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| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather add two inches in height, gain two inches in length, or add two figures to your income?If you have a 0 figure income, by adding two figures, you get $10-$99/year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 07:38 AM |
| 5 | Polygamy is a natural and adaptive form of human sexual expressionThere was a study posted here recently that tracked genetic influence of male and female ancestry. They got a coefficient varying from 1.1 in East Asia to 1.4 in West Africa, where 1 is full monogamy, and the greater the value the bigger disparity between males reproductive success. Those numbers suggest monogamy being prevalent in human societies, and it's not a recent phenomenon but dates back to earliest hominids. Monogamous humans is the scientific consensus. Human polygamy, hypergamy, alpha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:03 AM |
| 21 | Men would be better off having female friendsHim: Talks about a common hobby Her: I have a boyfriend I'd nope the fuck out of that conversation... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is unbalanced because, on average, women desire dates, love, relationships, sex, kids, and marriage less than menThat's because the tiny minority of men who only want sex approach everything that has a pulse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:13 AM |
| 14 | There is nothing wrong with a promiscuous guy wanting to settle with a virgin.While the promiscuous woman is preferred for casual sex due to her experience and easiness to get in bed, the same is not true about marriage. When a man is looking for a wife, his prioritize change - he will select for attributes that make for a good wife - the opposite of the promiscuous woman Yet when a woman thinks like this, RP guys here all cry about AF/BB... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:35 PM |
| 10 | what is your gender and would you change your sexuality if you could.When you're a man and come out as bi, suddenly nobody wants to date you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you end up in a position to flirt with women? (seriously asking)Women intentionally avoid men and do not like having male friends. What kind of women do you know? Serious question, this point above sounds absurd to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 01:11 AM |
| 14 | Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment?If he wants commitment, he'll likely try to get you into his hobbies. He'll want to do non-romantic activities together. He'll spend time with you without doing anything to impress you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-ThreadUS has the highest use of antidepressants per capita in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?You're a perfect example of unrealistic perception of male physique. Megan Fox' bf works out regularly. You can google him sharing his gym routine. Zendaya's bf is jacked af! He's fucking Spiderman. That's a literal superhero body. And if this is dadbod to you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:13 AM |
| 5 | Many women are perpetuating rape "culture" by being into aggressive menWell, if you're a businessman who only does business with people who come to business meetings with gun in hand shouting "get on the floor!", then yeah, you're perpetuating theft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Ladies: have you ever approached a total stranger and gave them your number?I'm a man and it happened to me once. She didn't even outright give me her number, she asked me to hand her my phone cause hers was dead, entered a number and returned it saying "here's my number". I felt incredibly flattered and still remember it years later, but obviously didn't call her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated?Looking at that profile I almost regret not being gay. Seriously though, this showcases a problem with online dating. You can see tons of people here making some WILD assumptions about this guy "He wants to casually and spontaneously plan a week to Thailand" "He looks like the kind of guy who would judge you for wanting to stay in bed on a weekend." "It seems like he’d judge or leave for something as small as monthly period bloat if you weren’t up to his standard" "he looks like the type of guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 41 | Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10?This is why I'm not subscribing to RP. Reading this sub, I constantly remind myself how for every RP guy saying that women are incapable of love and only pursuing a 666 man, there's someone like OP saying the same bullshit about men. Short answer: no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy does not affect men as much as people think it does.The 6.1-4.2 difference doesn't make sense. Every opposite sex partner a man has means an opposite sex partner a woman has, so these numbers must be equal. EDIT: Actually not true, I didn't notice it said "median" This is a self reporting bias. Men overestimate the number of partners they've had. Now, the other statistics you brought (5 or more partners in 12 months) would actually support the claim that a minority of men (so called chads) have most of sexual activity out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships?I want to be desired. That's why I work out (it's not the only reason, but it's an important one, even if few gym goers will openly admit it). I want to be seen as a sex object*. I remember reading an article by a bisexual guy. His first time with another man was groundbreaking, cause he felt desired for the first time. Prior to that women would