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I pick the third option. Being left tf alone for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:16 AM
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Its not a vending machine. Nice treatment doesn't go in so sex comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:59 AM
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Most of those are staged lol. But even if I did indulge you, I'm a GTR girl, not a Lambo girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:58 AM
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Its weird how men speak on women's aging in the sense of "you're gonna miss getting catcalled/complimented" uhm no I literally cannot wait until men stfu about me in public lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:20 PM
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Those men fetishize fat women. Their weight is their singular point of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:12 PM
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I think men overestimate the amount of attention women get too, which warps their perception of love and relationships in general. I see men on the sub all the time talking about how women get everything (ie sex and attention) handed to them and thus have "so many options". I hate to break it to men here, but women generally aren't gonna wanna date the guy catcalling them or just ogling them in the street lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:09 PM
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It would seem men vastly overestimate the value of their approval. I was single and celibate for 5 years, and over that time was "wooed" by men who almost invariably turned cold and/or insulting when I didn't want to date or appreciate being simped for. Validation is cheap as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:49 PM
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Women have relationships - friends lol - outside of their spouses at a far greater frequency than men. So yeah even though women outlive men, they're more likely to have a support system that satisfies them emotionally, so they die single but not alone for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:14 PM
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Why do you have the emotional regulation skills of a toddler? Whether or not the mods put me on "time out", I think you're being just as unhinged lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:25 PM
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Lol cope and seethe then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:21 PM
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I'm not the mod team lol. Though personally foid is more obscure than scrote or even moid, so preface your usage with a Merriam Webster link.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:16 PM
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Well these are all hypothetical situations aren't they.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:02 PM
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Considering multiple men have complimented me for wearing no makeup when I've got a full face of subtle makeup, this makes me kek 95% of guys can't even tell what is real or fake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:56 PM
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Well its more implied than explicit. A hot woman dates a nerdy or overweight guy and people flip their shit wondering why she hasn't gone for Chad. Or imply she'll cheat on her bf for Chad because she doesn't actually want a beta. People's logic can be so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:45 PM
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Lol on this sub, sure. Which isn't representative of everybody. I've met a number of IRL neckbeards and rejects who only ever ask out beautiful women beyond their league and wonder why they get constantly rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:42 PM
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Lol even the most beautiful women wear makeup and get enhancements, whereas sexually successful and secure men don't take PUA courses. You're grasping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:37 PM
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Lots of scrotes aren't criticized for wanting beautiful women though. There's entire PUA courses and communities designed for below average men to gain access to women, even if it mostly amounts to telling guys to have a sugar baby or become a passport bro lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:30 PM
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"The point is to tell them to shut the fuck up and stop complaining about problems that they made for themselves" Also goes for the men here who complain women they want to have sex with, won't have sex with them. Or not being able to get sex with anyone. Cry me a river lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:22 PM
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It has everything to do with American consumerism. US women consume more than any other, and thus have a greater sense of entitlement. Is there not a massive discourse on American women being selfish and unfemimine, hence why men are not wanting marriage or LTR as much as they used to? What do you think has caused that shift? It's not feminism. Feminism is just a byproduct of consumerism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:12 PM
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As a non-American, red pill ideology has ALWAYS resembled an American-centric mindset to me. What the red pill deems as high value is pretty inseparable from the American interpretation of success (ie rich consumerism).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:05 PM
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Most people actually fall somewhere in the middle. They don't talk about it because they don't make it a personal identity, it's just how their personalities and upbringing have shaped them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:26 AM
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Its part of the disease of not seeing people as autonomous, but rather the sum of their observable traits and what they can derive of that. Ironically, parasites operate in the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:36 PM
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They have options and still picked that woman in particular. The most basic logic tells you that it's for reasons other than looks. I'm not sure why you're choking so hard on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:27 PM
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Its not that different lol. Men pretending to have standards for looks regarding who'd they'd casually fuck vs date is laughable. Most of them get into relationships in the first place because they want regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:23 PM
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Men cheat on their 10/10 partners with crusty women all the time lol. Sexual availability is their opium, they really don't gaf about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:16 PM
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What's to learn if you are happy together?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:06 PM
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Could it be these men have learnt/understand that looks play no real part in compatibility and value these women for other reasons beyond eye candy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:05 PM
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Serial killers committing violent acts of assault and dictators power tripping with harems isn't my idea of superiority, it's yours lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:45 PM
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Sure. Lot more fun than a dumb AI quiff who was designed and programed by a smarter and more successful man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:11 AM
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Take your meds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:09 AM
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100% of men were never meant to breed. It's literally natural selection. You're the one bitter about it, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:46 AM
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My boyfriend is literally a nerdy introverted engineer. He gets laid all the time. Your argument makes no fucking sense at all. Normal men with normal jobs AND girlfriends exist. Also, if men are WILLINGLY using AI girlfriends, isn't he also declaring he doesn't care about the gene pool? It's the epitome of saying IDGAF. Why is my comment inflaming so many people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:29 AM
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Neither is my partner. You're just making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:16 AM
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How do I have low empathy? Aren't these men being emotionally satisfied in a harmless way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:27 PM
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I also support the weak seed deleting itself from the gene pool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:09 PM
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Women have always fallen for quick fixes and vanity. But social media has such a grip on our psyches and how we view ourselves frankly it's warped our idea of what normal humans even look like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:16 AM
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Its an example of marketing killing women, using the media to say x y z feature is trendy/bad and then selling them the procedures that fix that. We are living in an era where youth isn't only valued, it's fetishized. Plastic surgery and cosmetic procedures promising to keep women young and hot again mostly benefits the ones selling the products.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:34 AM
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I worked for the military in a security position and now I do private security work which involves being a bodyguard and on the front line. I've also worked for an engineering firm building boats and custom water craft. Honestly I love the work and I'm good at it. Many men have implied I don't belong or am better suited for an office job. But I don't care. I don't need to prove myself to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:40 AM
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I'm not struggling at all. Women do appreciate supposedly "feminine" traits in men. Look at the cover of any woman's magazine featuring a man, and the articles, and it will be full of men talking to women about sensitivity, empathy, and their hopes of family and marriage. Talk to actual women in happy successful relationships and ask them about what they love about their partners; they will describe a man who is sensitive, responsive to their needs and moods, affectionate but still a man. Develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:19 AM
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Lol some are tops and don't play the receiver. But it's true women are ultra jealous within a bisexual dynamic, way more than men are with bisexual women. Men will often like the fact or be neutral about a woman's bisexuality, because even as a passive observer he can include himself within a power dynamic. Women, on the other hand, just can't abide the competition and insecurity that causes and will accuse a guy of being weak when in reality he has a much larger pool of potential lovers and thu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:06 AM
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Women say they think its ick, but in reality they don't want to compete with men as well as other women. Every single bisexual man I've met has been masculine, in presentation and in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:52 PM
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I would. I'm bisexual too. Provided you're loyal and have integrity. It would even be something fun to bond over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:50 PM
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Just because you're deficient at friendship it doesn't mean every man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:50 PM
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You're clutching at straws and "what ifs" to maintain your delusions rather than accept human beings are nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:32 PM
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No. I have male friends I've been friends with 10+ years and they've always been purely platonic. It's easy to maintain good friendships if you have a measure of integrity lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:17 PM
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Broken women like toxic men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:13 PM
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You came back just to say you were with my dead mother lol. Living rent free.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:51 AM
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Shes dead too. Enjoy your bacterial infection lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:48 AM
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Reality lol. People aren't just the sum of research studies and statistics. Identifying a general trend is fine, sure, but outside of a controlled and static environment people cannot be so easily quantified. If you think you can chalk an individual up to lines on pulpy wood I'd argue that's the root cause of all the relational strife you have suffered in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:40 AM
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Poor you. Meanwhile I was literally kidnapped on a first date lol. I guess we just have different perspectives on what's actually pathological vs a social faux pas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:11 AM
