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good verbal intercourse leads to sexual intercourse. you have to learn to talk to girls, make them laugh, let their guard down, get them to open up. the best thing you can do is be lighthearted and learn how to joke around so they start laughing. if they are having a good time they will start to touch you. and you can start to touch them. 20-40 touches means you will be able to kiss her at the right moment. so, don't focus on the physical. focus on having a good time with her and the physical wi…
/r/seduction27/02/15 04:40 AM
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An Update: Ben - you nailed it. I texted her yesterday and she wrote me back. I'm still in a good spot, she just got busy. Thank you Master!
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:34 PM
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thats a good point. hot girls rarely chase. my schedule did clear up and i texted her today (after waiting 5 days) but haven't heard back yet. i may have fucked this one up funny because a really hot girl i've been trying to pin down a date with for weeks texted ME tonight and said "are you free tonight?" picking her up in a couple hours.... so i lose one and gain one in the same day... like you said, abundance
/r/seduction26/02/15 02:11 AM
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yeah, i don't like how i handled that. not sure if it's totally over yet but i'll know soon and report back
/r/seduction26/02/15 02:08 AM
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well we were in her car and i was dropping her off in front of her apartment. it was clear the kiss was all i was getting so i kept my dick in my pants
/r/seduction26/02/15 02:07 AM
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Thanks Ben KA! Stellar advice. I think she did just get busy and i'm still in her good graces, but regardless I will reach out to her with a few funny texts and hold off on asking her out again. Then give it another few days before trying to make plans... that way i stay in her life but i'm not too pushy/needy about 1)texting too much and 2) seeing her again EXCELLENT!! thank you!!
/r/seduction25/02/15 05:23 PM
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well i definitely want to fuck her. the problem arose when i asked her out for the third time and she said she was going to be free sometime after saturday but when i suggest dates she didn't pick one. so it threw me for a loop and i took it as an IOD. 5 days have gone by so it feels ok reaching out to her tomorrow. it's just fucking difficult because i did try to nail down a date on thursday and she didn't bite.. so yeah, i want to fuck her, but i want to make sure she will be willing to arrang…
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:50 AM
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hey man. i like the way you think about feeling good about my self. i have a tendency to chase things i can't have even if they don't really matter to me too much (it comes from having a deadbeat parent, in know) and i need to get centered again. i also just got out of a 9 year relationship so i am a little rusty with the dating game. as for playing games or not, i WAS just letting it fly and it was going great for two weeks straight until just recently when i tried to nail down a specific date …
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:47 AM
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yeah. it's just fucking hard as hell to not do anything!! i have another date with another girl tonight but i can't stop thinking about the other girl because she is stunning hot and I've already made inroads with her... it's fucking hard to play the game. it's like playing Blackjack. you have to play by the rules and hit on 16 even though it seems so risky!!
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:14 AM
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highly unlikely based on what she told me. more likely she met someone else that she is texting a lot.. or she was just super-preoccupied with this dance gig. that's the risk - i think she is gaming me or losing interest, but she really was just focused on her dance gig and busy getting ready for it. she showed real interest as recently as thursday, expressing interest in going out again. she just didn't nail down the date
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:12 AM
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yeah, she definitely likes the attention. So maybe i need to let her come back to me. But man - that is fucking maddening to walk away!! I guess it will strengthen my position if she reaches out. If she doesn't, I can always reach out again and just act like i was just busy or something...
