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I'm new to the red pill. I had "extremist" views in /r/seduction and everything I read here lines up exactly with my views. Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 09:38 PM
20

I mean I guess it's just a totally different fucking world for both sexes. As a dude I've never had that experience of everyone worshipping my ass my whole life. I could see someone being "real" to me as a hook back to reality.
/r/seduction08/06/15 08:50 PM
20

I know. I explicitly used the correct words for my post. There are kind guys and they still don't get "desired" like dudes who are mean first.
/r/seduction08/06/15 08:49 PM
44

Some dudes ARE kind that's what I don't get. And then you have woman who say they want a "nice guy" but clearly they don't. Morality and women have become very blurred the more I get results behaving with them in ways I was told were "wrong" to treat them like.
/r/seduction08/06/15 08:38 PM
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Congrats on the sex! Can you elaborate on your FR by explaining some of the light Kino you did at the bar? That's the only bit of info you've given us that hints to the successful night.
/r/seduction08/06/15 08:13 PM
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See my other reply elaborating on this.
/r/seduction07/06/15 02:03 PM
1

This is my line of thinking as well. I've called her so she'll see my number when she gets home. I'll have to game her out by ourselves.
/r/seduction07/06/15 01:52 AM
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So far, respectfully letting her work and giving her signs of understanding that she's busy has benefited me. She's explained to me why she's busy so that's good. That means she cares.
/r/seduction07/06/15 12:56 AM
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/u/YOUNG_G0D is close. Social clock is one way to think of the model. In my experience, intellectuals "dig deeper" into all things including social activities and this takes more time. This is why intellectuals seems socially inept or awkward because they are taking their time to find precision in their behaviors and interests just as a student would take the time to study and ace in their academics. When you game an intellectual girl, it's going to take time. You're going to have to "dig deeper…
/r/seduction07/06/15 12:54 AM
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Full attention could rub off as needy or annoying if she's at work. There's a chick I'm trying to game at a bar who will talk with me, she's given me her number, but work is her priority.
/r/seduction06/06/15 07:07 PM
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You have to game slower. They're on a slower social clock.
/r/seduction06/06/15 07:03 PM
1

It's a lot of fun. To be honest I'm looking for it again. It's like an addiction. She's fun, she's wild, but she's going to destroy your perception of women and hurt you. Crazy women want to be claimed. Physical is the first most approach if you've already opened up to her even a little bit. She'll have already decided you two have a connection.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:33 PM
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Oh she likes you. But crazy will find a lot of things she'll like for many different reasons. It's a day-n-night ball game that switches up the rules. It's that emotional rollarcoaster that makes crazy so damn luring and enjoyable. It's the bug attracted to the zapper.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:15 PM
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You don´t have a mindset of abundance, you´re not outcome independent. If you fail or get rejected, you will lose the will to pursue women. If your Inner Game is in check, you don´t go out to meet women. You go out to have fun and meet women while having fun. These two here will help me. Thanks.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:14 PM
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It's fun to put your dick in it, but crazy grows on you and you realize who's wonderland you've woken up in.
/r/seduction05/06/15 06:42 PM
1

If someone can clarify on this too, that would help me. I have a sense of consciously practicing seduction tips over and over. I'm getting results but focusing on this is said to be a bad thing on here. I'm confused.
/r/seduction05/06/15 06:35 PM
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22/m. Entrepreneur-minded. Managing a few projects with end goal to raise thousands for each one. I don't like to "settle". I am full time at a local software startup. I don't believe in marriage but I value commitment with a partner. I'm agnostic. Before Seddit I never had "game" because girls just liked me but now that I explore the terms and behaviors of women and the seduction game the more I realize I had a lot of natural seductive tendencies but I was always insecure with myself so I turne…
/r/seduction05/06/15 05:10 PM
1