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Psychology isn't science, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:23 AM
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The source doesn't matter. If you investigate the same claim or question multiple times and the data is different then its useless data. Or better said, not inexorable data. Outliers make the average, after all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:27 AM
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Most people I'd argue aren't smart and therefore aren't worth listening too. Lol. Psychology is pseudoscience. Over half of all research studies can't be replicated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:17 AM
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According to who
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:07 AM
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I've been called crazy, illogical, and even worthless by men for expressing emotions. Sure, it's socially acceptable for women to be emotional - around other women. But to suggest women don't get punished for expressing themselves around men is pretty ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:19 AM
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I told you facts lol. I'm not the one with sour grapes over the opposite sex. Maybe because I can actually process and express emotions instead of repressing them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:51 AM
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Its a wonder you can't grasp the double edged sword that women get chastised for being able to show those emotions without inhibition. Can't you see that irony lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:49 AM
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Lol as if men don't do some fucked up shit on dates. One dude actually abducted me after a date by refusing to drop me home or let me get out. We spent hours driving aimlessly around while he whined about nobody caring about him. Even after that, I still don't consider men a single crazy entity. I'd rather listen to some chick talk about her mommy issues than be kidnapped. But sure all women are cuckoo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:44 AM
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Marilyn and Monica had their share of heartbreak and trauma despite the millions of dollars and the adoration of the people. Marilyn especially suffered greatly for her fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:37 AM
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Its how women communicate, by sharing experiences and how it affects them. It's not pathological at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:35 AM
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I love it when men call a relatively healthy yet obvious display of emotion a "breakdown".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:33 AM
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Say this to the guys obsessed with "Chad" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:11 AM
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I'm not mentally ill, so. I've noticed all the people who can't take accountability or use common sense can't cope with my takes though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:43 PM
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Says who? You, and some dead loser nerd? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:48 PM
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I'm not wrong lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:44 PM
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Lol gravity can be observed and tested as an actionable concept. Evolutionary psychology cannot. It's literally a bunch of assumptions that can neither be confirmed nor falsified. My source is common sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:26 PM
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Evolution only cares about adaptation to survive current conditions, it has nothing to do with "success". Either your idea of evolution is warped or you cannot accept that traits aren't primarily selected for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:19 PM
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There is no evolutionary reason. Not all behavioral cues or preferences are selected for. Evolutionary psychology is worse than pseudoscience because it's impossible to go back in time or replicate the exact conditions that might have caused a specific trait to be selected for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:07 PM
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Goodell is a dead asshole. Why would i care about him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:35 PM
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Exactly. 99.9% percent of women aren't as beautiful as Marilyn Monroe or Monica Bellucci, yet they're perfectly happy, successful, and still consider themselves worthy of love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:22 PM
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Exactly. 99.9% percent of women aren't as beautiful as Marilyn Monroe or Monica Bellucci, yet they're perfectly happy, successful, and still consider themselves worthy of love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:22 PM
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Exactly. 99.9% percent of women aren't as beautiful as Marilyn Monroe or Monica Bellucci, yet they're perfectly happy, successful, and still consider themselves worthy of love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:22 PM
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There is no such thing as an unsolvable problem. Just mediocre intellects who can't think of creative solutions or ways to mitigate their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:08 PM
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They're making a good point. Maybe focus on improving yourself instead of being jealous of a hypothetical Chad? Or you know. Keep spouting mentally ill bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:52 PM
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I agree 100%. Never in my life have I heard women discuss Chads. Hell most women don't even fucking care about a guy being a Chad. They just want someone who won't kill them or use them as a therapist. The amount of broken men insisting on the existence of Chad actually confirms to me that men prefer mental illness over considering women as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:50 PM
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I met a fairly popular TV celebrity once. Probably the textbook definition of a "Chad", or pretty damn close. Very handsome and charismatic, but even then, he was just a normal human being beneath the status and acheivements. I agree that red pillers are absolutely delusional regarding how common it is for Chad's to exist AND the fact most aren't looking to steal your girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:46 PM
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Short answer, no. Long answer.....also no, lol. I'm not a fan of calling potential love interests "options". It's turning fruitful and meaningful relationships into commodities. Your overall personality matters in successful pairing, more so than your arbitrary age. Yes, younger women are idealized, but men who idealize youth in women above everything else are predatory. Yes, older men are idealized, but women who idealize older men's assets and ability to provide above all else are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:40 PM
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Men comparing themselves to the headcanon Chad of their waking nightmares never fails to amuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:37 PM
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I've read that feminine energy is receptive. Whilst male energy is pursuant. Mind you, everybody has these energies present within them and it's not some two dimensional static binary. But your words about competition got me thinking about what it means exactly to pursue something. Generally it's to kill, or capture, right? To possess. Men, in their healthy energy, are driven to possess. And promiscuity is not just an indication of prior possession, but a potential of future possessions after yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:25 AM
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My man, the Gillettes and mosh pit tickets are on me next time, fembot can stay folded in the back seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:05 AM
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Gee whiz even I would go for the fembot remedy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:01 AM
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Maybe. The essence of femininity is serenity and receptivity. It's not hard to learn. Though honestly without guidance I can see why many women are lost and don't prioritize it. Or just aren't into embodying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:41 AM
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Seems like you're drinking Kool-Aid tbh. Lots of people overcome disabilities to achieve their goals. To suggest it's too hard or unrealistic is pretty idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:57 AM
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Lucky me. Let me light a memorial candle for them lol. You can still strive for self improvement regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:54 AM
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You can learn social skills and relatability, even I know that and I am autistic. And I lost my virginity at the average age and have had long term relationships. I'm not saying it's bad to have autistic traits but if you want to derive value from the wider world and thus lessen the negative impacts of the condition its absolutely necessary to learn how to communicate and build relationships with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:51 AM
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Yes, he will die and his autismo social gene with him, hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:43 AM
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If it's deliberate (religion, asexuality, injury) then it's not. But if someone wants to lose it, has tried, and failed then it speaks somewhat to his place within a social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:41 AM
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If a guy hasn't lost his virginity by 40, barring some kind of medical thing, it's not only funny, it's a cause for concern. Cause while it's certainly not harmful nor reflective of his character, it's an indication of social failure. Better said, it's an indicator of a lack of social status. Losing your virginity is a low bar, really. If you can't even hit that it does make you an object of derision due to rarity and the statement it makes about your social skills with the opposite sex being at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:28 AM
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The OP was talking about the girls he dated being materialistic and asking about money, hence why I brought up not knowing what my partners salary is. I know he's not homeless lol. But my wider point is this: there are women who don't care about money and living vicariously through their partners wage. Like sure I could play 4-D chess and come up with a pretty accurate estimate of his income. But I don't care either way. The person my partner is matters a lot more to me. The hilarious thing abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 AM
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Not all western women are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:19 AM
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Well your alternative is living and dying alone. Or being bathed in blue light while your AI gf asks you for the 7th time why you like walks on the beach. I trust you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:43 AM
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Well shit my guy, 100% of people who don't buy a lottery ticket don't win the jackpot. The odds of winning are astronomical on any given day. But someone does win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:39 AM
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Well if luck could happen to me there's literally no reason why it can't happen to you. The rest is a bunch of sorry excuses and sour grapes. By all means, gain emotional clarity through your little computer missus if it makes you happy. But if you catch yourself still pining for the touch and warmth of a human female, then maybe think back on this conversation and the time you wasted being full of doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:30 AM
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Well. Today is my first day back on reddit after a two month break. So yes I've been hyperactive lol. Did my computer overlord give me a two month holiday? No? I use this app when I feel like it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:19 AM
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Its called luck. Odds. Chances. If I talked to AI instead of being proactive I wouldn't have a partner either. Do the work. Get out there. Don't settle for bitter or superficial women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:15 AM
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Speak for yourself re; being controlled by a computer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:12 AM
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Yeah, one boyfriend who has treated me well amongst a sea of one's who haven't. What is so hard to reconcile here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:09 AM
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I'm nearly six foot tall, men ask me to get stuff off shelves lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:07 AM
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Chosen ones don't need bridges
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:04 AM
