doctorobjectoflove Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-2	Toxic masculinity: Has history repeated itself? There is rampant insecurity on your end. If you act like this with somebody on the internet, how would you respond to a girlfriend with the same line of questioning?	/r/MensRights	16/08/24 08:34 AM
-1	Toxic masculinity: Has history repeated itself? Cue the victimhood mentality.	/r/MensRights	15/08/24 04:26 PM
-1	Toxic masculinity: Has history repeated itself? Sure. That's very believable.	/r/MensRights	15/08/24 04:26 PM
-23	Toxic masculinity: Has history repeated itself? So that's a no.	/r/MensRights	12/08/24 07:32 PM
-22	Toxic masculinity: Has history repeated itself? Are you in a relationship?	/r/MensRights	12/08/24 05:58 PM
1	Fathers less likely to see masculinity as fragile, research shows I think men who worry about masculinity are hilariously fragile.	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 07:19 AM
0	Men feeling pressured to have children No. Get therapy.	/r/MensRights	07/08/24 07:18 AM
1	How do you debate women? I think you're making a lot of generalisations there. What would you say if a woman said a bunch of generalisations about men, applying them to you specifically?	/r/MensRights	28/07/24 02:50 PM
1	It's time for men (all males, in fact), to stand up for masculinity before we lose more of our brothers, needlessly. Heavy topic. I stand up for being a good person. I don't see why biological sex needs to be tied to that.	/r/MensRights	28/07/24 02:43 PM
1	How do you debate women? Feminism existed pre-50s. Try antiquity.	/r/MensRights	20/07/24 03:39 PM
5	How do you debate women? I'm happy married, mate. We exist.	/r/MensRights	20/07/24 03:38 PM
0	How do you debate women? Any particular reason you feel like this? Just curious.	/r/MensRights	20/07/24 03:37 PM
-3	How do you debate women? I don't "debate women". I have a conversation with my wife as an equal.	/r/MensRights	20/07/24 03:36 PM
1	Meet the influencers who urge their female followers to marry rich men. This isn't a murder.	/r/MensRights	17/06/24 07:23 AM
-1	Female Hiring Advantage You need a linkedin account to get the report. Men were actually slightly more likely to get a job, and the only real conclusion you can draw is that men and women use a different job seeking strategy with women focusing on less applications to higher probability of success job Using what distribution? What is the sample size? Any confounding variables?	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:29 PM
-1	Meet the influencers who urge their female followers to marry rich men. That's not what I said, but again, therapy might help here.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:05 PM
-3	Meet the influencers who urge their female followers to marry rich men. I think you're avoiding personal responsibility.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 10:55 AM
-5	Meet the influencers who urge their female followers to marry rich men. Every person has an intrinsic responsibility over their own actions.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 10:55 AM
-2	Meet the influencers who urge their female followers to marry rich men. Moving the goalposts again?	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 09:19 AM
-1	Female Hiring Advantage As it turns out, women are more likely to get hired for any given job even though they apply to much fewer. With no stats provided whatsoever.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:58 AM
-3	Getting raped as a guy is not important? You clearly haven't met a lot of women.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:51 AM
1	Celebrating Father’s Day: Cherishing the Stories That Shape Us My father taught me to respect women.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:44 AM
-7	The only reason I'm not dead is because I fear it. Please go to therapy. It'll do wonders and I wish you all the best.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:03 AM
-19	Meet the influencers who urge their female followers to marry rich men. False. Go outside mate	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:02 AM
6	Meet the influencers who urge their female followers to marry rich men. No, themselves. It's called being responsible for your actions.	/r/MensRights	16/06/24 07:02 AM
2	How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in. Why bitter?	/r/MensRights	14/06/24 09:22 AM
2	How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in. Good here. Don't feel like a victim and have a loving relationship with my partner and have many female friends. I wish you my kind of success.	/r/MensRights	14/06/24 08:51 AM
1	A misandrist sent me this as ‘proof’ that women are intellectually superior to men. My maths prof would say otherwise.	/r/MensRights	14/06/24 08:49 AM
-1	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month That isn't mutually exclusive to women.	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 04:24 PM
1	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month If you imagine speaking to women as a death sentence, then perhaps you're not thinking about this in a healthy manner?	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 03:51 PM
0	Statistics show that you are more likely to be harmed by somebody you know than a random stranger on the streets. No.	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 03:26 PM
1	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month Again, more avoidant behaviour. You might want to see why criticism is seen as evidence that others don't care about their needs. For example, dismissive avoidants want to feel like they're in control of certain situations, because unpredictability and inconsistent communication can cause significant stress. Would you say this is correct?	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 12:21 PM
1	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month This is pretty typical avoidant behaviour. Do you normally avoid such questions?	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 12:04 PM
3	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month I’m not sure therapy is going to do much good for you. You can definitely give it a shot, and it might help a little bit, but you need to improve your circumstances. Being depressed is a natural response to not being where you want to be in life. A lot of this is incorrect. CBT, SSRIs and mindfulness have all been scientifically proven to help in such situations. We as men are meant to fuck! This might be a good start at why your mindset isn't particular helpful.	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 11:56 AM