You are not reading my replies well.
/r/seduction05/06/15 12:23 PM
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Lol. I'm not reading stories. I'm paying close attention.
/r/seduction05/06/15 12:22 PM
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It's worth a shot.
/r/seduction05/06/15 12:21 PM
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Yeah she's cool but I want sex involved. I'm not in this for having a future. Relationships are fleeting and people come and go. If I just wanted sex I'd get a hooker or something. Just because I want sex doesn't mean I can't have someone who I like too.
/r/seduction05/06/15 03:00 AM
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My values may be misplaced. I don't do it for the right or wrong. I do it because I want my life to be a story. And I want to be a playboy not a player. Break headboards; not hearts.
/r/seduction05/06/15 01:08 AM
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I'm not blaming everyone around me. I stated exactly my observations: the ones I called friends are giving me shit for literally nothing. The other day I posted a girl in her leggings on facebook with a witty status and my buddy told me he was "tired of my shit lately". There's nothing wrong with a man complimenting a woman on her leggings (which I like leggings). Hell, other sexually successful men in our friend group post far more explicit material (man pulling on his girl's hair while banging…
/r/seduction04/06/15 10:41 PM
1

It seemed sarcastic because of the (eventually begging for it). Upvote returned.
/r/seduction04/06/15 10:01 PM
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I simply wouldn't be with someone who wasn't open-minded in what I would consider a very important part of our relationships. I'm not understanding where we don't agree. It seems we agree.
/r/seduction04/06/15 10:00 PM
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I made my intentions clear. She's cool so I'll keep her around. Maybe something will bloom.
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:51 PM
2

True
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:50 PM
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Awesome. I'm glad someone had experience with this.
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:50 PM
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Begging for it? You're shallow.
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:49 PM
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I liked her. We got along and she was affectionate, but I'm sexually active.
/r/seduction04/06/15 07:49 PM
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I told her that too. She said her friends shake their head at her for being a virgin. I said her first time should be enjoyable and no pressure or she'll feel like shit and I don't want to do that to her.
/r/seduction04/06/15 02:04 PM
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Same problem here. Not really a huge problem because they're fun, but the emotional roller coaster that comes with is not commitment material.
/r/seduction03/06/15 01:29 PM
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That doesn't make a lick of sense to me!
/r/seduction31/05/15 07:58 PM
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You can't be sorry. You've done nothing wrong.
/r/seduction28/05/15 01:41 PM
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You're not sorry.
/r/seduction27/05/15 01:25 PM
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That's up to you. What are you looking for?
/r/seduction27/05/15 01:25 PM
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but it's unfortunately heavily implied from many of your sentences and it doesn't seem like you realize that. If you're looking for implications, you've dug too deep.
/r/seduction26/05/15 06:12 PM
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lol will do
/r/seduction26/05/15 04:35 PM
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However, you're quite a cunt. You see women as inferior beings. I never said they were inferior. I only stated and over simplified how they operate. If the only way to do that is becoming like you though, I'm just content in staying as social awkward as possible. I am my version of what I have needed to become to succeed with women. I'm still a work in progress. You can learn from my shared experiences and find your own way that works for you.
