doesitevermatter- Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Can we return the sub to leftist male advocacy? If you're going to make this many claims about the content of this sub while trying to make judgments on our morality, you should really link the posts you're talking about. Otherwise, it feels like you're just kind of making crap up to make us look bad.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/02/25 07:01 PM
32	Domestic Violence Against Men Shown In a Kids Movie as Acceptable And a woman who slaps her partner is a lot more likely to slap her kids too.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/24 08:56 PM
38	An insightful comment on the man v bear debate Also, the female-led temperance movement is basically the beginning of the War on Drugs. A war now responsible for literally tens of millions of deaths.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/12/24 11:32 PM
77	An insightful comment on the man v bear debate This is what I've been trying to say for years in regards to war. Just because women weren't allowed to vote for the people instigating the wars doesn't mean they weren't supportive of them. Women are just as deadly as men, they just send men to do their killing.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/12/24 09:07 PM
7	"Because gender roles are becoming obsolete, men feel like they don't have a purpose" How true is this statement really? It is a literal nonsense statement. Society would crumble tomorrow if men stopped working. Our purpose, just like everyone elses, is to help keep society functioning and try to lessen the suffering of others.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/12/24 01:12 AM
2	How do you guys tell people you're an MRA/male advocate? I don't. Ever. I just share facts about real issues. Just have sources for your claims And there's no need to put a label on it. You're just sharing true facts with people. But they won't accept those facts as facts unless you have your sources lined up. And reasonably so.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/12/24 02:50 PM
13	I Finally Understand Edgelords And yet they still throw in stuff like that ridiculous episode in Peaky Blinders where all the women started talking about how awful and violent their men are and how they are so much better and classier despite literally belonging to the same violent criminal organization and being capable of the same exact violence and cruelty. They just get the comfort of ordering someone else to commit that violence while reaping all the benefits with none of the risk. And it would be one thing if the show p…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/11/24 10:19 PM
16	Another Female Teacher Arrested For Raping Students (Including Middle Schooler) Bribing Them With Money It just gets to be so exhausting. And even in person, even some of the people that will agree that it's rape will still go on to say how it's still not quite as bad for boys as it is for girls, and then have absolutely no explanation as to why that would be the case. I've heard people literally say that boys are incapable of feeling the same level of trauma/emotional pain that girls are. Which is like, the exact mentality they used to allow doctors to mistreat or under-treat black people. They w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/24 09:23 PM
31	Another Female Teacher Arrested For Raping Students (Including Middle Schooler) Bribing Them With Money You know, recently, I've been getting downvoted more and more for trying to make this correction. People act like I'm being unreasonable for getting upset about it. Can't imagine how all those same people would react if we started claiming that grown men having sex with middle school girls is anything but rape.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/24 07:05 PM
5	An admission that feminism is not for everyone Is this the President of Feminism or something? I don't know why you're using such broad language to describe what one person on Reddit said. There are thousands and thousands if not millions of women that would be willing to say this. It's not news.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/10/24 11:29 PM
6	This is the most wholesome skit regarding misandry. Watch this to make your day. That juke the girl did cracked me up.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/24 10:20 PM
7	"These are the boys to men we want to raise-decent, respectful, compassionate American men who stand for truth, integrity and women." The importance isn't voting Harris, it's voting blue. Harris is just who we have and literally the only truly American option. Doesn't mean we all want her all that bad. Just like we didn't necessarily want milquetoast dick-to-immigrants, votes-for-segregation, supports-stop-and-frisk Biden, but needed him.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/24 05:21 AM
58	Victory at trial: a jury found that Indiana University discriminated against a male student on the basis of sex when it repeatedly violated his rights before erroneously finding him responsible ("guilty") for sexual assault. Boy howdy, one could almost say that statistic has an implication of systemic biases against men in the criminal justice system. Weird, that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/10/24 08:54 PM
16	Are Men to Blame for the Restrictions Against Afghan Women? Just straight up classic racism. "They're the brown men, so obviously they must be mean to the brown women!"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/10/24 07:16 PM
21	“The hyper-sexualization of Justin Bieber: Why we all owe the exploited star an apology” This is just incorrect and you know it is. If somebody put a 10-year-old girl on stage and told her to do a striptease, you would have a problem with that. Because that is the active sexualization of a child. There you go. You learned a new word.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/09/24 02:19 PM