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My point is, there's more jerky men than good men. It took a while for me to find a decent guy. The cause is rooted in modern day dating culture and an overall lack of personal integrity. Also, aren't you basing this decision to try out an AI woman on your own personal experiences and how they shaped you? .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:04 AM
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Already done! I ask AI how to fix stuff around the house myself instead of paying a handyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:58 AM
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Well, I'll happily trade bodies and you can field my DMs. Don't mind the death threats and barely concealed implications of sexual violence and the weird negging. If you're very lucky you might even get a random picture of a penis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:56 AM
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It is true. And my basis is my own experience. I've been asked outright for nudes and sex, compared to a fleshlight with a heartbeat, been ghosted, been stood up, been strung along. And now apparently competing with an algorithm and inputted data lmao (last one is a joke ok) You need to know and understand is that the modern incarnation of dating, love, divorce rates and online influences has raised a generation of broken and narcissistic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:46 AM
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I mean. Men can be a singular and entirely boring, worthless entity as well, if I choose to think of them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:41 AM
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Hm I think thats relative on "success". Being able to get a date is small cheese for a woman. Finding a guy who would sleep with her or even have a short term fling is equally as undemanding and easy. This holds true wther you're a bitter and loose girl or a kind and loyal girl. And in fact I think the loyal girls can have a harder time because there's equally less respectable men than there used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:37 AM
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You do. You just need to be proactive. Though I get this can come off patronizing and unhelpful. But I do know respectful and kind women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:29 AM
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Choose better women. I've been dating my bf for 6 months and I still have no idea what his salary is. I love to ask him about his day and projects. Love to listen, give space, etc. I'm not being sarcastic when I say an AI girlfriend might show respect but she doesn't actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:23 AM
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Lol a real woman has to consent to be your girlfriend. Your AI "partner" doesn't. It says nothing about western women and everything about guys either not wanting to risk rejection or being satisfied emotionally by a computer program.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:06 AM
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This is intentional. I feel like a lot of men are completely unaware that a lot of "good girls" and "traditional women" still seek to control their relationships via the soft sell or "gilded cage" method. It's essentially when a woman removes all challenge and conflict from a man's everyday life, taming him in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:20 PM
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It means most women can tell the difference between fantasy and reality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:37 AM
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Guns provide security and safety too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:18 AM
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It isn't. Also theres a difference between sex on the first date and sleeping with everyone lol. Just realize that someone who loves you might not fit that highly specific concept and thus you're sabotaging your own efforts for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:57 PM
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Do you want love or do you want to feel special? Honestly what a 12 year old mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:53 PM
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Why is romantic love incompatible with sex early in a relationship? I've been in love with one person my entire life and we had sex on our first date. It was amazing. Exactly the kind of passion and sensuality everyone wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:48 PM
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Sex is good. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sex. But have it with someone who at least marginally values you outside of some weird concept of pussy patrolling
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:12 PM
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Between the ages of 18-22 I was a VORACIOUS reader of RP blogs. I read RoK every day, read Tomassis book, followed all the PUA's. And you're right, it DID result in me choosing to avoid men! Because I was so fixated on being a HVW and pleasing my partner it made me feel worthless when I turned 21 and suddenly became less valuable than a pure, sweet 18 year old. I thought I was damaged goods after having one boyfriend for Christ's sake. So yeah I turned 21, believed I was no longer marriage mater…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:56 AM
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Omg I vividly remember being twelve, dressed in perfectly respectable jeans and oversized t shirt, and being asked by a grown man if I gave head. I was like......I have a head? I went home and asked my mother what he meant and she hit the roof
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:57 PM
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Its common as hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:51 PM
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Meh men will objectify a turnip. Im a tomboy and wear literal men's clothes with no makeup and guys still whistle out their car windows at me. So it's a two way street lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:48 PM
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Yet the world is full of average or even ugly people that get dates and also cause heartbreak lol. For a less than attractive person, an average looking partner is their "alpha". But nobody thinks of them as an alpha, they're the person they love and miss. It's a simple concept and it's bizarre to me that people wanna argue it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:34 PM
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Meh if you want to assume the mindset of billions of strangers go ahead. I just know from experience that reality is more nuanced lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:27 PM
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Of course not, because it contradicts your worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:16 PM
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You're just in an incredible state of denial lol. I know a lot of women who dated perfectly ordinary guys and got heartbroken. Still missing him to this day. Maybe log off and talk to actual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:15 PM
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Even average men get pined after lol. So again it's normal and not a factor of being "alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:02 PM
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Imagine me giving a damn about your wall of hysterical text. Why can't people just read things calmly these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:47 PM
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Very few people remain so hung up on a heartbreak or first love they literally never bond with anyone else though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:46 PM
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You didn't describe anything lmao. Just popped off. Pixels can't hurt you my guy so calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:47 PM
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You're complaining worse than my menopausal aunt. And haven't provided any arguments apart from hysterics. I'm responding to you essentially because I have nothing better to do lol. You're acting like I'm playing tactical chess and it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:37 PM
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Generally people with no real identity love to gatekeep niche communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:35 PM
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My guy you keep sperging at me, lol. Of course I'm going to feed the goblin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:29 PM
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You're missing the part where I don't care. The OP was making a general statement and I responded with my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:18 PM
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You're essentially salty at common sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:07 PM
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Its a fear mentality to be obsessed with past lovers in case they're "better" than you, pure and simple. It actually sabotages healthy connections because you're eternally paranoid about being compared rather than enjoying the present. Sadly a lot of men are in denial about this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:55 PM
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I mean, unrequited love is common and it doesn't mean the guy is an alpha. That's my point. Missing an ex doesn't make the ex an alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:49 PM
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I mean, that's also called falling in love and getting heartbroken. It's pretty normal. It doesn't make the guy an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:40 PM
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I like sex fine but I don't date. You can certainly love the sensual, pleasure driven side of sex and yet not find men attractive/non annoying enough to date. For me the joy of sex isn't worth the sheer annoyance of being in a relationship but I disagree that I hate men or find dating dangerous. I can support myself and I have a lot of hobbies and things that occupy my time so I don't feel like I'm missing out or resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:31 PM
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Most people are not smart. Capable, but not smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:59 PM
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Everyone is insecure. It's common sense. Any woman who disagrees is an idiot. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:07 AM
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Meh why would I want to impress you guys for? If I want validation I wear high waisted shorts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:04 AM
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I can live with being a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:00 AM
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I'm put off by both of them lol. Have you actually read about Leo's sexual habits? Dismal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:41 AM
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I didn't say it was, I said it's easier for both parties if neither knows the others pasts from the outset and then if you have actual pressing questions/suspicions, ask them. Then choose whether or not the answer lines up with the person you've gotten to know. One guy- who I didn't date for long and never slept with - told me all his past sexual exploits without me asking and it sucked. Whole bunch of drunken ghetto debauchery that made him look cheap. Ironically if he'd never told me I'd proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:23 AM
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My policy has always been: don't ask, don't tell. If a guy wants to know my sexial history, that's fine, but I won't volunteer that information. Same with his past. Its just 100× easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:14 AM
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Basically. I know my worth lol. Is that such a bad thing? I don't even throw emotional temper tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:39 PM
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They'd rather live in absolute denial and fantasize about women becoming cat ladies because at least then they don't have to think about their own failings
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:36 PM
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The average age of women using IVF services is 36 years. Women tend to have kids with men who are older lol. So a good deal of the fertility problems IVF is addressing is due to paternal age as much as maternal. Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:24 AM
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This is all researched.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:20 AM
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Older men are more likely to have older partners too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:44 AM
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You're confusing men making women wet versus a man actually fostering and sustaining a successful pair bond with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:43 AM
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Lol I've been drunk? I've gotten into fights? I even enjoy a little adrenaline rush. You think women can't be messy and antisocial? We just don't do it to the extent that it kills us, generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:23 AM
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Men are technically "fertile" until their 80's. But the actual quality of their sperm is affected by age and the older a man is the more likely his sperm contains genetic defects. 40+ men are not only less likely to conceive from the outset but also statistically have sicker children. So the fertility difference isn't something like "ten years" but more like five. It depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 12:21 AM
