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People are attracted to all sorts of things. Money, knowledge, power, physical reproductive capacity, parental qualities, characteristics which may have been deficient in a person's life growing up, etc. In relationships, people implicitly agree to expressing certain ideals (ideas of how they'll express themselves as time passes). You have couples who come together for money, political power, smarts, to make a lot of kids, because they're really hot, because they bring out the best in the other,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:51 AM
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Commitment to similar ideals - not necessarily romantic ideals. Attraction is necessary, but to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 09:16 PM
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Kind of. They're much smaller these days. Maybe a few dozen other couples who went through a similar process. Some good friends. We're going to have a small legal wedding with just close family and friends the day before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:41 PM
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Thanks!! :))) Likewise! Refreshing to hear a perspective in this sub that leaves me with a little more hope. Much love!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:39 PM
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Yeah. It's actually a fascinating moment in U.S. (and really, global) marriage history. My parents share their anniversary with 5,999 other couples. We were really big on mass-arranged weddings several decades ago. Growing up in summer camps, it was generally understood that the 100s of other kids I was there with all came from parents who were married with my parents. If not with my parents, then a marriage cohort close to my parents. The way it is now, is that parents and kids talk about wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:20 PM
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I'm from a non-Indian moonie family, and this is very much what the marriage process has begun to look like. It requires a certain relationship between parents and children, and an approach to relationships that I've really appreciated. There are a few other subcultures out there that are adopting similar models, and I'm really hoping it's how the marriage scene evolves. A blend of eastern and western approaches/attitudes to marital relationships, so-to-say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:45 PM
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Will not change your view. You're very smart. Excited to see how your life turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 08:06 PM
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I think that's a healthier approach to sexuality in the long run. More as a public health issue, than a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:03 PM
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This is backwards imo. Addiction is born in secrecy, and dies in community.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:32 PM
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RemindMe! 5 years "How did the age of tinder work out?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:47 PM
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False equivalence. Relationships =/= games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:04 PM
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I think people will more and more look for spouses which will make them better parents. I don't think it'll become more competitive, as much as pragmatic. People are desensitized and tired, and most of us just want to be the best parents we can be. The less complicated and "game-ish" relationships become, the easier it is to explain to our kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 09:04 PM
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lol, define 'true equality'. Without going into too much detail, my answer to your question would be 'no'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 01:43 AM
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My perspective + Media says so = It is so Narcissism + no creative thought = reality facepalm.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:55 PM
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It's in the eyes, and learning how to convey you'd be a good person to procreate with. Not only biologically, but on an emotional, intellectual, and spiritual level for their future children. From there, it's learning how to read which of those she values the most, and then displaying you have that (and more) in subsequent interactions. Her bias is set up "He's this guy, but it can't be, must observe to see for sure", and you confirm it over and over again. She'll be frustrated how much you're i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 07:38 PM
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Generally insecure and judges things off of nothing but externals Will you cheat on me? (Have given no indication I'd be anything otherwise) Do you look down on me? (Have given no indication I do) Are you sure you want to be with me? x10 (I'm about to leave) You're dumb and void of logic for having that opinion (Bye) I didn't learn how to cook, clean, or take care of my body because I don't want to meet society's norms (ok, I did all of those things and have a sweet job. No excuses.) Asks all fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 09:47 PM
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RP guys don't care to think about (much less hate) women like this. It's the root of the whole MGTOW thing. No RP cares what you think. Imo, it's like the MAD of weak memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 07:22 PM
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Is the woman really helping the daughter by instilling toxic gender norms and ideas into her? The effects of how she was raised by her mother don't become apparent until she has kids, unless her husband helps her digest her experiences. I'd partially agree in how this was set up, in that it only looks at the circumstances of the moment. Should be stretched out at least to three generations to make a significant point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 06:59 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 08:06 PM
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This is as far as I've been able to understand it as well. Initial post was to see if there were other perspectives I was missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 11:15 PM
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lol, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 10:36 PM
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Right. I'm curious as to why when all assumptions are removed, they shut down a bit sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 10:28 PM
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I don't think I said anything about value. I'm just interested in behavioral differences I've noticed or perceived. Initial ask was to be more aware of how I may/may not effect others in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 10:25 PM
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voluntary male virgins. Such a better way to put it. Wondering why women don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 10:08 PM
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In the event it is choice, he has desired qualities, and numerous women have offered?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:54 PM
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Any opinions on the other side? Experienced girl vs virgin guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 09:24 PM
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Big flirt. Pretty alpha looking. Made out, and was intimate (HJ/BJ), with a couple of their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:26 PM
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The few times I rejected women who were obviously into me, I was portrayed as a sexual predator. I'm a virgin. No. Go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 06:41 PM
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If you're not learning how to make women laugh, you're wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 01:10 PM
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It's neat, but they'll be bags of bones reliving this day in 50 years. Not much to admire, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 06:29 PM
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I'd like to highlight what I think is a great point here - not offering a legitimate alternative. I feel many guys have tried to solve this problem by allowing themselves to be used and objectified by women, as women have been used and objectified by men (fragile masculinity). True masculinity understands the long term implications of this dynamic, doesn't give into it (though it benefits his more primal nature), and pioneers new more mutually beneficial norms between genders. We're working to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 04:53 PM
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lollll RemindMe! 30 years to check up on GeekyFeministDork as a bedtime story for the grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 08:00 PM
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Emotionally weak* These women eventually become frail, bittier, and brittle old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 07:55 PM
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I'd suspect she'd want my kids, say thanks, shoot her a wink, and wish her best in her endeavors. Source: Experience. They're crazies. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 05:30 PM
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Disclaimer - looking to get married soon. A woman who's confident in herself, but not 'I don't need no man' confident. Serious and committed, aware we will both change each other through the years, aware of herself, her baggage, and how it effects her. Someone who'd like to learn what it is to be a woman with a man, vice versa. In general being willing to pick up new things, and not thinking anything's impossible. Thinking things are impossible is a huge turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 02:56 PM
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I believe in some sort of socialist nudist paradise based on absolute sexual morality (Sex after physical/emotional/intellectual maturity (~24), and only w/ 1 non-related person of the opposite gender for all of eternity)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 07:12 PM
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Eh, that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:29 PM
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