him alimony -- they wouldn't make him pay me just because he is male. It is not decided on gender. It is decided on money. Like I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:16 AM
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Women routinely pay alimony. A close friend is paying her physically abusive ex husband alimony right now. The higher earning partner pays, that's how it works. The title of this post should read that "the higher earning partner cannot cut and run" (which I disagree with, but whatever). It is not a gendered thing. It is a money thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:27 PM
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Well I'm glad you like paying taxes, as your scheme will almost certainly increase them. I happily pay my taxes despite having no children at this time or any time in the future. I'm happy to hear that other people are cool with paying to raise strangers' kids, like I am. You're right, it is the best thing we can do for our future as a country :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 07:49 PM
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Yeah it took me 4 years and 3 doctors to get approved for mine @ 28 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:22 PM
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Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:06 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america https://www.forbes.com/sites/adambarsouk/2018/10/05/evolution-may-explain-why-men-are-more-likely-to-cheat/#4330dd13b1ae https://s3.amazonaws.com/academia.edu.documents/38020000/Fisher_adolescent_romantic_relationships.pdf?AWSAccessKeyId=AKIAIWOWYYGZ2Y53UL3A&Expires=1553778376&Signature=syF8UKSfxKZ%2FRkex4I6bXyvXkR8%3D&response-content-disposition=inline%3B%20filename%3DEvolutionary_psychology_of_facial_attrac.pdf…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:06 PM
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Female sterilization via tubal ligation is not considered a reversible procedure. Success rates vary depending on age and how long ago the tubal ligation was performed, but average around 70%. https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/tubal-ligation-reversal/about/pac-20395158 Additionally, both procedures are significant abdominal surgery, which comes with predictably significant risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:03 PM
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Do you know who is going to pay to support those kids when their dad is allowed to walk out on them, scot-free? Some mothers will be able to support them on her own. Some won't, because poor people exist. Who foots the bill? It'll be you. If you pay taxes, I guess. Are you all right with paying for a whole bunch of deadbeats' kids? Is that something you'll be happy to have your taxes raised to pay for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:59 AM
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I'm sterilized, so it doesn't really matter, but if I magically had a baby and the father asked for a paternity test I would be gone the same night (well, I'd throw him out, it's my damn house). Without trust there is no relationship. There's no point to a relationship without trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:54 PM
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I'd say about 10%. Not overbearing, not vital, but enough that I'd miss it if it were gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:58 PM
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No. I bring a hell of a lot more to the table than sex. Plus, he's with me and not her for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 05:04 PM
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.. Besides she crestures having proven massive group bias and their sexists comments remove empathy for men on a macro scale, sure. ...... what? I cannot make sense of this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 01:15 AM
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I'm sorry? I dont see where I am complaining. Just discussing a common social phenomenon. Feeling pretty great myself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:52 PM
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It was an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:13 PM
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How is it pathetic? Is being polite (in an albeit old-fashioned and unexpected way) pathetic these days? I'd liken it to helping a little old lady cross the street, or bringing flowers to a first date. Not required, not expected, but very sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:54 PM
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I think you should have sex when you both want to. Is there another option? Dont get this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:38 PM
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That's very rude for no reason :/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:37 PM
2

If he did it, I would say thank you. That's about the extent of my thoughts on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:47 PM
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I have been in male-dominated environments for most of my life. Only woman in my CS undergrad program, only woman in my lab in grad school, only woman in IT at my current job. I enjoy it just fine. No complaints. I get along very well with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:45 PM
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I would not sell my eggs. Its a dangerous, painful, and extensive medical procedure. I dont need the money enough to make it worth it. However, if my sister or cousin needed donor eggs because they could not conceive, and asked me to donate, I would do so in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:42 PM
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Human beings enjoy sitting around and complaining about things. It's a bonding experience. I sit around with my coworkers and complain about work, but none of us hate our jobs. Women sit around and bitch about men. Men sit around and bitch about women. Teachers sit around and bitch about students. Students sit around and bitch about teachers. None of these is indicative of any systemic problem. People just like to complain, and it's an easy topic of converstion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:34 PM
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Yes! I live in a shitty state that makes everything marital property the minute you get married. Nobody is getting their hands on my house, lol. Without kids, marriage just doesnt make sense unless you'll get a tax break being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:28 PM
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Yes? Clearly. That's why I'm answering Q4W questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 06:18 PM
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Infinity, I guess? I have no interest in marriage. Would need a pretty ironclad prenup before I'd even consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:27 PM
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Ok? Regardless, it's silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 12:43 AM
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Men lose interest real quick when I tell them I have a PhD in a computational field. Even quicker if I let it slip where I went to school. It's an ego thing, I think. Luckily I have a wonderful guy who finds my smarts sexy as hell!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:53 PM
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Education is not important to me, but intelligence and curiosity are. I have found in my experience that being a highly educated woman is actually a handicap in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:52 PM
