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I think you’re absolutely right
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/24 12:44 PM
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Lol true. I just don’t want to come off aloof or rude. Tbh I find her incredibly boring and I’m afraid it does show on my face when I talk to her.. I’m working on “appearing” nicer.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:24 PM
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Yes absolutely. Just went through an entire estate battle against the “life partner after divorce”. Definitely scarred. This comment has given me a lot to think about. A new relationship is not the end of the world .. it’s a chance at happiness. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:13 AM
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Agreed, There may be an element of that “new person fatigue”. Wasn’t close with the ex but I was able to small talk with her.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:11 AM
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Yes thank you. Excellent perspective
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:09 AM
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Just trying to support my brother. I’m extremely introverted and I want to at least make an effort to appear kind towards her as a show of support or him. Also you can read my face like a book !! 🤦‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/24 02:09 AM
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It sounds like you’re at the point in the relationship where your trying to decide if you want to continue it. For me, when I used to get to that point it all boiled down to, me looking at what my core values are and how does the relationship align to them. For example, there are certain core values that we don’t exactly align on (me and my husband are different religions) but we looked at holidays and family gatherings and decided which we can attend as a family and we both attend each others p…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 12:31 PM
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I’m so sorry for your loss. You body was baby’s home as long as they were with you. Your body carried life it didn’t ruin anything! It took a long time to love my body after 2 miscarriages. Everyone’s experience of loss is different, I tried to be patient with myself and let all the feelings of grief take their course. My husband and I had a small memorial ceremony just me and him and that really helped us too. It’s just hard all around.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 10:30 PM
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Thank you! These are great practical examples. I might start looking at the dishes we have regularly and seeing which components I can prep ahead of time. I’ve also used my crock pot to great success making a keto meal in it then whipping up salad and rice or pasta as sides.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 11:53 AM
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Love this idea. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 10:43 PM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 04:10 PM
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Interesting! Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 04:10 PM
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I’ve not actually tried meal prepping. I haven’t had success with my meal plans for the week but prepping might be that extra kick to follow the plan. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 04:09 PM
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These are great ideas! Thanks for your input
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 04:09 PM
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You have to learn what flatters you and shop for those styles and colours. I feel like I’m back at the beginning too. My body has completely changed over the last few years so my old dresses no longer work and I need to find my style again.. I think in-store shopping is best for this.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 04:07 PM
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Read up to “software engineering” and came to say you ROCK!! keep at it!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 12:30 AM
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Ohh in that case I do that everyday and have forgotten it’s not typically feminine. When I’m leading projects and people I always try to be can be composed, respectful and courteous. And when those won’t work be straight to the point and hold your ground. In some cases saying less and letting them speak means less confrontation as they realize/accept their responsibility. Ahh the joys of leadership
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 11:14 AM
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I don’t understand the question fully but I will say you can be independent and feminine. When I was single I took care of my house inside and out, did minor plumbing and electrical jobs. I think it’s important to understand these aspects when you’re single and it can help you better appreciate when hopefully one day your partner takes care of these for you !
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 02:22 AM
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I would tighten the budget but support him. Of course I’d ask about all the risk factors I see and advise the safety buffer I feel comfortable with.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/22 02:25 PM
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Ask him why he skips leg day on those weeks to start with, and see what his answer is? I wouldn’t recommend guessing his motivations and rather let him tell you. For example, if he says “I know you love my chest” then you can follow up with suggesting a booty to match LOL But if the motivation is something else the next step depend on his answer I guess! Be direct and don’t make assumptions. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/22 07:08 PM
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Agree here! And follow up with why he prefers arm day vs leg day? I know I love my arm day and DRAG myself through leg day. Suggest maintaining balance 1:1 of arms and legs. 2 day workout weeks might look like one arm day and one leg day?
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/22 07:02 PM
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I was also sheltered and protected and when I started working I realized that unless I spoke up I would continue to be confused about things I couldn’t fully comprehend. Experience helped a lot. Speaking up, getting into situations I haven’t been in before. It’s challenging and exciting. Don’t let anything hold you back and know it’s OK to not understand. It’s not ok to be ignorant. Ask questions and be curious to understand those aspects you didn’t experience. Try to be empathetic and connect w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 08:53 PM
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I feel like I’m right here with my parents as well. I want to maintain a relationship but the negativity really sucks the life out of me. I’ve been working on this and one thing that’s helped me is asking “why do you feel that way” or “what do you mean by that” which helped get to some deeper levels of conversation. And as one other person mentioned after some time you can shake it off with a statement asking about some of the good things to reflect on. You could also change the nature of your v…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 02:12 PM
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So true! I recently heard the quote “You’ve got to start before you are ready”
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 07:01 PM
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This helped me so much.. I made slight changes based on some things you mentioned and it went a long way! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 03:32 AM
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I like that idea! Do you have any links to similar dresses/skirts?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 03:29 AM
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That’s fun! Can you share some of the patterns or a link to a similar style?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/20 03:28 AM
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We started weekly rituals, Sunday dinners, Saturday walks, movie nights. I tried to have dinner ready or almost ready before he got home from work. Things like that to create a rhythm or predictability in the house, and for us to look forward to time together. Now after kids we still do these things and it’s nice to look back at how our family has grown. Also, I would decorate, or organize the house so he could see my appreciation for our shared space. It made the house feel like a home. Anyway.…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/20 06:54 PM
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