/r/seduction26/05/15 04:33 PM
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That's perfectly fine and you have every right to have that attitude. I don't think my results at the moment are impressive considering it's taken me this long to do something about it in my life.
/r/seduction26/05/15 02:58 AM
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What kind of vibe is that?
/r/seduction26/05/15 12:11 AM
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First, at the beginning of the your post you are counting your stats: 1 arranged hook up, 1 this 1 that. I posted my honest data as a means to express that this shit works. Especially for the intellectuals and skeptics on here. What you are doing is giving the chick options. You're saying hey I know you want to do this, but we could do this instead. That's nicely put. Woman have to be turned on first, then they are horny. Before that point, they absoloutely do not give a fuck. Have you seen girl…
/r/seduction25/05/15 09:51 PM
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haha okay
/r/seduction25/05/15 09:34 PM
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The man I used to call my best friend has his head so far up his girlfriend's ass right now. She's slowly whipping him to the point where he thinks my life choices are becoming questionable and he doesn't hang out with me anymore. I'm guilty of this behavior too and I realize now why my past relationships went downhill. Things were perfect when I had things going my way. My gf was happiest, sex was often, no problems. As soon as I let her make more decisions for us as a couple: fights, no sex, a…
/r/seduction25/05/15 07:58 PM
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Being a dick for the sake of being a dick will get you nowhere. It's all about context.
/r/seduction25/05/15 07:43 PM
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You say that women need to work for your approval, but your post says that you put in tons of thought, hours of learning strategies, and attention to detail. I put in work for myself. Women have to work to make me give them my time, compliments, romantic gestures, and all the good stuff. Do yourself a favor and just go have normal human relationships instead of weird, over-thought dramas. I'm not thinking anything more than what's the truth. If you keep playing games like this, you'll only end u…
/r/seduction25/05/15 07:42 PM
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Nothing I say will convince you of my efforts. I'm on Tinder, OkCupid, Facebook, I make an effort to socialize and meet women, and if I like one I try to get her number.
/r/seduction25/05/15 07:40 PM
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1 hook up a week is in the realm of incredible. Especially if you're starting from scratch. (All new hook ups.) I'm really new to this. I imagined this wasn't impressive. I guess I should pull back a little and take my time. It'll start to feel more and more true, but what's really happening is you're working within a small scope. I'll keep this in mind I appreciate this advice, "A legitimate and responsible excuse." Give people a clear indication as to why you do what you do. In a relationship …
/r/seduction25/05/15 07:36 PM
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agree with your comment, except for the "be yourself" part, and here's why. This phrase inherently implies that you don't have to change or improve yourself at all This a million times
/r/seduction19/05/15 01:39 AM
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I'm in a similar boat with you. I had two 1.5~ year relationships back to back. Now that I'm 22 and about done with college, everyone I know is done with their wild sex years and are actually looking to settle down. Your relationship was not a waste of time. There was meaning and personal growth in them. That chapter has closed. Think of the negatives to get you on your feet and then think of the positives when you're on your feet so that you don't dwell. If you're like me, you aren't excited by…
/r/seduction17/05/15 12:43 PM
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I'm working on me so that I can find what makes me excited again.
/r/seduction17/05/15 12:14 PM
1