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If I was a man I'd be more likely to become one. Which is why I don't want to be one. Yeah its an off color way of saying I like being a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:54 PM
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Most people marry people within 5 years of their own age, and yes it tends to skew towards men being the older partner. On the flip side male fertility goes down after 40 and older men are more likely to have autistic and DS kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:53 PM
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Men make up the majority of sexual deviants. Most necrophiles, fetishists, and so on are men. Why would I want the risk of wanting to fk dead ppl?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:51 PM
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Yes. My past two boyfriends I met at school and at a Halloween party. Quite the antiquated way of getting some nowadays. I personally hate the concept of dating apps. They're consumerist hellholes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:04 PM
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Nope lol. I have literally never needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:44 PM
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Never downloaded tinder in my life lol. Reaching hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:36 PM
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Contrary to popular belief, men aren't hard and living without them even less so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:14 PM
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I go outside and say hello. Seems to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:01 PM
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That's not all I'm doing lol. I'm enjoying life and only prioritizing men if they bring me value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:41 PM
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I'm not putting up anything lol. I'm simply waiting for someone worth investing in while enjoying myself and my free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:22 PM
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Wish in one hand and crap in the other, see which one overflows first
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:12 PM
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I haven't had repeated bad experiences with men. In fact I'd say I have had less heartbreak than most people because - surprise - I've stayed away from men for most of my twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:08 PM
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I'm 26, never been married, don't get any support from men at all.....and I love it. Having your own money or means of support is not only the key to confidence, but it really seems to piss off men who suddenly have no real social bargaining chip
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:22 PM
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Men hate the fact that many women choose literal solitude over dealing with their bullshit, pure and simple. Women now are waking up to the fact they really don't need a man, so they can ask for healthier dynamics or simply leave them be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:56 PM
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I'm 26 and don't date. Can't be bothered. My last relationship ended when I was 22 and since then I've had sex 3 times. I've noticed I'm not aging as badly as women who get hitched and become mothers and I have a lot of disposable income. I personally love being single. I don't worry about anyone except myself and I can spend a lot of time with older family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:54 PM
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Men definitely do not age better than women by default. But depends on lifestyle and the natural looks the person was gifted to begin with. Your average 40+ man tends to look terrible compared to a 40+ woman just by appearances alone, and keep in mind pregnancies age women on a cellular level and usually physically. Women care more about grooming and fashion even if they aren't pretty by conventional standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:23 AM
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Being a wife and mother, to put it bluntly lol. Especially the sacrificial, codependent kind. I'm in my mid 20s and most women I know are mothers; most of them look miserable and frankly like they realized they were sold a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:05 AM
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Basically you're right, it depends wholly on the target demographic and the more "expensive" and couture the designer is, the more refined and unique the model. I lost interest in two years and only got a few high-end type jobs but the girls who did get all the jobs tended to be androgynous and not at all the kinds of girls most men would call hot. Pretty, maybe, but not hot. The "hot" models pretty much only get swimwear and lingerie type job.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:11 PM
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Average men get laid all the time. Sure they're not dating Victoria's secret models or getting three new notches a week but that's......irrelevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 09:46 PM
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Married men live longer and make more money, and in general have better health and wellbeing. But the same isn't true for women most of the time. The money thing is partially explainable by the fact two incomes obviously result in more money and a better lifestyle but also because women do a lot of the housework and childcare (at the expense of their working hours) so their husband's can focus more on their careers. With health, women generally push men to attend doctors appointments and take on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:21 AM
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-dont respond instantly (obviously if I'm genuinely busy I won't respond but when I'm into a guy I'd tell him beforehand that I'll be busy) - won't bring up relationships or attraction (pure platonic vibes) - if he asks me out ill always have an excuse. - if he's persistent about asking me out or steering the conversation to sex I'll just ignore him for a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:41 AM
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Definitely. Especially when I cut my hair short when I was 19-20 to get more modeling calls. When I was just out dressed in jeans and a sweatshirt I was mistaken for a teenage boy. Got asked to leave bathrooms on two occasions only for people to apologize when I said I was a woman lol. It was only when I put on makeup and dressed overtly female that the social dynamic changed and more men looked at me. Thing about modeling is, it's actually more about finding fresh, unique kinds of beauty rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:49 AM
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It can? I'm saying that feeling uneasy is a defining factor of being an abuse victim in the first place. Habitually being frightened of your partner is abusive regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:23 AM
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I'm five foot ten and had a modeling portfolio when I was younger. And I dated very masculine men, who had the option of dating shorter and more stereotypically feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:17 AM
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I think feelings of unease are typical in all abuse victims
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:05 AM
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Generally I think women and men have equal capacities for love and rep pill/black pillers are deluded if they think women "only" love the 0.02 percent of top Chads and even then they will cheat if a categorically "better" Chad comes along. On a similar caveat I think the idea men can only love pure, untouched pre-23 year old women is delusional. As for marriage, most divorces are initiated by women but men remarry at a much higher rate. It tells me that 1) women are more likely to take action ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:21 AM
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Yeah, once you've seen the shift happen right in front of you it's easy to fully understand how "law of the jungle" works. And working in a prison is a literal jungle. Policy meant I wasn't allowed in certain areas and that was just fine with me once I'd seen a few fights go down in the space of a second. They teach you to get the hell out as soon as that happens. Doesn't matter if you're well liked or armed, as a woman you've got about as much threat as a newborn and they know it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:05 AM
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True, but I'd argue vigilante justice in general is more commonplace than a group of women deciding to be predatory towards an random individual man and attacking him. Although it has happened before. It's just far less common than groups of men doing that to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:59 AM
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That's quite untrue lmao. In high school, the boys yelled abuse at the fat girls DAILY. I've been called a bitch for simply looking at a man and not saying hello. Hell have you been on the internet longer than five minutes? Men go insane whenever Lizzo's pictures get posted. You guys absolutely love insulting women for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:37 AM
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No lol. My guy actually did "lose" a fight once. Stabbed with a broken bottle. While he lay in bed bleeding and in pain was I thinking "Jesus this dude is a pussy"? Of course not. I was simply grateful he was okay and didn't lose half his organs. I think most people who genuinely value their partner and want to continue to grow together dont want them getting into fights with "alpha Chad" every five seconds out of an insecurity complex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:27 AM
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Humans can barely tell the difference between an ass crack and cleavage my guy. That's why the makeup industry is worth billions, because humans are very easily fooled by illusions and distractions and similar shapes. In fact, people are more easily and deeply influenced by the smell and sound of the opposite sex than they are by looks alone. We can instantly judge reproductive capability by scent and voice pitch and thats why women who are ovulating are seen as more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:22 AM
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Meh I find the binary mindset odd but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:37 AM
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Well yeah I never said those guys are actually hot, just highlighting they aren't as ugly as they think they are. and with a little cleanup or effort some would look nicer and have more confidence. It's the defeatist attitude that rounds out their ugliness, you could say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:45 PM
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Mostly true, but men can have a warped view of their own attractiveness that can knock them down a few pegs. I've known quite a few men who always called themselves ugly even if they were average or even a little higher than average. But because they weren't the ripped, chiseled, rugged kind of handsome or just didn't know grooming they had a defeatist mentality that was ironically less attractive then their actual looks. I was privy to watching a guy get a "makeover" (haircut, shave, some decen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:19 PM
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Meh men benefit from marriage more than women do. Married men live longer and are happier. They earn more. They report less health problems. The same isn't entirely true for women though. Married women only report greater life satisfaction on the caveat their husband's support their hobbies and goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:07 PM
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Perfect response. Women are mostly mean towards individual style/grooming choices and while it's common for women to be unkind over perceived "bad taste", I've noticed men are far more intentionally cruel and harsh in a sexually charged way. Their insults revolve around not finding women attractive and thus worthless Don't get me wrong, women can be awful people to each other and even their own friends. But the way they express it is more envy and annoyance rather than a desire to humiliate and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 09:09 PM
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Absolutely My dad never finished high school but spent 30 years building skyscrapers,stadiums, and big city projects. He wouldn't self identify as red pill (he doesn't use internet lol) but honestly he definitely fits the bill. As his only child he gave me the best education he could and even though I wasn't interested in university/college he paid for and pushed for me to do sports, learn trades, and essentially become more self sufficient. Hes candid and raw about biological reality and yet st…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:59 PM
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My guy, most women would be a lot ruder if it wasn't blatantly obvious most violent crime is committed by men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:07 AM
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Lots of things can affect a woman's libido, like age or stress or medications like the pill. A low libido can also indicate she feels pressured to be sexual without her partner considering her needs. Women aren't just holes with a life support system you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:18 PM