0	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month Women are not equipped to handle a man’s struggles. She’ll probably either ultimately use it against you, or end up telling a bunch of people, who will not help, because the world at large does not give a shit about pulling men up when they’re down. I guess you haven't had a long-term relationship with a woman? Or have female friends? Also, you'd have to provide evidence of the world not giving a shit about pulling men up. I see a lot of support for men (and women as well) in my community. Inevi…	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 11:02 AM
-4	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month Talking to others is disgusting advice?	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 10:07 AM
-4	Thought about ending my life today during men’s mental health month You're not alone, and please talk to someone now. Better yet, a woman. You'll find out we all share many common issues and the best thing you can do now is to just talk to someone. You're very strong for seeking help.	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 09:35 AM
0	A question for Men's Health Week: do you think the idea that masculinity prevents men from seeking help for prostate cancer is overhyped? I love this Oprah group for insecure men. Masculinity has nothing to do with cancer screening, and more to do with personal responsibility.	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 09:16 AM
-3	Statistics show that you are more likely to be harmed by somebody you know than a random stranger on the streets. Statistical inference relies on taking a sample out of a general population and inferring an assumption against it, if you accept your null hypothesis, with a degree of certainty. You've used the hasty generalisation fallacy. Calm down, just because some man is walking on the same pavement as you, it is statistically less likely to be him trying to stalk you Men are statistically less likely to be sexually assaulted compared to women, but it doesn't prevent much of this sub from venting about it…	/r/MensRights	13/06/24 08:42 AM
-3	Modern relationships are built on leverage I'm in happy relationship. Perhaps you're bitter? In the last few decades (especially 2010s), marriage has transformed from a commitment to one another to basically a business arrangement No. Any understanding of history will say otherwise.	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 10:25 AM
-4	We should wear the man vs bear as a badge of honour. Please go outside.	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 10:24 AM
-2	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... However, women are doubly bad about this because men are taught not to complain Except on this sub...	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 07:25 AM
0	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Your misogyny is really impressive.	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 07:23 AM
-1	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Thank you.	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 07:22 AM
-2	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... If you had any idea, you'd figure out what I was doing here. Do you typically resort this type of deflection?	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 09:09 PM
0	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Birthing and carrying you around inside her isn't work? I'd argue that it's one of the hardest jobs out there.	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 05:31 PM
0	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... This was entertaining.	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 05:30 PM
-1	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... So your mother did in fact did do work whilst carrying and birthing you?	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 10:45 AM
0	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Bud, the state of the US economy has nothing to do with the fact that division of labor is more economically efficient, a simple fact of life. There is a correlation. Stochastic differential equations have been utilised to better understand this. Wiener space is particularly useful in this case. Stop trying to move goal posts I believe that I highlighted a hole in your argument and you're changing topic. Unless you're providing contrary evidence, I'll stick with my null hypothesis.	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 10:44 AM
0	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Not sure what that means Perhaps you don't know much about economics? Hint: what does the current interest rate say about the economy in the US?	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 07:55 AM
-1	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Exhibit A of my point.	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 07:46 AM
0	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Women do zero work Your mother didn't do any work carrying and birthing you?	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 07:45 AM
1	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Finally, as an aside, I personally find it economically silly for both partners to work and then split housework. Either one works and the other is at home, or you both work and hire a maid. But to each their own. Hire a maid? What economy are you living in?	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 07:43 AM
-4	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Calling bullshit in 3, 2, 1...	/r/MensRights	03/06/24 07:24 AM
1	Debating about equality She acknowledges there are women as evil as men but then say it’s only in very few numbers What are the rape statistics of men vs women?	/r/MensRights	30/05/24 07:31 AM
-5	Friend hasn't been allowed to see kids for a year No evidence to back this up, and plenty of evidence to refute it. Highly doubt it	/r/MensRights	30/05/24 07:27 AM
1	Looks like the UK is following Sweden limiting Marriageable foreign women If it involves feminists its usually the "men are bad" chestnut. And you just used feminists as a general term. So, you've made a chestnut of your own.	/r/MensRights	16/02/24 07:49 PM
1	Have you spoken to someone in the real world about men’s rights today? How did that conversation go? I LOVE my female gp. Been with her for a decade and couldn't ask for better. Sorry for your luck there.	/r/MensRights	16/02/24 07:48 PM