You may wish to look up a list of ED causes. I've actually encountered problems myself with too drunk or dehydrated. I'm a part of /r/NoFap. There have been changes in my behavior since I've gone for a while. Drinking is just something I don't do as much anymore. It's not my scene like it used to be. Are you actually turned on, but then your equipment isn't cooperating? Or are you not even turned on, really? I'm numb. Like I'm in a dream and I'm doing all the motions to get what I want and I get…
/r/seduction16/05/15 04:09 PM
1

If you wouldn't answer, "Fuck yes," to the question, "Do you want to hang with her/have sex with her/whatever?" Then you shouldn't be around her. I do want to fuck. I get horny by myself but when it comes down to my dick it's like I'm out dude you're on your own. Either way, you'll want a connection True
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:20 AM
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Same.
/r/seduction14/05/15 03:35 PM
1

What is your diet? I understand diet varies from person to person. Would a physical help me understand what I need to intake?
/r/seduction14/05/15 03:35 PM
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I wouldn't mind dating/fucking one. I would never marry or stay in a long term relationship. Their lifestyle is about having sex-positive fun. If that's does not fit in with your moral fiber, don't be serious about any flings you have with them.
/r/seduction14/05/15 03:33 PM
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I cuddle with girls I date sometimes. Post sex. Yeah that's fine with me. I'm struggling to figure out what turns me on. I can make girls wet just fine and they get rowdy and in the mood, but I'm not feeling anything and not getting aroused like it's just something to do But do you want something serious or something casual? Casual for now. I just got out of another long term relationship. I don't want to invest myself emotionally. I just want to mess around with a chick, fuck, and chill like no…
/r/seduction14/05/15 02:57 PM
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It's not hot or arousing for women. They cuddle and shit with their friends as it is.
/r/seduction13/05/15 11:36 PM
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Why am I too soft? Cuddling and all that sappy shit with a chick while groping them turns me on, but that's bf material.
/r/seduction13/05/15 01:26 PM
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I truly do not know what is best for my emotional well being. I honestly think I'm too soft/beta and need this lifestyle to become more of a man.
/r/seduction13/05/15 06:39 AM
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There are other ways that involve a little more challenge but are more sustainable. Why would I want sustainable?
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:17 PM
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Every month, there is usually at least one post on Seddit about some guy who has given up on the idea that there is love in the world or good people I like to think I'll find someone to be committed to one day. I'm in my early twenties and I'm around self-indulgent behavior. I might as well enjoy it myself a little.
/r/seduction12/05/15 03:05 PM
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Casual is what I'm interested in.
/r/seduction12/05/15 10:13 AM
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You have to be compatible with them at some level first.
/r/seduction12/05/15 08:36 AM
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Attraction cannot be artificial. Attraction is attraction. It's what draws you to something.
/r/seduction12/05/15 08:03 AM
1

Alright so basically the same shit I'd do with any chick, just she may be hesitant and that's not my problem.
/r/seduction12/05/15 04:01 AM
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lol I like your mindset. How do you suggest I make her give me a blowjob?
/r/seduction12/05/15 01:31 AM
2

You're right. I've switched gears and have been more forward in my texting. I also set up a date. She's said twice she's "particular" about sex but hasn't upright told me it's going to happen or not. Worst thing I can do is not try.
/r/seduction11/05/15 01:47 PM
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I don't want to go for "player" more so "playboy".
/r/seduction10/05/15 10:51 PM
1

I already set up a date with her at my place this week. I'll def make her feel comfortable.
/r/seduction10/05/15 09:25 PM
1

I reflected on the slow movement as possibly being looked at as bf material too, but that could also be me projecting insecurely.
/r/seduction10/05/15 06:11 PM
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Short story: I thought it might happen. I had an excuse ready. This girl won't be my last. Brush it off. Long story: I haven't been visually aroused by a woman's body since my ex. I saw her a week or so ago, bra-less in a tank top, and popped a boner immediately. Both times I have hooked up with women in the last few weeks drinking was involved and these women drink more than I have in the year. I used to go hard in the paint sophomore-junior year of college. I think alcohol and psychological gr…
/r/seduction10/05/15 02:46 PM
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you should probably focus female-friend-network energy on women you'd like being friends with True words right here
/r/seduction10/05/15 02:35 PM
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Normal mode it is
/r/seduction09/05/15 08:43 PM
1

This includes not looking at nudes online too? If so, I have some subs to unsubscribe from. And no masturbation even with imagination?
/r/seduction09/05/15 08:01 PM
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Hell, if you're right. I'll personally send you funds for a beer.
/r/seduction09/05/15 06:39 PM
1

I see
/r/seduction09/05/15 06:39 PM
1

I dig that
/r/seduction09/05/15 06:38 PM
1

It's a level of not giving a shit haha. I've been naked in front of other people (that I knew). It's as big of a deal as you make it.
/r/seduction09/05/15 02:18 PM
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Thanks. I could see maintaining connections as beneficial. Every non-hot chick has their hot-friend opposite so connections through them might work out. If no one here has insight, I'll toy with both methods and blog about the results.
/r/seduction09/05/15 02:16 PM
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It's the terminology used on this sub
/r/seduction09/05/15 02:15 PM
1