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Infant turnaround was also high. Human reproductive cycles are designed to be high risk ventures. Infant mortality would have made us extinct if we were restricted, as most animals are, by heat cycles and localized food sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:02 PM
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Women like all sorts of men, especially emotionally healthy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:51 AM
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Not me, no. In my ideal world everyone would have a meaningful relationship or otherwise be fully content with being single. But it's not my ideal world and nature (reality) has a tendency to overcompensate to ensure its survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:07 AM
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Well of course. Individual happiness and instinctual or even say, primitive, drives usually operate totally unconscious of each other. But as a collective I guess our choices and needs become more generalized and simplistic. Everyone wants love. Everyone wants support. Everyone wants some form of meaningful recognition. None of that is a biological necessity, but it's nevertheless within our psyches to desire and need them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:04 AM
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We used to be able to sacrifice XY's in wars and in the priesthood- just like how infertile women were given to churches or institutions so as to offer genuine value besides reproduction. I agree there needs to be healthy outlets for, let's say, excess guys but our sociocultural climate is so geared towards individualism and gratification I kinda doubt we could make celibacy genuinely cool again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:11 AM
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If women killed every man who ever shit on them there would be none left lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:54 AM
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Now you definitely are just stuck in a fantasy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:49 AM
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Most art derives from real life. My favorite movie scene is that one in American Sniper when all the American grunts get their skulls pricked by the bullets of the brown sniper. In fact any war movie where the XY's die needlessly in a hail of bloody shrapnel. Because I know it actually happened, hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:38 AM
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I'm sure you enjoyed watching a fictionalized fantasy rendering of your everyday thoughts while i was probably outside breathing clean air or beholding a marvelous vista.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:34 AM
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Never heard of it. But I don't watch movies really. Passive media consumption is a vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:31 AM
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Unfortunately I can't do that. My feminine entitlement prevents me. Pray i get better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:12 AM
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Lucky for me then, I guess. Continue supporting me please. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:07 AM
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My dog contributes to the economy my dude. What a silly thing to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:02 AM
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I actually hunt with a bow. Guns are too loud. Scare away the food. I only use guns on men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:00 AM
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I have a vegetable garden and can hunt. What can you do, besides complain that nobody loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:54 AM
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Hopefully we are both reincarnated as carp in the same pond or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:33 AM
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Unfortunately not. Our love story must be cursed *sad face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:25 AM
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As a woman I can say I feel the same way. I'm young, fertile, fit, yet I can't find a damn man to foist babies on me. Sad old world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:15 AM
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Maybe I should've stipulated that POWERFUL men always cared about paternity. Your average broke peasant would have far less incentive to care or even the means to ensure a legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:12 AM
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We are still in the Stone Age, just with more food and less bugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:10 AM
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I'm not talking about civilization I'm talking about preservation of the species
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:01 AM
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Seethe more and keep tapping
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:00 AM
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This makes no sense. Monogamy came about because, unlike most mammals, human men can't know for certain if a child is actually theirs and thus worthy of an investment. Lions can tell which cubs are theirs. That's why when there is a power vacuum within the pride, the lion asserting dominance kills all the other lions cubs. But human men, strangely enough, have no way to actually determine paternity. So when property became a thing, so did monogamy because it's one of few controllable methods to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:00 AM
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You're coping. Property rights came after enforced monogamy. Enforced monogamy came after we abandoned warfare society and lived long enough to actually retain property. Warfare society was polygamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:53 AM
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Indeed. But what matters most is a) being able to reproduce, and b) ensuring your offspring will survive. Even inferior women benefit because mating with superior men will, by default, make her children stronger than previous generations. And that is indeed what happened. The further back we go into DNA ancestry, the more it becomes apparent that one competent male essentially fathered a huge chunk of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:50 AM
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The loyal wife narrative is a trope. In early societies, a great deal of the male population died in wars or from diseases. Their wives weren't just left to rot, they remarried and had more children. Even in times of warfare the women were taken as spoils and again, remarried/repartnered with different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:46 AM
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Women don't have better genes, just more reproductive value. A community with no women will go extinct. Yet a community with just one man can grow and flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:43 AM
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Its because the vast majority of women reproduced but only a minority of men did. Even in early civilisation polygamy was the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:41 AM
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Its not baseless. Men are just far more dispensable in the reproductive sense. You only require one man to impregnate multiple women, and our DNA legacy proves this is what happened: only one third of our ancestral DNA comes from men. Because the vast majority of women reproduced but only a handful of men did, with multiple women. Because the lesser men were killed or died lol. Most women who ever lived have descendants but the vast majority of men never will. In fact, one could say enforced mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:27 AM
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On the flip side unsuccessful daters often blame others for why they are unsuccessful and feed into their own cycle of negative affirmation, because the more you complain about not getting a date the less likely you are to secure a date. Also, biologically speaking, male sexlessness is normal and even a good thing, in regards to the gene pool. In the animal kingdom, most of the males of a species never pass on their genes or have a mate. Which ensures that the best genes become more dominant in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:11 AM
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Odd. I never used sex toys until my ex bf bought them and pretty much insisted I try them out in front of him lol. I'm still pretty neutral about them but he found a woman being selfishly sexual quite the turn on. Do men get jealous of female masturbation? Do they feel insecure if a woman flicks her bean as opposed to getting him to do the work? I find that attitude pretty bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:57 AM
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Link me lol. I've never heard of this before. I can think of no evolutionary reason why vaginal tightness contributes to reproductive success but having high fertility as indicated by a 70% WHR absolutely would contribute and has been studied extensively
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:48 AM
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Waist to hip ratios signify optimum fertility, not tightness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:41 AM
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Your reading comprehension is the one that needs fixing. You're thinking of awe, not fear. Awe is respect mixed in with fear and wonder. Because the object of awe is unknown and thus unpredictable. Fear is fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:59 PM
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I've never believed men are "always on the prowl", personally. Men have inhibitions too, like it not being the right time or having too much going on in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:54 PM
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Reverence is a conscious choice whilst fear isn't lol. If you feel intimidated you aren't revering someone, you're afraid of them hurting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:48 PM
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I enjoy your takes, common sense is rare as hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:10 PM
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You can defuse the situation or walk away. Neither means you've lost your balls or women will hate you. I've spent way too many years doing prison security to believe the guy who insists on being dominant is actually so. More likely he's feeling the exact opposite on the psychological level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:03 PM
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If the big guy isn't a threat to her then why attack? Insecure men see every other man as a threat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:58 PM
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Yeah ive noticed this too. Like why do conservative guys reject every other emotion besides the abusive ones? Fear is never about respect, it's literally a survival mechanism against further hurt. Healthy people can recognize fearful expressions and react with empathy because it's the non-violent method of asserting a social dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:56 PM
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Most women want a guy who will protect them, not attack every other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:53 PM
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"I seem to get a lot of female attention" well yeah women wonder if you're exactly safe to be around. There's a line between being a confident man and a violent, unpredictable guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:45 PM
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"As a man living in a highly developed city" lmao I'd say living in a city automatically makes you less masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:44 PM
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Most men would fuck and commit to a greasy hole in the ground if it laughed at their jokes and was sexually loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:43 PM
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Psychopaths don't care if you're nice to them either lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:00 PM
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I agree that want doesn't equate to entitlement and its normal to feel disappointed if you don't get things you want. But the feeling of rejection - specifically - isn't just disappointment. It's more personal Like say you really wanted a specific menu item and the waiter said they had sold out or they didn't have it - you wouldn't feel rejected. You might go "damn that sucks" but you wouldn't feel like the waited rejected you. Rejection implies some kind of personal flaw, in a sense. Like it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:43 AM
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I'm a loner and have no trouble attracting guys. Some in particular don't enjoy the concept of dating a girl plus her whole friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:36 AM
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For me personally? Bisexuality lmao But in all seriousness, a guy with a healthy mindset regarding sex is more valuable than all the dudes with triple notch counts combined. A high quantity of sex partners means nothing. Apart from low standards lel. But someone who is comfortable and passionate and mindful of all their partners (no matter the outcome of the relationship) is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:29 AM
0