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:10 AM
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Ben KA - I read your book and was really impressed, man. thank you. Had a question about MID-GAME texting, however, which wasn't covered as thoroughly. Here's the scenario, wondering how you would proceed from here if you were me: Met a girl at a bar Super Bowl Sunday, got digits, texted her Tuesday to set up drinks. Heard back Weds, we nailed drinks down for the upcoming Monday, joked around a few texts and she ultimately left me with a lingering text. No biggie, just met her... I played it coo…
/r/seduction24/02/15 11:10 PM
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don't worry about it dude. i ended a first date with a handshake (she was actually rushing off because she was late to meet a girlfriend) and the second date ended up back at her place, she turned to me with big eyes, we kissed and i ended up fucking her. just keep utilizing kino throughout the second date and you will end up with a kiss. you don't leap to a kiss though, it comes from touching her briefly 30 times in the couple of hours before. touching a lot leads to kissing. kissing a lot lead…
/r/seduction21/02/15 03:58 PM
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I love it. Always assume their attraction -- and you become more attractive! Nice work bro. Thx for sharing. Excuse me, I'm going to go get laid!!
/r/seduction06/02/15 07:55 AM
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ok, so months ago you had trouble getting a date. then you became a man on a mission. then you are on fire and get 7 numbers in one night. the more interesting question is not how many numbers you got last night but what did you do over the last couple of months to have so many women in your life that you didn't give a fuck. i want to know because i am recently single, just started okcupid and am texting with two girls. actually, just one girl because one of them is flaking. so -- what do i do o…
/r/seduction06/02/15 02:15 AM
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i can see she's online now, and she's a hottie so she clearly gets a lot of attention. not much else i can do but let it go. DAMN! i wanted to bang her big time
/r/seduction06/02/15 02:02 AM
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hey, thanks. when she asked me when i was free on weds night i actually said "i'm free thursday and friday but not saturday. what works for you?" she replied, "i will see and let you know tomorrow, okay =)" so i did give her dates. tomorrow is now today and she never got back to me so i texted her again to give me a couple dates she's free next week i'm trying to plan something but she isn't actually giving me any dates!
/r/seduction06/02/15 01:25 AM
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i like it relax, trust your instincts it's almost like sports if you are thinking you won't play the game to the best of your abilities just get in the game and trust yourself
/r/seduction01/02/15 01:43 AM
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i like your philosophy dude. is it from Models or is this your own shit?
/r/seduction31/01/15 04:41 PM
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got it bro!! i like the way you think and i am sticking with that plan. right now, she's simply not available so i gotta move on and hope she becomes available down the road thanks!
/r/seduction20/01/15 06:45 PM
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not sure what else to say to clarify. i've asked her out twice now. the first time she said she was seeing this dude. i put in two great visits and asked her again and she said she would think about it and seemed optimistic. the last time i went in, i just could sense she wasn't ready to leave this dude. it was a week after new years and i'm sure he spoiled her rotten. now valentine's day is coming up. it just feels like i'm trying to win her over at the wrong time and i should wait till those h…
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:21 AM
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I like your attitude bro the problem is she definitely has a sexual relationship with him and she gets to talk to him on the phone and do stuff with him. i see her once every couple of weeks and have no out of the office experiences with her. i tried to get her on a date - i asked in the fourth visit if she wanted to go out to dinner, that's when she said she was seeing someone. then we really clicked on the next two visits and i asked her again if we could do something and she said she had to t…
/r/seduction15/01/15 05:54 PM
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you get tongue tied because you put her on a pedestal and don't have enough self-esteem yourself. get good at things so that you build confidence deep in yourself. get over the fact that she's cute. you wouldn't fuck up with a fat girl would you? so convince yourself she isn't that good looking. imagine her wiping her ass assume she is attracted to you. thats a very healthy state of mind take a few weeks and force yourself to forget about her as someone you could date. this will take a lot of th…
/r/seduction15/01/15 12:07 AM
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bro. 1) she was seeing the dude for a month, that's not a boyfriend nor did she ever call him a boyfriend or ever talk about him ONCE. And SHE started giving me IOIs AFTER i asked her to dinner, which drew me back in. 2) I'm working plenty of single women, don't assume i wasn't, but when you find a keeper you play it smart and think about it. single women grow on trees, keepers don't. besides, the whole point of the post was that i'm walking away.
/r/seduction14/01/15 07:47 PM
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