27	MensLib mod comment on a post where i share my experiences of child-abuse, sexual harassment and assault by women. I followed every subreddit rule in making that post, yet both the comment-section is locked and the post unlisted from public view. Imagine if we told every woman sharing her story about sexual assault that it's none of our business and that she needs to get a therapist and not talk to a bunch of strangers about it. You'd wind up in court mandated therapy, ironically.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/09/24 11:07 PM
11	Wrote review and got it published on a left-wing site! To be fair, the politicians don't care about the women any more than they care about the men. It's just more trendy to care about women right now. Caring about women gets them to vote they want. Once men start demanding decent treatment with their votes, they'll flock back to our needs too. But society would have to admit that men face problems first. And we need to convince the men that standing up for themselves is something worth doing when they've been being told 40 years to literally sit do…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/09/24 10:06 PM
12	Stop the Sept. 24 Execution of Marcellus Williams, an Innocent Man - Innocence Project Signed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/09/24 08:33 PM
22	Straight men face stigma for being feminine. But feminine straight men are still mocked in progressive places though. Gay men are more accepted with their feminisms?.. Have you ever even talked to a gay guy? People give gay guys shit for being feminine all the time. It's like, the main thing they go after. It's the first step onto the homophobia train. What do You think people are talking about when they say gay guys "Don't have to be so in my face about it"? They're talking about flamboyant femininity. Your general point still stands, I'm not disagreeing with you. But gay guys absolutely get shit for being fem…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/09/24 05:06 PM
58	Most people who say this would prefer the issue of male SA victims to never come up at all The problem comes when every conversation about rape is inherently considered a conversation about women. So bringing up male victims anywhere in that conversation is considered uncouth.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/09/24 12:13 AM
-11	Why don't we see Paper Abortion posts in this sub? Because it is an incredibly complex and nuanced issue that's kind of difficult to discuss in a place like this. Too many intense passions to allow for any sort of reasonable discussion and any sort of compromise in said passions. The fact is, telling men they can just abandon their kids with absolutely no responsibility for the life they helped create isn't going to do well for society as a whole in the long run. So finding the balance between essentially enslaving men and essentially enslaving …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/24 11:34 PM
1	Being anti male gender role is like being a nihilist. Society finds meaning in male gender roles. Telling someone they just shouldn't care about something like this is just silly. Societal expectations dictate almost everything we do in our day-to-day lives, and that includes you, whether you recognize it or not. These kinds of things are far too ingrained into every aspect of society for you to be able to say with any objectivity that you are not participating in or following them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/09/24 02:44 PM
15	One of Imperfect Movements? The ironic thing is, these same people will explain to you how the black lives matter protests were peaceful (which they were) while happily ignoring the few protests that got violent because of the otherwise peaceful movement serving an important, larger purpose. Yet they can't look at us without making the same "1% represents the 99%" argument conservatives made about BLM.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/24 03:16 PM
-6	We are seeing damned if you do, and damned if you don't type of situations playing out in real time. I didn't call anyone a rapist. My point is that if he is constantly being accused of sexual impropriety, then there might actually be something about his behavior that is making women uncomfortable. Again, I don't have that issue and I don't know any men who do. Even the most hideous and awkward of my friends aren't constantly being accused of that kind of thing. A couple false accusations can happen, but if it happens so often that you don't feel comfortable talking to women anymore, there migh…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 09:35 PM
-35	We are seeing damned if you do, and damned if you don't type of situations playing out in real time. Avoiding talking to women over fears of rape accusations is "treating women like normal people"?.. You might legitimately be mentally unwell. That is absolutely unhinged. Jesus dude. If you have to work that hard to keep women from thinking you're going to rape them, you might need to look at yourself. I certainly don't have that issue and the majority of the friends I make are women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 03:59 AM
-16	We are seeing damned if you do, and damned if you don't type of situations playing out in real time. I think this might be a bit of an overreaction, though. Just literally refusing to interact with women to avoid sexual misconduct allegations is kind of over the top. There are plenty, and I mean plenty, of men in Hollywood that have managed to work with women, and even have sex scenes with women, without having any allegations brought against them. See Keanu Reeves just to start. But a reaction like this kind of blows the numbers of how often this happens out of proportion. I'm not saying it's …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 02:44 AM