Rejection only hurts so much in a society where observable success matters more than substance. Rejection and entitlement go hand in hand. If you feel rejected then by default you felt entitled to the object(s) of your desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:22 AM
1

Ectomorphs are lean and tall, silly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:23 AM
1

I prefer the ectomorph build personally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:20 AM
1

I'm a black pill woman and didn't do any of that either. Theres different paths to self improvement and self ownership besides fucking x amount of people or achieving some arbitrary level of fitness. Black pill is about general acceptance and the individual right to dictate one's own success.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:59 PM
3

I've been reading red pill content for the better part of ten years my guy. It's evolved, for sure. And I'd even say there's internal conflict within the community between the trad cons and the spinning plate guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:18 PM
3

They haven't. Some have given over to a more quasi-black pill mindset where they accept modern gender dynamics but a great deal of RP ideologies do in fact endorse traditionalism as a means to control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:35 PM
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I find there's a lot of overlap between tradcons and general RP ideology but yeah, more of a traditionalist mindset then a squarely RP one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:25 PM
1

"It's just reality" jokes on you, since you can use a butter dish like a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:09 PM
2

Your concept of normal seems hopelessly boring and lacking in charisma. I bet you think salt is spicy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:02 PM
0

Men being single is the norm though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:51 PM
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Black pill isn't defeatist, it's realistic. Instead of imposing a moral narrative on sex dynamics the black pill accepts people as essentially beyond moral and thus more humane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:43 PM
1

Wow you really took my casual remark and went full Freud on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:15 PM
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Wow you really took my casual remark and went full Freud on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:15 PM
1

"Most women" settle down, gatekeeper. We are individuals, not entities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:10 PM
1

Well is "pussy" somehow more dignified then? Semantic machine go brrrb lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:05 PM
1

I've seen a lot of RP identifying guys try push the narrative that lifting weights is a right wing/red pill thing but honestly it's another cope because (in America at least) there's a correlation with living in a red state and being obese and in overall abysmal health lmao. And yes I agree that RPM think lifting weights is an adequate distraction for having the social awareness of a brick or zero grooming skills, and will in fact usually shit on guys who like dressing up for being "beta". My ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:01 PM
5

But men want love, boohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:48 PM
5

Women are also put off by men who stick it into any butter dish they find lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:47 PM
4

Its true. The fact obesity genes are so persistent is because men select for them. Maternal mass is the single biggest predictor for childhood weight issues. Specifically the genetic predisposition to carry fat in the stomach. If you guys stopped poking them and raised your standards for love and companionship we will be okay. But I guess it's easier to be a greasebucket and attract other greasebuckets
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:45 PM
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I'm more of a black pilled woman and wouldn't date a RPM because they are generally stuck in a 1950's cope fantasy. Most are obsessed with purity and homesteading and lifting weights because they have this pathological inability to adapt and benefit from the current times. They want to regress. Or else create their own insular bubble (kingdom lmao) where women are acquired like possessions, and treated as such. No thank you. I didn't evolve for two million years to scrub skids out of some guys b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:42 PM
1

As long as men can get it up for them there will always be land whales my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:37 PM
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Can you read? I never said 100% of men never breed, I said that 100% of men weren't intended to. Biology favors the best genes so bemoaning the fact bottom tier guys don't receive love is essentially misunderstanding how we biologically favor the fittest genes to become dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:27 PM
1

The alternative is not learning at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:22 PM
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No its just natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:20 PM
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100% of men were never meant to pass on their genes. This is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:15 PM
1

Well its not hard to comprehend that, whilst situations might not have had the exact outcome you wanted, in the wider context of life they were still experiences that you can learn from and have a frame of reference for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:33 PM
2

That's quite possible too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:11 PM
1

You just lack creativity then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:52 AM
2

Why would I want to impress any of you though That's the question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:47 AM
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Well sure I can't disagree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:14 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:13 AM
0

I just dont want to feel like I'm having sex with a kite, my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:02 AM
1

I can tell you, when I was 21, the ONLY people I hooked up with were within 3 years of my own age. The guys I knew made it look easy. It seems like you're surrounded by people with no game .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:36 AM
1

"Met at a bar" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:33 AM
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The term hoe phase is pretty subjective. Like a lot of people would say having just one casual partner is a "hoe" phase. And also contingent on the concept that any sex outside of a committed relationship is "hoe" sex lmao. But my take on this is, women regretting an experience isn't proof it was a bad experience. It just didn't provide the value they thought it would. Who would have thought that having sex with no integrity might lead to nothing gained! How shocking! Also, however, on the flip …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:32 AM
2

Mine doesn't either. Yet I am quite happy to break laws around concealed knives to make sure I don't end up on a Netflix murder special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:16 AM
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^ the best reason out of them all why every women should own a gun and know how to use it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:15 AM
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Yes there's a huge issue with that. Like why does a man's feelings automatically cancel out the fact he is creeping me out and I want him to stop? The guys in the thread seem to think it does but I'm telling you, it's silly to sacrifice safety so some guy doesn't feel like a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:08 AM
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Am I not a real life woman sharing her real life experience? Are you illiterate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:04 AM
2

Fortunately I'm not American lol. I'd be a nearly six foot blimp on legs, otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:52 AM
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5'11 isn't short, but I guess from her specific perspective, it is. 6 foot 1 women are really quite rare too. I'm a shade under 6 foot and can count on one hand the amount of women I've met in my entire life who were my height or taller. I'm sorry you had the experience though, that's rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:47 AM
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My dad was big into the outdoors and sports growing up and so it was very normal to value fitness and self sufficiency from a young age, and I love it. Frankly I don't see what is unfeminine about enjoying fitness. I think it's a good idea for every woman to value health and safety more than appealing to some general idea of what men find attractive :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:39 AM
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Yeah I know exactly the kind of chick you mean. Some five foot nothing girl who wants to feel "protected" and have gorilla kids that'll turn her taco into a deli counter explosion. I dont get it either. When men who are above a certain height (say 6 foot 3) hit on me, I feel annoyed and anxious. That kind of strength and height advantage bothers me. And trust me, I'm very fit. Army fit. I can personally defend myself well. And yet knowing they find my perceived lack of strength attractive bother…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:31 AM
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I think I might be, just because I always valued humor and good conversation a lot more from the outset as opposed to after years of dating realizing that looks aren't everything, I guess. I was told a lot growing up and in my teens that guys don't like sporty, tall chicks too. And some genuinely don't. I've had a couple of guys flat out tell me they don't want a tall woman or they don't find me feminine (and I suppose I'm not lol). It sucks because I think im perfectly feminine and have a lot t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:24 AM
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I have dated shorter guys, yes. Let me stipulate they were like, 2 inches shorter than me (so no shorter than 5 foot 8 or 9, which is still an average height for a guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:04 AM
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Yeah I know lol. I tell little kids my mother stood too close to the microwave when she was pregnant with me and it grew my spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:56 AM
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I'm a nearly 6 foot tall woman (and very physically fit) and guys tell me things I'm pretty certain they wouldn't tell a shorter, weaker chick : "You're much harder to throw around" "I can't dominate you as easily" "It's weird being able to look a woman directly in her eyes" "You'd put up an actual fight" "The smaller ones are easier to scare" "People would assume you wear the trousers" Plus other weird shit that pretty much relates to men needing to have a physical advantage over women to feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:51 AM
2