only say "you make me feel good". That doesn't make a man feel desired, it only means he's doing a good job. His ugly male body is merely tolerated as a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on Men’s and Women’s Only SpacesI find them stupid. Sure, you can create any exclusionary spaces you want and I won't stop you, but I will judge you. If you feel the need to separate yourself from the other gender, you need a therapy, not a safe space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Men don't take care of how they look. Compared to SOME men, and almost all women.I will say it. Gyms are full of men. If you're out of shape and dress nicely, you look like shit with sprinkles on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 11 | CMV: RedPill is correct that straight women are predominantly attracted to "bad boys"Muscular has nothing to do with "bad boy". Go to any gym and most guys there are pretty laid-back, friendly and not aggressive. Women like athletic men because fit body is a sign of good health and good genes, nothing groundbreaking about it. Men are into athletic women too, for the same reasons (inb I'm not talking about steroid pumped bodybuilders, but natural gym goers, sort of like this) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 12:16 AM |
| 3 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?I'm a guy on the opposite side of the spectrum. I was skinny my entire life and in recent years I went from 19 BMI to 24. I feel that I have easier time making friends than a couple years ago. I can't tell how much of that is due to improved physique and how much it's improves social skills. Probably a little bit of both. I now occasionally get compliments from men and suggestive jokes from women, and I'm still getting used to it. I don't know about sexual appeal, cause I don't pursue hookups. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 02:09 PM |
| 10 | What's something the opposite gender gets away with?If they landed on r/trashy, that means people did mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 04:08 PM |
| 11 | You can’t blame women for only going after the top 20% of Chads because men have gotten less attractive due to estrogenic chemicals and feminism degrading them.Muscle and fat mass changes face too. Look at progress pictures of guys who got in shape. I don't know if chemicals in food have significant effect on bone structure, but I know getting in shape has a surprisingly big effect on face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 08:43 PM |
| -1 | You should put out at least within the first few dates but also have a low body count?Men are not a hivemind lol It's often different people taking these two stands. But plating devil's advocate for those who take both stands at once. They want a woman to be attracted to them specifically. If she's usually picky, but is attracted easily to that one guy, that bodes well for the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 10:36 AM |
| 4 | Are women simply too attractive for most men these daysWomen are in the gym more? The male to female ratio i see in the gym is close to 10:1. I'd really appreciate if women started to actually take care of themselves for real. That is, go out and exercise, eat healthy, limit alcohol. Getting all dolled up for the evening isn't worth shit, it's just a false front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband cryingBest avoid sarcastic jokes in this sub. People here write such stupid shit you can never tell if they're serious or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/21 12:49 PM |
| 5 | “Women are NOT a hive mind “, yet in any content where they Interview a group of women, their answers ALWAYS mirror each other’sDude, you're not making any sense here. First you change the topic to something completely unrelated, and when questioned you fail to give and answer. You're either a troll or just extremely lacking in self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:31 AM |
| 35 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Poor taste in music | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?Obesity is not a good evolutionary trait. Health issues aside, they would be poor hunters. Especially since prehistoric humans walked and ran huge distances. Lean athletic bodies make best hunters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 12:15 AM |
| 9 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himShe's more attractive than him. Better, more rounded face shape, better nose, better lips, more prominent cheekbones, and a smile helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:33 PM |
| 4 | So lets get this going since its purge week. Post your pics!Being "normal BMI range" does not automatically make you attractive. Your fat deposits in a really unflattering way, so you need more muscle than a regular guy to look decent. Work out your upper body to counter-balance those hips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | The 50th percentile man likes 50% of women. The 50th percentile woman likes...Most of your problems come from equating Tinder with real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 34 | Meet one of the most swiped men on tinderLesson #10 Be attractive Lesson #11 Don't be unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 08:07 AM |