I read that line in one of the reading materials posted in here. What would you recommend?
/r/seduction09/05/15 01:32 PM
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Nonononono I never felt attractive. I still have some flab I'm trying to tone around my waist. My girlfriends have always been like "you can get any girl you want" and I never understood how the hell that was possible. If so, why aren't girls flocking to me like they seem to other dudes? I thought people were lying to me or trying to be nice. It wasn't until my last gf who was super fucking hot helped me realize some things about myself. She was the blunt and honest kind. She spoke her mind. I c…
/r/seduction09/05/15 01:29 PM
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Haha I like that perspective. I'm concerned that if I don't use it, I'll lose it.
/r/seduction09/05/15 01:12 PM
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Seriously. A part of me wanting to do this is how easily my ex could move on after a year and a half relationship. It used to take me a long time to find a new girl. Granted all women have to do is spread their legs and lay there and they can get any man, I was still aware my ex was going to guys that were all notorious for the same thing: they knew how to get women's interest and fuck them in a matter of a few weeks. What was that underlining behavior that governs the masses attitude where you …
/r/seduction09/05/15 01:06 PM
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I don't get it
/r/seduction09/05/15 12:58 PM
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I'll give it a shot. Thanks
/r/seduction09/05/15 05:09 AM
2

It's worth a shot. Now I'm wishing I had never watched porn.
/r/seduction09/05/15 05:07 AM
1

That's a very good point. Where do you find older women? I'm a senior in college right now so I'm around people my age or younger.
/r/seduction09/05/15 04:25 AM
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lol
/r/seduction09/05/15 04:25 AM
4

I've been real skeptical about /r/NoFap. I read online it is healthy to masturbate. In the past 3 days I only popped boners in the morning. I started getting concerned by libido wouldn't come back since my ex. How long did it take for you to get back into the natural swing?
/r/seduction09/05/15 04:24 AM
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Thanks. As much as I'd like to hold onto this victory I know this is just a small step.
/r/seduction09/05/15 04:23 AM
1

Haha thanks
/r/seduction09/05/15 03:25 AM
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Informative reply. Do you find older women attractive? I hardly often do.
/r/seduction09/05/15 12:45 AM
4

As someone who has a habit of smiling and getting into a cheerful tone when someone smiles at me, it's not positive for me. I wasn't feeling happy. I was emulating happy. I cannot put myself in a position where I have to think where to go next; I over think enough as it is. I have to look inside and determine "am I really happy?" or "what is it that I'm feeling about this situation?" and let that resonate into my behavior and actions.
/r/seduction08/05/15 11:14 PM
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Thank you! I'm applying myself more at this than I am anything else in my life atm so I need to blog about this somewhere.
/r/seduction08/05/15 11:06 PM
1

This comment rings true. Especially with younger women.
/r/seduction08/05/15 06:59 PM
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That comfort hurdle is the difficult part with women and that's the part the author seems to glide over.
/r/seduction08/05/15 06:58 PM
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How do older girls behave in your experience? Younger girls, for me, are quick to talk about themselves and so it's easier to progress with what they share with me. Girls my age seem "bored" with a lot. Older women, I simply cannot connect with. Like, I see them as a "mom" and that drives me away.
/r/seduction08/05/15 06:49 PM
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Great attitude tho
/r/seduction08/05/15 06:46 PM
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I've heard that before. It's too true.
/r/seduction07/05/15 10:08 PM
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I kid you not I just went to the bank and there was a cute teller there. I mentally thought about fucking her while I was completing my transaction. In doing so, I noticed I locked eyes with her more often than I normally would on a regular basis. And then I leaned in at the counter. I didn't think about it. It just felt like the natural next step was to lean in. I felt great afterwards. You're a god-send. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction07/05/15 10:07 PM
1

Rules in the seddit sidebar?
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:36 PM
9

As someone with no experience in finding the line between cad and creeper, could you lay down the guidelines?
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:28 PM
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What's the difference in your personal interaction with women after using this strategy? This sounds brilliant and I will definitely try it. Does it work via text or online too?
/r/seduction07/05/15 08:11 PM
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Congrats, you wasted your time replying.
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:21 PM
1