At least you can do better for next time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:31 AM
2

Well you chose the dumber option it seems. Illogical of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:18 AM
2

I only said it cause you mentioned having sympathy for pump and dump guys, which tends to imply you aren't one of those guys. Otherwise you'd have said "guys like me".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:15 AM
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Believe what you want. You clearly aren't the guy who has the option to pump and dump so your sympathy is quite useless in the practical sense. Moments like these I see being purely hetero as a disability lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:04 AM
2

Well yeah. I observed and judged that guy for being a creep lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:53 AM
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You might cry at reading this but quite a few women and girls think a guy whose old enough to be their dad approaching them is rude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:42 AM
2

Yeah but what's your biological legacy out of that 100
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:27 AM
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Telling someone to stay in their lane is "humiliating"? Nah son.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:25 AM
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I didn't reject guys my own age, tbh. Not the cool ones at least. The difference is, when you're younger, a generational frame of reference is more important. I didn't want to listen to some 40 year old guy talk about what teen life was like in 1994 lol. I wanted to interact with those whom I could relate to at the time, which was other teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:25 AM
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Because, being approached by a sleazy guy who could be my dad is embarrassing to me, first and foremost. It's frankly gross. Like sure I know men are generally blind to women's discomfort but I'd like some to know at least that if they think it's OK to creep a woman out, he should be prepared for some humiliation in turn. The amount of pushback I get on this is truly hilarious. Social interaction is a two way street you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:20 AM
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Maybe 40+ dudes should stop thinking they have anything to offer a teenager lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:54 PM
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Meh for a million bucks or so 500 women is possible lol. Or being a rock star. 100% of men were never supposed to pass on their genes after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:39 PM
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Where I come, unless said Ferrari is coated in farm mud, nobody cares its a Ferrari
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:23 PM
1

It is though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:15 PM
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Idk i see it as enjoying sex, first and foremost. You're acting like sex isn't mutual or even something women pursue for themselves. A guy whose had 500 women works on the same individualist axis but its just far less likely it would happen to him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:13 PM
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In that moment, yes. Doesn't explain why she chose him or stays with him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:50 PM
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Meh, that's a you problem though. Good sex is good sex no matter how many people were involved. This is fact so don't bother arguing lol. The actual thing you're talking about is integrity in the face of temptation. We can acknowledge like adults that sex can be amazing for both sexes. But to ensure relationship security we want to know our partners value us more than the hypothetical pleasure they will receive if they slept with someone else. Which is where the purity thing for men comes into p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:49 PM
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When I was 18 I was approached constantly by guys in their 40's and it delighted me endlessly to tell them to go annoy women their own age. Their hurt lil puppy dog eyes demonstrated to me a chronic inability to accept their lot in life, namely, very very few 40+ men are at all appealing to a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:39 PM
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Its not hard to accept, I'm just pointing out its kinda impossible to know what exactly someone has done sexually. I'm bi, and the chicks who guys think are 'pure' love good sex as much as any triple digit street harlot lol. Madonna's and whores are the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:29 PM
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I personally think it's one of two things, neither of which is observable: good dick or good jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:26 PM
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Doesn't make sense. Shouldn't the fact other women selected him first make him more attractive? But this same dude ended up getting fat and having ugly kids, so. Maybe it is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:58 PM
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"We like them" "we don't want to be caught with them" hm would you still kiss your mother knowing she gargled some balls in her life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:53 PM
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Yeah and just.....low tier. I can't explain it. She was probably a perfectly nice person I just didn't vibe with his past choices
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:59 PM
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Both slut shaming and pickmeism is rooted in the idea that women don't make the right choices. It's not a disqualification for so than surprise at the concept women can be autonomous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:55 PM
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To be fair I've lost all respect for a man once I saw his ex girlfriend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:52 PM
1

How can it be slut shaming if the term "pick me" is implicitly about flexing for men, and men don't like s*uts? Apparently lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:50 PM
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A woman in her 30's still usually has more options at the outset than even a high tier guy at any age. Even if it's just for casual sex. Guys can't handle the fact women will always have more reproductive value no matter how high their stack is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:49 PM
1

Femininity for me is receptive whilst masculinity is resistant. I don't think the dominant/submissive axis is in any way correct in describing the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:25 PM
2

Correct. Alcohol disrupts your hormones, making your windows of fertility erratic, but it actually alters the sperm cells too. Men who drink heavily have more abnormal sperm.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:15 AM
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Yup. The guys in my replies melting down are proof sex ed isn't only vitally important for girls but a goddamn necessity for boys.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:10 AM
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I will
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 01:29 AM
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I'm holding out for a good emotional connection and shared values. The fact a guy is ripped or has a chiseled jaw or bags of money is secondary to whether we are actually domestically and intellectually compatible. I've dated one or two guys who were perfect on paper but behind closed doors were wrecks. Men dont tell or show this to their friends. I think you would be shocked to find out how men are with their partners in private I've been called good looking and am frequently asked why I'm sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:55 AM
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You just stated something - theres a war on masculinity - with zero proof or even an example my guy. Things said in haste are easily disregarded. I see that said everywhere but funnily enough, no one can seem to collectively agree on what masculinity even is. Most feminists and TRP guys alike have no idea what masculinity is beyond a shallow stereotype. The most masculine guys I know don't lift weights. Lifting weights isn't even a masculine trait lol. I'm merely trying to inform red pill women …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 10:52 PM
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There is no war. Men need to make healthier choices and take responsibility for their fertility. I'm no feminist but the declining sperm count and higher incidences of mental illness popping up is a medical issue, an important one, not a sociopolitical talking point. Lifting and eating clean is a good start but how about actually getting checked by a fertility specialist, getting your genes mapped out, quitting porn, looking after your mental health? Empowered masculinity starts from within and …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 10:37 PM
2

Sperm quality affects men's ability to conceive though. That's my point. Women essentially run out of eggs whereas men lose their ability to produce healthy sperm. Technically they're still fertile at 45 but the chances of conceiving are much much lower.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 10:31 PM
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I'm seeing a bigger discourse emerging on male reproductive health, which is amazing. Guys realizing the effects of porn, lifestyle, stress, and past sexual history can have on their overall sexual health.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 10:17 PM
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Look at the sperm quality and the actual rate at which men after 40 conceive. Women only tend to get significant fertility issues past 40 because they essentially run out of healthy eggs (roughly 1000 per month). Men can still produce sperm into their nineties but past the age of 40 or so the quality of that sperm decreases, and yes, quite dramatically. It's been proven sperm accumulates genetic mutations with age. https://pathfertility.com/ages-impact-on-male-fertility/
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 10:12 PM
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That's nice dear. But your silly analogy aside, my whole point is that men tend to resist basic facts and logic in regards to their own reproductive health whilst endlessly reminding women about theirs. And it's not like anyone is broken for aging. It's just reality. And reality is that men have fertility windows that more or less match up with women, especially past the age of 45. Sure it depends on the individual but ultimately people ought to know these things rather than just wing it and end…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 08:16 PM
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Doesn't include sperm quality or in fact the actual rate at which older men become fathers. Men's ability to conceive falls off after 40-45 despite the ability to produce sperm. When they do conceive, the child is much more likely to be mentally ill or have birth issues. Here is a much more illuminating graph. https://pathfertility.com/ages-impact-on-male-fertility/ Enjoy your Frankenbabies :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 07:59 PM
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True, but the fact is, even at the OPTIMUM age for sperm count, men still carry a lot of defective sperm. It's actually the exception, and not the norm, for sperm to be healthy and mobile. Men also have more room to boost their sperm count by making lifestyle changes, and in fact, lifestyle can account for a good part of male fertility problems to begin with. I urge people to read up on the effects of alcohol and drugs on sperm.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 07:44 PM
3