| 3 | How did the genders get to this point?They aren't really like that. The dating culture may not be perfect, but most people manage to find and build relationships. TRP and FDS are a small subset of unsuccessful men and women venting their frustration online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to find the flaws in others to be attractive?Yes, I believe that the most attractive faces are those that are mostly perfect, but with a couple of minor flaws. The flaws aren't big enough to turn the whole face ugly, but they attract attention and make us remember the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman "relationship material"?I don't have a shopping list of requirements. Compatible personality and somewhat good looks. What is "compatible personality"? I don't know. We may "click" or we may not and it's hard to break it down to a list of traits. It may be an extroverted social butterfly, or a gentle introverted bookworm, or a rebel punk girl, or... There's more than one recipe for a tasty dinner and there's more than one recipe for a great girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | The people of r/PurplePillDebate are smart, but ignoring the simple obvious fact...Average height includes people of all ages, and previous generations were shorter than now. In other words, nobody's hiding, you are just actually below average height in your age bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 12:05 PM |
| 5 | I think we all need to calm down a littleI like how relaxing the company of women is. Not turning everything into a competition, not trying to dominate, just normal socialising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations.The disagreement here comes from different goals and strategies. Both a general approach and individual approach have their uses and neither is inherently better or worse, they just have different uses. General approach is better when you're playing a numbers game and want to get as many women as possible. But you could increase the chances you win your bet from, say, 80% to 90%, if you analyze this one specific case and identify exceptions to the rules. It just takes effort and is not compatibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Did you read the rest of my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Nothing in this list is unreasonable. But the list itself is, if every single thing on it is a hard requirement. Like, if she rejects a perfect guy because he doesn't want a pet, that's quite ridiculous. It's good to know what you want, but you're setting yourself up for failure if you're not willing to accept any flaw at all. Maybe he's an honest caring guy, who's been taught not to show emotions and needs some help warming up. Maybe he's got a stable job, but is unsure about his future. Maybe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all?I mean, there's an infinite list of topics to talk about: hobbies, work, travels, politics, relatives, philosophy... It's good to lighten the atmosphere with a joke now and then, but I find it boring when you can't have a serious discussion with someone, only an endless exchange of jokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 0 | [Q4BP] Question for those who think women put more effort into their appearance.Additionally, if you take two merely identical women and one takes care of herself while the other one does not, well, try to guess which one is going to be more popular. The latter. The former will be ignored for being too high maintenance ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Have you noticed any patterns in the types of people attracted to you?I've only noticed men are far more into me than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Love between gendersRemember that Disney movie where the princess made an effort to make the guy feel wanted? To be fair, yes. Pocahontas, for example, features a proactive princess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 10:34 AM |
| 3 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?I'm a guy who's more attracted to women. TIL it must mean I'm gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 08:06 AM |
| 1 | What Are Your Definitions of Good Looking, Average and Below Average?I'm not, it's your standards (for both men and women) that are ridiculous. Kit Harrington average holy fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Is a thin man in the US "above average"Overall I've seen more fat guys than skinny guys have an attractive gf. Being skinny makes you look weak and emasculated. Fat can pass for strong even if he has zero muscle. Some women just want to feel small next to a guy and if they can't get a buff dude, they'll go for a fat one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | What Are Your Definitions of Good Looking, Average and Below Average?I did. She's hot. It's mostly straight women and gay men who get so infatuated with makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 10:25 AM |
| 1 | What Are Your Definitions of Good Looking, Average and Below Average?I googled her without makeup and she's just as hot. Top tier hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | What Are Your Definitions of Good Looking, Average and Below Average?If those are averages, then I must be a fcking goblin xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Definitions of Good Looking, Average and Below Average?Yes and no. The perfectly average face may be a perfect 8, but they won't be anyone's 10. They'll go largely unnoticed. A 10 is someone with no significant flaws, but with some visual quirks that catch people's interest. For example, Natalie Dormer's fucked up eyes and lips make her oddly beautiful, and more attractive than a computer generated composite image of 1000 faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?The last one means I have to spend more money on groceries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?No problem at all. I'd sooner consider the opposite - cutting all ties with exes - to be a red flag, cause it would mean her relationships tend to turn into huge shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 10:06 AM |