Do you have any insight as to why this happens?
/r/seduction07/05/15 06:41 PM
1

Enlighten me
/r/seduction07/05/15 06:40 PM
1

This was very insightful. Thanks.
/r/seduction07/05/15 06:38 PM
1

I've dated girls my age but they're too high strung?
/r/seduction07/05/15 06:37 PM
2

This suggests that there is a tier of older men always pursuing younger women? e.g. 21-22 females will be pursued by 23-26 men?
/r/seduction07/05/15 03:16 PM
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I'm not assuming. It's an observation and that's why I came here with questions looking for realistic answers.
/r/seduction07/05/15 03:15 PM
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this is smooth advice upvotes
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:46 PM
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OP pushed and then pulled at the same time when he should have just pushed, let the girl take the bait, and then when she possibly attempted to mend the situation, OP could have pulled her back in. But it is also very well that she didn't have intentions of this going anywhere to begin with. What is done is done. OP made the good decision at the end by deleting her number.
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:43 PM
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I'd be tactful about it definitely. I wouldn't go in and try to get them as drunk as possible, that's creepy as fuck. I would encourage the party energy for both of us.
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:38 PM
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acknowledge how silly that was Didn't even cross my mind to think about it that way. You're right.
/r/seduction07/05/15 12:58 PM
1

I think you're right. He's lost my buddy status. He is now "cock blocker".
/r/seduction07/05/15 04:16 AM
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Fucking right?
/r/seduction07/05/15 04:15 AM
1

It's also a stereotype. You've matched what people expect when they see power.
/r/seduction07/05/15 04:15 AM
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My guess is that you look powerful
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:54 AM
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True. Thanks.
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:35 AM
1

You'd want to use protection
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:34 AM
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I don't understand what you mean by rabbit hole
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:55 PM
1

I stated that they WANT sex but that alcohol lowers their inhibitions to act on it. Read the post carefully.
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:54 PM
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I'm beginning to feel that this is too true
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:37 PM
2

A warm place can exist in moderation.
/r/seduction06/05/15 10:36 PM
2

Mad props. Having a woman come out of an emotional roller coaster def helps your case.
/r/seduction06/05/15 02:47 AM
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That's our dog!
/r/seduction06/05/15 02:45 AM
1

There's not an algorithm, but there is a mindset and behaviorisms for this lifestyle and picking up these women. I can see the difference, but haven't put the words to them or understood the big picture of what those differences are. I'll try out discrete bedroom bragging
/r/seduction05/05/15 07:49 PM
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This should be higher
/r/seduction29/04/15 09:37 PM
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Haha I got too eager
/r/seduction27/04/15 06:00 PM
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I told her right away I thought she was attractive and that my dick was just being a pussy right now. I'm honestly thinking it was the foreplay. I figured out quickly what things turned her on but she hadn't had time to figure me out.
/r/seduction26/04/15 01:42 PM
1

Thanks for the tips dude
/r/seduction24/04/15 06:06 PM
1

That's very sound advice.
/r/seduction24/04/15 03:09 AM
1

I'm not about that slow music. Maybe food was a bad idea, but my previous partners always complained about being hungry before sex. After I fed them, I got some action. Perhaps it's a biased demographic I've gotten involved in. shrugs I'm not going to over-care. I'm just going to be me. I won't go overboard for her, but she is a person.
/r/seduction24/04/15 03:09 AM
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Educational response, I appreciate that! I edited the post for you. All of my girlfriends I just meet in public where I go to frequently. So each time I'm in a familiar place that definitely helps with being comfortable. The girls I've slept with eventually became long-term gfs because I do genuinely care about women I don't want to hurt them so you're right passing pussy to avoid a relationship is something I need to be conscious about. I want to be on mutual terms with them or at least imply t…
/r/seduction23/04/15 07:39 PM
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