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I dont need his money, but I'm not interested in supporting a mooch. It doesnt matter to me beyond him being able to pay his own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:13 PM
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I am not feminine in the least. A good friend once told me that's I'm the least feminine person he has ever met - and that includes some men. I dont act more or less feminine at any time. I am who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 05:38 PM
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I certainly dont "cry" about it. I have no interest in getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:52 PM
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I replied to a post saying that "women definitely care and they dont like it" with a counterexample. If you notice, the original post also contains a counterexample.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 02:59 PM
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No. That would be gross and dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 01:05 PM
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I would absolutely stay. I dont want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:19 PM
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No, it would be kinda hypocritical since I had my Fallopian tubes removed six months ago!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:50 PM
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I have a PhD and I outearn my boyfriend with a Bachelors degree by 50%. I dont care. I like it just fine ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:43 PM
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Right, when she gets murdered by her psycho stalker ex, all set, lucky girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:34 PM
1

No. That sounds like a stupid game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:21 PM
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He'd laugh and keep walking. I'd laugh and keep walking. We would joke about how pathetic the other dude was for a couple of days. End scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 08:19 PM
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I dont have sex with anybody right away, so... exactly the same I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 07:01 PM
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Female and yes, of course. Because if I have sex with them we are already dating. I dont sleep with anyone outside of a committed, monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:53 PM
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Cheating is never acceptable, in any form, in any relationship. There is no excuse that makes it ok. Go do what you want, but be honest and break up with your partner first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:51 PM
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I've never blamed anyone BUT myself. Who else could I possibly blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:43 PM
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I'm 28 and dont have any social media at all. We do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:36 PM
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Many people who end up experiencing PTSD would probably say the same before the fact. I certainly did. I sincerely hope you never have to find out if you're right or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:04 PM
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Would you care to provide a source for your arguments, darling? The reason most rapists are not convicted of rape is due in part to rapes being under-reported and under-prosecuted. (Why that is, well, that's another discussion entirely. The rape kit backlog is a disgrace.) I don't want to "lower the standard of conviction." I want convictions of the highest standard. I think there would be many more if more police departments took prosecution of rape seriously. Not going to court != not guilty. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:34 AM
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Here you go, love. https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/Publications_NSVRC_Overview_False-Reporting.pdf https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45565684
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:15 AM
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https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/Publications_NSVRC_Overview_False-Reporting.pdf https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45565684 For every rape that is reported, 4 rapists are walking free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:14 AM
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It could very well destroy your entire life. Does your livelihood matter then? I know multiple women who have suicided after sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:58 PM
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Less than 5/1000 rapists are incarcerated for their crime. (I'll send you the link when I get home 😉)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:57 PM
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Less than 10% of reported sexual assaults are proven false. I'll send you the link when I get home from work 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:55 PM
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Had my tubes removed laparoscopically, the gas pain was NUTS. The only way I was not in absolute agony was if I laid flat on my back. For 3 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:54 AM
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I dont ask anyone for money. I'm an employed adult and I pay my own way. What a strange question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:22 AM
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I have a STEM PhD and a well paying job. I have no income requirements in terms of relationships. You'd have to have a job -- whatever job -- and be generally motivated. Past that I dont care about your paychecks. I have plenty of money. I'd rather a compatible partner than a rich one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 09:34 PM
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OK. What about men who prioritize careers above life and all it has to offer? (Oh, wait. Is that just code for "women who don't stay home and pop out kids like they ought to"? I hope not. How depressing.) Do you have a career that you focus on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:16 PM
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I dont mean like from a dating perspective. You've made a moral judgement on women who have careers, I'm just trying to figure out if you feel that it is somehow only selfish to focus on your career if you happen to be female. Which would be an awfully silly thing to think in my estimation. Girls gotta eat too after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:10 AM
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I'm just curious. Trying to understand your viewpoint. If "career" women are selfish in your book, what about "career" men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:50 AM
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Are men who are very focused on their careers "selfish" in your estimation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:49 AM
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I would get one, because I live in a shitty state where the day you get married, all your property becomes marital property, even if you bought it years before. I own my home, i love my home, not giving that up. And it's not like I need his money. I make plenty. If we bought a home together, I would expect that to be divided equally (even though I'd probably pay the majority of the expenses for it).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:09 PM
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