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I'd share more information as it pertains to PU (like your body language, your touch [kino], your flirtation, your logistics [sitting arrangements, transportation, etc]). If this all sounds like a foreign language, read the materials on the righ-hand-side of the page, especially TofuTofu's guide. It's hard to offer advice or feedback if there's no basis or information offered up on your part.
/r/seduction17/05/13 03:28 PM
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"Come to the bathroom with me; we're having a sword fight."
/r/seduction07/05/13 11:18 PM
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She should know what your intentions are. You're a sexual human being. You're a man. Be honest with yourself and okay with it. If she calls you out, try agreeing/amplifying. Then counter that with diffusing statement: "I don't have sex on the first date."
/r/seduction07/05/13 11:15 PM
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Consider changing the context of your approach to being more centered around getting to know what she's about and what's important to her. You can remain alpha and confident and equate this to her qualifying herself. A bit of teasing is good but overdo it here and that's where the "arrogance" comes in. Just keep the mindset (see TofuTofu's post about this) that you are interesting in seeing if she's a fit for you.
/r/seduction04/05/13 09:24 PM
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Anecdotally, I've gotten the most attention (unsolicited) from women clean shaven. However, I prefer a beard (or used to) because I look a lot younger than I am and needed to artifically beard a few years on back in the day. I agree though, shave/remove the neck beard.
/r/seduction04/05/13 09:14 PM
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Surprisingly, a bit of tact and professionalism have gone a long ways in my long path to where I am. Interestingly, though, we're taught in school to not overdo it with jargon and for the most part try to use the same terminology that patients use. So I suppose, if a patient was calling it their "cooter" I could go ahead and use it as well. That being said, I'll usually stick with "vagina." I'm good at my job and very well liked by my patients.
/r/seduction04/05/13 09:10 PM
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I'm late here but this post is fantastic. I can perform emergency surgery because it's a conscious/unconscious competence (mixed). I doubt anyone else here can say that. My point is that I wasn't born with this skill. I developed it. I think you hit the head on the nail.
/r/seduction03/05/13 05:56 PM
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The vag is not complicated. I learned more about it from an erogenous standpoint watching porn as a teenager than I did in school.
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:27 PM
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I'd feel weird wearing a suit or something equivalent to bar to be honest.
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:25 PM
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what about a bucket of bud lights?
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:24 PM
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I appreciate the feedback. I'm not trying to come off as a superficial dick. I think we all want to use what tools we have at our disposal to the best of our abilities.
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:24 PM
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You're right subtlety is key. I'm probably better off trying to forget about the job/money stuff until/if it comes up organically.
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:23 PM
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Appreciate the feedback!
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:21 PM
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I like this feedback. Thanks!
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:20 PM
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Thanks for the thoughtful feedback. Fortunately, I'm blessed in the hair department. My style could use an upgrade though. In my free time, I still dress like I'm in college.
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:20 PM
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Sorry for the late reply. Thanks for posting all of the feedback. Only just figured out how to log in at work. I do focus on inner game primarily. I realized years ago that I had to work on making myself an interesting person primarily. I posted this question because as far as I know the career/finance issues weren't working for me on an initial-attraction level. Maybe that's a good thing. I've never really had to deal with a known or suspected gold-digger.
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:16 PM
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It's not difficult in an ongoing relationship. I guess it's harder in casual situations, in bars, chatting up strangers, etc.
/r/seduction01/05/13 04:02 PM
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If it's worth some $ to you, you could get them a gift certificate for a hooker. All of them for the same one at the same time.
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:58 PM
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I've never thought a (nice) car was a place where I wanted to spend my money so my car is pretty normal. Cheap dates were something I got good at in college. It's the subtle ways to use my money for the force of good that have me a little baffled. Thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:45 PM
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Very practical, good advice. Thank you.
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:42 PM
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Read TofuTofu's recent article. He talks about this. The key (it seems a reasonable one) would be to make it your goal to learn more about the girl you're talking to. Your goal isn't to lose your virginity (that's a byproduct).
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:25 PM
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I'm 31 years old (look in my 20s) and I'm a physician. Specifically I'm an OB/GYN. Money is something that I'm not short on. These details (aside from my specific field) are obvious strengths, but I don't feel like I play off them very well. It's difficult to bring up if not asked directly, and it feels kind of douchy/arrogant to talk about if not asked specifically. Even when asked, I can't help but feel I'm not using these strengths to anywhere near their full potential. The OB/GYN thing aside…
/r/seduction01/05/13 01:42 PM
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I think it's pretty obvious that you aren't making shit up. You don't have anything to gain by doing so and your post doesn't have a "I'm fucking with y'all tone." Sorry about all the butthurt folks here giving you a hard time. My question is this: on of my biggest strengths in terms of pick-up or attraction is that I'm a physician (and have some money). Aside from buying/driving a douchy car (I don't want to), what should I do to humbly/subtly point out and play off of these strengths?
/r/seduction01/05/13 01:29 PM
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