| 2 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?Do you only hangout and talk regularly with people you are in a relationship with? It doesn't prevent from moving on if both parties know and agree it's in the past. I think it's a healthy and mature way to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 09:30 AM |
| 17 | What is your view on guys who like to keep exes around?People don't always break up crying, screaming and burning bridges. Sometimes you just both decide it won't work out and decide to remain friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What *should* men/women's standards be? If you criticize them for having unreasonable standards, what should these standards be then?I believe physical and mental attraction are both required and equally important for a successful relationship. Society has conditioned men to only care about looks and women to not care at all. Or at least pretend to. I think it's based on sexist approach (in both ways) to sexuality: shaming women for sexual needs, demonizing male sexuality as predatory, etc.. It's rooted in outdated ideas of gender roles and does a disservice to both modern men and modern women. Ngl if my gf told me she only l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 5 | What *should* men/women's standards be? If you criticize them for having unreasonable standards, what should these standards be then?I'm not sure what to believe anymore. Online I see many women have ridiculous standards (infamous 666). Then I go out, see a girl with a guy who looks like a sack of potatoes and I think "girl, please have some standards..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?I had long hair that I loved for my entire 20s. Recently I had to cut it short because my hairline is receding. I will probably shave it off in 1-5 years, depending on how fast the balding progresses. I always could pass for several years younger (I'm 30 right now), but now the balding pattern is a giveaway. But overall I'm better than 10 years ago, since I've grown more confident, I'm more sociable, I carry myself better and I work out... only that I'm still just as broke... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksWhat do you mean? That being tall is irrelevant or that everything else is irrelevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Trying to improve your personality is even harder, more pointless than trying to improve your looksThe point isn't to become a polar opposite of your true self, but to improve within the framework of what you already have. It works similar to improving your looks - you can't become taller or fix a crooked nose, but you can always exercise, get a good haircut and wear nice clothes, to get the best out of what nature gave you. So an introverted cynic doesn't have to become an extroverted optimist to be popular, just be the most likeable version of an introverted cynic. Look, Keanu Reeves is an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 09:24 AM |
| 12 | How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill?I think RedPill's idea of happy relationship is different than yours. I suppose you want a relationship based on mutual respect, attraction and emotional connection. RP want a subservient woman who admires them for social status and trades sexual favors for financial stability. They don't like women, don't want to spend time with them outside bedroom and don't care if they can connect with them emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 04:39 PM |
| 34 | What exactly does an average guy, and girl for that matter, look like?I don't want to be rude, but if this is average man, then I'm a goddamn chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Questions for Purple Pill Men.A) Have you experienced any of the following during childhood?; My mother died when I was 4. I grew up poor. Not "near-starvation poor", but "working class poor" B) Have you experienced any of the following in adulthood?; Poverty, mental health issues C) Do you currently experience low mood, feelings of worthlessness, (social) anxiety or depression? No D) Do you feel socially isolated/ unable to connect with others? Do you have a supportive social group? I'm good enough. I don't have friends clo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed menI don't care how attractive she is. If she's playing these sorts of games, she'll be even more problematic in the relationship. Sign me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 07:17 PM |
| 8 | Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think.What other animals than humans have created various distinct beliefs and cultures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | It shouldn't matter that only 20% of men are considered attractive when 70% of young men are having sex.Kind of unrelated, but I have to chip in. I'll take a single sincere compliment over dispassionate sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are influenced by "presence" too, not just womenIt's hard to separate looks and personality when it comes to attraction. People often talk about it as if you could do a simple L+P or L*P equation to determine someone's attractiveness, but in reality these are intertwined. A person we like appears more attractive and vice versa - we tend to attribute good qualities to good looking people. There's numerous studies on this. I think what you call presence is that combination of looks and personality, the point at which they intertwine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 06:46 PM |
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