5	Kangaroo Courts At Princeton Has 98 Percent Conviction Rate In Sexual Misconduct Cases And everyone knows American law enforcement is famous for never convicting innocent people. It's also a lot easier to get that conviction rate when you count pleas as conviction and force people to take pleas under threat of extreme prison sentences.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/07/24 05:29 PM
7	Kangaroo Courts At Princeton Has 98 Percent Conviction Rate In Sexual Misconduct Cases Still seems odd that anyone would have a 98% conviction rate on literally anything, but the article is definitely not claiming what op is acting like it is.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/07/24 04:37 PM
33	Reddit doesn’t care about you. Gender not with standing, as a rape victim, i would punch anyone that said this to me in person. What an absolutely despicable and reprehensible human being.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 08:24 PM
21	How do you all feel about evolutionary psychology and it's play in male-female interpersonal relationships? I had someone on here literally try to tell me that I had no evidence that women tended to like strong, financially stable men. You know how women are always falling over themselves over emaciated, financially struggling men. Just basic facts of life being treated as sexist. And it's not like I said that all women have that taste, just that it's more prevalent. It's like claiming men don't like women with nice bodies. Sure, the definition of "nice" might change some, but there is definitely an a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/24 07:58 PM
1	A depressing thread that captures the depth of the feminist lefts failure of male victims and how deeply bias can drive one's worldview It wasn't great. But it gave me the push to get out of that town and state and now I comfortably and happily live on the road and my pup Navi has a safe, comfortable home with my parents until I can arrange a safe way to keep her with me while constantly traveling. There was a lot of unnecessary suffering in there and I do wish my dog could still see one of the people that helped raise her and get her off the street, but my ex made her choices and this is where it brought us. And I think we're b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/07/24 01:54 AM
1	A depressing thread that captures the depth of the feminist lefts failure of male victims and how deeply bias can drive one's worldview And everyone who called her out is the abusive psycho she is was labeled a misogynist. And even the women who agreed she was an abuser accused the men who talked about it of "focusing on it too much" and "not shutting up about it" to try to divert attention away from the issues men cause. Its just gross, But it is certainly helpful in getting to the heart of what causes this kind of mentality and how that mentality can actually hurt people. Because, despite these same women claiming that we're b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/07/24 01:31 AM
31	Two X users propose eugenics and conversion therapy in their quest for gender equality Or ya know, the liar who got Emmett Till lynched.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/24 08:58 PM
6	“Large psychology study debunks stereotype of feminists as man-haters” - ”The Misandry Myth: An Inaccurate Stereotype About Feminists’ Attitudes Toward Men” And like how Hezbollah pretended to be a borderline progressive organization while campaigning for political power in Palestine. They even claimed to believe in religious freedom at one point.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/24 06:46 PM
72	A depressing thread that captures the depth of the feminist lefts failure of male victims and how deeply bias can drive one's worldview I definitely never heard the phrase "mutual abusers" in mainstream media before this case. Funny how I didn't come up until it was a woman being accused. Have to wonder how many abuse cases brought against men were the same type of mutual abuse. But we'll never know, because they always haul the man to jail no matter what and assume any wounds he has are from the woman's self-defense. -Sincerely, A guy who spent 4 days in jail, 2 years and $14,000 to get domestic abuse charges dropped, despite b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/24 09:06 AM
116	“Large psychology study debunks stereotype of feminists as man-haters” - ”The Misandry Myth: An Inaccurate Stereotype About Feminists’ Attitudes Toward Men” Because people are always straightforward about their hate during studies about hate. It's like asking a racist if they're racist. Of course they're going to say no. But that doesn't change their actual behavior. If you asked someone who had been labeled a misogynist, like Mel Gibson, if they hated women, they would absolutely say no. But that doesn't change what everything else about their behavior and mentality says.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/24 12:42 AM
5	There is a huge contradiction between feminists saying women can't differentiate good men from bad men, and feminists also saying only creepy men worry about false allegations. Well, yeah, you kind of have to be selective about logic when you're trying to teach fascism or authoritarianism. Flat out logic would tell you that the totalitarian fascism is wrong and ineffective in the first place.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/24 12:15 AM