This is biological ignorance at its finest haha
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 07:40 PM
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Men can produce sperm into their nineties, which is true. But their fertility value absolutely does decrease - DRAMATICALLY - and it never fails to amuse me that many guys simply cannot accept this. Even ones that have no intention of having kids or want more kids when they're older. It's a really odd mindset to have but it's so common.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 04:38 AM
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Yeah I was truly shocked when my doctor (a really lovely lady who did tell me about fertility windows and optimal age to have children) explained this to me. She said that men simply don't want to accept that they might have fertility problems or age related reproductive issues. For example, she highlighted the often-repeated notion that older women are more likely to have autistic children - which they do. But what people are missing is the fact older mothers get pregnant by OLDER FATHERS the v…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 02:36 AM
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To be fair very few people are aware of the risks of older men having children either. After age 40 a man's count of healthy sperm dramatically decreases and the baby is far more likely to be born prematurely with a low birth weight. Did you know there's a direct link between older fathers and developing schizophrenia or autism? I guarantee you didn't read that in sex ed or any of the male dominated RP forums. I've seen it repeated over and over again that men don't have biological clocks but th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/23 02:24 AM
2

Hurt people want to hurt people shrugs. It seems simplistic and even counterintuitive to realize, but these people have no real power to influence your life beyond making you feel bad for your choices or preferences.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/23 09:37 PM
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I dont counter them cause their opinions have no bearing on the outcome of my life. Women are allowed to be feminist; that's something I wish RP women understood better. Neither path or mindset is better for absolutely everyone. I have super feminist friends who are great people as well as very traditional people whom I get along with too. I never understood the us vs them mentality. Most people just want happiness and fulfillment and there are many ways one can achieve that, whether it's throug…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/23 09:22 PM
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Again, personal opinion isn't fact. It's sad you have such a weak grasp of nuance. It's funny because I see plenty of older women in happy relationships and marriages.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 06:24 PM
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Nobody wants to be lied to lol. What a ridiculous statement
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 06:06 PM
2

Exactly. And the simple fact of the matter is, women do age and gain experience. It's inevitable. Sure with a good lifestyle and genetics some may continue to look fresh into their 40s and beyond but eventually we all end up wrinkled and baggy with a few hard knocks and that is fucking NORMAL lol. I feel like a lot of guys demand purity and an eternal cycle of youthful bodies simply because they're terrified of facing their own mortality and bad choices. Either that or they just don't want to be…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 10:38 AM
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That's because the RP narrative is almost totally based on a biological perspective of sex dynamics, which ironically, can suppress a person's spiritual needs. In biology and evolution, there are no "masculine energies" "divine feminine" or "yin and yang", there's just the imperative to eat and sleep and breed. And that's it. Men and women occupy roles purely for the needs of genetic survival and in this sense the idea of men or women "offering" each other a meaningful spiritual experience is ir…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 08:03 AM
3

That's nice dear
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 04:48 AM
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Because it's a stupid claim lol. I'm talking about men as individuals, not statistics. Again, I've met way too many men who didn't care about purity. Sure, there may be a country of men who only ever date 20 year old virgins but I haven't met them and wouldn't care if I did lol. I will always credit my own experience that has played out in front of my eyes than the (unsourced) stats some chicken neck spouts in a reddit thread.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 04:40 AM
3

This argument has always been vacuous, tbh. I don't even know why you're complaining. But you're certainly trying hard at it, so good for you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 04:32 AM
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According to you, a random internet person? Lol. Somehow I think you're confusing a hypothetical population of guys in your head with the ones who exist in real life. I'm fortunate to know many masculine leaders and they would find your mindset shallow and insecure. Well duh, if I had unlimited choice I wouldn't pick your average red pill dude either, lol. Its easy to say from a fantasy perspective what you want but it's not conducive to growth in the real world.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 04:24 AM
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I'm not offended I just provided proof that your assertion, if not false, lacks important context as well as being a personal preference and not a fact. I say preference because I've met way too many men who absolutely didn't care about a woman's past experience. Or better say, they valued other traits more than simple purity. You can't just discount a different preference cause it doesn't fit with your own outlook. If you truly value logic and reason you ought to realize that men aren't a singu…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 04:14 AM
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My mother had 4 children to previous experience, before they married, and he still loves her deeply. Lol. Try again Maybe instead of making blanket statements you should foster a more nuanced understanding of life
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 04:00 AM
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Lol my father married a woman 5 years older than him. So I know your statement is more opinion than fact. While it's way more common for men to date younger- and I can see the benefits of dating younger - the implication that men find it physically or emotionally impossible to be with an older woman long term is just ridiculous and false.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 03:55 AM
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Yes. Because while beauty is tied to youth, it's in the wider context of being considered beautiful from the outset. For example, a woman like Monica Bellucci will make any age look gorgeous because, objectively, she was always incredibly beautiful (insert any actress you want here, I chose Monica because she's aged pretty well). Meanwhile a plain 18 year old will always be plain even with the help of makeup and good fashion. Also, I'm continually surprised by the amount of men who say they find…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 02:09 AM
1

Opposite sex relationships can be fostered by anyone but I think the boundaries involved are totally different from same sex friendships.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 09:29 AM
4

I always offer to pay. To me it's just polite and courteous. Especially when you're young, you don't tend to have a huge amount of disposable income to spend on a nice date. 90% of the time the offer gets refused anyway but the intention is still sincere. I've split bills before and had a great time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 11:22 PM
4

This is true. I agree wholeheartedly with that. I've not had a lot of experience with dating (avoided them in my teens and early twenties, only had one major relationship) and I find that the more a man is masculine and secure in himself the more it brings out my inherent femininity and grace.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 09:56 PM
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Speaking for myself only, I think it's natural for men to prefer younger women but in reality I've seen men settle down with women in their 30s and beyond and are still perfectly happy and contented. Sure I'd like to date Henry Cavill but I wouldn't call my life a failure or claim I "settled" if that doesn't happen lol. Its pretty common to not get what you want. In fact I'd say it's GOOD in many ways to not get what you want, because you discover acceptance and self improvement in the process o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 09:12 PM
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Its hypocritical to want a clean, modest, sexually pure woman when you yourself haven't respected your own body integrity by sleeping around. That's the difference. Personally I don't want a guy who has had 50 "baddies" lol. Even 10 "baddies" is pushing it because there's an increased chance he's into abusing substances and picked up an STD. You say women prefer experienced men, but there's a fine line between "experience" and being a he-whore. I'm not sharing my body and life with someone who g…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 08:39 PM
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Its not the preference itself. It's perfectly okay to prefer an innocent woman. It's also okay to prefer a more sexually experienced woman. As long as you aren't demeaning anyone its silly to get angry at people. BUT I understand it when people get mad at hypocrisy. A good deal of guys who demand modest, innocent girls have been sleeping around prolifically for years. A perfect example is a guy who I was chatting with a month back who told me he'd never date a girl who'd had a threesome and then…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 12:55 AM
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Oh no I wasn't saying that at all. Just suggesting that happiness experienced is the prize and justification more so than a single sex "winning" something. My head is full of fluff today sorry lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 03:49 AM
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Happiness is the prize, not either sex extracting whatever they can from each other and measuring it against some arbitrary list.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 03:43 AM
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