6	There is a huge contradiction between feminists saying women can't differentiate good men from bad men, and feminists also saying only creepy men worry about false allegations. That's kind of the inherent problem with absolutist ideology. You end up with the same problems you have with religion. When every question is treated as heresy, there's no room for growth.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 08:45 PM
8	There is a huge contradiction between feminists saying women can't differentiate good men from bad men, and feminists also saying only creepy men worry about false allegations. I'm not arguing that there aren't women out there that believe in that stuff, But most of the feminists Ive met see the concept of women's intuition as not only inaccurate, but offensive. Because it implies that when women make a smart decision, that it's because of some natural womanly aspect of their biology and not because they are educated or legitimately intelligent. They see it as essentially assigning any of their intelligence or competence to luck. And, not saying there aren't women who …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 04:36 PM
2	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored Yeah, people definitely push against totalitarianism. Just look at Trump. Oh, wait..	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/07/24 04:29 PM
61	Insane interaction with “mod” of r/FeministsUncensored That's a lot of words for "If you're not 100% agreeing with us no matter what we say, you're the enemy". It always feels like women like this would be absolute totalitarian fascists if they were ever given power.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 08:52 PM
7	What's the deal with r/menslib? While I don't doubt a complete disregard for any societal structures working against men is what a lot of feminists believe, It's not like that's a rule of feminism. If they believe that part, it's because they chose to. Not because the concept of feminism inherently requires it. Don't mistake the bastardization of a movement with the over-arching movement itself. Given how long it took women to get to having a lot of the same rights as men, this overswing could still just be a passing moment as…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/07/24 12:43 AM
1	How do you avoid becoming an incel? It has nothing to do with inconveniencing women. I don't even know how you could get that from my comment. Stereotyping people isn't "inconveniencing" them. Most of the people being stereotyped in the world aren't around the people who are stereotyping them. And you don't need to be directly insulting a woman to be stereotyping her. But the term "incel" is pretty well tied up in how women are perceived by those men. And if someone, like op, is claiming they are slipping into that mentality, it's…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/24 02:52 PM
5	How do you avoid becoming an incel? By not blaming all women for the behavior of some. In the same way, we don't want them blaming us for the behavior of other men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/24 12:28 AM
12	House passes defense bill automatically registering men 18-26 for draft I think they're posting this more in the light of "Instead of fixing the gender-discriminatory nature of the draft, they instituted a law that set it in stone even further".	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/06/24 03:41 PM
10	I’m starting to worry that the discourse is pulling me to the Right. Just make a new YouTube account. Those algorithms are designed to be manipulative and dangerous. And by continuing to use their algorithmically enhanced version of their app, you're falling right into that trap. They want you angry, they want you yelling at people in the comments. If social media is the main thing pulling you to the right, you might want to consider why that is and whether or not it actually has anything to do with your values. Because it likely has a lot more to do with what's …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/06/24 11:12 PM
5	Have you ever met any women who was sympathetic to men’s issues? My ex-wife was extremely sympathetic and understanding about our issues. Not very sympathetic and understanding about a lot of other things, but she definitely recognized the sociopolitical problems and wanted to help do something about it. And I think when you break down most of the issues, most people will be sympathetic to them. It's when you start describing yourself as a male advocate or actually try to take political action that there ends up being issue. Because any help given to men is s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/05/24 05:21 PM
75	Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? This woman wants a main character from a light romantic comedy made by Hallmark, not a grown, human man. "I wanted to jump on the trampoline until exhausted and then make out and dance around the house". These are the expectations of relationships that 12-year-old girls have before they start high school after reading Twilight. This is not what the attitude of a grown woman should be when trying to enter a serious relationship. This isn't what the attitude of any grown adult should be. People sa…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/24 11:20 PM
163	Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? This is the most infuriating aspect of trying to have a discussion about this. Every single time you bring up anything that primarily affects men, they immediately start telling you how it's men's fault that it's happening. Unreasonable body standards, double standards on emotions and toxicity, double standards on the rates of violence against men, double standards in our justice system. They always like to blame other men as if that somehow means the innocent men being victimized somehow deserv…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/24 11:10 PM